22 Year Old Shows The "Child Free" Movement Has Gone Too Far
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There are some men and women who don't want kids. It's okay
I agree. At least people who don't want kids are honest enough to admit it. Why have people like Christine got a problem with this?
Its not ok. We should be idealizing parenting and raising children. Human existence goes beyond ones own individual life. Children are humanitys future.
child free women aren't narcs......making selfish choices about one's life isn't being a narc. Every single person makes selfish choices about their lives. How she could equate not wanting kids to being a narcissist is a narc tactic meant to shame and guilt people into behaving a certain way. I could easily say this woman was a narc her damn self.
She said the reasoning given for not wanting to have children, (that they restrict a woman's ability to do whatever she wants to do, that they take a lot of time and attention to care for, etc) was narcissistic and that is absolutely true.
"I don't want kids because that would keep *me* from being able to do whatever *I* want to do and would mean *I* would have to give up some of *my* time" is undeniably a selfish, narcissistic thing to say.
People really overuse the word narcissism without checking what it actually means.
For me not having children is a very personal decision, same as the decision for having children. If I know that I can't properly provide for a child, why should I put one into this world and purposefully make it suffer? Children deserve to live better than the previous generation.
Childfree is a victimless lifestyle choice that harms no one. Why should you care if a stranger has children or not?
Nobody cares till they need to announce it everywhere
Like vegans do ..etc ?
Because young people pay for old peoples pensions. So when there's less or no young people, what happens? Economic collapse. And the powers that be don't want that.
So if the system is fucked and no one's willing to change it, then it will be a victimless crime, as you say.
@@RealGingerTea I am responsible for my own retirement. I don't expect to ever collect any pension or social security; that's why I have savings, investments, and a 401k. What are you doing with your money?
You're right, the system is already fucked and it's too late to change it. A few more years, and it will be every man for himself. And why would any responsible person introduce children into a system in collapse?
Society as a whole is the victim of childless mothers. You will see when these women grow old and ugly in 30 years.
The only thing worse for child that is unwanted are abusing "parent(s)".
I'm 47 and have never wanted kids, not everyone has to have kids to complete their lifes. Personally i know I'm too selfish to have kids, i like being able to do what i want when i want. So instead of playing along with society norms i choose to not have a kid i didn't want. Personally i think more people should not have kids if they don't want them instead of being pressured into it by family and friends etc.
I hate social media with all of my heart.
While posting on social media 😂
I think this society is urging women to be career driven. If they adopt that ideology, there is no room for children in the equation. Additionally, women don't typically earn money to prepare for a family. They make money to spend on themselves.
Then they 'Hit the Wall' at 32 and are desperate to find a Man to have a Child with, and they figure out Men do not want them at that age for Families typically, and pass them over for younger more fertile Women. They then become cynical and TOXIC, also claiming 'All men are 💩" when what they really are mad at is their OWN DECISIONS but can't take accountability for it.
There's so much people are hit with, consume this, that, the other, God, t just isn't worth it, all the shit you've ever bought aside from that whuch actually makes your life easier, would we ever miss it?
Who said that woman have to be mothers?
I rather work a real job instead of unpaid housekeeper services for a man and his "legacy".
Woman have a choice. Ask yourself why many reject the oldfashioned role.
@@CordeliaWagner1999 Do you really want answers are you just typing to type??
Let's take your last question first, cause they have been Indoctrinated by Feminism pushed by their College Professors and the Media/Social Media. Just look at how many women are making You-tube Videos and TikTok's now saying they are TIRED of being the 'Boss Babe' or want to be 'Soft Women' now because Feminism is a LIE. Women have ALWAYS had a choice since the 1600's, where a Woman was the CEO of a Dutch Trading Company in the American Colonies, that traded with England, Norwegian Countries, and the America's....if you want something a little more current there is Hetty Green who in the 1880's was titled 'The Richest Woman in America' and she was a Wall Street Financier. You could also look at Anna Bissell who was the CEO for the Bissell Carpet Cleaning Company from 1889 to 1934. Oh look Women could Work, be CEO's, had Personal and Business bank accounts BEFORE the 1950's as many Feminist LIE about. Are you also aware that many Female Commercial Truck Drivers got their start in 1918, including the President of the Drunner Trucking Company, A WOMAN???
As for the very 1st part of your comment about being an 'unpaid housekeeper services'....are you really that Daft?? If you are a Stay at Home Wife, who is paying for the House you live in, obviously NOT YOU!! Who would be buying the Groceries that YOU Eat, Obviously NOT YOU!! Who would be paying for the Electricity, Water & Sewage, Natural Gas that you would be using, obviously NOT YOU!! Who is paying for the Car, Insurance, and Gasoline for the Car that you would be driving, obviously NOT YOU!! Who would be paying for your visits to the Hair Salon, Nail Salon, the clothes on YOUR back, your Vacations, all of your Netflix/Hulu/Disney Plus Subscriptions, Cell Phone Bills, etc....obviously NOT YOU. Oh but being a Stay at home Mom (which Studies have proven make Women the Happiest) is unpaid in your eyes.
