Three Men Mysteriously Die in Backyard of Kansas City House After Football Party | Case Analysis

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  • @Blizzard757575
    @Blizzard757575 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1011

    As someone with a roommate who sleeps for days at a time due to drugs/hangover often on the couch and never goes outside I can completely see how he'd fail to notice I was dead outside.

    • @JoeyC777
      @JoeyC777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      That's sad. I'd get a new roommate.

    • @iAmiSaid
      @iAmiSaid 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      I was thinking the same thing, in fact many years ago, I did that myself

    • @holzkiewuf
      @holzkiewuf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      100%.
      I was about to say something similar but you nailed it. It’s tragic but not out of the question that someone is wasting their life away in that way.

    • @ambergriffes6122
      @ambergriffes6122 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Honestly, if you pause it at 5:51 it looks like there are blinds and curtains that are closed in most of the windows.

    • @gracejohnson2186
      @gracejohnson2186 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Jojo-o6o6w
      3 young men died. If it can be proven that Jordan provided the drugs that caused their deaths, he faces life in prison without the possibility of parole.

  • @lilbitsleepy2574
    @lilbitsleepy2574 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +377

    Just a quick mention, I can (and do) sleep with a fan running all year round. It doesn’t blow on me when it’s cold but the white noise is great for sleeping.

    • @thephilster6860
      @thephilster6860 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      Me too. I can't sleep without it.

    • @shellyj7536
      @shellyj7536 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Same here! btw I don't drink, smoke or do drugs

    • @frankshorter449
      @frankshorter449 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Same here

    • @TickleMeAmber84
      @TickleMeAmber84 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to use a fan. I had a baby and discovered white, pink, brown, and green noise. There’s so much noise, who knew. They actually sound different. I have a tiny noise machine it uses less electricity than the fan did. They have free apps too.

    • @leannemo7382
      @leannemo7382 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Me too. Otherwise the silence is deafening.

  • @Wildsobermama26
    @Wildsobermama26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +435

    Thank you for simplifying this. As an alcoholic, I knew exactly what this was. No mystery. 3 grown men partied til they died. End of story.

    • @burntblonde2925
      @burntblonde2925 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That’s so sad

    • @janegardener1662
      @janegardener1662 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@burntblonde2925 Sad for their families for sure. I doubt they suffered in any way--too high.

    • @drdkenobi6531
      @drdkenobi6531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I concur. Simply a gathering of drunk Kansas/Missouri rednecks doing what they do best..getting blasted while partaking in sportsball in -0F windchills. Just sayin and I live there/here.

    • @johnts1
      @johnts1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😥😥😥😥 God love them!!🙏🙏🙏

    • @BabyBoyChance
      @BabyBoyChance 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@janegardener1662overdose doesn’t feel good.

  • @miniharez
    @miniharez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +445

    i’m four years sober from cocaine and alcohol, and Dr. grande, hit the nail on the head at the end about substance addiction. I felt lost and hopeless in life not knowing what I was gonna do and not feeling I had anything else to give so I turned to alcohol and later cocaine, and those were the two things that soothe my misery of existence. But since I became sober, I became self-employed, doing what I love, and that has given me purpose that I didn’t think I could have, and that’s something better than alcohol or cocaine could ever give me!

    • @chelseamag3125
      @chelseamag3125 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Yes yes yes! I was moved by his articulation of the relationship with substances. And congratulations to you! I’m about to hit two years in a couple days 🙌

    • @alohaannie5076
      @alohaannie5076 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Congratulations. Stay strong. Best wishes!

    • @bobs5596
      @bobs5596 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i do not understand taking a drug that knocks you flat out for 12 hours. you have missed 12 hours out of your life. alcohol, pot, or psychedelics don't do that. cocaine doesn't do that. only opioids. what is the attraction? do you have great dreams or feel good while you sleep? of course guys like cosby would use it on a victim to have sex the victim wouldn't remember, but thats a very different circumstance.

    • @HeatherHolt
      @HeatherHolt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Amazing job! 4 years is such a feat!!
      One day at a time ❤❤❤

    • @maryannferraro1925
      @maryannferraro1925 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +288

    I am 59 now. When I was in high school I went to my friends house for a Super Bowl party and while I was there, an acquaintance put LSD in a beer that I was drinking. I only remember drinking the beer and then I remember being home and staring at my eye in the bathroom mirror. I have zero recollection of what happened to me. I found out later that I drank a gallon of milk and ate a bunch of bananas. I could have easily died because I have no idea how I got home and anything could have happened to me. I think what these guys took was probably more powerful than what I consumed unknowingly. Don’t go to parties where there are people taking drugs. You could end up in a casket.

