Having a few hobbies is a great way of dealing with stress. I think every man in a relationship needs hobbies to take our mind off of things for a while.
Two things: 1.arguing with a woman is a waste of time. 2.I would never feed into escalating emotions, I’d bounce and let things settle, no matter how long it takes
The man in the purple talking about Jesus is the best. He knows to put Jesus first in every thing. But you need a Godly woman on your arm or else anyother woman won't understand you
Facts! No need to yoke yourself to someone who doesn't have the spiritual maturity or right mind in order to comprehend and perceive you in the right manner.
I wish them the best. However, With them having a personal relationship with God and being led by Jesus actions. They should Know That Jesus went in the wilderness for 40 days and 40 nights to step away and clear his mind to refocus on his purpose. So for a man needing to step away for 12 hours to clear his mind and refocus on his relationship should be understood.
The man did the right thing in putting God first. He ain't no fool if the woman does not agree with his decision and think he talks too much about God. He will not stay in that relationship and be controlled by her.
Bruh EVERYTHING you said at the end is ON POINT!!!! She will RUN ALL OVER HIM USING THE BIBLE!!!! He is a godly simp. I’ve seen it before and my ex wife wanted me to be one for her but I ain’t that guy. I’m all about loving my wife as Christ loves the church, but with BALANCE. I’m not loving her more than I love myself. I’m loving her AS I love myself which means I’m not going to allow her to mentally and emotionally abuse me by being manipulated and gaslighting me.
🤣🤣 man you don’t know game when you see it huh. He knew what to say to get her and use it real smooth. This the type of person you watch. You see how he had an answer for everything. You see how he flipped the 12 hours the first dude said because she didn’t like it 😂😂. You see how he made her the center. Than when he seen her feeling the last guy he flipped her own question which impress her it was slick as hell 😂😂. I got to see the recap between them two I feel this was a master class piece he put on lol
He’s not a simp. I doubt she can run over him. Maybe because I go to a church with a lot of God fearing strong men and being married to one, I know for certain no matter how crazy a chick is she’s not getting over on him unless he lets his guard down
I believe in resolving the conflict when it presents itself. If that doesn't work, then take the appropriate time apart to deescalate an issue and return with more clarity.
She is controlling! But the fact you said "He rejected her because..." is misleading. Not one of the men rejected her for an substantive reason; only feeling of lack of "vibes". YOU virtually rejected her in your commentary, as did I when I heard her response to the first guy's personal & reasonable answers. She's an undercover "strong" woman; definitely controlling.
The guy that talked about God for every answer felt performative and gave narc pastor to me. I def felt what you were saying about controlling women trying to control religious men. The Bible talks about how works (how we perform as Christians) are not the source of grace but lifestyle-changing faith in God himself, faith that we get abundantly from God.
Do not be overly righteous, Nor be overly wise: Why should you destroy yourself? Do not be overly wicked, Nor be foolish: Why should you die before your time? It is good that you grasp this, And also not remove your hand from the other; For he who fears God will escape them all. Ecclesiastes 7:16-18
He's a Nigerian and was born in Nigeria. This ain't his first time on the show tho. He went home with one tall-ass model sometime ago. They looked perfect but it seems it did not work eventually. I like the dude, quite opinionated and seem to have been disciplined enough through his youthful life
I'm glad the guy at the end asked her the same question that she asked them. Men, we have our say in a relationship, too! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Great observation by 200 at the end! Speak about who you are! ❤
She’s right on this one.. how do you know your wife or your husband is mad at you and instead of talking it out you just go somewhere to have fun or whatever you do and then you want to talk it out.. two hours to cool off that’s fine but twelve hours that’s too much and your partner might think you just don’t care about their feelings.. just talk it out .. the gentleman in the purple blazer got it right ! And it’s NOT being controlling it’s how conflicts should be resolved
9:17 that’s actually a great idea Bro, so many of us want to hash things out or respond in the heat of the moment and from my own experience I’ve noticed that never goes well. So taking 12 hours to reply to anything or to finish talking about it might be beneficial personally for the situation. She sounded disappointed like she wouldn’t be able to handle that, bad sign.
