I totally agree with your views. However, this only works when the girl is also financially independent, and working. However, when there’s a housewife, dependent on her husband then it becomes easier for the mother in law to enforce unlawful restrictions.
Living abroad is totally another case but girls living here must celebrate one Eid with parents and the other at in-laws and if there is any job related majbori then the parents must understand.
Maha you can’t imagine how lucky you are MA your mom is gem of a person her Aura is so so pure just looking at her and listening to her voice is so claiming lots of love and Duas for her ❤
I totally agree with you maha lekin there's a huge barrier between the older generation and their kids when it comes to having a constructive conversation. desi parents just need to master one thing saare masle hall ho skte hain and that is the ability to want to learn and unlearn🙂
Waqat waqat ki bat hy .phir jub acha waqat atta to na app wo rahtay hain aur na he dil .Her umer ki apni khahasian hoti hain aur waqat kay sath tarjeehat badal jati hain .
I’m so glad you talked about this. I’ve always found this susral my Eid concept very redundant and regressive. Girls need to prioritise their own mental health and No this is not badtamizi.
You have your house,your parents house which is your house too and then your inlaws house ...this whole it's now inlaws house is yours isn't...May Allah bless mils it's their house...no need to appropriate each others spaces and try and form unnatural bonds ..instead focus on maintain civilised,respectful human bonds without trying to make girls "forget" their house or parents.
You've put it across in a lovely way..our parents raised us the same way as our brothers so their is no reason why girls shouldn't be able to give them time and care that they deserve just like boys parents expect them to be looked after we'll by their boys in their old age.
Maha just noticed that you replied to each and every comment. That shows your humbleness. I agree that sometimes even educated women are unable to pursue their careers, especially when living abroad and dealing with in-laws alone. I experienced this for 12 years and have now resumed my chartered accountancy practice. It was very hard to re-enter the professional field after such a long gap, but where there's a will, there's a way. I feel like I am alive again.
You are genuinely such a darling. I mean this in a pure and beautiful way, but after listening to your talk about in-laws, I thought about how much of an amazing mum you will be insha’Allah. May Allah bless you Maha.
Maha you are such a darling and happy soul MashAllah MashAllah and that is testament to your parents instilling the right values and morals in you! This is how relationships should be…happy and healthy. Love your content, love your non pretentious personality. Keep it up ❤ one of the best Pakistani vloggers….genuinely prefer you over a number of others I had previously loved watching ❤❤❤
Maha piyari beti kitni khobsort soch hai apki,ka ash her koi aisay hi sochnay lg jai,I am a single mother of one daughter,meri beti meri take care nahi kr sakti kiyo k ye haq sirf betay k maa baap ka hota hai, I am cancer patient and living alone
Eid mubarak to all of you❤ Im missing my mom and dad they are gone to my brother's place who lives in a different city in uk. 😢 but koi nhi apko dekha celebrating eid with your parents tu main bhi genuinely khush hui. Your mum's home reminds me of my own back hone 😢 Hunesha khush rahain
I totally agree with you, in addition to, firstly,the people who have the mindset like we discussed, they can’t be influenced by the financial independence of the girl, in my personal observation.secondly, mother in laws might not have any issues with bahu but her daughter could be the strong reason behind her negative behaviour. So, i suggest the young girls or ladies plz this is the time to improve and strive to put good impact on your relationships around you specially your bhabi. Women needs to stand against ourselves otherwise this behaviour will be carried forward to the next generation.
Hi Maha, the topic you talked today is too important and even now no one understands this but only the lady facing this wants everyone to understand this topic.
