And even if you are telling the truth, if it's not what they want to hear they will say you're lying until you do say what they want and then act as if that somehow proves them right, that part of why cops and judge judy get mad when someone interferes with their questions
Or maybe he was saying what tf r u talking about we were in there once! When you ask children the same question numerous times they tend to say what they think u want to hear.
@TrayCmeNow Didn't you notice how his sibbling was signaling to him the finger reminding him to say "1"? That, to me, can be interpreted as proof that it was practiced ahead and his sibling was present when they practiced.
When I was his age, I was accused of something I did not do. I was taken to the principal's office, and she did what Judge Judy did, eventually wearing me down to the point where I almost confessed to the accusation. I even half believed it, and doubted my own memories. Later that afternoon an adult witness came forward and said I wasn't the person involved, exonerating me. From that day forward, I've never trusted confessions made under interrogation.
This happened to me at age 14 when I was accused of copying someone else's written work. You get so pressured that you start to believe that somehow you did copy or if you didn't, you are still guilty of simply being untrustworthy even when innocent. With this kid, I'm sure he said "5" so that he could sit down and stop the hopeless interrogation.
Exactly. When i was in middle school i stole money from my grandmas wallet, because she left it out every night and wouldnt give me money to buy stuff at school. So i used her money to buy stuff anyway. Well a girl in my grade was missing $20 on the same day i bought the $20 thing, so the school accused me of stealing her money. They kept yelling at me over and over and even said they were going to get police involved if i didnt confess and that it would be on my record, that id be suspended, etc. Eventually they made my grandparents make me pay her back double what she lost when i didnt even take her money, then my grandma made me pay her back quadruple the amount for costing her $60. So $20 turned into $80.
The mother said in this clip "it was only one day" Judge Judy in my opinion, is an opinionated shit head. She needs to get her hearing and observation tested, then again, she's a judge, they play with fraudulence all their careers
In Australia children are not liable for any damage they cause. It's not right but it's the law. That little boy wouldn't need to pay and also the parent as the parent didn't cause the damage.
@@steveth1000 that is a literal child why are they unsupervised for such a duration of time that they can leave your house go out into the community into someone else’s basement vandalized that property and you were completely unaware of them going back-and-forth five times. As their mother, she is legally responsible for keeping them from doing these exact things that is why she would be charged and held liable.
You are sooo correct, a scared child faced with a person in authority and wanting to give her the answer she wants, please notice when he said 5. It was a question to her not an answer. @MelisaShujan
When I was a drug addict I used to lie all the time. Once I got clean (7 years ago), I stopped lying, even about the 'little' things bcoz lying is like building a house on sand. Sooner or later, it all comes crashing down
@anasmaknassa2967 thanks pal. I locked myself away in the house and away from my druggie 'friends' for about a year until the cravings went away, then got a job to keep busy. I write this hoping 🙏 that someone who is trying to stop reads it, and hopefully, it'll help them 🙏
My sister is currently clean from her long term drug use, (various things over the last 10+ years) I just wanna say I appreciate, and am proud of you for your sobriety. I don't have words right now to express everything I personally have gone through regarding my sister, and everything I saw growing up about it. I'm hoping the best for her, and sometimes it's just comforting to hear from others who "get it" (as she used to say) I don't know. Makes me feel like it's not just us, experiencing this kind of stuff from someone in drug use.
@Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode I used to say the same as your sister. If you've not been there, you don't really understand how hard it is. My family would read up about addiction and ask others about it bcoz they really wanted to help. I think you probably did something similar for your sister bcoz you love her. Addiction doesn't just hurt the addict but also the family. How long has your sister been clean, pal 🤔. What I wrote earlier worked for me. Obv won't work for everyone. At least your sister has you on her side. Please 🙏 don't give up on her, and please remember to look after yourself. X
@@jefolson6989lol I agree if you don't know the answer yourself, this is how I question my kids, but I know the answer before doing so. I look into the issue
It is possible to get almost anyone to confess to false accusations by using pressure, authority, and advanced communication and persuasion techniques.
I love her! She’s no nonsense, but caring. Parents could learn a lot about raising good children to be good adults from her. I learned a lot from watching her
@@kyliixx0oh shut up your so jealous and it shows. Your mad she doesn’t take any crap from anyone. You’re also mad she has everything you wish you could 😂😂😂😂 How pathetic 🤡 Judge Judy is the best and you just keep on hating silly child…
@@kyliixx0 Can I see more about this opinion :0? I grew up with my mom watching Judge Judy, and I personally have enjoyed episodes here on YT- But if there's like.. Genuine cases/stuff for me to look at that DOES make her out that way, I would very much like to look into it! Is there something specific to search for?