Controlling women also only care about what they want, and not what their husbands want. People say, "Happy wife makes a happy life." But what about his happiness, too? Someone else said, "A happy spouse makes a happy house." When only her happiness matters, you're saying the husband doesn't matter. How can you be more important than your head? That's the same equivalent as saying we're more important than Jesus as our Head. To think this, is like saying you don't need a head to manage your entire body. The brain is in the head. All the nerve functions start in the brain. The skeletal system stems out of the brain. The cells formulate from the brain, where the head is. The ears, the eyes, nose, the mouth and all the main functions come from the brain that's in the head, even the heart needs blood pumped to it by the electrical triggers of the brain. That's why they call you a vegetable when you go brain-dead because it's not too much longer before the heart stops for having the electrical triggers pumping charges to the heart. Do you see the point God is making? Without the head, you become susceptible and gullible to every type of scheme and plot against the entire body. Everything organ and system comes out of the head when a child is developing the embryo. So, tell me, do many women still think they can function properly without their head (a true man)? No, they can't! Together, the head and the body are made to function correctly. We need one another. But without yielding to her head, women run the risk of every type of danger there is. This is the truth. Men don't say we don't need or want our women. They say those things about us, which is completely false. Again, how can you not need your head, that carries all the functions to the organs of the body? It's just a thought. God bless.
Tbh I understood where she was coming from. 12 hours is crazy to wait to work things out and can make someone feel unwanted. But I also get him. He doesn’t handle confrontation or disputes probably well and wants to make sure he makes the right choices it’s his coping mechanism and highly respected. At the end of the day men love and need peace so I get it. Alpha personality women need a super dominant alpha man. The guy she matched with, you can tell he’s serious about Jesus and means every word he says and she would probably submit to a true God fearing man. I hope in the follow up she doesn’t turn out to be a jazzy though. I wanna see one of these matches becomes a real couple 😂
I would disgree with you. When God is the centre of your life, everything revolves around that. You can't treat Jesus like some part of your life, He is either Lord of your life or He is not. "Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Give no offense, either to the Jews or to the Greeks or to the church of God, just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved." I Corinthians 10:31-33
She seems controlling at 1st but she really isnt especially when she said shes working on her relationship with God and how she controls stress and conflicts.
There Is different kinds of stress from somebody from some thing,you deal with stress as it comes, riding my electric bike, I got two of them usually soothe whatever I’m going through
Stress, I'm not familiar with that term LOL. Conflict, if you bring it ima open the door for ya.......PEACE. Take the stress with you. I'm 51 and both stress and conflict are killers, no thank you. She fine but 200 you read the hell out of her. It's a pass she bringing no peace and that's what a man really wants.
Ok, so here's the thing with height guys. As a woman who's 5'9" it feels funny to date smaller men. I actually married a shorter man than me but it really takes getting used to. Women want big strong hands and a bigger body to curl up with n feel protected. At least, imo thats what it feels like.
Some people need to process what’s been said… I’ve learned that if we get in to it, that in the heat of the moment there is a chance that some things may be said that shouldn’t be said because of the friction. Let me take my time and process the issue and I’ll get back.
Okay but what if God is really the center of everything he do.?When God is truly your centrepiece, all things concerning your being and your life, navigate arounds Him. And that's for a fact. It doesn't mean that he tries to manipulate or remove his truth or hide himself in that. And also your purpose must be God’s will. Not yours. I like this guy, I can see myself speaking the same way because I truly love God and trust in him. And concerning the women, maybe she have some controlling traits to her but with the wisdom he has, he will be able to bring her closer to God and help her with that spirit of control. It doesn’t necessarily means that she will automatically taking advantage of that. He also look like he is a leader. Women respect leadership and self controlled men.
The more I watch these shows the more I see why alot of women be single the fact she want to determine how much time a man should take for him to process stuff and fact she so strong on conflict shows she expects a man to take everything she says and does but when he does he is gone kinda vibes she gives me acres I give u your props
I believe dude in the purple jackets is a pick me. I recall one of the females having a problem with his all black attire when he took the jacket off. Than right after he puts it back on.. than in the same context he throws a slick shot at the first brother talking aboit God. Seems kinda disingenuous to me
Having a few hobbies is a great way of dealing with stress. I think every man in a relationship needs hobbies to take our mind off of things for a while.