Just started watching the video and u asked if we want a room tour video DEFINITELY YESSSSSS pls a detailed room tour video just like bag collection and dress designing videos where u share all stories and give us ted talks in between i love listening to ur thoughts of how u curate everything ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yes ur bed set is very nice i have some of screen shot of beds and want same for my daughter room. I believe on the things you are talking about. Same level of bold and vocalness. Thanks there is some one like me😂😂😂
Maha ur soo soo humble and kind MASHAALLAH MASHAALLAH the way u show love towards my village makes me feel soo soo good 110 percent agree karte hon jo aap keh rae hain , ur literally speaking my heart out Jahan larkay ke parents important hain wahan larki ke parents b important hain Balance zaroori hai dono taraf lots of love and duas♥♥
Agreed with you, maha you are such a pure soul and sweet person.. always be like this as you are adorable mashaAllah love u and we all subscribers(family) are with you always ❤ and thnku maha that you ask aunty to tell us about that ring which I love the most and thnku my sweetest sweetheart aunty to tell us and aunty your test is amazing in everything ❤
Maha pls don’t take it wrong but it’s kind of rude you don’t let finish your mom talking and you start in the middle of it and sometimes you don’t pay attention to her the while she talks maybe you don’t do it deliberately but still aunty is very sweet and loving and so are you like the way you treat others specially the shopkeeper. Lots of love
I set my boundaries from day one we lived in same cities and I made sure I visit my parents the first day and second day with my in-laws and sister in laws because they used to visit second say but before me there was no concept of bahu visiting her parents first day Bass aik fazool rule tha 😑
Hey Maha mam u lookss superb fabulous smrty ❤❤❤❤love to see u alwyss so much beautiful not from outside from inside its comes on ur face wid glowyyyyeee❤❤❤❤😊
Boht achi bat kahi ap ny api 2ono k parents ek jesi importance rkhty hain me ny khud recently apni ek bhabhi ko is problem ko face krty huey dekha hai she really wanted to spend this eid at her parents house but un k inlaws ny mana kr dia k apny ghr me eid kry mtlb shadi k bad lrki k parents ka kya us sy rishta khtm ho jata hai or us sy bhi zeyada dukh ki bat ye hai k apni beti ko apny ghr bulaya mtlb had hoti hai double standards ki bhi😒
We should thank Allah that he's privileged us with so many soghatein aap ky parents ko Allah ny qabil kia ky wu aap ka khyal rakh sakein "TUM US RAB KEE KIS KIS NEHMAT KA SHUKAR ADA KARO GAY"❤ALLAH har aik ko qabil karay apny bachoon kee khawshaiyat puri karny ky liye bus ameen .
Tell me detail of Ure dress plz .a little bit I information throw here as well that will be helpful for people Like me who not using instagram.thanks BTW look 😍
Hey! Maha really love your opinion on how the larkay walay should let their bahu to celebrate Eid with her parents as they are getting old too and girl has right to be with her parents they are equally important as boy’s parents. I think ppl really need to think big and come out of such low and choti soch it’s 2024.
Dear Maha ,ist of all. Eid Mubarak to u n ur mom ,2nd tym ap ka vlog watch kr rhi hu. Sub b kr lia ap ka ch. ❤ap ne bohut achy topic pe bat ki bcoz ye mery sath b aisa hota tha k nhi chorty susral waly larki maa bap k ghr jay bs eo ye chaty han k humarey sath hi rhy chay parents ko yad kr rhi ho khufa ho lkn susral walo ko parwa nhi hoti ,tc n khush rahen always ❤❤❤
Aoa dear, fully agreed with your views,your dress is awesome in this vlog,kindly repeat its brand name i think i missed if you already mentioned thanks n love ❤️
I totally agree with your views. However, this only works when the girl is also financially independent, and working. However, when there’s a housewife, dependent on her husband then it becomes easier for the mother in law to enforce unlawful restrictions.
That’s why every girl must study and must be financially independent before and after marriage!!
Well said I agree with your thoughts.some in-laws need to stop with their negative rules and should not make their children’s life miserable.
@@mahakayani Easier said than done, especially after kids and if you're abroad. The cost of childcare vs what you earn just doesnt make this possible.
❤true ❤@@mahakayani
Living abroad is totally another case but girls living here must celebrate one Eid with parents and the other at in-laws and if there is any job related majbori then the parents must understand.
