This is the first Always Open I've watched in a while and I have to say, this set looks much cozier and warmer but the old diner looking one was much better and more fitting in regard to the topics they talked about and the hosts.
So Trevor and Alfredo are neat freaks... working in the AH office must be a daily struggle for them. I do remember Trevor's beautification projects of people's desks.
I'm not all the way thru this episode, but I wanna say it before the comments flood in. To the fan who sent in the question about marriage, see if your GF can meet you halfway. Talk about your fears and hopes, and maybe you can be engaged and move in together, so you both feel safer. But, like they said, communicate and let your feelings be heard and considered, if she can't hear you out, it's a bad sign. I hope everything works out!! Good luck!!
Them talking about their bad habits and cleaning habits really helps with my anxiety living alone as an adult for the first time. It is so nice to see how other adults behave!
My parent's lesson on money and introduction to the concept of saving was similar to Trevor's. Except I saved up my money for half the summer to buy an OG Playstation because I wanted to play this new game everyone at school was talking about: Final Fantasy 7! So I scraped and saved up every penny I could, saved up (I think it cost like $300 at the time). And when I finally had all $300 saved up, I then learned about how you don't just get the $60 video game for free with the Playstation.
I gotta say, being from Utah, it was really interesting and bizarre to hear relationships talked about from a perspective where 25 is *young*, rather than being so old people think you'll never have a relationship. Hearing a perspective that is so diametrically opposed to the one I've heard my entire life is baffling.
Deven Eckersell yeah, I'm in college in the right now and a lot of my friends get married within a year of graduating. At least in the rest of Texas, getting married young is still expected.
@@gwillypdawg Somebody has to be #1, and Jessica is the only girl that _rivals_ her beauty. I don't know about you guys, but I can sense a little competition between them. 🏁
Hope Mariel and her partner are okay. The whole world is being forced to change because of this virus, maybe when we get close to the next cold and flu season there'll be a vaccine or better treatment options against this monster of a virus. But if there is any silver lining here, it's that other much more serious diseases aren't being spread as much because of the social distancing and self quarantining, (technically we're flattening many curves,) maybe we'll have a healthier fall and winter this year because of it. Stay safe everyone, wash those hands and cover your mouths, this is a variable and numbers game, let's give covid-19 less variables to multiply against us.
Jessica should look up Cozy Phones on amazon, they're like a headband that has soft little speakers in them, I use them to sleep every night, I also sleep with a snorer and they were a total lifesaver, and there are also similar products that are blutooth
Maybe it’s old fashioned but I think that most of what they’re describing as relationship is what marriage is supposed to be. Growing pains and weathering the storms that life gives you together. I don’t know what would prevent me from making a lifelong commitment of marriage if I find the one that makes me feel comfortable and the one that I could live with. But it’s very interesting to hear their perspectives from their actual relationships.
I think the difference is, if you find that there are unreconcilable differences in a relationship it's a conversation to end it, while in a marriage it's lawyers, courts, time and money. Why not test whether you can spend a life together without the financial and legal hassle instead of going into what is essentially a legal contract mostly blind?
My sister hasn’t really lived with her husband before getting married, but they have hung out a lot and spent time together and travelled together to conventions and whatnot. I wonder if there is a ‘time together’ dynamic that can be an alternative to living together?
Interestingly, I just learned recently that, statistically, marriages succeed more if there is no cohabitation beforehand. Then, if couples did live together beforehand, it depends on the reason (monetary reasons tend to be better off statistically while couples who decide to test out their relationship are worse off).
Leaky Peach Almost sounds like the living together as part of ‘sharing the load’ makes for a stronger foundation for relationship building. While testing out a relationship could almost be an issue of ‘are the couple looking for an out or what?’ Kind of situation.
The house that myself and 2 people rent out has the bathroom in like the centre of the house where everyone walks by and its right next to the kitchen, and after about 2 years we just started not closing the doors. Quiet often conversations will happen while someone is occupying the toilet.
