A cat might be really good for your mental health. I feel like my cats give me a purpose and even if i cant take care of myself ill always take care of them
As someone who hasn't felt okay for a number of years... Seeing you have good days, lighthearted moments, go to work, make dinner and all the little and big things despite the fact that you are going through difficult situation; it's a great motivation to not give up. There's more to life than whatever bad situation we may be in.❤❤❤❤
I am generally a silent viewer but I honestly have to say that your resilience and perseverance despite whatever is impacting your mental health is truly admirable. I know it may not feel like it to you but you are still able to get up each day and push through to better yourself. It is understandably disheartening to have hope that things will get better and then they don’t. Despite that though you are still doing everything you need to do to take care of whatever needs to be done. I hope that your situation improves soon but I also hope that once it’s all said and done you can look back on this moment and still feel proud of how you’ve persevered!! you truly can do really hard things!! 🫶🏽
Maybe you should go over and hang out with your friends cats to see if it badly triggers your allergies before you commit to either adopting that cat or a new one? If you don’t have a bad reaction, I definitely think a pet would be amazing for you. I pretty impulsively adopted my dog when I was around 23 and I’m 31 now - definitely one of my best life decisions, he’s my best friend in the world
As a proud cat lady (my husband and I have 4), As long as you’re financially able, it is never a bad idea to have a furry companion around! PLUS cats are far more convenient and easy to care for than dogs, bunnies, etc. ALSSOOO I’ve been with my company for 4 years now and have never had to leave my home for them 😅😂
For the 4 cats we spend $200 a quarter on litter (we have a pretty litter subscription) and around $30-50 a month on food. Since we have indoor cats we got their shots and all that when we first got them and when we moved, but that was it so a one time charge for each of a hundred. Toys/scratchers are maybe $100 a year?? All in all it is a decent amount to get started, as with any pet, but once you are settled in together it’s inexpensive in my opinion and experience
I'm very much a dog person, but I have a cat and I'd definitely recommend getting a rescue cat like that! Having a dog is a much bigger commitment, you can buy things like a automatic feeder, automatic cleaning litter tray, and a cat water fountain that means if you need to, you can leave your cat alone for 24 hours (or more, but not too long as they'll get lonely) no problem, but you couldn't do the same for a dog. Instead you'd have to put them in doggy day care, etc. And, it turns out cats do like snuggles too, so while im still very much a dog person, I can now see why some people are cat people
LITERALLY nothing makes me more annoyed then someone making a negative comment about me going outside with wet hair...like okay Janice you spent your entire weekend binge drinking, please stop pretending to care about health and wellness. leave me and my wet hair alone. lmao
@@CourtneyMiller the only reason I always get insecure is when it’s half wet and the ends start to dry and I’m paranoid people will think my hair is hella oily when really it’s just freshly washed and wet hahah
I'm so sorry you are still going through a hard time, Keegan. If you are able to cry, cry. It feels awful at the time, but you will feel better afterwards. I am hoping things are better for you now, and that you will be out of the situation that is causing you hurt. Take good care and be kind to yourself. Find joy and happiness where you can. You are a good person with a kind heart, and better days will come your way soon.
Keegan!!! Pls get a Toyota lol. My bf has a 2012 hybrid Camry and it’s going strong, I have a ‘21 hybrid rav4 that I own. We’re 25 so we will not have to get another vehicle for at least a decade and since mine is a SUV we have the space/ability to go anywhere we need/will fit future kids. I am so passionate about Toyotas my whole family always goes back to them! So so reliable
This! I got a ‘23 RAV 4 and am obsessed! My mom has a 2016 Highlander and it’s only needed a new water pump and has had 0 issues besides regular maintenance.
The amount of thought you're putting into even the idea of adopting a pet just shows that you'd be an amazing pet owner! Two of my cats were strays that just showed up at our houses (one literally just let herself in when we had the door open to get groceries in lol) and they were the sweetest things ever! It'll probably be easier because you don't have any pets already, just give them time and space and listen to their body language. Cats especially will tell you exactly how they're feeling 😂
I LOVE LOVE LOVE my cats and I swear the positive impact they’ve made on my mental health cannot be emphasized enough. Sending you so much love and I hope everything turns out ok or that if it doesn’t or can’t, I hope that you can heal from it in time. ❤
Usually a silent viewer but just wanted to say your mental health struggles and recent happenings remind me so much of my last job before I got laid off in April (and thank god I did). I developed insomnia, had to go back on anxiety meds (which is fine, but I was in crisis mode), lost so much weight, and was having a menty b like every other day. I worked weekends and holidays (including Christmas Day) just to keep up or because I had to. I hope you either have been feeling better about your job or are finding one that works better for you ❤ thank you for always being honest with us!
Hey Keegan, I loved the vlog this week! 🥰 Regarding the stray cat that you may potentially get- I got a cat from a shelter about 1 year ago and it was the BEST decision I have ever made! My cat has a similar backstory, was domesticated and then unfortunately became a stray. If you decide to get the stray cat, I would definitely buy these things: enrichment toys, automatic feeder, stainless steel litter box, and a cat water fountain! Luckily, cats are very self-sufficient (as long as there is food on a schedule and fresh water) so you would be able to leave them alone while you are at work! When I got my cat, I worked all 5 days in office and I was just worried about bonding with her but that was not a problem! Using enrichment toys for playtime with you is a great way to bond with the cat and make sure they trust you. My vote is YES for a cat!
Keegan an animal would be so good for your anxiety. I’ve had cats and dogs as a young professional/ anxious girly and the impact it has on your mental health is insane. Obviously it’s a lot of responsibility but I think a cat would be perfect for your phase of life! Hope things get better for you soon ❤
Toyota is the best! My husband is a mechanic and he always says the simpler the better...less fancy features because newer cars have a lot of features that you either don't use OR break easily and cost you extra money. I have a Toyota Camry from 2012 and I keep up on basic maintenance and it runs perfectly.
My household is allergic to cats. A stray kitten kept coming into our yard. We fell in love with it. Unfortunately, winter was around the corner, and we were stressing about it being in the elements. I did research and began feeding it Purina Pro Plan Allergen Reducing, Indoor Cat Food, LIVECLEAR for kittens (they have it for adult cats too) and using Burt's Bees Naturally Derived Dander Reducing Wipes for his fur. I purchased both on Amazon. He is now 2 years old. No allergy issues at all.
