I always felt a little jealous of my sister for coming out first because she could at least trick herself into believing our mom would be accepting. I don't really have that option anymore after seeing how she treated my sister. But on the other side I feel guilty letting her go through that alone.
I'm sitting here, Lying in my bed in the middle of the afternoon, Listening to this and crying... Man I wish I had a sister like this, Or even anyone this supportive in my real life...
Almost my entire family has the same view of “Trans and queers are accepted, but just not as family” so it feels almost like I’m not actually apart of the family as a whole, but at least I can try and be the supportive big sister to my sister and all my cousins. Fantastic job on the audio by the way, it was really, really well done!💜
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it. I'm glad you can be the supportive older on in your family and give the others that safe space they deserve 💜
Being the oldest in my house, I've always wanted an older sister. I cant have the real thing but I really appreciate you putting this out so I can at least get the experience! thanks for the great video, spooky!
My dad wasn't happy when I told him. Pretty much the same situation, too... found girl's clothing in my room. I guess that's a pretty common way for people to find out. But I lost my home because of it, so that was a fun event. I don't really have any other family, so that was quite a blow to my happiness. Even though you're a stranger on the internet, it's nice to hear you say kind things regardless. I don't have a whole lot left to keep me going except for my friends now, so even if this sounds like I'm fishing for pity, I just don't care anymore. I initially started listening to your videos just to get me through last month. But I didn't expect something to hit so close to home. But it's very kind of you... so thanks.
I'm sorry that this brought up those events, but I'm glad this was able to be something to give you comfort. Regardless of me being a stranger on the internet, I want you to know that I love you and I see you for who you are. You're precious, and I know you'll be okay. You have your friends, and maybe reaching out to more people online to befriend will make your support system stronger. I hope you have a good day/night sweetheart. 💜💜
I'm sorry that happened to you. I want you to know that you're not alone in this situation, lots of trans people have also gone though that. Just remember to hold onto your hope and never forget that even if we are strangers on the internet, we care about you.
@Turt1eShark ASMR You're the person who wrote this one, right? I wanted to thank you for making it... well, I don't really know the word Im looking for, but it was very comforting. I've listened to a few other videos that are meant to calm people feeling dysphoric, but they oftentimes go to a sexual area that I'm not comfortable with. This one didn't mention that a single time and I greatly appreciate it. I'm sure some people struggle with that sort of thing, but my transitioning has nothing to do with arousal and it's very disconcerting suddenly hearing a calming voice talk about something I'm very disinterested in. So I was able to relax the entire way through, that's my main point. Thank you so much for the considerate script. 🩵🤍
My sister outed and abused me over this. The rest of my family stood by their decision to do so. This is bringing up emotions that I wish I could have had all this time ago.
Hey, I’m a transgender Hispanic Male to Female, And I live in a house hold where my own family doesn’t support me and I can’t wear the stuff I want to wear and they don’t allow me to change my name. my sister doesn’t even support me and it makes me more depressed. This video really made my day.
@@yeah1326 I understand where you’re coming from, but as long as trans people don’t affect you (and if you know a trans person irl who’s trying to hurt you, then that’s different) you should treat them the way you want to be treated. Learning to tolerate things you don’t like is part of maturing, and it seems you haven’t gotten there just yet.
@@yeah1326 I mean if you're sso confident I'm gonna need a source on that, from what I can tell this lovely is definetly a girl mate, but keep believing in the fake words of a dude in the clouds
I don't talk to my sister often since she's 7 years older and lives far but hearing "little sister" in this feels amazing. My family is supportive, I'm not entirely sure on my dad, but knowing my sister is gives me a lot of hope
I think this is very comforting, i've watched both versions and I think it could help a lot of people who relate to this situatiation, im not trans but i cried to this audio, I found it sweet and very comforting to listen.