    • @australien6611
      @australien6611 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Geez are u ok? Milk and bananas are pretty dangerous its lucky you made it home alive 🙄 worst anti-drug story ever... i dont think anyone has ever died from lsd 😅

    • @gold707786
      @gold707786 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are the oldest talking chimpanzee on the planet.

    • @clayton56tube
      @clayton56tube 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      so true. Even people passing stuff around is hard to resist, they insist you "try it"

    • @applepie9576
      @applepie9576 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I respect Dr. Grande's analysis but I am wondering, too, if they were given something unnknowingly or if they were used as guinea pigs, never thinking it would result in death. Whatever happened there, I don't think the full truth will ever be told by Jordan Willis. The witnesses are deceased so he can slant the story any way he wants to take the heat off himself. Too many unanswered questions. Even if these guys took the drugs willingly, the source of the drugs needs to be found.

    • @tracy3418
      @tracy3418 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      These guys have a history of using drugs. Seems more likely they knowingly took coke.

  • @13donstalos
    @13donstalos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    As a drug addict, I gotta say that your description of drug addiction as the "greatest romantic tragedy possible" is spot on. Most people who aren't addicted can't understand this, but to the addict, the drug is literally the greatest thing imaginable. That's why so many people end up dead.

    • @suitejodi
      @suitejodi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That, and as an opiate/opioid addict… the scariest thing is looming withdrawals. We stay in the addiction because the alternative is terrifying.
      For anyone wanting to get clean… talk to your Dr. about the Burnese method with Suboxone.

    • @44-SWAGNUM-MAGA-X
      @44-SWAGNUM-MAGA-X 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They look functional ASF bro. They would've been fine the rest of their life if it wasn't for the laced fentanyl. Hardly a addiction problem here

    • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
      @AmonAnon-vw3hr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "He just like me fr" Vibes lol

    • @lealoo6287
      @lealoo6287 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed, my bff died of Meth use and I remember her saying, "Don't take this away from me, it's all I have!". She was in a bad relationship, on disability and I couldn't help her. You see, I used to be just like her, accept I saved myself and got away from any access or anyone using. I recognized where I was headed decided I wanted to live and do better. Some people just can't...

    • @13donstalos
      @13donstalos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @oldmancigars1869 Your mom talked me into it. She was a trip.

  • @johndunn9819
    @johndunn9819 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Drunks falling asleep in freezing weather....
    What possibly could have happened 😮
    Such a mystery

  • @chelseamag3125
    @chelseamag3125 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    This is such a logical, level headed explanation of the situation. As someone who’s lost most of my family to drugs, thank you for this.

  • @lmartinez1324
    @lmartinez1324 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I never quite heard the definition of drug addiction explained like this. You are one hundred percent correct that is exactly how it is. Thanks doctor grande

  • @darrensmith5997
    @darrensmith5997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    As an Australian the most surprising thing in this video is that Kansas City is in Missouri and not Kansas as I previously assumed.

    • @crtnyp
      @crtnyp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      There are 2 Kansas Citys. There is one in Kansas.

    • @diffrntlytwistd7442
      @diffrntlytwistd7442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      @@crtnyp The total driving distance from Kansas City, KS to Kansas City, MO is 3 miles or 5 kilometers.

    • @crtnyp
      @crtnyp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@diffrntlytwistd7442 yea I know. Im a truck driver. Went through there last about 20 years ago. Nice people

    • @havefunpk
      @havefunpk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Kansas City is in BOTH states. Their is is Kansas City, Kansas; and a Kansas City, Missouri. The cities are less than 5 miles apart. Also, the history of the 2 cities is very interesting. The Kansas City chiefs (football) and Kansas City royals (baseball) both play in Missouri, about ten minutes from the Kansas state line.

    • @diffrntlytwistd7442
      @diffrntlytwistd7442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@crtnyp oops, that reply was meant for the Aussie, 'flashes chicken lights'

  • @dr.awkward9075
    @dr.awkward9075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +627

    My brother's generation: Drugs will make you stupid.
    My Generation: One hit & you're hooked.
    This generation: First time dead.

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All generations - play dumb games,, win dumb prizes... It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure drugs are dangerous but drug war propaganda has done more harm than anything else besides the CIA... It doesn't make sense to do cocaine these days because the cartels ARE some sleazy individuals and they think they put enough fentanyl in to make the cocaine more addictive, but they're so stupid they don't bother to mix it well and there's inevitably lumps that contain large amounts of fentanyl... If we didn't have the idiocy of prohibition keeping all these substances under the table, maybe we could get a handle on this problem....

    • @iammuaddib
      @iammuaddib 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      I told my kids the other day, you will never have the thrill of going to rave, popping a pill, and then having the best time of your life. Those days are gone.

