Jade & Tanner Tolbert Thank you so much for sharing your story. I cried with you, Jade, as you were showing your emotions. Since I commented last, I am still going through my miscarriage. It has been over a month now but I know there is a reason God chose this path for my husband and I. Even though they are babies in heaven, our babies mattered and will always have a place in our hearts. Hug Emerson and enjoy this pregnancy you have! Babies are miracles ❤️
Thank you so much for share no your story. This happened to my boyfriend and I just 2 months ago. I lost the baby 6 weeks in. It wasn’t planned and we didn’t think it was going to be this fast to get pregnant. I can’t wait for what out future has in store. Thank you again for sharing you both helped me look at it in a whole another way! Love you both !,
Jade & Tanner, thank you so much for sharing your story. I also shed tears while watching you Jade, being so emotional. I lost a baby at 19 weeks, a baby boy. I understand the pain & sadness. Although they are not on earth with us, they are in a much better place and will forever be in our hearts ❤
Jade and Tanner, I cried all the way through your video.😥 I too lost a baby 22 years ago at 12 weeks, and I still think of her/him often. I have 4 children now, but always wondered how that child would look and act. Thank you both for sharing you story. Fun Fact: I married into a Tolbert family, so you never know we could be extended family. 🤗
I’m not even halfway through the video and just want to say thank you for sharing this. I’m not a mom or even in a relationship, I’m only 21. Thank you for being so honest and sharing this with us. You guys have always been my favorite bachelor couple, and always will be!
Thanks for sharing.❤ We had 4 miscarriages. My first 2 were extremely difficult for me. I was so scared to try again then we had a son, who is now 14. We had 2 more very difficult miscarriages then we had another son who's now 12. Then we had another son who's now 11. We both got small tattoos for our 4 angels in heaven! We think of them often! 👼❣
Thank you for sharing Jade. I’ve had two miscarriages myself. One at 8.5 weeks and another at 19 weeks. It is awful and something I still really struggle talking about even to this day. Watching this made me bawl my eyes out but it also gave me the courage to finally “say it out-loud” or better said, write it out other than my own private journal. There is nothing more painful and we carry that loss forever. That hurt never goes away but things do happen for a reason and I do truly believe in that. Anyways, I just adore you two and I feel bonded in knowing we share in something so personal. By the way-I have two kids too-one girl (Jersey Mae age 14) and one boy (Maddox Robert age 12) and although I wanted more, I feel so blessed to have one of each. I’m really truly lucky and my daughter is my best friend. My son is such a momma’s boy too. Sending you both lots of love and many blessings. Ash
I just want to give you both a hug... No judgment from me, just pure support. You're both so brave to talk about this, because sadly, this is a very judgmental world. I know this doesn't mean much, but I'm so proud of both of you for this! Also, on the video side of things, great room choice. The echo was definitely lessened by the less open space. The cuts were so much cleaner, and they went together seamlessly. And once again, the thumbnail is gorgeous! Loved it!
Thank you so much for making this video. This subject is so raw and not discussed by a lot of people. So many people experience difficulties getting pregnant or miscarriages yet no one talks about it and we so need to! It’s such a silent grief that can be helped by knowing you’re not alone. You’re loved and supported!
Thank you for sharing your story. It has been hard to talk about my miscarriage but I feel like when I started talking about it I received so much healing and I was able to help other people. You are going to help a lot of people by sharing. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing. It is very important to share these stories because so many people experience miscarriage. I had one in December and have since learned how it is something that no one talks about. I hate to say hearing others stories makes me feel better about mine, but there is a strength in knowing you aren't alone. Love you guys 💕
The last message broke my heart 💔😞 you guys are always so genuine. I wish all the love health and happiness to you and your growing family. May you live a long life together with your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren ❤️❤️
I NEVER comment, but I had to on this video. Thank you for sharing your story. I also had a miscarriage. I feel like women don't talk enough about how difficult the loss is. It is difficult to grieve someone you've never met, and it is hard to know if people will understand what you're going through. After I had my miscarriage, I found out that many of my friends had also had miscarriages, and I wished they were more open about it, because then I wouldn't have felt as alone in my grief. You opening up and sharing your story allows other people to feel more comfortable to share theirs, not even just that, but it allows other people to see that they're not alone. I'm glad you're using this platform to empower people. Thank you Jade and Tanner.
Thank you for sharing your story, we recently suffered a miscarriage after 12 weeks of pregnancy. Definitely the hardest thing my husband and I have ever been through, from being so shocked that you’re pregnant to getting excited and picking out names I still remember the dr appt where my dr couldn’t find the heart beat, and then going through a d&c. In times like this I find comfort that I’m not alone and that our pregnancies mattered and our babies are in heaven 💞💞💞💞
Becky Urizar I also recently just suffered through a miscarriage at 11 weeks. We went in for an ultrasound excited thinking everything was normal and found out there wasn’t a heartbeat❤️ it’s not an easy thing to accept but just know you aren’t alone.