My (younger) sister was the first person in real life that I came out to, and I wish she was more like this, instead of acting like she forgot ever since. I just want my family to acknowledge all of me, rather than just the part they want to. 😮💨
I am so sorry you have to go through this. Just know that you are still valid, the reactions from others don't define you. I wished I could do more then just tell you stuff you already know *hug* I hope things will get better for you
Thank you for this. Living in this alternative world is helping me deal with my sister's bad reaction. My sister used to be the person I trusted most. However, after I told her about me in an email and made a suicide attempt a bit after that, I was dragged to a Republican convention where I sat next to her. She gave a standing ovation to a statement by Marjorie Taylor Greene that was genocidal towards transgender people. I realized I don't really have a family in that moment. Your video is helping me deal with that crap, so thank you. :)
My eyes are a waterfall after you said "I accept you for you." I wish I had an older sibling let alone sister at all.. I would do so much for one... The nearest person I have is my 13yo cousin who I haven't come out to yet. She's 6 years younger than me and I just definitely don't feel comfortable going to her about things besides just coming out..
This audio hits deep... I'm so scared of saying anything to anyone but sometimes it hurts so much. Anyways this audio is great, I can't have enough of it
I believe the consequences of that are always more positive than negative. Family can sometimes be difficult but the experience of me and my peers is usually that siblings are making a strong effort to be accepting, even if they don't understand or even believe it to be true. Either way, it usually helps you get a burden off your chest if you tend to worry a lot about what other people _might_ say. Your family wants you to be happy, you don't owe it to them to achieve that happiness in the exact way they'd imagine it for you. Best of luck on your journey, don't be afraid standing up for who you are and know that there are always people around you who love you, and whose life is better off with you in it.
This hits a bit too close to home haha. Although I was the one to come to her. Although she wasn’t the oldest sibling lol. Just… *sigh* it’s a lot of work coming out to yourself. Edit: the part where it talks about how it is fine to take some time to figure it out for yourself. Honestly this really helps, I vented a little bit in an online space and talked about how I haven’t really been sure for a long time even though I’ve had a feeling since I was younger. And someone straight up said that if you haven’t always known then you shouldn’t transition. And that just hurt…
This is beautiful, I’m trans and this made me almost cry. Thanku sooo much for making this❤❤❤ (Also, do you have a podcast? If not you should totally start one, your voice is amazing
I do, but it is completely different from this type of stuff I do here. But I do have ideas to maybe start a podcast for this channel and make it more of a motivational type of audios.
God I wish my coming out experience had been like this. Instead I got my parents just interrogating me asking me questions I wasn’t ready to answer only for them to completely ignore my identity once they were done. Sorry this is a little bit of a vent
I wish my sister was like this instead of when I talk about trans issues (testing the water) she asks if I’ve heard of Matt Walsh and that he is “based” but I’m pretty sure she doesn’t get it so maybe if I keep testing the water and keep explaining that’s she’d support me and ide be safe to come out.
I came to this video because I doom scrolled some anti trans comments for a bit too long before going to bed and I really needed something like this and it’s really helped so thank you
@DiamondZo-E I'm happy this video helped you. Just know I care about you hun, you're doing amazing, and I hope you know my channel and comment sections are safe spaces. I hope you have a good night 💜
I hope you're relatively okay... it's different with parents, but if your sibling says something insensitive to you, I suggest framing how it upsets you by saying that a friend of yours is trans, and you support them. Pretending to be a cis ally can be a good way to convince others to be more compassionate to you in the future without showing your vulnerability.
I think my sister is becoming more accepting of trans people I had a really open talk with her the other day so progress is being made, thanks for being so sweet everyone (still haven’t come out tho.) Love y’all
I recently got forced to break up with my boyfriend because his dad was transphobic so I have now had to resort back to these audios just to make me feel better. 😢
@@SpookyScaryASMR nonono don't be sorry, it's happy tears cus it's like I know someone in the world like this is out there and would treat me and like newly trans people with kindness and not like just being mean to me and trying to invalidate. It's just a beautiful beautiful beautiful audio and I love that it's long and kind and compassionate and just bshsbehebgh 💙💙💙💙 gosh thank you so so much
@catsupempire3920 Oh sweetheart 💜🫂 there's definitely people like this out there. You'll find them and feel so at peace when you do. Just know my channel is always a safe space if you need an escape from the world. 💜
Try bringing up gender issues around them and see how they react. I did that with my mother. Unfortunately for me, all I learned is that I probably shouldn't come out to her any time soon. She has some very outdated views about trans folk that would be considered very transphobic in the modern world.
@@Zyk0thmy grandparents used to be like that and it took me let’s just say having an incident with a car for them to realise there’s stuff more important lol
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Ma'am your daughter has hated you ever since she came out and now gets affirmation from strangers on the internet.
