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  • @taylorluc43
    @taylorluc43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17809

    there's a huge difference between dropping out of high school and dropping out of college

    • @ATurtlesLife
      @ATurtlesLife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      why

    • @bingoing
      @bingoing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2235

      @@ATurtlesLife because school is mandatory and college is not?

    • @micah459
      @micah459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +879

      Facts. Like I get dropping out of college but you can't get and good job dropping out of hs unless you're going into entertainment

    • @LexV423
      @LexV423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +907

      @@ATurtlesLife You can't even be a flight attendant without a high school diploma or a GED. Many places look at it as a pretty basic requirement because getting a high school education is free to everyone in America. Even as an adult you can get your high school diploma for free.

    • @safiazad2865
      @safiazad2865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      Because you loose nothing if you dropout from college you can go and study in Apprenticeship ...

  • @WaveTapper
    @WaveTapper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4438

    lmao the teachers that told the people that they’re going to be homeless shouldn’t be teachers tf

    • @yuh-xl8sk
      @yuh-xl8sk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      maybe not telling them they will be homeless, but definitely trying to give them a wake up call could help.

    • @emoswiftie7730
      @emoswiftie7730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      Aleks Martin wake up call for what..? for not learning as quickly as everyone else? that’s not a wake up call, that’s telling a student they’re gonna fail in life

    • @varyiaverner
      @varyiaverner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      welcome to america

    • @yuh-xl8sk
      @yuh-xl8sk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      mcrstan4eva aaa The argument that I’m putting forth is that kids who don’t know the extent of what they’re doing by not paying attention in class and not doing their work should have a wake up call so they could know. It’s not that hard to try, and most kids don’t. I’m actually in school and I see kids failing and the reason they’re failing is because they aren’t trying. The kids who “have trouble learning” adapt and figure it out as well.

    • @andregoncalves4365
      @andregoncalves4365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@emoswiftie7730but some students do need a wake up call. Sometimes teachers need to stress students in this manner in order for them to progress and not be REALLY stressed out later on in life

  • @breonawarren1507
    @breonawarren1507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2905

    They shouldn’t have put high school and college drop out together. I feel like these don’t really relate other than- they dropped out

    • @toxicity2014
      @toxicity2014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      true. if you finish hs you still have some sort of back ground and if you don't finish. I'm not gonna say it's harder because you can still get a job and such, your just going to have to relie on more hard work weather then brains

    • @kotosqoposrly
      @kotosqoposrly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Well .. that was the point of the video after all. Wasn't it?

    • @dbzcupcake
      @dbzcupcake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      yep hs and college drop outs are kind of viewed violently differently
      college drop out at least did "the bare minimum"

    • @ImBirk
      @ImBirk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kotosqoposrly Not exactly, the video is supposed to show the wide ranges of views in a certain demographic but this demographic was too broad

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      agreed

  • @anasahmed7274
    @anasahmed7274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2942

    “I was diagnosed with depression when I was 2 years old”
    Pause
    Straight to comment section...

    • @eggs2667
      @eggs2667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      Exactly what I’m doing

    • @ida2300
      @ida2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      loool, same, really fuckin curious on how that works

    • @avii3
      @avii3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +353

      Anathema it doesn’t. No psychologist would diagnose a 2 year old with depression. They’re barely a person. I’m sure she had gone through trauma but you need time to get a diagnosis

    • @swaggmaster2159
      @swaggmaster2159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      I wasn't even fully potty trained at 2. You can be sad, but that's what toddlers are like. Their life hasn't even began yet

    • @emmajosmith281
      @emmajosmith281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      yeah umm.. that doesn’t make sense I agree 💀 like you just started talking LMAO

  • @calradz
    @calradz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8310

    i feel like a lot of them have different opinions considering some dropped out at 13 and some dropped out in college

    • @squipy184
      @squipy184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +999

      Exactly! How can you put someone who dropped out of middle school "to find themself" in the same category with someone who dropped out of Uni because they couldn't pay for it.

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +464

      @@squipy184 For real though. She had to have been in a very privileged position to have dropped out at 13 and basically had no issues as a result of it. But I guess the point of this is to show how much variance there is in a given demographic.

    • @rose2326
      @rose2326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      jungkook's thicc thighs your username omg👀👀

    • @cristiv.4089
      @cristiv.4089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      That's the point though, to have different opinions and open up a conversation. They all have different experiences which makes the discussion more interesting. If they all dropped out at the same time and had the same experiences it would be a little bit boring.

    • @BrawndoQC
      @BrawndoQC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Gonna give my perspective as an high school drop out. I'm a rich drop out from high school. Self taught in programming, system administration, business management, hr, etc. Recently sold my company for multiple millions. However, no matter the amount of books I've read and the experience I've accumulated (I'm in my mid 40's), I finally decided to complete my high school and currently taking an online Harvard business school course (CORe Program). Because I need it? no, not at all. I've accountants, brokers, attorneys etc to help me manage my life and I'm an excellent entrepreneur. I just felt a void, and to be honest, shame, and it was on my bucket list. Google famous high school dropouts and you will be surprised at the list of successful people. Dropping college is nothing to be ashamed off (Steve Jobs, Bill Gates for example) but dropping out of high school is kind of embarrassing, at least it was for me.

  • @stefvnbrssl8601
    @stefvnbrssl8601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10744

    *School isn't essential, education is*

    • @sweetbaby9431
      @sweetbaby9431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Indeed.

    • @kimanh03
      @kimanh03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Still, education through school opens job opportunities

    • @micah459
      @micah459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Unless you want to be like a doctor or something

    • @landon6054
      @landon6054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      and school provides education

    • @davyroger3773
      @davyroger3773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kimanh03 opportunities to get into debt

  • @swagekj
    @swagekj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2796

    I kinda feel like Mariana's dropping out at 13 and being able to just do whatever she wanted afterwards shows she had a lot of privileges in her life. A lot of people who drop out do so because of their circumstances or because the educational system made it impossible for them. I appreciate her point of view but i was having a hard time with it.

    • @earlgrey4013
      @earlgrey4013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      swage u put everything I was think about into words.

    • @karstynmcdaniel
      @karstynmcdaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      She didn't drop out she commented saying she just got homeschooled

    • @alextroy9202
      @alextroy9202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      swage same

    • @jackiemontrose1279
      @jackiemontrose1279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      swage she was probably born in a third world country to be able to drop out so young

    • @pettas3553
      @pettas3553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      inouske best boi

  • @jojofarb5489
    @jojofarb5489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2049

    Do all people diagnosed with depression at 2 years old think the same

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Joseph Lublinsky I hope you know what they mean by that lmao

    • @displayname8771
      @displayname8771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Only one person there 😂😂😂

    • @erical410
      @erical410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

    • @cubestuff3928
      @cubestuff3928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Nicolaus Volentius haha omgso funny haha they should invite you to do all comedians think the same hahaha ongggg

    • @s.s5120
      @s.s5120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whts the time stamp???

  • @blakelip3
    @blakelip3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5501

    Middle ground: Homeschool vs Public School

    • @user-wk7yi2ji5h
      @user-wk7yi2ji5h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      omg yessss

    • @Gugnar678
      @Gugnar678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Home school is illegal in my country

    • @user-wk7yi2ji5h
      @user-wk7yi2ji5h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Gugnar678 what whyyy

    • @user-wk7yi2ji5h
      @user-wk7yi2ji5h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @IANSB74 heck yeah it is

    • @rockisrealmusic5338
      @rockisrealmusic5338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      in India you have no other option but to take both, lol cuz the education system is insanely complex here.

  • @squipy184
    @squipy184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5059

    "'I dropped out when I was 13.' So I could find myself."
    Yup, this is one of those videos where you take everything with a grain of salt.

    • @WolfHaley666
      @WolfHaley666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +547

      yeah, that one was crazy to me because you have to be at least 16 here to dropout

    • @jacqueb1441
      @jacqueb1441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +566

      I agree!! I really don’t think they should have put dropouts from High School vs. College together.