    • @CBrown86
      @CBrown86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      Dr G is missing the fact that people that have only done blow or molly once are dying. He blames it all on addiction and it has nothing to do with that. Some bloke who does blow at his bachelor party and keels over because of fent contamination shouldn’t be labeled an addict. Most of the people I know that died only partied once or twice a year. Fent shouldn’t be in yay, and most of the people that died had no idea it was a possibility.

    • @CBrown86
      @CBrown86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@iammuaddib100%. People are dying and they arent addicts

    • @sarah69420
      @sarah69420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @@CBrown86no but they're still choosing to do drugs knowing the risks. Their cause of death doesn't change just bc they didn't do their drugs daily. Also you can be addicted and still only do it on the weekends.

  • @azulgaia7782
    @azulgaia7782 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    I truly don’t know if I could resist opioids once I started. I doubt it. I can barely stop myself from eating a cookie.

    • @helmutstransky3761
      @helmutstransky3761 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Never touch them! It´s not for us.

    • @Neilsowards
      @Neilsowards 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      azulgaia, I was once given morphine in the hospital when I had a broken femur. (I was allergic to Demerol). Boy, I could sure see how people could become addicted. I was higher than a kite. I was floating. I was euphoric. They didnt give it to me again, ha,ha

    • @irenerosenberg3609
      @irenerosenberg3609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And neither were you stupid enough to go looking for it illegally. @@Neilsowards

    • @annaf3915
      @annaf3915 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@NeilsowardsI woke up in the middle of my knee surgery hallucinating an alien abduction, space ship, robots and all. The anesthecist came to see me the next day to talk about what went wrong and didn't want to reveal what they gave me because I seemed too fascinated (obviously ketamine).

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@annaf3915 You do know you can obtain your medical records at any time to see what they gave you? They’re your records and you have the right to them. You may have to pay a small amount but you can have them.

  • @jbinmd
    @jbinmd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    Simpsons said it first.
    "To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems."
    --Homer J. Simpson

    • @statementleaver8095
      @statementleaver8095 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      If it's Yellow & Clear.....You've got Juice there Fella
      If it's Tangy & Brown....Your in Cider town
      -Ned Flanders.

    • @uglymolly2138
      @uglymolly2138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      D'oh!!!

    • @deigamohamed707
      @deigamohamed707 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @dorothylewis1207
      @dorothylewis1207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Remember----Alcohol IS Legal!

    • @dorothylewis1207
      @dorothylewis1207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @traybern I beg your pardon lol !!!!

  • @ndwknss
    @ndwknss 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I use a loud fan year round because I need the sound to drown out my tinnitus which keeps me awake at night. I also know many people who sleep with fans going regardless of the time of year. I don't think that's a great argument. As always, excellent analysis!

    • @TeaSpiracy
      @TeaSpiracy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My Mom has tinnitus and used to have a hard time sleeping. Last month, she got these headphones from Amazon made for sleeping. It's like a cozy headband with flat earphones connected on the ear part that you can't feel. So when you roll over you don't notice they are there! She connects it to her Bluetooth and listens to relaxing sounds so she can sleep.
      I figured I would let you know, bc I know how annoying tinnitus is and these headphones seem to work great for her and I think she only spent like $15 on them.
      But I don't have tinnitus, and I'm a fan noise sleeper myself lol

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please note, these can mess with your smoke alarms.

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m glad to know other people use white noise to cover up the sound of their tinnitus. Mine can become very loud if I’m anxious or worried about something.

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TeaSpiracy Thank you for the information about the ear phones your mother uses for tinnitus. I have it and nothing seems to help. I’ll get on Amazon and see about ordering them.

    • @TeaSpiracy
      @TeaSpiracy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@terryKessler42719 Awesome! I'm so glad to hear that and I hope they help you as much as they help her. 🙏 She can't sleep without then 😉

  • @VirtualLunacy
    @VirtualLunacy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    i have 'white noise' fan running in my bedroom 24/7.
    my son is constantly playing computer games late at night.
    the fan drowns it out.
    it's not crazy to run a fan.

    • @karenlevine8076
      @karenlevine8076 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I run my a/c everynight for 35 years. Even now, 25 degrees out, on " fan" mod AND headphones with binaural beats or brown noise. . Its the best way to sleep.

    • @karenlevine8076
      @karenlevine8076 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @traybern nope, not good enough, plus air circulation. Hardly costs anything. It's not wasting** if it's worth it to me. :)

    • @karenlevine8076
      @karenlevine8076 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @traybern that's what PLUS means, DUH. Enjoy your day. Really don't have to justify my sleep habits to anyone LMAO

    • @isabellind1292
      @isabellind1292 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @traybern Do you go around in your daily life yelling at people that they're DUMBBELLS if they don't provide you every, single, detail as if they're intentionally trying to pull a fast one on you? GOOD LUCK W/THAT!

    • @isabellind1292
      @isabellind1292 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @traybern GOOD LUCK W/THAT!