I always felt a little jealous of my sister for coming out first because she could at least trick herself into believing our mom would be accepting. I don't really have that option anymore after seeing how she treated my sister. But on the other side I feel guilty letting her go through that alone.
I’m sorry to hear that
I'm sitting here, Lying in my bed in the middle of the afternoon, Listening to this and crying... Man I wish I had a sister like this, Or even anyone this supportive in my real life...
Don't we all ?
Same :( I don’t have a older sibling
Started transitioning 7 months ago, wish I had a sister like this. This comforts my soul, hope you make more content like this. Thank you!
Almost my entire family has the same view of “Trans and queers are accepted, but just not as family” so it feels almost like I’m not actually apart of the family as a whole, but at least I can try and be the supportive big sister to my sister and all my cousins. Fantastic job on the audio by the way, it was really, really well done!💜
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it. I'm glad you can be the supportive older on in your family and give the others that safe space they deserve 💜
Being the oldest in my house, I've always wanted an older sister. I cant have the real thing but I really appreciate you putting this out so I can at least get the experience! thanks for the great video, spooky!
As another oldest sibling, I definitely understand this completely. I'm glad I can give you comfort something like this. 💜
Why do I love this so much? I can't stop watching it. Still cis tho, obviously.
Girl same, still cis totally only started hrt to look more feminine to get with more women 100% no other reason 😃
Are you sure? I watched Moon Silk's similar video a couple years ago, and that video was what made me realize I wasn't cis.
My dad wasn't happy when I told him. Pretty much the same situation, too... found girl's clothing in my room. I guess that's a pretty common way for people to find out. But I lost my home because of it, so that was a fun event. I don't really have any other family, so that was quite a blow to my happiness. Even though you're a stranger on the internet, it's nice to hear you say kind things regardless.
I don't have a whole lot left to keep me going except for my friends now, so even if this sounds like I'm fishing for pity, I just don't care anymore. I initially started listening to your videos just to get me through last month. But I didn't expect something to hit so close to home. But it's very kind of you... so thanks.
I'm sorry that this brought up those events, but I'm glad this was able to be something to give you comfort. Regardless of me being a stranger on the internet, I want you to know that I love you and I see you for who you are. You're precious, and I know you'll be okay. You have your friends, and maybe reaching out to more people online to befriend will make your support system stronger. I hope you have a good day/night sweetheart. 💜💜
Thank you... it means a lot to hear somebody say that. 🩵
I'm sorry that happened to you. I want you to know that you're not alone in this situation, lots of trans people have also gone though that. Just remember to hold onto your hope and never forget that even if we are strangers on the internet, we care about you.
@Turt1eShark ASMR You're the person who wrote this one, right? I wanted to thank you for making it... well, I don't really know the word Im looking for, but it was very comforting. I've listened to a few other videos that are meant to calm people feeling dysphoric, but they oftentimes go to a sexual area that I'm not comfortable with. This one didn't mention that a single time and I greatly appreciate it. I'm sure some people struggle with that sort of thing, but my transitioning has nothing to do with arousal and it's very disconcerting suddenly hearing a calming voice talk about something I'm very disinterested in. So I was able to relax the entire way through, that's my main point. Thank you so much for the considerate script. 🩵🤍
@@Lilly_Belle Of course! I gotta support all my trans siblings out there
My sister outed and abused me over this. The rest of my family stood by their decision to do so. This is bringing up emotions that I wish I could have had all this time ago.
Hey, I’m a transgender Hispanic Male to Female, And I live in a house hold where my own family doesn’t support me and I can’t wear the stuff I want to wear and they don’t allow me to change my name. my sister doesn’t even support me and it makes me more depressed. This video really made my day.
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@@yeah1326 I understand where you’re coming from, but as long as trans people don’t affect you (and if you know a trans person irl who’s trying to hurt you, then that’s different) you should treat them the way you want to be treated. Learning to tolerate things you don’t like is part of maturing, and it seems you haven’t gotten there just yet.
@@yeah1326 I mean if you're sso confident I'm gonna need a source on that, from what I can tell this lovely is definetly a girl mate, but keep believing in the fake words of a dude in the clouds
I wish i had a supportive sister like this
100% me too...
