She has successfully destroyed her marriage. But I may say the girl emulates her Mum, trying to control her husband 😂😂😂 but it did not work for her. 💔💔💔💔
The girl should be respectful and the guy still love him can’t you guys see Ben cash you’re smart enough to see the guy still love her but she should be respectful
What she did is serious! Saying she needs 3 more years was awful !!!! The girl is still running her mouth, so proud , no remorse, quite controlling !!!!! The man is a very good and responsible man . They are pushing him to the wall. Ben, you are hard on the man. He needs TIME . He has been pushed to the wall. The girl is rude. How can she call him an irresponsible man.
Exactly, who is more irresponsible than the wife who aborted her pregnancy and taking contraceptive without the knowledge of her husband. She has broken the TRUST. MOTHER & DAUGHTER ARE TRYING TO BULLY THE GUY IN ACCEPTING HER, THEY JUST WANT HIM TO SHUT UP AND SUP UP.
let's be sincere here, the lady is at fault and she has admitted and pleaded for mercy with her family , and the guy still refuse. and the guy sees it as an opportunity to cheat and misbehaving. the guy is not serious
This girl you should be remorseful because you are acting as if you have not done anything wrong , mummy have spoken well the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, beg your husband, you are wrong
There is alot of issues between these couple. They do need marriage counseling if it must work. Its true the lady took out her pregnancy selfishly and its a terrible act but not one that can't be forgiven. She voiced her reasons and fears and rather than condeming her, her seeking therapy to address her fears would be appropriate as well as the husband discussing with her of his anger and how they can move forward to support each other and ensure it does not repeat itself. As for the man, there is likewise alot for him to work on. His dominating, arrogant and disrespectful behavior is appalling. Being disrespectful to his wife's mother does not speak well for him. Commanding ownership of what should be for his wife and himself such as the wife as well as feeling entitled on when to forgive tells he does not understand the basics of marriage. If truly his already talking to another woman when they are not divorced tells he feels an entitlement and reason based on his wife's act. I totally agree with the wife that her mental health is very important and if truly she was sick in the house and called the husband with no reaponse cos he was talking to a female on the phone, then its time for both of them to take a step back and either choose to 1. Work this out truthfully with the help of a marriage counselor or therapy., 2. Separation 3. Divorce. I am not an advocate for divorce but when it comes to cheating, or hitting, beating a spouse then its time to move on. I pray for restored marriage for these 2 young couples. There is no perfect marriage out there, neither is there any act that is unforgivable, but 2 people in a marriage can choose to put God first as their foundation and build on respect, love and care/support for each other.
Guy go away from this Senseless manipulated so called marriage. Don't listen to the useless things she, the mother and bencash is saying. Walk away from that bondage called marriages💔💔💔💔💔🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
My dear brother I am very proud of you go away from this called marriage for u safety ben u can never understand and they is no way u can understand ontill u got married and u wife tell you ontill 6 years before you will bear u a child
Ben Cash, if you were 37 years old today but you married at the age of 34 and if your wife refuses pregnancy till she clocks 30 and you clock 40 years, will you wait for an additional 3 years till you reach 40 years before pregnancy? What is the guarantee that when you click 40 years that pregnancy will happen automatically? And your first child will be 20 years old when you are 60 years. Old boy let this empty headed girl go. This is the last time I will watch this skit. Bye everyone.
This guy already has someone somewhere...may God never forgive you when you sin and ask him for forgiveness. Let's say she was ignorant about what she did initially.. but now she has realised her mistakes and asked for forgiveness, why are you taking it at length? There's cockroach in his cupboard. He's not clear....he nags, he's very vulgar, he lacks manners, he's too full of himself. Please let him go..
People dont know,this man is so nice.Allow the man to heal.How can a married woman kill her own children.If she cant wait let her go.The lady is wicked.Brother i support you. Heal on your own pace Ben cash, atimes your judgement doesnt Gel.
Guy if you don't want Ben cash advice to make this marriage out or u got a next gal on the sides, guy make this marriage to work, mama na true talk for saying that it patient that make a marriage work plus God grace. Marriage Anit easy but forgiveness for each other with her. The saying the evil you know Anit the same has the won you don't know so blood make this marriage sorted out. Don't let Satan destroy wat God Almighty has done for you 2024
The mother is a good person and kind mother. But my man what your wife did was very bad. But forgive her even you've offended God from your childhood but He forgives u so please forgive your wife also let your wife give birth within one year or else divorce her....