Thank you for sharing. I was crying watching this. I am so sorry for your loss. I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and this is my first child, and I can sympathize with your hurt and pain of losing a precious life. So excited for you both on your impending arrival of Baby #2. Best wishes!
Thank you for sharing this. I felt such a sense of shame when I suffered a miscarriage this Christmas.... and I’m a physician. I know how common miscarriages are, yet I still felt like such a failure. It truly does help to see and hear others talk about their miscarriages- I feel a little bit less alone.
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage Fall of 2018 and it was really hard going through it and I felt very alone. It wasn't until after I finally was comfortable sharing with the people close to me that I realized how common it is for women to experience this and it helped me no longer feel alone. I do think we all should talk about this more and share our experiences, so thank you for sharing yours.
Jade and Tanner, first of all let me say my prayers and thoughts are you and my condolences for the loss of your first baby. I appreciate you doing this vlog to share your story with all of us and your raw emotions. I’m sure that this experience helped solidify your relationship and made you both that much stronger. Sending you lots of love ❤️ 💜. Hi
When I was 15, my Girlfriend and I at the time got pregnant on both of our first time. We lost ours too. I still remember how scary and hard it was. It is hard to talk about, so I generally don't talk about it. Nice job coming out and talking about it.
Thanks for sharing. It's great for people to share raw, real life experiences because in today's society so many people hide their true feelings or stories. Not everything in life is grand, so this is an example of how it is ok to open up. You never know, it may help someone that is going through the same situation. I do believe things work themselves out in the long run. So happy that it's made your family stronger. I wish you both the best & stay strong. You all are the cutest couple from Paradise. 😊
I'm so sorry for your loss. All things work together for the good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose (ROM: 8:28) Thank you for trusting us enough to share such a personal story with us. Your baby is in heaven waiting for you, and someday you will meet him/her. What an amazing promise. I hope it brings you hope and comfort.
Love how vulnerable y’all are & love your channel. I got pregnant the first time my husband + I had sex after we delivered our first baby. It was 8 weeks after I had a c section to deliver our first son & was completely shell shocked bc I have infertility issues so it wasn’t expected at all. Our boys were born exactly 11 months apart (1/5/2012 & 12/5/2012) and I wouldn’t change it for the world. We’ve been trying for over a year now for baby #3 but only in Gods timing. So happy for your little family. 💓
I love you guys, and y’alls little family. Jade don’t cry, you made me cry 😭 sending hugs y’alls way. Thank you for opening up to us, you’ll never understand how much you speaking on this experience can comfort someone in the same shoes.
You guys are so real and down to earth. It was so very brave of you to share something so personal with the world in such a touching and honest way. So many people can relate. You guys are my favorite Bachelor couple, and I wish you nothing but the best.
Uh 😭 Thank you for sharing. That was brave and so vulnerable. What you’ve done for many women and men having gone through similar experiences is more impactful than you’ll ever know .
Y’all are so loved. All I kept thinking as I watched this was “God always protected them”. We may never know why things happen the way they do but we can rest assure knowing that things happen for a reason. You both are so brave to come out and share your story and I’m super thankful you did. Someone needed to hear that. I think you both are awesome!
Thank you so much for sharing. I miscarried at the end of last year and was due in July of 2019. My husband and I have been together for awhile and got pregnant the very first time we tried. It was and continues to be so heart breaking. I logically know that lots of women have miscarriages, but no one around me talks about it. I feel like I make people uncomfortable whenever I try to share my story. I’m so thankful that you talked about this. I know I don’t know you, but it sorta feels like I do through social media. It’s nice to have a face to match to the story, and it honestly has helped me to not feel as alone. Wishing you guys all the best 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that someday this topic will be discussed more openly because it does happen, and it can make grieving parents feel so alone and empty.
It’s great that you can be vulnerable with others because that is the way God is going to use your story to help others relate. You two are so real and it’s awesome!
Thanks for sharing. There is healing in hearing the stories of others, especially if you have experienced the same thing. Thanks for helping me feel not as alone. We will see our babies again someday in heaven.
Wow. What a sad, yet beautifully real story. Thank you both for sharing something so personal. Although you have moments of sadness, there is a plan. You now have a beautiful daughter and another little one on the way. Your story is unfolding as it was meant to be told. Much love to your family. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this, my husband and I love your growing family. We recently had a miscarriage in November and it’s been very difficult for us to navigate around. Praying for a wonderful pregnancy for you Jade and a beautiful baby coming soon ❤️
Wow, I recently commented on one of your announcements that I was also pregnant in August. Days later I found out the baby’s heart was no longer beating and I had to make a decision about how I wanted to end my pregnancy. It’s been a rough few weeks, but thank you for sharing this. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing about your paradise baby! My husband & I just lost our 4th baby at 8 weeks, 1st miscarriage after 3 healthy babies. It was hard for us to open up, but by doing so we have definitely helped many others like you will too! Hugs from a fellow Nebraska Mom!