If you get a cat make sure to feed it wet food and have water at all times to help prevent utis and urinary blockages which are more common in male cats than females but it’s a real thing and by making sure they are hydrated you can prevent them from having to go through surgery or death early in life
Get the cat!!! Best decision I’ve ever made! They make me so happy and keep me company and are SO good for my mental health. They are also so easy to care for!
I'm much older than you, and luckily I've never suffered with anxiety or mental health problems. Having said that, I really wish I could hug you and tell you it will be okay. I find it heartbreaking to see you like this when you should be happy and full of life. I'd hate my own daughters to go through something similar. Definitely not braindumping on us, talk away any time you need to. Fingers crossed you'll get relief soon. As for finances, I think you do well. You're in your mid twenties and a homeowner. We all overspend, just as we all need the occasional treat. Hope you have a great trip. xxx
Okay… so, nurse here.. go be around the cat.. get the vibe and see how you do with his/her dander. Then you will know how your body reacts to the cat. I would hate for good intentions to turn bad if you end up with that fur baby & then for health reasons, just can’t do it! I love animals (more dog than cat person here), but love them all, however when I go to my Mom’s house and get around her cats (who I love), when I leave.. I feel rough… just a thought! ❤
Tbh kinda odd your work trip was on a weekend, even when i saw the story i was SO confused. Most of them happen during the weekdays and i know that SO many people would not be ok with them giving up their weekend for work stuff, especially when they already work 5 days a week Hope either you got paid OT for it or you got 2 days of extra PTO for working on the weekend.
I got Monday off which was nice!! technically worked 6 days that week on a 5 day salary lol. I was surprised the conference was over the weekend too. I didn't know if that was common or not
@@KeeganActon Unfortunately it's fairly common. A lot of conferences start on Sundays meaning travel on Saturday. Thankfully when I've done it we did get to flex to get those days back later.
This is my first video of yours! I’m always a silent viewer but really resonate with how you’re feeling. I 100% recommend getting a cat as a companion. I was in a similar situation, feeling very lonely, sad, living alone and I got an adult (5 y/o) lap cat who is the best decision I’ve ever made. Having someone to come home to, excited to see you, urging you to get out of bed is SO helpful. As someone who was also concerned about finances I was worried about a cat but they are relatively inexpensive animals - obviously you should be prepared for a vet bill at any point for emergencies but their monthly cost is not a lot at all- maybe $20-50 a month. Food lasts a while, litter is always on sale, toys are so cheap. Please consider it! There are so many hypo allergenic options too!
Hi beautiful Keegan ! As a cat owner myself I was allergic before and with time my allergies completely went away and I am fine now ! This cat is so gorgeous and I am sure you would provide it a lovely stable home ! Cats are great companions especially when you love by yourself I couldn’t imagine my life without my little kitty baby 🩷😻😍
Intentional is a great word for this last quarter of the year. I also need to be more intentional with my spending as well because when I see something I like I usually just buy it then but I shouldn't be like that lol. And like you said, with all the holidays right around the corner it sucks that's always huge expenses and just in October I have 6 birthdays I have to buy something for so yeah that's gonna be expensive too so it's all quite stressful.
My cat gave me purpose, when I don’t want to take care of myself I know she needs me to take care of her. I budget about $100 a month for her litter and food. Her pet insurance (highly recommended when they’re young before they develop anything- insurance doesn’t cover preexisting conditions) is about $200 annually. I got lucky and got such a cuddle bug. She loves to snuggle on the couch❤ You can train them not to scratch up items or get on the counter, etc. And they don’t chew like a puppy! She’s ok being left home alone for a whole workday (or more) and they make autofeeders (even for wet food!!) so that if you have a looong day of commitments they don’t have to miss a meal/have a late meal
@@KeeganActon it was only for a little bit! I got my cat at 6 months old and was VERY needy!! He cried all the time when I was sleeping (I locked him out lol) but then I figured out I could just let him sleep next to me instead. 🥰 Honestly, having him was the best thing ever. Times were very stressful (many times I cried into his fur haha) and he was also such a great distraction as I always knew I had to take care of him and he loved me unconditionally. So I’m all about getting a pet if you financially can handle it!! They do wonders for mental health 🥹🤍
to prevent smudged nail polish, i’m always trying to apply a few thin layers and then let them dry each time before adding the next one!! it does take longer than applying one thick layer but its soo worth the wait 🫶
@@KeeganActon i usually apply the first coat and wait 2-3 Minutes and then apply the second coat and wait 5-10 minutes before switching hands😙 i’m literally so clumsy and this is the only way it doesn’t smudge !! i also prefer painting my nails in the evening just cause i know that i wont have use my hands as much, before then letting it dry even more overnight!!
I got a cat when I was 22, we have been together for 7 years. Yes its a responsibility but as long as you put in the time and money you can totally handle it! If you want a cat and you are prepared for food buying, litterbox cleaning, vet visits, making arrangements when you have/want to leave town and lots of love and playing. If the answer is yes, get a cat! Even if this one doesn't work out, they bring so much joy to not go for a different cat.
Apparently, if you have a breakout and cover it with concealer, you should also cover it with setting powder. I’m not speaking from experience, only from what I hear from a professional make up guru. What do you think your estimated car payment and estimated car insurance will be ….start setting aside that money now …….so you’re a little ahead of the game . Sally Hanson, hard as nails topcoat in quick dry. That is what I use if I do not do my nails in gel. Be sure you are waiting an hour in between each coat of nail polish.
Dear Keegan , thank you so much for creating these entertaining videos for us, you don't know how much I love watching ur videos and how much of an inspiration you are to me
Sooooo I was a self proclaimed dog person until I adopted two cats! They are SO loving, cuddly, attached to me… etc. 😅 I believed the stereotypes that they are independent and fiesty, but with mine they are even more attached to me than my dogs were growing up. I know not every cat is that way, but they truly are so amazing and can be very much like dogs in a lot of ways. I feed them three times a day, treats… they get annoyed if we don’t hang. 😂 But I wouldn’t have it any other way. Sadly, there are a lot of bad stereotypes about cats! I think a lot of it is how they are raised.
As someone who was fostering triplet kittens and ended up adopting them because I couldn't bear separating them, I got Litter Robots for them since I'm also never home with work and school. Unscented litter because apparently the chamomile calming litter I thought I was treating them to they actually despise. Also, initial vet bills are pricey but then taper off to yearly checkups so manageable.