Hopefully, she had her parental rights severed, and he won't have to worry about living with a woman who sets her own children up to be abused. So many "mothers pimping out their own babies for money or drugs. It's just disgusting. She's not a "mom," but she's certainly a "MOTHER......". I hope for their sake she was taken into custody that day, and they're someplace safe.💔
I hate running into grown people who lie all the time, you can’t hold a reasonable conversation with them. This is the point where it’s important to differentiate the truth from lies, poor children.
the most honorable judge in my 66 year life time! Thank You for sharing your time with us and teaching us true morals and fairness. God Bless the Honorable Judy Judy.
So here you can see, how child can be manipulated by 3 times questioning. The best way to get anything from a child is asking what happened. If you push they are gonna make up any story they consider appropriate for you.
AWESOME ABSOLUTELY AWESOME BEAUTIFUL WORK DONE BY AN ANGEL FOR ANOTHER ANGEL....THANK YOU....FOR CARING AND BEING SO KIND....TO THE CHILD.. THANK YOU..
In likes of TD JAKE'S, Joice Myers and Joel Oestine and all that prosperity preacher's , judge Judy must put them all on the red mat lol 😂😂😂 they will fail dismally 😂😂😂
I don't like people who tell their children to not tell the truth, honesty and integrity are the guidelines for a Great Life. My Favorite Teacher and My Parents told me that that would take me all the way through My Life ☺️🫡
It seems like the judge is the one that had him lie🤷🏽♀️ The boy answered multiple times and was called a liar so obviously he's going to change his answer.
Yes the mom Needs to Repent to the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 And start taking herself and the children to a Bible Based Church. And asked the Lord Jesus Christ for guidance 🙏 ❤, May God Bless you 🙏 ❤️ and your children and family
Maybe he meant one day. Not one occasion. Based on my professional opinion as someone who works with children, as she asked the question multiple times, she sent him the message that he had to give a different answer. I would not believe anything the boy said because he was too young to be pressured by a judge such as her. She’s a bully. She was nicer to him than to most people but the pressure and multiple attempts at the same question was inappropriate for a child his age.
The mother is so wrong on many levels. She didn't want anyone to know that she wasn't there. She said once but anything can happen once in the basement in one day but many times. Over and over again.
Expression on face says he is guessing,"@ least 5?" Judge is wrong too, on a stupid face squint, she took it literal. Who is dumber? Kid is trying to give the right answer just like Ann of Green Gables, so it will be over. Verified once.
Because the guy is your boyfriend and you left the kids there to be babysit. Possibly the kids were abused by boyfriend and then told grandparents, grandparents told their mom, and mom is protecting boyfriend.
That’s not true if it was something traumatic PTSD often messes with your memory to protect you so you can be trying to say the truth but can’t properly remember. I don’t know if this was the case with this little boy I’ve never watched this episode so I don’t know what the accusations where and why the boy was in the basement or what happened down there.
Yes cause my son does that he a be telling the truth but if a person keep asking he will change his answer I always teach my son to just say the truth the first time don’t change his answer to satisfy ppl my son is borderline autistic and a very honest 9 yr old .
Exactly what I said, I know because I experienced similar shit as a child and then I had to deal with a ton of bullshit because someone kept trying to say I was abusive to my children which really hurt me because of my childhood I would never do that to my children I can't imagine how any intelligent person could
My dad would do this thing with kids when they tell story's by saying and then what happened when they stopped and they would build and build and make the most fantastical stories and we'd all laugh cause it would be ridiculous as kid your like surely your not accepting that a dragon ate the house were literally standing in lol and as an adult you get to let their creativity and imagination run wild and it's just fun all around. But the point is kids fabricate things if they know your asking for more information.
What would that be? Do you really think this judge has an idea of anything, except what's in front of her - evidence, please! Why would she want to hear anything but the truth? Have you ever watched her in action... No imagination, no secret agenda - just an uncanny ability to know very well too many liars....take a look
They are just kids but if we don't stop them, they'll do the same...think..we just have to always check their where abouts!! Thanks! Judge Judy..God Bless!🎉
You probably have no understanding of kids and liars. Im not insulting you... im just saying. It's easier to say you have kids but understanding and training, disciplining and loving them until you're alive is another. Children/ppl lie... it doesn't mean they're confused.
In this video, the judge is abusing her position. The child repeatedly said 1, then in the child position was called a liar. Changing his answer to “At least 5 times”. Then atomically the judge jumps the mom. As the child is still saying once to the other child. Blaaaa, I’m done trying to explain intimidation.
I'm glad the judge was calm and did not push the child. She allowed a child to breath. He's what like 5 years old. And in his head he does not want to be at court. He would rather playing video games. Or a sport. In stead he has no idea really what's going on. My point is let your kids be kids . The reality us as adults need to keep the Younger generation safe and always learning. Life an opportunity to learn to love to grow. Why do you think any persons grandparents are the boss. Sent with love. Thank you for hearing my options.