It’s 2019. Relationships aren’t what they used to be. Times have changed. Nobody should feel guilty or dirty for expressing love and physical chemistry. EVERYONE has a 100% different path and journey. You were always a team, and that’s all that matters! I’ve watched and followed you both since the start, and love your story. I’m heartbroken that you had to experience this, but am so proud of you both for how you are choosing to embrace and share it. You’re a beautiful couple and should never feel any shame, guilt or doubt for any ounce of your story......it’s ALL a part of what made you the strong unit you are today. If anyone has a problem with any of it - that’s on them. You are both incredible for having to go through this, and even more for being brave enough to share your story. Many women/couples survive similar loss but rarely are able to connect with others who have and consequently feel alone. I’m not one of them, but I know plenty. Please hold no shame, doubt or concern about how you met and built your relationship. That’s YOUR story. Be proud and happy of every minute of it! It’s all a part of what evolved into this relationship today! ❤️🌹
amywhilson bo .....And exactly what brought you here to this upload and why did you watch? It’s no secret that the bachelor/bachelorette world embraces open and more liberal outlooks on relationships. If you’re so closed minded, “traditional” and feel like you have this special power as to decide for others what’s right or wrong based on your own personal beliefs.....why invest the time out of your day to watch a story that’s so clearly outside of your comfort zone or approval? Don’t watch then. Duh. You’re clearly not in support. If you’re so concerned about morals and ethics, shouldn’t the foundation of that be to support and love people of all views, beliefs and experiences? Seems insanely hypocritical. Jade and Tanner are an amazing couple that share amazing love. That should be all that matters.
Thank you for sharing your story! My first pregnancy was ectopic and then a year later I had a miscarriage. A month after that I got pregnant with our son. I agree it is confusing to know how to feel and grieve and no one talks about it. I am grieving those babies more now because I know how much I love my son and I wonder who they could have been. So I could relate so much to your feelings Jade. I’m sorry for what you went through and thank you again for being a voice of awareness!
Thanks so much for sharing your story! For being vulnerable and open. It is not the easiest thing to do so I really appreciate you sharing this video. My bestie and my mom had a miscarriage and knowing I could have had another sibling other than the 2 I have, is like wow what would they have been like? I would have been an auntie to my besties child!? So it’s tough to say what would they be like? Their little personality! Very heartfelt and emotional story! I love you guys!! 💕💕
I’m so sorry you guys have experienced this but i am so glad you shared this for all those other people out there that have suffered the same hurt and feel like they are alone and don’t think they can talk about it. I wish you guys to much love for many years to come and can’t wait to see all your beautiful babies you will be blessed with!
Jade I have watched you from the beginning and you've always been one of my favorites. I'm sorry you've had to go through this life changing experience but you're such a wonderful women and a great mom. You're amazing. Love you!! I wish you the best in everything
I feel every bit of this pain! My husband and I lost our little boy Wyatt at 22 weeks! Let me tell ya it isn't easy nor will it ever be easy. We now have a 15 month we conceived 4 months after our loss. She was definitely unexpected but OH so loved! I feel she saved me! We tried 5 years for wyatt and countless medication and all! Mis Challey our daughter was conceived with nothing! God knew we need her more than we did! I'm not saying she is covering the void. Because I miss him so much and what and who he would of been! But she makes it ALOT better! I pray for you and your family in times like these! I love your family and following you guys! Thank you for sharing your story with millions!
So brave of you guys for sharing. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, especially while being in the spotlight. Thank you for being so vulnerable and putting it out there to help others. Everything happens for a reason and I'm glad you see that. Much love to your family 💛💛💛
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I too suffered a miscarriage and it was one of the hardest thing my husband and I have ever gone through. It's not easy but it makes you stronger. I'm currently due with my rainbow baby he will be making his appearance in the next 4 weeks.
Celebrities deserve just as much time and privacy to work through rough patches as everyone else. I hope that sharing your story after all this time has brought you some peace ♡
I was able to hold back the tears until the message you wrote to your little angel! I couldn’t imagine what you went through and are still going through! Much love to you guys 💕
Thank you both for sharing. This hit home with me and the experiences, emotions, and grief I have felt from our miscarriages. We never know “why” but just trust that He has a plan. ❣️
Thank you so much for sharing this. What a tumultuous event to go through shortly into a relationship. My husband and I had a similar experience shortly into dating and it definitely brought us instantly closer. It was such a whirlwind of an experience and made us quickly realize how much we wanted children, especially with each other. The way that we faced it head-on together showed each of us how important we were in each other's lives and how our strength together could move mountains. Thank you so much for being strong together and sharing this with all of us. You two are so strong together and I wish you the happiest, healthiest, and safest futures ahead!
Thank you for sharing. ❤️ Emmy is such a little rainbow, radiating life and love in your family. Nothing will replace your first child, but what a blessing your daughter truly is!! Loss is so hard and my husband and I walked that path last year, but we are so excited to welcome our rainbow baby girl in June!! 🌈👶🏼
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I miscarried my first four years ago and just had my daughter a couple of days ago. I'm am so glad that you shared your story, I think with most of us who have experienced loss can relate to what you are saying.
