As someone who has similar mental health issues, I was excited when I first saw your episodes, thinking they would finally show how loved ones take care of someone struggling with anxiety on top of the long distance relationship. I was angry on your behalf with how they continued to villainize you but the scene on the boat where she had no empathy, no patience, and no love for you when you obviously needed help to get through a panic attack, it just broke my heart. It has taken me over 30 years to accept that I am not a monster just because I have panic attacks and anxiety, how dare they act like you have anything wrong with you at all so they can get more views. You reclaiming your voice and image through this podcast is so brave and I am so proud and deeply respect your strength and bravery in not letting them take you down. Never let them take away, even a tiny bit, of who you are, you are perfect as you are, mental health and all
not once did i ever think you were in the wrong in the show. i felt deeply stressed and concerned for you because your ex was taking advantage of you and they were very unwilling to put work into the relationship. you’re incredibly strong for persisting and speaking your truth! i’m so happy for this new chapter of your life💕
Statler, I was one of the viewers who never thought about you negatively. I saw you as someone sincerely in love and trying to find a common ground to make it work. Your ex-partner was full of obvious problems. The most apparent was allowing you to give up everything for her dream. She def. took advantage of you. If you love someone you wouldn't have them give you all their finacial backing, personal goals and trigger off health issues. Hang in there Statler. Many viewers are on your side. I'm glad you found your way home without the weight of her being. I wish you good luck and good health for your future 🙏♥️
The way she talked to you on that boat it turned me off about your panic attacks. You're an amazing woman you're an amazing person and deserve all positivity, peace and happiness,dont ever forget that
I never viewed you as the villain. When you were so obviously struggling having an anxiety attack on the boat and she cared less and even increased your anxiety level I was furious! This is a great idea, reality fans everywhere will tune in to see their favorites. I believe this will be huge. Excited to see where it goes. Good for you Statler!!
I noticed one of the things that you weren't doing was getting some help. Do you do therapy, or do you just not talk about it? Being aware of your anxiety and doing something about it are two different things. Are you doing this podcast as therapy, or in addition to therapy?
I actually really enjoyed this!!!! Good for you Statler!! I can tell this is going to be good! I absolutely love the background! Love the calm scenery and the comfy chill outfit! Im all for it!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Im happy you decided to turn a negative into a positive. I can't imagine what it must be like to have so many people who don't even know you express hatred towards you. And as someone who has anxiety and despresion also, I know how greatly this must have affected you and your mental health. But you are handling it beautifully. I wish you much success with your podcast and your life.
For the record I never looked at you as a villain - I think you are a beautiful young woman who has problems like all us and I am a straight woman - Dempsey is what we called in my day a flower child who has no idea of how to support herself she lives semi homeless and without any plan. Its not the life for many.
Statler, so many of us can relate to you. Our take is she was a free Spirit and you are more analytical and more of a planner Neither are wrong. Just different people If indeed she did walk away with your money, that sucks No hate here. We love you because of your quirkiness. And could relate to your anxieties. You are awesome
I believe everything she shared about her awful experience at the hands of writers and producers. I wish her all the best in happiness and finding the person who treats her with the same dignity and respect she gives them. Some life lessons are more painful than others.
I don't think you looked bad on the show at all - it was Dempsey who looked incredibly selfish (not being up front that she had more money she could've contributed for the van, not understanding how hard it would be for you to be working a FT job while she was out exploring, etc.). At a minimum, she could've done things around the van while you worked so you could've had more time to explore together. So again, to me, you were not painted as the villain - especially not in your second season. I'm sorry you've gotten so much hate.
This is amazing she is doing this. What she is doing is nothing new as more and more people from 90 Day is speaking out and telling the truth, but she is making her platform the hub, the go to spot. I believe that 90 Day was mainly real-ish, until years ago i read a article online where they interview cast member and members of the family, and they said 90 Day crew made them look like the bad guy. Than you started seeing other 90 Day members started doing their own Tell All to tell how it really happen.
"Reality" TV has _never_ been real. 90 Day is no exception. It's still TV. Although not exactly scripted it's _heavily manipulated_ through direct producer manipulation to editing, etc. Otherwise it would be a lot more boring
Remember everyone gets hate comments STOP reading them you are giving them air they don’t deserve. Please please STOP reading the shit. Most balanced people know to take what they see with a grain of salt.
