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  • @rayturnbow1836
    @rayturnbow1836 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Me and my wife separated, she wanted it, I respect her in wanting to try it, I did not abandon my family l, I still pay bills and help out where a husband should.,

  • @donna62016
    @donna62016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Only out of a pure heart of love for the other person... that you want to give of yourself to that person AND ONLY if neither spouse is seeing, dating, sleeping with someone else.

  • @maribelhurtado8970
    @maribelhurtado8970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you both, very helpful all of the time. Always watch and learn so much from your videos. It helps gain a better perspective and clarity on things. Thank you, thank you. You are a blessing to me. 😃

    • @maribelhurtado8970
      @maribelhurtado8970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bennyhinn9963 No woman makes the difficult choice to raise kids alone. I was with this man for 20 years, which is more than half of my life. However, he’s a narcissist who took advantage of me in so many areas because I’m 10 years younger than him. I love him but I’m no longer in love with him.
      To answer your question, I would like my family United once again. I’m 35 now and I’m not the little girl he met at 15 anymore. I want a supportive, loving and caring man but he fails to acknowledge his flaws and the fact that he needs change. We all need change. I am working on my P.I.E.S

  • @genasoriano559
    @genasoriano559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for giving all this advice.👍👍

  • @sunamimommyyoga
    @sunamimommyyoga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Nope. It creates a "safe" environment. Separation is not comfortable. My husband initiated the separation, not I. I will not create an "intimate safe zone" for someone who is clearly ambivalent. I'm not saying it didn't happen in the beginning because I thought I'd save absolutely nothing. The only person who felt crappy after was me. The relationship fizzles, it feels cheap

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your spouse back to you???????

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watzap him now for help...............

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2:3:4:8:0:8:4:0:2:3:9:5:5

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2=3=4=8=0=8=4=0=2=3=9=5=5

  • @elenacm4929
    @elenacm4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    thanks a lot, your videos are very helpful. My concern is if we are intimate with my spouse while being separated, doesn't it give him all the benefits of a relationship with me without any commitment, so that he wouldn't have a motivation to come back, as he already fulfills his needs. So he only comes home whenever he needs physical or emotional connection - once or twice a week, and while getting what he wants whenever he wants, he is not committing to our marriage, also saying that we would never get back together. I would love to hear your advice on how to handle this situation. We have 2 young children. He's been out of home for 18 months, and pursuing to ''conquer" another female, although there's been nothing physical between them, neither she wants any romantic relationship with him, but wouldn't stop making him desperate for her attention.Thanks

  • @MarcosGarcia-tj2tb
    @MarcosGarcia-tj2tb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @eileenfuentes6975
    @eileenfuentes6975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm here first! :)

  • @Daddy-OH
    @Daddy-OH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How can i get in contact/ talk to someone from marriage helper?
    What do they say/think about living apart together with married couples that can still see each other but cant live together for legal reasons.

  • @Bunny-Power
    @Bunny-Power 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Those are some big chairs 😆

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well i can only speak for my self... never sleep with a man after i separate him. When i separated my ex husband. I stop sleeping with him a month before he moved out. And when he moved out... never ever ever ever... again. Since i said i want a divorce... never had sex again.

  • @tracebeginning7491
    @tracebeginning7491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am humble. God bless you both. I need to book some sections with you.

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together...

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝🤜

  • @jennacampbell2168
    @jennacampbell2168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Needed advice 🙏🏽

  • @Hamann9631
    @Hamann9631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    7:47. Are there studies about non-fathers who are in the room when a birth happens? For example does a big brother feel a release of oxytocin?

