@redeemingthebroken you were talking about spouse being an idol. I can't remember exactly how I asked it but I mean when you've been together for decades and then they're just gone one day how do you know? I mean I think it's normal after that amount of time to miss them and be sad but it's not like I'm not functioning and doing what I gotta do and that in itself is huge for me cuz if I didn't have God it would be worse but of course he's always on my mind. I can be fine one day and upset the next.
@@tnj4everim the same exact spot with my wife,,25 yrs,,, i do everything i do work, take care of kids,,, but , even after 2 yrs,,, i cant stop thinking about her,,, we basically text and talk about kids everyday,,,, but how can someone not understand the love of so long? I did everything for us,,, And they dont seem affected,, sometimes i feel so betrayed
@@JasonFromm-j6r I see it as they have a hard heart and don't get the spiritual side. Not sure about your wife but I feel like that's my husband. I've been like that before when he had a period of being mean but my feelings didn't last lol. I think anyone in long-term marriages will have issues especially if you're both not walking with God. I watch another sister who was restored after about 5 years and her husband had 2 kids by 2 different women, physically abusive, and said he wished she was dead! He's now a different man now that God got a hold of him and doesn't even remember saying some of those things. The delusion is real! Once you realize that this is spiritual and those not walking with God don't get it, it helps.
I needed this girl! So true
Hey Meg, did you forget about what I asked last week? You said you'd do a video.
@@tnj4ever of course not i have a lot of questions i still have to answer remind me of yours and i’ll try and answer it next
@redeemingthebroken you were talking about spouse being an idol. I can't remember exactly how I asked it but I mean when you've been together for decades and then they're just gone one day how do you know? I mean I think it's normal after that amount of time to miss them and be sad but it's not like I'm not functioning and doing what I gotta do and that in itself is huge for me cuz if I didn't have God it would be worse but of course he's always on my mind. I can be fine one day and upset the next.
@@tnj4everim the same exact spot with my wife,,25 yrs,,, i do everything i do work, take care of kids,,, but , even after 2 yrs,,, i cant stop thinking about her,,, we basically text and talk about kids everyday,,,, but how can someone not understand the love of so long? I did everything for us,,, And they dont seem affected,, sometimes i feel so betrayed
@@JasonFromm-j6r I see it as they have a hard heart and don't get the spiritual side. Not sure about your wife but I feel like that's my husband. I've been like that before when he had a period of being mean but my feelings didn't last lol. I think anyone in long-term marriages will have issues especially if you're both not walking with God. I watch another sister who was restored after about 5 years and her husband had 2 kids by 2 different women, physically abusive, and said he wished she was dead! He's now a different man now that God got a hold of him and doesn't even remember saying some of those things. The delusion is real! Once you realize that this is spiritual and those not walking with God don't get it, it helps.