If this mother is coaching her son to lie SHAME ON HER 😢 !!!. She will pay dearly for this in the future possibly with a child growing into a criminal. NOT WORTH IT LADY !!!.BRING YOUR CHILD UP RIGHT !!!. DON'T PUNISH HIM NOW WITH YOUR LACK OF SMARTS PLEASE.
WHY is it that the boys have to check to see what the other is saying CHILDREN SHOULD NEVER EVER HAVE TO BE PUT in a COURT OF LAW SUBJECTED TO THE EFFECT OF ANOTHER PERSON'S FUTURE BEING DAMAGED FOR LIFE NOT ACCEPTABLE
The friend was also feeding him the line before hand pointing up one finger which is WHY they have the conversation at the end. It’s clear she spoke to both boys about their answers ahead of this
youre an idiot to think that and are referring to unrelatable shit. the kid is not mentally handicapped and not being pressured with violence. kids dont want to lie and this grandmother knew wtf she was doing.
Exactly. Judge Judy doesn't listen. The mother says he doesn't lie. The mother only said he was only in the building one day. He could have gone into the basement 5 times in one day.
Quick rundown of events: These 2 8yr old boys broke into that mans basement and destroyed his property. They broke things, spray painted walls, started up his motorcycle, scratched his car with a crowbar, filled the trunk with a bunch of his things including a blow torch, knives and etc...then told the person who caught them they planned on stealing the car. They have pics of the blonde one. The "mothers" left them unsupervised. Edit: Full video on Judge Judy channel 8yr old boys vandalize mans shop.
The mother should be held in contempt of court for interupting the judge. While the judge was talking to her son; coaching, like she was doing, should have automatically bought her a free one way ticket for a 30 day vacation..If combative, keep adding more "vacatio" days for "Mom" to decompress and realize the wrongs of her ways..Also, those boys may need a break and some therapy as well..Hope everyone gets all the help they so need and deserve 😉 🎉
The judge is always right?? This is where everyone is doing the devils work for him. Why is a human 33 rd degree satanic mason always right?? The only one who is always right is God. You think you are doing God a service or that you are a good person in supporting a judge but you are really just helping the devil.
Kids will change the truth to a lie to appease adults, especially after they realize the truth is not the answer the adult wants. It doesn’t necessarily mean the child is lying. And the other kid telling him to say 1 doesn’t either. Kids do that. They try to help out and give the answer to little siblings all the time. Way too many people are reading _way_ too into this clip, not applying basic understanding and knowledge of children and human behavior. We don’t know if he was lying or not, that’s the answer. There’s not enough info here to know what the correct answer is. Stop jumping to baseless conclusions after watching 30 seconds of an interaction 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Asked and answered.... Kids are smart enough to know Who has the most power in the room and saying what they want to hear will be the correct answer... There was no need to Slam the Mother in front of her Son...
The truth never changes but a lie changes all the time.😊
That's what I always told my children.
So, was he lying when he said only once or when he said 5 times?
Amen
@@msirma0077lying when he said 1 time 😂😊
What my Gma always taught us, and also, if you do not have nice to say, don't say anything 6
Teaching your child to lie is despicable. What happens in his future is your fault, you created it.
100% facts
Mate normally I'd say tell the truth but a court and to a police officer etc are exceptions. They don't need to know and only care to see you guilty
And even if you are telling the truth, if it's not what they want to hear they will say you're lying until you do say what they want and then act as if that somehow proves them right, that part of why cops and judge judy get mad when someone interferes with their questions
@ryg6uhteaching kids to lie to authorities and people who have the resources to help them HUGE RED FLAG FOR ABUSERS
Okay but I’m happy bc when I liked ur comment it went from 2.4 k likes to 2.5 k likes
Even the other child had to remind him that he was supposed to say, "once."
That bug lip boy will always hate/ influence the sweet one ❤
Lil big brooding with cross arms and that sweet baby listened to judge . Why that won't happen again????. That cross son will be a from society
Or maybe he was saying what tf r u talking about we were in there once! When you ask children the same question numerous times they tend to say what they think u want to hear.
Judge Judy scared him into changing his truth.
@TrayCmeNow Didn't you notice how his sibbling was signaling to him the finger reminding him to say "1"?
That, to me, can be interpreted as proof that it was practiced ahead and his sibling was present when they practiced.
When I was his age, I was accused of something I did not do. I was taken to the principal's office, and she did what Judge Judy did, eventually wearing me down to the point where I almost confessed to the accusation. I even half believed it, and doubted my own memories. Later that afternoon an adult witness came forward and said I wasn't the person involved, exonerating me. From that day forward, I've never trusted confessions made under interrogation.
