i swapped books w/ my boyfriend | dark academia, fantasy, magical realism

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  • my boyfriend benji and i swap books! i tried something new with this video by leaving it pretty long and doing minimal cuts - let me know what you think! i've never done a book swap before so this was definitely interesting lol. good to see u all again :')
    books mentioned:
    The Emperor's Soul
    The Secret History
    Piranesi
    The Ocean at the End of the Lane
    ✎ contact: chris@proudmanagement.net
    ✎ instagram: / chris_middendorf
    ✎ tiktok: www.tiktok.com...
    ✎ goodreads: / chris-middendorf
    ✎ all my links: linktr.ee/chri...
    ★ benji's channel: ‪@benjiplant‬
    ★ benji's instagram: www.instagram....
    ★ animated intro done by the super talented ‪@RoseenaSakya‬ (@phllegm on instagram)!!
    ★ intro music: cat shop by Louie Zong

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  • @afriendofsammy
    @afriendofsammy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +594

    Joint CEOs of clear skin

    • @lindenir540
      @lindenir540 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      they're hoarding the world's supply of handsomeness 😭

    • @OldFig
      @OldFig 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Honestly!!

    • @carmenmonteavaro9528
      @carmenmonteavaro9528 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You too are so cute together. Enjoyed this vlog

    • @balladofahomeschooledboy0514
      @balladofahomeschooledboy0514 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@lindenir540 righttt chris so handsome omg i can't

    • @humbulaniyuhwl3761
      @humbulaniyuhwl3761 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right?

  • @Rae-ms8bf
    @Rae-ms8bf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    your guy’s energy together is so comforting

  • @aristheshow
    @aristheshow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +215

    Y'all ever feel the need of peace in your lives...welcome to ✨the world of benji and chris✨

  • @mikelmontoya2965
    @mikelmontoya2965 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    Am I the only who feels bitterly envious watching such an endearingly sweet & cute gay couple? 😅

    • @Sophiea4
      @Sophiea4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I feel you brother I feel you😔

  • @nirjabhatt469
    @nirjabhatt469 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I love this interaction of fellow introverts. It's extremely cozy and calm, like a cup of tea on a rainy night.

  • @brighthavens
    @brighthavens 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    I just literally saw a 40 mins video posted on chris's channel and a tear of happiness rolled down my eyes🤌🏻✨🥹

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      happy you’re here!!!!

  • @jaydeny4124
    @jaydeny4124 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Please DO swap books again! That was very entertaining 40minutes!

  • @moonlightmoonchild1133
    @moonlightmoonchild1133 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    yaaaaaaayyyyyy our dads are back!!!

  • @mrtm1970
    @mrtm1970 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is my nephew, Christopher and SO proud of him and YES they are amazing cute together!!!

  • @Pedigru
    @Pedigru 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I loved this. Intelligent conversation about reasonably good reads.

  • @lucasdaniel624
    @lucasdaniel624 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    babe, wake up, new chris' library video just dropped!

  • @artemis7496
    @artemis7496 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Piranesi is one of my favorite books of all time. Susanna Clarke literally came and slapped me and made me dig my own grave, sit in it and read the book out loud while she smoked and held a gun to my head. After i finished it she shot me dead and then she buried me. After the first ray of sunshine i came back alive and made my way out of the grave. Thanks to Susanna Clarke i'm a new person now. It's quite scary what she is capable of.

  • @AlyssaSheeran
    @AlyssaSheeran 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The Ocean at the End of the Lane is one of my all time favorites. I really like Neil Gaiman's prose and I have read a lot of his books. I also love weird fiction so I can understand why it might make people feel strange. I actually forgot what that book is all about even though it is one of my favorites because I have goldfish memory 😅 but I remember the unforgettable feeling it left me with so I need to revisit it soon.
    The Secret History is also a favorite of mine, it was interesting to hear both of your thoughts.

  • @karinakang
    @karinakang 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Its 12.30am where I am. I have work tomorrow, but you can bet that i'm gonna watch this 41min 17 seconds video right now.

