Jax - Victoria’s Secret [Official Lyric Video]

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  • "Victoria’s Secret" Out Now!
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    Lyrics:
    God I wish somebody would told me when I was younger
    That all bodies aren’t the same
    Photoshop, itty bitty models on magazine covers
    Told me I was overweight
    I stopped eating what a bummer
    Can’t have carbs and a hot girl summer
    If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
    I’d say, psst
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    Girl you wouldn’t believe
    She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
    Making money off of girls like me
    Cashing in on body issues
    Selling skin and bones with big boobs
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    She was made up by a dude
    I wish somebody would have told me that thighs of thunder
    Meant normal human thighs
    The fucking pressure I was under
    To lose my appetite
    And fight the cellulite
    With Hunger Games like every night
    If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
    I’d say psst-
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    Girl you wouldn’t believe
    She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
    Making money off of girls like me
    Cashing in on body issues
    Selling skin and bones with big boobs
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    She was made up by a dude
    I know Victoria’s Secret…
    She was never made for me and you
    Raised in New Jersey by way of New York, Jax got her start by performing a wide variety of genres and in bands growing up. At the age of 18, she developed cancer above her vocal cords, which returned following a couple months of remission right as she relocated to Los Angeles in pursuit of her music. Left unable to sing herself, Jax turned to songwriting for others and found industry success behind-the-scenes. As her ability to perform returned, Jax needed to pivot yet again when the COVID-19 pandemic struck. This time she turned to TikTok, posting a hilarious response to the pop gem “Stacy’s Mom” from “Stacy’s Mom’s Perspective” which exploded with nearly 9 million views in just a few months and follow-ups including “Update from Avril Lavigne & Sk8er Boi 18 years later.” She continued to go viral a dozen or more times over, having now amassed over 9.7 million followers on the platform and over 155 million “likes” to date. With a massive online audience under her belt, Jax began sharing her own original music in late 2020 to an overwhelmingly positive response - ultimately leading to her signing with Atlantic Records for her forthcoming debut full-length.
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  • @lilliearizona
    @lilliearizona ปีที่แล้ว +13903

    I'm 51 years old. I sincerely needed this song 4 decades ago. I don't feel as bad about my body or that I was never able to shop there. Thank you

    • @witch_in_a_wheelchair3050
      @witch_in_a_wheelchair3050 ปีที่แล้ว +426

      Lillie, you seem like a kind soul. Remember, beauty is not the rent you pay to exist in this world. You are fully worthy regardless. 😊

    • @lilyplays_yt6369
      @lilyplays_yt6369 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      That’s amazing!! Even my mom is 51

    • @amnakhan.
      @amnakhan. ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I think this song should remind u no one is perfect but we all are different in our special way.

    • @lilliearizona
      @lilliearizona ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@amnakhan. it does believe me.

    • @OnlyALexisOkii
      @OnlyALexisOkii ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kind

  • @janetswaine8201
    @janetswaine8201 ปีที่แล้ว +2193

    This song changed my entire perspective on my body. I haven't worn a bathing suit and gone swimming in over 2 years because I gained weight and felt I didn't deserve to wear one. Today was the most beautiful day and I bought a new bathing suit and spent the afternoon swimming. It was amazing. Thank you x a million.

    • @marleymae6746
      @marleymae6746 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Good for you Janet! Hope you had a blast!

    • @allforaurora0924
      @allforaurora0924 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I bet your beautiful xx

    • @marymekano
      @marymekano ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You go girll❤️

    • @belli7639
      @belli7639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so happy for you ...Just watch out for Japanese ...they are not wery kind towards you guys

    • @sammcd4
      @sammcd4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I started tearing up reading this comment. You're so strong for wearing a bathing suit again and this just really hit me in the feels

  • @anikajoseph6641
    @anikajoseph6641 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +570

    This lyrics will honestly make big changes for women and girls self-esteem...how many of us has herself or know someone fighting with eating disorders and bad body image...pure beauty in lyrics...what a spirit lifting message!

    • @jamalfeinstein-chang5864
      @jamalfeinstein-chang5864 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No they won’t

    • @MrThinkTank0
      @MrThinkTank0 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Then they'll become monsters, as if we don't already have enough of those😬

    • @WeseeyouOpal
      @WeseeyouOpal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Are you serious? This song was for girls who struggled or struggle okay I was one of those girls, and it sucked okay. This was for the right reasons for this song, and I love it if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This song is just cringe. It isn't helping anyone but obese people who think they're healthy.

    • @nancyprice1223
      @nancyprice1223 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@WeseeyouOpal❤❤

  • @andrewchoate6089
    @andrewchoate6089 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    I found this song today, and it’s already one of my favorites. I love the message about fighting weight based insecurities. Although I’m a guy, and have never suffered anything like anorexia, I was chubby in middle school, and HATED my body. Then I lost weight to be healthy going into my freshman year of high school. Throughout high school, I was pretty thin, but I was still heavier than a small handful of my friends. Despite the fact I was on the thinner side, my weight based insecurities came back with a vengeance during my junior year, recreating a struggle that I still deal with almost two years later. Despite countless efforts to feel good in my body, I still have a hard time loving the body that I have. It wasn’t until about a month ago that I started making progress when I decided to listen to “Perfect” by P!nk. It was the first time hearing the song in seven years. From that point on, the lyric “you’re so mean when you talk, about yourself you’re wrong. Change the voices in your head, make them like you instead” has always stuck with me. Whenever I feel insecure, I try to remember that lyric. Thankyou for making this song, not only to inspire young women to reject societal Views on weight, but also all the other youth (boys and girls alike) to not give into what fast fashion says about beauty, but rather on their health and happiness.

    • @ae1481
      @ae1481 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Also, stressing out over body image can really mess with metabolism. When you let go of personal torment, everything gets better. The older you get the easier it is to relax.

    • @rafaelnunes1150
      @rafaelnunes1150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment made me tear up a bit. I love P!nk so much. It sucks that society also makes you feel bad about being fat, not only in shopping malls but in school and love life... I learned to accept that, but it's not okay.

  • @divya_sancheti04
    @divya_sancheti04 ปีที่แล้ว +13854

    U don't know how much comfort and confidence u r and will be giving to young girls out there by this song Jax! 🙌🏻😇

    • @sentimentaljourneyproductions
      @sentimentaljourneyproductions ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Good for you, Jax!! My prayer is this message becomes a major eyeopening revelation for all women of all ages to not look for their identity through anyone else's eyes, lens, filters, opinions or anything else other than the very heart of their own being. Let this be a powerful game changer for all women everywhere!

    • @GONNA-BUY-U-A-MOCKING-BIRD
      @GONNA-BUY-U-A-MOCKING-BIRD ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @ARZOO_COCO same

    • @snowflakesv4
      @snowflakesv4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ikr!! jax, slayy queen

    • @fir_forlife4655
      @fir_forlife4655 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @ARZOO_COCO same💚🖤💚🖤

    • @Ava-hb2mj
      @Ava-hb2mj ปีที่แล้ว +22

      And Boys❤️

  • @ryanlucky8179
    @ryanlucky8179 ปีที่แล้ว +6995

    Being a father of 2 girls one being a teenager this song is phenomenal. You have hit the nail on the head. This song will become an anthem for all women. Well done

    • @YourLocalLaure
      @YourLocalLaure ปีที่แล้ว +82

      And your not even complaining about the cuss words

    • @ryanlucky8179
      @ryanlucky8179 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      @@YourLocalLaure I am from Australia it's second nature for us to cuss 🤣🤣... seriously though my kids know that cuss words are in all types of music and they don't cuss in normal conversations.

    • @gachagirl-kt6gu
      @gachagirl-kt6gu ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I wish i had a cool dad👁 👄 👁
      💧

    • @armyb140
      @armyb140 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@gachagirl-kt6gu I wish I had a dad
      👁 👄 👁
      💧

    • @cocohooves45
      @cocohooves45 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@armyb140 I wish I didn't relate to this 👁️ 👄 👁️
      💧

  • @jakoblyngnielsen6804
    @jakoblyngnielsen6804 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    I usually never comment anything on TH-cam. But this song really hit my feelings hard. Thank you very much Jax for putting attention to this topic in a very honest and truthfully way. As a big brother to two little sisters struggling with eating disorders for years, this really just struck me to tears. Thank you.

  • @tammybailey4742
    @tammybailey4742 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    These types of songs that tell us normal human beings that they don’t have to change are great aren’t they?

    • @maitesomenzi5063
      @maitesomenzi5063 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      A música só diz que você não precisa passar fome pra ser bonita

    • @Direwolf181
      @Direwolf181 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      think you missed the point? the song is literally about how the beauty standards set by companies like Victoria's secret are absolute BULLSHIT which is a great message I think

  • @Tjoffex
    @Tjoffex ปีที่แล้ว +2859

    I'm currently playing this song on repeat while forcing myself to cook dinner after a pretty bad eating disorder trigger. I've been fighting this since I was a tween (now mid thirties) and is mostly recovered these days, but for the bad days this is truly the anthem I needed

    • @genevievehoskins6829
      @genevievehoskins6829 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I hope things get better for you, love. You'll eventually win the fight. I'm sure of it! But for now, just do your best. xoxo

    • @meadowleaf5424
      @meadowleaf5424 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I'm so happy for you! I know how hard it can be! Thank you for trying!

