Why I Switched to a Dumb Phone and iPod (I won't be going back)

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  • @user-og6hl6lv7p
    @user-og6hl6lv7p ปีที่แล้ว +4171

    Just a little warning: I deleted my social media about 5 years ago and reduced the amount of time I spent on my phone. I think it's ultimately a good thing, however I am very depressed because no-one has/does reach out to me for a long periods of time. You literally cease to exist in many people's minds.

    • @TheRightAngleGamer
      @TheRightAngleGamer ปีที่แล้ว +566

      You need closer friends, or start online gaming and make friends that way.

    • @callmemako3510
      @callmemako3510 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      Get Better friends :v
      But yeah gaming could help, dou play something?

    • @francocapoful
      @francocapoful ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Yeah i've been trough the same thing without deleting anything, they only reach out to you if they see you post something they can benefit from, if not you're on your own. Even thoug i think is good to find out who cares about you and who not, of course it'll be sad but it's worst to share a life with people who doesn't give a f about you

    • @user95395
      @user95395 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      I had a 10k plus follower count Instagram and deleted it. My social and dating life has not recovered in 8 years. In this world, your online presence is more important than you.

    • @nathonso_edits
      @nathonso_edits ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I've also found this, but trust me, it's better to have a couple of good friends than 100 'friends', try to make plans in person at your school or workplace and make sure to start conversations with people too, just like 'hey it's been a while how are you?' they were probably also waiting for you to text them feeling the exact same thing

  • @certnzone7331
    @certnzone7331 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    I love the incredibly healthy take of, "These aren't inherently evil". You make very valid points about how moderation might be enough instead of going all in on removing the smartphone from your life

  • @francohic
    @francohic ปีที่แล้ว +3048

    The thing you said about getting better in a mental clinic requires NOT having a smartphone makes total sense. Very well said. Smartphones for young people are anxiety machines.

    • @mikefromwa
      @mikefromwa ปีที่แล้ว

      I really wouldn't be surprised if some of the people in mental institutions are there because of excessive smartphone use that basically took over their life. The apps are designed to be addictive and draw on par with using crack or cocaine.

    • @nutzeeer
      @nutzeeer ปีที่แล้ว +56

      It makes me hopeful that kids are better at using these. While I grew up the phones were getting exponentially better every year, which made them very interesting. Too interesting, in fact.

    • @uncertaintytoworldpeace3650
      @uncertaintytoworldpeace3650 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We’ll yeah we ARE slaves!

    • @danteerskine7678
      @danteerskine7678 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@rejectconvenience smartphones had never been a source of anxiety for me, in fact, there's been a decade, even more, since I stopped using PCs. that's no surprise that smartphones are helpful in many ways but the users are the ones to blame as they don't know how to control their addiction to social media. I use smartphones mostly because of their endless storage space (micro SD) for music listening, web browsing, I don't install social bloatwares on my phones, remember one thing, either it's iphone or any android phones, they don't come preloaded with PUBG mobile or social media like TikTok, so why not use a smartphone this way?

    • @jordixboy
      @jordixboy ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not smartphones itself. The apps you have installed on it. Just uninstall and mute.

  • @butwhytho4858
    @butwhytho4858 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +208

    Somehow, this feels like the best, most logical, and “unjudgy” video I’ve ever seen on TH-cam lol.
    No crazy intros, no scene transitions, no hype or chill music… This is so rare. I loved this. Ty.

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I've been itching to make another video like this, but on the topic of challenging ones own opinions. Like a step by step walk through on how I take what I'm feeling and break it down and question my own thoughts on it. Same idea though, just talking through it, minimal visuals.

    • @butwhytho4858
      @butwhytho4858 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@rejectconvenience when you do, I’m on board. Good luck out there. You have something most influencers don’t have. Thanks for the content and thought provoking topics 👍✌️

  • @TopFix
    @TopFix ปีที่แล้ว +1294

    The insane thing is that you are pretty much expected to have a smartphone now. And not just socially, but also at work (in order to accomplish certain obligations, being privy to emails) and in public, for scanning barcodes, using memberships, operating your payments, paying for bills, ect; that if you don't have a smartphone, you basically will not fit in.

    • @buri.bii3
      @buri.bii3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I agree. In the case of work, it can be annoying especially when you get calls outside of your shift (which has happened to me numerous times; in that case I spoke to management and said not to contact me outside shift as I need work/life balance for my mental health and now set my phone to do not disturb on weekdays).

    • @The_UnemployedGamer
      @The_UnemployedGamer ปีที่แล้ว +14

      that's why there are special communities out there.

    • @godrilla5549
      @godrilla5549 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      My local Fred Meyers got rid of all their bar scanners and love to not price things, they want you to use their stupid app. I just don't shop there no more.

    • @TaigiTWeseFormosanDiplomat
      @TaigiTWeseFormosanDiplomat ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES without a proper phone mean no job for you... (navigating the map, reply the message, scanning, buy the ticket so you won't get late...)

    • @godrilla5549
      @godrilla5549 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TaigiTWeseFormosanDiplomat that type of job is pretty lame, phone losers can have em

  • @jarchlik
    @jarchlik ปีที่แล้ว +1320

    For me just removing all social media apps did the trick, I was very close to closing my iPhone in a closet but it turned out the problem was in Facebook, Instagram and others. Unistaling those apps changed my screen time from 5hours a day to sub 2 hour, and I feel A LOT better

    • @mothanyou
      @mothanyou ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What to do with all this free time?

    • @BeamDeam
      @BeamDeam ปีที่แล้ว +104

      ​@@mothanyou there are many things. Spend your time on your hobbies, do sports, clean your home, learn new interesting stuff, cook yourself a meal and so on.

    • @mothanyou
      @mothanyou ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@BeamDeam what about time wasting? Like you are sitting in the queue, what to do with stupid phone?

    • @BeamDeam
      @BeamDeam ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@mothanyou can't you really be patient? How did people survive this prior 20 years?
      Look around, think about what you want to do later, for example what are you going to cook for dinner and so on.

    • @mothanyou
      @mothanyou ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BeamDeam how am i gonna find receipt or interesting cooking idea?

  • @benhofyt
    @benhofyt ปีที่แล้ว +507

    I've been noticing so many small things (listening to the radio in my car instead of a playlist, collecting records, using a physical camera, writing on paper, etc) that make me feel so much better than using a phone but it wasn't until this video that it finally clicked for me - I'm recharging my old ipod as im writing this and i think i may just join the dumbphone movement! thank you for sharing this, it's definitely helped me and by the looks of it a lot of other commenters as well!

    • @SuperFlashDriver
      @SuperFlashDriver ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dude/Dudet, I've been using separate video/photo cameras for quite some time now. Heck, I still prefer to use those over smartphones any day. It's just that going to events unfortunately doesn't allow you to bring those in, so there's that. My smartphone I treat it more like a Zune/MP3 player rather than use the applications on there. And even then I had to use it for telegram just to get my desktop version working (Really sucks telegram has to go there but oh well.)

    • @USAltefore
      @USAltefore ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People look at me askance for listening to the car radio rather than making a playlist, but I like it because I can hear new stuff. Listening to local news, traffic, and weather reports is also useful. The act of writing on paper makes remembering that info so much easier than if I were to type it.

    • @LifeofBrad1
      @LifeofBrad1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah. DAB radio is especially awesome. You have more specialized stations to choose from rather than ones that new pop/rap crap. All of the FM stations that used to be good here in the UK now play that garbage, which is why I switched to DAB.

    • @jamesdagmond
      @jamesdagmond ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Listening to the radio makes me want to rip the stereo out and throw it into the street. You get two songs followed by 5 minutes of advertising. 🤣🤣 To each their own though especially if it makes you happier.

    • @benhofyt
      @benhofyt ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesdagmond luckily there are a few good national radio stations where i live that have almost no advertising but i agree most stations are unbearable

  • @ChimkenNuggers
    @ChimkenNuggers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    On the taking pictures point, I’ve made an effort not to take photos with my phone anymore and I 100% agree there is a huge difference in just “living in the moment”. Honestly, I didn’t ever really find myself looking back at old pictures that often, and very few of them I actually care to see. Some things are just better left for memory.

    • @MixedApparitions
      @MixedApparitions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I mean you can take a couple pictures then put your phone away. I'd rather have a couple special family photos of an occasion (especially if it's unexpectedly the last one for one of them) then none at all.

    • @RunawayYe
      @RunawayYe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MixedApparitionsDo you really look at those pictures ever again? You were there though, it's in your brain. If you forgot about it then it wasn't important enough to you to begin with.

    • @ZX3000GT1
      @ZX3000GT1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@RunawayYeSometimes it's not about you remembering things. It's more about you later want to show to, say, your kids/grandkids for example.
      If my dad back then decided to just "living in the moment" when I was born, then I'm sure I'll never see a lot of my baby antics or some family members there that had passed away today, or trips I got when I was 2 years old.
      Taking photos to commemorate a moment is not an issue. The issue is when all you're doing is taking photos instead of having fun in the moment.