Like what? What is TLC going to learn from this that haven't in the past decade? I'm pretty sure they are fully aware that most stories benefit from an antagonist and conflict makes for a more interesting storyline. That's their bread and butter and _we_ have kept them in business for 10 seasons and _multiple_ successful spin offs. Remember when Paul & Karine got fake robbed? 😂 yeah 90 day is 90% bs and if you didn't get that by now
I saw the way they villainized you and the way she treated you on the boat was awful. I’ve had anxiety since childhood and can’t imagine someone who claimed to love me treated me that way.
Newsflash no one makes any of these people sign to do this show. If you already have all the problems Statler says she has she needed to work on those. Reality tv has been on for a while now and everyone knows how the show goes. It’s drama and they want that to get viewers. Take accountability and if you have problems stay off tv, also stay off of social media.
Statler, I do appreciate you clearing up some aspects of how you were depicted and yes when you are in control it hits different. You come across differently here than you do in the show, and that deserves acknowledgement. It goes without saying that Reality TV ain't reality, we all know they edit the heck out of it to depict people in a certain light. I'm sorry if you feel wronged in how you were depicted. I'm sorry you got fucked over by yr ex. However, and I mean this in the most respectful pro mental health way possible, I don't know how much it serves you to make this yr mission. If you really are invested in yr mental health as you have said, I don't see how making and putting the vast amounts of energy (not only in production but mental) required to do everything yr doing in order to expose the behind the scenes truths of 90 Day or giving others that platform will GENUINELY benefit yr mental health, like genuinely. I just can hear my therapist saying How Does This Serve You (?) I mean, are your intentions vindictive? If so, that's not in all honesty good for yr soul, man. The healthier more mature thing to do would be to create a boundary from the toxicity. If you feel this environment/conversation is truly dysfunctional, why would you want to prolong that relationship? Is it monetary? Do you want to stay in the spotlight? Those things are not valiant or commendable in terms of yr mental health. It seems like it might benefit you to TRULY explore why it is your doing this. It might be best to just pull away, do the work off camera, cut off ties with whole thing, rebound mentally, financially, get back on track to real life away from the camera. Yr plate is already pretty full, why heap on a bunch of garbage? I say all this coming from a place of being pro mental health. And not just in a cliche slogan sense we don't really hear b/c we've heard it so often. Be kind to yrself. Advocating for yrself sometimes means letting go. Good luck to you. Sending you healing energy. Keep it positive.
@@MyName-wl6cd Ok, so yeah, I understand sippin the tea is entertaining, don't get me wrong, we are all human, we all experience this, the desire to sit in the colosseum is innate. Howevah....you know that I know that you know that we all know the most important thing if we truly care about each other as humans is to care about ppl's well being ultimately. I'd like to see Statler work through this shit, and maybe even come back at her best, transcend the anger and pain and maybe come back as her best self and become something else in front of the camera instead of being on a vengeance crusade which is how it feels. It seems in reality Statler is a caring and funny, and smart person, I hope she can heal and tap into those aspects of her personality and become a force of positivity. She has SO much potential. C'mon Statler, you got this! Walk towards that light, I believe in you and think you can do it! But you should think about changing yr path, this one is crazy and doesn't benefit you. I think you got it in you. Fuck us viewers, yr mental health is more important than all this BS. Again, saying this all with love. XO
You have been my fav since day one. Your ex always seemed so selfish it drove me crazy! I’m so sorry for you getting f*cked financially by her- again, selfish!! 🤬 Glad you stepped out of your comfort zone and saw pretty places, hopefully the next trip will be with someone who gets and appreciates you. 💖 I hope more people will come on this podcast and tell the truth about how manipulative these shows can be. XX
I didn't actually watch the show myself but she always came off as flippant. She didn't seem invested in anyone but herself. Statler never felt like anything but authentic
I honestly felt like Dempsey was the villain. She showed zero compassion for you on the boat and complained instead of helping you when you were trying to work and needed that support. Not marriage material. Not even a friend would treat a friend like that…
As someone who is also autistic and adhd AND BPD the way she treated you, or lack thereof any treatment towards you with empathy rubbed me the wrong way. And I liked you two a lot.
@Statler, do you have intention, if not already plan on seeking legal advice to retrieve money owed to you from your ex, including the things that haven’t been returned to you?
