Amanda Seales talks Recent Break-Up, Relationship Standards, Dating In This New Age + More - RLS

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  • On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome back Amanda Seales to talk about her Real Love Scenario.
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  • @TheAmandaSeales
    @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +927

    Here come the, "Amanda is too masculine" comments. Yall ain't wast no time with the bullshit. 😂

    • @963lyfe8
      @963lyfe8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      You truly inspire SO MANY MILLIONS OF MELANATED WOMAN TO BE GREAT IN THIS WORLD❣️Thank you really, it doesn't say enough IMO🫂 Amanda Seales you are AMAZING💞

    • @beardedham5983
      @beardedham5983 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      its not bull-shit. If you’re a public figure, people are going make commentary for how you come off. I also said I liked you, hope thats not bullshit too? “a hit dog will holler”

    • @thaithai9559
      @thaithai9559 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      You inspire me ❤

    • @joicooper5497
      @joicooper5497 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      1:27:21 this part

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      @@beardedham5983If I call you a cornball for your statement and you do not agree you are in your right to call it bs. The constant effort to belittle me and make assertions on how I behave in a relationship based on literally ZERO experience of me in a relationship is NOT someone who likes me. Just becuz I am a public figure does not mean I have to accept any claims the "public" makes abt me. And I would a GOODT chunk of money down you didn't watch the entire intrvw. The level of ego to legit say "it's my right to talk about you" is BONKERS. MOVE AROUND.

  • @ninabeauxbina
    @ninabeauxbina 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    who's here after her club shay shay interview?

    • @TheeChristopherEsley
      @TheeChristopherEsley 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @OfficialJalenHemphill
      @OfficialJalenHemphill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me!

    • @inglewoodjet52
      @inglewoodjet52 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😎 but I've always been a fan of her.

    • @jalisehammon3323
      @jalisehammon3323 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I like the Amanda sealed Shay Shay interview. I love how Amanda expresses herself and her passion

    • @sandrafpowell
      @sandrafpowell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🖐🏾

  • @VyCityMusic
    @VyCityMusic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +375

    “I have traumas, I have behaviors that are standing in the way of my access to joy” …. Beautifully introspective .

    • @yellowisme
      @yellowisme 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thissss

  • @morelovepod
    @morelovepod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +889

    Amanda Seales is ALWAYS a master class in transparency and intuition. Often, women who are perceived as “masculine” or “difficult” or whatever the haters want to call her, are actually highly sensitive, deeply feeling, deeply loving people who just want the energy they give to be reciprocated. Sadly, most people just don’t have the emotional capacity (or capability) to show up like that and that’s what makes it hard for someone like our girl. It’s cold out there in them streets!

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      Thank you for seeing me❤

    • @beachlover9705
      @beachlover9705 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Facts!!

    • @shaunettewilliams4432
      @shaunettewilliams4432 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Facts people equate gender to behaviors way too much smh

    • @creamycazz1
      @creamycazz1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@TheAmandaSeales Thank you for making US special women feel seen. We love you sis! ♥️

    • @Nettie0924
      @Nettie0924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😅😅😅​@@shaunettewilliams4432

  • @NicoleDeniseTV
    @NicoleDeniseTV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +674

    "A revolutionary woman's love will not be won passively." 😩❤

    • @oaktree1626
      @oaktree1626 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @doublecuppin20
      @doublecuppin20 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lmao what has she done to revolutionize anything 😂

    • @rncgsu
      @rncgsu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What man wants to win her? Apparently not working.

    • @nforbes
      @nforbes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rncgsu ... me

    • @nforbes
      @nforbes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@doublecuppin20 Do you know what a revolutionary is?

  • @nphustler8102
    @nphustler8102 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +253

    “When you got mama issues, you ain’t never gonna be able to look at another woman like she’s on your team” Chile! Speak 🗣️ I think this goes for men and women with mama issues

    • @tschickel27
      @tschickel27 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It’s the same with Daddy issues

    • @neckbone4941
      @neckbone4941 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      EVER!
      BEEN THERE. HEALING THROUGH IT.

  • @NicoleDeniseTV
    @NicoleDeniseTV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1176

    "We live in a society that has not caught up to women like me." Wow...if feeling seen was a person 🙋🏾‍♀

    • @khalebkhenpinder4937
      @khalebkhenpinder4937 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      Oh u delusional too

    • @EyeRollTroll
      @EyeRollTroll 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Somebody finally said it! Amandalacians 20:24

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@EyeRollTroll😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fhiyos_2611
      @fhiyos_2611 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      The world doesn’t revolve around you

    • @KairoK
      @KairoK 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissism strikes again. Women like her are in healthy relationships up and down the globe. SHE isn't. Stay focused

  • @shinebabyshine.
    @shinebabyshine. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +421

    Bruh, her "back in the streets" announcement was brilliant! So creative and well executed

    • @taureanbelle9769
      @taureanbelle9769 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agree!!