    • @zepulchre2453
      @zepulchre2453 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ZX3000GT1That’s true!!!

  • @AiRbaL2000
    @AiRbaL2000 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    I actually have been doing this with film cameras and CDs. I was into them two years back but I been feeling the need to go analog again and it makes me appreciate the moment of time in a special kind of way. The feeling of having physical media that feels, looks, and sounds better just hits different for me.

    • @saltedmutton7269
      @saltedmutton7269 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      *technically* CDs aren't analogue, but as someone who also loves the funny spinny laser circles, i agree that holding the music is better than having it be an intangible stream of 1s and 0s floating through the air

    • @S-Video
      @S-Video ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@saltedmutton7269How are CDs not digital? Is it because most CD players only have an analog audio output?

    • @saltedmutton7269
      @saltedmutton7269 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@S-Video oops, i meant to put analogue instead of digital
      pretend i did

    • @FuegoJaguar
      @FuegoJaguar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You can buy a CD for $2 and then the music is yours FOREVER. In lossless format

    • @FuegoJaguar
      @FuegoJaguar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gitnjur you should go check your sources on the format of sound on a CD

  • @murenorocha
    @murenorocha ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I've ditched Facebook, Instagram and Twitter back in 2019, when I've received a fraudulent email, and never looked back. It was almost like a drug addict purging the substance from the body, it was hard to do. As someone said, you start having a lot more time to do stuff, but become invisible to most people. Having a family that supported me helped a lot. Great video, thanks for sharing.

  • @TeraIsGaming
    @TeraIsGaming ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Don't worry, man. You're not the only one who got into the Dankpods rabbit hole. Guy's content is a gem.

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same here. Wade is the reason behind my CD and iPod collection lmao

    • @segasaturn53
      @segasaturn53 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He's the reason I have my iPod Classic 7th Gen

    • @cosmic7234
      @cosmic7234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was never old enough to have one but was cognizant when they were big, and dankpods content convinced me to grab one and gotta say I like it a lot. Mans like a gateway to weird hobbies

  • @sullygroot924
    @sullygroot924 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    My room mate is so addicted to her phone she won't let anyone else touch it. I suggested sitting down for dinner with no phones to just talk and she was like "I don't see why, we have nothing to talk about" and while we were all laughing and having a great time she was on her phone, headphones in, ignoring everyone else. I was homeless for years and figured out I didn't need my smartphone to get through it. And I was addicted before I was homeless. I literally only use my smartphone to talk to my girlfriend, work stuff, TH-cam and one game. That's it. It isn't a necessity.

    • @bloomallcaps
      @bloomallcaps ปีที่แล้ว +25

      And then everyone clapped 💀

    • @michaelcorcoran8768
      @michaelcorcoran8768 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah although these days it's often the only Computing device people own. If you own a modern Flagship phone, it probably has more processing power than the laptop you are using a few years ago.

    • @GlorifiedGremlin
      @GlorifiedGremlin ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I got the same snap to reality as a teenager when I was so bad I'd have my phone taken for months at a time lol It completely broke me of my dependence and made me very aware of how dependent everyone ELSE is

    • @Saroku1000
      @Saroku1000 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@GlorifiedGremlin Just like how everyone is dependend on water taps even though we could just use a bucket to take water from a nearby river. Or how everyone is dependend on farmers growing cattle for us instead of doing it ourselfes. We are depended on it to have that level of convenience. We could do all those things alone, but why bother when we as a human species have found ways to make that process easier.

    • @GlorifiedGremlin
      @GlorifiedGremlin ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@Saroku1000 That is such a terribly false equivalence I dont even know where to start lmao For one, running water doesnt manipulate the neurotransmitters in our brain and cause addiction

  • @harriehausenman8623
    @harriehausenman8623 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    *Reject Convenience*
    These words just keep ringing in my head (in a positive way). Might become the mantra for the year.

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love that I was able to inspire! Just remember that all things in moderation. Some conveniences are good, and some are bad. Just being mindful about your choices will make a massive difference! :)

    • @harriehausenman8623
      @harriehausenman8623 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rejectconvenience It goes much further for me than just smartphones: Food, transportation, entertainment in general,… all these things seem to be better, if effort is needed.

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree, I've been doing a TON of gardening lately for this reason

  • @NOTRIPFORTHEHIVE
    @NOTRIPFORTHEHIVE ปีที่แล้ว +207

    As someone who spent their teen years in the 00's and has never really had a cellphone (I have landline service still), I found this kind of validating.

    • @edwardbell8771
      @edwardbell8771 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here

    • @toomanyinterests
      @toomanyinterests ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Spent my teen years in the 2nd half of the 2010's and so far have never had a mobile. I have to get one for work now though, so I'm going to get the cheapest, most basic one I can find and only have it on me when I need it. Telephones in general annoy me, mobile phones more so. I have this crazy idea to make a rotary dial mobile in a linesman test phone style, but I don't have the knowledge to do that, yet.

    • @sublime90
      @sublime90 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same. hell i didnt even get a cell phone until i was 28

    • @toomanyinterests
      @toomanyinterests 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's funny, I got a phone for work because they said I 'needed' one, but now I can't even remember the last time I used it. So much for 'needing' it.

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I was born in 99, never got a smartphone until I was 16, and we had a landline for a long time in my house. I'm glad I didnt get a smartphone really early in my life

  • @Tytheband
    @Tytheband ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Great video. After 12 years of smart phones and being an early adopter of the original iPhone the day it came out, I went to a regular flip phone for one year in 2020. It was awesome. I offloaded calendars, tasks and all work apps to a simple notebook that has a handwritten calendar, and bullet journal for tasks and notes/inspiration for writing songs.
    Moving all my productivity apps to a notebook helped me get out of $40k in debt, make more money in my web design biz, and record an album. I went back to an iPhone a year later but I don’t know why, and hardly use the apps on it other than maps, TH-cam and other non-essential things. I’m about to go back to the flip for good this month.
    I highly recommend this if you feel like you are wasting away your life, or even if you want to put your smart phone in a drawer and try a fun experiment for a few months.

    • @the_mariocrafter
      @the_mariocrafter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which flip phone?

    • @Tytheband
      @Tytheband 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@the_mariocrafter I did a generic $50 granny flip phone in 2020 and for the past year I have been using the 'Light Phone 2' which is just a "nicer" flip phone

  • @polishtimmy505
    @polishtimmy505 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I did a simmilar thing with a smartwatch, I could still make phone calls, listen to music, respond to text messages and even play games, but I wasn't doing those things as much as without the watch. I basically went from playing games on every class in school, to being myself and actually listening to the teachers, which was a great feeling.

    • @demp11
      @demp11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Using a smart watch to look less on the phone or whats the idea? Because when I got my first true SmartWatch I almost instantly deactivated notification because it stressed me out so much

    • @ThuggyMacho
      @ThuggyMacho ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s your phone screen time?

    • @CrayonConoisseur
      @CrayonConoisseur ปีที่แล้ว

      I disabled notifications on my smartwatch. I mainly use it for fitness like the step counter and exercise tracker. Otherwise I regular watch is just as useful!

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@demp11 I have an iPhone and smart watch, I keep the notifications on the watch as strict as I do on the phone, basically only direct communications with me and reminders that I myself set. I also use it to track my movement thorughout the day to encourage me to move more

  • @shigutso
    @shigutso ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Many countries unfortunately rely on specific messaging apps to communicate, like Whatsapp and Telegram, so a dumb phone/feature phone will probably not have access to these apps. I know in Japan, where LINE is used by everyone for messaging, is available on feature phones and many people there still use flip phones. That's not the case for many other countries, though... for places where SMS is still used, like North America, downgrading to a dumb phone won't make you totally unreachable.

    • @lihtan
      @lihtan ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rejectconvenience I was setting VoIP service a while back for myself and had to contend with somehow running an Android app, while not having any working Android devices. What I did, was I ran the app on an emulator with my laptop.

    • @raidev_
      @raidev_ ปีที่แล้ว +30

      something you could do is get a smaller smartphone and delete all of the destructing stuff while still having access to everything necessary

    • @Sacto1654
      @Sacto1654 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There's also the issue that cellphone carriers are starting to turn off CDMA and GSM digital cellular in favor of all LTE service using Voice over LTE (VoLTE). That means you need a feature phone that supports VoLTE, and they're not exactly cheap.