Thank you for coming out and telling your truth. I stand with you. You are not wrong in how you feel. Don't ever let anyone tell you that. Internet trolls suck
You made a good impression on the show. The firstt red flag with Dempsey was when she still had money in her bank account, while you had to take out a loan to buy the van. Also, the fact that she wouldn't leave you alone on the ferry, even though you told her you were seasick. Then it was surprising that she didn't want to do anything in the van when you were the only breadwinner. Definitely hire a lawyer. So why weren't you on the Tell All? I think a lot of the contestants and the host would have stood up for you and confronted Dempsey.
Looking forward to seeing more of these. One small suggestion, around 2 30 you switch position which is fine but the audio level drops significantly. Just keep this in mind or adjust the audio levels since as a viewer it can be tedious turning the volume up/down
Miss Statler, first congrats on your new channel! I wanted to tell you as an ever so anxious person myself, I feel as if you handled yourself very well in all the anxiety scenes within the shows…you did give me anxiety by watching sometimes but only because you weren’t loved and made to feel safe ever…super disheartening. I’m so sorry that person had no empathy for your anxiety and I don’t know why I’m apologizing BUT seriously I relate to you hard. Someone will love you for all your anxiousness one day but you’re not alone as is either, we’re all here for you 💜✝️
Honestly, I thought you were the problem until this season. This season it became clear Dempsey was using you. She clearly felt completely entitled to "living her best life" while you worked all day to finance that life.
I felt that Dempsey was using you. It's like she didn't really care about your anxiety attack, and the fact that she cheated on you, that was not acceptable. She was really living the life while you were financially supporting her.
I've always though t a lot of the drama on the show was brought bon by the producers. I read that a doctor from Michigan had confessed that her story was mostly fabricated. She said her and the younger clan she was dating from the Caribbean decided the break it off while doing the show. The producers got her to act like they were still together, then switch up.and start dating his cousin or something like that. But she really wasn't dating anyone.
I also suffer from panic attacks. My heart went out to you when you were on the boat. I’m soooo sorry you went through those type if situations with a partner that didn’t want to understand. I’m very happy you are in a better mental space now. Take care of yourself.
i saw in the boat scene how your ex didn't ease your stress and anxiety.. just added to it. i'm glad you're doing okay now. i hope you meet someone who treats you how you deserve to be treated x
I would get a lawyer for the money she owes as well as your items. You need to involve legal aid. Also, just personally when my mental health is suffering I get off all social media and take a break. A lot of people forget that’s an option. It doesn’t have to be permanent but a few weeks to a few months detox does wonders for your mental health. Best of luck - but again, staying off social media is very helpful.
This is a pretty cool video. I’m glad you’re back home safe and sound and I hope you’ll get the money back for the van. I’m jealous of all the places you saw although I could never live in such a small space with someone for a very long time. Don’t worry about trolls and haters - they just simply don’t have anything better to do with their life so they have to give you all their attention. I wish you were at the tell all though. It was boring as hell.
I want you to know that I stopped watching the 90 day franchise way before this season of the other way. 90 day featuring abusers like Angela, Ed, Sarper, etc really turned my stomach & made me angry 😡 I’ll be watching closely.
Aye! I’ve always been a Statler supporter. Everyone doesn’t like her but I call her a national treasure on my videos. And I make fun of everyone else lol
As someone who loves 90 day anything... I didn't like your ex from the start and always was on your side. Excited to see how this video ends. I'm intl half way through
If people hated on you, they're not very intelligent or able to read a person. People hate on others mostly due to the fact they are lacking in some way so do not take that on as truth in any way.
I am sorry you went through all of that. Just so you know, there is a family pretty close to you (Burleson) that totally gets you and is rooting for you, and wishing you the best.
Yes Statler!! Watching from London, been waiting for this, i know u are fully aware but please dont think us Brits are all arseholes Keep being you & speaking your truth 😊
Honestly this annoys me so much, I saw a while back shes doing a holiday where random people can pay to go also, she clearly has no morals if she can just block you and not pay what she owes to you, absolutely awful way to be 😠
i love this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I watch the show for people’s truths and experiences that are good and bad, not for some black and white character. i love that you’re doing this & feel like this platform will be so refreshing
I have undiagnosed adhd, I am olso struggling with people that don't understand me. Even my own husband. I am feeling sorry for you, why are people so hard.. try more to understand the people you love ❤❤❤
Same!!! So proud of you for coming out and speaking the truth! It takes balls and you go girl 🙌 I was wondering if you could talk about what made you want to sign up for the show and what was that like?