Thank you. I needed this right now... we always think we’re alone in this. We always think this happens to others. Everything happens for a reason. We have to stay strong and focus on what makes us happy in our lives. Xx
SO much respect for you guys for sharing your story and life's with all of us. I enjoy following your journey! ❤ from MN! You guys inspire me to start a channel of my own and share my story with the world too! Although very different from yours, I have lots to say and I think people would be interested to hear it.
We never made a secret of our miscarriage, because I felt that people should feel more at ease talking about it. But at the same time it is such a private thing, that I understand where the feeling to keep it secret comes from. Thank you for talking about it and letting other people know they are not alone.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have had 3 miscarriages and i think all the time how i wouldn't have my rainbow baby if it wasn't for them. I am glad you are able to talk about it and grieve about it now
Jade & Tanner, thank you so much for sharing your story. As someone who is recovering from an early miscarriage, every story I hear of someone else's experience with this pain, makes me feel a little less alone. Thank you for being so vulnerable and speaking your truth ❤️. So many women go through this and it helps to know that we aren't alone. That there is hope. Thank you for being an example of this.
My mom and my sister both miscarried multiple times. It's hard for those who believe the soul of that little baby was meant to be in the family and there is a lot of grief, pain, and wondering what the little one would look like, what unique talents and skills they would have. Hopefully your faith, love, and hope gets you stronger every day and helps you through it every time you are sad.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and for being so brave. That is such a horrible thing to go through and I am so so sorry for your loss. Emerson and Tiny Tolbert are some lucky kiddos to have you as parents ❤️
Love you both so much. I’ve rooted for you guys from the beginning and am so glad you chose to share this story. Love and prayers to your little and growing family!
So brave and beautiful of you all to open up about this to the world. Very sorry you had to go through that loss, but so excited for your growing family!
I’m the kind of person who cries when someone else cries. So emotional to listen to your story. I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. Glad you realize you’re not alone and that things happen for a reason. You guys deserve the best and will in fact have the very best life together. Thank you for being vulnerable. It makes us viewers feel more connected to you so thank you. P.s. If I ever run into you guys I’m going to give you a big hug. Hope that’ll be okay! ❤️
At 6:19 my heart BROKE for you and with you. I had a miscarriage 1 month after my wedding which happened to be Christmas Day (2017) it was the hardest pain I’ve ever felt. But every thing happens for a reason and everything has to workout how it’s supposed to. You both are SO loved and so is your growing family. I’ve learned the pain never goes away it gets easier. Though I’m terrified of being pregnant again and getting my hopes up. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing y’all’s experience. My husband and I just recently went through a miscarriage in November and I currently now trying to conceive again. Looking back I didn’t really grieve the loss of the baby but now I think about it all the time. I know it’ll happen when the time is right but it’s still really hard.
I am sending you both so much love and support. I'm so sorry you had to go through such a difficult thing. Thank you for being so open and honest with us ❤
You both are precious and brave to tell your story! I am so sorry for your loss! You both are so special and I wish you nothing but happiness as you grow your family!
Thank you guys for sharing this..Something so personal. I myself have had one and have learned talking about it can really help you find closure. You guys are amazing for letting others in. You seem like such great people and amazing parents.
Thank you all so much for watching our story... if it has happened to you as well... know that you are not alone - love you all!
Jade & Tanner Tolbert Thank you so much for sharing your story. I cried with you, Jade, as you were showing your emotions. Since I commented last, I am still going through my miscarriage. It has been over a month now but I know there is a reason God chose this path for my husband and I. Even though they are babies in heaven, our babies mattered and will always have a place in our hearts. Hug Emerson and enjoy this pregnancy you have! Babies are miracles ❤️
I love the couples and friendships, weddings & babies that came out of Paradise.
Thank you so much for share no your story. This happened to my boyfriend and I just 2 months ago. I lost the baby 6 weeks in. It wasn’t planned and we didn’t think it was going to be this fast to get pregnant. I can’t wait for what out future has in store. Thank you again for sharing you both helped me look at it in a whole another way! Love you both !,
Jade & Tanner, thank you so much for sharing your story. I also shed tears while watching you Jade, being so emotional. I lost a baby at 19 weeks, a baby boy. I understand the pain & sadness. Although they are not on earth with us, they are in a much better place and will forever be in our hearts ❤
Jade and Tanner, I cried all the way through your video.😥 I too lost a baby 22 years ago at 12 weeks, and I still think of her/him often. I have 4 children now, but always wondered how that child would look and act. Thank you both for sharing you story. Fun Fact: I married into a Tolbert family, so you never know we could be extended family. 🤗
I’m not even halfway through the video and just want to say thank you for sharing this. I’m not a mom or even in a relationship, I’m only 21. Thank you for being so honest and sharing this with us. You guys have always been my favorite bachelor couple, and always will be!
Thanks for sharing.❤ We had 4 miscarriages. My first 2 were extremely difficult for me. I was so scared to try again then we had a son, who is now 14. We had 2 more very difficult miscarriages then we had another son who's now 12. Then we had another son who's now 11. We both got small tattoos for our 4 angels in heaven! We think of them often! 👼❣
Y'all are one of my favorite "Bachelor couples" with the cutest family. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. You both are so strong.