Try engaging your Brain before making stupid comments.
Feel free to pick and choose whatever you want. It's your life and nobody else can control it. Some say a life with children is much more fulfilling, and others who never experienced that say life security for themselves is a priority. Social media and its division of the species is on the line but it is not my place to regard as I only fulfill what is best for me and those who have a curiosity to follow what I make of life. As you said; women have choices and they can fulfill for themselves if working a career to make a better life for their employer and owning material possessions is better, or having their own family, but I won't remark my interest as that's only problems for myself and those following me. I'm just giving another perspective without making a full-length critical essay typically associated with social media conversations.
Narcissists aren't just self absorbed. The actually CAN'T experience the emotions that it takes to express care for another person. It's much more than only thinking about themselves. Like, if someone accused a narcissist of being a narcissist, they wouldn't mention it, because they wouldn't have enough feelings about the other person's belief or feelings to even acknowledge that they had been accused of such a title. They just wouldn't care.
Everybody has a different opinion of who the narcissist is. So just throwing around that word PROVES ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about who is or is not narcissist. It is BEST to TALK and THINK REDUCTIONISTICALLY and get RID of MEANINGLESS BULLSHIT words like "narcissist" altogether and talk and think ONLY IN TERMS OF ACTIONS OVER ALL POSSIBLE OTHER ACTIONS A PERSON COULD HAVE TAKEN.
So don't have kids? I mean literally who cares. What would be more interesting to hear from are the men and women who DO want children but can't because our dating environment is totally toxic and unbalanced. What's the best kind of parent? A willing one.
The current state of affairs linked to the this low birth rate and anti-human/male cultural mindset, we have social media to blame, as well parenting. Parents used to teach their kids how to do things at home so they could do the same for their kids one day.
Nowadays, you don't hear that kind of conversation anywhere, so we have collegge kids who can't even fry/boil eggs nor cook some rice and sometimes, 30 year oold females who don't how to cook nor how to clean and keep their home tiddy because her mother does all the chores at home.
If they can't take care of themselves nor are they willing to learn it, what makes them suitable to care for anyone else (even a baby) or even know how to choose a proper partner for life?
They are so used to be taken care of by their own parents that, they feel they deserve the same kind of family treatment from their future boyfriend/husband.
An that's why women have such a hard time finding a man who meets all their requirements and also why they break up with their boyfriend or file for divorce sooner after getting married.
It might be arrogant of me stating this but, from what i've seen in these last 5 decades, i've noticed since the 90's that, lots of couples haven't been rasing their daughters to be grown up women, but to remain in a eternal teenagehood mindset.
💯@@migueruta
Forget dating, the entire financial system is ruinous to parents, even though society is entirely dependent on their children. Insanity really. Short term we import immigrants. But they get old too....
Way to miss the point. The entire reason so many people these days don't want children is because they are being conditioned and brainwashed by every aspect of modern society. The media, education system, social media, and the government, have all convinced women that they should spend their lives working a job rather than having children.
With the way whooamun use divorce for money, most of us don't want kids when we will lose them and lose everything at the same time. Not worth it, not worth the risk.
The truth is that a LOT of people shouldn't have kids, because they are narcissists or other type 3 personity disorders. Probably more than half the people in modern society are just not able to raise healthy children. Then there's the fact that society itself is dystopian and destructive. I don't know where this is all headed, but forward it ain't.
I agree. I know plenty of women with children who should NEVER have gone down the path of motherhood. It is these toxic women who are the selfish and narcissistic ones.
Worduo: totally agree - children had for the wrong reasons- mainly so women don’t have to work imo. “ it’s so hard being a mother “ …. Yeah and you’ve got 3 of them 🙄
Facts society sucks men think only about themselves and tend to violence
They are not great mothers because they were never tuaght how to be a mother by their parents or the god awful education system.
I'm a 40 years old male. I'm childless like i decided when i was 11. That's not changing but again i'm a male ^^
Same here. I knew around the age of 11 or 12 that I didn't want kids of my own. As I grew up, everyone told me I would change my mind. I'm 43 now. I never changed my mind.
Make paternity tests mandatory and the birth rate will go up.
barely
Wat is wrong with having no children when a relationship goes wrong kids make it harder and it is not fair on them
I know two young women at work 25 & 27 year old, BOTH of them have no intention of having kids! ( they say )
However, strangely, BOTH OF THEM have multiple DOGS, both of them constantly talk about their dogs as a parent would talk about their kids!
They both have pictures of their dogs on their phone home screen!
I'm no expert about this, but I suspect they BOTH are using their dogs a SUBSTITUTE for not having children!