Yea them you get the you got time for your hobbies not me they are never happy 😃 😂
I agree. It's important for men to have their own spaces away from the family where you can train and get rid of some stress
We all need our own identities, friends, and hobbies it is very healthy to be able to have fun with or without your mate.
ßeautiful woman? I notice he titles his videos that if the wmn is lghtsknd. He gives me co|or struck 😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
ßeautiful woman? I notice he'll title his videos that if the wmn is lghtsknd. He gives me c○|○r struck😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
It sucks because height is something men cant control
Who told you that , you can controlling it with height lengthening surgery
@@tristan583you goofy
@@tristan583you’re trolling right? That’s dumb asf
If you have 2 kids as your limit then you can’t have more than 2 baby mamas
@@ets2446Asf Straight Nerd
Two things: 1.arguing with a woman is a waste of time. 2.I would never feed into escalating emotions, I’d bounce and let things settle, no matter how long it takes
I work in sales for an electronics company
Me: stop you work at Best Buy!!
😂😂😂😂
Lmao for real, they don't care about her jobs
😂😂😂 I didn’t think of that, good call
Right just keep it simple!!!
@@standforluv 😂😂😂
The man in the purple talking about Jesus is the best. He knows to put Jesus first in every thing. But you need a Godly woman on your arm or else anyother woman won't understand you
You tell her you want to have a small devotional and she comes in the room dressed in lingerie.
Facts! No need to yoke yourself to someone who doesn't have the spiritual maturity or right mind in order to comprehend and perceive you in the right manner.
And she's clearly got serious trauma going on. She needs serious healing, I feel bad for the brother.
I wish them the best. However, With them having a personal relationship with God and being led by Jesus actions. They should Know That Jesus went in the wilderness for 40 days and 40 nights to step away and clear his mind to refocus on his purpose. So for a man needing to step away for 12 hours to clear his mind and refocus on his relationship should be understood.
We need you to buy his pies and do a review. 😂🥧🍰🥧
The man did the right thing in putting God first. He ain't no fool if the woman does not agree with his decision and think he talks too much about God. He will not stay in that relationship and be controlled by her.
2 months later....they are not together because her mental illness finally shows up
That’s what I’m worried about 😂. I want the saved guy to find his helpmeet. I want one of these matches to actually work
Imagine 2 kids with 3 baby mamas.
😂
😂🤣
She said no more than 2 kids.
@@harmony3279 she said "no more than 2 kids, and no more than 2 baby mamas" 😂
😂😂right...I was like 🤔no more than 2 kids and 2 baby moms🤔that wouldn't even work with twins😒🤣POP😂
Bruh EVERYTHING you said at the end is ON POINT!!!! She will RUN ALL OVER HIM USING THE BIBLE!!!! He is a godly simp. I’ve seen it before and my ex wife wanted me to be one for her but I ain’t that guy. I’m all about loving my wife as Christ loves the church, but with BALANCE. I’m not loving her more than I love myself. I’m loving her AS I love myself which means I’m not going to allow her to mentally and emotionally abuse me by being manipulated and gaslighting me.
🤣🤣 man you don’t know game when you see it huh. He knew what to say to get her and use it real smooth. This the type of person you watch. You see how he had an answer for everything. You see how he flipped the 12 hours the first dude said because she didn’t like it 😂😂. You see how he made her the center. Than when he seen her feeling the last guy he flipped her own question which impress her it was slick as hell 😂😂. I got to see the recap between them two I feel this was a master class piece he put on lol
You failed your marriage because you were not equally yoked. GODLY simp is an oxymoron.
I can see the Jezebel in her all day
He’s not a simp. I doubt she can run over him. Maybe because I go to a church with a lot of God fearing strong men and being married to one, I know for certain no matter how crazy a chick is she’s not getting over on him unless he lets his guard down
@@trueprophets4704dang you’re a hater 😂
Fake soft voice red flag 🚩
Biiiiiggg red flag, calm is good but her calm is scary like those woman in the lifetime movies network
Success is achieving your goals. Everyone is not built to be a Dr or lawyer, nor wants to be one.