This happened to me at age 14 when I was accused of copying someone else's written work. You get so pressured that you start to believe that somehow you did copy or if you didn't, you are still guilty of simply being untrustworthy even when innocent. With this kid, I'm sure he said "5" so that he could sit down and stop the hopeless interrogation.
She's a bully. She CONSTANTLY says "I just know when someone's telling the truth" like she is psychic. She's actually dangerous. @@TerryInUSA
You are right to question the validity of a confession when it’s coerced especially from a child.
Exactly. When i was in middle school i stole money from my grandmas wallet, because she left it out every night and wouldnt give me money to buy stuff at school. So i used her money to buy stuff anyway. Well a girl in my grade was missing $20 on the same day i bought the $20 thing, so the school accused me of stealing her money. They kept yelling at me over and over and even said they were going to get police involved if i didnt confess and that it would be on my record, that id be suspended, etc. Eventually they made my grandparents make me pay her back double what she lost when i didnt even take her money, then my grandma made me pay her back quadruple the amount for costing her $60. So $20 turned into $80.
thats why police always recording them
JUDGE IS SO GOOD IN GETTING THE TRUTH.
On getting what she wants to hear and gives her rating
Maybe she should grill trump about his lies... She a big supporter, I refuse to watch her anymore.
Everybody’s entitled to their opinion I don’t like Trump either
@@yasminer3288exactly
@@Ohhappyday764thanks, didn’t know that. Telling my mama not to watch her lol
Teach your kids to always tell the truth
Always.
Yes, honesty is always always always the best policy.
Always teach your kids to tell the truth
That little kid is not understanding what shes asking. He was adamant on once but then she convinced him otherwise. @stellaonyeogo2379
Teach your kids to
value respect and protect themselves .
Don't enable your children...teach them right from wrong. Act like a parent
The mother said in this clip "it was only one day" Judge Judy in my opinion, is an opinionated shit head. She needs to get her hearing and observation tested, then again, she's a judge, they play with fraudulence all their careers
Egg 🥚 sactly
What is going on here please explain
@ exactly I’d like to know too
Mom didn't say one time. She said it was only one DAY. There is no inconsistency.
What were they doing in the basement, that's the question
The boys were vandalizing the basement. The mother is trying to minimize the amount of property damage she's going to have to pay.
In Australia children are not liable for any damage they cause. It's not right but it's the law. That little boy wouldn't need to pay and also the parent as the parent didn't cause the damage.
@@steveth1000that's fucking ridiculous. Its basically a pass to destroy shit.
What a relief. I was worried it was something worse. TH-cam got me stressed. @christophern.5921
@@steveth1000 that is a literal child why are they unsupervised for such a duration of time that they can leave your house go out into the community into someone else’s basement vandalized that property and you were completely unaware of them going back-and-forth five times. As their mother, she is legally responsible for keeping them from doing these exact things that is why she would be charged and held liable.
What's really messed up is she told her son to lie!!
And lie in court.😢
Judge Judy is the one whom is forcing the kid to say something she wants to hear!
You are sooo correct, a scared child faced with a person in authority and wanting to give her the answer she wants, please notice when he said 5. It was a question to her not an answer. @MelisaShujan
What proof do you have that supports your statement that the mother had told her sin to lie?
Where you there, that child was forced to say what he has no idea of, people always want to hear what they feel is right not the truth
My grandpa who loved Mark Twain always quoted him… and he always said..”If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.”
A perfect example of why children have to be protected in trials. You can see how easily he is manipulated and coerced to change his answer 😢
😂😂😂
Always tell the truth that way you can stick to it.
No one coerced him and his mother was there. Judge has done this for so many decades she knows when a lie is a lie.
Coerced to tell the truth, taught to be an honest boy
@@riccshaw7594the mom coerced him to say once
When I was a drug addict I used to lie all the time. Once I got clean (7 years ago), I stopped lying, even about the 'little' things bcoz lying is like building a house on sand. Sooner or later, it all comes crashing down
I agree..I lied so much I couldn't not lie so now I force myself to tell the truth even if it makes me uncomfortable or I really want to fib.
Well done going clean, I know it's really not easy, good luck to you 🙏❤️
@anasmaknassa2967 thanks pal. I locked myself away in the house and away from my druggie 'friends' for about a year until the cravings went away, then got a job to keep busy. I write this hoping 🙏 that someone who is trying to stop reads it, and hopefully, it'll help them 🙏
My sister is currently clean from her long term drug use, (various things over the last 10+ years) I just wanna say I appreciate, and am proud of you for your sobriety. I don't have words right now to express everything I personally have gone through regarding my sister, and everything I saw growing up about it. I'm hoping the best for her, and sometimes it's just comforting to hear from others who "get it" (as she used to say) I don't know. Makes me feel like it's not just us, experiencing this kind of stuff from someone in drug use.
@Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode I used to say the same as your sister. If you've not been there, you don't really understand how hard it is. My family would read up about addiction and ask others about it bcoz they really wanted to help. I think you probably did something similar for your sister bcoz you love her. Addiction doesn't just hurt the addict but also the family. How long has your sister been clean, pal 🤔. What I wrote earlier worked for me. Obv won't work for everyone. At least your sister has you on her side. Please 🙏 don't give up on her, and please remember to look after yourself. X
Judge Judy is a very clever woman. In touch with real people. 🏴 ❤
This is called the WRONG way to question a child . " how many times. You're lieing. Be a good boy and give me the answer I want. Now think real hard".
😂😂😂😂😂
@@jefolson6989lol I agree if you don't know the answer yourself, this is how I question my kids, but I know the answer before doing so. I look into the issue
Plead the fifth kid
Full episode please
Once in the building get real he meant once in the building HE WASN T LYING !!!
I would be embarrassed if that was my mother.
Love to the Judge; she knows how to get to the facts and truth.
It is possible to get almost anyone to confess to false accusations by using pressure, authority, and advanced communication and persuasion techniques.
I love her! She’s no nonsense, but caring. Parents could learn a lot about raising good children to be good adults from her. I learned a lot from watching her
Good Judge Judy even one parent will stand by their son.
parents wants to protect their children by lying as well.😮
she’s quite literally a terrible person and a HUGE hypocrite.
@@kyliixx0oh shut up your so jealous and it shows. Your mad she doesn’t take any crap from anyone. You’re also mad she has everything you wish you could 😂😂😂😂
How pathetic 🤡
Judge Judy is the best and you just keep on hating silly child…
@@kyliixx0 Can I see more about this opinion :0? I grew up with my mom watching Judge Judy, and I personally have enjoyed episodes here on YT- But if there's like.. Genuine cases/stuff for me to look at that DOES make her out that way, I would very much like to look into it! Is there something specific to search for?
THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE❤
Judge Judy is tough. She stands here ground. I respect this lady. 😮 😅
Hope he wasn't picked on for telling the truth. I'm afraid he will be facing anger from his brother and mother, for being truthful. Crazy world~
Hopefully, she had her parental rights severed, and he won't have to worry about living with a woman who sets her own children up to be abused. So many "mothers pimping out their own babies for money or drugs. It's just disgusting. She's not a "mom," but she's certainly a "MOTHER......". I hope for their sake she was taken into custody that day, and they're someplace safe.💔
He told the truth the first few times he answered and was basically told "That's not what I want to hear so say something else." 😒
TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE ♥️🙏🔥
Agrees. Everyone should read David Irving.
Enabling is about you, not loving your child enough to teach and discipline
Thank you. If you’re a parent you are definitely a great one❤
WOW what horrible mother teaching her child to lie🤬
Absolutely that horrible woman could have sent that man to prison for years for a lie.and that little boy would have had to live with that lie .
Yes but if you lie you can become president everything has changed. the new generation wants it let them see where it leads, and Hopefully learn.
Bad mother😢
😡
But, again I don’t know the context, ABOUT BEING IN SOMEONES BASEMENT? what if? I can’t even say it, unacceptable, it makes me very emotional
The truth is always the truth 💯 %. But a lie always changes.
Always tell the truth. Because it will come out in the retelling every time!
That's how I feel
THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH- CAN'T BULID SOMETHING REAL & LASTING ON A LIE !!!!!
The child related to that. I hope he makes that his motto and never lie again.
Yes, very true. We have to be truthful
I hate running into grown people who lie all the time, you can’t hold a reasonable conversation with them. This is the point where it’s important to differentiate the truth from lies, poor children.
AFTER PRESSURING, kid might be trying to tell you what you want to hear. .....
You can tell when he started guessing what she wanted to hear
They told him to lie. Disgusting that parents do that.
Thanks, Dr. Phil.
@@thevicious2003 you’re welcome
When you tell a kid over and over their answer isnt right, of course they’re gonna change it
the most honorable judge in my 66 year life time! Thank You for sharing your time with us and teaching us true morals and fairness. God Bless the Honorable Judy Judy.
Don't teach kids 2 lie Then get Angry when they do it 2 you
BOOM!
Sad when children are taught to lie
Yay some parents teach it by example 😮
I want to know what they were doing in the basement. 🤔
The man with blonde buzzcut hair was raping the little kids it's really heartbreaking 💔 😢
😮. Yes!!