I'm sure they would NOT AGREE with me about that, but I honestly think deep down, they really are longing for something to love and care for!
And having lots of cute little dogs that they dress up and post pictures of on Instagram, is a fantastic substitute!
Yep it’s true. The dog and cat mom thing is real. A lot of women are replacing children with pets. It’s a well documented phenomenon.
@@anastasiassecret3837 lol this is not keeping anyone up at night. Men have dogs because it's often the only loyalty he'll ever TRULY experience and can count on without EVER having a doubt AKA man's best friend, and kids just like animals. That wasn't the big brain zinger you thought it was.
I’m 70, the other day I thought to myself , “ I could go around again with children.” My wife said no way.😂
Good post. Right now I'm raising my teenage kids and I'm close to retirement. I often think my best retirement would be to raise two more.
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Im guessing you are probably a man weren’t poor and had healthy kids who didn’t have any mental or physical ailments and your kids were successful and loving and grateful to you for all that you’ve done for them and didn’t have that many major issues and disappointments growing up.
@@halwo9363 well, you guessed wrong.
There is no thing as obligation/duty to society or community anymore...
There are more duties than parenting work and housekeeper services.
We have 9 billion people on planet Earth. Do you all want that number to be higher?
i thought it was 8 billion
5:55 "The world's all very new and exciting".... man, I had a completely different life experience than you by the age of 13. It was already established by then that the world was stark and I was on my own, I had to forge my own path and the only person who had my back was me.
You are leading a sad existence. The true joy and meaning in life is found from loved ones and community. We can never find meaning alone.
I felt so bad for making so many jokes about childlessness to my cousin who is a lesbian, it wasn’t until after she gave birth at 38 that I realized that she was desperate to have a kid.
all these shows about women constantly needing validation from others. you barely see any men focused shows like this
Right…? Men I know typically like shows about “stuff” or shows that show people focusing on “stuff”
Women seem to be just totally wrapped up in shows about people and the daily drama lives.
Looking at all the luxury watches and sportscars...
Are women supposed to sit quietly and unseen at a man's place doing housekeeper services for him and his mothers grandkids????
Okay so stay in a man’s place 😂
Christine, there is also the possibility that they are avoiding another issue.
I can say that at the age of 12 I decided I should not have children. The reason was not that I didn’t want children, it was that the crippling depression I was experiencing and mental issues. I didn’t want to pass on that to another human being. I could not think of anything more cruel than to bring a human into this world knowing they had the same internal thoughts, few and issues.
To clarify I wanted to un-life myself from a very early age.
Thankfully I eventually found out what the issue is and I now have a relationship with someone who also has the same condition. Together we are so much better and are having our first child together.
Sometimes the real issue is not obvious or even directly related.
So pleased for you that you have pulled through to the light. Not many do so huge achievement. Keep vigilant…👏
Even if you are in a state of depression, having children is still worth because they give new meaning to your life and existence.
If a woman doesn't want children, she shouldn't have any. There's no reason to label them because their choice doesn't align with your world/life view.
I have no interest in convincing narcissists to have children. We just need to stop society from creating so many narcissists.
When your cocaine addiction is more important than anything, especially having kids.
Not every person can afford a child. And also not everyone wants to fuck up a whole ass person.
Serious Question : What Exactly Doesn't go too far with women ?
What exactly women are known to be reasonable with in terms of Society ??
I knew when I was about 8 years old that I didn't want to be a Mother. I love my nephews and nieces, but I just never wanted children of my own? Does this make me weird? Maybe. It depends how you define 'weird'. Christine, you seem to think that women who choose not to have children are selfish, and possibly narcissistic, but what I find selfish and narcissistic is those women (AND men) who are totally UNFIT to be parents, and yet they keep churning them out, year after year, like a conveyor belt. I know plenty of women who should NEVER have had children. It is a fact of life that some women simply don't have maternal feelings. Should we have children just to prove that we are not 'selfish and narcissistic'? Frankly, I think that women who choose not to have children are self-aware. We know that it would be wrong to bring a child in to the world just because it is what's expected of us. I care deeply about children, and I have worked for childrens charities, and I still don't regret the decision I made all those years ago, to remain childless. And let's face it, the world's population isn't going to die out, because women who choose not to be mothers are still a small minority.
They never call out their parent counter parts who actually selfish and narcissistic. Never mention how a lot of adult kids cut contact with their parents
I've known 25 yr olds who've declared "I'm never getting married", "I'm never having kids" who were married with 2 children by 32.
On the other hand, a young mother at Thanksgiving remarked she wanted children by 25, she didn't make it, but now will have her 2nd before 29. The 2nd "unplanned" as he's coming only 13 months after his brother.