    • @sophie.gu8368
      @sophie.gu8368 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      WOOHOO! Your progress is amazing and I am SO PROUD OF YOU whoever you are out there!! We are all rooting for you

    • @amilahsan8849
      @amilahsan8849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TEEN

    • @amilahsan8849
      @amilahsan8849 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you mean tween sorry if you did your amazing

  • @Caporg3000
    @Caporg3000 ปีที่แล้ว +2309

    How is this not on the radio? This artist has serious talent. Her voice is breathtaking.

    • @rebeccapierson7977
      @rebeccapierson7977 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      I heard it today on the radio!! I think it's catching on!

    • @FireTurkey
      @FireTurkey ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@rebeccapierson7977 Wait really? Heck yeah! :D

    • @trudyday3405
      @trudyday3405 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Not only is it on the radio, but it made it to the top 100 💯 recently!

    • @LipstickLullabies
      @LipstickLullabies ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Listening to it on the radio right now :)

    • @Caporg3000
      @Caporg3000 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@LipstickLullabies I played it for my wife after I posted the comment and she said she had already heard it on one of her Pandora stations! Lol.

  • @alannahtuttyy
    @alannahtuttyy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    As a nearly 19 year old who has dealt with eating disorders since being 11, thank you for this. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. This song is going to help so many!💌

    • @anna_in_aotearoa3166
      @anna_in_aotearoa3166 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It breaks my heart to think you're so young & yet you've been struggling with those insidious challenges for literally half your life... 😭 You have so much more potential ahead of you - really hope this is a space you will achieve significant victories in, and it'll free up energy & emotional power to tackle other things. Wishing you the very best of strength, resilience, independence, and great support networks!! ❤️‍🔥

    • @gowrinandana8999
      @gowrinandana8999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same. I'm 19 too. I almost died due to EDs when I was younger. Now I'm fine and happy. ❤ more strength to you, my dear friend😊

    • @alannahtuttyy
      @alannahtuttyy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anna_in_aotearoa3166 this is the sweetest, most beautiful thing ever. Thank you angel, you’re incredible and I hope you know how loved and needed you are💌

    • @alannahtuttyy
      @alannahtuttyy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gowrinandana8999 you’re so strong and I’m so incredibly proud of you! Thank you lovely 🤍

    • @gowrinandana8999
      @gowrinandana8999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alannahtuttyy 💕

  • @mari5868
    @mari5868 ปีที่แล้ว +1183

    I love this song as a 15 year old girl, but my 8 year old baby sister also loves it. Glad she's growing up with this music.

    • @NickanM
      @NickanM ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Add me, a 52 year old grandmother, I love this song!

    • @sciencenerd777
      @sciencenerd777 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OMG... My. Sister and I also have a seven year gap difference too

    • @sciencenerd777
      @sciencenerd777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@NickanM that is great!

    • @itsraelee
      @itsraelee ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NickanM wtf.. why would someone add a 52 year old that they don’t even know😬

    • @NickanM
      @NickanM ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@itsraelee
      Jesus Christ, Einstein.
      _I MENT THAT THEY COULD ADD ME TO THE GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT LIKE THIS SONG._ 🖕😑🖕

  • @Mrshane288
    @Mrshane288 ปีที่แล้ว +2023

    I'm an old dude whose daughter (that I raised on my own 💪💪) just moved out. This is essentially what I told her when she was younger. This is such a wonderful song and message! So glad it's going viral!!!!

    • @JessicaPradoHanson
      @JessicaPradoHanson ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Thank you for doing your best to be a better father than a lot of us got, your daughter will benefit greatly from that

    • @kerrybunny
      @kerrybunny ปีที่แล้ว +38

      You’re an awesome dad! The world needs more of you

    • @petralehto3825
      @petralehto3825 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I'm pretty sure your daughter is very lucky to have a father like you! Lots of love to both of you! 💗❤️💗

    • @nakshithandfamily9364
      @nakshithandfamily9364 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing

    • @heseesstuff
      @heseesstuff ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i am fucking helping it go viral in Vietnam. Let's go community power

  • @hrobinson3481
    @hrobinson3481 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    I am not a very sensitive person, yet I find myself crying every time I hear this. Like full-on sobbing. I love it and her voice, and it's speaks to the self-conscious young girl I was, who absolutely hated herself for being a size 8. I was perfect and had no idea.

    • @GenderlessPoopchiz
      @GenderlessPoopchiz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The girls who judged you can not talk cause the smal, like sticks you are amazing ❤

    • @yote333
      @yote333 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      A lot of us were that little girl, and most of us will never realize just how many people had the same experience and they’ll go about their lives thinking they were the only people who struggled with their body image at such a young age.
      I think most people have that little girl inside of them that still shows her face from time to time, trying to convince you that you’re too big to wear that outfit you love or that everyone who looks your way is making fun of you. But she’s been perfect this entire time.

    • @kcaz1984
      @kcaz1984 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I'm a straight man, and this makes me cry.

    • @jamalfeinstein-chang5864
      @jamalfeinstein-chang5864 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bc you’re fat

  • @tatiannamiv
    @tatiannamiv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I’m 34 years old and my daughter will be 12 this year and she is OBSESSED with this song, and it was a great conversation starter about body insecurity and the struggles of middle school.
    THANK YOU!

  • @TheSunlitLeaf
    @TheSunlitLeaf ปีที่แล้ว +1085

    When my daughter said she was going to play a song called Victoria's Secret I was a bit worried. And then I heard it. What a great message! Thank you for making this!

    • @pinkqqq
      @pinkqqq ปีที่แล้ว +41

      LMAOO U WERE WORRIED HELP 😭

    • @indrimza
      @indrimza ปีที่แล้ว +17

      What did you think the song was about? 💀

    • @ayumi63173
      @ayumi63173 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@indrimza Probably a little more intimate...

    • @JessicaPradoHanson
      @JessicaPradoHanson ปีที่แล้ว +11

      HAHHA I would have felt the same and then been like thank god kids are smarter these days than I was!

    • @ko7577
      @ko7577 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well, unless your daughter is a skinny person with large breasts, in which case she would feel ashamed listening to this song. Because the person singing it is actually making fun of those types of women. The answer to fat shaming isn't to shame skinny women.

  • @alishakrause9305
    @alishakrause9305 ปีที่แล้ว +1407

    This song needs to be played in health classes or just school in general from elementary through high school!

    • @lisastrayer1174
      @lisastrayer1174 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I was thinking the exact thing!!

    • @Taylors_version_from_the_vault
      @Taylors_version_from_the_vault ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @Weirdsup well it’s a good message. They could just teach this in general

    • @River132
      @River132 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Just this in general should be taught in health, elementary through high school

    • @haveawonderfulday-17yearsa48
      @haveawonderfulday-17yearsa48 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Without the curse words.

    • @Ch0coc4ttt
      @Ch0coc4ttt ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @Weirdsup they could just edit it. Clean versions exist, they just don’t go as hard XD

  • @Sky-Child
    @Sky-Child ปีที่แล้ว +93

    That "can't have carbs and a hot girl summer" really hit me. My husband is always asking me why I don't wear summer dresses or shorts when other women do and I am convinced "I don't look like other girls" in nice summer clothes.
    Going to play this for my daughter as an anthem until she grows.

    • @MrThinkTank0
      @MrThinkTank0 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you really doing as much for your husband as he does for you? He's got needs too you know.

    • @cassieh5506
      @cassieh5506 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MrThinkTank0da fuq?

    • @MrThinkTank0
      @MrThinkTank0 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cassieh5506 I think it's a fair question, if he's a lazy bum that doesn't provide then she's kind of justified in not trying to look good for him, but if he's pulling his weight then it's only fair to lose some of hers

    • @leahconnelly2782
      @leahconnelly2782 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@MrThinkTank0 Wives shouldn't have to ignore their emotional needs to fulfill their husbands' physical desires. It's great to do things for your partner out of love. When it means not loving yourself, though, it isn't helpful to either person. Anyway, this song is helping people work through such issues.

  • @itsjannahbui
    @itsjannahbui ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Jax, I just wanted to say thank u for writing this song. I've been made fun of bc of a disability that I have by someone online. It started to make me feel a little insecure about my body. But when I first heard this song, I realized I don't have to be like everyone else. Thank u again Jax.

    • @spicyandsweet
      @spicyandsweet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Stay strong . I understand how you feel i also was made fun of my intellectual disability but actually people who made fun of others are unhappy inside too . Truly Happy people doesn't need to bully others :)

    • @itsjannahbui
      @itsjannahbui 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@spicyandsweet thanks!

    • @heyfluffykitties
      @heyfluffykitties 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can get through this I promise❤❤

    • @itsjannahbui
      @itsjannahbui 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heyfluffykitties thank u so much!