  • @sandrarice4197
    @sandrarice4197 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    The deceased have to take responsibility for their actions. They took the drugs. Nobody forced them down their throats. It's very sad. When you play with fire, eventually it will burn you.

    • @atticstattic
      @atticstattic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, the deceased should face charges....

    • @sarah69420
      @sarah69420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@atticstatticit doesn't really look like anyone will be facing charges

    • @feitme
      @feitme 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They don't have to do anything, they're dead. The living on the other hand do need to come to terms with the reality of loved ones not being saints.

  • @gina_latte
    @gina_latte 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    Spring, summer, winter and fall.. I CANNOT sleep without my ginormous, industrial fan running. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @Alice-ov3rd
      @Alice-ov3rd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same!

    • @rosetorquato8529
      @rosetorquato8529 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yup. Me too!

    • @laurenurban3942
      @laurenurban3942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      👍

    • @derkeheath5172
      @derkeheath5172 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Only way to block out the damn noisy neighbors!

    • @RYMAN1321
      @RYMAN1321 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same here
      I always sleep with my ceiling fan on at night.

  • @markholland5810
    @markholland5810 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Your analysis of drug abuse is spot on. I am familiar with addiction. Your viewpoint nailed it in regards to the most tragic love affair ever. Addicts know the danger. That’s part of the rush. Many make excuses for it…..others don’t want to think about it. And the rest know absolutely what they are willingly doing.

  • @cindyguevara3175
    @cindyguevara3175 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Wow Dr.Grande, your closing thoughts on this case. So deep and well said

  • @davidmenke7552
    @davidmenke7552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Oh Dr. Grande, your final comments on addiction and the harsh reality therein nearly brought a tear to my eye. You are a very talented man, with a lot of experience and wisdom. Thank you for this video and everything you do! You are a gem:)

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    "Frozen In Time"?
    That's cold Dr Grande...prrrrretty cold.

    • @humbertomartinez8897
      @humbertomartinez8897 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well you know he has to get in his dry humor. It’s the reason I watch his channel.

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Very sober description of addiction Dr Grande.
    I was given medical fentanyl for a procedure. Everything went well till it started to wear off.
    I never want to feel that way again and I never want to be given that drug again.

  • @kayzbluegenes
    @kayzbluegenes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Somehow, the Chiefs winning the super bowl eerily informs the tragedy of this case; they would have enjoyed the victory of their team so much. 😢

    • @laurenurban3942
      @laurenurban3942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don’t know how anyone can watch anything while hammered on alcohol and drugs.

    • @kayzbluegenes
      @kayzbluegenes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laurenurban3942 A lot of sports fans drink while watching events; the drugs may have come in after the game. 🏈🍺💊

    • @kayzbluegenes
      @kayzbluegenes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laurenurban3942 A lot of sports fans drink while watching events; the drugs may have come in after the game. 🏈🍺💊

    • @RYMAN1321
      @RYMAN1321 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting timing on this video for sure, only the day after

    • @JarvisArson
      @JarvisArson 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laurenurban3942it just intensifies the moment. Especially cocaine, id imagine

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Best description of drug addiction I have ever heard.

  • @Carole67182
    @Carole67182 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Dr. Grande, I enjoy your videos, but this one is extremely informative. Thank you!

  • @angelagreen3642
    @angelagreen3642 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so beyond sad. Thank you for talking about maladaptive behavior. You are very much correct on that.

  • @2busysecretary
    @2busysecretary 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    First, love your channel Dr. Grande. This is exactly what I said when it first happened, "stoned in the snow" that is the answer. Family members want to accuse and point fingers at others because that is what codependent relatives of addicts do, they protect the addict and blame everyone else. The guests were watching the game, partaking in legal and illegal activities, they probably were so out of it they thought they were going out front to their cars and instead went to the back in confusion. Now as far as blaming the homeowner for not seeing and knowing... he was stoned too! Later, it makes sense to me because during a snow storm we close all the drapes, turn up the heat, open the cabinets for the pipes, put on TV and hunker down. We don't go looking in the back yard or wondering about the cars in the street... The homeowner was probably too stoned to let the dog out. Days go by, I don't answer the door to people I don't know, I check the camera and if I'm not dressed, and I don't want to socialize, I ignore the doorbell. Am I the only one that does that? People need to call first. The cops show up, yes I will answer that door! I feel that they were all druggies and had no idea the consequences of the fentanyl, like so many others that have met the same demise, and family members will need to come to terms with that fact so they can have peace.

    • @Andreamom001
      @Andreamom001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Reportedly, he sent the dogs to his dad’s house for the weekend. Supposedly, his dad took care of his dogs often. (If he was often using drugs, that makes sense.)

    • @12yearssober
      @12yearssober 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They probably went out back to do some without the guy inside.