    • @theresamccormick-dunlap8383
      @theresamccormick-dunlap8383 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Excellently done!

    • @beachlover9705
      @beachlover9705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That video was funny AF . She is literally the female Eddie with all them characters

    • @sourpatchque
      @sourpatchque 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love this because she was definitely playing into everyone saying she do too much.

  • @aaaxcity
    @aaaxcity 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +205

    I forgot how much I enjoyed certain interviews. Amanda is such a bright individual who literally carries a majority of the thoughts I’m thinking of. She’s a breath of fresh air honestly. I love that she’s unapologetically her!

    • @Foltronics
      @Foltronics 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My thoughts exactly

    • @catherinab01
      @catherinab01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exact thought!❤

    • @douluvly2010
      @douluvly2010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She will eventually apologize.

    • @browniebun
      @browniebun 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is a breath of fresh air. I hear and see myself in her, and in a way she has given me permission to be. Unapologetically.

  • @justdc3517
    @justdc3517 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    What I appreciate about Amanda is she acknowledges her own issues. People who dislike her simply don’t listen to her. She speaks about her baggage

    • @Beyloveseverybody
      @Beyloveseverybody 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like what you said 🤔

    • @jakblk
      @jakblk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Seriously? There's NOTHING unlikable about her?

    • @Beyloveseverybody
      @Beyloveseverybody 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jakblk That's your opinion, but I'm ok with her.

    • @rncgsu
      @rncgsu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@Beyloveseverybody apparently the men are not.

    • @Beyloveseverybody
      @Beyloveseverybody 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rncgsu ok

  • @rayneb.1058
    @rayneb.1058 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    "Don't add to my task." So many men I've dated have tried to misuse my talents and abilities. This is exhausting.

  • @Afak6
    @Afak6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    I’ve never felt so seen or had someone describe or name this unknown phenomenon known as “Smart Woman, Dumb Girl”. Amanda’s self awareness is so endearing. She’s such a treasure and niggas don’t even know. I hope an amazing & enduring love finds her. She deserves that and more ❤️❤️

  • @shantelleholden9182
    @shantelleholden9182 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +329

    “I have not met a man in a romantic space that like women…..they like 🐱 but they don’t “like” women”. I would wholeheartedly agree with that statement.

    • @bak3456
      @bak3456 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      They don’t see the humanity in us

    • @If_the_shoe_fits
      @If_the_shoe_fits 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly!!

    • @dob2817
      @dob2817 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      No they don't like your behavior

    • @mbembaleba
      @mbembaleba 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The woman has the P... so by association men like women. You just need to leave that attitude that makes you want to compete with men. See where Amanda is? No man...

    • @tyronewingo8653
      @tyronewingo8653 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😢sad

  • @Zuluisms
    @Zuluisms 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    them folks could never make me hate amanda. the amount of introspection and analysis she has for issues outside of her, she has even more intentional reflection for herself as well as what she deserves ♥️ she’s open to share what she’s learned in order to affirm others and help open the door to healing.

  • @iamtheholycity_mecca
    @iamtheholycity_mecca 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Amanda Seales never seizes to amaze me with her articulate, yet rugged lexicon. She is a gem. And big ups to the hosts for keeping up with her for her to express herself comfortably. Hats 👒🎩 off!

    • @Jamilah1117
      @Jamilah1117 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *ceases* not seizes

    • @wandaluyando5181
      @wandaluyando5181 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s all about the bs. Girl please! She’s an overthinker and can’t be happy. Poor thing.

    • @iamtheholycity_mecca
      @iamtheholycity_mecca 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Jamilah1117 I'm human, it didn't kill anyone

    • @iamtheholycity_mecca
      @iamtheholycity_mecca 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @wandaluyando5181 That could be the case, i respect how she expresses herself. I'm flawed like a mug, hence despite @Jamilah1117 answered with a opinion regarding what my comment said, they proceeded to only give the spotlight to my misspell. I respect the process and the discovery of learning what not to do, being better.

    • @Teeroise
      @Teeroise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@iamtheholycity_meccaseriously 😂😂 we get your point and something tells me you know the difference between the two words.

  • @michelleshava1477
    @michelleshava1477 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    12 minutes in, and I *know*, I am sending this episode to my therapist. And saying, "I am Amanda, she has articulated my experiences and my insights perfectly, so once you're done watching let's have a session."