Maha you can’t imagine how lucky you are MA your mom is gem of a person her Aura is so so pure just looking at her and listening to her voice is so claiming lots of love and Duas for her ❤
I'm not married but jo jo larkian married hain Allah pak unki Zindagi m asanian paida kryn ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ameen sum ameen 💗
Ameeen❤
I totally agree with you maha lekin there's a huge barrier between the older generation and their kids when it comes to having a constructive conversation. desi parents just need to master one thing saare masle hall ho skte hain and that is the ability to want to learn and unlearn🙂
You are very right, Maha, but beta shadi ka initial years are always difficult, and it gets easier with time .WAQT IK JAISA NAHI REHTA! remember .
Waqat waqat ki bat hy .phir jub acha waqat atta to na app wo rahtay hain aur na he dil .Her umer ki apni khahasian hoti hain aur waqat kay sath tarjeehat badal jati hain .
Yes but jab acha waqt aata ha tou maan baap nai rehte...phir konsa maika aur konsi eidain....i m living example of that😢
I’m so glad you talked about this. I’ve always found this susral my Eid concept very redundant and regressive. Girls need to prioritise their own mental health and No this is not badtamizi.
Bro it’s not just Eid. This whole concept of “Ab woh ghar tumhara hai” is BS!!!!!!!
@@mahakayani absolutely
You have your house,your parents house which is your house too and then your inlaws house ...this whole it's now inlaws house is yours isn't...May Allah bless mils it's their house...no need to appropriate each others spaces and try and form unnatural bonds ..instead focus on maintain civilised,respectful human bonds without trying to make girls "forget" their house or parents.
You've put it across in a lovely way..our parents raised us the same way as our brothers so their is no reason why girls shouldn't be able to give them time and care that they deserve just like boys parents expect them to be looked after we'll by their boys in their old age.
Maha just noticed that you replied to each and every comment. That shows your humbleness.
I agree that sometimes even educated women are unable to pursue their careers, especially when living abroad and dealing with in-laws alone. I experienced this for 12 years and have now resumed my chartered accountancy practice. It was very hard to re-enter the professional field after such a long gap, but where there's a will, there's a way. I feel like I am alive again.
All the prayers for you 💕
You are genuinely such a darling. I mean this in a pure and beautiful way, but after listening to your talk about in-laws, I thought about how much of an amazing mum you will be insha’Allah. May Allah bless you Maha.
Maha you are such a darling and happy soul MashAllah MashAllah and that is testament to your parents instilling the right values and morals in you! This is how relationships should be…happy and healthy. Love your content, love your non pretentious personality. Keep it up ❤ one of the best Pakistani vloggers….genuinely prefer you over a number of others I had previously loved watching ❤❤❤
Maha piyari beti kitni khobsort soch hai apki,ka ash her koi aisay hi sochnay lg jai,I am a single mother of one daughter,meri beti meri take care nahi kr sakti kiyo k ye haq sirf betay k maa baap ka hota hai, I am cancer patient and living alone
Aunty I’m so sorry to hear this!! If you live in isb please do let me know
If in lhr then let me know...
Awww
❤
May Allah make it easy for you Nasira Aunty ❤
@@mahakayanithanks a lot my princess,we are in USA
Eid mubarak to all of you❤
Im missing my mom and dad they are gone to my brother's place who lives in a different city in uk. 😢 but koi nhi apko dekha celebrating eid with your parents tu main bhi genuinely khush hui. Your mum's home reminds me of my own back hone 😢
Hunesha khush rahain
Finally watched this vlog and i loved each word you of urs!
I totally agree with you, in addition to, firstly,the people who have the mindset like we discussed, they can’t be influenced by the financial independence of the girl, in my personal observation.secondly, mother in laws might not have any issues with bahu but her daughter could be the strong reason behind her negative behaviour. So, i suggest the young girls or ladies plz this is the time to improve and strive to put good impact on your relationships around you specially your bhabi. Women needs to stand against ourselves otherwise this behaviour will be carried forward to the next generation.