Thank you for sharing Jade. I’ve had two miscarriages myself. One at 8.5 weeks and another at 19 weeks.
It is awful and something I still really struggle talking about even to this day. Watching this made me bawl my eyes out but it also gave me the courage to finally “say it out-loud” or better said, write it out other than my own private journal.
There is nothing more painful and we carry that loss forever. That hurt never goes away but things do happen for a reason and I do truly believe in that.
Anyways, I just adore you two and I feel bonded in knowing we share in something so personal. By the way-I have two kids too-one girl (Jersey Mae age 14) and one boy (Maddox Robert age 12) and although I wanted more, I feel so blessed to have one of each. I’m really truly lucky and my daughter is my best friend. My son is such a momma’s boy too.
Sending you both lots of love and many blessings.
Ash
I just want to give you both a hug... No judgment from me, just pure support. You're both so brave to talk about this, because sadly, this is a very judgmental world. I know this doesn't mean much, but I'm so proud of both of you for this!
Also, on the video side of things, great room choice. The echo was definitely lessened by the less open space. The cuts were so much cleaner, and they went together seamlessly. And once again, the thumbnail is gorgeous! Loved it!
Oh man... That note at the end is what tugged at my heart strings the most!! I'm so sorry for your pain and loss. ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for making this video. This subject is so raw and not discussed by a lot of people. So many people experience difficulties getting pregnant or miscarriages yet no one talks about it and we so need to! It’s such a silent grief that can be helped by knowing you’re not alone. You’re loved and supported!
Thank you for sharing your story. It has been hard to talk about my miscarriage but I feel like when I started talking about it I received so much healing and I was able to help other people. You are going to help a lot of people by sharing. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing. It is very important to share these stories because so many people experience miscarriage. I had one in December and have since learned how it is something that no one talks about. I hate to say hearing others stories makes me feel better about mine, but there is a strength in knowing you aren't alone. Love you guys 💕
The last message broke my heart 💔😞 you guys are always so genuine. I wish all the love health and happiness to you and your growing family. May you live a long life together with your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren ❤️❤️
I NEVER comment, but I had to on this video. Thank you for sharing your story. I also had a miscarriage. I feel like women don't talk enough about how difficult the loss is. It is difficult to grieve someone you've never met, and it is hard to know if people will understand what you're going through. After I had my miscarriage, I found out that many of my friends had also had miscarriages, and I wished they were more open about it, because then I wouldn't have felt as alone in my grief. You opening up and sharing your story allows other people to feel more comfortable to share theirs, not even just that, but it allows other people to see that they're not alone. I'm glad you're using this platform to empower people. Thank you Jade and Tanner.
Thank you for sharing your story, we recently suffered a miscarriage after 12 weeks of pregnancy. Definitely the hardest thing my husband and I have ever been through, from being so shocked that you’re pregnant to getting excited and picking out names I still remember the dr appt where my dr couldn’t find the heart beat, and then going through a d&c. In times like this I find comfort that I’m not alone and that our pregnancies mattered and our babies are in heaven 💞💞💞💞
Becky Urizar I also recently just suffered through a miscarriage at 11 weeks. We went in for an ultrasound excited thinking everything was normal and found out there wasn’t a heartbeat❤️ it’s not an easy thing to accept but just know you aren’t alone.
Thank you for sharing. I was crying watching this. I am so sorry for your loss. I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and this is my first child, and I can sympathize with your hurt and pain of losing a precious life. So excited for you both on your impending arrival of Baby #2. Best wishes!
Thank you for sharing this. I felt such a sense of shame when I suffered a miscarriage this Christmas.... and I’m a physician. I know how common miscarriages are, yet I still felt like such a failure. It truly does help to see and hear others talk about their miscarriages- I feel a little bit less alone.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate it. I have felt that pain. And I love when people talk about it and make us feel more normal. Thank you 😭🥰🌟👶
Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage Fall of 2018 and it was really hard going through it and I felt very alone. It wasn't until after I finally was comfortable sharing with the people close to me that I realized how common it is for women to experience this and it helped me no longer feel alone. I do think we all should talk about this more and share our experiences, so thank you for sharing yours.
Jade and Tanner, first of all let me say my prayers and thoughts are you and my condolences for the loss of your first baby. I appreciate you doing this vlog to share your story with all of us and your raw emotions. I’m sure that this experience helped solidify your relationship and made you both that much stronger. Sending you lots of love ❤️ 💜. Hi
When I was 15, my Girlfriend and I at the time got pregnant on both of our first time. We lost ours too. I still remember how scary and hard it was. It is hard to talk about, so I generally don't talk about it. Nice job coming out and talking about it.
