Teen suicide: Zayne Shomler

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  • @kadiangrant7788
    @kadiangrant7788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    RIP Zayne I lost my son 2 weeks ago to suicide I don't know how to cope but seeing your story gives me hope .

    • @mariac6280
      @mariac6280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      so sorry for your Loss...😢😢😢

    • @tylerharris4392
      @tylerharris4392 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That sucks

    • @gillianmcmullan6945
      @gillianmcmullan6945 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sending love from Ireland xxxx

    • @brendafoster9753
      @brendafoster9753 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      kadian my son tried to take his life 2 weeks ago this is awful!!!!! praying …….

    • @thatgurl791
      @thatgurl791 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very sorry. Hope you recover.

  • @lisathomas-everett6030
    @lisathomas-everett6030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I lost my brother to suicide in 2005. He is forever 28.

    • @ellajackson4272
      @ellajackson4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So sorry for your loss, hope you're doing okay today ❤️

    • @ViennA2891
      @ViennA2891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hi Lisa! I lost my bf to suicide too in 2005 (Feb.) He was 29.

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      so sorry that your brother was a selfish coward

    • @lakshmi6314
      @lakshmi6314 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@based_mediumchungus1788 He wasn't

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lakshmi6314 lol are you sure about that? the comment literally said "lost my brother to suicide" "suicide"
      think before you speak, read the comment again.

  • @efrax97
    @efrax97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This video should be more visited and promoted. Suicide and mental illness are something we have to take serious and never let that persone alone or block him/her because of being "drama" or "toxic". Those words made me feel so down and specially when it comes to the girl you love and your flatmate. Always help and take care of someone who opens.

  • @ashs2415
    @ashs2415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I know someone who committed Suicide. I seen him a week before and nothing told me he was suicidal. Then after battling my own suicidal thoughts and tendencies... I know how to hide it well ... 💔

    • @zoehayash7581
      @zoehayash7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please reach out to someone. Don’t suffer alone. If you have already, good job! I suffer from depression but I never let anything or anyone get to me.

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      he does not deserve to rest in peace. he is a selfish and awful person.

    • @chaseperi6434
      @chaseperi6434 ปีที่แล้ว

      love you x

    • @christimecarmona6810
      @christimecarmona6810 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@based_mediumchungus1788 You are a POS!

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christimecarmona6810 this man did something AWFUL to his loved ones. he is the POS.

  • @emilywolenski1487
    @emilywolenski1487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I found piano music for a song called "Remembering Zayne". It's a beautiful song I've been playing for months. Finally I decided to look up who it was written for. I had no idea this was the story behind that song.

  • @lindabennett1978
    @lindabennett1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So Sorry for your loss!! I know how you feel I lost My Son and Nephew in 2013 and 2019 ....We need help in this World!!!

    • @itielelpida
      @itielelpida ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May Lord Jesus bless you with healing and strength.
      I am sooooo sorry!
      I battle depression and anxiety for years.
      Only God is giving me strength and peace day after day 🙏

    • @lindabennett1978
      @lindabennett1978 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@itielelpida God Bless You and Give You Strength and Faith as Well...Thank You!!!

  • @ASMinor
    @ASMinor ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am an avid mental health awareness advocate and spoken word performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my TH-cam channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates. 💚💚

  • @frankferburger5980
    @frankferburger5980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Depressed ppl put on a smile for everyone else and pretend to be happy they are also very caring and loving most times.This story has deeply touched my heart because Zayne reminds of myself and I know what it feels like to have to unalive thoughts and how unhappiness inside feels like

    • @arielatom03
      @arielatom03 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every photo or video taken of me that i can remember, my smile or laugh were fake it was just a mask. But what are you supposed to do when a camera is pointed at you cry?

  • @ellajackson4272
    @ellajackson4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    RIP Zayne, I feel so awful for his family. May they get the healing they deserve.

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      he does not deserve to rest in peace. he is a selfish and awful person.

    • @frnksfrthmmrs_
      @frnksfrthmmrs_ ปีที่แล้ว

      what the actual hell is wrong with you he deserves to rest in peace

  • @JojoLinn0908
    @JojoLinn0908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This story touched my heart ❤ I don't know anyone but I hope your hearts can heal ❤ rip

    • @williamgallucci9913
      @williamgallucci9913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its a horror that will stay with them for all of their loving it has to be difficult

    • @based_mediumchungus1788
      @based_mediumchungus1788 ปีที่แล้ว

      he does not deserve to rest in peace. he is a selfish and awful person.