  • @brittanyedwards8862
    @brittanyedwards8862 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    amanda seales is such a gem. say what you want but this woman is so intelligent and i’m grateful to have a black woman like this to look up to and learn from.

  • @Cancerlove30
    @Cancerlove30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    When Amanda, said men don’t like women, I felt affirmed. As a black woman I’m faced with this reality of vitriol from black men, and I’m left dismayed and appalled every time.

    • @1love847
      @1love847 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      I'm so sorry to hear that. I've had some very kind, considerate and loyal men. They exist. Just too far and few between apparently.

    • @KairoK
      @KairoK 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She don't seem to like men either. Black women are marrying black men every day. The fact that YOU are having such issues may just be tied to YOU. Black men can't be the issue everytime things don't go your way

    • @jenz_world
      @jenz_world 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I feel the same and we just gotta remain hopeful 😩🤞🏽

    • @1love847
      @1love847 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@jenz_world we just have to always prioritize the longest and most important relationship in our lifetime which is the one with ourselves.

    • @benisturning30
      @benisturning30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That sounds bitter.

  • @kumosunfilteredconvospodca9615
    @kumosunfilteredconvospodca9615 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    This made me cry😭I’m in my early 30’s and I’ve been rocking with Amanda since 2017 and I’m constantly inspired by her and empowered by her and how vulnerable she is.The part about society not being ready for a woman like her hit hard and also the part about men not liking women…tore me up😭So many gems and healing moments in this episode!Thank you Amanda for being pro Palestine and for being so vulnerable.

    • @Tee-kc3pn
      @Tee-kc3pn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amanda is set in her ways at 42 and less likely to take an introspective look at herself......unfortunately Amanda will be single off and on until she's 50ish then she'll just be single forever.......she don't understand the opposite sex AT ALL...... you're only 30, you still have time to work on yourself.....understand that men are not all the same

  • @moniquemichelle7295
    @moniquemichelle7295 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    “Meet somebody in the maintenance level of thier healing”. PHEWWWWWWW. 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤❤
    I don’t watch relationship podcasts, but this was a treat! Amanda is amazing. Thank you!

    • @chanpods
      @chanpods 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes I truly enjoyed it

  • @dreamsofjasmine3085
    @dreamsofjasmine3085 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    Shoutout to Amanda’s outfit. 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

    • @grownfolksperspectives
      @grownfolksperspectives 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      YESSSSSS! Way to represent!

    • @Teeroise
      @Teeroise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Now the outfit makes sense. I was wondering what is she wearing

    • @hailie_Selassie
      @hailie_Selassie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @msteaguer1908
    @msteaguer1908 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Dre, I can relate regarding having parents that divorced BUT remained friends until my Mama's death in 1995. My Daddy stated after they rolled her casket out, "There goes my best friend." They talked on the phone about me, they laughed and reminisced. I didn't know you're supposed to be angry with a person after breakup as it wasn't shown by my parents.

  • @L__boogie
    @L__boogie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    A revolutionary woman’s love will not be won passively. I don’t exist in this world passively, so do not come at me passively. And don’t give me another task. Barsssss!!!

    • @nubian77
      @nubian77 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ❤️🔥 loved this

    • @mikeray9933
      @mikeray9933 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Modern women like Seales are far from revolutionary😂😂 delusion is rampant with modern women​@@nubian77

    • @valery5900
      @valery5900 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Barssss for real‼️

  • @aisharedux781
    @aisharedux781 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Wow! What she’s saying is so on the money! That adversarial energy! Even with some of my closest male friends. I found myself saying to them “I am not your enemy” one too many times until I realized that they were set in that default energy and I just needed to EXIT entirely.

  • @jahjah1769
    @jahjah1769 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    I understand being in a relationship with someone who doesn't like you as a person. It is very strange and sad when you finally realize a man can get very close to you and not like you at all. It's scary to think you give your mind, body, and emotions to this person with the delusion that they like you.

    • @baddestjoanna-michellesmit5578
      @baddestjoanna-michellesmit5578 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ❤ girl ...... It hurts.

    • @taureanbelle9769
      @taureanbelle9769 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      As do I. The very thing they proclaimed to admire about you, they start to negativity chip away at it in slow motion, once your guard is down.

    • @AkoAdanna
      @AkoAdanna 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This sums up my marriage!!

    • @DrCJR4
      @DrCJR4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Facts! This resonated with me

    • @mimibennett8404
      @mimibennett8404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True. It has happened to me.

  • @mrlighthou5e796
    @mrlighthou5e796 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The Palestinian Drip is Legendary. She was My TA in African American studies in college. She’s been the same person the whole time. Legend.