I love cats they are easy to care for Thank you for sharing your state. I feel that I am not the only one suffering. In the end, everything will be resolved, I pray for you.❤
Keegan I have an indoor cat and I am severely allergic to pet dander. I take Claritin in the mornings and singulair at night. I also regularly bathe the cat and run the roomba every day at least. I also brush him to remove excess fur. I’ve never had a bad reaction to him/his dander, and he is a very big long haired cat. I am just very diligent about washing my hands after I have directly petted him before touching my face. You can definitely make it work!
Girlll you are definitely overthinking the cat. I’m not an impulsive person most of the time and the one big time I acted on impulse was when I decided I wanted to get my first pet (non family pet). 5 years ago I moved into my first apartment was a little lonely without my family cat and dog around and a few weeks later said to myself just start looking for cats. Within a week of looking I found, visited and brought home my little fur bby. Went to see her, she was so small (think she was the runt of her litter) and brought her home the same day. It was the best impulsive decision I’ve made so far. She’s literally my best friend and the greatest joy of my life. I love her and I can’t believe she’s already 5 years old. I’ve been wanting to get her a sister as well but it’s not the right time, so I totally get where you are coming from as well.
Ahh can’t edit but I forgot to add if you are financial and emotionally ready then really nothing is stopping you even if this Kitty isn’t the one. There are many other rescues that need a loving forever home.
As someone who’s had a shit ton of animals and experience with them I don’t think that you wanting to adopt the cat is irresponsible but as a fellow pisces & over thinker, I understand the conflict in your head. I think a cat would be really nice company for you and them. cats are also pretty self sufficient and enjoy alone time and sleep a lotttt, so I don’t think that you at work would be too much of a problem. As long as there’s a balance and you incorporate decent play time while your home and some enrichment toys for when you’re out. Even if things don’t work out with getting this cat I think you should still look at adopting one!
I’m a dog person but hope this cat finds it’s forever home. I do have allergies in general but they have been manageable with over the counter medication(usually a generic brand compare to Zyrtec or when it gets really bad I will take a generic brand compare to Benadryl before bed). September was a highly emotional month for me. Got laid off from a position I had only been at 6 months. Even though the position was so/so I was intending to stay because it was remote, 8am to 5pm, full time with a great benefits package (pto, sick days, retirement match, medical, dental, vision, and more) Glad that your job at least gave you 1 day off in trade for working all weekend. Hopefully they also gave you a little extra pay or at least paid for the flights, hotel, etc
I have two dogs (a corgi and cockapoo!) and yes, they’re a LOT of responsibility…. But they are the best companions ever 😭 they’re my babies haha and they make living alone so much easier. I’m 25 and really struggle with loneliness sometimes but they help me soooooo much. So I’m a huge proponent of getting a pet, lol.
I’m allergic to cats as well, but I always wanted one, and in 2020 I got a kitten. I decided I needed to try, and it has been amazing. I hear a lot of people say that they grow immune to their own cat, because the body gets used to the specific allergens. Not sure how this works scientifically, but it has been true for me. I can still feel it on certain days, and a few times a year when my cat is changing to/from her winter fur. Not sure how good it would be for a rehomed cat to come in to a new home and then having to change homes again after if it turns out you are unable to keep it in your home, though 🤷🏻♀️
I can say I have grown immune to my cats. Me and my husband went away on week long vacation when we came back and picked up our cats. My eyes started watering and my throat started to hurt 😳 after 2 days it went away.
hope your work trip went well. I suggest Seche Vite top coat, it dries fast and is forgiving if you smudge your nails before you top coat it. Whatever is triggering your breakdowns, I hope you get past it soon. I do love how you say you want to spill the tea. Girl, I hope someday you get to that point. Until then, I'll light a mexican candle for you. It's what we do in my culture for people when we put them in our prayers.
Also a cat is great for mental health, just the fact you have a little being needing your attention depending on you will take your thoughts away from all this negative stuff.
As a veterinary technician I love my cats more than anything I also am allergic to cats but I do spend lots of money to make sure they have the best one is on meds daily and I do semi annual bloodwork and they are all on different prescription foods etc. definitely make sure your friend gets the cat vaxed tested and dewormed before any introductions to the home also cats typically not ideal to rush the introductions as cats get very protective of their homes I had my kitten in the bathroom for 2 months before they met my other cats and slowly introduced each others scents
I really wish I could reach through the screen & just give you a good long hug ❤ you’ll get through this rough patch, & you’re handling it really well!
Hi Keegan!! I am really late to this video I knowww! But my dad has always taken in stray cats and it’s been great for us! We love all of our cats we had growing up! I want a kitty next too hah! But a cat will be good for you they are soo loving 💗
Sushi is my favorite. I ate Sushi the other day. I would be broke if I ate Sushi every week. I was told by a chef that if you're paying more for like a Rainbow Roll and it cost more than another restaurant you're paying for the quality of the fish and how fresh it is. This is true to a point.
Keegan, you look as beautiful without make up as you do with it. breaks my heart when you say that you need to hide the fact you r not wearing make up.
In my opinion you’ll never feel fully ready for a pet!! I was soooo nervous to get a cat but my fiance really wanted one so we ended up adopting a 2 month old kitten and she’s the absolute best!!! I’ve also heard that it can help allergies to keep everything really clean with a cat! So cleaning the litter box super often and vacuuming a lot!! (But neither of us are allergic so I’m only going off of what people I know that are allergic have said haha!!)
As a proud cat mom, if you end up adopting that stray, you can DM me for all the questions you might have - what to buy, how to care for them and all that jazz! Jon (my amazing cat that even watches you with me when I'm home from college!) was adopted by after he was found on the street and I always say that I didn't just rescued him, he rescued me as well! Also most people I know who are allergic to cats said that getting a cat helped them getting over said allergy (don't know the full veracity of that statment, but that's what they said!). Hugs and hope you feel better
Harumi Sushi in downtown Phoenix ??? They used to be a small little sushi place that was SO GOOD ! Ever since they moved to that fancy hotel they changed the quality of their foods and increased the prices. Used to be my ALL TIME favorite sushi place but ever since they moved they made so many changes. I’ve gone 4 times to their new location and got food poisoning each time….