    • @madeliefynana
      @madeliefynana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I'm not sure how the education system works there, but I dropped out of high school (not at that age, but waaaay older)
      But I will definitely say that school puts a lot of pressure on kids.
      Starting at age 12 they have to pick which high school they wanna be and we sometimes have high schools that specify in different sub majors (I'll say) and then within the first and second year, most of has to choose what we wanna do in the future, where we want to continue study and where we want to work.
      Idk man at age 12 I couldn't even pick what I wanted to eat for dinner, let alone pick a job.
      A lot can change in those few years and if you made a mistake, you just kinda wasted a year and have to redo it.
      I mean even some people in their 20's still don't know what they wanted to do.
      So I think dropping out at 13 to "find yourself" can be pretty reasonable since you don't have all that stress and pressure on you.

    • @AT-xd3xs
      @AT-xd3xs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +315

      The fact that their parents allowed that ... I can’t understand it

    • @madeliefynana
      @madeliefynana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@AT-xd3xs Well it's probably more difficult to understand why the parents allowed that, but they must have their reasons

  • @hp6964
    @hp6964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1201

    There should have been two videos made 🤦🏼‍♀️ high school and then college. I passed high school with flying colors but dropped college cause it was too much and felt so alone. Dropping college is totally different

    • @noeliags.23
      @noeliags.23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Totally agree, I dropped out at the first year of college because what I was studying wasn't filling me, but I changed what I am studying and I'm as good as ever

    • @marinamagalilombardich9611
      @marinamagalilombardich9611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My thoughts exactly!!

    • @karstynmcdaniel
      @karstynmcdaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's so different. This is my least favorite video cuz it's not cohesive at all

    • @madmann1000
      @madmann1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Agree.
      College and grade school are two completely different things.
      I would never encourage anyone to drop out of high school.

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      madmann1000 that usually happens when circumstances are insane and leave you no choice

  • @83Cressida
    @83Cressida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1904

    The whole “dropping out at 13 to find myself” thing bothers the absolute hell out of me. Find yourself? You don’t have legal authority to get a job, sustain a healthy living situation, or support yourself otherwise at 13.

    • @karstynmcdaniel
      @karstynmcdaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      kiarra she just got homeschooled and said she dropped out idk why

    • @Andrew-eg7fy
      @Andrew-eg7fy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      She shouldn't even be in this video.

    • @ke5695
      @ke5695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You were asking about jobs too, well I was able to make my own money babysitting and working off the books at a pizzeria. Plenty of places will hire off the books, it's not hard to find. You could also walk dogs, mow lawns, etc. You are thinking too narrowly. Just because leaving school wasn't the best option for you at that age that doesn't mean it's the same for everyone. Also not really sure what point your trying to make with "sustain a healthy living situation" ? Unless you go a boarding school than schools don't provide that....

    • @karstynmcdaniel
      @karstynmcdaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      K E that's true I nanny and get paid under the table still even though I do not prefer it for some legal reasons. But in Ga at least, you only have to be 14 to work and be paid on the books and Publix I know hires that young. Some others probably too

    • @koiyo303
      @koiyo303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Andrew-eg7fy this video is about dropping out of the normal school education system, not dropping out of no education at all so technically it's completely fine lol

  • @unknown9210
    @unknown9210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2354

    " *Do all children of divorce think same* "

    • @kenneseyl2819
      @kenneseyl2819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      that’s a good idea, it can really impact their relationships or even whether they believe in them anymore..

    • @marina2498
      @marina2498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omg yes

    • @MrRavezGaming
      @MrRavezGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good one

    • @uhohannie
      @uhohannie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@annonymous6827 well yeah, the fact that not everyone thinks/feels the same way is the entire point of the show and why it's interesting.

    • @unknown9210
      @unknown9210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@annonymous6827 Of course everyone thinks a little different. But for other people that have been through the same thing, it's really interesting to know how others experienced or felt about it. :)

  • @KabbaModern03
    @KabbaModern03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2936

    Dropping out of college is common, but dropping out of school at 13 to find yourself?? What are you doing at 13?

    • @SnowBunni78
      @SnowBunni78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      My sister was pregnant with my first nephew.. I was smoking wayyyy too much weed.

    • @dontmindme4838
      @dontmindme4838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @yami bakura searching for Pokemon (it's a joke)

    • @PeterPuncher
      @PeterPuncher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Shitty life choices

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      That’s literally disgusting and illegal the parents should be ashamed

    • @dayanamata1163
      @dayanamata1163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Patrick Star wow well said! I hope everything turned out great! And I totally agree with you!

  • @valnadis8577
    @valnadis8577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3822

    Imagine dropping out at 13 to figure yourself out. What are you going to figure out at 13?? What pokémon to catch?! You aren't even old enough to get a part time job!

    • @dodawes
      @dodawes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      lmaoooooo! what has she been doing from 13-20 (I'm guessing). Others left to go into entertainment or apprenticeships but a 13 year old?!?

    • @marianat2830
      @marianat2830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      Hi hehe that's me in the video. I didn't fully drop out, I was homeschooled :) and I didn't drop out to figure myself out, that came after

    • @valnadis8577
      @valnadis8577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      @@marianat2830 That's okay. It must be how the video was edited that made it seem like that.

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Mariana T oooohhhh see I totally understand being homeschooled! I thought you meant you dropped out completely at 13 and it honestly kinda made me angry, at that age you can’t work or live by yourself or do anything. Knowing you were homeschooled tho makes so much more sense

    • @Missjuly1830
      @Missjuly1830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      why tf are u on a dropout video if ure gonna be surprised someone... dropped out........

  • @marvinroblero1222
    @marvinroblero1222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    “Do all homeless people think the same?” It would be nice to get insight on those who are often ignored by the public. It would give us a better understanding on aspects where the sun doesn’t shine.

    • @shirleytatha8189
      @shirleytatha8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's a series on BBC 3 called things not to say. They did an episode on things not to say to homeless people

    • @chelseamuusha6949
      @chelseamuusha6949 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @azalnotamal
    @azalnotamal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3785

    the types of teachers you have really do make the biggest difference

    • @haileywarner5109
      @haileywarner5109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      azalnotamal idk if they should give them a voice...

    • @annonymous6827
      @annonymous6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True

    • @abi2767
      @abi2767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nope u make the difference at the end u have bad teacher don't matter they won't write Ur test paper in the end u will

    • @KP-vg3zn
      @KP-vg3zn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@abi2767 I agree with both your statements. But having a good teacher does make you more excited to actually learn instead of just passing a test.

    • @abi2767
      @abi2767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@KP-vg3zn I grew up in a school without teachers 🤷🏽‍♂️ I wanted to learn now I am about to take my masters at an ivy league so the point is u wanna learn u will learn doesn't matter who's the teacher 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @alyssagryson2280
    @alyssagryson2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4571

    I wish that at the beggining of the episode there would be an introduction of every person! Just name, age, age they dropped out and of what, college or high school!
    Sometimes its so hard to follow what people are saying without knowing...

    • @chachieabara1635
      @chachieabara1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Alyssa Gryson Yesss! Like a mini intro before they start because usually it helps fill the void what audience like us can actually follow along and it’ll help reduce some confusion that goes on in the comment section! That is actually a nice suggestion not going to lie. @jubileemedia

    • @Tima-oz5te
      @Tima-oz5te 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Fr their responses really needed more context, most of the time I couldn't dis/agree with anything cuz I'm like "I need u to elaborate on that"

    • @JesusSanchez-mq4kg
      @JesusSanchez-mq4kg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Give them privacy also. They’re putting themselves out there and talking about their personal lives that can be sensitive. What we see is enough lol

    • @cestchill111
      @cestchill111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and what job they are doing now

    • @dirtyhatemachine
      @dirtyhatemachine 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      they started doing that!

  • @faithhfaith5924
    @faithhfaith5924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1184

    I can’t imagine a depressed toddler

    • @dontmindme4838
      @dontmindme4838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      I don't believe it. At 2 years old, your mind doesn't proces or understand the complexity of the world. What are you sad about. I just can't wrap my mind around it.

    • @faithhfaith5924
      @faithhfaith5924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Daniah The great Exactly!!!