Hi Maha, the topic you talked today is too important and even now no one understands this but only the lady facing this wants everyone to understand this topic.
Your mom is a very good vlogger.Its treat to listen her.She should start her channel too.
Just started watching the video and u asked if we want a room tour video DEFINITELY YESSSSSS pls a detailed room tour video just like bag collection and dress designing videos where u share all stories and give us ted talks in between i love listening to ur thoughts of how u curate everything ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
House tour
MashaAllah masha Allah ❤ 1:34
Room tour 1:39 ❤
Yes ur bed set is very nice i have some of screen shot of beds and want same for my daughter room.
I believe on the things you are talking about.
Same level of bold and vocalness.
Thanks there is some one like me😂😂😂
Maha ur soo soo humble and kind MASHAALLAH MASHAALLAH
the way u show love towards my village makes me feel soo soo good
110 percent agree karte hon jo aap keh rae hain , ur literally speaking my heart out
Jahan larkay ke parents important hain wahan larki ke parents b important hain
Balance zaroori hai dono taraf
lots of love and duas♥♥
You look pretty maha ❤and i totally agree with your prespective❤😊 and yes please give a room tour thankyou❤😊
Agreed with you, maha you are such a pure soul and sweet person.. always be like this as you are adorable mashaAllah love u and we all subscribers(family) are with you always ❤ and thnku maha that you ask aunty to tell us about that ring which I love the most and thnku my sweetest sweetheart aunty to tell us and aunty your test is amazing in everything ❤
Thank you beta 😊❤
Yess home tour must
I think sari bat ahsas ki hai
Absolutely and parents are there to facilitate their kids not to put them in trouble.
Maha pls don’t take it wrong but it’s kind of rude you don’t let finish your mom talking and you start in the middle of it and sometimes you don’t pay attention to her the while she talks maybe you don’t do it deliberately but still aunty is very sweet and loving and so are you like the way you treat others specially the shopkeeper. Lots of love
I agree. Yeah, please Maha! We love you and love your mom.
💯 percent true good and genuine thinking love your mom ❤️
maha detail home tour karaoke ur home is beautiful and the garden too ❤
YES I WANT A DETAILED ROOM TOUR PLS
Ur mom is so sweet the way she takes care of u is adorable
Yes I m 💯 agree with you ❤
In Sha allah sab acha hoga ameen
Plz apki jhumke ke bare mein information dena ..bare khubsurat hay..
I set my boundaries from day one we lived in same cities and I made sure I visit my parents the first day and second day with my in-laws and sister in laws because they used to visit second say but before me there was no concept of bahu visiting her parents first day Bass aik fazool rule tha 😑
Great thought process 👏🏼 definitely endorse it
I second her .
السلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ عید مبارک ❤ سلامت رہیں ❤❤
Your mother is so sweet .I love her alot
Yes it’s from turkey
I have it in small size
Ma sha Allah ur mom beautiful ❤
Room Tour? And that too at your mom's? OMG. Hell yesssss.
I totally agree with you 👍 typical soch change huni chahye 😊
Love the rant. it was important to talk and put out there.
Love your tayari ❤ give Shafaf's room tour please
Iss dress mei aap bohat achi lag rahi hai as always
Maha you are such a humble.love you ❤❤❤ always.bohat hi achi tips milty ha ap sa.you are the best always mine ❤❤❤❤
Lots offf loveeee and Hugsssss your wayyy 🤗🤗🤗💜💜💜
Hey Maha mam u lookss superb fabulous smrty ❤❤❤❤love to see u alwyss so much beautiful not from outside from inside its comes on ur face wid glowyyyyeee❤❤❤❤😊
Lip shade bata dain please
Boht achi bat kahi ap ny api 2ono k parents ek jesi importance rkhty hain me ny khud recently apni ek bhabhi ko is problem ko face krty huey dekha hai she really wanted to spend this eid at her parents house but un k inlaws ny mana kr dia k apny ghr me eid kry mtlb shadi k bad lrki k parents ka kya us sy rishta khtm ho jata hai or us sy bhi zeyada dukh ki bat ye hai k apni beti ko apny ghr bulaya mtlb had hoti hai double standards ki bhi😒
We should thank Allah that he's privileged us with so many soghatein aap ky parents ko Allah ny qabil kia ky wu aap ka khyal rakh sakein "TUM US RAB KEE KIS KIS NEHMAT KA SHUKAR ADA KARO GAY"❤ALLAH har aik ko qabil karay apny bachoon kee khawshaiyat puri karny ky liye bus ameen .