You have forgiven her yet you are issuing her a divorce. This guy was looking for a way to let go of his wife and boom! his wife gave him a leeway, very easy opportunity. Wife, secure your mental health and life. This man doesn't give a hoot about you
Foolish woman, the man already said he doesn’t want you anymore. He has not been taking your calls. He can talk to anyone at this point. It’s over, he just need you sign the paperwork. Why are you guys acting like you have no sense at all 😮
So sad that this man is now waivering. The wife is threatening separate ways and he's now waivering. So sad. If this man doesn't go ahead with divorce then this woman will be emboldened and will always flush the pregnancy and disrespect him. What makes a strong man is to reason the problem very well and then make a decision. N when that decision has been made, a strong man will stand on it. Now, it looks like this man may not be a high value strong man because he's waivering on the divorce
Ben Cash please stop bringing this lady to occupy your platform 😡 not sure why she has not packed out of the man’s house. The guy needs a piece of mind and should get the divorce papers signed. Marriage is not a do or die.
Every woman that truly submissive to her husband should have strategy to mellow her husband when in high motion. Her husband is irritated already but she fell to b remorseful. Someone that had abortion her husband first fruit she had to terminate bcos of flimsy and useless excuses. She was full of herself as a nurse and refuse to b respectful to her husband. What is marriage without trust and respect that she had murdered in d marriage. I bet she would regret her actions in time to come. She would soon understand to get a good and younger man no dey easy. Pls marriage is for men and women not for adults child 's. Don't come and b wasting somebody 's son time abeg.
This girl cannot stay with s man, she jad s mindset of how her marriage will be but life is not like that!!! She is taking advantage of the kind of the feeling the man has for her.The mother sef is not helping matas She is s spoil spot who is used to getting whatever she wants. He should forgive his wife and what next? She is still insisting on waiting for 3year and the husband said he cannot wait.Divorce can be an option when the 2 in the marriage does not have the same goal. The chick of it she is getting jealous that the man is talking to another woman!!
I feel there's no marriage without issues but prolonging it ,its very bad and i also feel this girl and the man are so disrespectful especially the man to his mother inlaw with so much pride, i know he is hot but not with. So much pride which is bad
Mummy thank you , still talk to them , marriage is not easy at all , please guy forgive her and let the peace take control of everything , she will have another pregnant for you , thank you , both of you are blessed in Jesus mighty name amen , thank you Ben.
U see you life for u to calm down and chill out but u want to stress your husband, well you made Satan to destroy your marriage 2024 to dirt for u to say am sorry be remorseful to him and tell him u want Bella for him
Yes oh the mama expect you to buy her gold for her neck for a job well done 👏 mama your daughter misbehave she was out of order and you expect him to be grateful for the rubbish your daughter did oh,you guys cannot force the guy to do what he never wants to do na is not by force
The lady is talking about her mental health but when she was killing her unborn children she didn’t put the husbands mental health into contemplation , but now that the husband is frying her in her own oil she can’t take it she wants out. Bro let her go I know it will be hard because this is a lady you loved but she is not a wife material she is not respectful neither is she remorseful for all the things she did that brought the, to where they are today.
She is not toxic, the man does not have any love for her, and does not want to forgive the lady, so the man will make everything the lady does to be toxic on her part. If it does not work let go and go ur separate ways, never beg anyone to love u or stay in ur life🎉
Why the mother of the girl didn’t want to go and see the guy parents and settle this matter amicably instead of her coming to media and mess up her herself, no respect for her from her son in law.
Ben cash do u see what that guy is trying to avoid at the initial stage, this same girl trigered the beast out of this guy, now do u see the result?, so allow that girl to go, she didnt deserve that guy okay
It’s unfortunate that you guys have decided to call it quits simply because you don’t want to have a baby. My sister It now makes sense that you’re so concerned of your physical outlook and body that you have lost it. Therefore, If this will bring both of you some happiness then purse that goal and don’t ever return back to him again. My guy I know you will cry not minding the pretenses you put up. Nonetheless, accept it as a way of life and the sincerest apologies you will receive. Watching from New York.
There’s a yawning gap in this union, as long as that gap still exists, this union may never stabilize. I wish my friend,the head of the family,takes the bull by the horn and initiate a strong move that can easily seal up all gaps. The wife seriously feels insecure ,not withstanding her unholy mistakes, a second chance built on sincerity is seriously required of the husband. My friends, let the healings begin please. Thanks mother for your total submissions!
