2; Nw ua yog kawg lawm lo nw tab tom ua qhia tia cov neeg siab. Phem ntxeev siab yus twb tseem muaj rawm ib lub qhov hauv tsev yus tsi coj ncaj tseem ntxeev siab ce yam yus yuav tau txai yog dab tsi no xwb tsi ta tuaj nug li os yog koj paub koj txoj kev txhaum
Teb tus #1. Niam tsev koj yog poj ntsuam kwv tij tsis nav tsis hu koj los txhob tu siab nyob teb chaws no tsis ntshaw noj lawm . Tus #2. Thaub koj nrauj poj niam vim xav tau koj tus hluas nkauj 😆😆ntawd ces yog kev khaum kev npam mas yuav tau kawm txog kev hlub thiaj tsis poob peev nawb !!! Koj paub tsawg teb chaws mikas nov tseev yog doctor nrauj poj niam raug ua homeless tau hos yawg .
Zaj lus nug 1.tsis muaj tus txiv lawm ces yeej tsis muaj kwv tij hu yus lawm os tej poj niam los lawv ntshai tsam yus ho tham lawv tej txiv thiab ces lawm ham yam ntshai yus xwb
Yog kawg mas tsis muaj tus txiv lawm tsis ntxob ciab siab tias cov kwv tij yuav hlub yus os cov kwv cov tij hlub los cov niam ntxawm niam tij ntsai2 tsam yus ho tham lawv cov txiv thiab os tsis ntxob tu siab os kuv los twb ib yam li koj thiab os kuv twb nyob kuv nrog kuv tej menyuam xwb os
Story 1 - Hmoob tej laus piv txoj lus ntsees tias txawm tus txiv qes txij tus qaib los yog tus dev xwb los nws yog lub tob hau txiv rau nws tus poj niam hwm nrog rau cov mi nyuam. Yog koj tsis muaj tus txiv lawm, koj case no apply rau thiab pib kiag ntawm koj tus txiv cov kwv tij thiab koj cov neej ntsa tib si nrog rau tej txheeb ze. Story 2 - Neb kev nkauj nraug tsis yog cai mus cuam tshuam rau koj tus hluas nkauj cov nws ib tug twg. Nws tsis kam yuav koj los yeej tsis yog cai rau koj yuam nws yuav koj. Tib yam nkaus li no rau nws thiab.
2nd question brother, you chose to cheat and divorce your wife with an affair mistress. Now that you're divorce and you come to her empty-handed, broke, homeless, hell of child support, your mistress not going to want you much less have to support you. HELLO BROTHER, SHE WAS A GOLD DIGGER AND HER ONLY INTENTION WAS TO DESTROYED YOUR MARRIAGE.
Tus txiv dev nej cov txiv dev tsis hlub poj niam nej pom tus nrauv zoo xwb thaum kawg thiaj ntsib Kev npam los mam. Tseem yuav noog lwm tus teb thiab nawj
Q1 Tus niam tsev koj tus txiv twb tuag lawm es luag tsis hu los txhob tusiab tej cov kwv tij yeej muaj cov coj li ntawv es yus rau siab cob qhia yus cov me nyuam kom tiav niam tiav txiv xwb ces ntawv yog koj lub luag haujlwm lawm. Hmoob ces kwv tij yeej muaj tej co coj li no txhob tusiab thaum koj muaj tus txiv muaj nqi ces luag hu yus ib tag hmo li os nawb. Tsis tas hais ntau koj yeej paub zoo lawm.
Question 1: most people do experience the same treatment from their relatives after the husband past away. You’re not alone. Txhua tus li os tsis Yog koj xwb txhob tu siab
Damn, the bf that did black magic. That was so messed up of you. Just because she didn't pick you. Now, you look down on her cause her life is not good and yours is. Smh! The guy who pretends to be crazy to get money... God dang.. the length some ppl will do to get free money. 😂😂
Q1. Sis, don’t be sad. Tsis txhob tos ib tug neeg ntiaj teb txoj kev HLUB. If you do, you will only be sad. Tu hlub koj tiag yog VajTswv xwb. If you have him in your heart, then you’ll live happily with or without anyone to love you. Trust me. Q2. Dude, you don’t need anyone here to validate your feeling. U sure know the answer. You did your wife wrong so this is what you get.
