Seeing her lip quiver throughout this interview and hearing her say "I’m strong, I can get through this" while she looks so broken is so heartbreaking… I hope she is in a better place in life now.
I can’t say that if my significant other died that I wouldn’t end up the same way she did. I would probably end up so much worse then how she ended up.
Grief can totally change a person into an unrecognisable human. I watched my own mother become someone who totally changed her personality and morals. It's beyond disturbing to children because they feel they lost both parents. Thankfully addiction was not our situation I can't imagine what her children are going through
This is really heartbreaking and explains her alcoholic tendencies and down under you can actually tell she loves and feels with a lot of her soul, hope she gets help and one didn't feel too exploited by 'Dr Phil' and two finds happiness
Being with someone for 20 years and then you lose them in a matter of months. She’s in so much shock she can’t grieve. She can’t let go. She doesn’t even want to face the fact that she’s alone now without him. That’s what causes her erratic behavior. I can’t imagine losing my husband. I hope she can eventually find a way to move forward.
i lost my wife after 16 years together she passed away Christmas Day 2021 and i feel this ladies pain its really hard to deal with i am still struggling now over 2 years later
It's really sad to have another perspective on the situation. That's why you can never just judge somebody by looking at them. Her coming onto his producers is really in a way her way of wanting companionship the companionship that she lost she's trying to numb the pain
I feel like grief isn't a place to stay - it's a journey & a passage that time molds & changes. It's always with u, but some days it's an easy road to travel; no surprises, detours, etc.. a smooth, familiar road - Other days, that familiar, smooth road turns into a road with sinkholes, gravel, mud, detours, etc.. & it all comes out of nowhere; you never saw any of it up ahead. And, there's also those in-between days where the road is familiar, but not smooth; or it's smooth, but with a few surprises/detours, etc. As time goes on, you learn how to deal with the unexpected conditions that pop up out of nowhere; you learn how to dodge some of the potholes/sinkholes or can predict what's next. But, no matter what, you never ever stop - you keep driving, keep moving, keep going; slow some days, & fast other days. Even if the rain/darkness makes it hard to see, don't ever stop; slow down to a creep if you have to, but don't come to a complete stop. You could also be leading someone behind you - they may want to stop on those same roads, but because they see that your tracks keep going, they decide to keep going, too. 🖤 (I know that's probably a little corny to some people with the "road metaphor", but me thinking about grief like that - from my own personal experiences with losing close loved-ones that started when I was 9 - kept me sane & made me feel less alone because I knew people had traveled those same roads before me & after me) 🖤
everyone is different with loss. and sadly she’s drinking so much she’s constantly impaired of what she’s doing. she’s disgusted by her behavior while she’s sober. there should be no excuses but drinking is a problem and not an excuse when you’re impaired of your judgement to the point you can’t even take care of yourself. if you lose someone you were in love with and with 20 year who knows how you would react
I hope all women reading this will get grief counseling, get a job and move forward especially for their children and family. This is why I believe that all parents must encourage their daughters to have backup plan if their husband passes away, dies or has a serious injury. This particular woman seems to want to kill herself with booze, she doesn't care enough about her son to be a good roll model. The grandparents should take the son away from her and bring him up.
I've had 2 significant others die and I would never sexually assault a guy like she did those . THAT'S NO EXCUSE. I get her drinking though .. hope she gets the helps she needs
She’s grieving bad . Been there and it’s not easy to watch your loved one go down hill like that . The only thing that helped me was the Lord Jesus Christ in heaven. God bless you
Sounds harsh, but I need to know what the facility is expecting. I take it differently. There is a better way to say it and none of us heard the conversation and they probably said it better than she heard it.
maybe subliminal messages and or hypnotherapy can help her issues and other issues. Be careful. It might not be suitable for everyone I don’t know. please make this known to everyone as it could help people and save their lives
Seeing her lip quiver throughout this interview and hearing her say "I’m strong, I can get through this" while she looks so broken is so heartbreaking… I hope she is in a better place in life now.
Poor woman. She's just trying to get through each day and live with her grief.
I get it. I get her. Hope she can straighten up for herself and her kids
I can’t say that if my significant other died that I wouldn’t end up the same way she did. I would probably end up so much worse then how she ended up.
Agreed. I know it’s not healthy and I hope she gets help but I don’t blame her. I would probably have drank myself to death much faster than she did
Grief can totally change a person into an unrecognisable human. I watched my own mother become someone who totally changed her personality and morals. It's beyond disturbing to children because they feel they lost both parents. Thankfully addiction was not our situation I can't imagine what her children are going through
Broke my heart. I hope hers can heal.
