5 SIGNS WHY HE'S NOT THE RIGHT GUY FOR YOU | SIMMY GORAYA
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Cause in my head we’re already his wife 🤣 so relieved to know I’m not the only one imagining this.
Same here baby ......welcome to the gang
Vaishnavi Pathania Hahaha 😂 I literally laughed on this one 😆
😂😂😂😂 me too.. but actually he made me to think that
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@@That_misfit same
After wasting my 3 years in an extremely toxic relationship, I'd say please listen to this kind of advice! I had terrible time, literally had to involve my parents and cops, I was too young for all that bs.
trusfrated does he used to gaslight you ? Which means denied everything toxic thing he has said to you that he can't remember? He did every possible horrible things just to protect you ? Never let you talk to other females friends even ? Has this grandiose sense of self image? Control your actions and life ? Provoke you to the point that you blasted on him and then he played victim card as if you are the abuser ? When you can't take the bullshit anymore and tried to discard them he stalked you like crazzzzzyyyy asshole ? Whole family involved along with him ? Specially siblings if he has any ? Tried to portray you as victim and ruined your studies or maybe career or your special days ?
With all the hackers I came across none will ever be like westhack000 i reached out to him on Instagram. such a brilliant phone hacking service I got from there 🤞🏽 he helped me to hack into my wife's mobile phone remotely and she didn't know that her phone was been hacked. shes has been cheating on me with her gym instructor so i hired westhack000 a professional hacker on IG and he helped me to hack her and i get proof that she was cheating..
@@niti470 everything, and I cried on my birthdays cause he'd never even let me meet my friends, also I belong to a conservative family so he'd always threaten me to send our pics to my relatives, hacked my whatsapp and stole contacts of my friends and family, was a drunkard and used to come at night near my house and would talk shit on calls( all the time blackmailing me), also I was 18 and he 24 and his family told me to 'act mature', his elder married sis said ' ladka h itna to chalta h', I once asked her what if your husband does the same and she yelled at me saying I'd leave his house for good. He once dropped me at outskirts of our city and took my phone and wallet, I remember that day vividly, but since he LOVED me SO HE DID COME BACK, YOU KNOW TRUE LOVE? I almost killed myself twice or maybe thrice with overdose of random medicines, I ruined my graduation years, ruined my career, still struggling with that, but I'm happy I'm alive. A lot of people make fun of me because of that, I never used to comment about this on TH-cam cause people be like ' you're dramatic and shit' but more people need to know, it ain't love, please don't ruin yourself over some toxic manipulative full of himself guy. Peace!
@@stuti.v3300 😢😢😢
@@ritikasrivastava1659
Narcissists all over the place.... Knowledge is strength.. girls, learn to recognize the signs..And run for your lives...!!!!!!!
Such kind of people are also never ready to commit to the relationship. They'll find a million excuses to not be exclusive with you but somehow they'll convince you that you mean a lot to them.
true
It took me too long to know that I was in a toxic relationship.... But i left him an year ago, and I am so much happier in my life.
These tips are great...keep them coming!!!
I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost three years and after being with terrible men, I've finally found this amazing human being and I feel so blessed. He's exactly opposite of all these "red flags" and I genuinely am so happy and trust me women, you'll find your right person too someday. Better late than having a man who would break your heart terribly!
where do u find nice guy.too difficult
That's what. It's like you work hard for something and get results. This happens without you even trying, out of blue. Hahaha. At least for me that's how it happened!
Hopeful..
same with me i was in that kind of relationship for a year! but now i found very very very loving guy who can do anything to see me happy.. i never feel alone after i met him😊 and also taught me about fuckbois , dhniyadari and observing people since i was a kid when i met him.. I think I'm luckiest girl in this world.. everything got sorted in my life since i met him.. 2 years back😊
Wow. I'm so happy for you 😊❤️🤗 touchwood stay blessed my sister 🥀🤲🤲🤲🤲
Omg you're so relatable.. my guy was so toxic... He was so dominating... He controlled my whole days...
I left him Finally!!
I wish I found a video like this 2 years ago, I literally wasted two years of my life on a terrible guy but now it's all good, I am with a great guy now and I am finally happy. So don't lose hope just yet ladies💕
Yeahh me too
I really wish ye video 13 years pehly ati 🤔 I'm married have two daughters ek 11 years old and little one is 10 months old abhi toxic relation khatum nhi kr skti....my married life is full time compromises
Oh GOD Simmy!!! You literally saved me as I'm going through the same situation please continue with your dating tips😭😭
Is well 🌹
After one year of exotic relationship I found out that my guy is married
With all the hackers I came across none will ever be like westhack000 i reached out to him on Instagram. such a brilliant phone hacking service I got from there 🤞🏽 he helped me to hack into my wife's mobile phone remotely and she didn't know that her phone was been hacked. shes has been cheating on me with her gym instructor so i hired westhack000 a professional hacker on IG and he helped me to hack her and i get proof that she was cheating..