It’s not that I don’t agree with the premise here. It’s that a few of the ideas here are extremely problematic. First: Since when is it anyone else’s place or business to dictate to anyone else what is right or wrong for them and their bodies? If they don’t want to have a child that’s their choice. They should not be shamed for it. Second: That is NOT what a narrcisist is. If we are going to start throwing around clinical terms for behavior we should at least have a firm grasp on what the term actually means. Calling someone a narrcisist just because they choose not to have a child is beyond the pale. Third: Its not just women who choose not to have children. Men are left completely out of the discussion when it comes to their choice to father a child. If a man decides he doesn’t want to have children he is viewed as “abusive” or “deranged”. Even if neither of those things is true. There are many reasons someone might choose not to have a child. Medical issues, genetics they don’t want to pass down, financial and economic concerns of being able to afford to care for the child. Frankly, I would rather someone who knows they cannot handle or take care of a child not have one. Finally, What is more selfish? Someone refusing to have a child, or someone believing their life choices are the only correct ones and pushing those beliefs onto others? It’s a slippery slope when we start telling others how to live their lives.
41 yo widower with a 4 yyo daughter... love my daughter to bits, she reminds me of my late wife, my daughter loves me implicitely, she needs me too, and I love spending all my time with her, she's a wonderful little person, and I'm a Dad!! no Fraudian monotropy here, although I too love her implicitely and she is my first and last thought of the day
Saves a lot of men from child support.
#pickme
A woman that does not want to have children is "broken". That means needs to be fixed.
I'm curious what their backgrounds are. I heard the one woman say she was arguing with her step mom. It made me think of all the people I know that haven't had kids by choice and they all came from broken homes or the parentswere in general self absorbed. There's probably a connection there.
Theres definitely a connection. These women are not raised right and came from broken family homes.
I knew from 11 i never wanted kids. i've stuck to my guns regarding that and never getting married
"Child free" is a cope. I bet they say "no kids" and wonder why men aren't sticking around. Aside from a regular partner why else would men get married or even stay, unless they find that rare man who doesn't ever want kids?
Fascinating that they think people are trying to stop them not having kids rather than just informing them of what is in a lot of peoples eyes the most important thing in their life... but you do you! Would be so interesting to hear how it went when they are 85
Is it possible kids die before their parents? Yes. Is it likely? Probably not. In the end, like the OP, I would be intrigued to see & hear the insights of people on life and this movement against children in 50 years time. Maybe I'll exist or maybe not in that time but that's the human curiosity I will continue to drive. That's for me though; go on with your life and make of it what you will. People have agency over their own life so I will only contribute to informing people and they can choose to accept it or not but that's the cool, or frustrating parts of the human species depending on perspective. The message doesn't need to push a narrative that career is more important, or flip around and push motherhood. Humans know and internally want to accept the state of which everyone makes life as they desire but will externally state one-sided takes anyways to generate drama and a response, being something kids are especially great at and just develop differently into adulthood. While being inclusive of all perspectives is not the popular, controversial one-sided take that social media wants to push for clicks, it's certainly shown to be relevant in moving on from the problems we argue about all the time.
Certainly a good perspective. It relates to many key parts in life beyond kids. How can you be in a relationship if you're not stable for instance; your state of life not depending on some expected outcome. These common philosophies that are being degraded in society. That's the hard debates and needed conversation we as a species need. Many say children is the most important part of life; that motherhood is worth much more than a career as men can't choose to have kids. Yet, as you mention, do you just try to find a way to even partially make up the fact or give up hope if something happens to your "most important accomplishment" before you pass away? Wouldn't these be common depression descriptions; someone that won't move on? How much value do we place on keeping a memory and how much do we move forward to put our life into perspective? There are so many levels to these conversations and yet, we as a society are choosing not to have them so we can benefit some particular groups. As you also stated, what does it all matter when it's your life and your kid, not your friends or the person at the convenience store. That's what the initial vision of the internet could be; a place where no matter how unlikely your child passing is for instance, you could find a group to support you. Yet, now we find ourselves only considering particular perspectives so instead of everyone finding a place to share a commonality with, we have to degrade someone to benefit another. It's definitely cruel and takes hurt for those already facing challenges to a whole other level.
A kid of a famous feminist actress here in Brazil said that she want to be a mom and is always playing with girl stuff and the feminist was piss
Any 22 year old that has it all figured out about this is in for a rude awakening at age 35.
Agreed. Being 21 and considered an adult is an artificial construct for legal and governmental reasons. People keep growing, changing through their 20's, 30's and beyond.
Not necessarily. If great grandma hated then abandoned her kids with the great grandpa, and grandma resented, even detested having children and abandoned them with the grandpa, and the mom also hated being a mother, ran off with someone else and left the kids with their father, then perhaps making the decision to not have children is a very logical and reasonable decision. Even a child can see the pattern and decide not to continue it.
True, but historically that doesn't seem to be the case. That of course can be debated as "vision constriction" due to lack of options and the powerful influence of society and religion 100+ years ago.
@@anastasiassecret3837 literally they NEVER talk about parents like themselves who have kids!