    • @heyfluffykitties
      @heyfluffykitties 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@itsjannahbui don’t say thank you just because it’s true ❤️❤️

  • @PeidraFanGurl1
    @PeidraFanGurl1 ปีที่แล้ว +1629

    As a 29 year old who is disabled & was never confident in her own skin, this song means everything!

    • @shata-chan
      @shata-chan ปีที่แล้ว +11

      even if there r some things we cant do that don't mean we cant conquer the world

    • @Minmin-wo6if
      @Minmin-wo6if ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're really strong ,confident and beautiful.Really

    • @thepuris8391
      @thepuris8391 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Those are for reasons and surely an everyday challenge to keep convincing yourself - means you have such capability that many of us might not be able to bear :] !
      -
      Copied:
      "Anyone gotta be aware that being skinny is Not skin and bones like this song pointed out. Or big, curvy, whatever - is a blessing as long as it's nature/gene and healthy.
      Altho this song reminds me of 'Am All About That Bass' by Meghan Trainor; sounds hypocrite to me.
      'Skin and Bones.'
      Tryna lifting up self by mocking others bcs a person had/ has been a victim of bodyshaming (or actually a "victim" of his/her own low self value by keep seeing medias 'perfection' standard which hardly avoid) but then he/she is doing the same shaming; hypocrisy?
      It vocals the insecurity crisis; covering up wounds with insult.
      Don't let it fool us again. Meghan Trainor then doing work out to lose weight (for her own good good after selling 'Big and Beautiful' strategy.
      Medias (entertainment, etc)- are actually, mostly, doN'T give a Fuk about our health/ wellbeing and how they "indirectly" often twist the 'Big and Healthy' movement with, 'If you keep mad eating junkfood- Do it!"- movements.
      We mostly just a target.
      Market field.
      *'Skin and Bones.'
      Sadly, the innocent/ naive teens/ kids are possibly will remembering (brainwashed) such degrading insulting term
      Whatever your shape; you are healthy and you love it? That is great.
      Stand firm regardless the trend.
      If you don't like it? Stop the bodyshame and change it for *your own good.*
      If it's hard to change for various factors; don't mock others bcs it speaks volume of insecurity and No offensive degrading act will lift ya up Nor fix our selfesteem ever. Never work that way. Ever."
      -
      No mock speaks safety :]
      If ya wanna glam ourselves; Do for the good and stop bodyshaming for self peace
      :]

    • @deddedbyglamour
      @deddedbyglamour ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fun fact, she actually has a disabled member in the flashmob she did for the music video!

    • @gelflingmama
      @gelflingmama ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@deddedbyglamour I saw that! It was so cool! My disability is invisible (mostly, I can pull my shoulder out of the socket to make it more visible but obviously not a good idea,) and it was so nice to feel represented!!

  • @Daphodil27
    @Daphodil27 ปีที่แล้ว +1912

    To be completely honest, no song ever really "changed my life," but I've been so insecure (me and every other person in the world) but this came out right when I was in the depths of it. Thank you for your hard work and amazing songwriting, Jax!!!

    • @cherryatulah7833
      @cherryatulah7833 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too 😊

    • @chedderspinner414
      @chedderspinner414 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @mqqqqqtttttttt7142
      @mqqqqqtttttttt7142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chedderspinner414 a

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
      .

    • @ItsMirandaRedmond
      @ItsMirandaRedmond ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad it found you at the right time❤ absolutely a GREAT song, definitely comforts the bullied child in me and I'm I my 30s now and it still hurts but his song helps lol
      Also I love your profile picture, dien anblick is beautiful

  • @jommisalami
    @jommisalami 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    As a punk rocker with 2010s nostalgia suffering from Anorexia, this song feels like she's singing to me specifically, like she's trying to get me to hear her and save me

  • @delanaheidrich725
    @delanaheidrich725 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank you for a song that makes a difference. On karaoke day, the middle school girls at my school ROCK OUT to this song! And, as their 59 year old teacher, I’m right there joining in because I need the reminder just as much as the young girls do.

    • @NuhUh1411
      @NuhUh1411 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      HELP, YOU DONT LOOK 60 😭

  • @astrandedhushpuppie128
    @astrandedhushpuppie128 ปีที่แล้ว +2833

    Funny how this song doesn't only help women. I'm a 16 year old guy and I honestly have some insecurities about my body but after hearing this... I listened to it on loop lol, makes me feel a lot better about myself! Thank you Jax, you're a role model for everyone.

    • @motleypoisongirl
      @motleypoisongirl ปีที่แล้ว +271

      I’m a 30 year old woman and I just want you to know that the fashion and entertainment industries are just as unfair to men. Guys are shown that they have to be tall, thin, and muscular with six pack abs. Not true! Every body is beautiful, and everyone deserves to be loved for who they are not how they look. ❤️

    • @astrandedhushpuppie128
      @astrandedhushpuppie128 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      @@motleypoisongirl The fact that this is true makes me wanna cry. It sucks that everyone is treated unfairly.

    • @hollytipton5002
      @hollytipton5002 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      You're perfect!!

    • @astrandedhushpuppie128
      @astrandedhushpuppie128 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@hollytipton5002 no u.

    • @gorgeousstunning3880
      @gorgeousstunning3880 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@astrandedhushpuppie128 especially in modelling business

  • @josephschmidt1751
    @josephschmidt1751 ปีที่แล้ว +2359

    As a father of daughters I sincerely thank you for this song.
    Keep up the good work.
    You are helping to keep beautiful young ladies out of the ER from self inflicted starvation and off the operating tables wanting to mutilate themselves for an unrealistic standard.
    Again.
    I sincerely thank you.

    • @justiceguzzler
      @justiceguzzler ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Thank you for being a good father to your daughters

    • @projectfixtheworldnow9214
      @projectfixtheworldnow9214 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      All Fathers around the world unanimously agree on this comment.☝️

    • @aubreygirl6284
      @aubreygirl6284 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Nostufork me too

    • @ohthereyouarepeter1435
      @ohthereyouarepeter1435 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You made me cry ❤️💜

    • @pinkiecake5673
      @pinkiecake5673 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Now you know how to help your daughter. Sorry I know that I’m a month late on seeing your comment.

  • @paisleestorys
    @paisleestorys 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    you need an award for this, whiles other musicians do topics like heartbreak and other sh!t, you actually did it on something everyone struggles with. You are so down to earth, I luv u

  • @LadyKris3345
    @LadyKris3345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I cry when I hear this. I feel like Jax unintentionally healed an entire generation of woman with this song.❤

  • @morgan3717
    @morgan3717 ปีที่แล้ว +3353

    I’m a 14 year old girl, I’ve struggled with body images for as long as I can remember, I can’t explain how much this song helps!! Thank you ❤️

    • @blubbyseal3254
      @blubbyseal3254 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Fellow 14 y/o girl, I bet ur beautiful ❤️ ✨

    • @madelinestewart3458
      @madelinestewart3458 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      As a 14 year old as well I love this song. And I bet both of you are beautiful inside and out❤

    • @jojoart571
      @jojoart571 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You guys are so nice a kind I this comment section I wish the world had more people like you ❤️

    • @gachagirl-kt6gu
      @gachagirl-kt6gu ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Its ok i feel ya but instead im turning twelve soon

    • @KensonDurze
      @KensonDurze ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Imagine not knowing Eugene

  • @ThereallKB
    @ThereallKB ปีที่แล้ว +485

    I listened to this with my mom who is very strict when is comes to cuss words. She overlooked it though because she knows I struggle with my body. I absolutely love this song!

    • @AceyCamui
      @AceyCamui ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My mom was big on no cuss words and is still not a fan but now that all her kids are adults I hear her cuss! Lmao gotta love moms

    • @RandomPerson43399
      @RandomPerson43399 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AceyCamui Lol 😂

    • @shaneamistoso645
      @shaneamistoso645 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tell you're mom she's sooo AMAZING!!!! 😭😭😭 happy for you anyway

    • @ttvfazebrady29
      @ttvfazebrady29 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cherry-Bomb

    • @ttvfazebrady29
      @ttvfazebrady29 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have the same problum with my weight I'm 110 and I'm 9 years old it's quiet a struggle

  • @KJABurch
    @KJABurch 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I’m 47, Breast Cancer survivor with double mastectomy, and over weight and my gosh this song gets me every time. I turn it on blast and dance! Wish I would have had this song back in my modeling days where I worked out continuously and never ate to match their standards. Phenomenal job JAX!! Girl you are hitting the nail on the head with so many of your songs!!! ❤🫶🏻

  • @ainsleighgray5241
    @ainsleighgray5241 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Jax, can I just quickly say, I know I'm kinda late but I just really wanna say thank you for making this song. I turned 13 one month and 2 days ago, and I've constantly been telling myself that I'm ugly, and beauty standards for women (even though I'm a non-binary) don't make it any better. I've also been wondering if I should stop eating because that always seems to work. But then I just started belting this song, and oh my god. I really need this message, especially since now that I've just hit that stage of life, and with the media portraying women with unrealistic body proportions that I'll never have, and portraying "beautiful" women as pale white, straight, with blue eyes and blonde hair, and glasses? We don't know her. No pimples, either, because women have to wear makeup at all times, apparently. And as some scrawny kid with brown hair, brown eyes, the occasional pimple/bump/whatever, glasses and bushy eyebrows who constantly tells themself that they're fat, despite eating so much sugary stuff at school every day and seemingly not gaining a single bit of weight for some reason, who is also in the "Oh my god, I have to be beautiful and skinny or nobody will like me", this song was definitely made for someone like me. Thank you Jax, keep pumping out more bangers with messages like these, love you 💕

  • @daughter_of_hades69
    @daughter_of_hades69 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Im 14 and ive struggled for years with eating disorders. Ive been doing a lot better this past year. Ive been eating more and learning to love my body. This songs has helped me through it. My parents dont know about it because i was really good at covering it up.