This aspect of the wife not wanting to carry a pregnancy for the next 3 yrs is a thing of concern. The husband also, has words that are verbally abusive and the wife follows to run her mouth .How can you marry and be addressing your wife as who are you ? do you own a house.My dear man, humble yourself too
My borther i carry hand for u, u do the right thing. Forget this lady joor then move on with ur life. This lady nor follow. He can be on a call with his mum or sister or anuty or close relative at any time as long he is not happy with the so call wife. Nor mean he nor get him right to talk to woman.
This marriage ended the day the so-called wife ( legally married) was caught aborting their baby without her husband knowledge. The mother is as bad as the girl referring to that as miscarriage. No man should be safe with a woman who acted like this . Its pure unforgiving evil
Summary of the case so far: This guy has his mind somewhere, he's looking for opportunity to exit. The lady has some complexes that are even worsened by her insecurities about her body and experiences at work. What she needs is an understanding/supporting and reassuring husband. The man needs a woman who doesn't talk too much thereby challenging him. Both of them will regret in the end if they do divorce. Both need space and therapy to see the bigger picture together, (say 6 months), then they can come back together, plan and collectively work towards a common goal. It will be easier, they would have also tasted life without each other.
You are ignoring "the elephant in the room", the woman is still deciding, unilaterally of waiting for 3 years before agreeing to get pregnant, meaning she is not going to stop taking contraceptives. That is the main issue at hand, apart from aborting their baby without his knowledge. The couples have different needs, the husband needs a child as soon as possible, while the wife wants to pursue her education and career, apart from her physical insecurities.
I think all follow. By the time she returns she would have changed her mind. These are things that are all agreed during courtship, I wonder what some people discuss at such time.
This man enough is enough abeg she has pleaded with you n even her mum too has begged u. Let go n both should sit n talk it over. She has done bad let the past be
Are you serious right now? Is that a communication, you called her way of communication a communication? Communication is when both parties are making sense not the other person is hell bent on having her way. Abeggi
Guy she wrongs u the whole world and God knows that forgive her for the sake of your mother inlaw she's a nice woman the way am looking at it , your wife is going to repent
She has successfully destroyed her marriage. But I may say the girl emulates her Mum, trying to control her husband 😂😂😂 but it did not work for her. 💔💔💔💔
Honestly… she no for see husband again
Ben leave that man alone. Let that toxic woman go away from him as it's better for him. She's trying to blame the man for her breaking their marriage
Ben Cash kept bringing her back for no apparent reasons. She is just coming here to run her filthy mouth.
This girl doesn't have sense, no repentance or remorse
You have sin na
She is unremorseful. Let her go.
The girl should be respectful and the guy still love him can’t you guys see Ben cash you’re smart enough to see the guy still love her but she should be respectful
Mummy is a good woman. She needs to talk to her daughter about her three years waiting
How, when she calling MATRIMONIAL ABORTION A MISCARRIAGE. NEVER ADDRESS WAITING FOR 5 YEARS B4 THEY CAN MAKE BAY. COMMON.
What she did is serious! Saying she needs 3 more years was awful !!!! The girl is still running her mouth, so proud , no remorse, quite controlling !!!!! The man is a very good and responsible man . They are pushing him to the wall. Ben, you are hard on the man. He needs TIME . He has been pushed to the wall. The girl is rude. How can she call him an irresponsible man.
Exactly, who is more irresponsible than the wife who aborted her pregnancy and taking contraceptive without the knowledge of her husband. She has broken the TRUST. MOTHER & DAUGHTER ARE TRYING TO BULLY THE GUY IN ACCEPTING HER, THEY JUST WANT HIM TO SHUT UP AND SUP UP.
What are you saying na even do forgive us our sin no matter what sin God will still forgive us....abeg jooor
Let that young woman go her way she is not a nice woman
let's be sincere here, the lady is at fault and she has admitted and pleaded for mercy with her family , and the guy still refuse. and the guy sees it as an opportunity to cheat and misbehaving. the guy is not serious
my brother this is not wife material. No respect from the woman
Best decision. By the time she finishes her three years , she will see someone who will marry her😢.