I think the best thing you can do if you are REALLY wanting a cat is to foster first. If everything works out with this cat to stay with your friend, there are still SO many cats in shelters looking for forever homes. Fostering would give you the chance to bring a cat in for a few weeks and see if it is a good fit (for both you and the cat - every cat has such a different personality) without making the full commitment right off the bat. It is a huge responsibility to take in a cat, and important to consider the cost of vet bills, emergency vet bills, pet sitters, food, litter etc before making that commitment. But I can also say being able to have a cat after not being able to for years has severely improved my mental health. Even when you feel alone, you're not alone. I know we'll never know what's going on that has been having such a negative impact on you and causing you to cry everyday, but if you think you can handle the responsibility I think having the cat would do wonders for you at this stage of life. But you *have* to go into it with the mindset that this cat could potentially be around for the next 10-20 yrs, depending on its age when you adopt it. Meet your husband, your kids, future dogs, etc. If you're not willing to make that serious of a commitment, it's not fair to the pet. also, I really miss the reset videos. Every time a new month rolls around I hope that I'll see one pop up and it is definitely sad when it doesn't haha. If I can make a suggestion, you should check out Grace Nevitt's channel. She's currently doing a no-buy year and her channel is mainly focused on intentional living and tips for not feeling like you need to buy something all the time. Her current system might be a bit extreme for the habits you're looking to change, but I think you might be able to get something out of some of her videos and adapt it to fit your own life :) She's really been helping me rewire my brain so I don't shop as much lol
I cannot thank you ENOUGH!! everything you said was extremely helpful. I am going to look into everything you said. also it makes me so happy that you like the reset videos!! maybe ill do one for next month :) I kinda miss them too
As someone who grew up a dog person... I have officially become a crazy cat lady. Cats are just cool little sarcastic, cuddly, asshole companions you never knew you needed. They are so much easier than dogs. I struggle with anxiety and depression and when I have a bad day mine stick to me like glue. I read something once that it is scientifically proven that a cats purr can heal people. It reduces stress and lowers your blood pressure. When I go somewhere... I am the weirdo that can't wait to go home because I miss my cats. A pet can change your life... BUT it is a major commitment. There are definitely workarounds for allergies and a lot of more hypoallergenic breeds. But I agree with the person who said to spend some time with the cat first to see how you react to their dander. If it's mild a daily allergy pill might help.
Essie has a good selection of colours but they take FOREVER to dry (my experience) I think you need one of those special dryers for them, I’m notorious for smudging/ruining my nails lol I look for fast dry!
I love your vlogs!!! I always look forward to them. Where did the monthy resets go?? One last thing you are so beautiful. Also, would totally recommend Honda, they are reliable and long lasting
I am the same way about money 😂. I don't know why. But also then ill randomly binge on buying stuff and go insane and buy everything. It's like an eating disorder.
I just learned the other day that you can be allergic to the litter and not the cat! Some chemical used in litters! (Idk if pellet litter has the same chemical!)
Hi Keegan 🙂 You so need to become a catwoman 🐈⬛👱♀️. Cats are clean, loyal, loving and they have the softest fur. You are definitely NOT being stupid for crying. You are crying because you're hurting; all of your subscribers know that you are a good person and whoever/whatever is putting you through this pain needs to stop. You are going to have to put all the details in the book of your life which you will surely write one day. The concert looked ama-zing. Best wishes to you, Keegan 🫂.
A cat might be really good for your mental health. I feel like my cats give me a purpose and even if i cant take care of myself ill always take care of them
As someone who hasn't felt okay for a number of years... Seeing you have good days, lighthearted moments, go to work, make dinner and all the little and big things despite the fact that you are going through difficult situation; it's a great motivation to not give up. There's more to life than whatever bad situation we may be in.❤❤❤❤
thank you so much🥹 this means the world to
I am generally a silent viewer but I honestly have to say that your resilience and perseverance despite whatever is impacting your mental health is truly admirable. I know it may not feel like it to you but you are still able to get up each day and push through to better yourself. It is understandably disheartening to have hope that things will get better and then they don’t. Despite that though you are still doing everything you need to do to take care of whatever needs to be done. I hope that your situation improves soon but I also hope that once it’s all said and done you can look back on this moment and still feel proud of how you’ve persevered!! you truly can do really hard things!! 🫶🏽
Maybe you should go over and hang out with your friends cats to see if it badly triggers your allergies before you commit to either adopting that cat or a new one? If you don’t have a bad reaction, I definitely think a pet would be amazing for you. I pretty impulsively adopted my dog when I was around 23 and I’m 31 now - definitely one of my best life decisions, he’s my best friend in the world
As a proud cat lady (my husband and I have 4), As long as you’re financially able, it is never a bad idea to have a furry companion around! PLUS cats are far more convenient and easy to care for than dogs, bunnies, etc. ALSSOOO I’ve been with my company for 4 years now and have never had to leave my home for them 😅😂
what has your experience been with the financial responsibly of owning cats?
For the 4 cats we spend $200 a quarter on litter (we have a pretty litter subscription) and around $30-50 a month on food. Since we have indoor cats we got their shots and all that when we first got them and when we moved, but that was it so a one time charge for each of a hundred. Toys/scratchers are maybe $100 a year?? All in all it is a decent amount to get started, as with any pet, but once you are settled in together it’s inexpensive in my opinion and experience
I'm very much a dog person, but I have a cat and I'd definitely recommend getting a rescue cat like that!
Having a dog is a much bigger commitment, you can buy things like a automatic feeder, automatic cleaning litter tray, and a cat water fountain that means if you need to, you can leave your cat alone for 24 hours (or more, but not too long as they'll get lonely) no problem, but you couldn't do the same for a dog. Instead you'd have to put them in doggy day care, etc.
And, it turns out cats do like snuggles too, so while im still very much a dog person, I can now see why some people are cat people
if I get one id love to rescue!! I also had no idea there were so many automatic things for cats!!
LITERALLY nothing makes me more annoyed then someone making a negative comment about me going outside with wet hair...like okay Janice you spent your entire weekend binge drinking, please stop pretending to care about health and wellness. leave me and my wet hair alone. lmao
i literally spit soda all over my computer lol
@@CourtneyMiller the only reason I always get insecure is when it’s half wet and the ends start to dry and I’m paranoid people will think my hair is hella oily when really it’s just freshly washed and wet hahah
I am DYING laughing this is the funniest thing ive seen in a while lollll
this might be the funniest thing i've heard in my entire life
I'm so sorry you are still going through a hard time, Keegan. If you are able to cry, cry. It feels awful at the time, but you will feel better afterwards. I am hoping things are better for you now, and that you will be out of the situation that is causing you hurt. Take good care and be kind to yourself. Find joy and happiness where you can. You are a good person with a kind heart, and better days will come your way soon.
