LIFE IN ASABA, NIGERIA: MY HELP ABANDONED ME, VISITING GRANDMA'S GRAVESIDE, BACK TO ABUJA | VLOG #36

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  • @VannieBee
    @VannieBee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh boy! I can’t even recall how many times helps never came back after Christmas while growing up. You’ll find another help and hopefully a better one.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vanessa Bobai I know right??? Thankfully I have a new nanny, let’s see how long she stays. Lol

  • @thetripletmom7705
    @thetripletmom7705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Weldone, to get things pretty done just look for a creche and put Mia there at least till you pick her up you would have done 70-80% of what you want to achieve for that day. I have look for reliable househelp am tired so let me make do with creche for now. Except for weekend if you have an outing you can take her to grandma's place or if hubby is at home to take care of her. Just re strategize

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ada Peace this sounds like a wonderful idea, I have plans of putting her in crèche but just not yet. Maybe in a few more months, I will have separation anxiety ooooooooo 😓😓😓😓

  • @adaaeze4460
    @adaaeze4460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact that I'm from isieke and seeing my house behind you is giving me joy🤸

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jane Philomena Whaaaat???😁😁😁😁wow!!!!💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

  • @geraldinejohn8475
    @geraldinejohn8475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh dear. This is so sad. I have a 7month old and I know how draining it can get, although my family is close to me here in Abuja thankfully. The stress of looking for the perfect Nanny is going to be so stressful but you'd get someone soon. Just relax.
    Thanks for sharing 🌹

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      GERALDINE JOHN super draining!!!! I can imagine, my family is close to me as well but I usually don’t like to intrude too much. Lol! Thankfully a new person resumed yesterday.

  • @JulietUzor_
    @JulietUzor_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ndi be nne m ohhhh!!!! I’ve loved watching your asaba vlogs! My mum’s family are from Aboh and the entire family live in Asaba!!! Thanks Alma for sharing your Christmas story.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Juliet Uzor - Sewsonatural Awwwwwim so glad you enjoyed watching!! Wow, we’re literally neighbors 😳😁😁😁

  • @esiriscorner
    @esiriscorner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God for safe flight, I've really enjoyed all the Asaba content.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Esiri's Corner we thank God! Awww thank you dear, thank you for watching!

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so beautiful sis!!! I recieve all the blessings you gave your subbies!!

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      college grad Awwwwn thank you so much!! Amen and amen!

  • @SheunAdesina
    @SheunAdesina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Vlog!! Welcome back to Abuja. I hope to meet you soon. Hopefully this year🤗

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ilupeju Sheun thank you dear!! Oh yes that’ll be awesome! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @jorjorWilliams
    @jorjorWilliams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww you'll be fine hopefully you get a better nanny . And u started this vlog on my birthday 😊

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fingers crossed, I pray so! Oh wow, happy birthday in arrears! 😁

  • @Lavivi
    @Lavivi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy new year my gorgeous sis.. i enjoyed watching this vlog. Thank you 💕

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laviv happy new year to you too!!❤️❤️ awww I’m glad you enjoyed, thank you for watching!

  • @shafaatuhalilu3083
    @shafaatuhalilu3083 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful vlog

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 😊

  • @ololadef6636
    @ololadef6636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy new year. Best of luck finding a new nanny.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ololade F thank you darling! Happy new year

  • @IdeevaTV
    @IdeevaTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered u and I am loving your channel already

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ideeva TV Awwww thank you so much!

  • @stephaniefatimaibok1689
    @stephaniefatimaibok1689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kaai, so sorry love, i can really really relate with all what you are saying. These nannies are all the same. Mine did same although she told me she wasn't coming back. She wasn't worth it so i was happy sef she told me she didn't want to come back. i pray you get someone better to stay with you in Jesus name. Amen. Happy 2020

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephanie Fatima Ibok they’re all the same ooo! Thankfully I’ve gotten someone new, let’s hope she stays long. Lol.

  • @enya.7868
    @enya.7868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have an upcoming long flight and I'm praying my baby is cooperative 🙏

    • @IdeevaTV
      @IdeevaTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      amen

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eny A. Awwwww I hope so too for your sake! 😁

  • @joantheo
    @joantheo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this vlog

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      jovicky makeovers thanks a lot dear

  • @29Buchi
    @29Buchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alma! Nice vlogs. Just curious as to why your maternal grandmother was buried in her father’s house? Is it tradition?

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      29Buchi thank you! Yes it is tradition,, even my paternal grandma was buried in her father’s compound.

    • @user-ui6fi1bv6q
      @user-ui6fi1bv6q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that Ndi Asaba preserve ancient customs.Before christianity and colonialism in Eastern Igboland,married women were buried in their fathers compound not husbands place.Its christianity that made Eastern Igbos bury their women in their husbands place.

    • @29Buchi
      @29Buchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alma Ngur Thank you for the reply. In Anambra(Nnewi), on the burial day the corpse of the married woman just comes to her father’s house as per tradition and then proceeds to her husband’s house where she is buried.

    • @29Buchi
      @29Buchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      C Thanks for the history lesson.😁 I didn’t know this.

    • @user-ui6fi1bv6q
      @user-ui6fi1bv6q 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@29Buchi Christianity without restraint did a number on Eastern Igboland,if you want to observe some ancient cultures that were'nt retained,visit Anioma

  • @toyinbabalola9223
    @toyinbabalola9223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry about your daughter's aupair but don't you think it's better that she left than staying and not looking after lovely MIA properly?loving your mum's hair so beautiful I'm not colouring my hair anymore , good luck in finding a new aupair

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Toyin Babalola Hmmmm! To be honest, she took care of Mia well! I give it to her, Mia LOVED her. Ah well...she’ll love someone else soon I guess. Lol.
      Oh yea, my mum and her gorgeous hair. She has never missed a trip to the salon every week since I was born, that’s why it is soo healthy.

  • @mariekimbi
    @mariekimbi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Treat your helpers well and they will stay

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie Kimbi Madam, nobody is maltreating anybody. Please don’t jump into conclusions.

    • @mariekimbi
      @mariekimbi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlmaNgur ok but I wasn't actually sorry if u misunderstood me

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry dear, maybe its better to employ a more mature lady

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s exactly what I did! Thanks!

  • @joantheo
    @joantheo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please come and employ me oo as ur help Biko 💃💃

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jovicky makeovers haba!! How Na!😂

    • @joantheo
      @joantheo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AlmaNgur am serious oo..... I need a good job jare

  • @DominiqueJOUNDA
    @DominiqueJOUNDA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This helps issues on youtube. Maybe she didn´t want ( you ) put her face and titlle on the internet, aka make-up transformation etc... Hahahaha Like what is wrong with the helps and their madams. If you leave, leave in peace. This is to hurt you, and is deliberate...i hope she isn´t paying back for some kind of treatments? Why must she leave like that? Is a working relationship, why must she go like that?

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dominique JOUNDA Nope, there were no videos dedicated to her at all on my channel. Also, she was treated like a member of the family so this isn’t about paying back for any kind of treatment. Many of them are notorious for going home for Christmas and not coming back, just thought she was different.

    • @DominiqueJOUNDA
      @DominiqueJOUNDA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AlmaNgur Then let her go with her wahala... A smart person won´t broke her bridges by leaving. It isn´t by force, but common sense and respect would at least want you to call and say, i am over it. Just manners...