Do not listen to the haters. They are unhappy with their lives. We need to be kinder to each other.❤
As someone who has similar mental health issues, I was excited when I first saw your episodes, thinking they would finally show how loved ones take care of someone struggling with anxiety on top of the long distance relationship. I was angry on your behalf with how they continued to villainize you but the scene on the boat where she had no empathy, no patience, and no love for you when you obviously needed help to get through a panic attack, it just broke my heart. It has taken me over 30 years to accept that I am not a monster just because I have panic attacks and anxiety, how dare they act like you have anything wrong with you at all so they can get more views. You reclaiming your voice and image through this podcast is so brave and I am so proud and deeply respect your strength and bravery in not letting them take you down. Never let them take away, even a tiny bit, of who you are, you are perfect as you are, mental health and all
not once did i ever think you were in the wrong in the show. i felt deeply stressed and concerned for you because your ex was taking advantage of you and they were very unwilling to put work into the relationship. you’re incredibly strong for persisting and speaking your truth! i’m so happy for this new chapter of your life💕
Statler, I was one of the viewers who never thought about you negatively. I saw you as someone sincerely in love and trying to find a common ground to make it work. Your ex-partner was full of obvious problems. The most apparent was allowing you to give up everything for her dream. She def. took advantage of you. If you love someone you wouldn't have them give you all their finacial backing, personal goals and trigger off health issues. Hang in there Statler. Many viewers are on your side. I'm glad you found your way home without the weight of her being. I wish you good luck and good health for your future 🙏♥️
Agree with all of this, except I think she was very selfish and a scammer. Glad you got away and hope she will return your money.
The way she talked to you on that boat it turned me off about your panic attacks. You're an amazing woman you're an amazing person and deserve all positivity, peace and happiness,dont ever forget that
I never viewed you as the villain. When you were so obviously struggling having an anxiety attack on the boat and she cared less and even increased your anxiety level I was furious! This is a great idea, reality fans everywhere will tune in to see their favorites. I believe this will be huge. Excited to see where it goes. Good for you Statler!!
I noticed one of the things that you weren't doing was getting some help. Do you do therapy, or do you just not talk about it? Being aware of your anxiety and doing something about it are two different things. Are you doing this podcast as therapy, or in addition to therapy?
I actually really enjoyed this!!!! Good for you Statler!! I can tell this is going to be good! I absolutely love the background! Love the calm scenery and the comfy chill outfit! Im all for it!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I still don't get why you were fired, though.
Im happy you decided to turn a negative into a positive. I can't imagine what it must be like to have so many people who don't even know you express hatred towards you. And as someone who has anxiety and despresion also, I know how greatly this must have affected you and your mental health. But you are handling it beautifully. I wish you much success with your podcast and your life.
Sending you love and light ❤❤❤
For the record I never looked at you as a villain - I think you are a beautiful young woman who has problems like all us and I am a straight woman - Dempsey is what we called in my day a flower child who has no idea of how to support herself she lives semi homeless and without any plan. Its not the life for many.
Statler, so many of us can relate to you. Our take is she was a free
Spirit and you are more analytical and more of a planner
Neither are wrong. Just different people
If indeed she did walk away with your money, that sucks No hate here. We love you because of your quirkiness. And could relate to your anxieties. You are awesome
I love this. You were done dirty by 90Day and I suspect many others were too. Hope you get your share of the van and meet someone who has ambition.
I believe everything she shared about her awful experience at the hands of writers and producers. I wish her all the best in happiness and finding the person who treats her with the same dignity and respect she gives them. Some life lessons are more painful than others.
I don't think you looked bad on the show at all - it was Dempsey who looked incredibly selfish (not being up front that she had more money she could've contributed for the van, not understanding how hard it would be for you to be working a FT job while she was out exploring, etc.). At a minimum, she could've done things around the van while you worked so you could've had more time to explore together. So again, to me, you were not painted as the villain - especially not in your second season. I'm sorry you've gotten so much hate.
If your reputation is everything, why on earth would you go on 90 day fiancé? You can’t be that naive to think you’ll look good on that show…
I hope you eventually invite other 90 fiancé's from past cast production. Thanks girl Good job. Proud of you.❤
Girl, we need to get you a mic stand / arm 😂
Agreed otherwise she gonna get fit 💪
Please get Ingi on also. I think his reputation is being destroyed also
I totally agree with you.