Thanks for sharing. It's great for people to share raw, real life experiences because in today's society so many people hide their true feelings or stories. Not everything in life is grand, so this is an example of how it is ok to open up. You never know, it may help someone that is going through the same situation. I do believe things work themselves out in the long run. So happy that it's made your family stronger. I wish you both the best & stay strong. You all are the cutest couple from Paradise. 😊
Thank you for sharing your story. I cried with you Jade. I know your story is going to help heal lots of couples going thru the same thing. ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. All things work together for the good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose (ROM: 8:28) Thank you for trusting us enough to share such a personal story with us. Your baby is in heaven waiting for you, and someday you will meet him/her. What an amazing promise. I hope it brings you hope and comfort.
I like how raw and honest this vid was...I'm sorry to hear about your lost... wish you guys the best...
Love how vulnerable y’all are & love your channel. I got pregnant the first time my husband + I had sex after we delivered our first baby. It was 8 weeks after I had a c section to deliver our first son & was completely shell shocked bc I have infertility issues so it wasn’t expected at all. Our boys were born exactly 11 months apart (1/5/2012 & 12/5/2012) and I wouldn’t change it for the world. We’ve been trying for over a year now for baby #3 but only in Gods timing. So happy for your little family. 💓
I love you guys, and y’alls little family. Jade don’t cry, you made me cry 😭 sending hugs y’alls way. Thank you for opening up to us, you’ll never understand how much you speaking on this experience can comfort someone in the same shoes.
You guys are so real and down to earth. It was so very brave of you to share something so personal with the world in such a touching and honest way. So many people can relate. You guys are my favorite Bachelor couple, and I wish you nothing but the best.
Uh 😭 Thank you for sharing. That was brave and so vulnerable. What you’ve done for many women and men having gone through similar experiences is more impactful than you’ll ever know .
Y’all are so loved. All I kept thinking as I watched this was “God always protected them”. We may never know why things happen the way they do but we can rest assure knowing that things happen for a reason. You both are so brave to come out and share your story and I’m super thankful you did. Someone needed to hear that. I think you both are awesome!
Your story choked me up. Thanks for sharing. Love what you wrote to your "paradise" baby at the end. ❤️🙏
Thank you so much for sharing. I miscarried at the end of last year and was due in July of 2019. My husband and I have been together for awhile and got pregnant the very first time we tried. It was and continues to be so heart breaking. I logically know that lots of women have miscarriages, but no one around me talks about it. I feel like I make people uncomfortable whenever I try to share my story.
I’m so thankful that you talked about this. I know I don’t know you, but it sorta feels like I do through social media. It’s nice to have a face to match to the story, and it honestly has helped me to not feel as alone. Wishing you guys all the best 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that someday this topic will be discussed more openly because it does happen, and it can make grieving parents feel so alone and empty.
It’s great that you can be vulnerable with others because that is the way God is going to use your story to help others relate. You two are so real and it’s awesome!
Thanks for sharing. There is healing in hearing the stories of others, especially if you have experienced the same thing. Thanks for helping me feel not as alone. We will see our babies again someday in heaven.
Wow. What a sad, yet beautifully real story. Thank you both for sharing something so personal. Although you have moments of sadness, there is a plan. You now have a beautiful daughter and another little one on the way. Your story is unfolding as it was meant to be told. Much love to your family. ❤️
The message at the end had me in tears. Love you guys 💛 thank you for sharing this.
Both of you are so strong for sharing your story. Thank you for bringing awareness to this important topic. Love your family!!!
Thank you for sharing this, my husband and I love your growing family. We recently had a miscarriage in November and it’s been very difficult for us to navigate around.
Praying for a wonderful pregnancy for you Jade and a beautiful baby coming soon ❤️
Balling my eyes out. You’re right, this is your story and it was time for you to share with us and we Thank You. We all love you and support you.
Thank you for this video, your note to baby at the end brought tears to my eyes. You both are great parents 💕💕
Wow, I recently commented on one of your announcements that I was also pregnant in August. Days later I found out the baby’s heart was no longer beating and I had to make a decision about how I wanted to end my pregnancy. It’s been a rough few weeks, but thank you for sharing this. ❤️
And by pregnant in August, I meant DUE in August.
I love that yall could be so honest. Such a heartfelt video. I love yall❣️
Thank you so much for sharing this part of your story with us. Y'all are an AMAZING couple and never worry about what other people think.
Thank you so much for sharing about your paradise baby! My husband & I just lost our 4th baby at 8 weeks, 1st miscarriage after 3 healthy babies. It was hard for us to open up, but by doing so we have definitely helped many others like you will too! Hugs from a fellow Nebraska Mom!
It’s 2019. Relationships aren’t what they used to be. Times have changed. Nobody should feel guilty or dirty for expressing love and physical chemistry. EVERYONE has a 100% different path and journey. You were always a team, and that’s all that matters! I’ve watched and followed you both since the start, and love your story. I’m heartbroken that you had to experience this, but am so proud of you both for how you are choosing to embrace and share it. You’re a beautiful couple and should never feel any shame, guilt or doubt for any ounce of your story......it’s ALL a part of what made you the strong unit you are today. If anyone has a problem with any of it - that’s on them.
You are both incredible for having to go through this, and even more for being brave enough to share your story. Many women/couples survive similar loss but rarely are able to connect with others who have and consequently feel alone. I’m not one of them, but I know plenty.