    • @kittycat2676
      @kittycat2676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@based_mediumchungus1788 stfu do us a big fat favor and do what the person in the video did thx

    • @YouWantThatSmoke
      @YouWantThatSmoke ปีที่แล้ว

      @@based_mediumchungus1788 you think ur based when in reality ur just a short overweight ugly dumb whale

  • @ashs2415
    @ashs2415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm so so sorry for your loss. ❤💙
    RIP ZAYNE💙

  • @TheFieldhockeygk11
    @TheFieldhockeygk11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Suicide and mental illness doesn’t make you not a good kid. The mom’s comment that “she couldn’t believe he did what he did because he was a good kid…” mental illness is not a moral or value judgment and doesn’t change your character. It is just an added burden people deal with. I wish she could know that.

  • @thisisme3238
    @thisisme3238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    BE AT PEACE MS. SHOMLER...THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. You yourself were going through the trauma of a separation..that racks a person's whole being, I know, been there done that. Continue with friends and the support group you mentioned...you will get through this...God loves you! Sincere condolences during this time in your life.

  • @FuckBrickSquad
    @FuckBrickSquad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Would be proud of Zac and Strong Opinion Sports!

  • @josephinerollins7179
    @josephinerollins7179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm in the same situation! God bless ❤

    • @williamgallucci9913
      @williamgallucci9913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope that god helps you in some way god bless you Josephine and all of your loved ones take care

    • @josephinerollins7179
      @josephinerollins7179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@williamgallucci9913 thank you!

    • @YouWantThatSmoke
      @YouWantThatSmoke ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry

  • @williamgallucci9913
    @williamgallucci9913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is unreal and hear thinking for the surviving family members it will never go away

  • @corineoingerang4249
    @corineoingerang4249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My Zayners, I still miss you everyday and wish you were here. I love you so much always!

  • @johnniegutierrez2979
    @johnniegutierrez2979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God bless you I'm so sorry for your loss may God be with you all

  • @grahamconquer8117
    @grahamconquer8117 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Suicide is the biggest killer of under 40s more than everything else put together more than smoking drugs cancer etc why isn't there help out there man

  • @JuanHernandez-ry9dr
    @JuanHernandez-ry9dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry about your loss

  • @FalloutProfile
    @FalloutProfile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless this family

  • @SongsbyCharleneApril
    @SongsbyCharleneApril 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There is a genetic component with suicide. Just as there is a genetic component to cancer. There are environmental triggers that cause cancer, there can be environmental triggers for suicide. There needs to be a change in the conditioning, in the beliefs we adopt and then try to achieve. The belief of the Fairytale life. The fairytale Lover/Spouse. The perfect career. Etc., etc, all are lies. That if we just do X/Y/Z we can live the dream. But thats not real life, but thats what we are fed by Society and our Community and our Teachers. The message is; YOU are not enough (as you are).

    • @dontbememe7364
      @dontbememe7364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your absolutely right. We are fed with this unrealistic image of how life should be. And then we as individuals look at our life and feel like we failed and like you said we were and are not good enough. It sounds corny but we need to accept us how we are and be thankful for what we have and not drive ourselves crazy on what is missing. But that's easier said then done.

    • @nicolequarterman9728
      @nicolequarterman9728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

  • @richardchartier3023
    @richardchartier3023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best way ever for teens to overcome their problems is to tell their parents. And there's a lot of people who care and want to help. Many will.

    • @lakesadmin3622
      @lakesadmin3622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And many parents won't help. They will place their children into the hands of those who will do even more harm, like ministers or other organizations.

  • @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591
    @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This it's story just really soo much soo had to touch my heart qll Rest In Peace Zayne 💕🙏🙌🏻💕

  • @chrisshowering7357
    @chrisshowering7357 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry for your sad loss, he must have been suffering inside god bless him. He probably didn't know how to say how he felt. It wasn't your fault I pray he's found peace

  • @stephenkaake7016
    @stephenkaake7016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    he does see, they are still alive in spirit, when you think about him or look at his picture hes with you, you can ask for a sign that he's still around

  • @teresacorley7874
    @teresacorley7874 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cannot imagin how you feel to loose your child im so sorry this is beyond what people or famillys can deal with my hope would be that you regain your happyness and spread awareness in his honour of helping others in his same situation i really feel like that would be a ultimate answer in your healing that he would comunicate silently through this so sorry i cant imagine how hard its been i pray for strength for you and your family 5:25

  • @Vickysojkova
    @Vickysojkova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so sad

  • @stephenfermoyle4578
    @stephenfermoyle4578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it is so sad i am sorry

  • @christimecarmona6810
    @christimecarmona6810 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's one of the most gut wrenching feeling to know they ended their life! God Bless all of us who have experienced someone who has taken their life! Always remember someone is a phone call away and there is someone always thinking of you. My boyfriend took his life 2016.