But they didn't tell what happens in the basement. I want to know
Only god knows😂😂😂
Search " 8 year old boys vandalize man's shop" on TH-cam. Neighbor caught them and had photos. Lol it was a quick case.
So here you can see, how child can be manipulated by 3 times questioning. The best way to get anything from a child is asking what happened. If you push they are gonna make up any story they consider appropriate for you.
If you watch the full episode, they really did go more than once, there was photo evidence. The kids vandalized tf out of dudes property.
I'm just wondering what happened in the basement 🤦♀️
Absolutely!
Nothing good
Me too probably a mess? Maybe they snooped
I think they may have been molested.
I want to know too. Why is one talking about these
AWESOME ABSOLUTELY AWESOME BEAUTIFUL WORK DONE BY AN ANGEL FOR ANOTHER ANGEL....THANK YOU....FOR CARING AND BEING SO KIND....TO THE CHILD.. THANK YOU..
Judge judy can make a preacher confess ❤❤
So TRUE!! LOL
Or say what she wants the person to say by badgering them
Underrated comment this is intimatading witness until they say what you want @@StephaniePappas-t9o
In likes of TD JAKE'S, Joice Myers and Joel Oestine and all that prosperity preacher's , judge Judy must put them all on the red mat lol 😂😂😂 they will fail dismally 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I hope the judge threw the book.at her twice. Once for the son's offence and two, for making him lie.
I don't like people who tell their children to not tell the truth, honesty and integrity are the guidelines for a Great Life. My Favorite Teacher and My Parents told me that that would take me all the way through My Life ☺️🫡
It seems like the judge is the one that had him lie🤷🏽♀️ The boy answered multiple times and was called a liar so obviously he's going to change his answer.
I agree 💯. Also he looked confident when he was saying it was once but looked unsure when he changed it to five.
Yes the mom Needs to Repent to the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏
And start taking herself and the children to a Bible Based Church. And asked the Lord Jesus Christ for guidance 🙏
❤, May God Bless you 🙏 ❤️ and your children and family
He said “once” like it was a question.
Maybe he meant one day. Not one occasion. Based on my professional opinion as someone who works with children, as she asked the question multiple times, she sent him the message that he had to give a different answer. I would not believe anything the boy said because he was too young to be pressured by a judge such as her. She’s a bully. She was nicer to him than to most people but the pressure and multiple attempts at the same question was inappropriate for a child his age.
The mother is so wrong on many levels. She didn't want anyone to know that she wasn't there. She said once but anything can happen once in the basement in one day but many times. Over and over again.
Starting with her eyebrows.
Expression on face says he is guessing,"@ least 5?" Judge is wrong too, on a stupid face squint, she took it literal.
Who is dumber? Kid is trying to give the right answer just like Ann of Green Gables, so it will be over. Verified once.
Why would you TELL your Child to Lie????
Because the guy is your boyfriend and you left the kids there to be babysit. Possibly the kids were abused by boyfriend and then told grandparents, grandparents told their mom, and mom is protecting boyfriend.
obviously trying to cover up
You don't have to remember anything when your telling the truth
Exactly 💯 per cent ❤❤❤❤
I do
*you're
That’s not true if it was something traumatic PTSD often messes with your memory to protect you so you can be trying to say the truth but can’t properly remember. I don’t know if this was the case with this little boy I’ve never watched this episode so I don’t know what the accusations where and why the boy was in the basement or what happened down there.
@@ArwenRO24or anything. Eyewitness accounts are extremely unreliable
Judge Judy, she is something else.😮
Yes she is... but WHAT!?
She is scary to a child. I would say whatever she wanted.
Confusing the kids is unfair
She's going to raise horrible people out of those children.
Honesty is good policy
The saying goes, honesty is the best policy.
You know that little kid heard about that when he got home.
Probably as soon as they left the courtroom…. Poor child 😢
Stop teaching your child to lie.
Maybe just teach them that there are good or bad lies... But totally agree with u
How do you know which answer IS a lie??@@carloporsenna4533
We would have to stop lying to children, in that case. No more Santa, no more Easter bunny, no more gassing in world war II.
The truth is just that the truth is nothing to remember. It is what it is!!!
It's not entirely accurate that you don't have to remember the truth.
Events can be convoluted, complicated, confusing!
. What ever you think@
She intimidated him into saying what she wanted him to say
Those boys are so precious ….
So judge Judy coached him, then called his mom a liar?
Yep ,, she’s a Trumper ! MAGA !
I wonder if she made him feel like his answer wasn’t good enough so he changed it. 🤔
Não, está claro que a resposta inicial foi por causa da mãe, a juíza sabe que a criança está sob pressão por parte de mãe.
If you keep repeating the same question under threat , of course he will give a different answer .
Trying to please her.