    • @Justin-xi6ue
      @Justin-xi6ue ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m in NA so I don’t have that problem, but my solution when I was trying to detox was to “make” myself a dumb phone. I was an Android user with the latest flagship phone from LG at the time, the V20. Couple years passed though and I found myself thinking about trying iPhone, and wanting to simplify my usage by force. Everyone else’s solution was buying old flip phones, but for me I still relied on some apps. So instead my answer was to buy myself a 4GB model iPhone 5C, and just use the parental restrictions to block everything that I didn’t want. I put in a random passcode while trying to not look so I couldn’t as easily reset these restrictions as well. Ideally you’ll want someone else to do this for you in case you want to get back on, but I think newer iPhones have solved this a bit more by requiring an email confirmation to reset it. Basically it’s slightly simpler to reset now, but also not completely straightforward. So yeah imo this is easily the best option for anyone feeling like their smartphone has begun to cause them stress, but also still need certain apps to go on about your day. Sadly I’m not sure how feasible it is anymore to use a 5C in 2023, but it was kinda fun actually trying to manage the storage on that thing to suit my daily needs lol. Makes me kinda wish they would start making an official modern minimalistic phone, similar to my previous setup. Sadly I can’t really see this happening though when phones are still getting bigger, and the Mini iPhone was discontinued. People insist on their phones being massive, and for it to do everything imaginable. People just don’t seem to realize though that separating things to it’s own task or category helps to stay organized, and actually can be more efficient. Like heck if I wanted a bigger phone to watch things with, why not just get a tablet like the iPad or iPad Mini?

    •  ปีที่แล้ว

      One way is to tell people to use the app X or SMS/Call you. Some people that you want to be in contact with might not to this thou.

  • @NOVAScOoT
    @NOVAScOoT ปีที่แล้ว +118

    When I was in a mental hospital the reason they gave me for not allowing phones was patient privacy. Its very easy to record something someone isnt okay with or knows about you recording in that type of environment with a smartphone, even accidentally, and doing so is punishable by a fine of up to $50,000 and 1 year in prison. Even if you don't record anything yourself there's a chance anyone you contact could, or anything you say about your experience to someone involving someone else could be considered disclosure of private health information.

    • @guessundheit6494
      @guessundheit6494 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where I live, there are phones that have only SIM cards, no cameras, no recording devices, no memory card slots, made for those in the military or working in science parks to avoid industrial espionage. All you can do is make calls or do text messaging. I suspect even those phones wouldn't be allowed in a hospital.

    • @SuperFlashDriver
      @SuperFlashDriver ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@guessundheit6494 Unfortunately you can't really do calling because it interferes with the frequency technology used for patients with heart beat monitors, surgery implanted organs, etc. Hence why they tell you you're not allowed to call there because of signal interference with their equipment. Texting is fine, just not calling or recording.

    • @guessundheit6494
      @guessundheit6494 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SuperFlashDriver I was thinking more about doctors controlling the patient's focus on wellness, preventing potentially harmful external input. I knew someone who spent a month in a hospital for $u|c|de ideation. The doctors wouldn't even allow me to give her puzzle magazines to alleviate boredom.

    • @SuperFlashDriver
      @SuperFlashDriver ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guessundheit6494 Interesting. This is what I thought of when it comes to no cell phones, but I guess they have a different meaning to it than what I expected.

  • @LoftyAssertions
    @LoftyAssertions ปีที่แล้ว +10

    8:15 thank you so much, I had a 3 year long depression and suicidal streak when I could no longer afford to be a musician, I also lost a friend directly because of it who was a sublime soul, musician and a genuine humanitarian who traveled to provide medical aid as well as hope and joy with music to war ridden countries, when he couldn't afford it anymore due to streaming and people unwilling to support him just by buying his music, he wrote about it, and then left us all.
    Even back when people mostly stole my music, the few that bought it meant I could get food. Streaming destroyed that. Bandcamp is a truly giving service to us. I don't think people really understand what their actions do to the human behind the work, there's a disconnect there.
    As a side benefit, the limitations of only having some music, instead of all of it makes you appreciate what you have much more, no longer skimming through but appreciating the flaws of what you have, having more unique experiences because of it.

  • @thepolice9594
    @thepolice9594 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I realized how much I rely on my phone for everything sometime around when this video was released. I didn't watch this video until today, funnily enough. I didn't get a feature phone but I did uninstall social media and started leaving my phone at home whenever I could. I would completely agree that I experienced the same positive effects such as "being more in the moment" and "embracing boredom." The novelty has worn off, but the effects still remain. I do carry my phone around me more often nowadays, however I'm not on it constantly binging social media; it's more of a tool.
    No, nobody needs a smartphone. Everything a smartphone does, there is already a tool that does it (and is most likely better at it). Own a GPS for travel, mp3 player for music, desktop for internet usage, cash/card for purchases, and a feature phone for calls and texts. Each thing has one purpose. There is merit to sacrificing convenience for intentionality.

  • @daughterofsekhmet81
    @daughterofsekhmet81 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I LOVE the trend of young people switching to dumbphones. I have various reasons for sticking with a smartphone but I love seeing the youths appreciate the kind of phones I grew up on. I'm in my 40s now and I've noticed a HUGE difference in the way I use smartphones now from the way I used them in my 20s though(back in the glory days of Sidekicks and PalmOS, holy crap I'm old). I used to be on it all day long and once social media became a thing, my smartphone became a funnel to cram as much facebook & instagram into my brain as possible. This was before the addictive algorithms, but I still got heavily addicted. It was bad, I couldn't go more than an hour without checking it and I constantly had chats going. My anxiety was through the roof, if people didn't reply fast enough or my posts didn't get enough "likes" I felt awful. There was also the pressure for ME to keep replying and liking, even if I didn't want to. There are so many more socials now and with all the bullying and algorithms, I can't imagine how much that anxiety must be multiplied in teens & twenty-somethings today. Its no wonder mental illness is at an all time high in young people.
    I quit social media a few years ago partly because I just got tired of it and partly because I got sick of Zuckerberg making the user experience worse, and that was the key to turning my smartphone from an addiction/source of anxiety to just a tool that plays media and helps organize my life. I no longer feel anxious every time I pick it up b/c I know there won't be a bunch of messages I have to respond to or pressure to get online and put on an act for a bunch of other people.

    • @Alexieltsto7
      @Alexieltsto7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I had the same thoughts and anxiety as yours, but i Can't explain so clearly. Thanks for sharing.❤

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I never really had social media early on as a kid and as a high schooler. My first social media account (if we aren't counting YT) is Snapchat that I used to chat with high school friends. I did eventually get more accounts like Reddit, Instagram, Facebook, etc; and I used to doom scroll those quite often. I have since deleted those apps from my phone and my screentime has gone down dramatically though I admit that I did too much YT content consumption on the vacations I had last year which made me do less in the places I vacationed to. Next vacation I take I will make sure to not have access to YT videos and doomscrolling so I am more inclined to do things.

  • @luciolencer-do6bc
    @luciolencer-do6bc ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I've missed very chill, creative and informative videos like this, you should do more!

  • @zumuvtuber
    @zumuvtuber ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I've been considering this for quite a while too.
    On a side note, I think there might be a correlation between phones becoming more addicting and phones becoming bigger each year, both influencing each other. More addiction leads to consumers wanting bigger and better screens and bigger batteries. Bigger screens and bigger batteries lead to more addiction.

    • @_sandy_
      @_sandy_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

      not only that, algorithms in various social media apps are only getting worse as AI is coming in and making super addicting algorithms for them

    • @WiiUniverse
      @WiiUniverse ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg I think you might be right. When I was using a relatives old iPhone SE 2016 after the phone I had broke I wasn't using it as much as the other larger phones I've had. Probably a combination of the 4" screen and 2 hour battery life from never having the battery replaced. Perhaps I should get it back out as it would be a good middle ground between a smartphone and dumbphone

  • @michelleadams5609
    @michelleadams5609 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I grew up in the 90s without a cell phone. Makes me sad that I can't go to concerts anymore without people being on their phones, not enjoying the moment. I have no social media, professionally its such a bad idea. My last phone i bought was 4 years ago. I have no interest in getting the latest. It's a bit juvenile. 😂 great video! Thought provoking. I'm concerned about the radiation overall though.

    • @michelleadams5609
      @michelleadams5609 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Btw, the channel Darko audio has gotten me obsessed with Cds again. I love it!

    • @joshuajohnson3296
      @joshuajohnson3296 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Every young people is constantly radiating their gonads with phones in their pockets. It will be amazing if anyone can bear children in 20 years

    • @AL-jg4pr
      @AL-jg4pr ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Though it has been helpful to see recordings of the events that otherwise wouldn't have been recorded.

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I went to two metal concerts in the past 2 years and I admit I did take some videos of the shows. The first one I have a bunch of videos of (none of which I actually rewatch) and the second one I have fewer recordings of (none of which I actually rewatch), and nor do I really even think about these recordings in my day to day life. Next concert I would probably just take a few photos of the stage and set, maybe a few of the performers and just live in the moment.