:( praying for her
Yemen ♥️♥️♥️
This is really heartbreaking and explains her alcoholic tendencies and down under you can actually tell she loves and feels with a lot of her soul, hope she gets help and one didn't feel too exploited by 'Dr Phil' and two finds happiness
I understand that everyone grieves differently but she had kids that needed her.
i feel so bad for this lady this is sooooo sad very emotional. i pray for her and he kids 😢
Being with someone for 20 years and then you lose them in a matter of months. She’s in so much shock she can’t grieve. She can’t let go. She doesn’t even want to face the fact that she’s alone now without him. That’s what causes her erratic behavior. I can’t imagine losing my husband. I hope she can eventually find a way to move forward.
This video: aww I'm praying for her 🙏 🙏🙏
Other videos that she is in: that's sexual assault ma'am!!!
She's on drugs She's drunk
i lost my wife after 16 years together she passed away Christmas Day 2021 and i feel this ladies pain its really hard to deal with i am still struggling now over 2 years later
It's really sad to have another perspective on the situation. That's why you can never just judge somebody by looking at them. Her coming onto his producers is really in a way her way of wanting companionship the companionship that she lost she's trying to numb the pain
This is real life Pam from Stardew Valley
You can just tell she's so hurt inside.... Alyssa, I hope you can heal, even just a little bit.
She explains that she has NO money but was able to pay for the vodka/ grapefruit and paid a 100.00 tip but NO money did I miss something ?
Yes. You missed that she is self medicating the grief with alcohol and its ruining her life.
Using a deadman to excuse being vile and gross - nice tribute to his memory. She is deflecting and excusing her own vile behavior.
I feel like grief isn't a place to stay - it's a journey & a passage that time molds & changes. It's always with u, but some days it's an easy road to travel; no surprises, detours, etc.. a smooth, familiar road - Other days, that familiar, smooth road turns into a road with sinkholes, gravel, mud, detours, etc.. & it all comes out of nowhere; you never saw any of it up ahead. And, there's also those in-between days where the road is familiar, but not smooth; or it's smooth, but with a few surprises/detours, etc. As time goes on, you learn how to deal with the unexpected conditions that pop up out of nowhere; you learn how to dodge some of the potholes/sinkholes or can predict what's next. But, no matter what, you never ever stop - you keep driving, keep moving, keep going; slow some days, & fast other days. Even if the rain/darkness makes it hard to see, don't ever stop; slow down to a creep if you have to, but don't come to a complete stop. You could also be leading someone behind you - they may want to stop on those same roads, but because they see that your tracks keep going, they decide to keep going, too. 🖤
(I know that's probably a little corny to some people with the "road metaphor", but me thinking about grief like that - from my own personal experiences with losing close loved-ones that started when I was 9 - kept me sane & made me feel less alone because I knew people had traveled those same roads before me & after me) 🖤
She uses loss as an excuse!! I've lost several family members and I would never sexually harass others like she is doing.
everyone is different with loss. and sadly she’s drinking so much she’s constantly impaired of what she’s doing. she’s disgusted by her behavior while she’s sober. there should be no excuses but drinking is a problem and not an excuse when you’re impaired of your judgement to the point you can’t even take care of yourself. if you lose someone you were in love with and with 20 year who knows how you would react
I hope all women reading this will get grief counseling, get a job and move forward especially for their children and family. This is why I believe that all parents must encourage their daughters to have backup plan if their husband passes away, dies or has a serious injury. This particular woman seems to want to kill herself with booze, she doesn't care enough about her son to be a good roll model. The grandparents should take the son away from her and bring him up.
Is the whole episode somewhere on TH-cam?
It's too easy to blame your behaviour and flaws on the loss of a loved one
Because in the end, you cant blame anything on outside things
Rip Nick):
Yemen ♥️♥️
I've had 2 significant others die and I would never sexually assault a guy like she did those . THAT'S NO EXCUSE. I get her drinking though .. hope she gets the helps she needs
She’s grieving bad . Been there and it’s not easy to watch your loved one go down hill like that . The only thing that helped me was the Lord Jesus Christ in heaven. God bless you
Indeed.
Sounds harsh, but I need to know what the facility is expecting. I take it differently. There is a better way to say it and none of us heard the conversation and they probably said it better than she heard it.
My God
maybe subliminal messages and or hypnotherapy can help her issues and other issues. Be careful. It might not be suitable for everyone I don’t know. please make this known to everyone as it could help people and save their lives
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