I don't talk to my sister often since she's 7 years older and lives far but hearing "little sister" in this feels amazing. My family is supportive, I'm not entirely sure on my dad, but knowing my sister is gives me a lot of hope
I think this is very comforting, i've watched both versions and I think it could help a lot of people who relate to this situatiation, im not trans but i cried to this audio, I found it sweet and very comforting to listen.
I'm also not Trans but I wanted to put out some audios for my Trans viewers since I know there are a few. :)
@@SpookyScaryASMR I think that's very sweet keep doing what your doing spooky this is amazing💜
My (younger) sister was the first person in real life that I came out to, and I wish she was more like this, instead of acting like she forgot ever since. I just want my family to acknowledge all of me, rather than just the part they want to. 😮💨
I am so sorry you have to go through this. Just know that you are still valid, the reactions from others don't define you. I wished I could do more then just tell you stuff you already know *hug* I hope things will get better for you
Wish my sister had responded like this, she was very against it for months but finally came around eventually. It was rough for awhile. Love the video
i cried honestly when i listend to this love this so much 😢😁
Thank you for this. Living in this alternative world is helping me deal with my sister's bad reaction.
My sister used to be the person I trusted most. However, after I told her about me in an email and made a suicide attempt a bit after that, I was dragged to a Republican convention where I sat next to her. She gave a standing ovation to a statement by Marjorie Taylor Greene that was genocidal towards transgender people. I realized I don't really have a family in that moment.
Your video is helping me deal with that crap, so thank you. :)
Oh god, i'm so sorry to hear that... What a horrible thing to do
My eyes are a waterfall after you said "I accept you for you."
I wish I had an older sibling let alone sister at all.. I would do so much for one... The nearest person I have is my 13yo cousin who I haven't come out to yet. She's 6 years younger than me and I just definitely don't feel comfortable going to her about things besides just coming out..
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I ain't usually into ASMR, but this specific of trans-affirming genre just hits different
Same
This audio hits deep... I'm so scared of saying anything to anyone but sometimes it hurts so much. Anyways this audio is great, I can't have enough of it
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I wish my family would recognize me for who I am. All anyone cares about is how well I do on exams and that's where it ends...
I should come out to my older sister irl but scary :3
I believe the consequences of that are always more positive than negative. Family can sometimes be difficult but the experience of me and my peers is usually that siblings are making a strong effort to be accepting, even if they don't understand or even believe it to be true. Either way, it usually helps you get a burden off your chest if you tend to worry a lot about what other people _might_ say. Your family wants you to be happy, you don't owe it to them to achieve that happiness in the exact way they'd imagine it for you. Best of luck on your journey, don't be afraid standing up for who you are and know that there are always people around you who love you, and whose life is better off with you in it.
i wish i had an attic to hide and cry in
I want to say that this ASMR was neither spooky nor scary but I still cried 😭
This hits a bit too close to home haha. Although I was the one to come to her. Although she wasn’t the oldest sibling lol. Just… *sigh* it’s a lot of work coming out to yourself.
Edit: the part where it talks about how it is fine to take some time to figure it out for yourself. Honestly this really helps, I vented a little bit in an online space and talked about how I haven’t really been sure for a long time even though I’ve had a feeling since I was younger. And someone straight up said that if you haven’t always known then you shouldn’t transition. And that just hurt…
It really is, but I am so proud of you for doing it. You're incredible!
It hurts how well written the first part of this is.
day I Lost Count of looking for my non-existent long lost big sister to be best friends with 😶
10 mins in and im crying on the floor
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I wish I had this kind of support.
This is beautiful, I’m trans and this made me almost cry. Thanku sooo much for making this❤❤❤
(Also, do you have a podcast? If not you should totally start one, your voice is amazing
I do, but it is completely different from this type of stuff I do here. But I do have ideas to maybe start a podcast for this channel and make it more of a motivational type of audios.
@@SpookyScaryASMR I would still love to support your podcast! What it called?
@cossmo🌟🪐 it's a horror Podcast called Guarded by Demons. I host it with a friend. You can find it on youtube or anywhere you listen yo podcasts :)
@@SpookyScaryASMR wow sounds right up my ally! Thanks!