That's exactly how I saw it too
The mother who wasn't there tried to manipulate her son into lying and Judge Judy called her out on it.
Yes cause my son does that he a be telling the truth but if a person keep asking he will change his answer I always teach my son to just say the truth the first time don’t change his answer to satisfy ppl my son is borderline autistic and a very honest 9 yr old .
Exactly what I said, I know because I experienced similar shit as a child and then I had to deal with a ton of bullshit because someone kept trying to say I was abusive to my children which really hurt me because of my childhood I would never do that to my children I can't imagine how any intelligent person could
My dad would do this thing with kids when they tell story's by saying and then what happened when they stopped and they would build and build and make the most fantastical stories and we'd all laugh cause it would be ridiculous as kid your like surely your not accepting that a dragon ate the house were literally standing in lol and as an adult you get to let their creativity and imagination run wild and it's just fun all around. But the point is kids fabricate things if they know your asking for more information.
She grilled the kid to get him to lie. You can't keep asking till you hear just what you want to hear
What would that be? Do you really think this judge has an idea of anything, except what's in front of her - evidence, please! Why would she want to hear anything but the truth? Have you ever watched her in action... No imagination, no secret agenda - just an uncanny ability to know very well too many liars....take a look
She Explained to him what The Truth was...and then he told it!!
CAN YOU IMAGINE THE CONFUSION "MAMA" IS CAUSING IN THIS CHILD?! AHHHHH!
When you ask a child a question multiple times they will give you what ever answer they think will make you stop asking them the same question
She's badgering a 5-year-old kid
She’s MAGA
Moms more at fault than the children..my sister used to coach her kids to lie and sneak around.
Put mom in jail.
Well, that one day will come back to her, and they will lie to her too and then will be too late to change anything.
@@anastoica3607 hopefully they are good kids and didnt pick up that habit
@@anastoica3607 feel like they could be disgusted by that and be the complete opposite or be exactly like her
YUP!!!
They are just kids but if we don't stop them, they'll do the same...think..we just have to always check their where abouts!! Thanks! Judge Judy..God Bless!🎉
Well he may have been trying to give judge Judy the answer she was asking for, after all that ...or who knows
JUDGE JUDY IS GOLDEN! ❤❤❤
What the heck is the reason he went into the basement!?
Watch the episode and you will find out
@@lohi5540what episode is it
The poor kid looks confused. Judy made him change his answer && yoi see how nervous he was with her. He wasnt even CERTAIN when he said 5.
That’s cos the mum was making him lie!! Poor kid shocking mum!!!🤬💯
That's what I was thinking, too.
You probably have no understanding of kids and liars. Im not insulting you... im just saying. It's easier to say you have kids but understanding and training, disciplining and loving them until you're alive is another. Children/ppl lie... it doesn't mean they're confused.
@JONAS-gt5nb i have 4 kids myself & understand plenty.
In this video, the judge is abusing her position. The child repeatedly said 1, then in the child position was called a liar. Changing his answer to “At least 5 times”. Then atomically the judge jumps the mom. As the child is still saying once to the other child. Blaaaa, I’m done trying to explain intimidation.
If u askkids a question more and more and act like they are lying then they will say what you want to hear so that u stop asking
Yes kids do that
Exactly and that is what the judge was doing
The mom told him to say one. You can tell from how she explained to the judge.
Exactly
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I'm glad the judge was calm and did not push the child. She allowed a child to breath. He's what like 5 years old. And in his head he does not want to be at court. He would rather playing video games. Or a sport. In stead he has no idea really what's going on. My point is let your kids be kids . The reality us as adults need to keep the Younger generation safe and always learning. Life an opportunity to learn to love to grow. Why do you think any persons grandparents are the boss. Sent with love. Thank you for hearing my options.
Judge WASNT calm . She was aggressive and intimidating.
If this mother is coaching her son to lie SHAME ON HER 😢 !!!. She will pay dearly for this in the future possibly with a child growing into a criminal. NOT WORTH IT LADY !!!.BRING YOUR CHILD UP RIGHT !!!. DON'T PUNISH HIM NOW WITH YOUR LACK OF SMARTS PLEASE.
🎉7p7😮😮😮so 😮😮
JJ, sounds like she is coaching & scaring the child
WHY is it that the boys have to check to see what the other is saying
CHILDREN SHOULD NEVER EVER HAVE TO BE PUT in a COURT OF LAW SUBJECTED TO THE EFFECT OF ANOTHER PERSON'S FUTURE BEING DAMAGED FOR LIFE
NOT ACCEPTABLE
There can be many lies, but only one TRUTH... satan's shortcoming.😇
So true
omg even his brother is coached to say once 🙄
Oh, what webs we weave when we first learn to deceive.