Same here
@@charliedavies3236
You know, i really think you're advertising your own services.. I've seen your msgs copy pasted all over TH-cam.. Stop it, man.
Ohh myy godd😱dis sounds scary!!
@@tanishaasharma791 yes ..these days world is hell for me ..
She is the only one grl who luks similar bfre n aftr makeup luv u sim😘😘😘
Mehnaaz.... yes it’s so true.. she is real beautiful.. I hv enough appreciated her u know..😘
She look more beautiful after make-up
Today I saw his reality , the way he played with my feelings without making him bad .. big clap to his cleverness ..... 😔
I hope youre doing fine now girl he is just a loser and you are a queen you can get so much better then him!
None of the above points applies to my ex bt still we broke up so add one more point if he don,t care abt. Ur career to setup nd jst wants to marry so tht u both cn be together nd can,t support u in ur moments of failure thn he is nt a ryt guy for u
True.... Especially when he makes fun of you or your career.
@@aditikamble7001 he didn,t mk fun of me or my career bt ws nt ready to let me go for prp. Out of city After marriage coz he felt long distance is nt the option evn after marriage
- he usually full of himself
- full of excuses. Cancels plan or being late
- constantly confused about him. Definitely not ur guy. Mixed signals.
- walking of eggshells
- if a guy changed.
Same applies on girls too. Its not always like guy needs to shut up and listen. Girl needs to listen too if she is interested.
I really wanna salute uh...becoz u saved so many lives...trust me...i feel u r an exact replica of my personality
Ya same ....bless her
Yes true lines..
You made this video 2 yrs ago , out of nowhere i found this on my feed in my recommendations. Feels like God did this because Each of these 5 signs are so relateable for me right now .🙃🙃 Thanks to you.
I was in one hell of a toxic relationship ... to get out of it ... took my energy and emotions. I had to involve higher authorities ... still he was not backing off. I had used all modalities for avoid him ... frm blocking him to actually going to police.
After I almost got rid of him ... (almost) I had no interest in being in relationship ever ...
I was approached by many men but all I cud see was various red flags ... n I wud Jst run away .... I was over sensitised.
Then ... I knew a guy since a year ... n he kinda asked me out as frnds... later he revealed his true feelings Bt also said that he was afraid to tell me beforehand as I was not emotionally available. We hav been dating for 1 yr ... my relationship even got converted to long distance relationship ... Bt I hav failed to see even one single red flag till now. I hope this turns out to b sth my heart longs for. Bt the damage the previous relationship has done ... I still remain skeptical to all men. This path of healing is a long one Bt it started the day I decided “it’s enough”.
Please read about NARCISSISM... That person must be a NARCISSIST.... It is a PERSONALITY DISORDER and not only limited till taking selfies and self obsessed.... It is much more deeper..... These people are selfish, users, compulsive liars, lack any empathy, very oppourtunistic, entitled, grandiose, violent.... But they fool people because they are masters at putting on a facade of being VERY CHARMING .... such people NEVER CHANGE, no matter what bcs it is a personality disorder and this personality got ingrained in them in their childhood.. they had one of the parent like that and that is what they became..... I have made my life a mission to spread knowledge about narcissists as wide as possible so as to help as many good people i can... My own mom is one... And it took a Narcissist husband for me to figure out my entire life dynamic..... Please people dont think that if u just love them enough that they will change..... They will never change and after using u till u break down... They will move to next...... He was not letting u go bcs u still had some kind of use for him
#COMFORTABLYSINGLE SQUAD 💪😎
Sahi bola yaar
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I also had an exactly same experience but luckily I could understand all of his strategy by my own ..inspite of being highly attracted to him I took decision to break up with him in just starting of the relationship
Good💯
I have crossed all five flags and i was seriously trapped badly into that.. I don't had any idea at that time since i was a kid and i don't even had an android phone.... but i was lucky i found an angel at last who worked so hard to pull me out .. seriously dude i had got spoiled totally if i was not helped by someone.. I feel so blessed! plz girls don't commit relationships at your eary age at least wait till turn 21 or22.
and save your self from bloody monsters
Even I was caught twice...