I love seeing people talk about getting an allowance.... I asked my mom if I could have an allowance from doing chores, and she looked at me and was like "yeah, you get to live here." I never got an allowance. I did chores not for money but for food on the table. That's why birthdays were crazy, cuz I'd ask for money and money only, and I'd end up not actually spending the money on stuff I wanted, but on stuff I needed like clothes.
I have had numerous jobs over the short years I’ve been around; across a lot of different industries, but I pull from lessons and experiences that I have had for close to 20 years of working that I use in my current career. I love my current job and hope to stay there for many years. With things currently the way they are that’s not up to me, but we’ll see what happens.
Not my first big purchase but on the topic of researching, I waited 3 years to buy a Switch until Animal Crossing came out. I knew I always wanted one but I kept saying it wasn't the right time. But then... Animal Crossing.
But also, it's weird to think of "big" purchases I made when I could. Like, I got a car once I had a job where I felt I could afford a car loan. I bought a German Shepherd and then 8 months later bought a Golden Retriever. Animals are quite a commitment.
Easier said than done. Communication is critically important. Really does one person like to go on the phone all the time? You do need the time to miss each other, and both parties need their own friends, and ideally also have some mutual friends. Also complicated depending on whos hometown you are in, whos family and friends are there and who is solo. Roommates can ruin relationships. Need to share some interests but also have things you both want to do some alone time and a mixture of shared space and personal space definitely need a balance.
Leaving the toilet lid open does matter. Each flush puts a fine mist into the air and so over time your entire bathroom gets coated in particles of what you've flushed. This includes coating the head of your toothbrush, etc
@@yeetus42 I couldn't do that. I can't do heat well. Like, I have a fair tolerance for the cold, but I sweat, even if doing nothing, if it's above 68° or so.
Wait allowances as a kid was a real thing? I thought it was just a myth! I just saved from birthdays and holidays to get my Nintendo DS or ask for the items for my birthday and Christmas.
I had to save and use kool aid points to get my first Gameboy and then same with the GBA. We didn't get allowances, we either did chores or we didn't get to do anything with our friends/get money for things
Hey, I know this is weird, but I liked everyone sitting on the same couch. I don't care either way, but y'all being close is a big factor. I like how close and friendly the rt team is
I feel like there are a couple of mixed messages from Barb and Jessica early on. They really romanticize the idea of moving in together (I guess more so Barb in this aspect), saying "Oh you just know that you're with the *right* person" and that's that. But later on when growing pains come up, Jessica jumps on the train as soon as Fredo mentions it. Just feels a little out of order, the growing pains are the first thing to hit after an initial infatuation phase and it's honestly the biggest barrier in my experience. You've got to be able to understand that pushing through things is NOT inherently bad, of course there's a delicate balance there but people really don't just run into "the one." I feel like you will have to make compromises in aspect of life you are trying to perfect and nothing worth working towards is easy.
I think the greatest thing that helped established the kind of person I am, is when i listened to the song 'I ain't no nice guy' by motorhead and ozzy osborne. That song let me except who I am, and i truely think that many people can learn from that song
Living in CT, it's crazy for me how they're talking about driving to someone in the same city and having it be an 1hr+ drive. If I dated someone on the other end of my state it would be closer to an hour drive. That's just crazy to me
for the person who asked about moving in together before getting married, i would say you want to respect your girlfriend's wishes so talk to her about it. i think there are other ways that you can see how they live other than living together. (trips, camping, etc)
To and For Ricky: Dude. You're not naive. If you love her, you'll absorb those things that might "trigger" your turn off switch. You can't find the perfect person. It's you who makes them perfect and vice versa. Are the two of you willing to adjust to the "turn offs" of your SO? AND are the two of you willing to adjust if one opens their feelings about what turns your SO off?