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@dontmindme4838 u dont eat, play or talk same as an adult

    • @reaganvlog1022
      @reaganvlog1022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Faithh Alexis baby *

    • @lindasmolenaars9118
      @lindasmolenaars9118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      It exists. Depression is not about sadness or being sad about complex things in life.

  • @sictrxnsitglxria
    @sictrxnsitglxria 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    idk dropping out of high school vs. college are two VERY different experiences, i didn’t really like this one /:

    • @moondog7694
      @moondog7694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree about having both plant-based/vegitan people in the same video as vegans. The ideologies behind the two are totally different. I think the vegans would feel not able to speak freely about what they really feel in front of the vegitans/plant-based people, because plant-based people have the same beliefs as meat-eaters. They should've done a video with just vegans.

  • @raquel5654
    @raquel5654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2151

    am I the only one hearing like a annoying, scary, background sound?

    • @kittyrodriguezbarani360
      @kittyrodriguezbarani360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I don't hear it 🤔

    • @user-hu1jz8fh9c
      @user-hu1jz8fh9c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That's the calmness of the room

    • @sirauron5530
      @sirauron5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      I hear it. During some cuts it’s louder.

    • @suqmaddiqq
      @suqmaddiqq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Yeah I hear it too now... it's extremely creepy.

    • @user-fy9ip7dc1y
      @user-fy9ip7dc1y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      maybe like a drone keeping the camera up in the begging angle of the questions? idk but i been hearing it past videos too

  • @CourtneyDobard
    @CourtneyDobard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Wish it was just high school drop outs. Leaving college cuz you cant afford it is totally different then dropping out of high or middle school because of whatever reason.

    • @lydiaa5939
      @lydiaa5939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      good thing in the uk u have to go to school untill uni which i think is college for americans because at the end of the day your a child and which parent would let there kids drop out of school at 13

    • @lindsaychantelle4480
      @lindsaychantelle4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lydiaa5939 Lmao in the US u can’t “drop out” til 16. the way they get around this is by “homeschooling”.

    • @eatyourcereal4931
      @eatyourcereal4931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lydiaa5939 its illegal in the us to drop out at 13 16 is the age you can legally drop out

  • @katie9985
    @katie9985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    My dad dropped out of college when he was 20ish last year when he was 51 he graduated college! I’m so proud of him and all he accomplished

    • @dawnarxtic
      @dawnarxtic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      awww

    • @SarahCrookall
      @SarahCrookall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amazing! 🙌

    • @dillonjordan3810
      @dillonjordan3810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      And the college degree prob did nothing for him

    • @onussi3148
      @onussi3148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awww

    • @keanum4399
      @keanum4399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations to him👏

  • @mjXoX0
    @mjXoX0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    I dropped out of high school because I had severe mental health issues. Now I’m about to get my diploma in youth work then head off to university. Just because you dropped out doesn’t mean your going no where in life. Some people flourish inside of the school system and some people flourish outside of it and that’s ok🥰

    • @sindy7305
      @sindy7305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Perioddt

    • @samaradashwood1491
      @samaradashwood1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      that's not an excuse , you say that as if those who didn't drop out are perfectly healthy physically and mentally , and if you're not you drop out immediately , my brother has severe depression yet he didn't drop out he kept going until he became a doctor , i've had many health issues as well , I used to seek professional help whenever we could afford it , if not I would deal with it myself , you can't expect the way to be as smooth as possible and give up in the first challenge and just like convince yourself that the reason others didn't give up because they were privileged enough to have a smooth way and an easy life

    • @vic.tokidama
      @vic.tokidama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@samaradashwood1491 well, mental health is not the same for everyone. Some people can handle them, others don't. I drop out high school bc I have anxiety and panic attacks. even with medical and psychological attention I could not continue high school. And my friends who also had anxiety did graduated. Its just different for everyone.

    • @uyfu8590
      @uyfu8590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@vic.tokidama i haven’t been to school since march-april it’s now august. i just can not handle it anymore interacting/socialising with people. i’m in year 8- i am 14. fortunately my mum hasn’t forced me to go back.. i just really want to switch to homeschooling online or something.. :// (i apologise if this doesn’t make sense)

    • @tomohawkcloud
      @tomohawkcloud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@uyfu8590 hows it going now?

  • @lianyu3854
    @lianyu3854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1244

    I think everyone needs to complete high school or get a GED because you can be severely limited in your options if you don't ... However I don't think finishing college is necessarily important, findig what your are passionate about and finding your calling is important. Working hard towards succeeding in your passion is even more important

    • @nicholask2760
      @nicholask2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      100% agree

    • @JustTodd24
      @JustTodd24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      College is useless for anything other than social networking... If you want to learn something take an online course, its cheaper and faster.

    • @alyssajoyf
      @alyssajoyf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Todd Shirey while I don’t find college necessary for everyone, for certain jobs when you’re applying they’re more likely to choose one applicant over another based off of both the degree and the college that degree came from.

    • @JustTodd24
      @JustTodd24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@alyssajoyf Sorry let me clarify, its useless for self-growth, which is what you should be pursuing higher education for. Obviously there are employers that demand a degree, even if that degree is in a completely unrelated field. It's a shame, really.

    • @Ishizu09
      @Ishizu09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@JustTodd24 i want you to go to a surgeon who learned how to operate vie the internet. tell us how it went.

  • @hannap8052
    @hannap8052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    I understand dropping out of college but no way high school or middle school! How is dropping out of middle school even legal?! In my country its absolutely mandatory to finish middle school

    • @lillustpotion
      @lillustpotion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Same here! School is compulsory until you're 16. Your parents can be prosecuted if you don't go to school or they have to homeschool you. Just not getting an education isn't an option.

    • @166o
      @166o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      in my country you have to go to school till 18

    • @gabrielcastaneda9700
      @gabrielcastaneda9700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lillustpotion u have to be emancipated where I’m from to drop out of high school or ur parents have to sign something

    • @mydickisunbelievablysmallb7098
      @mydickisunbelievablysmallb7098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same. Here it is required by law to go to school until you are at least 16 or in grade 10.

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It is illegal in the us to drop out before 16 but I’m pretty sure that girl was actually home schooled not just like completely dropped out

  • @mary9983
    @mary9983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    How is a 2yo diagnosed with depression? No judgement, serious question

    • @kitc.3104
      @kitc.3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      lack of chemicals in the brain can be diagnosed at any age. But with her it probably showed more as the physical symptoms; lethargic, sleeping a lot, won't eat, etc.

    • @shirleytatha8189
      @shirleytatha8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      There's this book... uuugh I'll try to get you the name... it's lists nine causes of depression... While most of them are life experiences, sometimes it's purely a chemical imbalance in the brain. You ever wondered why some people go through such hard situations in life and they emerge okay. Then others ho through some seemingly "less" challenging stuff and they just crumble? The chemical imbalance was already there, it just needed something to trigger it.

    • @Jimbo-yh2th
      @Jimbo-yh2th 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Provin Ripon um excuse me but wtf is wrong with you

    • @oliviasoltis7039
      @oliviasoltis7039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was diagnosed with depression at 3 years old lmao and Idek how I got diagnosed w it

    • @droptak
      @droptak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm sceptical by her statement

  • @ryans357
    @ryans357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    I was actually diagnosed with depression when I was in my mothers stomach

    • @marciaosullivan3200
      @marciaosullivan3200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I was when I was a sperm

    • @abigailmarughu3403
      @abigailmarughu3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      deadass or jk?

    • @chiquita1015
      @chiquita1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@abigailmarughu3403 he's kidding

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@marciaosullivan3200 Same. The claustrophobia really got to me.

    • @dontmindme4838
      @dontmindme4838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Y'all are hilarious

  • @zuzannawojtowicz7524
    @zuzannawojtowicz7524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    I feel like you could really see who dropped out of college and who dropped out of high school, the difference is pretty big when it comes to dropping out to college and dropping out of hs

    • @UnfamiliarThings
      @UnfamiliarThings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      elaborate on this?

    • @ApRiL3706
      @ApRiL3706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Based on how articulate they are.