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💞📚

    • @sigurdk13
      @sigurdk13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Saaaaameeee😭😭me right now

  • @dusdinallen3848
    @dusdinallen3848 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pls do more of these book swaps, this was such a great, comforting watch. Also Chris at 36:33 with the 'lots of cigarettes and paranoia' line' lol

  • @ussfhenx
    @ussfhenx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    its been 20 mins trying to express how you guys makes me feel but no words are enough, y'all make me so happy

  • @patrickbraue4644
    @patrickbraue4644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So glad I found your channel! Your vibes and calming energy are just the thing I need to decompress after a rough day and I want to start reading ❤

  • @rvincantsleep
    @rvincantsleep 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm just smiling the whole time watching you two.🥰

  • @camillereadss
    @camillereadss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    i’ve been following benji since my plant journey started and now you guys are making videos together?? my heart 🥹🥹
    love from a small booktuber ❤

    • @user-xc9ou3qc5w
      @user-xc9ou3qc5w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well all that' matters is they found true love and found someone they were actually Happy with and that' is amazing least I no the truth and nothing Left to stick around for enjoy your time with each other happy for you guys

  • @good4uabcdefu
    @good4uabcdefu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    a 41 minute video?? oh we are fed for this month

  • @josephglass6054
    @josephglass6054 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    your relationship makes my heart feel really full and gives me so much hope

  • @moonwalker2324
    @moonwalker2324 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You guys are SO CUTE. You're melting my heart gahh

  • @risg4me
    @risg4me 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am a huge Piranesi fan! That is an elite book right there. Also, you both are so cute together.

  • @dawnnicholson9675
    @dawnnicholson9675 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's lovely to see you both so happy together.. So comforting to watch.. Loved this book swap. ❤❤✨✨

  • @taragirsch4374
    @taragirsch4374 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm so glad this was suggested to me out of the blue, you both have such great energy

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so happy you’re here! thank you!!!💞

  • @Christian-eb6fn
    @Christian-eb6fn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video was so fun! I would love to watch another book swap!

  • @MelodiedeVivre
    @MelodiedeVivre 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Both of your tastes in books: impeccable

  • @bblithe
    @bblithe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yess I was waiting for this! Whenever you upload, it makes my day 🫶

  • @Winoinmyheart
    @Winoinmyheart 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes, you absolutely should do this again!

  • @vorgebrauchschutteln3859
    @vorgebrauchschutteln3859 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    nice video. You both have calming voices, but you still get so much excitement across. I skipped a bit of the The Emperor's Soul review, but just because I put in on my tbr to read it myself.

  • @michaelblake8498
    @michaelblake8498 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Chris & Benji, you should read the book entitled "The Graveyard Book", this is also written by Neil Gaiman. Basically a young boy hangs out in a graveyard to evade a man who has murdered his family. Whilst there he makes friends with the dead people who are buried there. An amazing book😊

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I talk about this book in my spooky book video! I loved it!

  • @gabrielm2234
    @gabrielm2234 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A 40-min VIDEO??? YES PLEASE!!!

  • @Amystudio
    @Amystudio 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This came up in my recommended and I’m like “real life heartstopper!!!” You guys reminded me of them 😭💕😭

  • @GrafPattingham
    @GrafPattingham 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't really care for the books but you guys have such a sweet, calming energy

  • @wrustria
    @wrustria 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    41 minutes i am in heaven(im obsessed with you two😭❤️). Ive been reading Mistborn era 2 recently

  • @civilizeddiva
    @civilizeddiva 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's lovely to see you back. Looking forward to more content.
    Best.

  • @SilentLay
    @SilentLay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This become my comfort video. For Anytime. Thank you!

  • @johnbricemarcaida5796
    @johnbricemarcaida5796 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    why am I smiling the entire video??? 🥹

  • @The_zaniest
    @The_zaniest 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    :0 Mistborn is so cultured of your boyfriend dude, all the books he mentioned really are amazing

  • @leonduplessis
    @leonduplessis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really enjoyed this so much. I have to say that for me at a young age I read mythology books and the classics, then as i grew up my tastes expanded into mysteries and fiction novels. My younger brother was the one that got me into science fiction novels as I was not to interested in them for a long time. I think it was when I had finished high school and I was a little bored that he gave me a science fiction book to read. Now I have a varied library of books but I really enjoy mysteries very much.

  • @LeafyConversations
    @LeafyConversations 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love you two your so genuine, so happy it your energy comes through the screen. ❤

  • @HeyAstor
    @HeyAstor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Chris is so cute. I love his personality/shyness 😂❤

  • @pradeepakakunuri9297
    @pradeepakakunuri9297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We definitely want another swap video

  • @lucy.ballerhadia
    @lucy.ballerhadia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    aww i loved this long vid of book yapping!! i'd love to see more in the future :D u two are effortlessly funny i found myself giggling throughout hahah; welcome back to youtube chris :D!