    • @markmike7933
      @markmike7933 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All 3? the drug hit them that hard at the same exact time? the 3 minutes it takes to get to your car?
      and why were they in the back? all 3 didn't even know where they were going.
      I don't do those types of drugs, so screw it, i guess that's what happened

    • @markmike7933
      @markmike7933 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@12yearssober THAT makes sense.

    • @2busysecretary
      @2busysecretary 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@markmike7933 Fentanyl hits fast

  • @aeropsia
    @aeropsia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Here's the thing. Drug use is different from drug addiction. These people were probably recreational drug users who were just having a good time at a party. Like most recreational drug users, these people were contributing members of society. Our society needs to accept that many doctors, teachers, insert respected profession here, use drugs recreationally. This is not an immoral or uncommon pastime but one that has been with humanity almost as long as we have been human. This was almost certainly a case where drug prohibition caused these men's deaths because with regulation comes safety for everyone involved in the drug trade from producers to users. These men were probably not aware they were consuming fentanyl unless they were purposefully speedballing, but even if they were aware, overconsumption can still happen. Overdose mixed with the cold temperatures caused these deaths, and no one should be held criminally liable.

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If regulation leads to safety for everyone, why do people still die using prescribed medication?

    • @aeropsia
      @aeropsia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @MimiRAM0NE like i said, "overconsumption can still happen," but overall, the entire system is safer when legal and regulated because the drugs aren't tainted. Since they are readily available from regulated distributors who have to track where everything is coming from and there has to be quality control, things are safer. People will still make mistakes. People still drink themselves to death, whether from overdose, hypothermia, or some other accident, but the majority of people who use alcohol do so responsibly. As a society, we don't have a problem understanding this. We have an analog with what happened during alcohol prohibition where people were making bathtub gin that was actually not consumable, or the government was poisoning industrial alcohol to keep people from drinking it and these things killed a significant amount of the population. Now that liquor is legal, when you go to the store and buy a bottle of gin, you know it's ethanol. Knowing exactly what you're consuming adds more safety.

    • @irenerosenberg3609
      @irenerosenberg3609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      If you need to use illegal drugs to have a good time, you would be much better off spending your time and money on professional counselling than on committing criminal acts.

    • @aeropsia
      @aeropsia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @irenerosenberg3609 No. If you want to use any drug when you are relaxing and having a good time, there is nothing necessarily wrong with it or you. If you are a person who is responsible and contributes to society in a positive way, the use of drugs does not automatically mean you need therapy. In these situations, there is no addictive or maladaptive behavior associated with drug use. And going back to prohibition, acts are only considered criminal until they are legalized. Maybe you think everyone who goes to a football game or dinner and has a few beers would be better off spending that time and money on therapy. That doesn't sound like a world most of us would want to live in, but if it's how you want to spend your time and money, then go for it. Drug prohibition creates a problem in our society and then blames us for it.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@aeropsia There are so many ways to have a good time other than taking drugs, legal or illegal. Playing card games, hiking, good conversation, making a good gourmet meal with your friends, watching a movie together, there’s so many ways to have a good time other than taking drugs.

  • @janaeshepherd5854
    @janaeshepherd5854 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It snowed about 5-7 inches on January 8-9th in Kansas city.

  • @Js-kh7it
    @Js-kh7it 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for your thoughts on drug and Alkohol abuse. You are so right. It touched me very deep.

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    So hard to find the origjns of illegal drugs. Any steeet drugs are dangerous. Great points as usual. Thanks Dr G😊🧡🧡

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@WordsBloomwhat even was the point of this comment??

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@WordsBloom Thx but I'm talking drug dealers etc haha

    • @sarahd8093
      @sarahd8093 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@WordsBloomThey took out the book of Enoch. To me that book fills some gaps.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WordsBloom If u believe in him I suppose. Drugs are a nationwide issue, whether satan involved or not lol. Drugs are bad either way. People today are ignorant of what they are laced with.

    • @bobs5596
      @bobs5596 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you make the case as any logical thinking mind would. the govt should offer all drugs free of contaminants at a cost of production price. put the crime out of business.

  • @mrst4946
    @mrst4946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hope your read this Dr Grande. I appreciate the time you spend researching each case. I appreciate the high volume of videos you release for me and us all. Mostly I appreciate how you introduce each video with the same format as an autistic person who finds routine and structure important and regulating for my relaxation time in particular, and TH-cam videos, you being my favourite lately, is the activity I do as relaxation time.
    I've tried listening to some podcasts like crime and wine or something. But the format isn't like yours. There is excessive and pointless chat and they don't stick to the facts. (in my opinion).
    You stick to the facts and you also make some what I guess you could call puns and jokes which are easy to understand and, having what is described as a dry sense of humour, your jokes amuse me and make me laugh..
    I feel like you are clever, safe, organised and witty in a way that's tasteful and understated. I find your channel is so informative and great for me. You have taught me a lot.
    I agree that Addiction is hard to fight I've struggled myself not with a substance but with screen time since a kid.
    My parents just died recently and suddenly and it gets lonely at times and you are my go to for company. I appreciate it a lot! And I love your 🌵 cactus memorabilia. And checkered shirts.
    So thanks Dr Grande I promise I'm not a creep, I'm a 33yo female.from England and enjoy your show which is far better than anything on TV. Best wishes to you and your family.