God I wish my coming out experience had been like this. Instead I got my parents just interrogating me asking me questions I wasn’t ready to answer only for them to completely ignore my identity once they were done. Sorry this is a little bit of a vent
It's okay! My channel is a safe space for everyone. I'm sorry that was your experience, but just know you're accepted here. 💜
My god this got me the closest to crying I have been in about 10 years. Thank you so much for this video
Look what they need to mimic a FRACTION of out power!
(Fr tho i hope coming out goes well for yall and you have this irl)
I have a toxic brother and i really don't want him to know o think he wouldnt be nice so thank for making this
Being the oldest sibling of 4… I didn’t know that I needed this kind of attention…
I wish my sister was like this instead of when I talk about trans issues (testing the water) she asks if I’ve heard of Matt Walsh and that he is “based” but I’m pretty sure she doesn’t get it so maybe if I keep testing the water and keep explaining that’s she’d support me and ide be safe to come out.
I came to this video because I doom scrolled some anti trans comments for a bit too long before going to bed and I really needed something like this and it’s really helped so thank you
@DiamondZo-E I'm happy this video helped you. Just know I care about you hun, you're doing amazing, and I hope you know my channel and comment sections are safe spaces. I hope you have a good night 💜
I hope you're relatively okay... it's different with parents, but if your sibling says something insensitive to you, I suggest framing how it upsets you by saying that a friend of yours is trans, and you support them. Pretending to be a cis ally can be a good way to convince others to be more compassionate to you in the future without showing your vulnerability.
As u grow older, families become "chosen", I wish u good luck sweetie 🫂
I think my sister is becoming more accepting of trans people I had a really open talk with her the other day so progress is being made, thanks for being so sweet everyone (still haven’t come out tho.) Love y’all
So cool and immersive feels so natural
Holy shit, my heart skiped a beat by just looking at the title, truely spooky scary here
I recently got forced to break up with my boyfriend because his dad was transphobic so I have now had to resort back to these audios just to make me feel better. 😢
I’m not crying, it’s you crying, definitely 😭😭
So heartwarming! Thank you! ❤
Of course! I'm happy you enjoyed it!
This is really very beautiful, i cried so much, thank you so so so so much for making this 🥺💙
Of course! I'm so sorry that you cried!! But I can only assume it's happy tears. 💜💜
@@SpookyScaryASMR nonono don't be sorry, it's happy tears cus it's like I know someone in the world like this is out there and would treat me and like newly trans people with kindness and not like just being mean to me and trying to invalidate. It's just a beautiful beautiful beautiful audio and I love that it's long and kind and compassionate and just bshsbehebgh 💙💙💙💙 gosh thank you so so much
@catsupempire3920 Oh sweetheart 💜🫂 there's definitely people like this out there. You'll find them and feel so at peace when you do. Just know my channel is always a safe space if you need an escape from the world. 💜
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I suspect my little sibling is trans. Of course, I'd support them if they are. I'm tempted to ask them...
Try bringing up gender issues around them and see how they react. I did that with my mother.
Unfortunately for me, all I learned is that I probably shouldn't come out to her any time soon. She has some very outdated views about trans folk that would be considered very transphobic in the modern world.
@@Zyk0thmy grandparents used to be like that and it took me let’s just say having an incident with a car for them to realise there’s stuff more important lol
I wish my older sister was like this
Watching this for vid reasons
Aksnfisnajaksnjd why can’t I have an older sister? T-T
Hi I'm a transgender Canadian born Male but identify as female this asmr is great keep up with the good work
Thank you so much! I'm very glad you enjoyed it!
Please give me more of these
What if you are the older sister? 😢
I'm the eldest sibling and it was so tough for me to come out
Youre a good big sister you slay queen
Thank you .this is rly nice
Uhm I'd my recommended trying to tell me something
I'm crying now ;-;
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my family is transphobic and because Florida I will go to conversion therapy if they find out.
hope everything goes well for you
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@@generalv1nce it can be very odd sometimes, but what made you wanna comment
I just wanna know if anyone has legitimately had a warm older sibling. I'm not even trans. I just wanna know.
My entire family is homophobic. If they find out some stuff about me, I'm screwed.
same
@@theboy7gaming562 my brother even said he'd kill me slowly if he figured out I was queer
@@mr.shadows1501I am so sorry to hear that I hope you can get out of that nasty environment
@@asgbrazygocrazy2132 thanks
Oh Lord. I feel bad for you... Idk about me yet either Hmm
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