Please hold no shame, doubt or concern about how you met and built your relationship. That’s YOUR story. Be proud and happy of every minute of it! It’s all a part of what evolved into this relationship today!
❤️🌹
You have zero morals and standards. No wonder people these days are disgusting and std filled
amywhilson bo .....And exactly what brought you here to this upload and why did you watch? It’s no secret that the bachelor/bachelorette world embraces open and more liberal outlooks on relationships. If you’re so closed minded, “traditional” and feel like you have this special power as to decide for others what’s right or wrong based on your own personal beliefs.....why invest the time out of your day to watch a story that’s so clearly outside of your comfort zone or approval?
Don’t watch then. Duh. You’re clearly not in support.
If you’re so concerned about morals and ethics, shouldn’t the foundation of that be to support and love people of all views, beliefs and experiences? Seems insanely hypocritical.
Jade and Tanner are an amazing couple that share amazing love. That should be all that matters.
Wow now I am crying before bed!😢 You guys are brave & inspiring by telling your story! Thank you❣️
you’re very strong for sharing this. life can be confusing and difficult but the only thing you can do is talk about it and push forward.
Thank you for being so vulnerable this will probably help so much you don’t even know. Love watching your journey 💕
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing this with us. ♥️ You both are incredible.
You guys are so open and honest. Thank you for sharing this. I know it will bless others. Bless you all!
Thank you for sharing your story! My first pregnancy was ectopic and then a year later I had a miscarriage. A month after that I got pregnant with our son. I agree it is confusing to know how to feel and grieve and no one talks about it. I am grieving those babies more now because I know how much I love my son and I wonder who they could have been. So I could relate so much to your feelings Jade. I’m sorry for what you went through and thank you again for being a voice of awareness!
Thank you so much for being honest and real with us and share your story with us❤️
Thanks so much for sharing your story! For being vulnerable and open. It is not the easiest thing to do so I really appreciate you sharing this video. My bestie and my mom had a miscarriage and knowing I could have had another sibling other than the 2 I have, is like wow what would they have been like? I would have been an auntie to my besties child!? So it’s tough to say what would they be like? Their little personality! Very heartfelt and emotional story! I love you guys!! 💕💕
I’m so sorry you guys have experienced this but i am so glad you shared this for all those other people out there that have suffered the same hurt and feel like they are alone and don’t think they can talk about it. I wish you guys to much love for many years to come and can’t wait to see all your beautiful babies you will be blessed with!
Jade I have watched you from the beginning and you've always been one of my favorites. I'm sorry you've had to go through this life changing experience but you're such a wonderful women and a great mom. You're amazing. Love you!! I wish you the best in everything
Took all the words right out of my mouth!!💞
I feel every bit of this pain! My husband and I lost our little boy Wyatt at 22 weeks! Let me tell ya it isn't easy nor will it ever be easy. We now have a 15 month we conceived 4 months after our loss. She was definitely unexpected but OH so loved! I feel she saved me! We tried 5 years for wyatt and countless medication and all! Mis Challey our daughter was conceived with nothing! God knew we need her more than we did! I'm not saying she is covering the void. Because I miss him so much and what and who he would of been! But she makes it ALOT better! I pray for you and your family in times like these! I love your family and following you guys! Thank you for sharing your story with millions!
So brave of you guys for sharing. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, especially while being in the spotlight. Thank you for being so vulnerable and putting it out there to help others. Everything happens for a reason and I'm glad you see that. Much love to your family 💛💛💛
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I too suffered a miscarriage and it was one of the hardest thing my husband and I have ever gone through. It's not easy but it makes you stronger. I'm currently due with my rainbow baby he will be making his appearance in the next 4 weeks.
Celebrities deserve just as much time and privacy to work through rough patches as everyone else. I hope that sharing your story after all this time has brought you some peace ♡
Thank you for sharing this incredibly personal story with us. Love you guys and it’s crazy how far you’ve come since paradise.💙💙
Thank you so much for sharing this story. I know it will help so many couples out there to not feel alone who have had something similar occur!
im so so sorry guys
I’m really sorry for your loss. Words cannot explain. I’m very happy for you two. What a great couple you are. Prayers and love and happiness always💕
Thank you guys for sharing your story. Grieving is a stepping stone in the healing process. And to hell with what people think!! Luv u guys😘
The message at the end really got to me. Thank you guys for being so honest and transparent.
I was able to hold back the tears until the message you wrote to your little angel! I couldn’t imagine what you went through and are still going through! Much love to you guys 💕
Thank you both for sharing. This hit home with me and the experiences, emotions, and grief I have felt from our miscarriages. We never know “why” but just trust that He has a plan. ❣️
Thank you so much for sharing this. What a tumultuous event to go through shortly into a relationship. My husband and I had a similar experience shortly into dating and it definitely brought us instantly closer. It was such a whirlwind of an experience and made us quickly realize how much we wanted children, especially with each other. The way that we faced it head-on together showed each of us how important we were in each other's lives and how our strength together could move mountains.
