When Two Guys Wouldn't Leave Us Alone At A Photoshoot...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 มิ.ย. 2016
- It has been difficult dealing with encounters with outsiders when I am doing photoshoots. I usually ignore and don't engage people when they try to disrupt the shoot, but I just couldn't keep quiet this time. Just a little frustrated.
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Male photog here. This is creepy behavior. You’re not putting on a performance, you’re doing a job. You can see the model noticeably relax once they’re gone. You did the right thing, Jessica!
She's not saying it is illegal, just that it's creepy and effected her work.
all the men in the comments not getting why Jessica has every right to be creeped out...
There's a difference between casually looking and staring intensely to the point of making someone feel uncomfortable.
Everyone saying “it’s a public space, they have the right to stand where they want to stand” well wtf, okay picture this. You’re just minding your business in a public park, and a stranger just stands right next to you, SUPER CLOSE, like REALLY CLOSE, but not to the point that they will touch you. They then continue staring at you even if you tell them to stop, wouldn’t YOU be uncomfortable?
As a male photographer I would still have done the exact same, and would have felt just as uncomfortable having to men standing so close and watching my models or making comments as they did here; Its creepy and makes the model feel uncomfortable and self concious which no photographer wants for there models.
A script for anyone else who has to experience this unfortunate situation: “Gentlemen we do ask that you move along, these ladies are not a spectacle and they are working. You understand.” And if they refuse to move: “If you choose to stay rooted to this spot that’s fine, this is public property so we will move our equipment. However if you choose to follow us it will be considered stalking behavior and we will be contacting the authorities.” :)
I get the whole "it's a public setting they have the right" but they were standing SO close it's like if you were having a picnic at the beach and a stranger just randomly comes and sits with you?? being in public doesn't mean you don't have the right to personal space?
That felt offensive even to watch. It's a form of harassment. It's so sad that it continues to happen. I'm glad you spoke up for your team.
PSA- If someone goes "please go away" IT DOES NOT MATTER whether you are male, female, just curious about what they're doing, have bad intentions, etc etc etc just leave. You're making them uncomfortable. Apologise and walk away. You'll probably see the pics on instagram anyway.
It’s uncomfortable when someone stares. Period.
Ladies, If you have a bad gut feeling about a man watching you and you don't feel comfortable or safe, do something about it. You don't have to deal with them.
Once a guy wouldn't leave until i took a picture of him and a model, when i said no, he argued with me for like 15 min, and i was really polite at first trying to tell him to not disturb us. Finally I got mad and told him to fuck off, i seriously thought he will fight me, because he got really mad ( he was a big guy too)But we were in a middle of downtown in a pretty crowded area so he just cursed me out and left. Its scary ,especially if its just me and the model. Some guys need to chill , seriously
Public or no, you dont interrupt people while they are WORKING. Do you stand around and gawk at and heckle a street crossing guard? A construction worker? A window washer? A paramedic? They needed to GTFO.
Jessica is trying so hard to justify telling this men to leave and she really shouldn’t have to do that they were in your teams personal space making people uncomfortable she had every right to tell them to leave
I literally saw the model's composure change because it made her uncomfortable and it made me sad. Those men needed to leave
I feel uncomfortable and unsafe just by watching this.
With all the human trafficking going on you have every right to get angry.
That poor model looked