I randomly got this vdo n it's so relatable I just had Break up yesterday after 2 year of dating yesterday i got to know he's already with someone else and the shoking point is the girl with whom he's she already knew about me from the very first day ....he n she both were wanted money from me , he wasn't fuck boy but he was a gold digger ...i curse them both they never stay happy
It's true.. Right guy will always feel right
God this is so true and relatable.
Imma gonna watch this everytime i feel like going back to my ex.😭😭😭😭
I do it to but after wasting my 4 years on a boy who doesn't really care about me i gave it all up now em focusing on my career and you should too cuz self love ❤ is everything
Ashna Fatema,
What draws you back to him? You thiNk he will change? Not happening. You're enabling and empowering him more by going back.
@@KunjammaReddy67 this is so true ..but once you get back after 1 or 2 week he will be the same
@@sweetyagrawal9746
I know ☹️ but I wanted her to be at peace believing she gave him one more chance. Didnt want to break her heart..
@@KunjammaReddy67 "reality will break you "... and that's all
Who noticed that clock 🕒 behind? 😉
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Ps: i never got these many likes before ❤
Exactly this is happening with me and I also know everything but I am waiting to see what he will actually do so that there will be no regrets for me 🥺♥
First of all, you look super pretty.
Secondly, you're a great love guru!! Haha I was on a date once where he didn't even look at me while eating, or chatting but he only looked at the door and was like "oh I know that girl, oh that's my friend" 😒😒😒
*Sapno ka rajkumar* is actually *la*de ka rajkumar* 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry for my language girls.. just a #girltalk .. i'm having a lot of fun here so 🤣🤣🤣😭😭🙈🙈🙈🙈
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Oh my God, you're such a mature person. I totally vibe with whatever you say and I am so glad I found your channel.
I guess I just found my soul mate 🥺
Binged on your dating and relationships videos, super like them. Thank you so much Simmy ❤️
I'm in a relationship and it's been only an year and I feel like the person who was crazy for me in terms of effort is barely give a shit about me now . Sometimes he takes some decisions which he knows will hurt me still he'll be like okay I'm sorry I didn't know it's gonna bother you . Like please help me out I'm sure there are People out there who's been through this kinda relationship issue what should I do . ??
Karishma Kundu my bf too does this .. we r together since 5 yrs
and i blocked him from everywhere !
if he really loves you he will make effort
he will call from other nmbr and get after you like mad !
cz mine did everytime i blocked him for his mistakes ..
@Pikachu patel seriously :/ he did this kinda carelessness for the first time that's why I said nothing but if he's gonna do this continuously I'm done
Her skin is so gorgeous 😍😍😍😍
Ok everything she said i can relate.. thanku .. though made myslf his wife in my dreams now hlp me become single again😂
You look more gorgeous without makeup
😱omg these things which you said are so damm true.. I had also met one.. And every single thing used to happen.. Thankfully I was able to realize that he was not into me and I ended everything just few days back.. And after watching your video I am happy that I did the right thing☺
I guess i have crossed 4th flag . And now i am about to cross 5th one .
Red flags.. I saw red huge billboards😂 I cant
My situations are different you know the guy is right treats me well... lil busy with his work i dont feel one bit of disintrest and i am invested..
But i am lik 18 and he's like 6-7 years older.. My life and goals are different he's completely on a different stage and track.. and a lot of times becoz of that things mess up.. i blame no one.. but that i love him.. I really do.. idk if this is ever gonna work out but letting go is tough becoz he's my best buddy
0:52Don't hung up on one person
1:30 f*ck boy:-Who does not very openly tells u about what he is looking for from u keeps u hanging n in dark
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1.he is usually always full of himself
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1. Guy is full of excuses for meetings and cancelling plans.
Solution you should not wait
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3. U r constantly confused about this guy. He wants to be nice to u only. (Its only a dikhawa😂)
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4. Scared of saying something cause you feel like he's gonna angry or u will lose him
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5. When u think The guy has changed suddenly u feel like ok he's not as aggressive in pursuing me as he was before now he is just too thanda🥶 he doesn't really care he doesn't really respond to my msg. He just gonna ghost u.
Loves it❤
I can totally relate to this video... because abhi 3din pahele hi i broke up with my boyfriend...aur yea 5 red flags hi mil gayi...final 5 th red flag ke bad hi i broke up with him...
Thats a bomb video and i cant thank you enough for this! With so many girls stuck with the same problems , i cant help but wonder what goes through the guys' mind that they behave this way
These red flags are also seen in girls friendship...such a brilliant video....