This girl you should be remorseful because you are acting as if you have not done anything wrong , mummy have spoken well the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, beg your husband, you are wrong
Bencash is a goat
There is alot of issues between these couple. They do need marriage counseling if it must work. Its true the lady took out her pregnancy selfishly and its a terrible act but not one that can't be forgiven. She voiced her reasons and fears and rather than condeming her, her seeking therapy to address her fears would be appropriate as well as the husband discussing with her of his anger and how they can move forward to support each other and ensure it does not repeat itself.
As for the man, there is likewise alot for him to work on. His dominating, arrogant and disrespectful behavior is appalling. Being disrespectful to his wife's mother does not speak well for him. Commanding ownership of what should be for his wife and himself such as the wife as well as feeling entitled on when to forgive tells he does not understand the basics of marriage. If truly his already talking to another woman when they are not divorced tells he feels an entitlement and reason based on his wife's act.
I totally agree with the wife that her mental health is very important and if truly she was sick in the house and called the husband with no reaponse cos he was talking to a female on the phone, then its time for both of them to take a step back and either choose to 1. Work this out truthfully with the help of a marriage counselor or therapy., 2. Separation 3. Divorce.
I am not an advocate for divorce but when it comes to cheating, or hitting, beating a spouse then its time to move on.
I pray for restored marriage for these 2 young couples. There is no perfect marriage out there, neither is there any act that is unforgivable, but 2 people in a marriage can choose to put God first as their foundation and build on respect, love and care/support for each other.
Ben Cash have you ever been hurt this man as been deeply hurt
This lady is not 27 She probably 40+ & shes not WIFEMATERIAL
Guy go away from this Senseless manipulated so called marriage. Don't listen to the useless things she, the mother and bencash is saying. Walk away from that bondage called marriages💔💔💔💔💔🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
She's trying to play the victim 😂😂😂😂
This man said who are you very bad
My dear brother I am very proud of you go away from this called marriage for u safety ben u can never understand and they is no way u can understand ontill u got married and u wife tell you ontill 6 years before you will bear u a child
Yes, your wife has wronged you, forgive so that GOD in heaven will also forgive you when you wrong HIM.
Ben Cash, if you were 37 years old today but you married at the age of 34 and if your wife refuses pregnancy till she clocks 30 and you clock 40 years, will you wait for an additional 3 years till you reach 40 years before pregnancy?
What is the guarantee that when you click 40 years that pregnancy will happen automatically? And your first child will be 20 years old when you are 60 years.
Old boy let this empty headed girl go.
This is the last time I will watch this skit. Bye everyone.
This guy already has someone somewhere...may God never forgive you when you sin and ask him for forgiveness.
Let's say she was ignorant about what she did initially.. but now she has realised her mistakes and asked for forgiveness, why are you taking it at length?
There's cockroach in his cupboard. He's not clear....he nags, he's very vulgar, he lacks manners, he's too full of himself. Please let him go..
Lady you didn't respect her by flushing the baby and you want respect. You only reap what you sow my dear. Respect is reciprocal
People dont know,this man is so nice.Allow the man to heal.How can a married woman kill her own children.If she cant wait let her go.The lady is wicked.Brother i support you. Heal on your own pace Ben cash, atimes your judgement doesnt Gel.
Guy if you don't want Ben cash advice to make this marriage out or u got a next gal on the sides, guy make this marriage to work, mama na true talk for saying that it patient that make a marriage work plus God grace. Marriage Anit easy but forgiveness for each other with her. The saying the evil you know Anit the same has the won you don't know so blood make this marriage sorted out. Don't let Satan destroy wat God Almighty has done for you 2024
This girl will regret her rubbish attitude and actions. Best for him to leave this yeye girl
The mother is a good person and kind mother. But my man what your wife did was very bad. But forgive her even you've offended God from your childhood but He forgives u so please forgive your wife also let your wife give birth within one year or else divorce her....
You have forgiven her yet you are issuing her a divorce. This guy was looking for a way to let go of his wife and boom! his wife gave him a leeway, very easy opportunity. Wife, secure your mental health and life. This man doesn't give a hoot about you
Ben you’re always trying to force your ideas/your ways into your clients 😩🤔
Foolish woman, the man already said he doesn’t want you anymore. He has not been taking your calls. He can talk to anyone at this point. It’s over, he just need you sign the paperwork. Why are you guys acting like you have no sense at all 😮
She’s the cause of the marriage ending.
So sad that this man is now waivering. The wife is threatening separate ways and he's now waivering. So sad. If this man doesn't go ahead with divorce then this woman will be emboldened and will always flush the pregnancy and disrespect him.
