school isn’t for everyone
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2024
- we just started first day of school in college and as an introvert it’s really hard how to socialize with people again, i’ve always felt left out and i dont know what to do. school is not really for everbody especially for me but i hope i could still enjoy this journey and i hope i could make good circle and just be happy.
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00:00 preview
00:25 thoughts
04:40 grwm
07:17 school
09:52 vacant/thoughts
School isn't for everyone, I have gone through very bad times, when I get lower grades than others I feel that my effort has not been enough and I wonder why I am still there, I have been studying non-stop and I have gotten bad grades, it is horrible to feel like that, but I still have some people who support me and encourage me to continue, but for what? I'm stuck, I don't even have dreams, I wouldn't want to disappoint those people who believe in me, I just want to feel at peace for a moment, is it too much to ask?
school makes us scared of failing when failing is the only way to truly learn.
@@wallflowersoull sad but true
this hits hard.. i am also struggling with school, people, and expectations i have to meet. i have never felt more understood. thank you so so much for this video :'))
I felt like I was reading my thoughts and feelings put in simple words to describe how I've always felt 😢❤❤
That part about feeling unapproachable hit home. I feel like I'm just trying to be someone I'll never be.
So relatable!! It’s hard to deal with uncomfortable situation in our school life every day when you just don’t wanna be socializing. Making new friends and hanging out with them mostly uncomfortable situation for an introverts. Watching this type of videos felt like i'm not alone who thought like that way. Thanks for share your moment with us.
Omg! The ponytail is so cute , and u look so pretty. Don't beat urself up u'll live the life that u deserve , good luck
I hope everything is going well for you, school also makes me quite uncomfortable, but it only takes one person or thing to make me feel better I hope it will be the same for you and that you won't feel too lonely x
actually trusting people is really hard for me, cause i got betrayed with the people i thought a real friend, and that makes me feel scared to trust people again but i hope there’s someone who’s just like me, i mean i hope i have a friend like me.
but i am so grateful for my 3 friends irl, they’re the only people i trusted in my life and it’s just sad cause we’re in different school and it makes me feel alone
I think that each person has been disappointed in friendship and over time learns to trust people again, always with the fear that they will disappoint us. fate makes us meet great people who become our friends and with whom we create unforgettable memories and forget all the other disappointments we may have had I hope no one will disappoint you again
finally, a college diary T~T super luv ur content as always. thank u for giving us sm inspiration and comfort!! ilysm!!
i feel like we need this, everyone need this comfort especially for a people like me who don’t romanticize school cause of how bad the educational system is.
@@wallflowersoull indeed. if i'm being honest, i'm not a fan of our education system. most of the time, i ended up focusing too much in doing school works and activities from the mere purpose of complying, a reason why i don't feel like i'm really learning. indeed, school isn't for everyone, but the sad thing is, a lot of opportunities comes when you have a degree because of how high the standard is in applying for a job here in our country. anyways, i do pray that all of the students (us) gets through this, and still, thank you for giving us comfort to ur videos jorel!😭❤️
I can relate sm po:( But my advice nlng po is to just focus on your studies or better yet, focus on yourself😊. Dadaan din nman po yung mga circle of friends, atleast one friend would already be nice😊.
When you don't know how to express your feelings but by watching kuya Jorel feels like all our problems in school seems to feel lighter.
Just found your channel recently and this was the very first time that i've watched a vid as same as mine someone who is already a freshman in college and always felt being left out in my hs days and with your videos it makes me want to romanticize my college days and that i'll do the best as i can to live my life with only by myself.
you are such a gorgeous human being. u use words so beautifully. i relate to everything u said and it makes me feel so comfortable. thank you so much for making this art♡
When you get a bad score during a test, just say to yourself: "Oh well, I didn't pass. I'll try my best next time!" It definitely helps me feel better.
Might work for you too!