    • @lampad4549
      @lampad4549 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get off the internet it will solve most of your body issues.

    • @daughter_of_hades69
      @daughter_of_hades69 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lampad4549 not really. I tried that. I was off the Internet for a year I thought it would help but nothing changed. Then about a year ago I started watching body positivity videos every day and slowly I started loving my body again.

  • @kiakoa3121
    @kiakoa3121 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    This song with watching the photoshopping sends such a powerful and important message!
    Although I think the most important part of seeing the real vs edited along with the last few lyrics at the end gets missed with the end card credits things covering the comparison photos
    This is a masterpiece though!

    • @oscarjr360
      @oscarjr360 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i... didnt even realize there was photoshopping going on! 😳
      thank you!

    • @kiakoa3121
      @kiakoa3121 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@oscarjr360 you’re welcome! Happy to help, I think it adds to the message. Have a nice day!😊

    • @visualbeauty3427
      @visualbeauty3427 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@oscarjr360 even the editorial/ cover fashion magazine they used settings of editing, example like black & white (or one settings), color toning, color degradable, retouching, frequency seperation, liquify tool, sometimes they're editing skin textures too, it's pretty obvious when zooming especially model's eye sometimes they used beauty dish or soft box, let's be honest cuz a lot professional team of makeup artist, hairstylist, fashion stylist are one team different theme of photoshoot of editorial, ad campaign, cover of magazine.

    • @awarlockunkindlyborn1353
      @awarlockunkindlyborn1353 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a pretty easy way to temporarily get rid of the cards, but to my knowledge it can only be done in the desktop version, not the app.
      1. Hit f12 (or go to settings>more tools>developer tools). This will open up a docked area in the browser.
      2. Go to the "Console" tab, and at the bottom there will be a place to type. Paste this into the text box: document.querySelectorAll(".ytp-ce-element").forEach((el) => el.remove());
      The cards should disappear. There is a way to remove them permanently, but it's more complex and involves downloading software, so I prefer this. Hope this helps if you decide to try it!

  • @Chocolate-fg9lj
    @Chocolate-fg9lj ปีที่แล้ว +1507

    “I wish somebody would have told me that thighs of thunder meant normal human thighs” I love that line so much because I’ve always been so insecure about my thighs, thanks so much JAX

    • @galaxy_starwolf559
      @galaxy_starwolf559 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Me too! And my weight!!! God this world makes us think we’re not perfect when we are just perfectly NORMAL.

    • @Libby_Playz.
      @Libby_Playz. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@galaxy_starwolf559 same!

    • @Olivia_Taylor22
      @Olivia_Taylor22 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same I am almost at teen but still I was insecure about them but I listened to this song a million times and it's making me feel better about them

    • @Dani-ss6kb
      @Dani-ss6kb ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’ve been insecure about them too but something I’ve taught myself is that they are “Thighs of Thunder” because all they hold is Beauty

    • @Juliachretien
      @Juliachretien ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hey girl! I’m 14 and 172.4 lbs! I have thick thighs and my stomach isn’t flat for shit but I don’t really care! I bet you’re beautiful too! We are all beautiful!

  • @chloeluvsuu258
    @chloeluvsuu258 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    2:30 she started the Ohio thing

  • @jacobwilkinson6112
    @jacobwilkinson6112 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    From a more conservative minded (by nature, not politics) monogamously married man in his 20’s who very much believes in the power and importance of modesty, I can still agree with the message of this song. At first listen I was sort of like “okay another song about how men are oppressive towards women woohooo”, but then I thought about it from the perspective of my potential future-daughter. I don’t want my daughter growing up thinking that she isn’t enough because her “nose is too big” or her “boobs are too small.” That would break my heart. I also don’t want her growing up believing that these are the only things men see. But I think there is a deeper issue that maybe the songwriters didn’t even think about, and I think this song touches on it a little bit. There is certainly a balance between caring about your beauty (which is also okay) and obsessing over it. And I think social media teaches young ladies to truly obsess over it to the point of depression. I pray that my daughter is beautiful and understands the real meaning of beauty at the same time. Young ladies, please place value in yourselves outside of only your physical appearance. Physical appearance can matter to you, but there are other important parts of you as well.

  • @anniek55112
    @anniek55112 ปีที่แล้ว +461

    This is such an important message. I’m 52. When I was younger I thought I was disgusting and fat. I look back at photos and wonder how I ever thought that.I thought 140 pounds at 5’5 made me not worthy when I was actually fit, athletic, strong and healthy. I wish I had heard this message from someone as beautiful and talented as Jax.

    • @willow1282
      @willow1282 ปีที่แล้ว

      52🤨

    • @anniek55112
      @anniek55112 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@willow1282 hopefully one day you make it to 52 too

    • @kklol-ee1gz
      @kklol-ee1gz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anniek55112 bahahaha anyways I’m like a teen too willow

    • @Teri3898
      @Teri3898 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree with u 100 percent. I wore a size 3 and always saw myself fat. Nobody understood it. I took laxatives and starved myself all the time. Now I’ve got all kinds of health problems. I’m 68.

    • @n0tAng1e13
      @n0tAng1e13 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so true! And i’m 12 watching this and it’s just changed on how i actually look at myself…Tysm this comment should get more likes and comments. And jax is a legend

  • @cassthomas9115
    @cassthomas9115 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    Already singing this to my daughters (6 and 4)!
    They will NEVER not know how to love themselves and their bodies if I have anything to do with it 💕🥰

    • @LxvxndxrBxnny
      @LxvxndxrBxnny ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You're such a good parent ☺️

    • @godzilla8878
      @godzilla8878 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Umm 4 and 6….. no offends but wait a few years

    • @jiachoi9294
      @jiachoi9294 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @Godzilla I started feeling insecure as long as I can remember

    • @godzilla8878
      @godzilla8878 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jiachoi9294 I'm Talking about The lyrics , not What The Song is About

    • @jiachoi9294
      @jiachoi9294 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Godzilla sorry I misunderstood

  • @FoxyfloofJumps
    @FoxyfloofJumps ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shout out to you Jax. I love your song. Most of my family is female, and they all kept their looks and health thru their 80s and beyond (great-great-grandma was 123 when she died in her own bed after cooking and hosting a dinner party.)
    None of them every dieted a day in their lives, just worked hard, played hard, and loved their families. They all kept their youthful good looks until their 70s with just a bit of makeup.
    My mom was the only one who dieted out of the whole family, and now she can't feel hunger, or remember what day it is. She's only 70.

    • @ThePro-WrestlingTrueCrime
      @ThePro-WrestlingTrueCrime ปีที่แล้ว

      Your GG-Gma lived to be 123yrs old??? Is she in record 📚? My PawPaw worked the same job for 55 years & he made a record list in the USA of less than 100 ppl at the time who was at the same job over 50yrs! He retired at 80 & lived to be close to 90! I can imagine how proud you have to be that she was your GG-GMA!!!

    • @ThePro-WrestlingTrueCrime
      @ThePro-WrestlingTrueCrime ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My Aunt was bigger in her early teen years, dieted & exercised to where now at 59 yrs old shes still like a size 0-2 & can't ever find 👖 or anything! I may be a big woman being a size 18-20 in 👖 but I don't care! We all come in different shapes & sizes!!! (Ohio Men seem to prefer skinny women when I grew up there! I live in Detroit now & it's totally different! Been married over 7yrs & together going on 9yrs & even with a 💍 on I still get hit on! N Ohio that wasn't the case!)

    • @FoxyfloofJumps
      @FoxyfloofJumps 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ThePro-WrestlingTrueCrime She isn't in any record books, because her original birth certificate and marriage license were lost in a house fire in 1927. Her last day on earth, she cooked, hosted a dinner party, climbed 3 flights of stairs, polished off a half bottle of chianti and her favorite bedtime novel, and the morning maid came in and found her still in her bed, when she went in to dust and polish the knick-knacks at 8am the next morning.

  • @EinXTRAZ
    @EinXTRAZ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:32 OHIO MOMENT

    • @izumuu
      @izumuu ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

  • @maryhernandez9699
    @maryhernandez9699 ปีที่แล้ว +1017

    I'm a 40 year old woman and this song makes me cry every time. I feel like crying for the teen and younger me, who was for sure beautiful and had a beautiful body and people even told her so, but somehow, never felt that way. It could seem silly, but this song made want to go back and tell that to myself. And that makes me want to cry.