Getting a pet is honestly one of the best things you can do for your mental health! I have 3 and they are truly what helps me get through each day
Keegan!!! Pls get a Toyota lol. My bf has a 2012 hybrid Camry and it’s going strong, I have a ‘21 hybrid rav4 that I own. We’re 25 so we will not have to get another vehicle for at least a decade and since mine is a SUV we have the space/ability to go anywhere we need/will fit future kids. I am so passionate about Toyotas my whole family always goes back to them! So so reliable
I have a 2011 camry and totally agree!!
This! I got a ‘23 RAV 4 and am obsessed! My mom has a 2016 Highlander and it’s only needed a new water pump and has had 0 issues besides regular maintenance.
ive been looking into the Camrys!! everyone has really been hyping up Toyota and I trust you guys
I love my Corolla hybrid!
absolutely agree. Had a 2003 Toyota for 10 years, lasted very well. Now Ive had my 2020 Toyota Camry for 4 years. Zero issues!
The amount of thought you're putting into even the idea of adopting a pet just shows that you'd be an amazing pet owner! Two of my cats were strays that just showed up at our houses (one literally just let herself in when we had the door open to get groceries in lol) and they were the sweetest things ever! It'll probably be easier because you don't have any pets already, just give them time and space and listen to their body language. Cats especially will tell you exactly how they're feeling 😂
this is so sweet of you!!! and hahahah the story of your cat just walking in is so sweet. thats good to know about the body language!!
I LOVE LOVE LOVE my cats and I swear the positive impact they’ve made on my mental health cannot be emphasized enough. Sending you so much love and I hope everything turns out ok or that if it doesn’t or can’t, I hope that you can heal from it in time. ❤
I love monthly resets but it could be fun to see them more vlog style like updating trackers, errands, cleaning, etc.
Usually a silent viewer but just wanted to say your mental health struggles and recent happenings remind me so much of my last job before I got laid off in April (and thank god I did). I developed insomnia, had to go back on anxiety meds (which is fine, but I was in crisis mode), lost so much weight, and was having a menty b like every other day. I worked weekends and holidays (including Christmas Day) just to keep up or because I had to. I hope you either have been feeling better about your job or are finding one that works better for you ❤ thank you for always being honest with us!
Hey Keegan, I loved the vlog this week! 🥰 Regarding the stray cat that you may potentially get- I got a cat from a shelter about 1 year ago and it was the BEST decision I have ever made! My cat has a similar backstory, was domesticated and then unfortunately became a stray. If you decide to get the stray cat, I would definitely buy these things: enrichment toys, automatic feeder, stainless steel litter box, and a cat water fountain! Luckily, cats are very self-sufficient (as long as there is food on a schedule and fresh water) so you would be able to leave them alone while you are at work! When I got my cat, I worked all 5 days in office and I was just worried about bonding with her but that was not a problem! Using enrichment toys for playtime with you is a great way to bond with the cat and make sure they trust you. My vote is YES for a cat!
thank you!!!! im writing all of this down this is extremely helpful thank you a million
Keegan, you truly give us something to look forward to every Monday. THANK YOU!!!
this really means so much to me!!!
We love you Keegan! For your nails, I recommend running them under cold water almost as soon as they dry. It works every time for me!
Keegan an animal would be so good for your anxiety. I’ve had cats and dogs as a young professional/
anxious girly and the impact it has on your mental health is insane. Obviously it’s a lot of responsibility but I think a cat would be perfect for your phase of life! Hope things get better for you soon ❤
Sending you hugs😊 we all go through rough times! Hang in there❤
Toyota is the best! My husband is a mechanic and he always says the simpler the better...less fancy features because newer cars have a lot of features that you either don't use OR break easily and cost you extra money. I have a Toyota Camry from 2012 and I keep up on basic maintenance and it runs perfectly.
My household is allergic to cats. A stray kitten kept coming into our yard. We fell in love with it. Unfortunately, winter was around the corner, and we were stressing about it being in the elements. I did research and began feeding it Purina Pro Plan Allergen Reducing, Indoor Cat Food, LIVECLEAR for kittens (they have it for adult cats too) and using Burt's Bees Naturally Derived Dander Reducing Wipes for his fur. I purchased both on Amazon. He is now 2 years old. No allergy issues at all.
adding these to my notes!! thank you so much!!!
If you get a cat make sure to feed it wet food and have water at all times to help prevent utis and urinary blockages which are more common in male cats than females but it’s a real thing and by making sure they are hydrated you can prevent them from having to go through surgery or death early in life
Get the cat!!! Best decision I’ve ever made! They make me so happy and keep me company and are SO good for my mental health. They are also so easy to care for!
you are so real for sharing all your emotions ❤ I'm sorry for whatever it is that you're going through 🙏🏻
I'm much older than you, and luckily I've never suffered with anxiety or mental health problems. Having said that, I really wish I could hug you and tell you it will be okay. I find it heartbreaking to see you like this when you should be happy and full of life. I'd hate my own daughters to go through something similar. Definitely not braindumping on us, talk away any time you need to. Fingers crossed you'll get relief soon. As for finances, I think you do well. You're in your mid twenties and a homeowner. We all overspend, just as we all need the occasional treat. Hope you have a great trip. xxx
Okay… so, nurse here.. go be around the cat.. get the vibe and see how you do with his/her dander. Then you will know how your body reacts to the cat. I would hate for good intentions to turn bad if you end up with that fur baby & then for health reasons, just can’t do it! I love animals (more dog than cat person here), but love them all, however when I go to my Mom’s house and get around her cats (who I love), when I leave.. I feel rough… just a thought! ❤
Love this and agreed!!!
I like your monthly recent videos! And they motivate me! Please keep doing them!
yay!! ill do one for November!!
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Sending you all the hugs and vibes, fall is always hard but at least fall vibes are superior!