@@anastasiassecret3837ye breeders seems insane to me
11:45-12:02 ignorance is bliss. She's pure evil and trust me she will be one of the old, bitter feminist that sabotages women when she is older.
Nah men pure evil and I saying it as men. It’s facts they tend to aggression and violence
People are a lot more emotionally stunted these days and act younger than they really are, so this doesn't surprise me. A 30 year old thinks like a 20 year old. But mother nature doesn't care about your timeline.
I wonder if they would feel the same if they were told you can't have children due to medical reasons?
Refusing a family is refusing the chance of the greatest expression of love in this planet. Hope their self centeredness is worth it and pop culture or drinking beat the idea of a family.
Being a parent is not for everyone. I know plenty of toxic women who have had children and they are totally useless mothers. Don't you think that it is MORE selfish to bring a child in to the world just because it is expected of you? Every child should be a wanted child. Women (AND MEN) who choose not to have children are not being selfish.......they are simply being true to themselves.
@@user-pk1gp7iy2o weak excuses. The only reason this is a choice now is because big pharma allowed chemical castration to women through a pill' that now it's been found creates a slew of physical problems.
@@vaelicusthepaladin And I think that it is good that women now have a choice. It means that there are LESS unwanted babies in the world. My Grandma had TEN kids, and she admitted that if she had had access to birth control, she would only have had two or three. My Gran's life was very harsh and poverty-stricken, and even though my Grand-dad worked hard, it was tough feeding twelve mouths and paying endless bills. I still believe that EVERY CHILD SHOULD BE A WANTED CHILD. People like you are too quick to judge.
Childfree guy here. Never liked children, never wanted children, and I don't owe anyone children.
Not having children. Sorry.
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look into the link between endocrine disruptors in food and water supply, and childless women.
For every modern woman that stays childless, some man is spared 18 years of child support. A total W for men.
Hopefully you never have kids cus wtf 💀
They can do what they like, but I find it so utterly stupid after they regret their decision, they take to social media, and cry to the world about their problems which no one cares about. Everyone is dealing with their own stuff. Seeking meaningless approvals or sympathy points from people you will never, ever meet is a complete waste of time, time that a 40 year old doesn't have to afford. Even after all of the sympathy points they can collect, lol, what good does that actually do at diminishing their problems--rhetorical, none.
I would posit that it has more to do with a feminist ideal and standing on their conviction than not wanting children in general.
People have it wrong.
You think you learn love from your parents. You don’t. You don’t and can’t truly understand love until you have children.
You learn love from your children.
You go back to your parents and say “okay, now I understand.”
They are narcissist’s, they can’t put anything above self.. even for something greater.
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I wish I'd learned a little sooner how true this is. What I forgot somehow was that my mum felt the same way about me. I realized this a couple of weeks before she died, and I never got the chance to tell her. I was rather wrapped up in my own children. I expect she'd forgive me for being a shit son in the last couple of years of her life, but I can't forgive myself, not even for her. If you realize how much your parents love you, it's like a huge light goes on in your head. Until you have your own children, you just can't imagine. I never realised how much I'd miss my mum either. She was 84, I thought she was "old enough" and a bit of a nuisance. Until she went, and two years later, I still find myself in tears. If I could have one last talk, one last chance would be worth everything.
@@MarkJones-gt2qd I recall holding my newborn daughter when we got home from the hospital and calling me mom, apologizing for every selfish, disrespectful, careless and thoughtless thing I had ever pulled. She just said, “I know. I love you too.”
As I have said, it’s not something you can explain. You don’t know until it happens.
Words are simply not up to the task.
they are women, right?
I did not comprehend the capacity of love that I have until I had children. I apologized to my mother, saying "I'm sorry, I don't think I had as much love for you, as you had for me." She simply said "That's the way it's supposed to be dear." ...
I think every man would be better off being a supporting father to his own children. But he should stay single. Until the laws change, getting married is a very bad idea for a man.
2:56 - Ironically, this is part of the reason why men have given up on relationships. Women are perceived as these endless pits of need.
I see mothers and all I see is misery and sacrifices. Not gonna ruin my body and my life.
It's good to be selfish when it protects your physical and mental health and your financial future!
Good to be selfish? Enjoy your cats
we'll see in 10 years, all women do videos on tiktok crying in their car at one point lol
This is usually the coping mantra of bitter shrews who can not find a good man, so they spread their bile to other women. Do society a favor and remain childless.
Ye true and society sucks and men disgusting as species
@@realisticthought1781
even tho parent`s reason to have kids are self centered XD
enjoy your retirement plan!.. if they stick around to take care of you!
People are generally delusional. Many are self-absorbed. It's easy to have this type of attitude when living in a society such as we have in the west. When western society eventually falls apart (remember: society and governments come and go), this thinking will change - very rapidly.