Yess you should start more relationship conversations it's really good and helpful!! ❤️❤️❤️ Make a video for girls to understand what type of guy you really want to be with rather than just random handsome guy hiting on you and you also give #bhaav him. Analyse what's your ideal partner should be or have something atleast 40-50% .
I honestly don't know why am watching this! I am married already LMAO 😆 though it's a really nice video n is so true and apt!!
Thanks .. these red flags were there but I wasn’t ready to accept .. I was blaming myself ... Thanks to your video,some sense has got into my head
You are the sister that a girl needs
Okay I understand what you are saying about toxic relationship but what to do when you know it's toxic and the other person wants to get out of it but you don't???
Plz share ur genuine morning and night skin care routine.... Ur skin is lookin awesome now... I juz want some help to improve mine
I do like your makeup videos and follow you on instagram as well for reviews and update, but just wanna say that relationship advices can be taken from close people only, in my opinion..dont take it in a negative way please, its just that this video was not necessary in my opinion..But you are the only blogger who answered my question in DM, so I really appreciate that as well..and baki everybody has different point of view, so not criticizing the video.
Dude, yea sab ladkiyon ke upar apply hota hai kya, kyunki mai ladka hu aur mere sath same cheezain ho gai 😟.
How to cope with the breakup if you still love him?
You should be thankful that the break up happened now than later in life. That person thinks he has better options and so you should not make him your priority. Love yourself more, you deserve to be treated better. Go watch "Thappad", you will realize that being selfish and insensitive is also abuse. May be you will find a strong reason to not love him and move on.
You are so gooood. It's amazing listening you, and what I get to know that whatever happened to you has already happened with me,too. And I'm so glad that I've done everything till my heart got broken, but yeah anyway it has made me stronger than before. One heart break is necessary to happen, it helps yourself to grow even better.❤️ Love yaaaa. ❤️
Red flag no. 3 ...i can relate to every words she said
Before I play the video, I did hit the like button
Because I know GIRL YOU'RE KILLING IT AGAIN❤🔥
YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!! OMG, I mean I just got over this really fucked up thing, I could relate to every thing you just mentioned. Big love to you! And yes, keep giving dating tips! YOU GO GIRL! ❤️
Tysm for making videos like these. U care so much about us not only serving us looks but teaching us some life lessons. I love you, simister forever😭.💕
amazing and i goes through from these red flags but i’m happily moved on from that person
Please keep making such type of videos, it really helps😂💯🙌
Hi Simi, I wish I had seen this video a year back.... so so helpful. Thank you. You are doing a huge favour for all the women out there. 🙏🏼🙏🏼. I would like to add one more to the list - if you are constantly making excuses for his behavior and defending his behavior with no explanations or clarity on his actions from his end.
Ur skin is so good plz let us know ur skincare routine ..those products that really wrkd fr u ..also want to mention one more red flag when guy try to show himself like he is so helping although he is not bt he pretents it always ..grls it's a trap becoj they know that grls can be easily impressed wd helping guys..ND ...stay away from that guy who judge others ...if a person judge others he will surely judge u ...ND being judgemental is not gud specially related to money...
I really wish I came across something like this a year ago.. I so destroyed such an important part of my life!
i just want to say our inner campass indicting us all the time we go heartbreak when we try to make our self fool because intituation never lie
I love your tips and they are truly genuine. Please make this a series! And ya some of them truly helped me ❤️
actually I was having infatuation stage with him ab infatuation stage khtm hogya hai to he is not giving me like too much time phle almost full day bat hoti thi now it’s like kbhi bat hori h day m kbhi nhi ….he is like busy in studies …or when I feel angry to he gives time to me… thn he feels like don’t go or don’t leave ….to ab m not getting the fact ki m hi attached hogyi hu us infatuation stage se and asking for more time from him? or this is red flag? Bcz as soon as infatuation stage is over he has changed a bit …m confused bcz there are sm things which seem good like when I don’t talk he cares enough to ask why I was not talking or what’s going on but he is also like seems a Litl disinterested than before he was like
@Khyalo Ki Duniya hey want to talk more about this?
@Khyalo Ki Duniya nope
For no reason I was blocked by shy styles and now I upset, seeing your videos helps me lot now. Thanks
Have you done any mean comment?
@@anonymous66606 nothing mean only truth
@@itsmeagain7943 like what if you don't mind can u tell me?
@@itsmeagain7943 on which video you have commented?
@@anonymous66606 its about her sponsorships. She replied,she was nice,but the next minute she blocked me.