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you lucy :)))

  • @jessicabowers4811
    @jessicabowers4811 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’ve loved Benji for years I had no idea you guys were together😭❤️❤️

  • @anahi278
    @anahi278 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i dont read books, but after watching this video i have the urge to become a bookworm again :) this was such a fun concept! cant wait for more videos

  • @luqmanhakim6538
    @luqmanhakim6538 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    aaaa you guys inspire me a lot!! will be reading everything you guys listed :3

  • @chrispnw2547
    @chrispnw2547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Chris.... I subscribed to your channel and noticed a while back you had some content but am glad to see you are adding new content. Take your time and build up at a pace that suits you BUT we book readers look forward to your perspective. I'm an old man and love that you and Benji can pursue your dreams doing thing you love and still live well. 🙏

  • @beniarosid7186
    @beniarosid7186 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Chris is like a shy person.. so cute

  • @vv.7044
    @vv.7044 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omg thank you for saving my day i needed my comfort youtubers 😭😭😭💖

  • @susannahleopold6788
    @susannahleopold6788 หลายเดือนก่อน

    please do swap books again, I loved this video!

  • @kassandralee1311
    @kassandralee1311 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    deadly education!!!!!! love the scholomance series so much

  • @AsmrLofiSessions
    @AsmrLofiSessions 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My wait is over... Yay!

  • @pman2916
    @pman2916 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good to see you again Chris. No need to be nervous Chris, you're doing great! Hey Benji😊

  • @Coolycalm
    @Coolycalm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can't believe i watched the whole video without even knowing it was 40 minutes lol...love this energy✨✨

  • @amandinhasales
    @amandinhasales 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Ok, I will start to read books for fun again, not just work books. You guys are so cute🤩 (This video called me single in 5 different languages)

  • @jacobemagee6002
    @jacobemagee6002 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been a long time fan of you guys and just so happy to see you posting more on this channel pls keep it up! Definitely took some book recommendations watching this!!

  • @lucasdaniel624
    @lucasdaniel624 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just an idea, but wouldn't it be nice if Chris carried out a bookclub, or something of that sort?
    Like recommended a book to viewers and in 1 or 2 month's time released a video talking about the book? something pretty chill
    I'd love that

  • @coypat1300
    @coypat1300 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello! following both you and so proud of you both, because of your relationship and what we can know you from your videos and sharing. Thank you for sharing your lives and interests with us. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @keeslooksandbooks4631
    @keeslooksandbooks4631 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved this, Ihope y'all do this again!

  • @RoseenaSakya
    @RoseenaSakya 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just thoroughly enjoyed this!!!

  • @arielrr
    @arielrr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love yalls pet chihuahua so cute 😊

  • @alvegutt42
    @alvegutt42 หลายเดือนก่อน

    couple goals

  • @PierroCh5
    @PierroCh5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The co-holders of the world's prettiest smiles title are having a book club moment.

  • @charennoerida
    @charennoerida 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    omg, your boyfriend's vlog in vietnam was recommended to me now this video is recommended to me, cuteee.

  • @victoria4
    @victoria4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so glad to see a new video from you!

  • @tushabeasumpta9850
    @tushabeasumpta9850 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the way Benji & Chris always look at each other and burst out laughing...❤❤❤tears😅😂

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The way chris looks benj.
    😍😍😍

  • @vivinaproperty7767
    @vivinaproperty7767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your videos are always so refreshing (and ruin my wallet with these book recs)

  • @grff_
    @grff_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ocean made me feel super weird as i was reading it and after i finished it, but as the weeks went by it became one of my favorites from Neil and in general. I read a lot of his stuff before it and knew his life so i immediately noticed he put a lot of himself in that book. I have seen people absolutely dislike it tho, so definitely you have to be a cretain kind of person to enjoy it i guess LOL I still recommend it to anyone who will listen to me talk about Neil, there's something so unique about it.
    Fun fact, i thought it was funny that you recommended a book by Neil and Neil's favorite book (Piranessi)!😢

  • @evanpeay
    @evanpeay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    CHRIS NEEDS TO TAKE BENJI TO LONDON TO SEE THE PLAY BASED ON THE BOOK....OCEAN AT THE END OF THE LANE......

  • @martharechy1610
    @martharechy1610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have you all read any Tanya French? I think you would love them. My fav is “The Likeness”.

  • @amarsingh122
    @amarsingh122 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved everything about this video!! please continue!