  • @maggieafr75
    @maggieafr75 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have thought of switching to a dumb phone. I was a young adult in the 90s and many things were different. I could argue with someone and not feel insulted/betrayed, I could just stare into space for minutes, and so on. Thank you for your input and insight into this, I am giving serious thought to switching!

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was born in 99 and I have entertained the thought of going to a feature phone as a daily, though I chat with my closest friends on Discord so Id like to use that if possible

  • @FPVboxer-Ben
    @FPVboxer-Ben 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for sharing about your mental health recovery journey, this hits home for me.

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hope your journey is going well

  • @Catbattle
    @Catbattle ปีที่แล้ว +18

    For GPS and getting around town, I can recommend getting a dedicated GPS handheld and having it in the car. They're relatively cheap these days (especially compared to smartphones), have some nice bells and whistles, and only really need map updates to function properly, which most still regularly get.

  • @MrHealingartist
    @MrHealingartist ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My utilitarian approach to social media: people move, numbers change, and friendships are priceless to me. I only spend a couple of minutes responding to messages about plans for getting together to catch up or to quickly scroll if there is trending news I might miss elsewhere, or maybe something humorous brightens my day. That dosage has felt just right and I would encourage people to not suck hours into social media. If there is one thing I might need to do less of, it might be the need to shut myself off of current events, because the world can be depressing sometimes.
    I'm glad you found something good for yourself.
    I appreciate you doing this video to raise awareness on the impact of smart devices on mental and social health. Too much of just about anything tends to become a bad thing. Excess is a threat.

  • @jayman8001
    @jayman8001 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I picked up the light phone 2 a couple of months ago. Great phone. I learned the importance of separation and now use things with more intention. It has definitely helped me worry less and focus on the essentials.

  • @tiptapkey
    @tiptapkey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the concept of disconnecting, and I love that you're out there making people think about it. I rarely look at my phone these days unless it's for music or texting, and it's been wonderful to shut all that noise down. Personally for me, I think deleting apps and working on self-discipline was better than just sending myself back to 2005. Imo it's a really good life lesson to know you can but still refuse to do it because it's not enriching to your soul. It's a skill we all need to work on these days, I think. It took me quite a while to learn how to stop going back to that sweet, sweet dopamine.

  • @neurodivercyndi
    @neurodivercyndi ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have a Light Phone II and a ipod Classic. Never have owned a smartphone. Good to see there are more of us out there!

  • @amuselucky
    @amuselucky ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It’s really good to become mindful of why you’re doing things and what all of your options really are. The past few years I’ve followed this similar path but by dumbing down my smart phone and always re evaluating the foundational mindset of what consistently supports me and serves me positively.

  • @4ohf
    @4ohf ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really good video. I love the presenting style. That your not selling us a magical solution buy just telling your story and what worked. Its a breath of fresh air with all the typical YT content.

  • @Fierrosporcelular
    @Fierrosporcelular หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not planning on follow your same path but enjoyed a lot the video. Glad you are feeling better now. And thx for sharing your experience with others who might need or want help on this subject.

  • @ahmad92760
    @ahmad92760 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't pretend to understand how you feel. But I'm very glad that you were able work your way to happiness through this lifestyle. All the best!

  • @ConnorFishcat
    @ConnorFishcat ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is honestly something I've been considering. Ultimately you gave me good alternatives to my biggest concerns; namely music, navigation, and 2FA. I feel I'm already at a good spot with my screen addiction but it wouldn't hurt to go further! The bits about "experiencing the moment" really interested me.

  • @ethangroat8333
    @ethangroat8333 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Well-considered and just totally right. I appreciate your immense respect for your audience as well as sharing your thoughts. I've long felt similarly about smartphones, especially since only two major companies make all the smartphone operating systems, making personal choice in things like how to organize, present, or block notifications rather limited, not to mention user interfaces being unintuitive for users like me who like having maximum control on open source PCs haha!

  • @toddgreyson
    @toddgreyson ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got a Light II a couple weeks ago, and I love it. I feel more free and creative. It works.

    • @7775Kevin
      @7775Kevin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a light phone too. Love it

  • @OdyseeEnjoyer
    @OdyseeEnjoyer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've felt like this for a long time but never got into it hard enough to do research or even take it seriously. Thanks for making such an inspiring video

  • @joshuacrumley2031
    @joshuacrumley2031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is criminally underrated. It's also the first video I've ever seen from you. That makes me believe you are a criminally underrated content creator.

  • @AirisuSG
    @AirisuSG ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Anthony! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and inspiring! I have been struggling with my focus and productivity levels and my phone was the ultimate sadness source by being the biggest enemy in terms of time management. I was planning to switch but I had no idea how to begin. Now I am proud to say that I also follow your footsteps and I cannot be happier. Again, thanks for making this video!

  • @deglecj
    @deglecj ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I got a dumb phone. A Nokia E72. It does all the things I need a basic phone to do. Calls, Texts and if I can get it working, emails. And I basically turned my iPhone to a black and white iPod for music. Honestly, it’s been great. I can concentrate on tasks more, I can get to sleep better because I used to be on my phone till 11 to 1AM. I don’t get lost on my phone, getting those quick dopamine hits on TikTok. I don’t do that anymore.
    This has changed my life forever. I don’t want to switch to my smartphone anymore.

    • @mrlightwriter
      @mrlightwriter ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mexodroid1848 i had a Nokia E72 and it was great. But you're right, it's a smarphone.

    • @jackieburkhart3268
      @jackieburkhart3268 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that phone still works? i wanted a qwerty phone for detoxing my life but couldnt find any. i used a blackberry q10 which had 4g for a year before the buttons and sim slot broke so i had to switch to my brother's hand me down iphone se.
      my end goal is settling with a dumbphone with a qwerty keyboard, which i hope someone will make soon with something like kaios. because in my country, these old nokias just dont work with modern networks. 3g has been retired in most countries anyway.

    • @deglecj
      @deglecj ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mexodroid1848 I don't bother with installing the symbian apps from the web. Too much hassle, even then I really don't care about the apps anyway.

    • @Alomah79
      @Alomah79 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jackieburkhart3268 the company Unihertz make phones with keyboards.

  • @raphhh8805
    @raphhh8805 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been watching many videos on that subject but you, you my friend made the most complete and useful video out of them all. I'm personally going to turn my current iPhone into a dumb/lite phone because lately, social medias have been taking way to much space in my life. I also find myself being a lot more anxious when I spend too much time doomscrolling. Thanks for you video, it helped me, and will probably help a lot of other people!

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am happy to hear it was helpful :) I saw a lot of those "I tried it for 30 days" but those always felt like... a challenge and not a lifestyle change. Nothing wrong with those videos, but they didn't vibe with what I wanted. So I'm glad to know others found this valuable!

  • @tunaplayte
    @tunaplayte หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is an exclellent video! It definitely shows that you are thoughtful about this subject and not just trying to sell or convince people into something, you just make a well rounded and honest case for something we should all be aware of in this day and age, even if we continue using our smart phones. Thanks for the insight!

  • @Leo-sn5jm
    @Leo-sn5jm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude thankyou so much for sharing your hospitalization experiences because I literally had the same exact thought process after some of my own experiences and it’s cool to to know I’m not the only one lol TT

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think it's so relieving to realize you're not the only one - I hope your journey has gone well!

  • @rvkasper
    @rvkasper ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Had similar mental health experiences - believe they called it "adjustment disorder" in the hospital. Yeah - adjusting to awful things happening will do that to you. Vividly remember not having my phone - and looking back you are totally right about it messing with your head :) Great video

  • @zekemoore7844
    @zekemoore7844 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I feel like this issue may hit harder for people who were well off enough to afford new technology. Freshman year I bought my first Alcatel smartphone, but could only use apps connected to Wi-Fi. We were ripping TH-cam Mp3 files to have something to listen to on the bus. 😭

    • @GoobieMienette
      @GoobieMienette 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do you rip TH-cam mp3 files and put them in an iPod?

  • @no-lifenoah7861
    @no-lifenoah7861 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I rediscovered my old MP3 player a while back and I've gotta say, having to go and tag my songs with MP3Tag manually makes me appreciate the art a lot more.

    • @mal0gen
      @mal0gen ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely. It made me even go look for the artists and more of their works!