  • @pecanbrown2006
    @pecanbrown2006 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WAIT! Many people including myself, sleep with a fan in the winter. The humming sound is comforting.

  • @Agrillot6
    @Agrillot6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have a sleep disorder, adhd and ptsd. Depression. Anxiety.
    I can safely tell you that I wouldn’t notice cars on my street or a dead body in my back yard. I have a doggy door. I also don’t get out of bed to answer the door.

  • @f.4588
    @f.4588 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Its the white noise of the fan that helps some people sleep sounder, I myself being one of them!

  • @dianedomina1069
    @dianedomina1069 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent analysis on addiction, perhaps the best I've heard. Thank you

  • @SallieB196
    @SallieB196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Can you comment on the Claus Von Bulow case? That story fascinated me

    • @robertgiles9124
      @robertgiles9124 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

    • @twentyrothmans7308
      @twentyrothmans7308 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robertgiles9124 🙂

    • @lobstermash
      @lobstermash 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just in case you haven't read them (unlikely I know) - Dershowitz wrote his account of the case under the title "Reversal of Fortune" which was the basis of the movie. A different take on the case is in "The Von Bulow Affair" by William Wright, Dell 1983. Both very entertaining. I agree with you the case is fascinating.

    • @robertgiles9124
      @robertgiles9124 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The movie was okay, but not really that compelling. @@lobstermash

    • @lobstermash
      @lobstermash 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robertgiles9124 yeah, I recommend the books, they have the details of the evidence. But I did think Jeremy Irons was very funny ...

  • @lindabrennan4455
    @lindabrennan4455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent anayses as usual Dr Grande.

  • @darcymoon2109
    @darcymoon2109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yeah, people talking about how “it wasn’t even *that* cold!” Well, if you sit out there all night you could get *hypothermia*. People talking like they were blocks of ice was odd.

  • @martindiraimo3753
    @martindiraimo3753 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the great content Dr. Grande

  • @JDoe001
    @JDoe001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That was very poetically said, Dr. G.

  • @yarnpower
    @yarnpower 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Could it be the host of the party, may have survived because he was an addict so had a higher tolerance? Plus he passed out indoors.

  • @nise5281
    @nise5281 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All time dumbest way to parish....A plethora of bad decisions....What a tragic waste of life.

  • @nevv8581
    @nevv8581 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. The wisdom you share is priceless.

  • @hannakurt
    @hannakurt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Dr. Grande for your material and special for your thoughts.

  • @CindyEisele-bm9ug
    @CindyEisele-bm9ug 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whohoo! So happy to hear your analysis on this situation. It happened in the city where I live so it’s personal. Thank you, Dr Grande!!!!

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On the surface, a case right out of a mystery novel, but of course, the real "killer" is likely as you said. Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande (especially for your thoughts on addiction/victims of addiction at the end).

  • @jeanholmes7976
    @jeanholmes7976 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Dr. Grande, what an excellent analysis of this sad case. And thank you for your explanation of addiction. It was very meaningful. You are the best, 🌵😇💕from Jean.

  • @richardhart9204
    @richardhart9204 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The moment I saw images of the deceased trio, a single word popped into my mind - fentanyl. I know you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but sometimes, it is possible.

  • @DavidBingham-rf5bt
    @DavidBingham-rf5bt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been a drug addict for the last 10 years. I haven't touched nothing since December the 6th 2022. 17 months clean and sober in the way that you put it at the end there that was spot on. That's why I watch every video definitely smarter the most thanks doctor

  • @youtubeisboring9709
    @youtubeisboring9709 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New fear unlocked: having someone die accidentally but too many things being suspicious for anyone to believe that I was not involved. I am pretty oblivious inside my home, but outside I'm always on guard. Hope this is all resolved

  • @tessH
    @tessH 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You really get addiction 😢. For me it’s “the one that got away “ .

  • @mrparlanejxtra
    @mrparlanejxtra 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They can check out any time but they can never leave.

  • @KatJ3st
    @KatJ3st 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Addiction description is fabulous. The drug lords know this very, very well.