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Ayyyyyeee!!!! ✊🏽❤️

  • @FocalPointElisa
    @FocalPointElisa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    The ability to swiftly end things that are "not for us" and not feel guilty... It's rough.
    Especially for those neglect and abandonment wounds.
    *To add: Society also fosters insecure attachments. Understanding that is a "game changer".

    • @JB4C89
      @JB4C89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yesssss 😭😭😭

    • @shillilove
      @shillilove 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is so true. Well put 👍

  • @L__boogie
    @L__boogie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    I absolutely love Amanda and her transparent honesty. 💙 U a real one, girl 👌🏾 Top tier. Holding people accountable is heavy.

    • @L__boogie
      @L__boogie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      …and I’m only 20 min in 😩🤣

    • @teresajackson3806
      @teresajackson3806 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She a Cancer it’s what we do, too honest if anything 😅

    • @lifeisbeautiful9455
      @lifeisbeautiful9455 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@teresajackson3806 Girl say that 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @TheSpaceInBetweenChannel
      @TheSpaceInBetweenChannel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The two ladies sleeping on dude dropping truth bombs (@ 1h:26m/1h:27m) >> “accomplished” men of today DO feel like they’re the catch and that women should court them. They/women may not like to hear it, but that’s the reality of today. And that distance between the high/low men is a huge gap.
      But overall, dating today in general is just… wild, over complicated and combative. 🫤

    • @TheSpaceInBetweenChannel
      @TheSpaceInBetweenChannel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LAWD - @ the mark of the last 10min (1hr:38m) she starts talking about she knows too many men that don’t like women (they like P🤭ssy), but not women. LAWD- that part!!

  • @UpdatedView
    @UpdatedView 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    If marriage is the ultimate goal for most relationships, I’m going to make an unpopular statement. As a married man, I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Everyone isn’t cut out for marriage regardless of gender. It takes an exceptional person to get married and remain successfully married. The marriage and divorce rate numbers are accurate and it takes a special person to indefinitely pair-bond with another person. I pray for the best outcome for everyone. Honestly, there are some great people out there, but they are not great for marriage. God bless 🙏🏾

    • @KLB1218
      @KLB1218 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow! Thank you for sharing your perspective!! People need it

    • @wandaluyando5181
      @wandaluyando5181 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So true. I’m 33 years in. We have good and bad times. Being respectful and acceptance good and bad is an absolute in a marriage. If you cannot accept that in a person, keep moving. Amanda clearly does not want to deal with a man’s traumas and I get it, but let’s get real, she’s all over the place and she takes everything to heart. She is extremely sensitive and speaks on everything. Not saying she should shut up since she has the right to speak, but my god she could drive someone crazy. Is she ever just happy about something. It must feel exhausting just wanting for things to change in society No one wants to hear constant complaints. Man or woman.

    • @thebolb
      @thebolb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Replace marriage with a healthy relationship - everyone deserves that.
      JUST BE NICE. That's all....pick your battles.
      She fights them all, and it pains her to be nice.

    • @sjg5994
      @sjg5994 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're not, but yet wanna "stick and roll" constantly which makes them even more worse for marriage and then worse for a regular relationship. The ignorance has to stop and individuals need to keep their legs closed and open their minds.

    • @Teeroise
      @Teeroise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly I follow her on Instagram and I could tell he wasn't her equal. I can tell from her post that he didn't bring much to the relationship. I'm glad she let him go. Its ok to be single and unmarried. She shouldn't have to make herself small to accommodate a basic dude. She is 100% the prize ❤

  • @ktaylor5047
    @ktaylor5047 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    So hurtful when you realized they never really liked you. I can relate to Amandas' experiences in many ways.

  • @echakamonjok
    @echakamonjok 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I genuinely pray that love finds Amanda. She deserves. And I pray that she’s just really really open to love. There are great men out there and I hope she meets one amazing man that loves, and cherish her forever.

  • @Myselfandme3
    @Myselfandme3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Amanda is so real, raw and well spoken with it all the time. I love her

  • @user-ir6dp9lj5d
    @user-ir6dp9lj5d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Amanda is such a entertaining character and I appreciate her candor.

  • @stikkinixx
    @stikkinixx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    When men say they like me because I challenge them, that is a 🚩 Not a deal breaker, but my eyes are wide open. A lot of people who say that are actually saying "I see *you* as a challenge that I want to conquer. This will be fun. Game on." They aren't interested in learning from you and becoming a team with you, you are the opposing team and they want to break you down and dominate you.