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +863

    why am i watching this instead of finishing the 1500 word essay i have due in 8 hours

  • @thatcoolkidjoey
    @thatcoolkidjoey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Definitely should have done High School dropouts separate from college dropouts

  • @leaper7808
    @leaper7808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    "I couldn't afford college"
    Also went to college in Hawaii....

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Glad I wasn't the only one thinking this, lmao. Like sis, go to a community college, get an associates degree and you can still attempt to save up and go for bachelors. There was no need to just give up. And you can probably find a state school for a low price too depending where you are located. I hope she's explored all her options. Many people dont realize that it doesnt really matter where you are getting your degrees unless it's a prestigious/exceptional university. Why spend all that money to go to school in Hawaii?? Your networking matters more than your degree.

    • @g.money888
      @g.money888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      there’s a lot that goes into ‘affording’ college. I go to CC and even if you qualify for free tuition (promise program) most students still work to pay rent, pay for food, books, gas, a car, everything that goes into life. plus many support their families too. it’s mentally + logistically hard to take necessary time to focus on school when you have other struggles and need to work, and could always be more stable if you work more and spend less time on school - even if community college itself is not expensive

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@g.money888 if she could afford to go to university in Hawaii i assume she can find a way to do community, unless she or her parents have gone completely broke. Even then, you can get aid, and CC is very flexible anyways and many students work and study as well.

    • @kitc.3104
      @kitc.3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Ray03595 Speaking from personal experience (after the University I was attending dropped my scholarship due to lack of funds) I attempted to receive aid from CC and because my parents were abusive growing up and even now haven't gotten better, I am unable to receive ANY aid. So if I do take classes it's all out of my pocket. So currently I am working 80 hours a week while taking classes, and it's killing my mental health.

    • @missrue1707
      @missrue1707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kit Geeky Hey I know it’s hard right now but it will get better. I hope you have someone to talk to because I know it gets so stressful. You got this!!

  • @blakelip3
    @blakelip3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2662

    Do all people in age gap relationships think the same??

  • @__badlilvibe9006
    @__badlilvibe9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    "Do all single parents think the same"

    • @izzyhall9797
      @izzyhall9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!

    • @Dauerglotzer123
      @Dauerglotzer123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They did single moms and single dads already 😊

    • @__badlilvibe9006
      @__badlilvibe9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Dauerglotzer123 They didn't, it was teen moms and dads.

    • @Dauerglotzer123
      @Dauerglotzer123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh crap my bad 😂

    • @laylayoung322
      @laylayoung322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would be so good

  • @YoungAbel15
    @YoungAbel15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Breakdown of comments:
    25%- "How the hell do you find yourself at 13?"
    25%- "How the hell are you diagnosed with depression at two years old?"
    25%- "How the hell is a high school dropout the same as a college dropout?"
    Last 25%- Me asking, "How the hell have people forgotten about Shawn, the International Man of Mystery?"

  • @Jess-ov4lz
    @Jess-ov4lz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Her: I dropped out of school at 13, to find myself.
    Me at 13: what am I watching on tiktok today?

    • @Lea-ov8vq
      @Lea-ov8vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me at 13: I dropped out of school to play video games and watch youtube full time

  • @Yvp13
    @Yvp13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    Can you guys do "do all virgins think the same?"

    • @youtaughtmehowtolive
      @youtaughtmehowtolive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Good luck finding females.

    • @serenaireland
      @serenaireland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      youtaughtmehowtolive 💀

    • @hacker-7214
      @hacker-7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Bunch of neckbeards will be on the vid🤣

    • @Yvp13
      @Yvp13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@youtaughtmehowtolive lmaoo

    • @narutouchiha5464
      @narutouchiha5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hopefully they invite skippy

  • @HawkUnleashed
    @HawkUnleashed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    "Diagonsed with depression at 2 years old wtf" ???? HUH

    • @lounajushpe4906
      @lounajushpe4906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @Google Account no, she didn't

    • @GoddessError
      @GoddessError 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Google Account 3:51 Clearly not.

    • @sabrinamourah1647
      @sabrinamourah1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @Google Account no bro, give up, she clearly said 2 years old

    • @fionabella9163
      @fionabella9163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Hawk Unleashed
      Depression is not just built from sadness and bad experiences, it’s a chemical imbalance in the brain so everyone can get it

    • @azultante
      @azultante 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      yeah just like a kid that doesn’t want to eat, move, play or talk.. just like depression in adults, we just can’t imagine children having no motivation in life but it can happen

  • @xyzoopsie7804
    @xyzoopsie7804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    To anyone who's thinking of dropping out- it's a decision that'll have bigger repercussions than you may think i.e-future job eligibility and income stability....look if you're really passionate about something and you've got a big opportunity in front of you which requires you to dropout then definitely go for it, but if you plan on dropping out to "find yourself" or for mental health...then I'd suggest taking time or semester off but don't drop out in a haste without some kind of counseling first

    • @jeanzhicay971
      @jeanzhicay971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Make the most educated decision and you will reduce anxiety in your life. Transitioning out of college/high school does not have to be miserable. Prepare

    • @jordanknows5674
      @jordanknows5674 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This right here is the correct answer

    • @reob12
      @reob12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Speaking Truth you cant just "always attend," the circumstances from making decisions like that have significant impacts on your ability to got back to school later in life

    • @Siniaire
      @Siniaire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m happy you said that I seen comments about how you can work in 13 years old but still theses works won’t keep you alive for long. You may think you can do this but I promise you you can get much better work and work you love doing. Of course if it’s health issues or you had problems in school you can drop out but don’t ever stop education yourself. Go different school or do online school/courses. Do something you love ❤️

    • @NOCLUEinvalid
      @NOCLUEinvalid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Speaking Truth I was pressured by family and society to just go to college so I went and just did a major I didn’t like and that was a waste of a lot of time and effort and mental energy and was just traumatizing

  • @lolbuddies100
    @lolbuddies100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    can you guys do a “do all people with ADHD/ADD think the same?”

    • @alexiajolie
      @alexiajolie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yesss

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hell yeah, maybe about meds, stigma, childhood/adulthood, hylerfocus and rejection sensitive dysphoria.

    • @riversrhodell2359
      @riversrhodell2359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I would really love this. My roommate has ADHD, and I'm always looking for ways to understand/be able to help her better.

    • @katsweeterly2039
      @katsweeterly2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@riversrhodell2359 that's very kind of you. ☺ Most ppl just stick to their assumptions about this condition.

    • @manu-nz7vc
      @manu-nz7vc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      eyyy im adhd this would be fun

  • @rosemaryngugi6328
    @rosemaryngugi6328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Drop out for your own valid reason. Not because a celebrity/famous person did and it worked out for them lol.

    • @Ghostxx
      @Ghostxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly. That's a 1 in a million chance

    • @AB-sr4xd
      @AB-sr4xd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mark Zuckerberg: Am I a joke to you?

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or just don’t drop out

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ghost actually it’s much higher now due to all the new social media platforms and different paths you have now Reason a lot don’t make is because they lack the skills or they just quit early on

    • @Bobo-jy5mg
      @Bobo-jy5mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Next big thing it’s actually a lot harder now. There are more billionaires than ever before in history but also very very significantly less millionaires in the world. The distribution of wealth is skewing therefore statistically speaking making it more unlikely as time goes.

  • @curybabyvee
    @curybabyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    i just feel like some of these videos require more diversity...like there are no dropouts that went back or older men/women that could comment on how it affected them later on in life..just young adults :(

    • @michaeloluokun9488
      @michaeloluokun9488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      If you went back to finish, you're not really a drop out. The older part yes i agree.

    • @curybabyvee
      @curybabyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Wf Mike you are still a dropout.. at 20 you decide to go to college dropout and at 30 u decide to return. You were once a dropout that simply returned back to school to get their GED or utilize secondary education.

    • @chainmanz7476
      @chainmanz7476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what are you, a researcher?

    • @curybabyvee
      @curybabyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chainmanz 😂

    • @curybabyvee
      @curybabyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Juan Pineda 😂😂😂

  • @brianna62917
    @brianna62917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    “Do all police officers think the same?”