Tbh kinda odd your work trip was on a weekend, even when i saw the story i was SO confused. Most of them happen during the weekdays and i know that SO many people would not be ok with them giving up their weekend for work stuff, especially when they already work 5 days a week Hope either you got paid OT for it or you got 2 days of extra PTO for working on the weekend.
Yeah I would NOT be okay with it. If it's a M-F job then the work trip should be during that time. This job seems so weird
I got Monday off which was nice!! technically worked 6 days that week on a 5 day salary lol. I was surprised the conference was over the weekend too. I didn't know if that was common or not
@@KeeganActon Unfortunately it's fairly common. A lot of conferences start on Sundays meaning travel on Saturday. Thankfully when I've done it we did get to flex to get those days back later.
This is my first video of yours! I’m always a silent viewer but really resonate with how you’re feeling. I 100% recommend getting a cat as a companion. I was in a similar situation, feeling very lonely, sad, living alone and I got an adult (5 y/o) lap cat who is the best decision I’ve ever made. Having someone to come home to, excited to see you, urging you to get out of bed is SO helpful. As someone who was also concerned about finances I was worried about a cat but they are relatively inexpensive animals - obviously you should be prepared for a vet bill at any point for emergencies but their monthly cost is not a lot at all- maybe $20-50 a month. Food lasts a while, litter is always on sale, toys are so cheap. Please consider it! There are so many hypo allergenic options too!
Hi beautiful Keegan ! As a cat owner myself I was allergic before and with time my allergies completely went away and I am fine now ! This cat is so gorgeous and I am sure you would provide it a lovely stable home ! Cats are great companions especially when you love by yourself I couldn’t imagine my life without my little kitty baby 🩷😻😍
Intentional is a great word for this last quarter of the year. I also need to be more intentional with my spending as well because when I see something I like I usually just buy it then but I shouldn't be like that lol. And like you said, with all the holidays right around the corner it sucks that's always huge expenses and just in October I have 6 birthdays I have to buy something for so yeah that's gonna be expensive too so it's all quite stressful.
SIX!?!?!?! omg how do you know so many people
@@KeeganActon GIRL THEYRE MY NEPHEWS AND ONE OF MY NIECES AND MY BROTHER-IN-LAW😭😭
Hope you’re ok Keegan! Hopefully this situation will be resolved. Also, I loved your monthly reset/budget videos
My cat gave me purpose, when I don’t want to take care of myself I know she needs me to take care of her. I budget about $100 a month for her litter and food. Her pet insurance (highly recommended when they’re young before they develop anything- insurance doesn’t cover preexisting conditions) is about $200 annually. I got lucky and got such a cuddle bug. She loves to snuggle on the couch❤ You can train them not to scratch up items or get on the counter, etc. And they don’t chew like a puppy! She’s ok being left home alone for a whole workday (or more) and they make autofeeders (even for wet food!!) so that if you have a looong day of commitments they don’t have to miss a meal/have a late meal
Adopting my first cat while still in nursing school was the best decision I ever made! ❤ They bring so much joy! And are so therapeutic!
ahhhhh I want one so bad!!! was it stressful having a cat while in nursing school?
@@KeeganActon it was only for a little bit! I got my cat at 6 months old and was VERY needy!! He cried all the time when I was sleeping (I locked him out lol) but then I figured out I could just let him sleep next to me instead. 🥰 Honestly, having him was the best thing ever. Times were very stressful (many times I cried into his fur haha) and he was also such a great distraction as I always knew I had to take care of him and he loved me unconditionally. So I’m all about getting a pet if you financially can handle it!! They do wonders for mental health 🥹🤍
to prevent smudged nail polish, i’m always trying to apply a few thin layers and then let them dry each time before adding the next one!! it does take longer than applying one thick layer but its soo worth the wait 🫶
those long do you usually wait between coats?
@@KeeganActon i usually apply the first coat and wait 2-3 Minutes and then apply the second coat and wait 5-10 minutes before switching hands😙 i’m literally so clumsy and this is the only way it doesn’t smudge !! i also prefer painting my nails in the evening just cause i know that i wont have use my hands as much, before then letting it dry even more overnight!!
I got a cat when I was 22, we have been together for 7 years. Yes its a responsibility but as long as you put in the time and money you can totally handle it! If you want a cat and you are prepared for food buying, litterbox cleaning, vet visits, making arrangements when you have/want to leave town and lots of love and playing. If the answer is yes, get a cat! Even if this one doesn't work out, they bring so much joy to not go for a different cat.
Hi Keegan how are you happy Monday afternoon and this was amazing video I enjoy your channel and you are amazing supporter
Apparently, if you have a breakout and cover it with concealer, you should also cover it with setting powder. I’m not speaking from experience, only from what I hear from a professional make up guru.
What do you think your estimated car payment and estimated car insurance will be ….start setting aside that money now …….so you’re a little ahead of the game .
Sally Hanson, hard as nails topcoat in quick dry. That is what I use if I do not do my nails in gel. Be sure you are waiting an hour in between each coat of nail polish.
Dear Keegan , thank you so much for creating these entertaining videos for us, you don't know how much I love watching ur videos and how much of an inspiration you are to me
loving the longer videos!! i think you would be such a good cat owner
its so fun to do the longer videos and thank you that is such a good compliment
Omg Keegan! I just want to give you a hug❤️🥺
hugs right back!!!
Happy Monday! I'm so happy to watch this as always :)
Sooooo I was a self proclaimed dog person until I adopted two cats!
They are SO loving, cuddly, attached to me… etc. 😅 I believed the stereotypes that they are independent and fiesty, but with mine they are even more attached to me than my dogs were growing up.
I know not every cat is that way, but they truly are so amazing and can be very much like dogs in a lot of ways.
I feed them three times a day, treats… they get annoyed if we don’t hang. 😂 But I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Sadly, there are a lot of bad stereotypes about cats! I think a lot of it is how they are raised.
As someone who was fostering triplet kittens and ended up adopting them because I couldn't bear separating them, I got Litter Robots for them since I'm also never home with work and school. Unscented litter because apparently the chamomile calming litter I thought I was treating them to they actually despise. Also, initial vet bills are pricey but then taper off to yearly checkups so manageable.
I love cats they are easy to care for
Thank you for sharing your
state. I feel that I am not the only one suffering. In the end, everything will be resolved, I pray for you.❤
praying for you too!!! I hope everything gets resolved and better for you!!