Yeah, there's something nice about knowing about an engagement or wedding days or weeks after it happened. Like, they lived their lives for themselves before sharing it with their followers :)
Moving pre/post marriage has nothing to do whether you love someone. Do what's comfortable with you and your partner. But, you notice quirks and ticks while you're dating and growing in your relationship. If you're smart, you'll have a long term relationship (more than a year) before you get married or move in. By that time, you'll know each other's tendencies and how to communicate with one another. But, to each their own. Do what makes you and your partner the most happy.
For that first box of issues guy, don’t marry first. She can divorce you, and take half of your stuff. Move in together first. Barb makes good points during the segment as do the others.
Hearing Barbara and Trevor talk about marriage makes me so warm inside haha I love them together
haha exactly
I love seeing AH people in this podcast, it shows them in ways you don't normally see ^^
In the beginning the way Alfredo was talking you never here in achievement hunter so I was so confused on what happened to his voice
This is the first Always Open I've watched in a while and I have to say, this set looks much cozier and warmer but the old diner looking one was much better and more fitting in regard to the topics they talked about and the hosts.
So Trevor and Alfredo are neat freaks... working in the AH office must be a daily struggle for them. I do remember Trevor's beautification projects of people's desks.
They are lucky they have Micoo. The angry maid xD
Those pranks must STRESS them out
The twins together in one peaceful quiet podcast is a wonderul thing.
I'm not all the way thru this episode, but I wanna say it before the comments flood in. To the fan who sent in the question about marriage, see if your GF can meet you halfway. Talk about your fears and hopes, and maybe you can be engaged and move in together, so you both feel safer. But, like they said, communicate and let your feelings be heard and considered, if she can't hear you out, it's a bad sign. I hope everything works out!! Good luck!!
Im really enjoying Always Open alot more. Been combing thru more eps lately, and I just love the vibe in general.
Them talking about their bad habits and cleaning habits really helps with my anxiety living alone as an adult for the first time. It is so nice to see how other adults behave!
25:11 Wait a minute, is that Geoff?
scrolled through the comments to see if anyone else noticed that too haha
Imagine it was Geoff Ramsay
Well his real first name IS Geoffrey.
I don't like how they took away the table, having all the chairs just make it look like all the other RT shows
May have done it to stay 6ftish apart
Or maybe its because people need to stay 6 feet away from each other and they are being responsible?
My parent's lesson on money and introduction to the concept of saving was similar to Trevor's. Except I saved up my money for half the summer to buy an OG Playstation because I wanted to play this new game everyone at school was talking about: Final Fantasy 7! So I scraped and saved up every penny I could, saved up (I think it cost like $300 at the time). And when I finally had all $300 saved up, I then learned about how you don't just get the $60 video game for free with the Playstation.
@@JackInards It was definitely one of the earliest I can remember. I was like 15 or 16.
Call the babies: “Quarantoddlers”
And when they are born they will be suckin on their mum's quarantits
In my head I'm already calling them the quarantine babies
I gotta say, being from Utah, it was really interesting and bizarre to hear relationships talked about from a perspective where 25 is *young*, rather than being so old people think you'll never have a relationship. Hearing a perspective that is so diametrically opposed to the one I've heard my entire life is baffling.
Deven Eckersell yeah, I'm in college in the right now and a lot of my friends get married within a year of graduating. At least in the rest of Texas, getting married young is still expected.
Love Alfredo, ever since he came I relate to him the most.
I got up and made my bed because of this podcast. Positive influence.
Fredo is always a great guest!
Stay safe everyone!
Deon Spates and now he actually has a chance to talk a lot unlike off topic lol
@@Vacated204 True lol
im just watching this while never ever been in a relationship
Lol I thought the thumbnail is green screen of them all together but turns out this is the last episode on set
Jessica lookin hella cute
Basically my dream girl.
@Millennial Falcon truth
Do you think Barbara could be low-key jealous?