    • @floydphillipsco
      @floydphillipsco 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man here. The guys that are saying that to you, are only saying that because they think that's what you want to hear. No man wants a woman who "challenges" them. We want a woman who inspires us... Unfortunately, black women (most American women) live in delusion, so men play along to get what they want from her... If a man says you "challenge" him, eventually he's gonna grow annoyed of your challenges, and he will check out, and seek an inspiring women...

    • @Corts_World
      @Corts_World 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow. I never saw it like that. Great perspective.

    • @Hidden2u
      @Hidden2u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow! This!

    • @floydphillipsco
      @floydphillipsco 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No man desires a woman that challenges him, we desire women who inspire us. That's your role as the helpmate on the team.
      This is why women like AS can't keep a man, she's too challenging, to the point where it's received as competition, disrespectful. And no man will compete with a woman, we'd rather just leave which is why AS can't keep a man. She's likely always debating him, cutting him off mid-sentence, questioning even the basic of requests that he makes, and always rolling her eyes when he shares his perspective while telling him he's wrong. That's AS all day, and that's why she can't keep a man... And y'all are taking her advice smh Good luck with that...

    • @nadjak3410
      @nadjak3410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly! Immediately got the ick when she told that story.

  • @OHMYPUMKINPIE
    @OHMYPUMKINPIE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    She is so special and clear in her intensions to provide ppl knowledge, joy, and laughter while she is speaking her truth and sharing her stories and yet ppl treat her with disrespect and disregard. I wish the clowns that talk smack would really think how hard it is to be honest and transparent in your life and put in the work to reflect instead of throwing commentary her way. We are lucky that she does all of this. She deserves better; and respect her journey and how she choses to share it with us.

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you so much for this kindness. They truly have No idea.

    • @OHMYPUMKINPIE
      @OHMYPUMKINPIE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I see you, and thank you@@TheAmandaSeales

  • @Veronicababe
    @Veronicababe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Amanda was preaching from beginning to end.

    • @rncgsu
      @rncgsu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Preaching how to be single for the rest of her life. At least she can afford to die alone.

  • @anonymousone9699
    @anonymousone9699 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I would love to watch Amanda and Kimberly from “for Harriet” talk about life, and the state of geopolitics, and just chill. Both are just so amazing and powerful and thoughtful.

    • @dannikats4995
      @dannikats4995 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes please!!!!

  • @maeg4268
    @maeg4268 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    We ALL need to stop calling Black men n-s and Black women b-s ASAP. It's just disrespectful. We have to use loving words for and about each other in order to give and receive love from one another. 😊

  • @liljay0687
    @liljay0687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I did not see this skit when Amanda posted it but it was HILARIOUS! Just genius honestly!

  • @Raheluwa
    @Raheluwa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    This is intelligent. I am growing my brain cells.

    • @al-nisa2927
      @al-nisa2927 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It's the Amanda Seales effect.

    • @chanpods
      @chanpods 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      okayyyyyy she made me think about so much.

  • @EricaLivingLife
    @EricaLivingLife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    🤣I told my sister that last week. "Your genitals don't make you a leader"! Play to your strengths... it's about partnership.

    • @mell6481
      @mell6481 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@j.jha-gnessaaudena615 🤣SMH

    • @darlenesaldana6665
      @darlenesaldana6665 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is a good one😅

  • @marie3161
    @marie3161 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I've learned that if you are head over heels for him from the jump, he is not what you want. He is going to sense you are sprung and he can't resist taking advantage. Get involved with someone you kind of like, it stands a much better chance of working.

    • @kareningram3556
      @kareningram3556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I Agree. A friends mom told me It’s Not Who You Love, But Who Loves You! It went over my head when I was in my 20’s and even 30’s, but when it registered I knew she was sharing true wisdom. ✨

  • @tshidig
    @tshidig 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I really love and respect Amanda's willingness to stay brave and vulnerable in uncomfortable and heartfelt conversations. Just love that about her. She shows up fully.

  • @TreneaSays
    @TreneaSays 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I absolutely loved this conversation. I agree with Amanda, be intentional or go away at this stage in my life.

  • @simaraaskew
    @simaraaskew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    she hit the nail on the head towards the end, dating today feels like people love to play games in hopes of winning someone or seeing where they can go/what they can get out of someone instead of just being real. and when you're upfront and honest about what you want & how you feel, they no longer wanna play the game bc now it's "too much". so tragic 😪

  • @GlambitiousNetwork
    @GlambitiousNetwork 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I’m such a fan of Amanda! This was a great discussion.

  • @raquelm.4152
    @raquelm.4152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I love Amanda!! Feels like she and I dated the SAME man, went through a very similar experience, and learned the same lessons! There's a reckoning happening... Men need to evolve because women are waking up and not tolerating the poor behaviour that a lot of men today demonstrate.
    Great interview!