    • @shirleytatha8189
      @shirleytatha8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They did an episode on middle ground between law enforcement officers and criminals and one with black lives matter supporters. For both episodes they said they were finding a hard time finding police

  • @maurgonzalez1828
    @maurgonzalez1828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Luna: I was diagnosed with depression at 2yrs old.
    Everyone else at 2 yrs old: crying in the crib

  • @tenten9237
    @tenten9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    How tf do you get diagnosed with depression at 2 years old

    • @AnimeAde
      @AnimeAde 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Google Account no I think she said 2 😭

    • @giovanniherrera6037
      @giovanniherrera6037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It’s a chemical imbalance but tbh it seemed a little bit asinine 😂

    • @narutouchiha5464
      @narutouchiha5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Time?

    • @vasilikialevra6067
      @vasilikialevra6067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@narutouchiha5464 3:51

    • @octoberrrrrrr
      @octoberrrrrrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      u dont

  • @shan6553
    @shan6553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    When she said “TH-cam exists” I felt that.

    • @abigailmarughu3403
      @abigailmarughu3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao💀
      Time stamp?

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ok but. Credentials. Work history. Connections. Degrees are what make you credible to be hired at jobs that give you health insurance and a 401K

    • @ambertree123
      @ambertree123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Eva Stood Work history and connections aren’t that hard (depending on where you live), and so many short term training programs and certificates are available outside of college, sometimes for free or low cost. As for health insurance and a 401k, cashiering at Whole Foods gave me that. Not nearly as exclusive as you’re making it seem. The education system wants people to think they hold the keys to every career path because they make a shitload of money off of it

    • @nellie.mp3
      @nellie.mp3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ambertree123 training programs and certificates are still education and give credentials. They're still part of the education system

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nellie.mp3 Exactly. Learn Microsoft Excel skills online and take a course to get a certificate, and you can do so many jobs.

  • @hughlysds5411
    @hughlysds5411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    What type of cast is this lmao. "I dropped out at 13" "I was diagnoses with depression when i was 2"

  • @babaz771
    @babaz771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "'i never let schooling get in the way of my education''. Mark twain.

  • @simplycatx
    @simplycatx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    “I was so miserable because my whole life I was trying to make other people happy.”
    This!!! I was basically forced to go to college and I hated it lol which is why I didn’t finished. Maybe I’ll finish when I’m wayyy older, but idk that was never priority for me 😅 I want to do things for me and my happiness for a change.

    • @mariee_e
      @mariee_e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      cathy xo hey! I’m curious about what other people are doing cause I’m in the same boat. Are you doing internships or job or just a break?

    • @Aaakeith
      @Aaakeith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      cathy xo that’s totally okay! I went though this and dropped out in my second year. Now I’m 25 and just went back this semester, and I love it! I have so much more respect for my education, and I’m doing it completely on my own terms.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So what are you doing now?

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey look at my professor, she didn’t get her degrees until she was 47 years old! So it’s certainly never too late to get your degree

    • @Odieodius
      @Odieodius 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But.. you guys have to get a job right? An education gives you higher wages and flexibility, not just a Walmart job

  • @curybabyvee
    @curybabyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    When I first started watching I didn’t know what they had dropped out of...highschool? college? work? life? 😂

    • @KaylaMays02
      @KaylaMays02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      MOOD

    • @patric3766
      @patric3766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Dropouts are people who dropped out of school.

    • @jahraccoon1396
      @jahraccoon1396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Dropout or drop out may refer to:
      Dropping out, prematurely leaving high school, college or university

    • @stefvnbrssl8601
      @stefvnbrssl8601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      dropping out of life definitely is a mood

    • @farida.
      @farida. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bro thats a whole mood

  • @ObliviousCrow
    @ObliviousCrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    shouldve been two different episodes, high school dropouts and college dropouts.

  • @pepacloughley4700
    @pepacloughley4700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The people who dropped out of college rather than highschool were much more mature and articulate. I think that shows something. You don't need college you do need highschool.

    • @Grace-mr8bc
      @Grace-mr8bc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not really.

    • @bbzbbssbb
      @bbzbbssbb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pepa cloughley nah

    • @felix-dr1zp
      @felix-dr1zp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're totaly wrong.

    • @SarahCrookall
      @SarahCrookall 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katthehippy5162 that’s amazing! Way to be!

  • @rosemaryngugi6328
    @rosemaryngugi6328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    “Do all Agnostics think the same?”

    • @zuboy4272
      @zuboy4272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Atheist

    • @Evieteresa
      @Evieteresa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      An agnostics video could feature atheist agnostics, theist agnostics, or both.

    • @doubleirishdutchsandwich4740
      @doubleirishdutchsandwich4740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. Our favorite shows are cliffhangers.

    • @iainhill492
      @iainhill492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I personally have a problem with believing in the same concept of any higher power on any given day..! Does this make me agnostic..? (I reserve my right to change my mind at any given moment..lol😉🤔🤗)

    • @Evieteresa
      @Evieteresa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iainhill492 Do you believe in a god? If the answer is anything but yes then are you are atheist. (A)gnosticism deals with knowledge.

  • @alissad7221
    @alissad7221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I'm curious what they all do to make a living, and if they're happy with their choices

    • @UnfamiliarThings
      @UnfamiliarThings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hi! Im a Music Mixer for TV shows, a Music Producer, and Composer.
      -Matt Levy

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alissa D going into entertainment is always fun anything with music excites me I might go in that direction when get out of school

    • @Bobo-jy5mg
      @Bobo-jy5mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Next big thing you better have an absolute god gifted talent for it combined with a set career plan to make that move... otherwise like most people you’ll have financial reality sink in and you won’t be doing that and even worse doing whatever job to meet ends means.

    • @MsZooper
      @MsZooper 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      LA clout chasers

  • @mooselove
    @mooselove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I have grown to dislike this series, you want to have a wide variety of people so you choose vastly different circumstances and stretch the meaning of the prompt. You need a bigger selection of people or a more precise prompt.

  • @Quantum_Cowboy
    @Quantum_Cowboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pov: school is crushing your mental health and you’re not even back in it yet but just the thought sends you into a depressive spiral so you’re considering dropping out and working more and more

  • @K-O-M
    @K-O-M 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    Her: I dropped out at 13
    Me a 13 year old:🤔

    • @narutouchiha5464
      @narutouchiha5464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Kenyah dont

    • @K-O-M
      @K-O-M 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Naruto Uchiha I won’t it was a joke😂

    • @user-vb1oq1gq7q
      @user-vb1oq1gq7q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Naruto Uchiha don’t tell her what to do

    • @sophiam3187
      @sophiam3187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hahaha same but like it’s illegal to drop out at 13????

    • @knowethjc29
      @knowethjc29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@user-vb1oq1gq7q It's common sense, To drop out at such a young age of 13 isn't good for anybody, 16 is better

  • @kenneseyl2819
    @kenneseyl2819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    “diagnosed with depression at 2 years old”...

    • @Evieteresa
      @Evieteresa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      How is that possible? I thought maybe she meant 12 year old...

    • @HoustonYu
      @HoustonYu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      in other words, bologna.

    • @11karotte
      @11karotte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@Evieteresa i think she meant 2 years. Depression is an illness that can also affect children and can be diagnosed.

    • @christianx32
      @christianx32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @UC4uvGq6md5u-yI1yPj5GKqA you can't diagnose a 2 year old with depression and screening takes place at 12-18 w/ uspstf guidelines.

    • @Hagane98
      @Hagane98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And I thought me being diagnosed at 11 was too young lol

  • @hannahbruno1682
    @hannahbruno1682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    When you think TH-cam can replace a higher educational institution... 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @giovanniherrera6037
      @giovanniherrera6037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fr 😂

    • @koolk2269
      @koolk2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hannah Bruno She never said that. She said that she may be able to learn more because it is at her pace.

    • @kitc.3104
      @kitc.3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Actually. A lot of college professors use TH-cam instead of lectures. So you can just watch those lectures online instead of paying for the class, and then when you know the material, test out of those classes or just do your life knowing the material.