What makes a strong man is to reason the problem very well and then make a decision. N when that decision has been made, a strong man will stand on it. Now, it looks like this man may not be a high value strong man because he's waivering on the divorce
Ben Cash please stop bringing this lady to occupy your platform 😡 not sure why she has not packed out of the man’s house. The guy needs a piece of mind and should get the divorce papers signed. Marriage is not a do or die.
Every woman that truly submissive to her husband should have strategy to mellow her husband when in high motion. Her husband is irritated already but she fell to b remorseful. Someone that had abortion her husband first fruit she had to terminate bcos of flimsy and useless excuses. She was full of herself as a nurse and refuse to b respectful to her husband. What is marriage without trust and respect that she had murdered in d marriage. I bet she would regret her actions in time to come. She would soon understand to get a good and younger man no dey easy. Pls marriage is for men and women not for adults child 's. Don't come and b wasting somebody 's son time abeg.
This girl cannot stay with s man, she jad s mindset of how her marriage will be but life is not like that!!! She is taking advantage of the kind of the
feeling the man has for her.The mother sef is not helping matas
She is s spoil spot who is used to getting whatever she wants. He should forgive his wife and what next? She is still insisting on waiting for 3year and the husband said he cannot wait.Divorce can be an option when the 2 in the marriage does not have the same goal. The chick of it she is getting jealous that the man is talking to another woman!!
I feel there's no marriage without issues but prolonging it ,its very bad and i also feel this girl and the man are so disrespectful especially the man to his mother inlaw with so much pride, i know he is hot but not with. So much pride which is bad
Mummy thank you , still talk to them , marriage is not easy at all , please guy forgive her and let the peace take control of everything , she will have another pregnant for you , thank you , both of you are blessed in Jesus mighty name amen , thank you Ben.
This man should stop going to Ben cash simple.
We supported you man for sometime now but please forgive her. Divorce is not the best
U accept that you are wrong but you still need extra 3 years B4 getting pregnant? No sense in saying that
U see you life for u to calm down and chill out but u want to stress your husband, well you made Satan to destroy your marriage 2024 to dirt for u to say am sorry be remorseful to him and tell him u want Bella for him
Is She willing to get pregnant to.the husband now ? Give
Him a child pls thanks
Yes oh the mama expect you to buy her gold for her neck for a job well done 👏 mama your daughter misbehave she was out of order and you expect him to be grateful for the rubbish your daughter did oh,you guys cannot force the guy to do what he never wants to do na is not by force
She looking fa excuses that is not bad fa aborting a child with out he knowing
The lady is talking about her mental health but when she was killing her unborn children she didn’t put the husbands mental health into contemplation , but now that the husband is frying her in her own oil she can’t take it she wants out. Bro let her go I know it will be hard because this is a lady you loved but she is not a wife material she is not respectful neither is she remorseful for all the things she did that brought the, to where they are today.
She is not toxic, the man does not have any love for her, and does not want to forgive the lady, so the man will make everything the lady does to be toxic on her part. If it does not work let go and go ur separate ways, never beg anyone to love u or stay in ur life🎉
ben cash you go marry one day. you never jam.see this babe don kill the love wey dey inside this man
Why the mother of the girl didn’t want to go and see the guy parents and settle this matter amicably instead of her coming to media and mess up her herself, no respect for her from her son in law.
Y would they not go their separate ways when you guys keep forming stories and give Nigeria like it is real...
This guy you have take this thing far na even God forgive us our sin na Abeg jooor
Hes mad and if he feel like ignoring he should be free to. Forgiveness takes time. Shes going to belief hes a fool. Hes 8:15 right
Ben cash do u see what that guy is trying to avoid at the initial stage, this same girl trigered the beast out of this guy, now do u see the result?, so allow that girl to go, she didnt deserve that guy okay
She offend finish she no get patient 😂😂 this one no wan marry
I don't think that lady is ready to be in a husband by the time she grow old without seeing someone calling mum bye then she regret the action
The mother must teach her daughter respect at the same time that man is not faithful to the wife they need counseling
The person who says that this man is not good man is fool how can marriage woman remove baby
Lady please go your way now let's get peace at least
Tank u by saying na who were shoe no where he dey pain her so he no how he dey pain him.
Is she ready to give birth now or what
Forgive your wife, please 🙏
The girl does not have remorse
This lady is so childish
the guy never wise
GUY FLEE, RUN AWAY
This guy sef is doing too much..
