MY MOTHER IN-LAW HAT£S ME & FINALLY RUINED MY MARRIAGE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
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I saw the title and thought to myself, "When did I tell Aunty B my story?" because the title of your topic was "The Story of My Life."
Unfortunately, my ex-husband used his mother's hatred toward me as a weapon when he went astray, which caused endless problems in our marriage. His mother didn't protect our marriage at all; instead, she supported him when he decided to leave me for another woman. They are now married, and I am raising both of our children on my own, without any support from him or his family.
As a side note, it was the first marriage for both of us. He was 22, and I was 21 at the time. Our son had just turned five, and our daughter was two when we separated. Today, our son is 21, and our daughter is 20. By God's grace, we have made it through.
I never realised how deep my ex-mother-in-law's hatred for me was. That's why I advise others in similar situations to tread very carefully.
I love you, Aunty B. Keep up the good work.
If your children were 5 and 2 when you were separated, they would haven’t been 21 and 18 today-?? not 21 and 20. Your math is not mathing..! Just saying.
But sorry about what you went thru! God bless 🙏🏽
@@Geneviev285 I was typing this message while on my way to work today, which is why there was a typing error in my math as you rightfully pointed out. However, my main point was to share my story and raise awareness about the depth of hatred one person can harbour toward another.
I didn’t write my story for self-pity. I simply resonated with the story that was shared and wanted to offer mine as a means of self-awareness for those who might be experiencing something similar.
Believe me, this is just part of my story. I had my son at age 22 in 2022, and my daughter at 24 in 2024. My son was diagnosed with special educational needs (SEN), but I am proud to say that he is now a junior IT technician. At the time, I was a housewife with no further education or career, but I enrolled in college to study child development. This led to university, where I pursued a BA in Early Childhood Studies, both to better understand how to support my son and to build a career. Like every parent, I longed for the day when my child would leave the nest and live independently, perhaps even with a family of his own if he wish. I thank the good Lord for being with us through it all.
His affair began while he was in the British Army. He knew the consequences of having an affair with a colleague, so he carefully destroyed the only evidence I had-his phone bill-by soaking it in water and leaving it in the toilet without flushing, so I would see it. At the time, he was a Sergeant and held all the power in our situation. Believe me when I say, in my experience, it was not a woman’s world.
My dear, I am 44 now and, thankfully, still alive. The obstacles I faced to get here were immense, but all is well.
@@Geneviev285 I was typing this message while on my way to work today, which is why there was a typing error in my math as you rightfully pointed out. However, my main point was to share my story and raise awareness about the depth of hatred one person can harbour toward another.
I didn’t write my story for self-pity. I simply resonated with the story that was shared and wanted to offer mine as a means of self-awareness for those who might be experiencing something similar.
Believe me, this is just part of my story. I had my son at age 22 in 2022, and my daughter at 24 in 2024. My son was diagnosed with special educational needs (SEN), but I am proud to say that he is now a junior IT technician. At the time, I was a housewife with no further education or career, but I enrolled in college to study child development. This led to university, where I pursued a BA in Early Childhood Studies, both to better understand how to support my son and to build a career. Like every parent, I longed for the day when my child would leave the nest and live independently, perhaps even with a family of his own if he wish. I thank the good Lord for being with us through it all.
His affair began while he was in the Brxxxxx Axmy. He knew the consequences of having an affair with a colleague, so he carefully destroyed the only evidence I had-his phone bill-by soaking it in water and leaving it in the toilet without flushing, so I would see it. At the time, he was a Sergeant and held all the power in our situation. Believe me when I say, in my experience, it was not a woman’s world.
My dear, I am 44 now and, thankfully, still alive. The obstacles I faced to get here were immense, but all is well. To Jehovah all the glory belongs. 🙏🏾
I was typing this message while on my way to work today, which is why there was a typing error in my math as you rightfully pointed out. However, my main point was to share my story and raise awareness about the depth of hatred one person can harbour toward another.
I didn’t write my story for self-pity. I simply resonated with the story that was shared and wanted to offer mine as a means of self-awareness for those who might be experiencing something similar.
Believe me, this is just part of my story. I had my son at age 22 in 2002, and my daughter at 24 in 2004. My son was diagnosed with special educational needs (SEN), but I am proud to say that he is now a junior IT technician. At the time, I was a housewife with no further education or career, but I enrolled in college to study child development. This led to university, where I pursued a BA in Early Childhood Studies, both to better understand how to support my son and to build a career. Like every parent, I longed for the day when my child would leave the nest and live independently, perhaps even with a family of his own if he wish. I thank the good Lord for being with us through it all.