Thank you Statler for dropping the hot tea and telling your story from your own perspective. 🎉🎉🎉
Statler. ILY, you deserve positivity and love.
I am glad you posted this. It was very nice to hear your side of the story.
I love this. I'm sorry that you receive so much hate. You do not deserve that.
This is amazing she is doing this. What she is doing is nothing new as more and more people from 90 Day is speaking out and telling the truth, but she is making her platform the hub, the go to spot. I believe that 90 Day was mainly real-ish, until years ago i read a article online where they interview cast member and members of the family, and they said 90 Day crew made them look like the bad guy. Than you started seeing other 90 Day members started doing their own Tell All to tell how it really happen.
"Reality" TV has _never_ been real. 90 Day is no exception. It's still TV. Although not exactly scripted it's _heavily manipulated_ through direct producer manipulation to editing, etc. Otherwise it would be a lot more boring
Remember everyone gets hate comments STOP reading them you are giving them air they don’t deserve. Please please STOP reading the shit. Most balanced people know to take what they see with a grain of salt.
IMO Dempsey gave opportunist. Unwilling to compromise
This is what we need to hear! What really happens behind the scenes. TLC hope you learn something from this! 🤔
Like what? What is TLC going to learn from this that haven't in the past decade? I'm pretty sure they are fully aware that most stories benefit from an antagonist and conflict makes for a more interesting storyline. That's their bread and butter and _we_ have kept them in business for 10 seasons and _multiple_ successful spin offs. Remember when Paul & Karine got fake robbed? 😂 yeah 90 day is 90% bs and if you didn't get that by now
I saw the way they villainized you and the way she treated you on the boat was awful. I’ve had anxiety since childhood and can’t imagine someone who claimed to love me treated me that way.
Giiirllll, I am here for that tea!
Newsflash no one makes any of these people sign to do this show. If you already have all the problems Statler says she has she needed to work on those.
Reality tv has been on for a while now and everyone knows how the show goes. It’s drama and they want that to get viewers.
Take accountability and if you have problems stay off tv, also stay off of social media.
The right thing to do would be for her to pay you back for the van. It's super fucked up.
Hey Statler!! I'm so excited! Do you have a promo code for the first month of Patreon?
Statler, I do appreciate you clearing up some aspects of how you were depicted and yes when you are in control it hits different. You come across differently here than you do in the show, and that deserves acknowledgement. It goes without saying that Reality TV ain't reality, we all know they edit the heck out of it to depict people in a certain light. I'm sorry if you feel wronged in how you were depicted. I'm sorry you got fucked over by yr ex.
However, and I mean this in the most respectful pro mental health way possible, I don't know how much it serves you to make this yr mission. If you really are invested in yr mental health as you have said, I don't see how making and putting the vast amounts of energy (not only in production but mental) required to do everything yr doing in order to expose the behind the scenes truths of 90 Day or giving others that platform will GENUINELY benefit yr mental health, like genuinely.
I just can hear my therapist saying How Does This Serve You (?) I mean, are your intentions vindictive? If so, that's not in all honesty good for yr soul, man. The healthier more mature thing to do would be to create a boundary from the toxicity. If you feel this environment/conversation is truly dysfunctional, why would you want to prolong that relationship? Is it monetary? Do you want to stay in the spotlight? Those things are not valiant or commendable in terms of yr mental health.
It seems like it might benefit you to TRULY explore why it is your doing this. It might be best to just pull away, do the work off camera, cut off ties with whole thing, rebound mentally, financially, get back on track to real life away from the camera. Yr plate is already pretty full, why heap on a bunch of garbage? I say all this coming from a place of being pro mental health. And not just in a cliche slogan sense we don't really hear b/c we've heard it so often. Be kind to yrself. Advocating for yrself sometimes means letting go. Good luck to you. Sending you healing energy. Keep it positive.
I love and agree with everything in your thoughtful reply but I’m still here for the tea 😅
@@MyName-wl6cd Ok, so yeah, I understand sippin the tea is entertaining, don't get me wrong, we are all human, we all experience this, the desire to sit in the colosseum is innate. Howevah....you know that I know that you know that we all know the most important thing if we truly care about each other as humans is to care about ppl's well being ultimately.
I'd like to see Statler work through this shit, and maybe even come back at her best, transcend the anger and pain and maybe come back as her best self and become something else in front of the camera instead of being on a vengeance crusade which is how it feels.