Is the mothers fault, she is liying for him 😢😢😢
Yes
She badgered him until he thought he had to say something else. I see him talking with his friend and holding up only one finger.
And the mother said "one day", not one time
The friend was also feeding him the line before hand pointing up one finger which is WHY they have the conversation at the end. It’s clear she spoke to both boys about their answers ahead of this
There was a reason she asked him 3 times, she new he was not telling the truth. His mother probaly coached him to lie and his brother was coached too.
She said 5 times in one day. Some elderly judges are too senile to make good judgement.
I feel like there was too much pressure on that kid
People will confess to things they didn't do when they are under pressure.
And at this time I believe she pressing him to lie.
The mom and the other little boy are pressuring him to lie.
youre an idiot to think that and are referring to unrelatable shit. the kid is not mentally handicapped and not being pressured with violence. kids dont want to lie and this grandmother knew wtf she was doing.
But Children will Change Their Answer If You Ask Them Enough Times Because They Think They Are Giving The Wrong Answer.
Judge already knew the answer and was trying to get him to tell the truth. It’s not that complicated.
Most children will. Whem he said 5 it sounds like to me he's asking a question. Judge Judy is usually right on. But not this time.
On the fence about that statement...
@@nunya257he was TOLD, prior to JJ's courtroom. By Mommy. She's on the hook for whatever he did.
The child thought about it and ran frowned thinking. The first two times, he responded like from a memorized script.
Kids is innocent, bless them
She is a badass would love her to be a judge in South Africa
These children should not be on television.
Go Judge Judy!
After he says five, you see him talking to his brother saying once. Could be she scared him so he made up a fib.
He will be the one living with his mom for his whole life!!!!! You have NO heart!
It seems to me that he went into the building once. He went into the basement of the building five times.
Exactly. Judge Judy doesn't listen. The mother says he doesn't lie. The mother only said he was only in the building one day. He could have gone into the basement 5 times in one day.
not the kids having a whole damn conversation when the parents are getting in trouble 😭
You won't have good children if the parents aren't good.
That's not true,some kids decide to be a better person than their parents or family.
Quick rundown of events: These 2 8yr old boys broke into that mans basement and destroyed his property. They broke things, spray painted walls, started up his motorcycle, scratched his car with a crowbar, filled the trunk with a bunch of his things including a blow torch, knives and etc...then told the person who caught them they planned on stealing the car. They have pics of the blonde one. The "mothers" left them unsupervised.
Edit: Full video on Judge Judy channel
8yr old boys vandalize mans shop.
LOL, i scrolled for a few minutes before i found your answer. Thank you. This should be at the top of this reply list😮😮😢😂❤🏆
The mother should be held in contempt of court for interupting the judge. While the judge was talking to her son; coaching, like she was doing, should have automatically bought her a free one way ticket for a 30 day vacation..If combative, keep adding more "vacatio" days for "Mom" to decompress and realize the wrongs of her ways..Also, those boys may need a break and some therapy as well..Hope everyone gets all the help they so need and deserve 😉 🎉
I love judge Judy! National treasure!
THE JUDGE IS SO SHARP 🎉🎉🎉🎉
F,Lock me up n put me with this man,!!!😮😢!!!
Judge is always right ! She can tell if you are a liar!
The judge is always right?? This is where everyone is doing the devils work for him. Why is a human 33 rd degree satanic mason always right?? The only one who is always right is God. You think you are doing God a service or that you are a good person in supporting a judge but you are really just helping the devil.
So true. Good lady Judge Judy
She is not God, nor is she psychic, she is however rude, egotistical and abusive of her authority.
Kids😂😂😂 always telling the true👍 99.9%
Wait why was he in the basement?
Not great parenting. Shame on her
The big brother tried to direct the little brother...
They both still so pure...
Easy to get manipulated by adults...
Kids will change the truth to a lie to appease adults, especially after they realize the truth is not the answer the adult wants. It doesn’t necessarily mean the child is lying. And the other kid telling him to say 1 doesn’t either. Kids do that. They try to help out and give the answer to little siblings all the time. Way too many people are reading _way_ too into this clip, not applying basic understanding and knowledge of children and human behavior. We don’t know if he was lying or not, that’s the answer. There’s not enough info here to know what the correct answer is. Stop jumping to baseless conclusions after watching 30 seconds of an interaction 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Took the words right out of my mouth!! Speak it!!❤🎉
Asked and answered.... Kids are smart enough to know Who has the most power in the room and saying what they want to hear will be the correct answer... There was no need to Slam the Mother in front of her Son...
you mean after the mother slammed her son in front of the judge?
Yes, there was. The mother is despicable for teaching her kids to lie. Both of the boys were lying.
Good for the little boy to hear what she was saying and take it in.