    • @laceduptight
      @laceduptight ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me too, me too 10000000%

    • @jeremykohlhase7989
      @jeremykohlhase7989 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a life. Song is sexist as hell

    • @bookishwitchymama97
      @bookishwitchymama97 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nearly 38 and remember well the hype over Victoria’s Secret. I completely agree, and I legitimately cried too.

    • @adamkostuk179
      @adamkostuk179 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl same but this makes me think about a school I went two.. 😅 and she made this two say you shouldn't care about what you look like.. its amazing 👏

    • @lizciavarella-brenner1725
      @lizciavarella-brenner1725 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same! I get teary every time. I wish this had come out when when I was in HS.

  • @raylynne5280
    @raylynne5280 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I think we all need to hear this! I'm 29 and this legit made me cry, I can't wait to play it for my boyfriend's daughter (she's almost 11 and is starting to worry about body image and stuff)

    • @catharinetarquinio3400
      @catharinetarquinio3400 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I'm 29 and cried too, wish 14-year-old me could've heard this years ago

    • @meowsiex
      @meowsiex ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@catharinetarquinio3400 same!! I’m 36 and 14 year old me needed to hear this so much.

    • @songwriter5943
      @songwriter5943 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      30 and i cry all time. My 10 years old fav song

  • @kathryn3802
    @kathryn3802 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish this song have been around when I was younger. I was bullied as a kid for my curly hair and glasses, Also,definitely have somebody insecurities as a teenager. I've learned to love my hair, glasses and curves but it took time. Such a wonderful message for young girls!

  • @miacrysler1311
    @miacrysler1311 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I feel like everyone needs to know this song to understand what we all go through! Thank you for this song!

  • @rerogojuryu
    @rerogojuryu ปีที่แล้ว +466

    This song has genuinely made me cry a couple of times, I've never had an eating disorder but I've had severe anxiety and high functioning depression since i was a kid and i struggle with eating a lot, where I'll have to snack through to day to distract myself from random bad thoughts i guess? Anyways, this song has helped me realise how much girls and their ideal weights are influenced by men and their wants- I Dont think I'm particularly overweight but when it hurts me to look in the mirror this song makes me feel like a new person❤️

    • @rerogojuryu
      @rerogojuryu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And an issue with ocd and anxiety nobody seems to talk about is when you have to eat things within a certain time frame or in specific amounts or it fully weighs on you for the whole day, it never helps, but like i say because of this song i feel like i can get on with my life without having to shape my body to suit everyone else's likeness

    • @shahidchaudhary52
      @shahidchaudhary52 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep fighting

    • @lilyblackburn2694
      @lilyblackburn2694 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me aswell

  • @LanceJavyPrivado
    @LanceJavyPrivado ปีที่แล้ว +3203

    The fact that she wrote this song for the insecure girl she was babysitting is so sweet 😭

    • @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago
      @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I watch her shorts about it!!

    • @Gitemstevedave
      @Gitemstevedave ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yet in every video she's wearing lift boots. So you claim you are above body issues, but you lie about your height?
      Women are naturally beautiful. Embrace the people who appreciate it.

    • @1234ang
      @1234ang ปีที่แล้ว +240

      @@Gitemstevedave how is she lying about their height? she can wear whatever shoes she wants... literally she never lied about her height. she is free and can wear whatever shoes she wants.. and I don't think she is insecure about her height..

    • @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago
      @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@Gitemstevedave Lance was not saying that they were above body issues, he was appriciating that she wrote this for the girl she was babysitting. And who would even assume that this person were claiming they were above body issues the comment literally says "The fact that she wrote this song for the insecure girl she was babysitting is so sweet 😭" I don't get your mind how do you get that from this comment

    • @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago
      @-liittle-_MOVEDlikemonthsago ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@Gitemstevedave AND THIS COMMENT HAD NOTHING TO FUCKING DO WITH HEIGHT-

  • @acekai3477
    @acekai3477 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being a father to a daughter this song rocks need more like these

  • @corinnebowey5203
    @corinnebowey5203 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great respect for Jax - need more artists like you, reality!!!

  • @lunarmoon06
    @lunarmoon06 ปีที่แล้ว +1388

    I love how many dads and fathers are here, girls let's play this song LOUD and teach the generation after us what it means to be beautiful! Confident, brave, and kind!
    Edit: some people arnt getting the message, I'm saying let's teach children true beauty, confidence, bravery, and kindness. You shouldn't be ashamed of your body size! Though I do hope if your unhealthy obese you get some help, it can hurt you and I wouldnt want that. Hopefully my message is clearer now!

    • @jeremykohlhase7989
      @jeremykohlhase7989 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not to mention dumb

    • @user-ii3lp6bw8q
      @user-ii3lp6bw8q ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh nah 💀

    • @ACETHEVASE
      @ACETHEVASE ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jeremykohlhase7989 you should think about what you're saying . And I'm a girl useing my baby brother phone but if I was not I would be causing you out

    • @jeremykohlhase7989
      @jeremykohlhase7989 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ACETHEVASE another example of a toxic female.

    • @KlaudiaGanancial
      @KlaudiaGanancial ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!!!

  • @stephevans5561
    @stephevans5561 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    I can’t get enough of this song. My 7 year old daughter and I had a long conversation about this. Thank you Jax for being alllllllll of our inner voices! 💪

    • @d.stramonium
      @d.stramonium ปีที่แล้ว +15

      7 year old? gosh that breaks my heart.

    • @theblurryblackcat
      @theblurryblackcat ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This is one of my 8 year old cousin's favorite songs, and honestly I'm surprised how mature she is for her age. I hope this teaches her she doesn't have to follow society's standards and I hope she doesn't have to feel what I felt/feel.

    • @stephevans5561
      @stephevans5561 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@theblurryblackcat I agree 💯. I love that as a society we are being more honest and open about this stuff. We are changing the narrative and it feels good doesn’t it?

    • @stephevans5561
      @stephevans5561 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@d.stramonium Mine too! 💔

    • @theblurryblackcat
      @theblurryblackcat ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@stephevans5561 Yes, I hope some time in the future, we'll all be like children, in that we'll always follow our hearts and be able to express our feelings while still accepting that we're all equal in spirit.

  • @Boba.Lover02
    @Boba.Lover02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a 13 year old girl and I can tell you that this has changed my life.
    I haven't wanted to go to a pool or the sea bc of my insecurities and I was also worried about what my classmates would say. Now I have a totally different mindset and I dont have problems on such things, so THANK YOU❤

  • @aliciaroberts7937
    @aliciaroberts7937 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know this song is for liking ur body , but I'm listening to this song, so I can feel like a fighter , but I'm a 7 yr old girl that knows how to spell big words .💗thankyou .

    • @aliciaroberts7937
      @aliciaroberts7937 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was 3 when I found this record in my basement.

  • @SageyWagey69400
    @SageyWagey69400 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    This isn’t just a catchy song that happens to mention body image . It’s a catchy song that is going to make so many girls , old and young , feel safe and included . JAX , your changing the world one song at a time . I’m one of your biggest fans ever !

  • @stacimarie784
    @stacimarie784 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    As a girl who grew up with thyroid issues amongst depression and anxiety, this song hits hard! I was always overweight. I've tried countless diets and workouts. I was always active (still love parks and walking) but always gained. Never lost. With that I was bullied physically and mentally. I have/had no confidence.
    This song has been stuck in my head since release and on repeat when I can. It's been a while a song came along that I can relate to and also love!

    • @UltimateSupreme_Liar
      @UltimateSupreme_Liar ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same but the other way around. I’m really skinny for my age and I always lose, never gain. I hope everything gets better for you!

    • @martyruth77
      @martyruth77 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think I'm kind of the blend of y'all, I have thyroid issues but also gastrointestinal issues. I used to be healthier, but lately I've lost a bunch of weight and I'm actually nearing the threshold for clinically underweight.
      everyone just tells me I look SO good now and I must be doing better. like, thanks, I'm actually sicker than I've ever been ✌️

    • @loredanag508
      @loredanag508 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@UltimateSupreme_Liar girl, me too✌️

    • @UltimateSupreme_Liar
      @UltimateSupreme_Liar ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@loredanag508 I don’t like female nicknames/pronouns, so sorry!
      But FINALLY someone understands!

    • @loredanag508
      @loredanag508 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@UltimateSupreme_Liar I'm so sorry. I just assumed something. It's not my best time rn
      I hope we'll start to feel better about our bodies!!

  • @user-nl8wv7nf8g
    @user-nl8wv7nf8g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm 11 I have so many insecurities and this song helped me so much

  • @hannahparker2853
    @hannahparker2853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 40 years old, have had 4 children, lost my first son at 4 months old, and got out of an abusive marriage then having to live in a shelter for 2 years with my 3 children. Life has been a rollercoaster ride, and my body image issues have been in the back of my mind the whole time. For years it was covering up, sweating to death most summers. But this song was a game changer for me. This summer I’m wearing dresses that I always wanted to wear but refused. I am finally moving on, and starting to feel comfortable in my own skin! I play this song for both my 13 year old daughter as well as my 5 year old daughter to help remind them they are beautiful! This song has been a blessing to so many…thank you!❤

  • @kevhealy3596
    @kevhealy3596 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    My 11 year old daughter loves this song. She is going to tell all her friends about it too. Thanks Jax, you are going to help so many young girls.