    • @Wade178
      @Wade178 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      probably did date the same men tbh

    • @raquelm.4152
      @raquelm.4152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't even live in the same country as her@@Wade178

  • @aaishamirza5136
    @aaishamirza5136 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I trust Amanda Seales so much. She's a real one. So smart and honest...so much depth, vulnerability, and warmth. Loved this episode.

  • @UZIMADanceFitness
    @UZIMADanceFitness 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I have been a fan for a while now, but THIS episode is just...***Chef's Kiss*** I am forwarding this to everyone I know. Great episode!

  • @BlairWaldorf2013
    @BlairWaldorf2013 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I think it’s *time* for women to understand, the system has told men that they are *ENTITLED* to treating women the way they internally feel the system at large is treating *THEM* like an afterthought 🤷🏽‍♀️
    As long as the woman maintains her ‘place’ then the man can feel like he has some power in his life.
    That’s why so many of them are all over the internets acting up and out because women no longer even want to be *bothered* so that means they don’t have anyone to take their frustration out on.
    Also, in a particular community *survival* is always paramount and therefore even romantic partnerships become a zero sum game. That’s why the man used the host’s vulnerability against her because in our community it’s *always* about who can win in most men’s minds because they’re not ‘winning’ in society at large.

    • @MsMizz1
      @MsMizz1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ☝🏾this the one. Something I already understood but based on how this was said I now overstand.

    • @nicolejames3054
      @nicolejames3054 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is absolute Truth.and especially with black men. We need healing as a black community, not saying it stems from white supremacy but it's a contributing factor as well.

  • @caramelmosaicmosaic7940
    @caramelmosaicmosaic7940 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Love the conversations around trust and having a safe space/person to share that with.
    I’ve learned to share my trauma experience(if ever) later in the relationship for the purpose of bonding… sharing trauma early on in my opinion gives some people a playbook to trigger us or be as they think you want them to be, rather than them just being who they are.

  • @q.bea_
    @q.bea_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    It's always a pleasure listening to Amanda

  • @saridawriting
    @saridawriting 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Thanks for coming through Amanda! Thank you for hosting R | R!

  • @scrubypruitt1939
    @scrubypruitt1939 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Ooooh...My God, I'm only half way through this but I GET this. We're ALL trying to unlearn cultural and societal conditioning that talks us out of being our true selves in order to be accepted. I am a 50+ Black women who is hopeful about finding love but finding satisfaction in being single. Thank you for this interview.

    • @mimibennett8404
      @mimibennett8404 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m in the same space, too. I desire a long-term relationship, but I will live a full life, with or without a man.

  • @azyurentertainment1496
    @azyurentertainment1496 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "How do you know when it's truly a safe space?"
    SUCH a great and valid question...

    • @nadjak3410
      @nadjak3410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With other human beings there's never such a thing as a definite safe space. Relating to other people and opening up is always a risk.

  • @dopenerds227
    @dopenerds227 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Amanda, Thank you for your transparency. Completely relate to "Smart woman, dumb girl."
    You have no idea how much you’ve freed me.

  • @TheWritingsonthewalls
    @TheWritingsonthewalls 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This conversation was soo refreshing and introspective! Absolutely loved to hear it! Amanda You should write a book about approaching relationships today as a perpetually healing being.

  • @Lemorgg
    @Lemorgg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Amanda STAY dropping gems 💎 can’t wait to run it back

  • @abcdefghijklmnop_861
    @abcdefghijklmnop_861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    First time watching! Loved it so much! You kept me company today while I was running errands, dinner and bed time! Thank you! It was such a great episode ! Thank you for the company! 🥰

  • @mizzhelloo
    @mizzhelloo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love her so much. She’s so great.
    Found her in middle school & now out of grad school and STILL love her. 😭❤️

  • @jg1luvm3
    @jg1luvm3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This is so appreciated. Thanks to Amanda for her transparency and humor. Great episode. Thank you all 💙

  • @MsIcollins
    @MsIcollins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Everything she’s said just in the 20 min I can relate too 10000% at this very moment . It’s so pro found an appreciated to hear a strong women be honest with herself an hold herself accountable. Thank you 🙏🏽 Amanda ❤❤

  • @TooMuchRamshackle
    @TooMuchRamshackle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This was sooo nourishing and helpful and growing. The chemistry between you three was so lovely. I watched the first episode when it first came out (I’m a huge Amanda Seales fan), and I am glad I watched this one too. As someone who almost lost the use of my heart but is still out here trying, I appreciate all of the wisdom, vulnerability, and fruitful reminders that this episode contained. Love to you all.