All of these women come off as sort of antagonistic or disliking of men. Even the one black woman who said she was in a relationship. She called him partner. I honestly feel that women who insist in using such language don't actually respect the man. I get the feeling that its not that they want to be child free, but they have decided they are going to be child free because of not being able to lock down a man. Or at least a man who they find viscerally sexually attractive.
My son goes to a gym where many of the males ( young good looking males ) are getting vasectomies and not even telling their partners ( some are married ) they know that children mean maintenance and to avoid maintenance they remove the possibility of children ... my son just had one of his friends, a 29 year old male, over 6 foot, an electrician in the mines earning almost 200 k a year....most of these men are in the range of men that females are chasing....my son 33 has told his girlfriend of 9 years that kids are simply off the table and he himself is getting the snip...she doesn't want one either as it would interfere with her career......men are waking up that they are responsible for birth control and are taking control and it is a movement that is gaining traction, I even got a vasectomy pamphlet in the mail box, I gave it to my son he said thanks dad but I already got one of those pamphlets from one of my friends.
You simply can't trust women. 💯
They demand everything BOTH ways no matter how illogical.
There is no problem if you don't want kids. Your choice. Perfectly fine.
Easy on the eyelashes. Big hug from Chile.
I have a 22 year old son. (Just one kid.) He's been by far with no exceptions whatsoever the greatest joy of my life. He's been wonderful to raise and overwhelmingly a great experience.
About the only time it got a bit sketchy was him still wanting to play catch with his Dad when he started exceeding 70 mph on his pitching! He'll graduate this spring with mechanical and industrial engineering degrees.
There's certainly some people who should never have children as their personalities are incompatible with raising kids. But the rest? It will be the biggest oversight of their lives.
When i was 10 i said that i would never have a kids. people would respond like this: "You will change your mind when you get older" or "We all say the until we meet the right girl" ... They said the same when i was 15 and when i was 25. Now i am 44 ... And now they say this: "It´s never too late" or "You could just date a single mom" ... 🤣🤣🤣
I respect any woman who does not want kids. I just wouldn't be in a relationship with one.
Oh god, she has Obama painting (?) on her wall, already a huge red flag.
If you don't want children, please don't have them. Would not be good for any child you might produce.
All I care about is me. How dare you call me a narcissist!
I think part of it is them knowing if is highly unlikely to find a mate and this is just cope...."will I don't want one anyway"!
We are called narcissists if we, men and women alike, are childless. But if you are honest with yourself there is nothing more narcissistic than a child.
That’s some a pretty strong copium your drinking there sister.
The children must be protected at all costs. So Good that these people aren't selfishly having kids though.
Strange cause where I live people feel more pressure to exactly not have kids, than surprise or pressure to exactly have them.
Blue collar/average pay x2 doesn't cut it anymore to provide fulfillingly for children though in a lot of Western countries, including here.
I can't recall the last time I've seen someone have kids in their 20's...
Oh man, if you ask a parent why they wanted kids, it's often (if not always) for selfish reasons.
Raising a child correctly, requires unconditional love & a great deal of self sacrifice.
No for most to want a kid is to want a child that u would sacrifice a lot for to raise and love.
@@williamsweeney3215keep capping. Most say to passing their legacy and bloodline. Which infact is a selfish thing.
i knew a couple that broke up when they got to 45 when the guy said he wanted a family (at 30 he wasn`t all that bothered, she never wanted em ever ) so these women should be prepared for that
It is not about being threatened by, or uncomfortable around, childless women.
We all stop and look at something weird.
Why would men ever want to have kids when they will be taken away from us in a divorce, along with everything we spent our life to make. Not worth it.
Just dont choose these toxic women. Go somewhere else. The world is huge and women in other parts of the world are raised right.
To have kids is a gift and a promise for the future.
The reason most women in the West end up single --- waay overstated demands!
The regular, lvl 5-6s women think they are ENTITLED to lvl 8-9 giga chads!
Thats why!
The normal dudes, on same level as them, are totally invisible
This is exactly the reason things have gone downhill very quickly. It used to be for thousands of years that this is Gods world and my life is Gods, so I should do as he directs, which is to have kids and raise them to be Godly. In the last 3 generations all of a sudden trophies for every kid and telling them they are perfect as they are has created narcissists that think only of themselves.
I think its a sign of over population. The fact that there is no possibility of creating generational wealth. That you are working for the man instead of being the man. It's like pandas in the zoo. Do you want to raise kids into a system of captivity/slavery.
childlessness is part of gods design its a self correcting mechanism for a society that has fallen, you do realise the number of people that are childfree is like 10% of those without children, 90% are childless, most people without kids wanted them but couldnt make it work in this kind of society
Very good point about creating narcissistic people.
There are very young children who are able to make big life decisions because they are individuals with wants, needs, and a unique way of seeing the world, but not everyone is the same. Some will make decisions later in life than others.