  • @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591
    @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never never be okie zayne 💕🙏

  • @gregorypatton4706
    @gregorypatton4706 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very sad I was crying my eyes out every time I watch this video and others I just cry my eyes out God with that family must be going through especially on birthdays and Christmas

  • @TheHALL2112
    @TheHALL2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So sad! A permanent solution to a temporary problem

    • @antinatalistwitch111
      @antinatalistwitch111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who would not want a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

    • @traciemarsh1611
      @traciemarsh1611 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not every thing people are going through has ending unless its this way

  • @josephinerollins7179
    @josephinerollins7179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Losing a child

  • @transittimes2008
    @transittimes2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why is it always the good looking ones with bright futures that this ends up happening to. Life is not fair, something needs to happen.

  • @youtube_user-lf3ki
    @youtube_user-lf3ki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Look at 3:17 behind him 😳

    • @griff404
      @griff404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah i saw it too. a black background.

    • @bellajayne7442
      @bellajayne7442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I see it 👻 😲

    • @paperplate4675
      @paperplate4675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh my i see it too. Good observation.

    • @heathershaw6029
      @heathershaw6029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I see it..but what does it mean???

    • @snjmriguy1
      @snjmriguy1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Saw that. Very creepy.

  • @herewegoagain_8220
    @herewegoagain_8220 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would have avoid so much pain if I would have made the decision then. My life was never really worth living ...at any point. Just a loosing hand.

  • @SweetNightmares_
    @SweetNightmares_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “He’ll never see how this ends.” 🥺❤️‍🩹

  • @charleshurstreinvention3959
    @charleshurstreinvention3959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's sad is teens have no idea how everything changes and gets better. I've seen a few recent posts where people are crying out for help and state they want to just end it all. This is what I told my own subscribers. Four reasons you don't end it. 1) things can change. The caveat here is you have to make them change and that takes work. 2) You will regret it. They interviewed a man who managed to jump the San Francisco Bridge and didn't even break a bone. He said the last thought he had as he stepped off----he knew it was a huge mistake. 3) You will hurt those you leave behind. How many wish the one they knew who killed themselves had come to them first? 4) It is a slap in the face to all those who didn't want to die early and did--whether disease or event.
    Folks, I have felt like this twice in my life and both times years later I was glad I put that thought away as I would not have experienced all the things I did. The answer isn't to end your life--it is to fix your life. Now go be GREAT-----Charles.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree, one’s teenage years are chaotic and most think it will last forever but it doesn’t. My teen years seem like another life at this point

    • @charleshurstreinvention3959
      @charleshurstreinvention3959 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brianmeen2158 We forget as we get older how painful it was for some of us. Adults need to tell kids that more often---that they will survive

    • @antinatalistwitch111
      @antinatalistwitch111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One can only regret if they actually survive. There is no way for the dead to have regrets.

  • @Shofargirl1
    @Shofargirl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whosoever believes in HIM should not perish but have everlasting. Shalom. John 3 : 16.🍃⚘🍃

  • @rositahuff4858
    @rositahuff4858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ….one word messages….that is it!

  • @traciemarsh1611
    @traciemarsh1611 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    rip zayne

  • @deborarussello9245
    @deborarussello9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😓😓😓❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sandramolina1177
    @sandramolina1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tan lindo pero su vida no tenia sentido para el

  • @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591
    @kaylee_desidexddybellizzy-9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rip zayne

  • @yeomane
    @yeomane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    RIP Zayne.

  • @jamiecurtis1008
    @jamiecurtis1008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh my gosh! 🤔 Was looking at the comments and replies... Wow! Check out the whit figure above the brothers left (our right) shoulder moving to the right. This is at minute market 3:17

  • @ashleymckillips6331
    @ashleymckillips6331 ปีที่แล้ว

    ASEYHL