Absolutely!! ❤️
maha ma u look soo happy at ur parents place khush raho beta ganesha ❤ ur a genuine gem ❤i wish i cud meet u sometime in isd and also ur mum ❤
Absolutely right
Tell me detail of Ure dress plz .a little bit I information throw here as well that will be helpful for people
Like me who not using instagram.thanks
BTW look 😍
Mayah studio 🩷
Ma Sha allah your mother is very nice lady ❤❤❤
MashaAllah ❤
We love you too ❤❤stay blessed
Hey! Maha really love your opinion on how the larkay walay should let their bahu to celebrate Eid with her parents as they are getting old too and girl has right to be with her parents they are equally important as boy’s parents. I think ppl really need to think big and come out of such low and choti soch it’s 2024.
Father's are always so caring ❤
Totally relate with your thought, balance is important.. also love seeing aunty 😘😘
Betay i think ek eid parents ki taraf and doosri eid inlaws kay saath karlein ❤️
Allah pak ap k liy asaniyan peda karay ameen
Please share your lipstick 💄 color
Kher mobarak ap ko b Eid mobarak ❤
Mashallah ami k ghar ap buht energetic lag rae hain..❤❤❤
Home tour also❤
Absolutely right 👍❤
You are fantastic ❤ so much luv from india . 😊
Ap kay parents bohat decent hain😊😊😊
You are right about that matter i agree with you
❤❤ Eid Mubarak
My favourite... Love your vlogs
Dear Maha ,ist of all. Eid Mubarak to u n ur mom ,2nd tym ap ka vlog watch kr rhi hu. Sub b kr lia ap ka ch. ❤ap ne bohut achy topic pe bat ki bcoz ye mery sath b aisa hota tha k nhi chorty susral waly larki maa bap k ghr jay bs eo ye chaty han k humarey sath hi rhy chay parents ko yad kr rhi ho khufa ho lkn susral walo ko parwa nhi hoti ,tc n khush rahen always ❤❤❤
Sending you 💗
Yes room tour please
Mama's soft beautiful hands❤
Love emotional talk❤❤❤
Very nice❤
Eid Mubarak
ur bedset from ?
Loving vlog❤️👌
Main ap ka vlog pehlay mobile pe dekhti hon pher tv py😂❤❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️
very nice vlog!! ❤
EID MUBARAK to you and your mum ❤
Stay blessed
Nice vlog 👍❤️
Very true😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Totally agreed Mahaa😘
Beautiful video🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤
Not only your room but your whole home tour(your mom's house)
Eid mubarak ❤❤
Aoa dear, fully agreed with your views,your dress is awesome in this vlog,kindly repeat its brand name i think i missed if you already mentioned thanks n love ❤️
Mayah studio 💕
Maha no need to say sorry to anyone jb koi baat galat nahi kr rhi ho
Appreciated
Eid Mubarak beta❤
Ufffff mahaaaaa you’re lovereeeeee man you’re queen💕🫀
Room tour please
plz room tour
Eid Mubarak maha ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mashallah maha ap boht peyare lag rhe ho
Very nice vlog maha ap ne ye outfit kis brand ka phna ha plz shear kry
Mayah studio! It’s tagged on my insta you can check there 💕
Ok
Thanks
Kindly app apni Dua ring ka close up Laga dein
Even some girls parents are very toxic....my mother us alwyas threatening me that she will not let me settle in my susral......
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My own brother in law after couple of days of our marriage was saying your parents will understand ke ab shadi so husband family comes first😡😡😡😡