  • @alltoosiimple
    @alltoosiimple 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I needed this interview. I needed this comment section. Its all reassurance to what I'm feeling right now

  • @Lunastrela
    @Lunastrela 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I could resonate with everything you said. You actually put words to some of my thoughts. Thanks for being so candid, Amanda.

  • @GratitudeGriot
    @GratitudeGriot 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    36:18 i dont often pay attention to ppl's relationships but this is what was disappointing about Amanda, 's breakup. outside looking in, it looked like she finally connected with a man who appreciated all of the dynamic aspects of her personality. he didn't seem threatened by her intelligence, success, or activism. they worked through their loss, stayed together, and then this happened. 💔 prayers for lasting love 🙌🏾hope for her and all the dope black women like her (myself included)

    • @TheIslandNutritionist
      @TheIslandNutritionist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@TheAmandaSeales. “From the outside looking in” it did look like you found your person is what she was saying…i had the same perception also.

    • @rissilient85
      @rissilient85 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @ritaree123
      @ritaree123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤

  • @jenz_world
    @jenz_world 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This was SUCH a great interview!! Everything she stated is exactly on point and very helpful for me in my journey.

  • @puddin12dt
    @puddin12dt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    ❤ Loved this convo. Congrats on the new book deal Amanda!!! 🎉🥳 Loved your last one. Can’t wait to read it!

  • @KarenPalmer-py7qn
    @KarenPalmer-py7qn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for your honesty Amanda. I learned a lot from this. We all have work to do. Relationships are very hard, they teach us a lot about our self, and no matter how smart, successful, wealthy, beautiful, whatever….no one can escape this.

  • @dBarb1999
    @dBarb1999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s absolute bananas how I’m 49 and Amanda is 42 and I have had the exact same interactions with men.

    • @couleuredgirl6314
      @couleuredgirl6314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are in the same generation! Also, this has been going on forever. Has nothing to do with generational groups. 😊

  • @Yaboogz09
    @Yaboogz09 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is my first time hearing an Amanda Seales interview and my God it’s refreshing, her assessments are so spot on, love the transparency and self insight about abandonment issues and traumas.. Just super dope! Thank you for YOU Amanda Seales 🙌🏾🫶🏾💯

  • @alw4eva
    @alw4eva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The skit she did to announce her being single was soooooooooooooo funny to me. I just love her!!

  • @tajahcortez7465
    @tajahcortez7465 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Amazing how honest you are Amanda ❤❤❤
    U helped me Fr …. I thank you from the bottom of my heart 💜..

  • @UZIMADanceFitness
    @UZIMADanceFitness 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Amanda got me in here HOLLERIN!! PREACH PLEASE!

  • @YoungRichRooted
    @YoungRichRooted 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was such a powerful conversation. I hope this level of transparency, reflection, and vulnerability is fully appreciated because it can help both men AND women.

  • @bilalmotley3699
    @bilalmotley3699 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Fantastic episode. @theamandaseales is not only an amazing artist but also a remarkable person. She's a true force. It was great that the hosts allowed her to fully express herself without interruptions. Great job! This podcast just gained a new follower.

  • @RaesChannel88
    @RaesChannel88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I can completely relate to what she is saying. I feel her pain, I think maybe it's best for me to stay single. Just because I don't want to have to shrink just to make a man feel seen. I naturally operate out of my masculine side as well.

    • @lifeisbeautiful9455
      @lifeisbeautiful9455 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same… I feel like my own men are always in competition with me… even ones that are spoken for and they feel they know everything just because they are a man. I know not all black men are like this but I never experienced competition with Caucasian and Latino men, trying to control me or rule over me,
      they were always so supportive and wanted to see me win and wanted to learn from me and I learned from them. The black guys who wanted to date me it was always because of something I possessed that they wanted that they felt could make their life easy. They were opportunist and saw me as an opportunity to get what they want but I recognize it and shit it down from day one.
      Always trying to rush to get me in bed, talking about babies and wanting me to be the man, their mother, provider and protector. These guys were older than me but everything was my resources and sex. They mad bad choices in women and wanted me to fix it. Or if their significant other wasn’t giving them six they wanted to try and get it from me. Unbelievable!

  • @itaylor120490
    @itaylor120490 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Amanda is everything!! Love her down! ❤ I got a lot of nuggets from this.