    • @iPlayOnSpica
      @iPlayOnSpica ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A fellow MP3tag user!
      But I personally prefer flacs wherever possible since today's storage has the luxury of space that MP3 players didn't have. I also extract files as wav, which is also lossless (and I convert those to flac)

    • @justinnaramor6050
      @justinnaramor6050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iPlayOnSpica Sorry if this reply gets very long, but I'm pretty sure there are, thankfully, "MP3 players" that can also play WAV/FLAC/whatever lossless format you choose. Which is a good thing. Unfortunately my specific music player (I rather call it that instead of just "MP3 player") only accepts up to 32 GB SD cards which really isn't enough for having a really large amount of WAV/FLAC/whatever lossless format. Yeah, you could say this player is a little "outdated" in that way, which I would agree with.
      It's important to note, though, that the specific player I use is pretty unique from anything else, in that it is specifically designed for people who are blind/visually impaired, and I fit into that category. What I mean is, when you navigate your songs or the built in settings/menues/whatever, it uses built-in speech to tell you what's going on. And all you have to do is press buttons and then simply listen to the speech output that's presented to you. So there's no screen in sight, at all. So because it's specifically built in this way from the very beginning, there's no need to install the speech synthesizer or anything of that nature. So... it is *built* for the blind. There's no issue of a screen reader having trouble reading graphics, like there could be with any screen reader like the one that comes with IPhones. That's because there are no graphics on this device, and as such, no screen whatsoever.
      Would eventually love to see something newer that's like this, a more 'modern' version that keeps up with the newer tech in digital audio recording/playback (allowance for much larger SD cards, the ability to play FLAC/WAV/whatever uncompressed audio without worry of not having enough space), because this device is certainly 'outdated' by todays audio standards. I mean, mp3 files can certainly sound quite good (so long as you set the bitrate correctly upon recording/downloading/whatever), but uncompressed audio has the advantage of insuring that you get the proper sound quality (because there is no compression to speak of, hence the term 'uncompressed'). So with that in mind, it would be still nice to see a newer product, a standalone music player specifically designed for blind people (or just anyone else who doesn't want to stare at a screen), that you would operate by simply pressing buttons and simply listening to the speech output that's presented to you, and which supports all kinds of audio (both compressed and uncompressed), and which has plenty of storage space for storing very large amounts of files in even the most uncompressed audio file formats. I do believe there exists a need for something like this. Not everyone should have to do all this music listening and stuff strictly with their smartphone... a standalone player still has very valid reasons to even just exist.
      Oh, and did I forget to mention that this music player device I have can also be used to make your own audio recordings? :))) That's very fun to do. I sometimes record the audio from movies. Or music as well. So if a newer version of this device could just be instructed to record in WAV/FLAC/whatever, you'd get pretty great results I'm sure.
      Anyways, I'm done writing this extremely lengthy comment :))))) and if you'd like to know what this specific device is (what it's called, the company behind it and so on), let me know and I'll post a link or write another comment or something.

    • @AnHebrewChild
      @AnHebrewChild 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justinnaramor6050your comment was a treat to read. Thanks for taking the time to write it. Since you're blind / visually impaired and I'm assuming have used smartphones at some point, I'll take this opportunity to ask a question I've wondered about for some time:
      In your experience with iPhone and Android, how helpful are their accessibility functions? I'm thinking specifically of text to speech, and things like reading out of menus & on screen prompts. What do the manufacturers do well? And in your opinion, what are some areas needing improvement? I ask as I USE many accessibility features purely for convenience' sake but have been amazed at how poorly implemented some are:
      for example, swipe down with two fingers on iPhone reads an entire page of text, however you need to SEE a tiny pop up menu to adjust the read-back speed up or down. To make matters worse, the phone only gives 1/2 speed, 1.5x and 2x speed as alternatives to default read-back (which to my ears anyway, tends to be a little too fast.) What's more, if you want to change the phone's default read-back speed you have to go to settings andmanually drill down into a multi step menu. What's more, the new default speed you finally managed to set, well.... it automatically goes away the first time you click that tiny intermittent pop up menu to switch to 1/2x or 1.5x or 2x (these three speeds are ONLY ever relative to the system's original default playback rate, not your manually systems-selected playback rate. ie 50% readback is always 1/2 the speed of the default readback rate, it is not 50% of your 1x readback speed preference.) "well, then leave it be. Don't ever click on that tiny pop up menu. Simple enough," someone will say. Which might seem reasonable were it not for two other realities:
      1. sometimes you might want to alter the readback rate AND
      2. When the phone powers down, it automatically reverts to the phone's original default readback rate. Yes, you heard that right: after power down, you must manually go into the settings again to change the preferred readback rate. Proving that your smartphone is actually pretty damn dumb.
      That was long winded but it's stuff like this that has me wondering, are some of these smartphones' "accessibility tools" even much help to those who need the help?
      p.s. I've also noticed that many of these tools have only gotten WORSE in implementation over time.
      Thoughts??

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to download a lot of MP3s off of TH-cam growing up, and I kinda still do since coming across Dank Pods and getting a collection of iPods and using some as a daily music player. My first MP3 player was a Trio Clip, sadly the battery is pretty flat these days so I cant use it if I wanted to asdly

  • @Minimaos1
    @Minimaos1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is wholesome. The Idea given at the end, it's the cherry on top, makes it clear that we chose what's best. Lot of youtubers should learn from this.

  • @TomahawksNShotShells
    @TomahawksNShotShells 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    man, the news is cancer and will drive your anxiety through the roof. My anxiety was at a point where I felt I needed professional help. I took a break from social media, stopped doom-scrolling, unistalled a few apps, stopped checking the news, and man it made a MASSIVE difference. I havent made the jump to a feature phone, I got my old iPod and got a ton of books I need to read.

  • @Eurazba
    @Eurazba ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hey! I recently made this switch myself last month, I'd probably have done it sooner, but was waiting for my old smartphone to kick the bucket (It was 7 years old and I wanted to see how long it truly lasted). I had a really bad addiction to social media a few years ago, so I purged all my social media apps from my phone, not having them on me all the time and being confined to only check them when I'm using my computer helped my mental health a lot. And I found that I liked being able to compartmentalize my things, I liked having my music be separate from my phone, and my computer separate from that.
    A smaller bonus I also found is that I don't have to worry about the battery life of my phone as much now. My flip phone will last a good few days on one full charge, even my parents fancy new smart phones only last a day with decent use.

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I deleted social media apps from my phone end of last year and I have seen myself picking it up much less. I also disabled iOS's raise to wake and tap to wake so I have to be very intentional when I turn it on. I also have my notifications settings very strict, like texts from friends and family, discord DMs (cuz that's how I chat with my closest friends), and reminders that I have set because if I don't have a set routine then I sometimes forget to do certain tasks so I have reminders to remind me to do certain things at a certain time of day.

  • @Marcelo.Franzen
    @Marcelo.Franzen ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I liked that you made it clear that smartphones are not bad things and that they are useful for some people. In my case I don't consider it a problem, but I stopped using social networks a few years ago and more recently I don't follow news, I don't even open news aggregators like Google News anymore. These two changes did me a lot of good. I have tried to focus on the trade off of things, because nothing is 100% good or 100% bad. If the benefits outweigh the harms, it might be a good idea.

  • @blueice1364
    @blueice1364 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I get you man. Where I come from, there is no such thing as dealing with mental health issues or any service that helps people having such things. So I had to figure it out myself.
    I found that I was wasting away my life and productivity with staring at social media. It always made me angry or depressed. So I decided to delete my social media accounts as an experiment back in 2021. It was a such a breath of fresh air. I was no longer depressed and had ample time to put into work. It made me not look at my phone 90% of the time.
    Eventually I finished my bachelors and got a software engineering job. Bought a macbook and iphone as I always had an interest in apple products, but I was too broke to buy one before. As a mobile app developer, I found the excuse to buy them, and found that I don't even like them that much. I miss my old headphone jack that I had with my Android phones. I feel like I just wasted 2 grand for nothing. I still go back to my cheap ass Android phone when I'm home to listen to some good music. I wish I could go back to those Nokia XpressMusic days.
    Some of you may think I'm a loner. I'm not. As I'm growing older, I'm just investing more time to myself.

  • @Ghost-hi8rx
    @Ghost-hi8rx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was in a similar situation to you a couple years ago and I switched to a dumb phone for a while. I ended up going back to it once my smartphone got stolen and since I'm on a family plan it's not too expensive for me to keep service on an ipad along with my flip phone, and having access to everything on my phone, but needing to grab a big fragile thing out of my disorganized laptop bag to do it has made a pretty good balance for me. It can find a stationary place in whatever room I plan to spend time in, and I can be connected and stuff, but the price is enough to make me wanna do something else.

  • @calebritywriter
    @calebritywriter 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You and I went on a very similar journey with phones (selection and all). I've been struggling with anxiety and stress for several years, and your frustrations with group chats sounds all too familiar. I've been thinking about "dumbing down" my life quite a bit and this video has helped push me toward that. Needless to say, great video!

  • @NightWink129
    @NightWink129 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A QR code to look at a restaurant menu? I've never heard of something so ridiculous. I've never seen that either, so it doesn't sound common yet. But, either way, that's WAY less convenient than just being handed a brochure menu, or, even more commonly, those laminated booklets.