Q1: yus tsis muaj txiv lawm ces yus mam mus nrog cov tsis muaj txij nkawv lawm xwb os. Txhob tusiab rau lawv os, txawm lawv hu los mus txog ces tsis paub nyob lawm os. Vim lub neej muaj txij nkawv thiab lub neej tsis muaj ces tham pem tsis zoo li yam lawm. Mus txog los tsis paub nrog lawv tham lawm.
q1: I get it, it gets lonely and sad when your own family doesn't check up on you from time to time. I hope you notice that you we can't make people do things for us. I believe sometimes that relationship was just never there and it's ok. I hope you find your go to people, because it definitely isn't there.
Question #1 tus sister aw kuv tus txiv twb ncaim peb cov niam tub ib yam li koj thiab os txhob xav tias peb txhua leej txhua tus yeej taug txoj kev ntawd Xwb yeej tsis muaj leej twg khiav dim hnub no txog yus lawm tag kis yuav yog nws xwb luag yuav xav li cas los cas liam
Question = 1..thaum koj tus txiv tseem nyob kwv tij sawv daws ho hwm ho tuaj neb, vim yog koj tus txiv txoj kev hlub txoj hwm kwv hwm tij ua zoo rau lawv, thaum koj tsis muaj koj tus txiv lawm cov kwv tij tsis hu tsis saib xyuas nej cov niam tub lawm, mas koj ua zoo xav ua zoo saib yog tim koj lawm xwb ov, vim koj nplaum qia dub koj tsis txo koj lub fwj chim ov mog,
Tus niam tsev #1 bring koj tus siab os Cas peb tus niam ntxawm nkawm sib nrauj tab si peb yeej tseem sib hlub es nws yeej tsi mus yuav txiv nws hais tias vim peb sib hlub es nws thiab nws cov menyuam nraws peb xwb #2 tus txiv tsev ua tus hluas nkauj tsi kam yuav koj Nws yeej paub lawm hais tias koj tsi tshua puv ib puas ces xwm tsi txhob thab thiaj tsi nkim sij hawm no los mas koj tseem tsi paub thiab
She need 2 go get hair removal everywhere is needed. Tshe nws xav tia tshe cov plaub thiaj mj hmoo li cov laus Hai e nws thiaj g muab tsem tawm. But that's a turn off.
Q1- Txhob tu siab os tus niam tsev. Hmoob yeej zoo li no los ntau tiam. Yus tsuas tseem ceeb thaum yus txiv tseem nyob xwb. Yus tus txiv tuag ces cov kwv tij txhua tus yeej tuag tas thiab os vim lawv ntshai ntshai yus. Qhov zoo ces kawg mus raws koj cov neej tsa xwb es lawv hlub li cas ces yuav li ntawd. Hnub twg koj cov tub ntxhais tsim txiaj ces kwv tij yeej yuav noog moo. Hnub ntawd ces hais bye bye xwb los ma. Q2- You got played. Haaaaa!! She don't want you. Move on.
Hmoob mas thaum lub sib hawm ntawv yuav mus tas lauv npab nooj tshaj li os. Lus askiv los g nkag siab miskas cov sponsor thaum ntawv mas siab zoo kawg hlub2 peb cov me hmoob npaj nooj no kawg thiab.❤
My ex left me and I feel the same way. People who use to gather with us all the time, I only see them hosting events and I am not invited. I just let it all go and focus on myself. We came to this world alone and we will leave this world alone.
Question #1 try not to think too much about these kinds of invites and gathering. If they invite go if not don’t let that bother you. You have enough on your plate to worry about and take care of. Think positive, your time is precious and valuable, use that time to take care of yourself and if you have children your children. You are still worthy and valuable even though your husband is no longer with you! Don’t let anyone tell you differently! Sorry for your loss ((hugs))
Q2 no wonder your girlfriend dumped you cuz no woman want to marry tus neeg es nws lub Tswv yim twb tsis duav nws lub cev Koj ces ntshe tseem yuav raug dag ntau zaus ntxiv lau
Question #1: Sister, Hmong people are like that. Stop worrying about those old ways of thinking and focus on a new tradition with your kids. Once your kids are all grown, things will get better. And if you feel its better, take your kids and go to your side of the family.