When I was 7 years old, I decided that I didn't want any children or a husband, and I would scream it to anyone who could hear. Recently, a very close friend had a baby, and she told me that it was okay if I changed my mind. That made me think now with 28 years, and I spent a good part of three months researching all the pros and cons for women, specifically black women. This process made me even more confident in my choice not to have children, but I became less confident in not wanting a partner. I won't be going out of my way to look for someone, but if I meet a good childfree man, I would consider a long-term relationship. This means that we can change our mind throughout our lives. It doesn't mean that the choice was wrong, just that we changed, and that is okay.
It's perfectly fine to not want kids. It's trying to tell people they should or should not have them that's wrong.
But, from experience. When I was 18, I had a lot of female friends who said they'd never want children or get married.
These very women were the first ones (and most of the ones) to get pregnant and married.
It's almost as if you cannot trust what they say and having a strong man makes them want to submit and become a mom.
Hormonal issues might be number one cause, we know women emotions are driven by their hormones.
Most of them seem they are trying to convince themselves that they don't want kids but I can see in few years they would change their mind. For the youngers, they will face the same reality that older women are facing now: no husband or bf and no kids but with the desire to have both.
My childfree aunt is 54. Happiest woman I know. Looks like early 30 and makes more money than she can spend. Has a lot of friends and hobbies. Travels a lot.
Looking at mothers her age: NOPE, don't want!!!
Nah society will try convince women to have kids and have men I hope they will stay away from men cause they all narcissists and good luck having children in capitalism
No comment, because I can't think of a half-lie that could possibly put these people in a good light. I'm sorry. For you. So sad.
Judgmental... much! Patronizing... much. Say "no comment" and then make a comment, and a nasty one at that.
The way the thumbnail appeared on my app looked like “I am not a fartless person.”
Germain Greer spentt her youth sleeping around and saying motherhood was oppressive but in her late 30s decided she wanted children but couldn't get pregnant.
What happened in the UK? US Air Force guys stationed in England (like me) always thought one could snag a traditional wife there as opposed to a sassy, headstrong, feminist American woman.
Strange Tales from the _DEATH SPIRAL_ of a _CULTURE:_ _"It's been important to find someone who is interested in and cares about _*_ME_*_ for _*_ME_*_ and not what I can produce for him"_ and *_"Like_*_ I have Tinder and _*_like_*_ I'll see guys on there that are _*_like_*_ maybe 10 years older than me and they're _*_like_*_ want looking to start a family. I'm _*_like_*_ that's probably the worst thing you could put in your bio, cuz that's making every woman run away"_ Well, at least it's *_like_* good to know it's not *_like_* about _"narcissism"_ or anything self-centered like that... 🙄
People always say and try to show how kids “stop your growth”. I have a son and I have never been better. He helped me to grow not only as a person, but I am more driven and have good professional career.
So it is more a per case situation that a norm. So don’t scare people telling them how “over their life is”. It is just the beginning.
And yes, I was one of the many women hearing how having a baby will stop my professional growth. 😅
Per case situation is right.
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I am a guy I am opposite I want children but I am scared I never will and I already in my 40s
I don't think there needed to be a whole video about women not wanting children but as a dude i have known since I was a kid i didn't want kids and I have not changed ever in that thought. You can call people who don't want kids to be Narcissists, but that's quite a bold statement, I know a lot of women or people with kids that are, see it as a status point in life and show off like see what i can do ..how great My kid is..etc.Just look at all the gender parties, and etc. it is all a look at me look at me . Honestly this is the first thing I have seen from you I really don't agree with your thoughts on it to any great extent, also more people in this day and age is not a good thing, it is a blight on society actually and resources and health of the planet.
😂 her whole life yet it hasn't even been that long 😂😂. Nice
Cheers
Im a man an i dont have children an not bc i do not want one just i dont want one with a unstable woman which is all thats avalable in my state i have never ever met a woman i was like shed be a good mother id oike to have kids with her the women i seen an ik make an would make terrible mothers
Having your legacy is your number one goal on earth. the rest is insignificant.
imagine your parent's or grandparents though the same you selffish person (cause there are also men who think like this)
nobody says on his/her deathbed i wished i could have been more at my work, having more time with family is often said on said deathbed. that should light the lightbulb but some people have a short circuit in their head i guess
Legecy money does mean oppertunity's in the future. if you walk back longer it was learning your craft which you continued up. In the west we also had as hard of a cast system like the Indian (so people from india not the native american's that got a simmular name cause one renowned explorer was dumb) from the industrian era you got eaier ecces to not have your child work from young ae to help for the finances cause average life expecincy was lower and food has cost so wealth had to be above average to get by.