@@Tony-ft3pu of her beauty? I dont think so they are both extraordinarily beautiful in different ways you couldn't really compare the two.
@@gwillypdawg Somebody has to be #1, and Jessica is the only girl that _rivals_ her beauty. I don't know about you guys, but I can sense a little competition between them. 🏁
Hope Mariel and her partner are okay.
The whole world is being forced to change because of this virus, maybe when we get close to the next cold and flu season there'll be a vaccine or better treatment options against this monster of a virus.
But if there is any silver lining here, it's that other much more serious diseases aren't being spread as much because of the social distancing and self quarantining, (technically we're flattening many curves,) maybe we'll have a healthier fall and winter this year because of it.
Stay safe everyone, wash those hands and cover your mouths, this is a variable and numbers game, let's give covid-19 less variables to multiply against us.
I think they are ok since they are not sick
Try planning a wedding for July and watching it all implode.
Jessica should look up Cozy Phones on amazon, they're like a headband that has soft little speakers in them, I use them to sleep every night, I also sleep with a snorer and they were a total lifesaver, and there are also similar products that are blutooth
Maybe it’s old fashioned but I think that most of what they’re describing as relationship is what marriage is supposed to be. Growing pains and weathering the storms that life gives you together. I don’t know what would prevent me from making a lifelong commitment of marriage if I find the one that makes me feel comfortable and the one that I could live with. But it’s very interesting to hear their perspectives from their actual relationships.
I think the difference is, if you find that there are unreconcilable differences in a relationship it's a conversation to end it, while in a marriage it's lawyers, courts, time and money. Why not test whether you can spend a life together without the financial and legal hassle instead of going into what is essentially a legal contract mostly blind?
the right relationship will definitely show you what love Should be. dont settle
My sister hasn’t really lived with her husband before getting married, but they have hung out a lot and spent time together and travelled together to conventions and whatnot. I wonder if there is a ‘time together’ dynamic that can be an alternative to living together?
Interestingly, I just learned recently that, statistically, marriages succeed more if there is no cohabitation beforehand. Then, if couples did live together beforehand, it depends on the reason (monetary reasons tend to be better off statistically while couples who decide to test out their relationship are worse off).
Traveling or camping together might give you a sense of what it's like to live with someone. You'll learn their habits and how clean/messy they are.
i think there can be, my parents didn't live together either. however, they were long-distance for their entire relationship before getting married.
Leaky Peach Almost sounds like the living together as part of ‘sharing the load’ makes for a stronger foundation for relationship building. While testing out a relationship could almost be an issue of ‘are the couple looking for an out or what?’ Kind of situation.
the quarantine babies will be called The Children of the Quarn
Jessica is so calm when she's on the shows
The house that myself and 2 people rent out has the bathroom in like the centre of the house where everyone walks by and its right next to the kitchen, and after about 2 years we just started not closing the doors. Quiet often conversations will happen while someone is occupying the toilet.
I love seeing people talk about getting an allowance.... I asked my mom if I could have an allowance from doing chores, and she looked at me and was like "yeah, you get to live here." I never got an allowance. I did chores not for money but for food on the table. That's why birthdays were crazy, cuz I'd ask for money and money only, and I'd end up not actually spending the money on stuff I wanted, but on stuff I needed like clothes.
Cool
Well...
At least you don't have a warped sense of value.
You know what matters.
I have had numerous jobs over the short years I’ve been around; across a lot of different industries, but I pull from lessons and experiences that I have had for close to 20 years of working that I use in my current career. I love my current job and hope to stay there for many years. With things currently the way they are that’s not up to me, but we’ll see what happens.
Not my first big purchase but on the topic of researching, I waited 3 years to buy a Switch until Animal Crossing came out. I knew I always wanted one but I kept saying it wasn't the right time. But then... Animal Crossing.