Q1. Relative is only good when things are well. Never count on anyone. Q2. Are you stupid she asked you. do you have any money? Let it go Nothing New here keep moving forward. 😂
Story #1. My story is similar. After both my parents died, the cousins, Auntie, and Uncle cut us out of their clan circle. It's sad to say that even the closest people to the heart are the cruelest. Sister, the heart will heal over time. It's been 7 years, and my siblings and I learned to move on and count our blessings. Good luck to you.
Q2 tus me tub los sis tus me nus aw kuv xav tias tej zaum yog koj lub tswv yim tsawg dhau lawm thiaj li raug hluas nkauj dag rhuav koj lub neej tag li ko los mas ruam2 li koj twb zoo qhov nws tsis tau kom koj tua koj poj niam os yog nws kom koj tua koj poj niam los ntshai koj yeej yuav tua li os ruam li koj es lawv nim yuav kam yuav koj naj
#1 Hmong ppl are like that. Just go if you are called and don’t go if you aren’t. The rest of the time, live your life and do what makes you happy. Find a hobby. Get massages! Join a gym! Go travel. Less stress for you that you don’t have all those social obligations. #2 She did that on purpose to ruin your life but you let her so that’s on you. It’s not her brother’s problem. He’s right. That’s between you two.
Q2: Dude you got played. You didn’t even own up to cheating. She only wants you when you have money. Thuam neb sib tham nws tus nus twb tsis paub absti tsis tau koj tej nyiaj siv so it’s none of his business. You date her on your own will so own up to it and just move on with your life.
Tus me txiv tsev koj tsuas nros koj ruam es ntshaw ntshaw tham hluas nkauj es koj twb tsis paub poj niam lub siab es muab yus tus nrauj tas ces lawv twb tsis xav yuav koj vim lawv xav yuav koj cov nyiaj xwb. Muab poj niam nrauj tas ces tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces plag ntshav lauj
#1 sister txhob tu siab os , thanksgiving is about having a meal with your immediate family, distant relatives xwb Txawm tsis hu los tsuas yus muaj tus cov me niam tu los noj ib pluag mov ua kev .
Q1: txhob tu siab os sister aw. I have been in your shoes before. I am now remarried and happy. Peb hmoob ces yeej coj li ntawd. Don’t waste your time to tu siab. This is the time for you to see the true colors of people of how they really feel about you. Just focus on yourself, your children and those who love you for you. It took me 3 years to finally get over the “tu siab” part. you’re not the only widow who go through this. Peb cov widow thiab divorce ces yeej mag lub maib ko.
1st question, sister, why would you think that your dead husband families gonna still cared or included you into their activities or life. Your husband is dead and his family doesn't care. You and your kids are of no value to them. You do not benefit them anymore. Their wive's doesn't want you near their husband in case their husband and you develop feelings. The brother's and relatives doesn't want the responsibilities or more mouth to feed. Take your children and go follow your family or choose a life with just your children. Do not hold your breath and stop waiting on those relatives of your dead husband.
Q2: bro, you are betteroff go back and beg forgiveness from your ex. There are women like your so called gf, they are just want to wreck your marriage because cheater like you thinking that she going to love you for you. Learn from your mistake and don't do the same mistake again.
Q1: you are better off taking your children and move closing to your side of the family not your husband's because there are several reasons they act the ways they do. 1. You are a widow and single now without a husband especially the wives will have negative thinking you might befriend with their husbands; 2. The men does not want to deal with woman, they always looking down and have no respect for women.; 3. You and your children are no longer important to them anymore.; 4.they were just using you and your husband while he was here. I know that because my mom was in your situation when my dad passed away when she was in her 20s and been followed her brother and his family ever since.
Q1) if your sons join them, they will move on to calling your sons in your husband's place. The men will be fearful of talking to you in case their wives misunderstand. The wives are fearful in case their husbands hit in you. That's the life of a divorcee/widow in the Hmong community. Q2) Bro, you're dumb. Now you have to watch both ex-wife and ex-gf move on. Next time when you have a pearl, don't trade for stone.
😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Q#2 pos kaum ncauj luag xwb os.🤭🤭🤭🤭
😂 Xav txog xyoo1978 peb saib tv es cov cowboys sib tua hauv tv mas peb tseem mus kiav kaum tsam cov bullets tawm tuaj raug peb tuag.. Npwb tiag tiag 😂😂😂
Wow he has the guts to say he is the nice one when he did blk magic. He is no better.
Q1-2 Wake up people, it depends on who do you serve God the devil or yourself. Without Jesus christ the savior life is meaningless.
Q. 2 nws ntxias kom koj lub neej puas xwb nws yeej tsis nyiam tsis xav yuav koj li os... koj tsuas nros koj ruam xwb os
2; Nw ua yog kawg lawm lo nw tab tom ua qhia tia cov neeg siab. Phem ntxeev siab yus twb tseem muaj rawm ib lub qhov hauv tsev yus tsi coj ncaj tseem ntxeev siab ce yam yus yuav tau txai yog dab tsi no xwb tsi ta tuaj nug li os yog koj paub koj txoj kev txhaum
Tim kj xb tsi Tim leej twg😂😂😂
Kuv Los yeej zoo ib lis koj thiab tu siab Los ua lis yus tsis paub xwb thiaj lis Kaj siab os Viv ncau
Kv zoo li thiab os niam laus yog yus tus txiv g nyob lawm lawv yeej g hlub yus lawm
q#2, nws rhuav yus lub neej los yus ruam ces nws yeej ua yog kawg lawm.
Teb tus #1. Niam tsev koj yog poj ntsuam kwv tij tsis nav tsis hu koj los txhob tu siab nyob teb chaws no tsis ntshaw noj lawm . Tus #2. Thaub koj nrauj poj niam vim xav tau koj tus hluas nkauj 😆😆ntawd ces yog kev khaum kev npam mas yuav tau kawm txog kev hlub thiaj tsis poob peev nawb !!! Koj paub tsawg teb chaws mikas nov tseev yog doctor nrauj poj niam raug ua homeless tau hos yawg .
Q2…. Nws ua yog lawm. Koj tsuas muaj nuj nqis/tseem ceeb thaum koj tseem muaj koj tus poj niam xwb.
Zaj lus nug 1.tsis muaj tus txiv lawm ces yeej tsis muaj kwv tij hu yus lawm os tej poj niam los lawv ntshai tsam yus ho tham lawv tej txiv thiab ces lawm ham yam ntshai yus xwb
Yog kawg mas tsis muaj tus txiv lawm tsis ntxob ciab siab tias cov kwv tij yuav hlub yus os cov kwv cov tij hlub los cov niam ntxawm niam tij ntsai2 tsam yus ho tham lawv cov txiv thiab os tsis ntxob tu siab os kuv los twb ib yam li koj thiab os kuv twb nyob kuv nrog kuv tej menyuam xwb os
Story 1 - Hmoob tej laus piv txoj lus ntsees tias txawm tus txiv qes txij tus qaib los yog tus dev xwb los nws yog lub tob hau txiv rau nws tus poj niam hwm nrog rau cov mi nyuam. Yog koj tsis muaj tus txiv lawm, koj case no apply rau thiab pib kiag ntawm koj tus txiv cov kwv tij thiab koj cov neej ntsa tib si nrog rau tej txheeb ze. Story 2 - Neb kev nkauj nraug tsis yog cai mus cuam tshuam rau koj tus hluas nkauj cov nws ib tug twg. Nws tsis kam yuav koj los yeej tsis yog cai rau koj yuam nws yuav koj. Tib yam nkaus li no rau nws thiab.
Nej mas funny tiag2 li kuj ntxim hlub thiab thaum nyuam qhuav tuaj ces yeej ntshai mas lol
2nd question brother, you chose to cheat and divorce your wife with an affair mistress. Now that you're divorce and you come to her empty-handed, broke, homeless, hell of child support, your mistress not going to want you much less have to support you.
HELLO BROTHER, SHE WAS A GOLD DIGGER AND HER ONLY INTENTION WAS TO DESTROYED YOUR MARRIAGE.