Legacy by name/blood was the reason alot of wars and peace agrements were struck in the days of old. caus you feel less inclined to bring hardschip to family and to decline you'r barony/stateschip/kingschip was more important to kings if anything. the amount of woman that got disposed of cause the inabilty (which 50% of the times wasn't the fault of the woman) is quite substantial. so not clear about what yu are trying to say that legacy isn't important. cause even in most people's life today and in the past if that wasn't a thing you wouldn't be here @@anastasiassecret3837
f off with that self-imposed victimhood. won't bring you anywere in life@@anastasiassecret3837
Selfishness and irresponsibility is the normal now. Anyone surprised? They don’t think regret will come, but it will
Having a child is the most selfish and irresponsible thing you can do, especially these days.
@@txlyons2937That is a ridiculous statement. Believe it or not, there are men and women who actually “like” children and unite to raise good families. Do not fall into this hyperbole, and do not listen to a bunch of self absorbed women who can’t find men.
@@PatI-zg9gm No one ever asked to be born. Children cannot consent to their own conception and birth. There is no sneak-preview, no opportunity to weigh the pros and cons of existence before we are thrust unwillingly into this world. Therefore, every childbirth is the result of short-sighted selfishness on the part of the parents. What do you always hear new parents say?
• "I wanted to have someone to take care of me when I'm old."
• "I wanted to see a little mini-me."
• "I wanted to leave a legacy and carry on the family name."
• "I wanted to give my parents grandchildren."
• "I wanted to give children all the things I never had."
• "I wanted my children to become famous one day."
• "I wanted to preserve my culture/race, those foreigners are outbreeding us!"
Ask anyone why they had children, and you'll inevitably hear I Wanted, I Wanted, I Wanted . . . and they call the childfree lifestyle selfish. There are *no* altruistic reasons to have children.
@@txlyons2937 You found like one of these nut jobs who wants the species to die out. Propagating mankind was never seen as an act of altruism, it just occurs naturally. Does this selfishness apply to your parents, who are the reason you can make these absurd statements? I suggest a dictionary check on “consent”. Children, who don’t yet exist, can not give consent. That can only come from a living being. The fact is, you can not speak for “anyone’s” motivations when it comes to having children. They are likely a mixture of proper planning, perpetuating legacies, creating fanilies, or “oops”. You need to relax a little, and let go of the bitterness and thoughts of genocide.
@@PatI-zg9gm _"Does this selfishness apply to your parents?"_
Yes, it does. If my parents never had me, then I wouldn't have had to grow up with all the illness and bullshit I've experienced, and my parents would have been spared the cost of raising me, which means they could have retired sooner. It would have been a win-win!
_"Children, who don’t yet exist, can not give consent."_
That's exactly my point. I never asked for this life, and I cannot justify passing life forward to a child who didn't ask for it. When you have a child, you are rolling the dice with another person's life, another person's future. This is grievously unethical, and it's something I could never do. How do you justify gambling with another human life?
_"The fact is, you can not speak for anyone’s motivations when it comes to having children."_
I already know that despite any claims to the contrary, their motivations are always selfish.
And since you seem to be a little confused, let me make this clear: I am *not* advocating for genocide. I am discouraging conception. There is a gulf of difference between those two positions, and if you cannot see that, then I cannot help you.
The point about the 5 year old obviously flew right over Christine's head.
These young women who have already decided to never have children, well the children they might have had are better off not having such a horrible selfish mother.
when in reality parent`s reasons to have them were always self centered 😂
Lol not heartless at all. I will definitely pray for you though, since you seem so concerned about other people’s lives. How about have 5 or more children to help fill in the gap for women who don’t want any. I will never understand people who sit up all day trying to figure out why other people choose to do different things. To much time and energy spent smh.
My sister was convinced that she didn’t want to have kids, until she was in her early 30s and she ended up having two great kids. Intentionally.
@@anastasiassecret3837 I have no idea if she is removed her tubes after the children.
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I see "the Fox and the Grapes" in all of them.
This issue is not!! the end of the human species... there are 8 billion of us!!! There is plenty of wiggle room. Populations fluctuate... this is completely natural, it happens all the time in nature and honestly we will be doing the world and ourselves a favour by letting nature take its course, now is a time for our population to retract... nothing wrong with that!
I never wanted kids as my sister was born handicapped.
Endless pit of needs, just like women seems to be these days for men :)
It's the Calhoun Experiment applied to Humans.
Rat Utopia experiment:
_ First the rats multiply then tapers off
_ Separated into cliques, hostile to each other and developed anti-social behaviors
_ a 1/3 became socially dominant while the rest regressed. Bonding skills deteriorated.
_ High status and low status rats based of pecking order became pronounced. Low-status males, spurned by females, became outcasts and withdrew from mating.
_ Female rats became more aggressive and refrained from doing motherly duties. Later litters raised further withdrew from mating.
_ Mortality rate continued to rise and the rat utopia experiment collapsed.
Narcissists will not admit they are narcissist.
Having a child is the most selfish and narcissistic thing anyone can do, especially these days.