    • @rewirestitch
      @rewirestitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      the only thing a college professor does is create a curriculum and teach it. not all of them create the material theyre teaching lmfao, you can learn a LOT online and for free too

    • @hiyourekyut2707
      @hiyourekyut2707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rewirestitch I agreeee

  • @marikrios
    @marikrios 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I dropped out of high school and honestly its one of the worst decisions I've made. I'm studying to get my ged, so I can at least have a high school equivalent to get a job

    • @nubieOSS
      @nubieOSS ปีที่แล้ว

      how you doin rn?

  • @anastasia4001
    @anastasia4001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    I respectfully disagree with dropping out.

    • @vixo7046
      @vixo7046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why?

    • @WolfHaley666
      @WolfHaley666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      of high school, college or both?

    • @mycolorgeat2370
      @mycolorgeat2370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Beth I agree with you if your talking about high school but college no

    • @serenaireland
      @serenaireland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Beth When it comes to high school I feel as though dropping out isn’t a mature decision unless depending on the scenario. When it comes to college I understand wanting or having to drop out because there are many understandable reasons as to why people do.

    • @marciaosullivan3200
      @marciaosullivan3200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @frenchie high school is free and why even go to college if you won't be able afford it

  • @GDKLockout
    @GDKLockout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +735

    "I wouldnt ever force my kids to do something they didnt want to"
    My current scenario:
    2yr old refuses to wear shoes.
    5 yr old refuses to eat anything but candy.
    10 yr old refuses to accept a curfew.
    Yeah, thats a bit easier to say than do.
    Truth of the matter is that minors dont know enough about the world to be autonomous. General education in highschool gives you options. It should be mandatory and a serious failure on the parents part to limit their kids like that.
    University is more specialized and i think a lot of kids are pushed into it when they dont have a clear interest. With mine i will advocate that they continue on and train in something after highschool. Hairdresser or organic farming or whatever. It doeant have to be university.
    (And if they want to do something useless like gender studies they will be paying for it themselves)

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      LOL This made my day 😂

    • @alyssadaeschner8760
      @alyssadaeschner8760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      but they aren’t talking about 2, 5, and 10 years old. they are talking about more mature people who are better at making decisions.

    • @NickVetter
      @NickVetter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep I'm not ready to be a parent

    • @farida.
      @farida. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ogey and...?

    • @nelson2163
      @nelson2163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Gender studies never hurt anyone :(
      Also, you’re taking their words out of context :)

  • @aleki779
    @aleki779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My dad never made it to high school but he was a hard working man. He gave me the kind of education he never had and now I'm now pursuing a degree in Software engineering. He is the kind of man I look up to and one who I'd like to be.

  • @ia6619
    @ia6619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The guy who said that his teacher said he was gonna be homeless was probably a class clown/wannabe badass in school and is trying to play victim now

    • @-----------g-
      @-----------g- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen.

    • @katiechambers1319
      @katiechambers1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly

    • @ia6619
      @ia6619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Patrick Star He probably lied, over exaggerated or took a statement she said and paragraphed in a completely different way for example she probably told him you need to finish school to get a job and house and he took it as the teacher telling him he'll be homeless which I really doubt the teacher told him that. Don't believe everything people say or take it literally. You can tell by his body language and smirk he was lying or twisting words

    • @UnfamiliarThings
      @UnfamiliarThings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi! That guy is me. Im not here to argue. I have actually never put myself in a public video and only have a youtube account for this purpose. I understand the statement and a lot of that was actually explained. This was a 2 hour shoot edited down into 6 minutes! If you'd like to know more about my background, I'm happy to clarify anything! I actually was not a class clown or a wanna-be badass. I didn't learn like everybody else and often times was in trouble for writing music and drumming on my desks. This was not for attention, but the only way my mind could have a release. My point was, in a smaller environment this may have been recognized and my areas of strength could have been nurtured. Instead, I was punished and humiliated for not acting like everybody else. Fortunately, I had some supporters on my side and now am able to maintain a healthy lifestyle and live in LA with my beautiful fiancé. And the beauty of it all is (as of now) every dime i make is from music mixing and production. Thank god. I do not condone dropping out to wander around and find yourself. I was presented an extremely clear opportunity at 16 which would allow me to make more than the teachers putting me down so I took it. I understand the comment, I would feel the same way watching this cut!

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Matt Levy props to you man I hope one day to succeed in that field

  • @MusicBoxAlsoWater
    @MusicBoxAlsoWater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    There's a difference between dropping out and not doing anything VS unenrolling from school and homeschooling in the way the child can learn best or what interests them the most. Ijs.

    • @JustTodd24
      @JustTodd24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a drop out i completely agree with this message.

    • @karstynmcdaniel
      @karstynmcdaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly that's what the "I dipped out at 13 y/o" girl did and I'm sitting here thinking why is she even in this video

    • @NDCJ22
      @NDCJ22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I dropped out of high school to go to college at 15, and I would never have done a video like this. Sure, I'm technically a drop-out, but that's not what this video is about.

    • @MusicBoxAlsoWater
      @MusicBoxAlsoWater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karstynmcdaniel Unknown. I wish we knew more about them.

    • @MusicBoxAlsoWater
      @MusicBoxAlsoWater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NDCJ22 Exactly. Before I clicked, I'm thinking people who dropped out of high school or middle school and who never went back to finish in any capacity. I wanted that demographic and to see how they're doing now. They needed some ppl in their late 20s and 30s in this videos. When you're still a teen or early 20s not making a good income isn't a big deal vs when you're late 20s and things get real with having a family or other stuff. Not saying early 20s or a teen can't experience that, but ijs.

  • @jessielin3149
    @jessielin3149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    damn this video was a reminder of how grateful i am to have the teachers i do.

  • @marianat2830
    @marianat2830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Aye that's me in the video! I feel like I should clarify something I said since of course they couldn't put everything I said in the video for time sake. I didn't drop out at 13 to find myself, that came as a result of dropping out of the traditional school system, I was homeschooled and I graduated :) also my mom’s a teacher so she knew exactly what she was doing

    • @melzap8179
      @melzap8179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      people really expect others to express themselves perfectly in person and don't know how to interpret what it's trying to be said...

    • @man1_luv
      @man1_luv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      So then why were u in the video lol.

    • @nonnynani2766
      @nonnynani2766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why were you in the video then 💀

  • @natashavelasquez1841
    @natashavelasquez1841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really appreciated the voice over when asking the questions. Huge improvement. Thanks so much. Keep up the good work guys

  • @laureanalogioia5919
    @laureanalogioia5919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    They talk like you can’t figure yourself out while being in school... you don’t need to drop out in order to know yourself.

    • @ATurtlesLife
      @ATurtlesLife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      when school costs thousands of dollars that you don't have it's hard to stay because you know you don't like being there and you'll leave with crippling debt.

    • @vkook2500
      @vkook2500 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ATurtlesLife true

    • @arina8271
      @arina8271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seems like some people do. Not everyone is like you, you know that?

    • @laureanalogioia5919
      @laureanalogioia5919 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arina that’s what I’m saying. They talk like nobody could know themselves while being in school and I’m saying that some people don’t need to drop out in order to do it.

    • @laureanalogioia5919
      @laureanalogioia5919 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      super shaggy yes sorry I didn’t think of that, school it’s super cheap or almost free where I’m from

  • @jennifermascarelli2461
    @jennifermascarelli2461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    This hurt me so badly, I dropped out a few years ago and it still hurt me.
    But I can say that seeing other people talking about it gave me a more open perspective of things.

    • @diehardanimefann
      @diehardanimefann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I feel the same too. I can never get over the feelings of guilt and shame and lagging behind in life

    • @maddrosegunn7336
      @maddrosegunn7336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You both are great and dropping out does not define you. I dropped out as well but now I'm thriving. Just make sure you both get your GED if you dont have it yet. Unless you're talking about college in that case there is really no reason to feel bad 😊

    • @mycolorgeat2370
      @mycolorgeat2370 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer Mascarelli Did u drop out of college or high school?