But also, it's weird to think of "big" purchases I made when I could. Like, I got a car once I had a job where I felt I could afford a car loan. I bought a German Shepherd and then 8 months later bought a Golden Retriever. Animals are quite a commitment.
Easier said than done. Communication is critically important. Really does one person like to go on the phone all the time? You do need the time to miss each other, and both parties need their own friends, and ideally also have some mutual friends. Also complicated depending on whos hometown you are in, whos family and friends are there and who is solo. Roommates can ruin relationships. Need to share some interests but also have things you both want to do some alone time and a mixture of shared space and personal space definitely need a balance.
Omg I have never related to Alfredo or Trevor more than hearing their clean/neat habits haha thank god I'm not alone
And look at where we are a while two years later, finally getting back to normal
No non bed clothes in the bed Alfredo? That’s super human levels of self control
Swipe my pants off and I’m out bro
I would absolutely love to do podcasts like this. They are always so fun to watch!
Leaving the toilet lid open does matter. Each flush puts a fine mist into the air and so over time your entire bathroom gets coated in particles of what you've flushed. This includes coating the head of your toothbrush, etc
Why would you say this
My baby boy was born beginning of March when the hospital had their first patient quarantined.
Was everything ok for you guys?
Loved this cast!
Why do people like heated toilet seats??!! It's like sitting on the toilet that was just used D;
barbara trevor so cuuute aaah
Temperature in my house is 62°. I'm okay with being a monster, it's comfy.
My family keeps their AC's at 72° and I'm dying all the time. I keep my AC at 78-82. But I'm from Texas so I prefer the heat.
@@yeetus42 I couldn't do that. I can't do heat well. Like, I have a fair tolerance for the cold, but I sweat, even if doing nothing, if it's above 68° or so.
Wait allowances as a kid was a real thing? I thought it was just a myth! I just saved from birthdays and holidays to get my Nintendo DS or ask for the items for my birthday and Christmas.
I had to save and use kool aid points to get my first Gameboy and then same with the GBA. We didn't get allowances, we either did chores or we didn't get to do anything with our friends/get money for things
25:12 Geoffrey R. sounds suspiciously familiar... hmmm I wonder why
Thought the same thing haha. Surprised none of them mentioned it.
All of them having electronics as their first big purchase, and I'm sitting here with a tattoo as my first big purchase xD
There are so many “yeahs” this episode
Read this as all I heard was "yeah"
PandaSicaGoesRawr once you notice it, it’s all you can hear
Hey, I know this is weird, but I liked everyone sitting on the same couch. I don't care either way, but y'all being close is a big factor. I like how close and friendly the rt team is
So now we know why Alfredo is so good at siege
Thumbs up if you’re a clean boy.
Can't say for sure how or why, but the whole 'season' thing with RT shows kinda grinds my gears.
I feel like there are a couple of mixed messages from Barb and Jessica early on. They really romanticize the idea of moving in together (I guess more so Barb in this aspect), saying "Oh you just know that you're with the *right* person" and that's that. But later on when growing pains come up, Jessica jumps on the train as soon as Fredo mentions it. Just feels a little out of order, the growing pains are the first thing to hit after an initial infatuation phase and it's honestly the biggest barrier in my experience. You've got to be able to understand that pushing through things is NOT inherently bad, of course there's a delicate balance there but people really don't just run into "the one." I feel like you will have to make compromises in aspect of life you are trying to perfect and nothing worth working towards is easy.
I think the greatest thing that helped established the kind of person I am, is when i listened to the song 'I ain't no nice guy' by motorhead and ozzy osborne. That song let me except who I am, and i truely think that many people can learn from that song
THEYCWILL BE ONOWN AS CORONIALS!
this was such a cute episode!!!
I'm in such the same boat as Trevor and the "outside world clothes" + bed. Yucky.
this is a lot better than my science class... waves crest... STAY SAFE!