  • @_Kittensworth
    @_Kittensworth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My guess is that they didn't expect fentanyl to be present in the drugs they were taking. It stood out to me to that one of the friends had a phd, presumably a smart man, and yet none of them apparently thought to test the drugs they were taking. There are very simple, cheap test kits available that detect the presence of fentanyl (or other drugs) in a substance, tragedies like this could be avoided if more people were aware of these options.

  • @lisajames8653
    @lisajames8653 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the succinct, reasonable explanation.❤

  • @sonjastanger5858
    @sonjastanger5858 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your analysis of this case makes 💯 sense... thank you Dr G👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @EricPetersen2922
    @EricPetersen2922 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They were too high to move and froze out. WOW that’s bad, real bad🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @dirtypatwalsh
    @dirtypatwalsh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I slept on a couch for about 7 years (only bed I could afford-free). It was in my room and everything . I heard this story somewhere else but don’t remember where. Always a great video Dr. G.

  • @meghangantt717
    @meghangantt717 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To add to Dr. Grande’s explanation of drug use, an important piece of the puzzle is that users must value their life outside of drugs low enough to justify the risk/loss that comes with the high. Those who value their livelihood will stay away from things that will ruin it. People don’t cheat in good marriages in the same way that people who truly love their lives don’t take the ultimate risk with drugs. 💔

  • @oneofmanykats
    @oneofmanykats 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been sober for 10 years, but I started using opioids because I was prescribed them. By my mid-twenties, I was prescribed fentanyl. After my Dad unexpectedly passed, I started abusing my prescriptions. They helped numb my physical pain and emotional pain. I eventually ran into an old friend who was also an addict. We were a recipe for disaster, and I'm still stunned one of us made it out alive. I am so grateful that fentanyl was only around in prescription form at the time. My friend passed from liver failure but fentayl took my bio mom's life a year ago. I'm so tired of drugs taking good people. This situation is heartbreaking.

  • @melissae1116
    @melissae1116 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Potent words Dr. Todd.

  • @shannonpatch7233
    @shannonpatch7233 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a former drug user I knew exactly what happened here. And I am in full agreement with Dr Grande. I don’t know why there are so many conspiracy theorists on this one. When it comes to drugs the most obvious answer is usually true.

  • @two_tier_gary_rumain
    @two_tier_gary_rumain 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A couch in the bedroom ... for when you're so tired you can't make it to the bed.

  • @TheCosmosagan
    @TheCosmosagan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Not compatible with survival" im gonna steal that

  • @jacquelinewilliams5661
    @jacquelinewilliams5661 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looks like they were all hoping for a big high. Friends who may have had a few drinks, became less inhibited and the rest as we know was deadly. Who is responsible? The maker of these drugs or the seller or the buyer/ user? Its sad all round and confusing to their families. Thank you Dr. Grande for highlighting this case. I love the way you look at all the facts for and against because your insight is amazing. I have learned a lot from you including a deeper insight into people and their thinking and behaviour. Thank you.

  • @Tingley19
    @Tingley19 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Would love your analysis of the Derek Johnson case. It’s on Law and Crime under the tittle “They were just Cold” father finds wife and kids dead” or some shit like that. The “they were just cold” or “they were cold” was for sure in the title. But it’s wild 99% of the comments say they think the husband did it, and his interview he sought out himself was so suspect. Just watch that law and crime network video it’ll fill anyone in.

  • @glendabrady9996
    @glendabrady9996 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said good Doctor

  • @lindabrennan4455
    @lindabrennan4455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In my opinion, if, as an adult, you decide to use drugs you have to deal with the repercussions of your actions.

  • @lariemunoz873
    @lariemunoz873 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart goes out to there families.
    I can say as a recovering addict there would be times I crashed for days. Practically comatose. Remember almost nothing during those times. Also there where times when I would stay in my room not going anywhere. I'd hear someone at my door and not even bother to check and see who it was. I just didn't want to bother w people.
    Also, my brother used to have a couch in his bedroom. My kids too when they were younger, so when there friends came over there was room for them all.

  • @MikeBaxterABC
    @MikeBaxterABC 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:55 Whoa! .. That is a Gigantic sliding door and HUGE! Windows! .......

  • @nkwhite
    @nkwhite 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was about to write that I didn't understand how they could be outside for days without anyone noticing. This is the first video that I've seen that clarified that they were in the Back, not the front yard

  • @littleeva
    @littleeva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The answer is alcohol and drugs. Jordan was probably in a blackout, when the police knocked on the door, maybe Jordan "woke up." I've heard of a person being in a blackout for five days, so it's possible, and BTW, I'm sober 36 and a half years, and anything is possible, especially today with fentanyl around.

  • @joea9222
    @joea9222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What makes it worse is their team won the superbowl and they'll never know

  • @MabDarogan2
    @MabDarogan2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The problem here is that the illegal coke was cut with a completely different, but legal, drug, so the correct conclusion is that cocaine should be legalized and regulated, thereby removing the risk.