It seems in reality Statler is a caring and funny, and smart person, I hope she can heal and tap into those aspects of her personality and become a force of positivity. She has SO much potential. C'mon Statler, you got this! Walk towards that light, I believe in you and think you can do it! But you should think about changing yr path, this one is crazy and doesn't benefit you. I think you got it in you. Fuck us viewers, yr mental health is more important than all this BS. Again, saying this all with love. XO
Get a lawyer and sue her. You have proof of your deal! Best of luck!
You have been my fav since day one. Your ex always seemed so selfish it drove me crazy! I’m so sorry for you getting f*cked financially by her- again, selfish!! 🤬 Glad you stepped out of your comfort zone and saw pretty places, hopefully the next trip will be with someone who gets and appreciates you. 💖 I hope more people will come on this podcast and tell the truth about how manipulative these shows can be. XX
I didn't actually watch the show myself but she always came off as flippant. She didn't seem invested in anyone but herself. Statler never felt like anything but authentic
All of this!
Love this! Looking forward to watching future episodes! Congrats!
I'm very interested to see who'll be on in the future, and the type of things we're going to learn! Great first ep
everyone was always on dempseys side but when i see dempsey she looked very rude. Team statler
I honestly felt like Dempsey was the villain. She showed zero compassion for you on the boat and complained instead of helping you when you were trying to work and needed that support. Not marriage material. Not even a friend would treat a friend like that…
Love the old fashioned mike set up...
As someone who is also autistic and adhd AND BPD the way she treated you, or lack thereof any treatment towards you with empathy rubbed me the wrong way. And I liked you two a lot.
She should pay you the money she owes you ,karma will get her really respect you for your honesty
The real people always missing from any Tell All ever are the producers, editors, directors, whatever.
So, what specifically did you do to get banned from the tell all?
Well , I’ll never get that 13:50 minutes back ✈️
Subscribed! So excited about this channel, such a great idea. I hope you get great guests or at least continue with it, no matter the direction ❤
love the chair!
*I also have adhd and trust issues... so I get where you're coming from girl 😅❤
So you have to pay for the podcast to listen?
I think that you are liked and respected on a large scale Statler. ❤🎉😊
@Statler, do you have intention, if not already plan on seeking legal advice to retrieve money owed to you from your ex, including the things that haven’t been returned to you?
Thank you for coming out and telling your truth. I stand with you. You are not wrong in how you feel. Don't ever let anyone tell you that. Internet trolls suck
Statler is beautiful and well spoken. Dempsey too but it does appear she took advantage of Statler. I’d like to hear from her perspective.
You made a good impression on the show. The firstt red flag with Dempsey was when she still had money in her bank account, while you had to take out a loan to buy the van. Also, the fact that she wouldn't leave you alone on the ferry, even though you told her you were seasick. Then it was surprising that she didn't want to do anything in the van when you were the only breadwinner. Definitely hire a lawyer. So why weren't you on the Tell All? I think a lot of the contestants and the host would have stood up for you and confronted Dempsey.
Looking forward to seeing more of these. One small suggestion, around 2 30 you switch position which is fine but the audio level drops significantly. Just keep this in mind or adjust the audio levels since as a viewer it can be tedious turning the volume up/down
Miss Statler, first congrats on your new channel! I wanted to tell you as an ever so anxious person myself, I feel as if you handled yourself very well in all the anxiety scenes within the shows…you did give me anxiety by watching sometimes but only because you weren’t loved and made to feel safe ever…super disheartening. I’m so sorry that person had no empathy for your anxiety and I don’t know why I’m apologizing BUT seriously I relate to you hard. Someone will love you for all your anxiousness one day but you’re not alone as is either, we’re all here for you 💜✝️
Honestly, I thought you were the problem until this season. This season it became clear Dempsey was using you. She clearly felt completely entitled to "living her best life" while you worked all day to finance that life.
I felt that Dempsey was using you. It's like she didn't really care about your anxiety attack, and the fact that she cheated on you, that was not acceptable. She was really living the life while you were financially supporting her.
I loved this! Liked and subscribed!!
I've always though t a lot of the drama on the show was brought bon by the producers. I read that a doctor from Michigan had confessed that her story was mostly fabricated. She said her and the younger clan she was dating from the Caribbean decided the break it off while doing the show. The producers got her to act like they were still together, then switch up.and start dating his cousin or something like that. But she really wasn't dating anyone.