@@KeeganActon 🤍🤍🤍
Coming from a 24 year old! Adopting my 2 cats was the best decision of my life. Low maintenance but my absolute best buddies.
The Steve Madden boots look like they’re for snowy weather!
I'm no contact with my dad too its hard but sometimes we just have too
Highly highly highly recommend a Mazda CX any of the versions, very safe, VERY reliable, affordable & often called a mercedes dupe.
Keegan I have an indoor cat and I am severely allergic to pet dander. I take Claritin in the mornings and singulair at night. I also regularly bathe the cat and run the roomba every day at least. I also brush him to remove excess fur. I’ve never had a bad reaction to him/his dander, and he is a very big long haired cat. I am just very diligent about washing my hands after I have directly petted him before touching my face. You can definitely make it work!
Girlll you are definitely overthinking the cat. I’m not an impulsive person most of the time and the one big time I acted on impulse was when I decided I wanted to get my first pet (non family pet). 5 years ago I moved into my first apartment was a little lonely without my family cat and dog around and a few weeks later said to myself just start looking for cats. Within a week of looking I found, visited and brought home my little fur bby. Went to see her, she was so small (think she was the runt of her litter) and brought her home the same day. It was the best impulsive decision I’ve made so far. She’s literally my best friend and the greatest joy of my life. I love her and I can’t believe she’s already 5 years old. I’ve been wanting to get her a sister as well but it’s not the right time, so I totally get where you are coming from as well.
Ahh can’t edit but I forgot to add if you are financial and emotionally ready then really nothing is stopping you even if this Kitty isn’t the one. There are many other rescues that need a loving forever home.
As someone who’s had a shit ton of animals and experience with them I don’t think that you wanting to adopt the cat is irresponsible but as a fellow pisces & over thinker, I understand the conflict in your head. I think a cat would be really nice company for you and them. cats are also pretty self sufficient and enjoy alone time and sleep a lotttt, so I don’t think that you at work would be too much of a problem. As long as there’s a balance and you incorporate decent play time while your home and some enrichment toys for when you’re out. Even if things don’t work out with getting this cat I think you should still look at adopting one!
you get me. this definitely calmed my nerves a lot
Also I hope you’re feeling better Keegan. Even if it’s only an ounce. Try to focus on the positive & more will come. You got this, love you sm❤❤❤❤
I’m a dog person but hope this cat finds it’s forever home. I do have allergies in general but they have been manageable with over the counter medication(usually a generic brand compare to Zyrtec or when it gets really bad I will take a generic brand compare to Benadryl before bed).
September was a highly emotional month for me. Got laid off from a position I had only been at 6 months. Even though the position was so/so I was intending to stay because it was remote, 8am to 5pm, full time with a great benefits package (pto, sick days, retirement match, medical, dental, vision, and more)
Glad that your job at least gave you 1 day off in trade for working all weekend. Hopefully they also gave you a little extra pay or at least paid for the flights, hotel, etc
I think this is meant to be. That cat is so cute! I have done it before and did not regret it.
I have two dogs (a corgi and cockapoo!) and yes, they’re a LOT of responsibility…. But they are the best companions ever 😭 they’re my babies haha and they make living alone so much easier. I’m 25 and really struggle with loneliness sometimes but they help me soooooo much. So I’m a huge proponent of getting a pet, lol.
Seche Vite quick drying top coat will change your manicure game! It really works well and is easy to find.
I just got it and its soooooo good omg
I’m allergic to cats as well, but I always wanted one, and in 2020 I got a kitten. I decided I needed to try, and it has been amazing. I hear a lot of people say that they grow immune to their own cat, because the body gets used to the specific allergens. Not sure how this works scientifically, but it has been true for me. I can still feel it on certain days, and a few times a year when my cat is changing to/from her winter fur.
Not sure how good it would be for a rehomed cat to come in to a new home and then having to change homes again after if it turns out you are unable to keep it in your home, though 🤷🏻♀️
I can say I have grown immune to my cats. Me and my husband went away on week long vacation when we came back and picked up our cats. My eyes started watering and my throat started to hurt 😳 after 2 days it went away.
I love monthly reset videos
Keegan get a quick dry top coat and it will dry so much faster and easier … works for me ❤
hope your work trip went well. I suggest Seche Vite top coat, it dries fast and is forgiving if you smudge your nails before you top coat it. Whatever is triggering your breakdowns, I hope you get past it soon. I do love how you say you want to spill the tea. Girl, I hope someday you get to that point. Until then, I'll light a mexican candle for you. It's what we do in my culture for people when we put them in our prayers.
thats so sweet of you to light a Mexican candle for me!!! literally brought tears to eyes reading this because you are so kind
Cats are so good for first pets, they are super low maintenance!!!
Also a cat is great for mental health, just the fact you have a little being needing your attention depending on you will take your thoughts away from all this negative stuff.
As a veterinary technician I love my cats more than anything I also am allergic to cats but I do spend lots of money to make sure they have the best one is on meds daily and I do semi annual bloodwork and they are all on different prescription foods etc. definitely make sure your friend gets the cat vaxed tested and dewormed before any introductions to the home also cats typically not ideal to rush the introductions as cats get very protective of their homes I had my kitten in the bathroom for 2 months before they met my other cats and slowly introduced each others scents
you look so good with your hair in a bun like the one you had when you were doing your makeup 😍
I have two cats and omg please consider getting her she’s a ragdoll which is an expensive breed so she probably was domesticated but she’s so sweet
I really wish I could reach through the screen & just give you a good long hug ❤ you’ll get through this rough patch, & you’re handling it really well!
wish I could hug you back!! thank you so much
@@KeeganActon you’ll get through this 💞
We LOVE a good 1 hour weekly vlog 🥹🩷 But we don’t love how much you’ve been struggling ): hope things get better for you soon 🩷🩷🩷
thank you!! appreciate you so much
@@KeeganActon 🩷
Hi Keegan!! I am really late to this video I knowww! But my dad has always taken in stray cats and it’s been great for us! We love all of our cats we had growing up! I want a kitty next too hah! But a cat will be good for you they are soo loving 💗
Love the gold apple watch band
Sushi is my favorite. I ate Sushi the other day. I would be broke if I ate Sushi every week. I was told by a chef that if you're paying more for like a Rainbow Roll and it cost more than another restaurant you're paying for the quality of the fish and how fresh it is. This is true to a point.
thats good to know!! I didn't know that!!