I believe in resolving the conflict when it presents itself. If that doesn't work, then take the appropriate time apart to deescalate an issue and return with more clarity.
She said no more than 2 kids and no more than 2 baby mothers 😂😂😂. How many baby mothers can you have with only 2 kids?
She is controlling! But the fact you said "He rejected her because..." is misleading. Not one of the men rejected her for an substantive reason; only feeling of lack of "vibes".
YOU virtually rejected her in your commentary, as did I when I heard her response to the first guy's personal & reasonable answers.
She's an undercover "strong" woman; definitely controlling.
I had a girl just like her and she got on my nerves every chance she get 😂 thank god we didn't last long
I'm 5'8 (on a good day) and an atheist. She and I would never match 😂😂
you are taller than her
The 3rd guy in the suit his response is 💯
The guy that talked about God for every answer felt performative and gave narc pastor to me. I def felt what you were saying about controlling women trying to control religious men. The Bible talks about how works (how we perform as Christians) are not the source of grace but lifestyle-changing faith in God himself, faith that we get abundantly from God.
Sounds like a job interview.
Bruuhhh
Same thing I said
12 hours makes since to me. Females be holding crazy grudges.
Yeah. She is they type that you try to walk away from and she will grab your arm and keep nagging
Seems like she is searching for someone who is going to take whatever she throws, and James from Gourmet Pies has a voice that I cannot get with, nooo
Do not be overly righteous, Nor be overly wise: Why should you destroy yourself? Do not be overly wicked, Nor be foolish: Why should you die before your time? It is good that you grasp this, And also not remove your hand from the other; For he who fears God will escape them all.
Ecclesiastes 7:16-18
When she say conflict,,,😂
$o pretty girl tho
I'm loving these men being bold for Jesus ❤❤❤
The second guy did jail time i know he did 😂
Something seems off about her….🤔
Snake like, too promiscuous conspicuous All that
Looking at her you Can see the fake part in her story
She fine tho
I swear there’s nothing more over the top than saved black folks. My goodness
I swear 😂
LOL!!!
God/Jesus is over the top for me so in return I'll be for them‼️🫴🏽✝️❤️🛐🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 #Noshade #Noshame
@@serenedione ✊🏾
Lucifer saved me👺
That's how I am I want a black black woman👊🏾
Rebaptized😂
I can confirm dude speaks Spanish 👍
The guy in dreads/jalabiya said he starts his day listening to Burna Boy! Nigeria to the world! 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
He's a Nigerian and was born in Nigeria. This ain't his first time on the show tho. He went home with one tall-ass model sometime ago. They looked perfect but it seems it did not work eventually. I like the dude, quite opinionated and seem to have been disciplined enough through his youthful life
Burna is the truth 💯
He’s a professional dog trainer, really cool brotha.
@@born2blaze916yeah he learned from Black America
@@Loveamericasave Burna has been himself for ages. He didn't learn his style from Black America
I'm glad the guy at the end asked her the same question that she asked them.
Men, we have our say in a relationship, too! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great observation by 200 at the end! Speak about who you are! ❤
She say what is your communication style like wdf were cooked 😂😂😂😂
I would of told her by mouth and English language
Your the only reaction channel I watch lol like I like how you comment on what they saying 🖤🔥
ladies notice men love natural hair, NATURAL HAIR! LEARN TO DO YOUR NATURAL HAIR....
Yeah...Her hair
👏👏👏 yep, she’s trouble 😂
200 my brother you called that shit man😂👊🏾
You have got to respect people's way of handling conflicts... For me, give me time not space 😅
Exactly! Respect how people do things 🙏🏾
200 sound like he could be a character on an all black version of family guy called Cuz’nem.
People use that vibe word to f$$$$$ much
Unfortunately 😕 and that's my nickname and company name lol
How could someone have two babies and more than two baby mothers?
We do have to say GOD. GOD IS THE CENTER. HE IS THE CREATOR
The Bible guy😂😂
Long-winded and annoying 😅
Her: I don't have a type.