  • @Dieppaloveplants
    @Dieppaloveplants 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I looove both of you i feel like u guys are my kids ❤❤❤❤

  • @lilacfields
    @lilacfields 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have been hearing so much about piranesi recently! maybe i should finally pick it up…

  • @luka5160
    @luka5160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i read like the first 40 pages of piranesi and gave up too,,, maybe this a sign to get back to it 🤧

  • @dwimmery
    @dwimmery 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my! The Ocean at the end of the lane... I totally forgot about this book, I read it a long time ago and it was such a weird experience I though I was the only one x) I feel weirdly happy to share this feeling

  • @keiichifuruya
    @keiichifuruya 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad I read Piranesi already because there were quite a bit of spoilers in that synopsis 😂😂😂 you two are so cute.❤❤

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      WE WARNED U!!!

    • @keiichifuruya
      @keiichifuruya 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I KNOWWWWWWWW😂

  • @ethel_lana
    @ethel_lana 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please you both are so adorable 😭 I'm obsessed ❤️

  • @angelicatitus
    @angelicatitus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really liked Piranesi. I actually read it again a second time not long after I finished it the first time

  • @chrisss3233
    @chrisss3233 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awww u guys my favourites 😭

  • @choni_forever7051
    @choni_forever7051 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i really love and appreciate the calmness of your videos

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you :’)

  • @ThePpabloO
    @ThePpabloO 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been waiting for a long time to see you both doing book-related content and I am really enjoying it as much as I can! If you ever want to get started with poetry (which is definitely shorter than most novels) I would like to recommend to both of you "Night sky with exit wounds" by Ocean Vuong. All I can say is that I bought it by accident on amazon 😅 and as someone who is not experienced at all with poetry I fell in love with it.

  • @markherowin7799
    @markherowin7799 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i started reading more books because of your chanel 🪴 you two look so cute together btw 🥰 more videos to come 💫

  • @asmasayyad6175
    @asmasayyad6175 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its always fun to read as well be with people who read.😀 I love reading fiction. Sometimes I too just stop reading...many a times the author seems to disappoint or has a completely different style of writing. But eventually I come back and continue ...

  • @PetraEmmy
    @PetraEmmy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am reading Nettle & Bone by T. Kingfisher and it was a recommendation from Fern. Its very different than what I have read but I am enjoying it.

  • @Hep.F
    @Hep.F 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I Love you guys and Theo! I did not even know you had your own Channel Chris! Why didn't I???
    Ofcourse I subscribed to your Channel!!
    Love yas!!! Going to settle in and Enjoy this Video! Thankyou!
    ❤🐾📚🌿🇨🇦

  • @yonedakou3935
    @yonedakou3935 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    36:09 that little laugh 😂😂 . . . . Thanks for sharing.

  • @sicarius5388
    @sicarius5388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loooved Ocean at the End of the Lane but it's probably because I thrive off of surrealism and such. I thought the first and last chapter where he is older could have been left out completely, it feels out of place and like you said makes you expect something different.

  • @yasspanda2559
    @yasspanda2559 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys speak in lowercaps and I find it so soothing ✨😌✨

  • @VixinatorsVideos
    @VixinatorsVideos 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg Piranesi is sooo so good.

    • @chrislibrary
      @chrislibrary  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i loooove it

  • @morgenmuffel5747
    @morgenmuffel5747 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have either of you guys read The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy perchance? A truly great piece of modern literature that is simultaneously sweeping and intimate

  • @Theplouck
    @Theplouck 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We want Chris to read more Cosmere !!!

  • @karensicard7304
    @karensicard7304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys need to read the Gold finch by Donna Tart. Another good one.

  • @dcdszgage2125
    @dcdszgage2125 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was adorable!

  • @little_arson
    @little_arson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg you are so adorable 🥰🥰 it was the coziest 41 minutes of my life!

  • @1101naomi
    @1101naomi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Piranesi is so so good!

  • @tyoonie.b
    @tyoonie.b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if you ever have the chance to watch the ocean at the end of the lane stage show, you two have to go! it genuinely was incredible i had goosebumps… benji may be a lil too scared

  • @runaroberts3217
    @runaroberts3217 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Swap again in a future video plz! Would be interested to see how your recommendations develop having done this video 📚

  • @FasFas160
    @FasFas160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Would love to see your reaction to mistborn! I just finished it, and have mixed feelings about it.
    I love the way sanderson writes both magic systems and action scenes, they're super engaging. But I don't enjoy the way he writes characters and dialogue. The characters feel flat and stereotypical, and the story feels very reverse engineered, which has pros and cons. Everything fits into place super satisfyingly at the end, but it sometimes feels like everything is moving along like clockwork because the story demands it. As opposed to something like game of thrones, where it feels like the characters actions and motivations push things along to a greater degree.
    But i guess reverse engineering your story has the major benefit that the books get finished and wrapped up nicely. *cough cough* George R.R. Martin