Your videos are very healing! I hope you get to spend your school year well and find comfort along the way. College has been really difficult but we'll just have to go through it and survive :')
I hope schl can get easier for us all to handle and your handwriting is sooo pretty I could never
I’m so nervous for my first day of classes I don’t know anyone and aaaaaa it’s makes me feel weird, idk how to do. It’s in one week and a just sigh
Bro you are not broken whatever people say don't mind them the right people will come find you so yeah cheer up
Hello jorel! I appreciate everything you did to make my life enjoyable. You are the reason I began romanticizing and documenting my life. When I began documenting, it seemed that was how life was so awesome, and it made all of my problems go away. When you post a new video, it always brightens my day. I watch all of your videos when I'm feeling lonely because they are so soothing to watch. Thank you alot
i needed that kind words so much and thankyou for letting me hear that, i started to appreciate myself more and iloveyou
@@wallflowersoull iloveyou!!
Helloo I know its been months since you posted this, just wanted to let you know I feel the same. Im also from PH and choosing the quieter life is very difficult esp. at our age attending college. I really feel connected to you, if I hadn't lost myself bc of trying to socialize more, being talkative even if I've got nothing worthwhile to say, laughing even if I don't find their jokes funny, I'd be more by myself too and I find it soothing but scared at the same time bc Ive suffered bullying bc of my quiet and "misfit" personality. I also feel different and lonely bc it is difficult to find someone like us when our peers are usually outgoing, loud, and always have friends to laugh with. I've been where you are and I still am, but now, I tend to "go out" more bc people made me believe something's wrong with me just bc I prefer being alone.
Based from watching your vid, I'd definitely approach you in school and "adopt" you as my friend :) I'd also prefer to just be friends with you bc I also prefer even just having one good friend :) sending love and 🤗
The captions are so relatable sometimes. I actually started crying during the video and I don’t know exactly why. This made me think a lot. School is not for me
This is the first of video of yours that I watched. First of all, I sincerely want to say that I'm so proud of you for filming your little pretty life and sharing your precious thoughts with us.
As for me, I've always been one of the top three students in school. Even though I'm considered the "successful girl" and almost have the "perfect" scores all the time, I hate school. What I passionately love is learning, not competing! And even though I love studying, in my own pace and quietly because it makes me feel ALIVE the most, that shouldn't mean that someone who doesn't love it or not really capable of it is unworthy or something... I just hate this! Everyone has different lives to gift the world, I don't understand why people can't step out of their expectations...
No matter how hard it is, please remember that somewhere in the world, someone will accept you. You are already accepted by most of the people watching your sweet videos. Enjoy your life, that's what we humans are supposed to.
This is still the beginning, I know you will do very well, don't focus only on giving your best, enjoy every good moment and learn from the bad ones, my best wishes to you Jorel ( ◜‿◝ )
I appreciate the way u r!! this video hit so close that I had to make sure I wasn't watching myself😭💀.
Also, if ure intrested in MBTI (personality) im pretty sure ure an INFJ. Which is so cool since I'm one too!
I literally wanted to cry after watching your video because I feel the same way. I always hope not to see someone struggling the same thing as I do, it hurts me a lot because I know how it feels. To be honest, I don't want to continue my studies because of my depression and anxiety ( social anxiety to be specific), I always make excuses in order for me to not attend school events or hangouts with friends. I hope you find someone you need and take care always.
it's crazy i see myself in you..
the way you just describe everything is very relatable, i would have never found the right words to describe school like how you did. and it really is true, i feel pressured half the time to do my best and if i dont i would be a failure. i feel like theres lots of standards put on kids/minors/college students that since we're still young we shouldn't complaining. or i always hear the phrase "you're job is to go to school and get good grades why is that so hard thats all you have to do"
we can still feel alone no matter the amount of people we got i think this is reality we just need to face it but sometimes its kinda hard .Thank you for this vids . Everyone feelings is valid .
Thank you for this video. I related to a lot of things, now i feel less lonely. I also really like the style of the videos you took and how you edited it. Hope you continue to do it if you appreciate it.
goodluck po! ^^
7:53 Same. I enroll this school year even though i know that i'm still not healed and still menntally unstable. Last SY during 2nd quarter i just stopped doing my modules. Idk how but i just found myself not doing my modules, not attending google meets, and reading school announcements. I slowly found my self drifting away from school... from everyone else. Everytime that i would be motivated to do my mods i suddenly lose my motivation thinking that ako na lang hindi pa nakakapasa ng mods. I feel burnt out. I didn't realize it at first but now i do. I can't say that i sacrifice my grades for my mental health cuz until now i'm still not healed. I'm still not healed not bcs of break ups but bcs of toxic environment around me. I'm grade 8 last year and i'm still grade 8 rn. In other word, nagrepeat ako. I feel ashamed kasi baka my classmates would judge me na "ay repeater ka pala HAHAHAHA" given the fact that i'm academically achiever before makes it worst. I, my family, relatives, and my friends surely have high expections from me, but i failed.