Her as well: The height
She’s right on this one.. how do you know your wife or your husband is mad at you and instead of talking it out you just go somewhere to have fun or whatever you do and then you want to talk it out.. two hours to cool off that’s fine but twelve hours that’s too much and your partner might think you just don’t care about their feelings.. just talk it out .. the gentleman in the purple blazer got it right ! And it’s NOT being controlling it’s how conflicts should be resolved
Host On Point About Controlling Jezebel Acting Innocent for Benefits Self Preservation 💯🤴🏽🤜🏽🤛🏽🔥👁️🔥
Your commentary be having me weak lol
$aluve18
She ain't like none ah dem...she seems shallow to me and the person she chose is not real....he said the things she wanna hear
kings just know
I agree. The homie said EXACTLY what she wanted to hear. He just wanted to win.
Keep the video coming very informative.
U called it 😂
This girl is to bossy 😂😂😂😂❤❤ i sense that long
9:17 that’s actually a great idea Bro, so many of us want to hash things out or respond in the heat of the moment and from my own experience I’ve noticed that never goes well. So taking 12 hours to reply to anything or to finish talking about it might be beneficial personally for the situation. She sounded disappointed like she wouldn’t be able to handle that, bad sign.
U so right about speakin about God like could mean u hiding something lol man u so funny 😂
Either he's real and he's about that life, or he's real crazy. Time will tell.
I just knew she was gonna pop Blades balloon 🎈
Controlling women also only care about what they want, and not what their husbands want. People say, "Happy wife makes a happy life." But what about his happiness, too? Someone else said, "A happy spouse makes a happy house." When only her happiness matters, you're saying the husband doesn't matter. How can you be more important than your head? That's the same equivalent as saying we're more important than Jesus as our Head. To think this, is like saying you don't need a head to manage your entire body. The brain is in the head. All the nerve functions start in the brain. The skeletal system stems out of the brain. The cells formulate from the brain, where the head is. The ears, the eyes, nose, the mouth and all the main functions come from the brain that's in the head, even the heart needs blood pumped to it by the electrical triggers of the brain. That's why they call you a vegetable when you go brain-dead because it's not too much longer before the heart stops for having the electrical triggers pumping charges to the heart. Do you see the point God is making? Without the head, you become susceptible and gullible to every type of scheme and plot against the entire body. Everything organ and system comes out of the head when a child is developing the embryo. So, tell me, do many women still think they can function properly without their head (a true man)? No, they can't! Together, the head and the body are made to function correctly. We need one another. But without yielding to her head, women run the risk of every type of danger there is. This is the truth. Men don't say we don't need or want our women. They say those things about us, which is completely false. Again, how can you not need your head, that carries all the functions to the organs of the body? It's just a thought. God bless.
the music tho. real chill and playa
All I'm gonna say is that the hostess' blue dress is quite classy
She's argumentative.. Fuck all that. Im not fighting you for you.
Agree with 200 acres. Saying God all the time is a cover.
It's like the, more attractive they are the worse the attitude.
Tbh I understood where she was coming from. 12 hours is crazy to wait to work things out and can make someone feel unwanted. But I also get him. He doesn’t handle confrontation or disputes probably well and wants to make sure he makes the right choices it’s his coping mechanism and highly respected. At the end of the day men love and need peace so I get it.
Alpha personality women need a super dominant alpha man. The guy she matched with, you can tell he’s serious about Jesus and means every word he says and she would probably submit to a true God fearing man. I hope in the follow up she doesn’t turn out to be a jazzy though. I wanna see one of these matches becomes a real couple 😂
Da dude w da rag on his head is confrontational
he a trick as well
He says he’s Comedian, but he seems too serious. And he hasn’t crack a joke.
@@Mr.Bathelus832facts, way too serious
Ehh can't tell if he's playing or not but I'm getting hostile vibes, no thanks
I would disgree with you. When God is the centre of your life, everything revolves around that. You can't treat Jesus like some part of your life, He is either Lord of your life or He is not.
"Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Give no offense, either to the Jews or to the Greeks or to the church of God, just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved." I Corinthians 10:31-33
Lol pinky over there talking about "i don't be 12 hours like buddy over there" lol shots fired
😂😂😂I LOVE HOW ARNETT SAY WE GOT A MAAAATCH!
Yo the short guy with the blue shirt is 40?? I thought he was in his 20s
He take real good care of himself that says a lot.
Purple shirt is full of it!😂😂 He didn’t feel he had a chance
they way you break it down is spot on
Why he mentioned his family mixed race lol.
Ol boy wit the pies sound like magoo lol...up jumps the boogy 😂😂
She seems controlling at 1st but she really isnt especially when she said shes working on her relationship with God and how she controls stress and conflicts.
U could say that yea
Maybe she had a violent boyfriend previously and want to see how he manages stress.
There Is different kinds of stress from somebody from some thing,you deal with stress as it comes, riding my electric bike, I got two of them usually soothe whatever I’m going through
Gotta give you your props cause she’s definitely controlling
It was a red flag for me when she said no more than 2 kids, no more than 2 baby mamas. As if there could be 3 baby mamas or more with 2 kids.
Just meant 2 kids/2 babymamas max 😅
Yeah i was feeling the same way about the guy that matched. But much power to him but ive seen dudes like that all the time.
Totally agree with your comet at the end...Thank you.
Stress, I'm not familiar with that term LOL. Conflict, if you bring it ima open the door for ya.......PEACE. Take the stress with you. I'm 51 and both stress and conflict are killers, no thank you. She fine but 200 you read the hell out of her. It's a pass she bringing no peace and that's what a man really wants.
She sounds like someone that presses your buttons a lot…😂 $GregCharlemagne
Ok, so here's the thing with height guys. As a woman who's 5'9" it feels funny to date smaller men. I actually married a shorter man than me but it really takes getting used to. Women want big strong hands and a bigger body to curl up with n feel protected. At least, imo thats what it feels like.
Some people need to process what’s been said… I’ve learned that if we get in to it, that in the heat of the moment there is a chance that some things may be said that shouldn’t be said because of the friction. Let me take my time and process the issue and I’ll get back.
Not you saying she’s asking questions about herself😂😂😂
He definitely always introduces himself by his business name
I agree with you.. you don't have to mention God for everything.. the people that talk about God in every sentence are the biggest hypocrites.
From 10k to 40 k...i see you patna
😂James grommet pies comes to market his business 🧑💼 😂he not playing he score even tho
*Gourmet 😂
@@serenedione I shame lol
4th dude is repeat ...you'll see him again
Great match!❤
lol yo y’all need James with the pies and the other guy jivens on there at the same time that would be priceless 😂😂😂
Was thinking the same thing on the skydiving 🎈 📌
All black: i have a stressful job... I'm a dog trainer and on the weekends I dress as a praying power ranger. Lol jk
Why confused girl? ... 2 kids, 2 baby mama. ..
Okay but what if God is really the center of everything he do.?When God is truly your centrepiece, all things concerning your being and your life, navigate arounds Him. And that's for a fact. It doesn't mean that he tries to manipulate or remove his truth or hide himself in that.
And also your purpose must be God’s will. Not yours.
I like this guy, I can see myself speaking the same way because I truly love God and trust in him.
And concerning the women, maybe she have some controlling traits to her but with the wisdom he has, he will be able to bring her closer to God and help her with that spirit of control. It doesn’t necessarily means that she will automatically taking advantage of that. He also look like he is a leader. Women respect leadership and self controlled men.
Love the way you responded ...I feel the same.
😂wait that shook me why did you 🤣why the black hat you could’ve said dark chocolate or something
The more I watch these shows the more I see why alot of women be single the fact she want to determine how much time a man should take for him to process stuff and fact she so strong on conflict shows she expects a man to take everything she says and does but when he does he is gone kinda vibes she gives me acres I give u your props
I like how you give your responses man you pretty good at this lol I like your reactions
I believe dude in the purple jackets is a pick me. I recall one of the females having a problem with his all black attire when he took the jacket off. Than right after he puts it back on.. than in the same context he throws a slick shot at the first brother talking aboit God. Seems kinda disingenuous to me
12 hours is realistic