Becoming UnSingle: Find True Love in Frienships & Relationships

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  • @tanabelndagurwa
    @tanabelndagurwa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for vulnerably and joyfully speaking on the power of intimacy with God and self and, how that translates to holistic experiences in relationships with others.
    May your well never run dry Miss Baxbara.🙏❤

  • @ruthyzikhali7978
    @ruthyzikhali7978 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yoh, Barbara! I relate to this entire video! This is something that I struggle with so much because I am so used to being the "glue", the calm one", the "one everyone comes to for advice", that it is so incredibly difficult to me to allow myself to feel. I am taking this video as a sign to step outside of my comfort zone. I am 21 and being little miss put-together has caused me more harm than good. Thank you, thank you for this message. I will definitely be rewatching this and making use of your actionable steps. ❤ I definitely want to embrace my power and face my future this year because it's affecting so many other areas of my life. I am even afraid to date because I feel afraid of being myself. I really needed to hear this. If I may ask, how do you not fear that your relationship will not end in divorce? My parents are also no longer together and it's my own worst fear. Watching them disrespect one another is painful and I fear potentially being happy but also being miserable.

  • @BuhleGumbi
    @BuhleGumbi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heard this at the most perfect time❤

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope it all works out 🫶🏾

  • @HopeMamabolo
    @HopeMamabolo ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don’t think it’s a coincidence that most lover girls need Jesus as the covering and protector. There’s definitely a reason because He knew that this love that we have to give is almost all encompassing to the point where it might cause us heartbreak sana 😭

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ba re guard your heart. It's so easy for lover girls to lose themselves in the process 🥺, so I love your sentiments on Jesus being our covering

    • @masegoramasodi1278
      @masegoramasodi1278 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yohhhhh the truth in this 🔥🔥

  • @Chidzy.M
    @Chidzy.M ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Barbie. This is by far the most vulnerable and relatable you've ever been, in my opinion. I can't believe I was on some PREACHHHHHHH! The whole episode😂😂😂😂❤
    Thank you for being a gem that you are and allowing God to use you the way he is❤

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing Mutshidzi ❤️, I really hope all things work out for you !

  • @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653
    @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yoh 😔 felt. Triggered. Everything I needed❤. Thank you beautiful ❤

  • @nandidube1801
    @nandidube1801 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is such a real & raw thing that we don't speak about as women of God, we sort of go through it alone thinking that no one can relate to us. Thank you Barbra!!! ❤

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching Nandi ❤️

  • @ruvimboprecious
    @ruvimboprecious ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an amazing video ❤😊. I also grew up hating physical touch until recently I found out that physical touch is my main love language and so it’s so deep for me, I am easily manipulated by touch and also being touched by people i don’t have a certainty level of intimacy with feels very intrusive and like I’m getting harassed 💀.

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ruvi you are me 😭😭😭

  • @nqabaardyantyi6909
    @nqabaardyantyi6909 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for such a healing session. From relationships to academics , this hit home. God bless you💗

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bless you too 🫶🏾✨

  • @nicolendiwa
    @nicolendiwa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Liking before watching 'cause I already know it's amazing.🥰.

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're the best!

    • @vanethandekile
      @vanethandekile ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too I just see the thumbnail and I like before knowing what's going on😅

    • @nicolendiwa
      @nicolendiwa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vanethandekile Those who get, get it! Period.☺.

  • @findingdodo6460
    @findingdodo6460 ปีที่แล้ว

    So relatable and so beautifully articulated. Thank you for sharing this part of yourself 💓

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome! 😘

  • @vanethandekile
    @vanethandekile ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude that's true I also feel guilty at times 😅

  • @okuhle_nzima
    @okuhle_nzima ปีที่แล้ว

    This was an amazing video Bax...very enlightening🥺🥺 thank you for being vulnerable and sharing all of this. Loved it so much❤❤❤

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for listening to my little podcast 🥹💐✨

  • @TEBZA15
    @TEBZA15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    preach sis preach😔😔

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Next week? I'm bringing the WHOLE bible

  • @HopeMamabolo
    @HopeMamabolo ปีที่แล้ว

    This video!? Real!!!

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Felt.

  • @amogelangmogano1526
    @amogelangmogano1526 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you

  • @siphesihlemlungwana9879
    @siphesihlemlungwana9879 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Is Too Gooooooooood!!!! Bax

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for listening to my little podcast 🥹💐✨

  • @Kaleyakankwende
    @Kaleyakankwende ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally unrelated you are gorgeous 😍

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh thank you! 🥹💕

  • @mtha3017
    @mtha3017 ปีที่แล้ว

    felt.

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 Real

  • @sholangoma
    @sholangoma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look beautiful as always❤😍 lemme get my snacks, its going to be a good one 🤝🏿

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 😋, enjoy xxx

  • @mbalijacobs7002
    @mbalijacobs7002 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kunzima kwa growth but it's worth it😅❤

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅 Don't kill me, sisafa la

  • @entleeeee
    @entleeeee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She cooked here.

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for listening to my little podcast 🥹💐✨

  • @Kaleyakankwende
    @Kaleyakankwende ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girlfriend you are obsessed with your man 😍… kore wa glowa
    I wanna be you when I grow up 😘😂

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @biancamoalusi2582
    @biancamoalusi2582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bax this is too good🥹

    • @BAXBARA
      @BAXBARA  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad you're happy to be here 🤭😘