  • @cheezyfriez12
    @cheezyfriez12 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Personally, I couldn't see myself cutting my smartphone out of my life. It's a great media consumption and utility device for me, and I regularly tinker with root and custom roms to improve the experience and cut out advertisements. Maybe it's just the way I use technology, but I've never really had a problem with my devices like this. It's still cool to see older tech making a niche sort of comeback though. One thing I will say is that you probably could have just bought a used, unlocked flip phone and just kept your current service by transferring the sim card.

    • @nobodynoone2500
      @nobodynoone2500 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you consider "media consumption" a needed feature it's already too late.

    • @cheezyfriez12
      @cheezyfriez12 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nobodynoone2500 Well I don't always have time to sit down in front of the tv and watch a movie, so it's kind of necessary for me lol. I even invested in a blu ray drive for my laptop so I could have a portable way to watch my HD movies.

    • @Honza135
      @Honza135 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Europe, the service doesn't force you to their devices that they offer on the store. If you want just their service, they give you a SIM card, and that's it. You could buy your phone by yourself, just whatetever brick is it. I can't imagine that this free choice was gone here, I really like Sony's phones.

  • @radanju3
    @radanju3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    BRO, NO WAY. The fact of the matter is I've been already applying most of these healthy habits before you mentioned them in this video, makes me feel that I'm not alone. Thank you SO INCREDIBLY MUCH for making this video I can relate so much to! TH-cam has been taking down a lot of tracks in my music playlist for no reason, so I've started the effort of either downloading them individually with the intent of supporting the artist later on in Beatport/Bandcamp. I'm also trying to get a dumb phone myself even though I'd rather keep my smartphone for bare essential things (since I already do have two phone numbers after all). I'm highly considering the Sunbeam Daisy flip phone as it's super basic like any basic flip phone with voice to text capabilities. I stopped using social media anymore, so I'll only ever go on it once in a blue moon if someone wants to show me something on my desktop. This video is incredible!

    • @radanju3
      @radanju3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also I know my way around not going to foreign places too often, so in case I ever get lost I pay attention to the nearest interstate/highway junction number and direction and go there instead.

  • @vyrous1318
    @vyrous1318 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the thoughtful and kind words. Much appreciated

  • @rubykw5
    @rubykw5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This comment is bound to get lost but I just have to say this video was made so beautifully. You executed the explanations so perfectly, and in a simple way so I could understand and keep up without feeling like you were talking down to me lol! Oh and you providing all the links?? Bless you

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks for the comment :)

  • @gallustheblenderer4515
    @gallustheblenderer4515 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Anthony, I want to extend my sincerest gratitude for you sharing this video!
    Even though I'm currently in College, I'm a remote student. However, I'm driving more and will be on campus in a few months. Because of this, I've been facing the fact that I will need some communications device shortly (I've never owned a phone thus far). I dreaded the idea of a smartphone but thought I had no other option. Also, being an avid hiker, I've been considering getting a satellite phone, but having two expensive devices seems wrong.
    Anyway, all that being said, your video made me reconsider many things. I'm still unsure what to do, but in either case, you inspired me and opened my mind. This video was remarkable in more ways than I can count! Keep being awesome!
    A couple side notes... I didn't know you were also a Dankpods fan!!!! And do you seriously have Meze headphones? They seem amazing. Oh, and I strongly relate to everything you said about wired headphones! They are incredibly underrated, and I have no intention of ever switching to wireless.

    • @toussaintlouverture9666
      @toussaintlouverture9666 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rejectconvenience all these videos are hilarious at best. People created their own addiction and blame it on their smartphones.
      I've been using smartphones without social media and I couldn't be more happier. Sometimes being an anti social person who don't give a rat ass about others validation really does help
      I don't need all these fancy shenanigans like 4k video, telephoto lens, amoled screen, NFC, wireless charging.......as long as the phone has Bluetooth A2DP, a 6.5 inch IPS display, a memory card slot, a web browser, WiFi, that's enough for me

  • @lanzelet7386
    @lanzelet7386 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A simple thing I started doing that helps is, if you carry a bag, never put your phone in your pocket. If I'm out and about with friends I won't take out my phone without a reason because it's less convenient to do so. Works even better if you have a backpack. Also means I dont have to take my phone out of my back pocket in order to sit down, thus leaving it off the table at restaurants (ah, girl jeans).
    I also love my iPod and I have IEM headphones with a bluetooth receiver. The case is so big I keep a wire in it as well so I can use them with my iPod or when the battery dies.

  • @frauleinfunf
    @frauleinfunf ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been considering not giving up my smartphone completely, but buying a dumb phone to swap my SIM card in for places where I don’t want to use my phone all that much (ie work). I figure making my phone a fun little treat for the weekends will help out a lot.

  • @orindamn4475
    @orindamn4475 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh the right video at the right time. My phone speaker had died a couple of weeks back and the phone cost me a lot. I was heart broken and didn't wanna spend big on fixing it or getting a newer costly phone. I was looking to make my life simple again without have to let go off 2 factor authentication. But you have given me hope. I am gonna get a feature phone and use this broken phone as my stay at home device. Thank you.

  • @Musicman435
    @Musicman435 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just bought a Unihertz Titan Pocket to mainly use as a travel/business phone. I currently have a Samsung Galaxy Flip5 as my daily driver. The moment I hit checkout on the Titan, it got me thinking. I’m on my phone way too much and I feel like the Titan would be the perfect blend between a smartphone and a dumb phone. I can still access my Spotify and navigation, and occasionally check social media. The Titan pocket in particular has a small-ish screen meaning it’s almost impossible to read one instagram or Facebook post, which is PERFECT for what I want in a phone. It will reduce my urge to scroll through my phone even though I still have that smartphone experience. Plus it has a physical QWERTY keyboard which is pretty cool as well! The phone arrives in 5-10 days. Cannot wait any longer!!

  • @gopro2027
    @gopro2027 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Back in highschool I was very not addicted to my smartphone (I graduated in 2017 so it's not like smartphones weren't around then either) and in the past few years I have become very attached to my phone. I was slow at purchasing phones and I'm only on my 5 phone since my first one in 2011, but currently with the z flip 3 the screen has gone bad and I'm fed up with it. I could pay no less than $100 to get it fixed but honestly it's time to go back to the simpler times.

  • @Skateboard_
    @Skateboard_ ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I don't have a dumb phone, but what I did do that I noticed made a big difference was deleting social media and deleting web browsers from my phone. If you have an iPhone you can use screen time to block the use of Safari, since you can't delete that from your iPhone. I deleted all apps except for navigation, music and messaging. When I want to use the internet, I only allow myself to use it on my computer.
    These minor changes have made a huge impact in my life. can't recommend it enough.

    • @FU-FL
      @FU-FL ปีที่แล้ว

      I think this is a great strategy. I had similar emotions but didn't want to lose a lot of other conveniences in my life and deleting reddit, Twitter etc. From my phone definitely helped me be less anxious and live in the moment more. Ultimately whatever works for you but it doesn't have to be one or the other, even small steps like removing social media from your bookmarks can help.

  • @Saroku1000
    @Saroku1000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think rejecting comfort is way more effective to live a happier life than rejecting convenience. Going out to run while its raining outside, doing things regardless if they are outside your comfort zone will in the long term make you live a happier life.

  • @KlayExterior
    @KlayExterior ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My job requires me to have an smart phone to get connected to my VPN you have to authorize that through the app

  • @Love-eg2vf
    @Love-eg2vf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since my child was 3-4 years old (6 now) I have done everything to try and model the concept of my phone being unimportant and not essential. I noticed that many young kids believe and act as if the phone is more important than water, likely modeled by their parents. I did not want my child growing up like that. I bought a GPS for my car (doubles as a dash cam and works without internet), bought a watch, bought a real camera, and changed all my habits. I’ve maintained an average of 1-2h screen time since then, mostly calls. I always have the phone away from me when we’re together, and use it to call and take the occasional picture. Recently my child asked me what time it is and where my watch was, and I know my efforts have paid off. It’s been challenging, but it’s had an amazing effect on both of our lives. The absolute best thing I implemented that had a massive snowball effect was implementing a rule that I would not look up random thoughts or questions that popped into my mind. If I was still curious about whatever it was, I would wait until after bedtime in the evening, and go look it up on my laptop (like we used to do not that long ago). This was inspired by research about wonder and curiosity leading to better creativity, and how many of us don’t allow our minds to wonder anymore. The main motivation however was not modeling the “google everything” thing to my child. 99% of the time, when I’d open my laptop in the evening to check my emails (another one of my rules, no email on phone, check it once a day), I’d remember wanting to look something up earlier and could almost never remember what it was because it just wasn’t important at all. This one thing had a massive effect on both of our lives. Not only does it drastically cut down on your screen time (think of how much screen time starts with picking up your phone to google something random), you realize how unimportant most of it is and how much time we waste. It totally transformed my habits (along with a few other small changes) and now 2-3 years later, I usually just sit quietly when waiting somewhere and have zero desire to take my phone out. I can sit for hours without doing anything. My mental and spiritual health has transformed. My likes/dislikes, everything. I really only use it as a tool for communication, actually important pictures, and the occasional googling of something that is actually important (need to look up an address or phone number of a business, etc).