Thanks for your vulnerability 🖤
Keegan, you look as beautiful without make up as you do with it. breaks my heart when you say that you need to hide the fact you r not wearing make up.
In my opinion you’ll never feel fully ready for a pet!! I was soooo nervous to get a cat but my fiance really wanted one so we ended up adopting a 2 month old kitten and she’s the absolute best!!! I’ve also heard that it can help allergies to keep everything really clean with a cat! So cleaning the litter box super often and vacuuming a lot!! (But neither of us are allergic so I’m only going off of what people I know that are allergic have said haha!!)
I relate to your situation with your dad sooo much. Love his family but I can’t see them often because it affects me so much haha
As a proud cat mom, if you end up adopting that stray, you can DM me for all the questions you might have - what to buy, how to care for them and all that jazz! Jon (my amazing cat that even watches you with me when I'm home from college!) was adopted by after he was found on the street and I always say that I didn't just rescued him, he rescued me as well! Also most people I know who are allergic to cats said that getting a cat helped them getting over said allergy (don't know the full veracity of that statment, but that's what they said!). Hugs and hope you feel better
Wishing you all the best! We can get through this. I startet my new job yesterday and am really scared. It will get better!
Whatever is causing you such pain i hope it goes away soon and you are able to heal fast.
Harumi Sushi in downtown Phoenix ??? They used to be a small little sushi place that was SO GOOD ! Ever since they moved to that fancy hotel they changed the quality of their foods and increased the prices. Used to be my ALL TIME favorite sushi place but ever since they moved they made so many changes. I’ve gone 4 times to their new location and got food poisoning each time….
i love my cat, she is my daughter lol. grew up never imagining id have a cat!
Glass Animals is actually one of the best bands ever!! i was supposed to see them last month but I had covid I was devasted :(
nooooooooo im so sorry you missed the concert!!! I hope you at least able to sell the tickets and make you money back
your skin looks great today
I think the best thing you can do if you are REALLY wanting a cat is to foster first. If everything works out with this cat to stay with your friend, there are still SO many cats in shelters looking for forever homes. Fostering would give you the chance to bring a cat in for a few weeks and see if it is a good fit (for both you and the cat - every cat has such a different personality) without making the full commitment right off the bat. It is a huge responsibility to take in a cat, and important to consider the cost of vet bills, emergency vet bills, pet sitters, food, litter etc before making that commitment. But I can also say being able to have a cat after not being able to for years has severely improved my mental health. Even when you feel alone, you're not alone. I know we'll never know what's going on that has been having such a negative impact on you and causing you to cry everyday, but if you think you can handle the responsibility I think having the cat would do wonders for you at this stage of life. But you *have* to go into it with the mindset that this cat could potentially be around for the next 10-20 yrs, depending on its age when you adopt it. Meet your husband, your kids, future dogs, etc. If you're not willing to make that serious of a commitment, it's not fair to the pet.
also, I really miss the reset videos. Every time a new month rolls around I hope that I'll see one pop up and it is definitely sad when it doesn't haha. If I can make a suggestion, you should check out Grace Nevitt's channel. She's currently doing a no-buy year and her channel is mainly focused on intentional living and tips for not feeling like you need to buy something all the time. Her current system might be a bit extreme for the habits you're looking to change, but I think you might be able to get something out of some of her videos and adapt it to fit your own life :) She's really been helping me rewire my brain so I don't shop as much lol
I cannot thank you ENOUGH!! everything you said was extremely helpful. I am going to look into everything you said. also it makes me so happy that you like the reset videos!! maybe ill do one for next month :) I kinda miss them too
@@KeeganActon 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
As someone who grew up a dog person... I have officially become a crazy cat lady. Cats are just cool little sarcastic, cuddly, asshole companions you never knew you needed. They are so much easier than dogs. I struggle with anxiety and depression and when I have a bad day mine stick to me like glue. I read something once that it is scientifically proven that a cats purr can heal people. It reduces stress and lowers your blood pressure. When I go somewhere... I am the weirdo that can't wait to go home because I miss my cats. A pet can change your life... BUT it is a major commitment. There are definitely workarounds for allergies and a lot of more hypoallergenic breeds. But I agree with the person who said to spend some time with the cat first to see how you react to their dander. If it's mild a daily allergy pill might help.
23:23 Oh, my sweet, I'm so sorry ❤
Idk if you like orange flavored stuff, BUT the dream crush alani nu’s are SO good
need to add to my list to try next!!!
Essie has a good selection of colours but they take FOREVER to dry (my experience) I think you need one of those special dryers for them, I’m notorious for smudging/ruining my nails lol I look for fast dry!
thats good to know that Essie that Essie dries slow I literally thought I was doing something wrong
Happy Keegan Monday
I love your vlogs!!! I always look forward to them. Where did the monthy resets go?? One last thing you are so beautiful. Also, would totally recommend Honda, they are reliable and long lasting
I think I talked about the monthly resets at the end of this video hahah. funny timing. I might bring them back
I am the same way about money 😂. I don't know why. But also then ill randomly binge on buying stuff and go insane and buy everything. It's like an eating disorder.
yes me too hahahahaha ive never thought about comparing it to a binge ED but thats so accurate
You look great in dark blue
I think you should adopt the cat! Plus, you mentioned you work being a concern, cats are more independent than dogs are.
I just learned the other day that you can be allergic to the litter and not the cat! Some chemical used in litters! (Idk if pellet litter has the same chemical!)
no way!!!! I didn't know this im looking into it thank you
I've used Seche Vite Dry Fast Top Coat for a few years and it's the best one I've found by far.
omg what a cute cat
Red and blue I think are your colors. Chipotle is always good
Nice one, Keegan!❤❤❤❤
Hi Keegan 🙂
You so need to become a catwoman 🐈⬛👱♀️. Cats are clean, loyal, loving and they have the softest fur.
You are definitely NOT being stupid for crying. You are crying because you're hurting; all of your subscribers know that you are a good person and whoever/whatever is putting you through this pain needs to stop. You are going to have to put all the details in the book of your life which you will surely write one day.
The concert looked ama-zing. Best wishes to you, Keegan 🫂.
Yes vote for a cat! The Siberian cat I have is low allergen, it might be worth doing some research there.
omg I just googled them and they're SO CUTE
I know it’s luxury but I love my Volvo xc40!