    • @jennifermascarelli2461
      @jennifermascarelli2461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mycolorgeat2370 high school

    • @ah5557
      @ah5557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jennifer Mascarelli Get your GED as soon as you can love. If you want to go to university you absolutely can. I recommend doing a semester in community college first if you go that route. If you want to go into a trade, you can easily do so with just a GED. Sincerely, a fellow high school drop out❤️

  • @daelensucks
    @daelensucks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    2 year old cries:
    Doctor: I diagnose you with depression

    • @daelensucks
      @daelensucks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nicolaus Volentius someone should teach you how to take a joke bruh

    • @daelensucks
      @daelensucks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicolaus Volentius bet you’re the life of the party

    • @daelensucks
      @daelensucks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicolaus Volentius take it how you want. You’re butthurt

  • @Missliz441
    @Missliz441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I don’t think the internet or TH-cam can replace school...

    • @kitc.3104
      @kitc.3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Actually. A lot of college professors use TH-cam instead of lectures. So you can just watch those lectures online instead of paying for the class, and then when you know the material, test out of those classes or just do your life. In addition, there are online places that teach everything from ELA to programming at all ages and levels. So it's not a full substitution, but add that with a library or a tutor and you're golden.

    • @corgiass2892
      @corgiass2892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wait until you get to college and deal with some shitty professors lol. Some of these science channels on yt are the only reason I passed ochem

    • @hughlysds5411
      @hughlysds5411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My degree says other wise.

    • @3ndeavor
      @3ndeavor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For an education, YT can definitely replace school. However, there are other aspects of school that you don't get just from educating yourself. Understanding social hierarchies, developing relationships, and how to deal with people in general are important lessons you get from school, as you are forced to be around a whole bunch of people you probably wouldn't choose to associate with.
      But honestly, anything you get from school is replaceable in other ways. School just happens to be easily accessible (and mandatory in some places until you reach an age threshold) so that's why we all end thinking that school is necessary.

    • @howdyfucker443
      @howdyfucker443 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You say it as if there’s no education available on TH-cam

  • @sirauron5530
    @sirauron5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Education is big in my house hold...my mom dropped out of high school and my father sought out a higher education to become an electrician. They were immigrants to this country and I was a first generation American. They always pushed education on me. I feel dropping out of high school is not a good idea. I live in the Bronx, NY and I know several people who dropped out of high school and it’s hard for them to figure things out. They get jobs that are not paid well. And live to basically survive.
    On the other hand, dropping out of college is different. College isn’t for everyone. You are definitely more mature enough to understand if you want to continue your education for 2 or 4 more years. I’m an electrical engineer student and college and education was right for me but it’s not right for some other people. As an engineering student I see plenty of people drop out of becoming an engineer or just drop out of college completely because they experienced it and now know it is not for them.
    But I think getting your diploma or GED is a good thing to do. If you ever choose to go to college, you have your diploma. A lot of jobs require at least a high school diploma or even a higher education. But what gets me upset is that some people have this mentality of just working to survive....and I understand that life can be ugly and hard at times. But people should strive for success not survival.

  • @navier2287
    @navier2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    There is some background noise right ...? O__o

    • @EOimages
      @EOimages 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What noise?

    • @grossssssss
      @grossssssss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      There is, yes, kinda creepy sounding

    • @suqmaddiqq
      @suqmaddiqq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I didn't notice it until now!

    • @RockinLoud360
      @RockinLoud360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      drone or a fan

    • @17littlethings13
      @17littlethings13 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's really distracting :(

  • @taylinnemaeorrick
    @taylinnemaeorrick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Middle ground: GED vs Graduating
    Although the GED is literally a diploma and they’re the same but like seriously please do this one!!!

  • @IzzyHoolsema
    @IzzyHoolsema 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s too bad that people blame their problems and stuff on the school system. I get bullied, I have depression, but I care about my future and I don’t want to struggle so I power through, if you have issues learning you get help, hire tutor, ask a sibling.

  • @bbmbaby9378
    @bbmbaby9378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    bruh i just woke up and i read the title as "do all donuts think the same?" 😳

    • @CL-bs1bg
      @CL-bs1bg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bbm baby they donut 🍩

    • @VDOTU5
      @VDOTU5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would like to see that

  • @femkeveth5534
    @femkeveth5534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    This video shows that school doesn't make or break your future.
    You do.

    • @laurenhogan3877
      @laurenhogan3877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol and people break the possibility of achieving more when the drop out

    • @juliannaevierivera
      @juliannaevierivera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lauren Hogan as a dropout myself, I have to say I disagree with you and you sound misinformed.

    • @royyaghi5572
      @royyaghi5572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But sometimes, probably most of the time if I’m being honest, school opens doors for your future that wouldn’t be there if you dropped out. Of course it depends on your situation, but simply put high school is a necessity in today’s world and people should go to college/university if they have a good idea/motivation of what they want to do later on.

    • @vascor.3267
      @vascor.3267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Warlock12347 definitely and we also have to realize how lucky we are to be able to attend university and get a higher education like that because a lot of people our age don’t have these opportunities...

    • @krystalwithay8232
      @krystalwithay8232 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely not true.

  • @jimmysevillano3428
    @jimmysevillano3428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Guys, stay in school. Please. Find yourself once you’ve earned a good education.
    It’s gonna make you proud one day

    • @chiquita1015
      @chiquita1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I agree

    • @doomworld5112
      @doomworld5112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Don't listen to him guys.. Just do what is the best for you. There is always so many options to do and it is just up to you which way you're gonna choose.

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@doomworld5112 That's horrible advice. Even if you want to do something, you should have at least a high school degree to fall back on. Don't limit your choices that severely by not finishing high school please... Even if you are "getting education" through other means, employers want to see that you were able to complete your basic education.

    • @knowethjc29
      @knowethjc29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can always study things at uni/Tafe/College. So finishing school is just an extra thing on your resume that some people don't even care about.

    • @doomworld5112
      @doomworld5112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Ray03595 stop dictating people what they have to do to be successful please.. You don't have to finish high school to be successful. This is what education system want us to think. We are not slaves of this system which destroys creativity and different people. Just do what you want, not what wants society or education system you to do.

  • @tiaanderson2280
    @tiaanderson2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m SO glad the questions are spoken louder! Before, I could barely hear them and had to look at them on the screen. Plus, a bit of better lighting at the start for Kendra and Dan would be great so we can see their faces😊

  • @vamperkillzshy
    @vamperkillzshy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "Do children of divorce think the same"

  • @jesswinter
    @jesswinter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I’m kinda a schoolaholic in a way😂 but I can still so relate to this. Learning to choose your path and being okay with it changing. I had planned to go to med school for the past five years of my life. I was a chem major with biology and psych minors and was about to start shadowing doctors and studying for the MCAT as a junior in college. The problem was I was insanely unhappy and stressed. I would joke about how I will hate the next ten years of my life but then be rich so it would all be worth it. It then hit me that I don’t want to spend my whole entire 10 years of my twenties being absolutely miserable. I happened to fall in love with psychology and plan to teach that and also become a counselor/therapist. We have free counseling at our school and an amazing psych department and I have enjoyed both of those so far and everything just fell into place. I finally feel like I found my purpose. I have even been teaching chem for over a year now (I just started teaching my 3rd class) and I realized how much I love teaching I just don’t really care about this material. I can’t wait to teach psychology and I am enjoying my semester now so much more and just yesterday dropped my bio minor and my super stressful bio class because why in the hell am I getting a bio minor just to prove that I can. It was hard for me to switch and do less because it started to make me feel like I was less. I am not less though and I am still taking 4 classes as well as teaching one and studying for the GRE and I made a decision for my own mental health and happiness and not for money which I think is the strongest and smartest decision I could have made. As one of my psych professors says, “If you are living life without doing something you are passionate about, what are you doing and how are you even living?” -Eric Dodson if you want to check out his awesome TH-cam channel.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was with you until you quoted your psych professor. He sounds like a total pessimist who can’t sympathize with those who lack ambition. There’s nothing wrong with that, and if he can’t understand, he simply doesn’t understand life.