Tus txiv dev nej cov txiv dev tsis hlub poj niam nej pom tus nrauv zoo xwb thaum kawg thiaj ntsib Kev npam los mam. Tseem yuav noog lwm tus teb thiab nawj
Q1 Tus niam tsev koj tus txiv twb tuag lawm es luag tsis hu los txhob tusiab tej cov kwv tij yeej muaj cov coj li ntawv es yus rau siab cob qhia yus cov me nyuam kom tiav niam tiav txiv xwb ces ntawv yog koj lub luag haujlwm lawm. Hmoob ces kwv tij yeej muaj tej co coj li no txhob tusiab thaum koj muaj tus txiv muaj nqi ces luag hu yus ib tag hmo li os nawb. Tsis tas hais ntau koj yeej paub zoo lawm.
Question 1: most people do experience the same treatment from their relatives after the husband past away. You’re not alone. Txhua tus li os tsis Yog koj xwb txhob tu siab
Wow story #2 Hnub no dab qhib koj Qhov ncauj lawm sav. Txij no mus yuav npam koj
Damn, the bf that did black magic. That was so messed up of you. Just because she didn't pick you. Now, you look down on her cause her life is not good and yours is. Smh!
The guy who pretends to be crazy to get money... God dang.. the length some ppl will do to get free money. 😂😂
Q1. Sis, don’t be sad. Tsis txhob tos ib tug neeg ntiaj teb txoj kev HLUB. If you do, you will only be sad. Tu hlub koj tiag yog VajTswv xwb. If you have him in your heart, then you’ll live happily with or without anyone to love you. Trust me.
Q2. Dude, you don’t need anyone here to validate your feeling. U sure know the answer. You did your wife wrong so this is what you get.
Q1: yus tsis muaj txiv lawm ces yus mam mus nrog cov tsis muaj txij nkawv lawm xwb os. Txhob tusiab rau lawv os, txawm lawv hu los mus txog ces tsis paub nyob lawm os. Vim lub neej muaj txij nkawv thiab lub neej tsis muaj ces tham pem tsis zoo li yam lawm. Mus txog los tsis paub nrog lawv tham lawm.
Vim nws xav thiab koj lub nej na phooj ywg, kuv muaj ib tug phooj ywg hluas nkauj dag nws nraug poj niam tas hluas nkauj tsis yuav nws.
q1: I get it, it gets lonely and sad when your own family doesn't check up on you from time to time. I hope you notice that you we can't make people do things for us. I believe sometimes that relationship was just never there and it's ok. I hope you find your go to people, because it definitely isn't there.
Question #1 tus sister aw kuv tus txiv twb ncaim peb cov niam tub ib yam li koj thiab os txhob xav tias peb txhua leej txhua tus yeej taug txoj kev ntawd Xwb yeej tsis muaj leej twg khiav dim hnub no txog yus lawm tag kis yuav yog nws xwb luag yuav xav li cas los cas liam
Question = 1..thaum koj tus txiv tseem nyob kwv tij sawv daws ho hwm ho tuaj neb, vim yog koj tus txiv txoj kev hlub txoj hwm kwv hwm tij ua zoo rau lawv, thaum koj tsis muaj koj tus txiv lawm cov kwv tij tsis hu tsis saib xyuas nej cov niam tub lawm, mas koj ua zoo xav ua zoo saib yog tim koj lawm xwb ov, vim koj nplaum qia dub koj tsis txo koj lub fwj chim ov mog,
Tug tub aw tim koj txuj kev tsi paub qaab hau xwb.
Tus poj niam muaj txoj plaub ntawm pob tsaig ntawv, tos nws tsis muab rhos los nws tseeg tias yog koob hmoos muaj nyiaj no.
txin neeg dev
Tus niam tsev #1 bring koj tus siab os
Cas peb tus niam ntxawm nkawm sib nrauj tab si peb yeej tseem sib hlub es nws yeej tsi mus yuav txiv nws hais tias vim peb sib hlub es nws thiab nws cov menyuam nraws peb xwb
#2 tus txiv tsev ua tus hluas nkauj tsi kam yuav koj
Nws yeej paub lawm hais tias koj tsi tshua puv ib puas ces xwm tsi txhob thab thiaj tsi nkim sij hawm no los mas koj tseem tsi paub thiab
She need 2 go get hair removal everywhere is needed. Tshe nws xav tia tshe cov plaub thiaj mj hmoo li cov laus Hai e nws thiaj g muab tsem tawm.