Thank you so much for being strong together and sharing this with all of us. You two are so strong together and I wish you the happiest, healthiest, and safest futures ahead!
Thank you for sharing. ❤️ Emmy is such a little rainbow, radiating life and love in your family. Nothing will replace your first child, but what a blessing your daughter truly is!! Loss is so hard and my husband and I walked that path last year, but we are so excited to welcome our rainbow baby girl in June!! 🌈👶🏼
Jade and Tanner, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine. Y’all are beautiful people. Take care and thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I miscarried my first four years ago and just had my daughter a couple of days ago. I'm am so glad that you shared your story, I think with most of us who have experienced loss can relate to what you are saying.
Thank you. I needed this right now... we always think we’re alone in this. We always think this happens to others. Everything happens for a reason. We have to stay strong and focus on what makes us happy in our lives. Xx
Thanks for sharing! So many women go through miscarriage. I myself did too.
SO much respect for you guys for sharing your story and life's with all of us. I enjoy following your journey! ❤ from MN!
You guys inspire me to start a channel of my own and share my story with the world too! Although very different from yours, I have lots to say and I think people would be interested to hear it.
We never made a secret of our miscarriage, because I felt that people should feel more at ease talking about it. But at the same time it is such a private thing, that I understand where the feeling to keep it secret comes from. Thank you for talking about it and letting other people know they are not alone.
Very brave and sweet of you to share this story with all of us. It happens all too often. I'm so sorry for your loss. :'(
Love your honesty and never feel ashamed. Your love for each other and your family is so apparent. Xx💖💜
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful story. Thank you for your strength. 💕
You are both brave beyond words, thank you for sharing your story with us. Love to you and your family 💞
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have had 3 miscarriages and i think all the time how i wouldn't have my rainbow baby if it wasn't for them. I am glad you are able to talk about it and grieve about it now
I so strongly appreciate the openess and honesty of this video❤️🙏 sending love❤️
Jade & Tanner, thank you so much for sharing your story. As someone who is recovering from an early miscarriage, every story I hear of someone else's experience with this pain, makes me feel a little less alone. Thank you for being so vulnerable and speaking your truth ❤️. So many women go through this and it helps to know that we aren't alone. That there is hope. Thank you for being an example of this.
My mom and my sister both miscarried multiple times. It's hard for those who believe the soul of that little baby was meant to be in the family and there is a lot of grief, pain, and wondering what the little one would look like, what unique talents and skills they would have. Hopefully your faith, love, and hope gets you stronger every day and helps you through it every time you are sad.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and for being so brave. That is such a horrible thing to go through and I am so so sorry for your loss. Emerson and Tiny Tolbert are some lucky kiddos to have you as parents ❤️
Thank you for sharing ur story and being so super honest❤❤
Was doing so well until the little message at the end😭 I love yalls little family & this just shows even more how strong y’all are♥️
Thank you so much for sharing...I have lost as well, love & prayers to you all.
Love you both so much. I’ve rooted for you guys from the beginning and am so glad you chose to share this story. Love and prayers to your little and growing family!
You guys are so amazing! Thanks for sharing your story❤️❤️❤️
So brave and beautiful of you all to open up about this to the world. Very sorry you had to go through that loss, but so excited for your growing family!
I’m the kind of person who cries when someone else cries. So emotional to listen to your story. I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. Glad you realize you’re not alone and that things happen for a reason. You guys deserve the best and will in fact have the very best life together. Thank you for being vulnerable. It makes us viewers feel more connected to you so thank you.
P.s. If I ever run into you guys I’m going to give you a big hug. Hope that’ll be okay! ❤️
Oh Jade, I too have had losses (5) and it it really does still hit us much later. All the feels in this video❤️
Thank you for sharing
Omg and your note at the end😭😭😭😭
At 6:19 my heart BROKE for you and with you. I had a miscarriage 1 month after my wedding which happened to be Christmas Day (2017) it was the hardest pain I’ve ever felt. But every thing happens for a reason and everything has to workout how it’s supposed to. You both are SO loved and so is your growing family. I’ve learned the pain never goes away it gets easier. Though I’m terrified of being pregnant again and getting my hopes up. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing y’all’s experience. My husband and I just recently went through a miscarriage in November and I currently now trying to conceive again. Looking back I didn’t really grieve the loss of the baby but now I think about it all the time. I know it’ll happen when the time is right but it’s still really hard.
Okay, BALLING at the message at the end to your guys’ baby... praying for you guys! ♥️♥️
I am sending you both so much love and support. I'm so sorry you had to go through such a difficult thing. Thank you for being so open and honest with us ❤
You both are precious and brave to tell your story! I am so sorry for your loss! You both are so special and I wish you nothing but happiness as you grow your family!
Thank you guys for sharing this..Something so personal. I myself have had one and have learned talking about it can really help you find closure. You guys are amazing for letting others in. You seem like such great people and amazing parents.
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a lot of respect for sharing this...I just wanted to give you a hug when there were tears
Thank you for sharing this. I miscarried at 6 1/2 weeks and am very open about it, I definitely think it needs to be talked about more!