  • @sixtyblackmystictraveler
    @sixtyblackmystictraveler 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such truth in your words. You are saying what I am experiencing this clarity on relationships with men. I have continued to outgrow until arriving here now. Such freedom of the relationship wound. ❤❤❤

  • @nanaobben5166
    @nanaobben5166 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS - such an easy watch...though it's late and I'm sleepy. Amanda always gets my attention!! Great, relatable conversation.😘

  • @staylor3028
    @staylor3028 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Loved every second of this conversation! 👏🏾

  • @austinjarrettltd.4321
    @austinjarrettltd.4321 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great interview: I enjoyed hearing everyone’s authenticity especially Amanda’s.

  • @SahLenceTV
    @SahLenceTV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This interview was just... wow. Insightful, intelligent, articulate, moving... All the things. I wish it was a longer conversation. Definitely hope she's back on again. I love her passion and simultaneously her ability to be objective yet still vulnerable. Some people are hell bent on misunderstanding her simply because she is bold and unapologetic and still acts with integrity in spite of fear, but these are some of the very things that make Amanda such a gem. Excellent interview.

  • @michellegilford6225
    @michellegilford6225 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was Freeing!! Thank you for being a Confirmation! 🙏🏾

  • @KJBrewer
    @KJBrewer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember "the reel" and it was freakin brilliant..and prophetic? Cause ppl did EXACTLY those things, smh.
    Love you, Amanda! Great pod episode. Praying your continuing healing, peace, and joy.

  • @MsHJones
    @MsHJones 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    GREAT conversation!! CONGRATULATIONS on the new book deal!

  • @DonzieCreates
    @DonzieCreates 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truly enjoyed this interview , didn’t even feel like 90 mins . Amanda speaks to my soul.

  • @olisarachele8632
    @olisarachele8632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally the tea! I love it! I've been needing and wanting to know what happened with her relationship and her honesty is refreshing and everything I needed to hear as we continue to work on not having a dumb heart and work on our self esteem issues! Much love Amanda! You are such a Queen! ❤❤❤

  • @swatts888
    @swatts888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    So many gems in this podcast. Especially the last part about Black men making it a priority to get therapy and figure out their stuff. We could be so further along. Sigh. Thank you all of you for sharing!

  • @MG-eo3cv
    @MG-eo3cv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Absolutely loved this interview/sessh lol
    I had to pull out brain cells I have tucked away (intentionally most times😅) & be present for this convo.I did have an 'aha' moment & question for Amanda (mostly) & the panel, do you find it that folks that are balanced on an androgynous scale have/will have the most challenges when finding a lifetime partner? N for the record, my vocab is basic lmao. I took an adrogynous quiz in a health class in college a long time ago that elevated my understanding of self. Thanks for sharing!

  • @LP-no3dp
    @LP-no3dp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I have only watched this podcast with Amanda as a guest. This couple is doing great work and I think they should have Amanda on every season. Great, enlightening and thought provoking conversations.

  • @kareningram3556
    @kareningram3556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This dialogue kept me so interested the entire way through. It was refreshing in every sense. Well done ✨

  • @MaxineShaw_84
    @MaxineShaw_84 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    1:40:28 💯 Yes, our ancestral experiences & DNA play a huge part in the chasm between Black men & Black women... _AND_ it's also true that a lot of folks really just don't be friends. Close friendship before becoming partners is all I knew until my mid 30s when I started "dating from scratch." Then I started seeing all the games, ghosting, and goofiness people complain about. Love is always a gamble, but it's much harder to disrespect, disregard, and betray someone you consider a true friend.

  • @ketket0725
    @ketket0725 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is a wonderful episode

  • @thethreeladiespodcast
    @thethreeladiespodcast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Good conversation, thanks! Amanda we rock with you regardless ❤

  • @thesmartvideogirl
    @thesmartvideogirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great interview. I have a growing regard for Amanda. She spoke my mind on so many topics. I need to watch this again and take notes!

  • @caetechclub
    @caetechclub 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I honestly just love Amanda! She is so incredibly self aware, transparent, and well versed. It’s rare to hear anyone’s minimally filtered opinions in this day and age.

  • @bettyburr5427
    @bettyburr5427 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love Amanda! Say it like you mean it Sis! Give Amanda her flowers she's been in the game 30yrs. My girl is 🔥🔥

    • @DShay-kz9fb
      @DShay-kz9fb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right!!!!! Way back since she was Amanda Diva…..she is such a friend in my head ❤

  • @ericdowdley523
    @ericdowdley523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is an incredible interview. Very open, honest and transparent. I commend her for having the courage to share. It also lets me know that the communication gap between men and women is vast..

  • @tinikafails1889
    @tinikafails1889 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Now that was a great show!!! That was for the culture....fo real!!!! Love Amanda, Love Dre and Rhonda!! 10's across the board🥰