Mama u wise pass
All her hype about his lack of care is medicine after death
Monitoring spirit 😂
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Miscarriage?! It's either she LIED to her mother or her mother knows the truth and is COVERING UP FOR HER! Like mother like daughter 🙄
He is RUDE
So sad
It’s unfortunate that you guys have decided to call it quits simply because you don’t want to have a baby. My sister It now makes sense that you’re so concerned of your physical outlook and body that you have lost it. Therefore, If this will bring both of you some happiness then purse that goal and don’t ever return back to him again. My guy I know you will cry not minding the pretenses you put up. Nonetheless, accept it as a way of life and the sincerest apologies you will receive. Watching from New York.
There’s a yawning gap in this union, as long as that gap still exists, this union may never stabilize. I wish my friend,the head of the family,takes the bull by the horn and initiate a strong move that can easily seal up all gaps. The wife seriously feels insecure ,not withstanding her unholy mistakes, a second chance built on sincerity is seriously required of the husband. My friends, let the healings begin please. Thanks mother for your total submissions!
Pls who raised these women, just asking for the elders of the land.🤷🏾♀️😩
This girl should calm down. She offended this man. Me sef I Dey feel the pikin no be the man own if not why married woman go Dey do abortion ?
Look at the woman telling her husband,u wunt even repet my mom, woman did you repet ur housband 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This aspect of the wife not wanting to carry a pregnancy for the next 3 yrs is a thing of concern. The husband also, has words that are verbally abusive and the wife follows to run her mouth .How can you marry and be addressing your wife as who are you ? do you own a house.My dear man, humble yourself too
He should have forgiving her, how will he know the lady he will meet will be better than her, her mum is truly a mother, the man has pride.
I always say mariage isn’t for young kids, i don’t mean kids by age but by reasoning.
My borther i carry hand for u, u do the right thing. Forget this lady joor then move on with ur life. This lady nor follow. He can be on a call with his mum or sister or anuty or close relative at any time as long he is not happy with the so call wife. Nor mean he nor get him right to talk to woman.
I'm tired of listening to this guy. He's a liar and immature
this guy should let go... forgive her haba....😊
This woman is a good mother. But that lady is a nuisance full of herself
Guy since yiu cannot forgive God has constructed an angel for you in the street
Mr Ben leave bros alone. The relationship is dead.
God bless this mother with more wisdom ❤❤❤❤
The sad thing is that the mother seems to to support her daughter
She is real African mother
They live in the same house not talking together & they will go to service & occupy front seat.
Did you go with them?
Her mum has spoken well as a mother.
guy, let her go better for you
This marriage ended the day the so-called wife ( legally married) was caught aborting their baby without her husband knowledge.
The mother is as bad as the girl referring to that as miscarriage.
No man should be safe with a woman who acted like this .
Its pure unforgiving evil
This girl don't understand.....what she is asking for her
Summary of the case so far:
This guy has his mind somewhere, he's looking for opportunity to exit. The lady has some complexes that are even worsened by her insecurities about her body and experiences at work. What she needs is an understanding/supporting and reassuring husband. The man needs a woman who doesn't talk too much thereby challenging him.
Both of them will regret in the end if they do divorce.
Both need space and therapy to see the bigger picture together, (say 6 months), then they can come back together, plan and collectively work towards a common goal. It will be easier, they would have also tasted life without each other.
You are ignoring "the elephant in the room", the woman is still deciding, unilaterally of waiting for 3 years before agreeing to get pregnant, meaning she is not going to stop taking contraceptives. That is the main issue at hand, apart from aborting their baby without his knowledge. The couples have different needs, the husband needs a child as soon as possible, while the wife wants to pursue her education and career, apart from her physical insecurities.
I think all follow. By the time she returns she would have changed her mind. These are things that are all agreed during courtship, I wonder what some people discuss at such time.
This man enough is enough abeg she has pleaded with you n even her mum too has begged u. Let go n both should sit n talk it over. She has done bad let the past be
Are you serious right now? Is that a communication, you called her way of communication a communication? Communication is when both parties are making sense not the other person is hell bent on having her way. Abeggi
Ben cash, this guy is a bad man. He is too proud. I don't see love in this marriage again.
She killed their child and you think it's a small matter?
Guy she wrongs u the whole world and God knows that forgive her for the sake of your mother inlaw she's a nice woman the way am looking at it , your wife is going to repent