    • @ohpba
      @ohpba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is completely true. I have friends who are biological sciences major and their able to put up with the workload because they love the subject

    • @lkm1743
      @lkm1743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aus-li the quote says nothing about ambition though, you don't have to be ambitious to engage in things you're passionate about

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      k m Ambition and passion usually go together. If you’re ambitious in general, you usually have to be passionate about your ideal goal.

    • @giovanniherrera6037
      @giovanniherrera6037 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don’t encourage people into getting In that field 😂 my friends and already have a hard time finding a job in psych don’t encourage these impressionable kids

  • @WrapFiqah
    @WrapFiqah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I definitely feel that this should have been like more particular because as other people have said dropping out of high school and college are completely different

  • @sar.c5835
    @sar.c5835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I understand parents putting too much pressure on their kids and it breaking them, but at the same time, my parents' pressure and expectations of me helped me realize and fulfill my full potential. They never told me what I had to be, but they were very adamant about going to college and doing well and I think when I was 16-18 I was so focused on my social bubble and little world that I didn't have the perspective I do now to appreciate that they knew my potential and that it was important to prioritize that, even if at the time I felt like it wasn't important and I could just coast along

  • @alimmontgomery93
    @alimmontgomery93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    education is such a privilege, it would be interesting to see dropouts talk with people who are quite literally risking their lives to be in school.

  • @yunhee93
    @yunhee93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The education system failed me when I was in college because I was severely dyspraxic. It was really hard for me to drop out because I loved school and was a honor student.

    • @marciaosullivan3200
      @marciaosullivan3200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you not have a person to write for you I had a friend who's was dyspraxic he couldn't use keyboards or have legible hand writing so a teacher had to write what he said in test ect.

    • @yunhee93
      @yunhee93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marciaosullivan3200 i did but I didn't get as much support as I used to.

    • @shirleytatha8189
      @shirleytatha8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm asking because I don't know. What does dyspraxic mean?

    • @yunhee93
      @yunhee93 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shirleytatha8189 it's similar to autism but it affects motor skills.

  • @Xan1120
    @Xan1120 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wasn’t expecting to cry during this video, but the question about feeling ashamed hit really hard. I forced myself to go through my first year of college just because I thought if I went I’d feel like I could get somewhere in life, as when left high school I felt almost directionless...I kept trying to pay school, putting myself into debt by paying for tuition partly using my credit card and asking family members to help me fund things, because my job wasn’t paying me enough. For a while-especially when I was out of school for the first year-I felt the need to lie to my cousins, aunts, and uncles who hadn’t seen my awhile about how I was. Dropping out really did negatively impact how some of my family saw me, and I was mentally feeling broken b/c the system that I thought was supposed to make me feel like I could make it in life, that had made me feel some purpose and direction drove me into some of the worst identity issues and depression I’ve ever had. Yes, I had once regretted leaving art school and ditching fine art, but now looking back, I would’ve been forcing myself to do something that I ultimately ended up falling out of love with. Now I’m just working to get myself where I see myself going, but through learning about fashion in retail and more hands-on than I would’ve in school.

  • @tsoiablack906
    @tsoiablack906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I feel like the bare minimum you can do is finish high school. To me there’s really no excuse why you can’t complete high school at least 🤷🏽‍♀️ I know people who barely even showed up to school and still managed to get their high school diploma

    • @zrayne
      @zrayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      TSOIA Black exactly. unless there’s a drastic family event or you’re disabled/health reason, it’s lazy and irresponsible

    • @JustTodd24
      @JustTodd24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That just shows how worthless a HS diploma is if literally anybody can get it... So why even care for it? A GED just seems like a much easier and faster solution to showing that you can do basic math and history, just saying.

    • @CoolMintMC
      @CoolMintMC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@zrayne Yeah, but I would hope they also were including people who dropped out to get a GED instead.
      I'm personally in a special program where I'm still technically enrolled, but I basically have teachers I meet with somewhere like the library or whatnot. I just couldn't make myself go to school & be in a class due to my Social Anxiety Disorder {S.A.D.}, Generalized Anxiety Disorder {G.A.D.}, & the extremely bad experiences I had throughout my time in High School. The awful thing is that I actually LOVE learning, & I think I'm pretty book smart too. However, I couldn't handle everything anymore, & it took a lot to get me in this program that I'm in now. I have come to find there's a lot of people that don't understand Social Anxiety Disorder & anxiety in general. It really is a mental illness, & I'm still working on all my other mental issues.
      Sorry for rambling. 😅

    • @poodlecupsfive
      @poodlecupsfive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There are definitely circumstances me being one of them sexual abuse within the family home going on and you can’t concentrate.

    • @sagetheassassin3192
      @sagetheassassin3192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@poodlecupsfive I had to drop out in 2016 in 11th grade because my Mom and Dad were having relationship problems until the end of 2017, I'm planning to go to community college to get my GED.

  • @angelcalebbb4268
    @angelcalebbb4268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    “I have TH-cam”🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @josephfield6903
      @josephfield6903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s Crash course

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lego Lover how lmao you can learn way more online I was ahead of all students in my classes because of online training and research

    • @JustTodd24
      @JustTodd24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nextbigthing2917 He sounds like someone who was indoctrinated as a child into believing that strict and inflexible training is the only way to learn anything. Being able to learn wherever you want whenever you want is a huge bonus, and actually rewards people who love learning. Unlike High School, which forces you to take classes slowly no matter how advanced you are at a subject.

  • @Yvp13
    @Yvp13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    "I was diagnosed with depression at two years old"
    Hold up, what?

  • @sevendeadlysinns
    @sevendeadlysinns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I dropped out, but immediately got my GED and a full time job. My parents supported me, and pushed me to keep working hard every day. I found a good job, now my college is completely paid for, and I’m continuing to move up in the company. I’m much happier now than I would have been forcing myself to go to a university, drowning in debt.

  • @evidence7338
    @evidence7338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video as always, i just feel like you should do dropouts that are more regretful and thinks dropping out wasnt the best decision. It was very evident in the last question 💛

  • @masterpopeyoda3290
    @masterpopeyoda3290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    10/10 would NOT recommend dropping out again.

  • @chillaxo9863
    @chillaxo9863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    1:06 "if I didnt drop out, I wouldn't be here"
    You don't say😂

    • @mayracastrovalerio2869
      @mayracastrovalerio2869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      King of Kings & Ruler of Rulers she meant alive

    • @Maitexfrias
      @Maitexfrias 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I know what she meant but this comment is still funny to me 😂😂😂😂😭

    • @Ghostxx
      @Ghostxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right 😂😂

    • @RG_04
      @RG_04 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      G-_ Weirdo

  • @joemacy2776
    @joemacy2776 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honestly really like these spectrum videos. They are very incitful.

  • @leslievelez6466
    @leslievelez6466 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for having these questions clearly stated instead of screamed from far away

  • @harisrashid1780
    @harisrashid1780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    You should make “Do all Ivy League Alums think the same”

  • @JoshuaOtusanya
    @JoshuaOtusanya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Wishing peace love and success to whoever is reading this. Stay in touch :)

    • @faznaz7455
      @faznaz7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Noname Garofano It's an act of kindness, nobody should be complaining :)

    • @7211_
      @7211_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that’s so sweet!

    • @babyvanderwoodsen
      @babyvanderwoodsen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, beautiful soul

  • @tauau3571
    @tauau3571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dropped out of college in my third year. I'm from Asia, and the competition and pressure became too much for me, despite being an 'A student' my whole life. I lost faith in the system of education (I majored in education) and decided to pursue my dreams outside of class.
    I became a language teacher by other means (passed proficiency in the languages I teach, and then passed certification to teach language). Now I self study other languages and I'm attempting to become certified as a translator.
    There are other avenues in life to get you to success. I'm living my dream and I never finished college. I just hope that the culture of companies prioritizing a college degree over actual practical skill changes.

  • @blocked2327
    @blocked2327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i dropped out of high school due to depression and just being completely off track in life. it's hard to find work, everything feels hard.