I also suffer from panic attacks. My heart went out to you when you were on the boat. I’m soooo sorry you went through those type if situations with a partner that didn’t want to understand. I’m very happy you are in a better mental space now. Take care of yourself.
i saw in the boat scene how your ex didn't ease your stress and anxiety.. just added to it. i'm glad you're doing okay now. i hope you meet someone who treats you how you deserve to be treated x
I subscribed so I won’t miss anything! Finally-someone from the franchises we follow who gets us TH-camrs.
I would get a lawyer for the money she owes as well as your items. You need to involve legal aid. Also, just personally when my mental health is suffering I get off all social media and take a break. A lot of people forget that’s an option. It doesn’t have to be permanent but a few weeks to a few months detox does wonders for your mental health. Best of luck - but again, staying off social media is very helpful.
This is a pretty cool video. I’m glad you’re back home safe and sound and I hope you’ll get the money back for the van. I’m jealous of all the places you saw although I could never live in such a small space with someone for a very long time.
Don’t worry about trolls and haters - they just simply don’t have anything better to do with their life so they have to give you all their attention. I wish you were at the tell all though. It was boring as hell.
I want you to know that I stopped watching the 90 day franchise way before this season of the other way. 90 day featuring abusers like Angela, Ed, Sarper, etc really turned my stomach & made me angry 😡 I’ll be watching closely.
im so here for this! great idea!
Aye! I’ve always been a Statler supporter. Everyone doesn’t like her but I call her a national treasure on my videos. And I make fun of everyone else lol
I agree🎉❤😊
Love your channel!
@ thanks!
How do I tell a situation privately?
Please bring Rayne on your show! I’d love to see what she has to say 😂
Oh dear😂 don't forget Angela and that Brian
As someone who loves 90 day anything... I didn't like your ex from the start and always was on your side. Excited to see how this video ends. I'm intl half way through
If people hated on you, they're not very intelligent or able to read a person. People hate on others mostly due to the fact they are lacking in some way so do not take that on as truth in any way.
0:47 Looking forward to more uploads. Will you continue?
Team Statler!!! 🎉
Things just don't work out. Move on Statler. Forget about Dempsey your money and your things you will never see it again. It is what it is.
Love you Statler. Stay strong.
I am sorry you went through all of that.
Just so you know, there is a family pretty close to you (Burleson) that totally gets you and is rooting for you, and wishing you the best.
Dempsey have u made any payments yet to statler...
Glad you are doing better since the break up. Glad you had the great travel experience
I love it ! Proud of you !
Didnt think you could even have haters?!! I thought dempsey was the villain actually… im so confused!!!
Thanks for sharing your side of the story.
Ohhhh yes! I like this !! Thank you for sharing your side of things! Subcribed 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for your podcast! You rock ❤
Go Statler! Thanks for doing this so we can hear the real truth.
Yes Statler!! Watching from London, been waiting for this, i know u are fully aware but please dont think us Brits are all arseholes
Keep being you & speaking your truth 😊
Honestly this annoys me so much, I saw a while back shes doing a holiday where random people can pay to go also, she clearly has no morals if she can just block you and not pay what she owes to you, absolutely awful way to be 😠
i love this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I watch the show for people’s truths and experiences that are good and bad, not for some black and white character. i love that you’re doing this & feel like this platform will be so refreshing
This is a great idea and i wish u the absolute best in your channel
You’re the realest person that was on that show despite how they even portrayed you.
I have undiagnosed adhd, I am olso struggling with people that don't understand me. Even my own husband. I am feeling sorry for you, why are people so hard.. try more to understand the people you love ❤❤❤
Your better off.sorry bout what she put you through. You are georgous also hilarious!
Love ya, girl..hang in there
Wishing you the best and I have been from day one. You have class and character.
YYAASSS Girl keep it up, this is truly a passion of yours and it shows
I’m excited for more!!!!
Proud of you!! This takes guts
My favourite person in 90 day history by far! I’m so excited to keep watching !
Same!!! So proud of you for coming out and speaking the truth! It takes balls and you go girl 🙌
I was wondering if you could talk about what made you want to sign up for the show and what was that like?
Oh yes! ❤🎉😊 Love Statler! authentic and genuine ❤🎉😊
I hope she will pay you back as promised.
This is ingenious! The best of luck