  • @bruce-le-smith
    @bruce-le-smith ปีที่แล้ว +4

    good video. i had a mobile phone for one year back in 2004 and it wasnt for me. a large part is the extremely high monthly cost where i live, but its also nice to have your walking and driving time to yourself and not worry about being in communications contact constantly. i tried fbook for a couple of weeks in 2006 and decided that wasnt for me either. the world doesnt end, its actually quite relaxing. i loved insta when it first came out but then the fbook culture took over and i stopped that too. i usually have an ipad mini or ipod touch and just check free wifi, its as close as the next fast food or coffee shop or mall. do people think im eccentric? yep. do i feel more at peace? yep.

  • @madrox1989
    @madrox1989 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I generally love being away from the smartphone. For the longest time I would leave my phone in my car during work (most times unintentionally, but it never bothered me). MFA however changed that and forces me to be chained to it just for that.
    One thing you mentioned in passing was "stay away from news". This is by far one of the best things you can do to immediately improve your wellbeing. This includes TH-cam/TikTok/Social Media creators/outlets/groups/pages. It's all hyper sensational carefully crafted to evoke emotions, and that is extremely taxing on the mind. You'll end up happier with more headspace for things that matter.
    A discipline I like to practice in public is avoid bringing out the phone. Waiting in a boring line is tough, so I read a sign a million times, people watch, and eventually daydream. Keeping a journal for those occasions sounds fun!

  • @dtomvan
    @dtomvan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. I love how you, unlike all of the others on social media who are trying to tell you exactly what to do to win at life, don't force anything upon the audience, but instead just suggest us to be mindful about your phone. That said, I am using a phone right now to kill some time, oh the irony! As for the GPS point you made, you don't need to look at maps in order to travel. You can probably replace your google maps with a cheap-ish device from Garmin for your car...

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for calling that out :) I don't like being told what to do, why should I expect my audience to feel differently? Also great tip with the standalone GPS units. I totally forgot about those while making this video!

  • @RebeccaKelley91
    @RebeccaKelley91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just brought a flip phone through straight talk and I getting a good iPod soon thanks for this video I wish made more videos like where you downloaded your music 😁

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awesome! I get most of my music from iTunes, Bandcamp, or used CDs. Sometimes if it’s impossible to buy, I sail the seven seas if you catch my drift

  • @eugenetswong
    @eugenetswong ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi. I use an Nokia 3310, which is a "reboot" of an older 3310 model. I like it.
    It's not well designed compared to modern rebooted phones, but it serves me very well.
    A lot of phones do a great job of playing music. There was an old Sony Ericsson flip-phone that I miss a lot. It was so user friendly.

    • @axethepenguin
      @axethepenguin ปีที่แล้ว

      @lordinquisitorshadowlord410no the new 3310 is just cheap plastic

  • @ToaOnichu
    @ToaOnichu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was practically forced to buy a smart phone after my family ditched Verizon (where we all had dumb phones) about a year ago and my brother recommended I switch to Mint. I adjusted to using my smart phone faster than I expected, thankfully, which was probably helped by the fact that the one I got (an iPhone 6s) has a physical main button; plus, I'm able to customize settings and delete apps to make things less overwhelming. I still feel lost when someone else hands me their smart phone to do some quick thing.
    For the most part, I still use my laptop for the fancier stuff. All I use my smart phone for are calls, texting, alarms, photos, keeping a small number of notes, reading QR codes, paying for laundry, keeping track of the weather, and doing certain church-related things. Oh, and I had to use it to set up my new router. It's a bit more than I used my dumb phone for (which I couldn't get to connect to the internet despite it supposedly having the ability), but it's still not much, and I am perfectly happy to keep it that way.

  • @bravestarr19
    @bravestarr19 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't think it is a coincidence that the moment you give up your smartphone for a flip phone that you feel better. Not having technology constantly at your fingertips gives your brain time to REST. I bought a flip phone last night and I am very excited for it to get here. It is freedom and disconnection from the matrix

  • @Sy-lc7he
    @Sy-lc7he 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video is such a blessing. thank you man!

  • @iainlaurence
    @iainlaurence หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've done some soft de-phoning steps the past few months, such as leaving my phone away from my nightstand while I sleep, and it's made a positive difference for my sleep habits! Bought a cheap alarm clock to replace the alarm function on my phone in the morning. One thing I also did was schedule do-not-disturb when I'm supposed to be sleeping so I'm not tempted to read social media apps then.

  • @filipavram1889
    @filipavram1889 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First time seeing your content and i can totally agree with your point. I tried detaching from my phone as much as possible and now i only use it for calling people, texting and listening to music and i can approve, anxiety went away magically. I used to struggle a lot with anxiety but now i learned to enjoy real stuff such as reading, enjoying walks, pretty much simple stuff and everything is way better than before. I feel more connected to reality and i really think everybody should try this, if you can’t detach entirely it’s fine, but you can clearly cut some functionality from your phone and use it as a dumb phone and it is going to make a big difference. Well done!

    • @itsdokko2990
      @itsdokko2990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      when i did that years ago, i felt a weight on my chest was removed, the air feels different. in my opinion, it feels awesome to let your mind drift without those kind of distractions.
      As for me, i'm gonna start looking for some music players to go back to the old days of me actively looking for songs

    • @filipavram1889
      @filipavram1889 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsdokko2990 True! I can relate!

  • @Galafador
    @Galafador ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for telling your experience without a smartphone! I've been considering it for a while....
    as for me, this past year what I've done is I stopped using social media and blocked all notifications except for calls. just that and it helps TREMENDOUSLY in my everyday life. less anxiety, feels more grounded to life, etc. my average screen-on time went down from >6 hours/day to around 1.5 hours/day now.

  • @adhyaksh134
    @adhyaksh134 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As an additional tip, you can get IEMs that have replaceable cables and have much cleaner audio quality than what a pair of Apple's earpods can offer at the same price. Something like the Salnotes 7hz Zero or the CCA CRA or the Truthear Holas are all great IEMs (all around $20 USD), with some coming with different ear tips that can fit into your ears correctly and can last you a long time if you take care of it.

    • @theblindsniper
      @theblindsniper ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To add to this, I’ve been using the same AudioTechnica IEMs for the past 6 years and they still sound great - just a good cleaning once in a while and maybe some replacement tips sometimes and everything is set!

    • @mikesmith2905
      @mikesmith2905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For comfort I use the Sony folding headphones (wired), the actual phones are angled slightly so they don't crush your ears like just about every other set I have tried. I have a 10 year old set in my briefcase, the coating on the ear pads is starting to degrade but my sister is making me a set of covers from a linen handkerchief, so with any luck they will last another 10, at a total cost of 50c/year.

    • @mikesmith2905
      @mikesmith2905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PS they also have a mic and the 3mm jack fits my dect home phone, so I can cook a meal whilst chatting on that with the phone in my breast pocket.

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I use KBear KS2's, I love them

  • @namisan-lc2ku
    @namisan-lc2ku 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the first yt video which I neither skipped nor listened at 2x. Love this video. I appreciate the good work u did. Stay healthy. Thanks to those who took the time to read this comment. Hehe😅

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad you found value in watching it :) stay healthy too!

    • @namisan-lc2ku
      @namisan-lc2ku 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rejectconvenience thanks, I am thinking of stopping the use of smartphone for a week and see what it feels like to live without technology in the modern day.

  • @BoopTheSynth
    @BoopTheSynth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think I just use my phone in a healthier way than I used to and thats good enough for me. if its making me angry or upset there are ways to get rid of it, ad blockers and the block button are great on everything. API free social media clients are great if you find yourself tempted to argue with people about things because it takes away that option. I bought a kindle paperwhite to read manga before bed instead of scrolling tiktok and thats great.

  • @whosonedphone
    @whosonedphone ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had a similar realization recently. Verizon canceled my service because they incorrectly thought that my LG V20 didn't support VoLTE. I was very angry for the first 24 hours. After waiting 4 days for my T-Mobile SIM card to arrive. I started to reassess how I felt about the smart phone. During my down time I had the same thought, if I had my book with me this would be great.
    I'm a die-hard LG V20 fanatic. It's my first and last smartphone. If I'm going to invest $500 in something I intend to keep it for life!
    As an audiophile the headphone out sounds unbelievable for computer audio on some V20 variants. Granted the software is properly modified. I'd love to get the chance to compare it to all your iPods.
    All modern phones are a downgrade. They are removing the headphone jack, IR blaster, Removable battery, even the SD card.