But that's a turn off.
Q1- Txhob tu siab os tus niam tsev. Hmoob yeej zoo li no los ntau tiam. Yus tsuas tseem ceeb thaum yus txiv tseem nyob xwb. Yus tus txiv tuag ces cov kwv tij txhua tus yeej tuag tas thiab os vim lawv ntshai ntshai yus. Qhov zoo ces kawg mus raws koj cov neej tsa xwb es lawv hlub li cas ces yuav li ntawd. Hnub twg koj cov tub ntxhais tsim txiaj ces kwv tij yeej yuav noog moo. Hnub ntawd ces hais bye bye xwb los ma.
Q2- You got played. Haaaaa!!
She don't want you. Move on.
Hmoob mas thaum lub sib hawm ntawv yuav mus tas lauv npab nooj tshaj li os. Lus askiv los g nkag siab miskas cov sponsor thaum ntawv mas siab zoo kawg hlub2 peb cov me hmoob npaj nooj no kawg thiab.❤
Question #2. Thaub vim koj ruam ces cia li koj xwb maa lolz
The guy with black magic. SMH…you think you’re not going to get karma? You will, had you left it alone. You would of been ok😢
My ex left me and I feel the same way. People who use to gather with us all the time, I only see them hosting events and I am not invited. I just let it all go and focus on myself. We came to this world alone and we will leave this world alone.
Question #1 try not to think too much about these kinds of invites and gathering. If they invite go if not don’t let that bother you. You have enough on your plate to worry about and take care of. Think positive, your time is precious and valuable, use that time to take care of yourself and if you have children your children. You are still worthy and valuable even though your husband is no longer with you! Don’t let anyone tell you differently! Sorry for your loss ((hugs))
#2 vim koj tsis yog ib tug neeg tseem ceeb...
Q2: lol! Yus nros yus ruam uas to el cheater ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb os.
Thaub mag poj nrauj ntxhias hlais noob qes....hahaha! Thaub awd, koj mas hlwb tsawg tiag tiag, tos li poj nrauj muab koj ntxhias nchuav koj lub neej nas. Ruam tiag tiag tos mag poj nrauj ntxhias koj hlais noob qes nas. Tag hauv ris lawm laus koj nas. Koj lub hlwb twb tsis npaum li ib tug me nyuam yaus muaj 3 xyoo.
Question 2: it’s your fault. You should’ve learned who she is before keep cheating on your wife and divorce her. You didn’t knew who you cheated with.
Q1: go to church instead
Q2: karma. Its pronounce haha
Koj tseem ruam tshaj nws lawm es zoo kawg.
Q2 no wonder your girlfriend dumped you cuz no woman want to marry tus neeg es nws lub Tswv yim twb tsis duav nws lub cev Koj ces ntshe tseem yuav raug dag ntau zaus ntxiv lau
Kwv tij yog yus ruam ces zoo li ko ma.
Omgee, Godzilla story got me dying lololol
That story with the Godzilla is wrong its King Kong your talking about.
Q1: you’re available now so everyone is afraid you might date their husbands.
Q2: it’s called karma for being a cheater!
Unfortunately Hmong people only value a family with a man in the house. Sad but true.
Q2, her action is to f***k up your life.
Q1-txhob tu siab, that's the way of life. Vim tus txiv Yog lub taubhau.
Q2- yawg Koj ruam npaum ko ces mus noj tshuaj npawsliab.
Question #1: Sister, Hmong people are like that. Stop worrying about those old ways of thinking and focus on a new tradition with your kids. Once your kids are all grown, things will get better. And if you feel its better, take your kids and go to your side of the family.
Question #2. Not only men can play. Nowadays, women too can play and you got play! She told you the truth, no woman want a brokie broke!!!
Q1. Relative is only good when things are well. Never count on anyone.