    • @chrissiebawn9357
      @chrissiebawn9357 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hebee5892
      @hebee5892 ปีที่แล้ว

      She helped me I am 8 Turning nine

    • @Ceciliaqq
      @Ceciliaqq ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hebee5892 It's so sad that girls like you who are very young worry about your body image. Keep strong queen ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anasophia370
    @anasophia370 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    I can’t even describe the confidence this gave me, I’m currently screaming this song. I’ve always struggled with being “too skinny” and this just shows me that no matter how one looks somebody is gonna feel the need to comment on it, so might as well not care and feel confident in the beautiful skin you have 🥰😊

  • @artemisia.2466
    @artemisia.2466 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My mom doesn't know English but I translated this for her and now it's her fav and she's able to fully sing it correctly 😅❤

  • @terrydrury9665
    @terrydrury9665 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a powerful song.

  • @laurelincawley9744
    @laurelincawley9744 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    Thank you for making this song... I turned 12 this year and for about 4 years I have been struggling with body issues. You have no clue how much this song means to me. 😭

    • @whocares5367
      @whocares5367 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You're beautiful the way you are💕

    • @ElleEstQueTropRoque
      @ElleEstQueTropRoque ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Being 34 growing up without all this exposition and internet, seeing 12 years old being stress about their body is heartbreaking. Thank indeed for all the role models that shows the media and "beauty" industry's backstage. Focus on your interests and passion, appearance is ever evolving so let's not get hang up on it.

    • @mykennawinchester8850
      @mykennawinchester8850 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are beautiful.

    • @Regina.6692
      @Regina.6692 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Something about you having body image issues at 8 is really heartbreaking. Hope you're doin alright.💖💖

    • @lucialelli5243
      @lucialelli5243 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@haydynlazarus8679 sweety please try to focus on the fact that you have the most beautiful and precious thing in the world: you are so incredibly young. You can become a doctor, an engineer, an astronaut, an artist, a dancer... the best is yet to come, you're wonderful in any way because you have the only thing which really matters: a whole life in front of you; and everybody envy you for that! Make something great out of it and do not worry about appearance, everybody hates their body unfortunately, you'll never be alone

  • @katie-jolao8179
    @katie-jolao8179 ปีที่แล้ว +947

    I'm almost 25 and from a little town in Vermont, and just heard it on the radio. I was so excited that I called my mom, I feel like so many girls need to hear and know this message, that beauty comes from within and no one can put a price on it. Love this song, Im so grateful for talented musicians to share their talents and help others feel better about themselves. Thank you Jax. ❤️

    • @luzperez540
      @luzperez540 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Slay girl😊

    • @Nicolasmithy2
      @Nicolasmithy2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you sooo much 😊

    • @user-bc9uv6bm2g
      @user-bc9uv6bm2g 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@luzperez540no

    • @rc1952
      @rc1952 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes you’re right! I heard this song on Tiktok today. The tune was familiar but I could not completely make out the lyrics so I came over to TY to find them. It’s good to see someone made a song saying Victoria’s real secret is she don’t eat enough and feels pressures to stay SKINNY! She’s a fashion victim. She’s living on boiled eggs and clear soup and half a celery stick and glasses of water. This ain’t good for her immunity. Or for the building of her pelvic bones to hold her baby when she gets older. She will need strong bones. She needs good balanced diet for having kids. A friend of mine used to diet constantly. Her sister got a anorexia nervosa the dieting disease. She herself dieter so much that when she came to have babies they told her her pelvis was too small. Fasting during teens can stunt the growth of you bones so you need a normal balanced diet to grow bone. Teenagers are still growing their bones. Keep eating normally teens. The chubby kids get picked on. The kids who are different cop all the flack. It’s cruel. It’s wrong. People sometimes over eat and gain weight, look fatter, clothing won’t fit any more. It’s hard to lose it. But you learn when you do lose a substantial amount of weight that nobody really cares but yourself. People are too busy focussing on their own jeans size! That’s human nature. So eat for your self, not because others pressure you. Look after your body and eat a balanced healthy vegetable rich varied diet. Water is one of the most neglected things we can consume and healthy!! Makes you glow, cleans the body.

    • @ToniShaw-wi4qb
      @ToniShaw-wi4qb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@luzperez540is this true

  • @DebyCedars
    @DebyCedars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad they gave this song to Jax to perform. She does a great job with it.

    • @llamasugar5478
      @llamasugar5478 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She said in a video that she wrote it for a girl she babysits.

    • @terrydrury9665
      @terrydrury9665 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She co wrote this song.

    • @DebyCedars
      @DebyCedars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She co-wrote this song with me.@@terrydrury9665

    • @DebyCedars
      @DebyCedars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sure she did write some of this song for that reason, but I'm the one who came up with the killer hook, and theCan't have carbs and hot girl summer rhyme.@@llamasugar5478

    • @DebyCedars
      @DebyCedars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also wrote this song with the background music being written by Allan Simmons.th-cam.com/video/GywaB947Z6s/w-d-xo.html@@llamasugar5478

  • @nancyobrien3910
    @nancyobrien3910 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i am a 54 yr old woman who has struggled with body image my whole life.. Been on more diets than I can count. None of them worked for more then a few pounds. Girls I wish this song was out when I was young. Im sure your all beautiful and your all so kind to be backing each other the way you are.. Your all so much stronger then you realize and just being there for each other really helps..... ❤❤❤

  • @maryamafroz7706
    @maryamafroz7706 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I was told i was overweight and when i lost weight, i was told that I'm underweight, malnourished and ugly
    I've suffered a lot and this song made me love myself the way I am
    Tysm Jax for releasing this masterpiece
    You've helped million of girls suffering like me

    • @marymekano
      @marymekano ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorryyy
      Glad you're good now

    • @christinaaa_xo
      @christinaaa_xo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, and the majority of it came from my own mom. I was "too chubby", and needed to "have a flat stomach". I got that flat stomach, and when I did, I was ridiculed for having it, and was accused of all sorts of things at that point. It was awful. This is when I was a teen. I'm 31 now, and am still dealing with the issues that caused.
      I am so sorry you also went through that, and I hope you're doing okay now. Sending you love! ❤️🤘🏻

    • @ko7577
      @ko7577 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did this song make you love who you are? It skinny-shames smaller women.
      Second, a clothing company sells actual physical clothes to women in America. Plus size clothing lines don't market to skinny women, and store like this don't market to fat women who don't wear lingerie as much (but should).

    • @Idkwhattoputhete12324
      @Idkwhattoputhete12324 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ko7577 shut up please. This song is not shaming people with eating disorders, stop being toxic also I think you should get your ears checked, I don’t think you can actually hear

  • @fangirltmurphy9998
    @fangirltmurphy9998 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I needed this song SO HARD in middle school and Highschool.
    JAX, thank you for helping the girls, guys, everybody in between… who NEEDED to hear this. ❤️👏🏻

  • @FootballFan7107
    @FootballFan7107 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 12 I suck in my tummy around people I used to carve but this song gives me comfort ❤️❤️❤️

  • @KevinLetourneau88
    @KevinLetourneau88 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Probably one of the greatest songs of the last ten years. Fabulous performer too!

  • @Ashley-bt1dm
    @Ashley-bt1dm ปีที่แล้ว +69

    i’m seeing all these comments saying they wish they had this song when they were 14. I’m 14 and on the verge of an eating disorder and this song made me feel so included and not alone and it made me want to get better. Thank you so much Jax.

    • @KorokSeeds
      @KorokSeeds ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay strong! It's so easy to slip into an eating disorder and so hard to climb out. Keep taking care of yourself 💞

  • @jroze5382
    @jroze5382 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im 14 almost 15 yo girl. I found this song last fall. This song makes me feel so much better abt my body and the way i look at it. Im learning to be more confident in my skin and love and accept myself. Tysm JAX i luv u sm!!! ❤❤❤

  • @elangloshitposter1635
    @elangloshitposter1635 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As a perverted old man in Ohio this song slaps
    -yours truly, Victoria

  • @kinleysrobloxblogs1827
    @kinleysrobloxblogs1827 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I love you JaX!😊❤️
    I’m 9 years old and my friends were telling me I was overweight and I was in the living room with my mom and I heard this song and I said what’s that song and she told me I’ve been listening non stop
    You inspired me so much 🥰❤️

    • @aliya7300
      @aliya7300 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Leave your toxic friends u deserve better 😃

    • @2bakedgirlsss
      @2bakedgirlsss ปีที่แล้ว +16

      a little advice, drop those 'friends'. they're fake and you need to drop them before they hurt you more

    • @dougbrown9426
      @dougbrown9426 ปีที่แล้ว

      Drop your "friends" they are fake

    • @zerotwochan1523
      @zerotwochan1523 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You deserve more and leave those friends you are perfect the way you are 😘😇

    • @itsjsems
      @itsjsems ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hello! I’m 13 years old and would like to say some things that I was never told when being bullied: you are perfect as perfect can be, do NOT let what anyone says to you make you think or say anything bad about yourself. You deserve better “friends” and I hope your future is huge and happy. You deserve it, do not ever think you don’t. No matter the weight you have, you will always be perfect and gorgeous. Much love muahhh💞

  • @destiniua
    @destiniua ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I LOVEEEE THIS SONG :)
    This is probably in my favorites!
    This song was how I began to feel better about my body.
    I even began to write and sing!
    I mean- who does not love Jax?