  • @franci2a
    @franci2a ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Holy, those prices are high. Here in Italy a 10GB plan plus unlimited minutes costs around 5 to 8 euros

    • @toddgreyson
      @toddgreyson ปีที่แล้ว

      America!

    • @magnesiafrost1863
      @magnesiafrost1863 ปีที่แล้ว

      Similar thing in Germany. Phone/Data plans can be very cheap (under 10€ for unlimited minutes/SMS and enough Data for normal usage).

  • @QuaaludeCharlie
    @QuaaludeCharlie ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have Never Used a Smartphone . Why would you want to be Spied on ?

    • @QuaaludeCharlie
      @QuaaludeCharlie ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rejectconvenience I have a very similar Story , 10+ Years at a Computer Repair Shop , I started using a Tracfone up until about 2 Years ago they forced me to Upgrade to 4G but still a flip phone where I am not Logged into google , I build my Own Computers for the Internet and I Have Noticed through the Years that People on Smartphones don't even have the real internet , they Have a restricted Internet from their Phone Vender , Sure if they have the url they can get to a page but the Search features of these Phones shadow ban the Links . almost all my surfing is Now on Win 7 Ultimate or on Win 10 .

  • @WaywardPondering
    @WaywardPondering 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I do use much more than the default apps on my iPhone. In conjunction with the iPhone I keep a paper monthly planner and journal. I don’t like to be dependent on tech so I maintain analog/off line methods, tools and skills. I’ve trained young people who’ve never used a paper map. On the flip side, I’ve trained older people who have near zero skills using smart phones. Some never upgraded from a flip phone. Knowing how to function with and without smart phones and technology are good skills to have and practice.

  • @deandrejul4730
    @deandrejul4730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yep distancing from your SMRT phone is therapeutic, you don`t need to bin it completly just start small like turning on a plane mode when you go for a walk, use your social media only on your lap top, keep your phone far away from were you sleep, sell your smart watch and buy some classic analog time peace.

  • @That_Sasha_Bee
    @That_Sasha_Bee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve not done it for a while but I used to go to a feature phone for a month and the main issues I faced was
    1. Not being able to find something out quickly which can turn into a positive as you become forced to know or learn how to find out.
    2. music, I had a small MP3 player so I had to select a few albums.
    3. Camera, seeing something I wanted to take a photo off but only having a bad quality camera was a little sad.
    The positives was only having social media at home or if I was on my break at work meant I felt more present, like people could contact me still via text or calling me but I doom scrolled less.
    Ultimately I now just have a iPhone SE and I turned off notifications for a number of apps and I just try to be mindful.
    I’m not the most social of people so I don’t know how much this would work for others.

  • @HelloTher1313
    @HelloTher1313 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    a lot of the problems with modern smartphones can be fixed with adblock and piracy, as well as distancing from social media.

  • @curious1706
    @curious1706 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let's not trivialize flip/keyboard phones with phrases like "dumb phones". They've only just became "novel" a few years ago and a few more beyond that the world relied on them. The world can still easily use them as primary phones. They should not be considered novel or sensationalized any further than they've already been.

  • @lukey333
    @lukey333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it’s cool seeing other people in the same boat as me, tech enthusiast turned to digital minimalist (i feel like it is a common trend honestly). i experimented in 2020 using the schok flip, which sucked. Fast forward to now, i’ve been a full time dumb phone user (kyocera duraxv) for a year and a half and i never want to go back. there’s something so freeing about going out into the world with just a flip phone and my beloved ipod (and usually a camera). also physical media is the best!

    • @rejectconvenience
      @rejectconvenience  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's wild to think that I used to buy a new smart phone every year and now I've had a dumb phone for over 2 years, it's saved me so much money haha. I agree, it feels so freeing, I have so much less anxiety in public and in general. It truly hurts my head to think about my mindset 3 years ago on tech (smart everything, IOT, etc.), because I did a full 180 lol

    • @lukey333
      @lukey333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rejectconvenience i was literally the same way, my first smartphone was the iphone 4s and then up until 2020/2021 i got the new iphone pretty much every year,,, and for what? i’m really into photography so i liked the “better camera” but i also had a real dslr that took wayy better photos (which i appreciate now i got back into real photography after going to my dumbphone). the smart hdr features on newer smartphones anyways looks abysmal, im glad i got out ahahaha. Especially now when all smartphones are literally the same, any mid to high tier smartphone that’s like 6 years old or newer is like not even noticeably different from the newest one and it’s crazy people still buy them every year even now that they’re more than a grand lol. My kyocera costed me $95 i think (second hand) and this baby has survived so many falls on to asphalt and doesn’t slow down with updates that i don’t need (and lasts me 3 to 4 days which is so nice)

  • @luhan5123
    @luhan5123 ปีที่แล้ว

    everything you said here brought a lot of peace into my heart cuz I kinda had a stimuli addiction, the kind most ppl have where they cant concentrate due to scrolling on some social media, now I have more control of that and I see it in the amount of work I get done, and like cleaning oneself from social medias and stuff helps a lot but for example in cases like mine, I work with social medias, my clients are there, and these socmed force me to be constant or else they will shadowban me. what I do now is just like and post smth and immediately go back to real life, I had to train myself to be like that, I'm not perfect and that just makes me happier, because upon hearing you I can grasp an idea of how I can be a better version of myself, a more creative version of myself.

  • @OfficialRaveBlitz
    @OfficialRaveBlitz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Reject Modernity.
    Embrace tradition.

  • @cineblazer
    @cineblazer ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This convinced me to delete TH-cam + Discord from my phone and set up Screen Time for the umpteenth time (we'll see how well that lasts). Would love to have my phone be a utility-only thing.

    • @cineblazer
      @cineblazer ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rejectconvenience Yeah, I unfortunately just can't imagine giving up the convenience that the utilities on my smartphone gives, but I know for a fact I'd be happier if I gave up the entertainment it gives. I love having GPS, web search, music streaming, and a fantastic camera in my pocket too much lol. (*especially* the camera, modern iPhone cameras still absolutely blow my mind and it makes me happy every time I get to take another sunset photo with mine)
      but deleting Twitter recently went pretty well so this video was the nudge I needed to go the rest of the way and delete YT and Discord. Social media shall be relegated to laptop only now.

    • @religiousindustrialaliens
      @religiousindustrialaliens ปีที่แล้ว

      damn guess you really like ignoring your online friends because of some trend? there’s still people behind the screen. if you’re that invested in this anti-social media trend, im worried

    • @cineblazer
      @cineblazer ปีที่แล้ว

      @@religiousindustrialaliens This feels like an oddly antagonistic interpretation of my comment? I didn't say I quit using social media entirely, just that I relegated it to my laptop where I use it more intentionally. But even if I had quit social media, I don't owe anyone online my social interactions?
      Like, I use Discord because I have friends there. The creator of this video is one such friend that I met on Discord. But I'm not sure how me hypothetically deciding to stop using Discord would be a crime against my friends-if they are really my friends, they would understand that mental health comes first.
      Additionally, I am not anti social media as a part of some trend. I am not even anti social media. I believe in reducing my social media usage because of the glut of scientific evidence that doing so is good for my health, as well as my own anecdotal experience confirming the science.

  • @PercyPanleo
    @PercyPanleo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For a while I used an Android flip phone from Japan (Not a feature phone, I could sideload any app that supported Android 5, and the keypad could also function as a trackpad) and it was my favorite phone experience, but I couldn't use it because not long after I got it the last of the 2G networks was shut down and that phone only supported Japanese 4G bands that in the US were owned by Sprint before their merge with T-Mobile
    It sucks as well because it was basically the best of both worlds: Standard Android phone convenience but just cumbersome enough to use that you won't mindlessly scroll. Unfortunately, it seems like most Android-based feature phones in the US have both worse hardware than Japanese Android feature phones and a complete inability to use ADB, which sucks because my family nowadays requires me to have Life360 in case of an emergency
    Needless to say the CAT flip phone is the only phone that fits my needs right now and it sucks

  • @waltersalvador619
    @waltersalvador619 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that you did not add sponsored material. Thank you.

  • @benjaminstevens6043
    @benjaminstevens6043 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you kindly, young sir. A worthy approach, sanity to the tune of low even tones.

  • @exileisland2675
    @exileisland2675 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I intentionally avoid all news/fyp/reel/shorts type stuff. It's designed to get an emotional response from you and it will drain your energy.

    • @RedpillPortugal
      @RedpillPortugal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. Instagram has turned into a engagement bait trapped filled with trash content. It has made me depressed the same way Facebook did a few years ago when I deleted it. They're messing with our minds, and I've had enough, hence researching on the dumb phones

    • @patmarek1222
      @patmarek1222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      amen to that