His affair began while he was in the Brxxxxx Axmy. He knew the consequences of having an affair with a colleague, so he carefully destroyed the only evidence I had-his phone bill-by soaking it in water and leaving it in the toilet without flushing, so I would see it. At the time, he was a Sergeant and held all the power in our situation. Believe me when I say, in my experience, it was not a woman’s world.
My dear, I am 44 now and, thankfully, still alive. The obstacles I faced to get here were immense, but all is well. To Jehovah all the glory belongs. 🙏🏾
@@Dallykay-sx4feThank u so much sis for sharing your story with us. I am sorry u and your kids had to go thru all u went u, however; God has never let u fail. He upheld u with His upright hand. All Glory to him. I pray u shall continue to proper with your family. Again, thank u so much. Your story has impacted me in a very positive way. Am grateful🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Protect your inner peace first, stayed Single will save you a thousand times less stressed, than being in the wrong relationship. Learn to say no when it's not ok
I can relate to very bad verbal abuse. When someone will insult you, your siblings, family and his co-inlaws.
Mine was even my father in law, mother in law ,sister in law and brother in law destroyed my marriage, I am now at peace, they should marry their brother and son.
Thank God for your life sis 🙏🙏❤️❤️🥰🥰🤗🤗💐💐
Some men don't need a wife, such men should just go ahead and marry their mothers and leave other people's daughters alone.
Pregnancy is really one of the most miraculous and beautiful feeling! I loved being pregnant❤
Most of those mother in-law were abused and never enjoyed their marriage.
Now they want to use their son as thier husband , they will start envying the son’s wife .
The worst they will move in , trying to control their son’s marriage , manipulating their son , causing too much strife in the home.
Competing with the son’s wife. Is very terrible.
My dear women of my generation , let’s change the narrative and do better. Don’t be a wicked mother- in-law .
Our men , also need to grow up , be prepared and trained for marriage .
Mine is sister in law taking decisions in my home,i don't have to saw or decided anything, my husband tells his family everything that happen in our marriage, my husband and his family went behind me and adopted a boy of five years with out me knowing and now they want me to be in the boy's life, and bringing money for his upcare . I told my husband that i can't do that .
Sure that's not his son?
Sure that's not his son?
In blended family, daddy's girls do drag their father's wives for priority. Not necessarily in laws but still can cause issues.
Jummy Jummy , thank you for sharing your story . I am learning a lot from this story . That is what I am passing through here .
Trusting God to help me make the necessary decision/ moves.
This same thing happened to my cousin. Her husband's brother's were not that bad but you see the sister and mother? Another story. They almost came in but God is bigger than them my cousin's husband cut his entire family off when they came for his wife, He tried to still maintain relationship with his brothers but they eventually joined the mother and sister he cut them off too. Anybody wey take their side he blocks them. He said the wife stood by him when he was struggling when his brother's were doing well. Now they want to destroy his wife/support so they can leave him dry. I pray most men start getting smarter smarter that not all family members means well.
Bunmi and Colombia 🇨🇴 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I had a good laugh right there as Aunty B shout
Aunty B, sister inlaws nko? It's the battle of sister inlaw I have been facing in my house since she came into UK last year. She has succeeded in separating all her brother's marriage except my husband's before coming to UK!!!
Nor allowed her skerter your marriage ooo
Why did yiu let her come when you know what she was capable of?
@@izzylabor2606 she came through the recent COS visa which the employer refused to acknowledge her from day one. She became stranded and we sheltered her in one of our properties. It's from there she is perpetrating her evils!
I was on a visit, so I couldn't join the live. Very interesting conversation ❤❤. Well done aunty B and the callers 🎉
Thank you auntie B ❤ enjoyed your show
Yes. The man has to "leave and cleave to his wife".
Right, your mom can give her opinion before marriage but even before marriage she doesn’t have any right to decide.
Correct, women who didn’t have a good marriage are terrible
Madam Bunmi.... Pls is there a way i can get more information from your point of view on colombia? Thanks.
She be OKIRIKA wey her mother in law dey pick her 😂😂
Hmm
Aunty B the enjoyment minister does not have time for Omukwo😂😂