    • @Sav252
      @Sav252 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr who does not like JAX she is the best singer like OMG 😆

    • @destiniua
      @destiniua ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Sav252 ikr?

    • @azularrr
      @azularrr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sav252 same! she's amazing

  • @Baobaoboba
    @Baobaoboba 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 19 and I also hear people saying to get fatter because I’m really skinny and light so this song helps thank you

  • @lisarickmeyer2481
    @lisarickmeyer2481 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    45yo ED survivor here… early (surgically induced) menopause has caused a lot of weight gain for me, and has brought back a lot of the old feelings. Heard this song literally at just the right moment in my adult life.
    I’ve also known “Victoria’s Secret” since my 20s, but was never clever enough to put it in a song. You are such an inspiration!

  • @mithsakadissanayake8532
    @mithsakadissanayake8532 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    I'm a 26 year old guy with a pot belly and man boobs. Have always felt insecure. Working to stay healthy. Thank You JAX for teaching us to love ourselves! Love you!❤️❤️

    • @tylerb9877
      @tylerb9877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mithsaka, please tell me you don't take the theory of evolution seriously. It's pseudoscience my dude.

    • @mithsakadissanayake8532
      @mithsakadissanayake8532 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@tylerb9877 Oh I don't my guy. Also I cant stand with people looking at that big disk of cheese in the sky and calling it the moon or whatever.. smh

    • @Minmin-wo6if
      @Minmin-wo6if ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes! You're an inspiration.Keep working hard,for yourself.Dont listen to what these people say and focus on yourself!

    • @BOZMINE
      @BOZMINE ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@mithsakadissanayake8532 LMAO THE MOON CHEESE JOKE KILLED ME

    • @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
      @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL!

  • @Spartacus822
    @Spartacus822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    IKR??? I'm 62 and I wish I had this anthem back in the 70s! You can bet I shared this song and Cinderella Snapped with my adult daughters and my granddaughter.

  • @FutureCycle-lx1ky
    @FutureCycle-lx1ky 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this. Not all women are made the same, so stop forcing yourself to look like another

  • @kendrar1300
    @kendrar1300 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    As a woman who is almost 30, this song makes me cry with relief. Thank you!

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
      .

    • @kendrar1300
      @kendrar1300 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@electrictroy2010 I understand a touch-up to get rid of a wrinkle in the clothing or something to make the clothes look more vibrant. But yes, the ridiculous editing of the model herself, I agree. Especially in ads targeted to minors

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TLC in the 90s made two different songs about body issues (one called Unpretty). The issue has been dealt with before this Victoria song
      .

    • @francescadambrosio6544
      @francescadambrosio6544 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME

    • @Me27399
      @Me27399 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously?? Y'all really find things to get upset about don't y'all😂😂😂😂 first world problems

  • @laurenh978
    @laurenh978 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    This is hands down a gem.
    Better song than most "artist" today.

    • @leanncallahan1
      @leanncallahan1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed

    • @uselessSam
      @uselessSam ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I won't disagree, it's a GREAT song with not only a catchy beat but soo meaningful lyrics. But speaking of lyrics, i feel like they are a little bit too repetetive. Like the verse before the last chorus could've been something much better, it had so much potential of being a great bridge, but they just put the chorus in there. Other than that i love this song!

  • @heyfluffykitties
    @heyfluffykitties 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I suffered and still do with anorexia but this song helped so much and I honestly thank you for this❤❤ I have a hard life especially being extra flexible and getting bullied

  • @jdmilovme
    @jdmilovme 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am 11, and everyone kept saying that I was fat, and this song built my confidence so much. I really love this song. Thank you so much, Jax. I love you ❤

  • @sophia.caroline13
    @sophia.caroline13 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    I love this song so much! I have been replaying it every chance I get! It is SUPER catchy, while having an amazing message to many young girls/women! ️❤️❤️❤
    Also the fact that she wrote this for Chelsea. Like… Jax is literally the babysitter we all wish we had!💜

  • @Joey-lx5km
    @Joey-lx5km ปีที่แล้ว +469

    If I have daughters in the future (hopefully), I'm going to sing this to them to let them know that they're beautiful just the way they are.
    And so are you, the person reading this!

    • @definitelynotdakota
      @definitelynotdakota ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This literally made me smile

    • @mwah1192
      @mwah1192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this comment section, everyone is so kind… thank you! ❤️

    • @Karoline10397
      @Karoline10397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shinobae chan me to

    • @Twofortwo4536
      @Twofortwo4536 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ty I needed that 😭❤

    • @Flwr1hrts
      @Flwr1hrts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That didnt just made me smile.. I fricking cried and smiled-

  • @lainey7972
    @lainey7972 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a 56 year old woman who just heard this song on the radio I loved it! I know of a few girls who have struggled with eating disorders. Well done!

  • @Bakubaeswife
    @Bakubaeswife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So im 11 and my brother was playing this song and i heard it and i used to think i was to fat for anything and this song makes me feel better about my body thank you so much jax

  • @ryansims380
    @ryansims380 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    This is so 2000s I kinda love it. Its on some pop punk energy with facts. Kudos to you G.

    • @_alana_m
      @_alana_m หลายเดือนก่อน

      "pop punk energy with facts". Facts!!

    • @Soooooooooooonicable
      @Soooooooooooonicable หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope we see more punk. I'm not a big fan of the current mainstream.

  • @roziek6830
    @roziek6830 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    as someone who has been struggling with anorexia for a few years, this song is so important! whenever i feel like i'm not fitting the 'ideal' i'm going to play this. but when you think about it, it's actually insane how fucked up diet culture and society's beauty standards are! i was under and i still to some degree am under this illusion of what "perfection" is and i'm honestly mad about it. i've wasted years, experiences, moments and potential joyous memories all because i chose to listen! fuck. i was 12 when i first got admitted into hospital for my ed. 12 year olds shouldn't be worrying about how many calories their eating and burning nor what weight they weigh or how defined their collar-bone and jawline look. as a matter a fact, anyone, whether your 5 or 85 shouldn't have this fucking pressure! to anyone thinking they should "fit in" think of things like this. if you had a whole variety of fruit in a bowl: apples, bananas, kiwis, apricots, dragon fruits, grapes, ( controversially, tomatoes ) or even idk lemons. you wouldn't try to change and morph every single fruit into being like an apple for example. nothing wrong with an apple, nothing wrong with skinny people. but the problem is when you start pressuring and guilt tripping others for not looking like an apple ( being underweight ) or when you exclusively praise an apple and purposefully neglect other fruits for simply looking different! sorry that's probably a bad explanation but what i'm trying to say is ( with my terrible metaphorical skills ) is that we are all different and that should be impressed, not suppressed! thank you jax, i love this song.

    • @justonealien5613
      @justonealien5613 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think that this metaphore is actually perfect. I spent 10 years underweight (I needed to gain at least 10kg to have a "normal" bmi), but it was not eating disorder, I was just made that way, but I thought that my friends (who have all different body shapes) were beautiful and that I was just a disgusting skeleton. But they all told me that they wished they had my body, because the society told them that they should be like me, underweight, and we were all insecure about the way we looked.
      And it's not only in USA, I'm Belgian and I know its the sale in a lot of European countries. I don't know about the rest of the world, but I guess there's a lot of other persons in a lot of other countries that are living with this pressure...
      I hope that will change, and I wish that this song will touch a lot of other people!
      I send you a lot of love ❤️

    • @hifelicia615
      @hifelicia615 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would have gone with banana for the skinny fruit, but I get what you meant. It's a great analogy. Congrats on your progress in reclaiming your health from your ED. Keep up the great work! You're worth the effort.