Living in CT, it's crazy for me how they're talking about driving to someone in the same city and having it be an 1hr+ drive. If I dated someone on the other end of my state it would be closer to an hour drive. That's just crazy to me
Waiting for this all week!!
I'm turning 16 in August, so this will be fun!
Gonna be hard to be open right now HaHaHaHaHa
I got it! We call the babies born during the pandemic "Quarriors!"
If the question is TVD
The answer is always YES!
What happened to "YT will have shorter versions of the episodes and the full ones go to the RT site" ????
You guys should try to get the guy who voiced church in one of these
He's been on a few
Can you link to still open in the info? For us lazy folks 😘
Apparently I make really squeaky hamster like noises in my sleep..... I also whine whenever I wake up because I get upset to wake up😂
25:11 the name and last initial makes me think that's just Geoff.
for the person who asked about moving in together before getting married, i would say you want to respect your girlfriend's wishes so talk to her about it. i think there are other ways that you can see how they live other than living together. (trips, camping, etc)
love them all but alot of ocd issues i think lol
To and For Ricky: Dude. You're not naive. If you love her, you'll absorb those things that might "trigger" your turn off switch.
You can't find the perfect person. It's you who makes them perfect and vice versa. Are the two of you willing to adjust to the "turn offs" of your SO? AND are the two of you willing to adjust if one opens their feelings about what turns your SO off?
I just want to talk to Trevor for like 30 minutes
Nice.
If trevor proposes it will either be at rtx or some type of event or one day we'll just find out randomly
I feel like it’s gonna happen totally randomly and we won’t know til after the wedding and we just see them both wearing rings
i hope if they get engaged it's all their own and they aren't stuck with an audience ^^
Yeah, there's something nice about knowing about an engagement or wedding days or weeks after it happened. Like, they lived their lives for themselves before sharing it with their followers :)
Burger King better watch their back!
Sisters wedding supposed to be in July so we'll see how that plays out 🙃
For Jessica, Bose make some earbuds meant for sleep, they play rain noise and stuff, not music
why does fredo sound different
Good time
I already know my partner's answers to these questions X3
Good Mornin'
Moving pre/post marriage has nothing to do whether you love someone. Do what's comfortable with you and your partner. But, you notice quirks and ticks while you're dating and growing in your relationship. If you're smart, you'll have a long term relationship (more than a year) before you get married or move in. By that time, you'll know each other's tendencies and how to communicate with one another. But, to each their own. Do what makes you and your partner the most happy.
Children of the quaran....
Barb! You gotta put the toilet lid down when you flush! Otherwise it aerosolizes the bacteria from the bowl! Barb! 😖😖😖
TheMardBard. This isn’t the dark ages, We don’t have long drops anymore
Can you make more red vs blue
Anything financial, Dave Ramsey.
For that first box of issues guy, don’t marry first. She can divorce you, and take half of your stuff. Move in together first. Barb makes good points during the segment as do the others.
Trev and barb should watch Lucifer on Netflix
If the quarantine blows past and you get back to immersion how about you dont just do games but movies and tv shows as well
I know people are losing jobs and dying but when's the next episode of rwby
Coronials
First credit card get a secured credit card.
Is that Barbara’s lips in the logo
Its not on spotify : (
When is rwby season 8 coming out
Probably late fall
I miss the diner theme table
WOOOOO!!!
Oof...uploaded 58 seconds ago! Nice!
By their bad habits....I can tell these people don't have cats lol
Having a cat is supposedly making people have good habits? Kinda ironic with a comment like this.
Coronials . kids that are born in dec 2020 or a little bit later, Coronials.
rwby????????
I love Alfredo but this show is called Always OPEN and Alfredo is the opposite of open
Raise your hand if you got dumped in quarantine.
My relationship lasted 10 days after the initial shelter in place order.
Sounds like you can do better pal. Live life, discover more about yourself. Something will click when you meet the right person.
Never been in one my guy so...