Pls don't judge me. Gusto ko lang maglabas ng nararamdaman ko kasi hindi ko magawa. I feel like i would just make my friends worry about me
This, I've been struggling mentally and physically lately due to me neglecting my health and pressuring myself to study nonstop to regain the title I've seemed to have lost without realising. The title that started as the gifted kid and went to the most smartest in school to somehow ending up at the most disappointing daughter and a very "lazy" student. Academic validation was everything for me and I'd be lying if I said it still isn't but I'm slowly learning that life isn't all about that but cherishing the small moments we seem to ignore while chasing something else.
Anyways, not to make it long I just wanted to say I always find such big comfort in your videos and I always enjoy watching them. Don't be hard on yourself and keep going, will be rooting for you from here ♡
10:25 ur hairstyle is sooo pretty and cool here
your videos are so comforting
your videos are so comforting
Good luck for everyone! I know you can do this
Your outfit looked cool
YEYYYY ANOTHER VID!!! THANK YOU!!!💗💗💗
I've always been pressure by the thought of, 'I need to do better', even when I feel exhausted but there is always something before that tells me to keep going. Now that the class has started, I need that something again. Still hopeful that one of these days I will find my old self, and think of this as part of my journey. And by the way GOOD LUCK on your college journey Kuya, I love you 🖤🖤
i super love this video ^^ i learned so much thank u 💘
thank you for this video. I understand you so well, I have a very hard time with school too. The system, the way people are treated and the level of the work we have to do, it’s all just not for me. And I also feel uncomfortable with people and when I think about school I get very anxious.
I hope that you are doing well and that you can still heal and focus on your mental health before focusing on school too much. I wish you only good things in life. Don’t pressure yourself too much, you are enough and you will get through all the hardships and, like you said, school is not for everyone.
By the way I really loved the way you filmed this. Very beautiful.
Hello po, I'm here to support you. Keep it up! ♥️😉
sending lots of love!!
Thank you so much Kuya Jorel❤
Keep it up beks ❤️
im crying
You look like Felix from Straykids like debut era Felix with backdoor mullet hairstyle
So cool 😘😀
Loved ur vdo
I love your videos. I feel anxious the last few days, as my school will only start in a few days, and I just don't feel ready to study and communicate with people. your video helped me to distract myself for a while and feel comfortable and see that not only I feel weird at school. thank you
I though that i am the only one who love eat noodles at the morning
❤️❤️❤️
Imissyou so much 😢
School isn’t fair.
Everyone has their own talents and you can’t force them to have the same talents as your expectations.
Try embracing their talents and supporting them, instead of shifting their talent which doesn’t change their talents at all. Only harming them mentally.
School is like telling a fish he’s worthless because all he does is swim and not fly and the bird receives love for flying. Because children sometimes are born good at maths. Some are at arts. It’s same as racism. Because talents aren’t chosen like race.
I have a concept that every child had 450 talent points before birth, in which they put into multiple talents for example,( they put 25 into school subjects randomly so they’re good in school but people who put 175 in a certain talent is very talented but school is against that choice. Which isn’t very nice. I love plants, I am studying them on my own with Google and TH-cam and currently am doing so great so far getting something and a lot out of it, unlike school not helping at all. I like emotionally supporting people. I love settling arguments. I love creating concepts, for games art music and more. And school hated it) so school is not for everyone. Please stop trying to put monkeys in line for flying competitions.
Hi. I just wanted to say that there _will_ be someone for you. Coming from an introvert, who was found by an introverted extrovert who didn't like people. They are now my best friend. I am sure someone will find you too. I just hope it happens soon enough
What's your course?