    • @georgina-a
      @georgina-a ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your analogy made perfect sense 👍
      Sadly, women around the world have been made to suffer for decades thanks to industries that thrive on insecurities. The diet, clothing, and make-up industries would all be perfectly viable if they chose to help people and lift them up... But they make infinitely more by telling us we're not good enough without their products. It also allows them to jack their prices up - because we'd give anything to fit in and feel normal.
      It's important to realise that NONE of that is your fault (or any consumer's fault). It's human nature to want to fit in, to want to feel desirable and liked. We're social creatures and there's nothing wrong with wanting those things. What is wrong (&, in my mind, evil) is that salesmen realised that these desires could be weaponised to make a lot of money - &, oh boy, have they done just that...
      We're very lucky to live in an era where we're able to fight back - & people like Jax, leading the charge, need our support.
      I wish you continued recovery, good health, happiness, and the secure knowledge that you *are* beautiful, loved, worthy, and enough 💕

    • @tsutomumybeloved7411
      @tsutomumybeloved7411 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This made me wanna cry honestly, I’m only 12 myself but for a few years I’ve been struggling with loving myself and worrying abt my image and it’s comments like yours that feel like a wake-up slap to the face. You’re right, I shouldn’t be obsessing over these things at my age but it’s so fucking hard bc of society being a bitch nowadays abt diets and such. I just wanna be happy

    • @roziek6830
      @roziek6830 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tsutomumybeloved7411 i get you 100% its so hard bc now its even being taught in schools that this is 'good' and this is 'bad' is bloody bullshit. i want to be happy. but a friend of mine, her name is lou, she told me that she doesn't believe complete content and happiness is possible on earth. perhaps after death we will live in a place where sadness doesnt exist and we are content and loved by everyone around us. i agree with her. for years ive chased finding complete utter happiness but the problem is that doesn't exist bc for that to happen, everything would practically need to be perfect. is this world perfect? fuck no. its messed up asf. we cant change the world into being perfect bc it never will. what we can do is influence it in the right direction which is what people like jax are doing by making it apparent of how fucked up shit is. my advice to you is not to listen. dont listen to what that social media star said regarding her diet, dont listen to articles practically encouraging anorexia, idk maybe you do dance or ballet and they harmful things like "i can see your lunch in your stomach" and shit like that. 1# get the fuck outta that toxic environment. sadly its all around us but there are ways to mute it out of your life. for me ive stopped following social media celebrities like olivia ponton, kim k, kylie jenner etc bc they make me feel so shit abt myself and my life! i also speak to a therapist and journal down my feelings on a daily basis to track my mh and organise my thoughts ig. you could even pray to God if you want? you might not be religious but i mean it never hurts, it helps me so it might do the same for you? no harm in trying imo. i also try to watch things that dont make me feel shit lol like idk to give an example. i think diet culture when it first came, seemed so good i mean it was encouraging people to vary their diets into "healthier" options etc however that was the sugar coating. under neath that were horrid intentions. now diet culture sets limits, restrictions, rules etc that make life unenjoyable, trust me ik from experience. i think there is one good thiing about diet culture and that it urges people to eat from other food groups ( EXCEPT THEY TAKE IT TOOOO FUCKING FAR ). all food groups are healthy in moderation: protein, grains, veg, fruit idk im forgetting one lol wait diary! all this is essential for our body and down right delicioussssss. even french fries have nutrientional value that is very valuable to the human body. i even think exercise is great too! but in diet culture its used as a weapon against yourself when it should contrastingly enough, be something freeing. im slowly learning that exercise is about moving your body, feeling movement, to wind it your hair, the sun in ur eyes etc not a weapon used to punish yourself for the kitkat you ate. gosh i miss kitkats... i havent had one in years. hopefully i will overcome that fear food tho! sorry if i went a bit crazy lol idk i like replying to youtube comments but then one thing leads to another and im already like 200 words in 💀

  • @user-iu2lm1yh4s
    @user-iu2lm1yh4s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really need a german version of this! My daughter is 8 years old and she isnt able to understand the lyrics right now.
    This song is so good. Beside the awsome lyrics it also rocks by its sound itself.
    Im really glad you did this! ❤

  • @Malvin-ch8pp
    @Malvin-ch8pp หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I remember back then this was one of my favorite songs so whenever it was playing on the radio I would sing it till the end of the song

    • @Malvin-ch8pp
      @Malvin-ch8pp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      *car radio*

  • @user-rb5vo7vn6y
    @user-rb5vo7vn6y ปีที่แล้ว +515

    I also just want to say how grateful I am for the men who stand up for the girls and women in their life regarding this issue. Your words and actions mean so much and your leadership will help us move into a generation that loves people for who they are instead of what they look like. 💕

    • @bec630
      @bec630 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm a guy and I love this song

    • @robearberbils
      @robearberbils ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Honestly I love big women, find them very attractive. I feel bad for the men and women who don't. They're missing out on such such beautiful people because they're obsessed with beauty standards. I agree with trying to be healthy and live healthy to live longer, but discounting people because of the way they look is just stupid. Not only should we recognize the beauty of people inside, we should be able to recognize the beauty of Everyone OUTSIDE and I don't think that gets enough of the attention imo. Focusing on who someone is is the best route, the best the things to reinforce, but body image issues don't just resolve themselves. People need to feel as attractive as they are. Not in spite of how they look, but in addition to how they look.
      My two cents.

    • @jeremykohlhase7989
      @jeremykohlhase7989 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Does this mean women will start loving men for who they are instead of what they can provide?

    • @Eledramel
      @Eledramel ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@jeremykohlhase7989 You sound so bitter, mate. I know a lot of girls that loves their men for who they are, I am one of them.

    • @jeremykohlhase7989
      @jeremykohlhase7989 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Eledramel well good for you. Want a cookie?

  • @MashedRaspberries
    @MashedRaspberries ปีที่แล้ว +385

    This song makes me feel way more confident about my body
    Middle school is hard and I feel like everyone's judging me and I think high school will be worse but I'm now going to remind myself that it doesn't really matter what others think about me
    I'm glad this song came out at the right time for me
    Love you I hope this makes sense and others can feel more confident in themselves!!

    • @sahasranevieeeee69yearsago17
      @sahasranevieeeee69yearsago17 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg same
      I am in 8th grade and my close frnds call me fat and i even hve acne🥺
      I just don't wanna go to high school

    • @lunasweet6258
      @lunasweet6258 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@sahasranevieeeee69yearsago17 Those friends aren’t worth it. I was there, on the opposite side. The people who know your worth no matter what? Those are your friends. High school is so much better. You are beautiful just how you were made.

    • @ItsCourt
      @ItsCourt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Samee

    • @archfiend221
      @archfiend221 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just get help and stop letting others tell you what you should be don't be stupud

    • @tiktokshorts2052
      @tiktokshorts2052 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust me high school wont be worse in my school we have 7 periods and only 8 min to get to each class everyone is always frantically running all over the place so they wont be late for class 😭😭😭 its so stressful i feel like having a heart attack everytime i switch classes 😭

  • @juliesawyer5246
    @juliesawyer5246 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just heard this the other day. I'm 44 and man, this hits. I wish it was out when I worked on an eating disorder unit.

  • @amandathomas7489
    @amandathomas7489 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All the girls on my bus sang this once and i dont mean sing i mean girl 3rd grade up was BELTING this song out

  • @alanamcconnell5625
    @alanamcconnell5625 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    I was just in my garden when I heard a young girl singing this with her friend. It made me smile to think that this is the message they're growing up with❤️

    • @faye-wb9bk
      @faye-wb9bk ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this comment made me cry for some reason idk it just made me happy

    • @JohnE9999
      @JohnE9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cry for the stupid?

    • @wesm5695
      @wesm5695 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too and I am a guy. I have nieces and I want them to hear this 🥲🥲🥰🥰

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
      .

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TLC in the 90s made two different songs about body issues (one called Unpretty). The issue has been dealt with before this Victoria song
      .

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander3659 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    As someone who's BMI has been as high as 32 and as low as 14, trust me: people will ALWAYS have something to say no matter what. Just be comfortable and happy with who you are. As long as you're healthy and YOU are happy with how you look, that's all that matters ❤❤

    • @electrictroy2010
      @electrictroy2010 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
      .

    • @niki_bbb
      @niki_bbb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BMI 32 is obesity, tho.

    • @markalexander3659
      @markalexander3659 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@niki_bbb I know

    • @tank9432
      @tank9432 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@markalexander3659 as long as you are happy fat, your heart will be too right? 😂

    • @markalexander3659
      @markalexander3659 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tank9432 lol fat activists would tell you so :P For me personally, hell no. For me, my grandpa (who I was VERY close to) died when I was 17. I was already overweight but gained like 20lbs rapidly after he died (that being my highest BMI). I didn't have any heart issues due to being so young and only be fat for a very short period, but generally I felt like shit. I was lethargic all the time and just...not myself. I worked out my BMI which was like 31.6 (I rounded up to 32) and immediately started eating healthier and joined a gym. Lost over 70lbs and ended up with a BMI of about 20 and felt WAAAYYYYY better, both physically and mentally.

  • @nymphoric
    @nymphoric 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    AND THE CROWD GOES HOME‼️🗣🔊🔥🔥

  • @fuzziebunny
    @fuzziebunny ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just turned 15 years old and i really needed this song thankyou.❤

  • @v01dbugzz
    @v01dbugzz ปีที่แล้ว +78

    as a 13 year old girl who has struggled with body issues since i was 9, this song actually makes me feel good about my body. not only do i love this song because of the message, it’s also a total bop and i’m listening to it 24/7. thank you so much for making this gem jax! we love you

  • @none1380
    @none1380 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    1:32 Damn can’t even have Victoria in Ohio💀