  • @jewelakerman7733
    @jewelakerman7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost my emotional bond with my husband about 10 years a ago and cant figure out how to revive it. I have questions about the oxytocin release at orgasm. Does this happen with every orgasm, no matter the context? I know that some benefits of orgasm occur with both partnered sex and masturbation, and others do not. If so, how does a bonding chemical affect us when we are alone? What about the context of partnered sex and what it means to you? For example, Is there an oxytocin release when Visiting a prostitute, having Impersonal sex out of obligation, a one-night stand, Or the rare instance in which a woman orgasms during rape? Or does oxytocin distinguish between lovemaking and just sex? Finally, if any partnered orgasm releases oxytocin but you have to fantasize about someone else in order to get there, do you bond with your IRL sex partner Or the man from your fantasy?

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together...

  • @pattihumiston4315
    @pattihumiston4315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We are doing a therapeutic separation because he’s a sex addict. He hasn’t acted out in over a year. I want to make love and he does too but I’m unsure if I should. Any suggestions?

    • @kennyplay5982
      @kennyplay5982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A year? Are you married? Then have sex

    • @KikiNation1
      @KikiNation1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do it

  • @susanjeffers5110
    @susanjeffers5110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It makes me feel like the other woman. Not his wife

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together...

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你...

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝🤜

  • @c.j.9248
    @c.j.9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Have been on an in-house separation for 19 months and sexless for 26 months. I have tried to be respectful of my wife's boundaries for not wanting sexual intimacy because she has lost all love and emotional connection for me and I want to find a way to reconnect. But the temptation has been overwhelming, to say the least, so what exactly can I do to maintain my marital purity in respecting my wife's request, but at the same time of wondering when -- if ever -- she will ever reconnect and want to save the marriage?

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your ex back to you???????

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watzap him now for help............

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348084023955

    • @heistlernoiyer2055
      @heistlernoiyer2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2=3=4=8=0=8=4=0=2=3=9=5=5

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No thankyou. what health venefit from sleeping with an ex? Ewww
    Im soooo proud i rather take a cold shower and buy a vabrator than do an ex. Hellll to the nawnawnaw.

  • @elindigeno1215
    @elindigeno1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well! She found someone else and I'm here suffering. She's determined to stay with that man.

    • @Officialrichmartin
      @Officialrichmartin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don’t suffer just trust and put your faith in God.

    • @elindigeno1215
      @elindigeno1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Officialrichmartin Amen!

    • @dynjarren5454
      @dynjarren5454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Officialrichmartin pfft...thats not very realistic

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together...

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝🤜

  • @dynjarren5454
    @dynjarren5454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want my wife physically but I cannot bring myself to attach to her emotionally right now

    • @homerdadon6363
      @homerdadon6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope it works out and you fall in love with her again

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together...

    • @omowunmijohn3829
      @omowunmijohn3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝🤜

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My wife and I have been separated for a year now and she sent me a nude. So I'm completely confused lol

    • @Yaserthehitman
      @Yaserthehitman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And??

    • @asamusicdude
      @asamusicdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Yaserthehitman and she went cold a few days after lol. Hot and cold inconsistency

    • @Yaserthehitman
      @Yaserthehitman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@asamusicdude That makes two of us lol

    • @KingdomDaugterofChrist
      @KingdomDaugterofChrist ปีที่แล้ว

      are you with someone else?

    • @asamusicdude
      @asamusicdude ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KingdomDaugterofChrist no

  • @adamrogers3417
    @adamrogers3417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Separated 10 months had sex made love a hand full of times and emotional connection.

    • @theasmith1323
      @theasmith1323 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you both feel connected and wanting to get back together again? Did you divorce your wife?

  • @KikiNation1
    @KikiNation1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sure if she offers, why not. Just kidding. 🤣

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I broke up with my boyfriend on vacation and i decided not to have sex at all with him all trip and that was so hard because we all stayed in one house and he would come in my room shirtles and look so sexy and also i had a roomate and i couldn't even releave my self at night. But i survived and i didnt sleep with him once and never again also.
    Am just too proud.

    • @lr7815
      @lr7815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You sound like a real prize xD

  • @CurtisReese-tl7ip
    @CurtisReese-tl7ip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why not, it's just sex.