Q2. Are you stupid she asked you. do you have any money? Let it go Nothing New here keep moving forward. 😂
Story #1. My story is similar. After both my parents died, the cousins, Auntie, and Uncle cut us out of their clan circle. It's sad to say that even the closest people to the heart are the cruelest. Sister, the heart will heal over time. It's been 7 years, and my siblings and I learned to move on and count our blessings. Good luck to you.
Q2 tus me tub los sis tus me nus aw kuv xav tias tej zaum yog koj lub tswv yim tsawg dhau lawm thiaj li raug hluas nkauj dag rhuav koj lub neej tag li ko los mas ruam2 li koj twb zoo qhov nws tsis tau kom koj tua koj poj niam os yog nws kom koj tua koj poj niam los ntshai koj yeej yuav tua li os ruam li koj es lawv nim yuav kam yuav koj naj
#1 Hmong ppl are like that. Just go if you are called and don’t go if you aren’t. The rest of the time, live your life and do what makes you happy. Find a hobby. Get massages! Join a gym! Go travel. Less stress for you that you don’t have all those social obligations.
#2 She did that on purpose to ruin your life but you let her so that’s on you. It’s not her brother’s problem. He’s right. That’s between you two.
Q2: Dude you got played. You didn’t even own up to cheating. She only wants you when you have money. Thuam neb sib tham nws tus nus twb tsis paub absti tsis tau koj tej nyiaj siv so it’s none of his business. You date her on your own will so own up to it and just move on with your life.
Tus me txiv tsev koj tsuas nros koj ruam es ntshaw ntshaw tham hluas nkauj es koj twb tsis paub poj niam lub siab es muab yus tus nrauj tas ces lawv twb tsis xav yuav koj vim lawv xav yuav koj cov nyiaj xwb. Muab poj niam nrauj tas ces tsis muaj nyiaj lawm ces plag ntshav lauj
#1 sister txhob tu siab os , thanksgiving is about having a meal with your immediate family, distant relatives xwb Txawm tsis hu los tsuas yus muaj tus cov me niam tu los noj ib pluag mov ua kev .
My brother you must be kidding, right? Obviously, you are less than 50%..
Q1: txhob tu siab os sister aw. I have been in your shoes before. I am now remarried and happy. Peb hmoob ces yeej coj li ntawd. Don’t waste your time to tu siab. This is the time for you to see the true colors of people of how they really feel about you. Just focus on yourself, your children and those who love you for you. It took me 3 years to finally get over the “tu siab” part. you’re not the only widow who go through this. Peb cov widow thiab divorce ces yeej mag lub maib ko.
Haha they only want a man or woman with $. Once you’re divorced with nothing, they don’t want you anymore. Brother, it’s karma lol
1st question, sister, why would you think that your dead husband families gonna still cared or included you into their activities or life. Your husband is dead and his family doesn't care. You and your kids are of no value to them. You do not benefit them anymore.
Their wive's doesn't want you near their husband in case their husband and you develop feelings. The brother's and relatives doesn't want the responsibilities or more mouth to feed.
Take your children and go follow your family or choose a life with just your children.
Do not hold your breath and stop waiting on those relatives of your dead husband.
Q2: bro, you are betteroff go back and beg forgiveness from your ex. There are women like your so called gf, they are just want to wreck your marriage because cheater like you thinking that she going to love you for you. Learn from your mistake and don't do the same mistake again.
Q1: you are better off taking your children and move closing to your side of the family not your husband's because there are several reasons they act the ways they do. 1. You are a widow and single now without a husband especially the wives will have negative thinking you might befriend with their husbands; 2. The men does not want to deal with woman, they always looking down and have no respect for women.; 3. You and your children are no longer important to them anymore.; 4.they were just using you and your husband while he was here. I know that because my mom was in your situation when my dad passed away when she was in her 20s and been followed her brother and his family ever since.
Q1) if your sons join them, they will move on to calling your sons in your husband's place. The men will be fearful of talking to you in case their wives misunderstand. The wives are fearful in case their husbands hit in you. That's the life of a divorcee/widow in the Hmong community.
Q2) Bro, you're dumb. Now you have to watch both ex-wife and ex-gf move on. Next time when you have a pearl, don't trade for stone.