Agree man you’re giving real talk man ! And so pretty without makeup too 😍😍
You deserve million subscribers! ❤️🌹
OMG.. U r totally on point... All the 5 red flags.. So so relatable.. Thanku so much.. Helped me alot! Ubr super awesome ❤
You should do more of these videos.. because you are a great love guru!! I feel it!😅 Love you girl ❤❤❤
Simmy ur vdo is so helpful, but what about the emotional investments we have done in these type of relationships. How to come out of that? Plz make vdo on that topic.
It happens ok... its all ok you will feel bad because after giving so much its hard but leave him talk to your friends more give yourself more time ❤❤
My goodness You are absolute love .This made my day😘! thanks a lot for all your words!!!!
Di.. i want these kinda videos more often.. like seriously.. no one can do this better than you 😭😭😭😭 sach batau to ye hai asli #MANNKIBAAT 🤣🤣
Ur advise is always so so much honest and helpful... please make more videos like these ❤️
Video was amazing and helping and I love the part bechara bechara 😁😁he is hell bechara seriously it was good and the way you were open up on such issues for ur viewers means alot..loads of love
Please make more such videos. I relate to these videos. And also if you could make videos on self love because that's a very necessary topic that must be discussed. Love watching you. ♥️♥️
Well why I'm watching it now after heartbreak well you're 💯💯💯💯 true all happened
Girl you look young and so beautiful without makeup ..keep going ..you are doing great 👍🏻
Di you look so good without makeup
Without makeup kabhi dekha hain tumne??
Why are you so right always 😂 “you’ll go till the end ,break your heart and come back” i’ve watched it before as well and watching it today 😝 guess why , But always love you 😘❤️
It's a very helpful video and u described everything in such an easy way ..i found everything in this video what I wished for. This helped me a lot.
Thankyou simmy❤ for your great advices..It really helped taking a right decision.Would love to hear more advices!! Rise&shine🌙
Ajkl me Boyz itne tez hogye h ki phle toh girls ko itna special feel krate h or jb unka interst khtam hojata h pir change hojate h ..ye sb bate bad me pta chlti h..
I wish I knew this a few months back ! BTW you're amazing! ❤
I just wannna listen to you for the entire day !
Oh damn! Everything you said is true and I have been living through hell with my partner from months now. I have my exams coming up and he literally pissed me off. I couldn't sleep for nights and now I know I am not the only one and I should throw him out of my life 🙄 duhh
You look prettier without makeup....and yes blocked a guy I reached all the red flags with and told him I didn’t wanna see his face again😎😎😎 totally relate made a big mistake 🤦♀️
Hey simi.. Lipstick. Plz? Which shade and brand
It's been 2 month in relationship but still I am confused to continue this or not need help
Take your time. Don't rush. If he's a narc, he knows you are desperate. Wait, watch out,if his bad behavior falls into a pattern, followed by extremely good behavior, it's dangerous.. think hard, then take the next step.
@@KunjammaReddy67 thank you 😊
This was soo good
Lady u are therapeutic!
Plzzz continue doing such stuff simmy. Even u urslf don't know how good u r at it
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Plzz tell me your lipstick details ♥
Now I am fan of yours
Waise mai aapki videos itna nhi dekhti thi
But suddenly this video is on my TH-cam home page and I watched it
now I am a fan
@Khyalo Ki Duniya I only love one person
And I love him a lot....
Fabulous video!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍
Plz mention ur lip shade
Can we consider these red flags for the girls also? Like is she is the 1 or not
Stay away from the abs! Best advise ever...
Was waiting for this kinda video 👀
This video is so amazing... Thank you so much di... I'm so happy that this video came to my suggestions ❤❤
What if few things are going well and few things are not then is there sign in this?
So true . I am telling , 6feet , brown eyes , curly hairs , white skin . Is. Red flag….. 🚩 such a narcissist and fits the whole criteria. I was so stupid . If looks are deceiving had a face it’s would be his
. Damn!!!
Hi I love your lipstick shade please tell me what is the name of the shade😍
Ur the best person in giving dating tips . The best in truth. Pls do more videos related to it .
@Amazing WorldYah , ur correct we do fall in love many times. Apparently our hearts wander around in search of it , yet seems to be inconsistent. Until the wright pair is found ...
I suppose so. From what I have learned over these years .... We all value our happiness more than anything. Love / Relationships are just a middle man of attaining it . We wanna be pleased , treated with respect , loved , cared , and looked upon by others. But what I feel is that , when you burden someone with the responsibility of keeping you happy , it will become artificial one day and they would burst out at some point . It's not fair either . Sometimes I just feel only we can keep us going .... And only we shld know how much we value ourselves..