  • @ivahihopeful
    @ivahihopeful 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s 39 degrees Fahrenheit outside, my fan is running, and earbuds are in my ears. I go to sleep every night with the fan running and an ear bud playing a long playlist of Dr. Grande. I’ve gone back two years so far and will have a hard time sleeping when I run out of videos. I’m not on drugs and don’t watch football or Jeopardy, so this story is not about me.

  • @jeremykeckler3267
    @jeremykeckler3267 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should do Travis Mcbride of deland fl. Counselor accused of murder. I have personal experience with him. Is there truth to what people say about counselors becoming counselors to find out what's wrong with themselves?

  • @Ba11leFieldAce
    @Ba11leFieldAce 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lmao , I like that there was an assumption that four construction workers getting together and and getting faded is out of the question. Like bruh , every construction worker I know parties like they're in college. Hell,a bit of snow ,beer and some bud is just a sunday night for most of those guys.

  • @juliachildress2943
    @juliachildress2943 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't drink and I don’t take drugs, but I do sleep with a fan going in my bedroom year-round and so do all my siblings. I can't sleep in a room that is silent and where there's no air moving. I know other people who are the same way.

  • @ahlija
    @ahlija 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the clarification on addictions. These people are often judged by non-addict, but they have NO idea the hell that addict people live through. It may seem dumb but the more we talk about it, the more people we can help understand how bad an addiction can be, often leading to suicide. ✌️

  • @dripdrop9787
    @dripdrop9787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here in the UK you have to die to see a doctor. I’m so happy I get to see this one so often 😂❤

  • @gemlayne1400
    @gemlayne1400 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great analysis Dr. Grande! 💯👍

  • @lisaaustin4561
    @lisaaustin4561 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In hypothermia you eventually stop feeling cold.

  • @daisymaefrench4041
    @daisymaefrench4041 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For people who've had a stroke, cancer or some other disease that strikes out of the blue, it's hard to understand why someone would deliberately take a drug that could possibly kill them. I guess if your life isn't that important to you, take the drug, accept the consequences and end up in an early grave.

  • @baaamakingbaaaa
    @baaamakingbaaaa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THIS JUST IN!!! Early this morning at approximately 4:00am the 49'ers received 2 mail-in touchdowns and are now to be recognized as the new super bowl champions.

  • @betterffd
    @betterffd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've had my window ac fan on all winter. The sound drowns out any other noises in my apartment building.

  • @mattblom3990
    @mattblom3990 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drug addiction is just so hard to understand for some people. Back in 2005 when I was 20 I was prescribed a bottle of Oxycontin due to a particularly invasive wisdom teeth surgery. While I never had it since, not even a single pill, I feel the pull even now writing this comment in the back of my head. I am completely honest with friends and family that I'm still addicted to it, but because I do not partake, they laugh it off. Yet, it's when I have three drinks of alcohol over an evening, comes the concern for my well-being, despite alcohol never having a similar pull.

  • @TeaSpiracy
    @TeaSpiracy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im a winter fan-sleeper. We do exist 😊

  • @nanmattingly6402
    @nanmattingly6402 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Grande, everything you related makes so much sense. Except, I still wonder why they went to the back of the house. Were they hot from the drug, wanted to cool off but didn't want neighbors to see them? Sad sorry case. Thank you.

    • @thelogicaldanger
      @thelogicaldanger 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Probably went out to smoke a cigarette on the patio.

  • @teresab126
    @teresab126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Prayers for the families 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @lezangrobbler5349
    @lezangrobbler5349 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As one of the 1% that won my herion addiction, this is very true. For coke it's the thrill. For herion you like the numb feeling. Not feeling the excitement of the upers, but the end is bad for all, death or prison, if YOU don't want HELP. It's a sad life to live after a while, the excitement stops. And then you fight the sickness, withdraw, that's the worst part! It's all you can think about. I'm clean going on 8 years now more or less. Thanks to God! And a very good mother, and my husband❤💖✨🪬🙏🏻 thank you for your work🌻

  • @dangerszewski9816
    @dangerszewski9816 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I saw an interesting breakdown. the drugs they were talking and in the combination they used them are more similar to general aesthesia than normal drug abuse.

  • @Kevin_747
    @Kevin_747 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its still hard to believe that three men simultaneously died in the back yard. Their vehicles parked in front and not noticed by the home renter is another twist to the story. Lots of holes in the story.

  • @meladenosine4995
    @meladenosine4995 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The dog had been staying with family.

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We need to remain focused on facts. There had been a report issued on medical aspect. The police said the survivor is not going to be charged. The mystery is that investigations need to be exhaustive for legal reasons which leads to the mystery that it seems perplexing why internet sleuths need to substitute their speculation for the professionals doing the investigation.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart goes out to those left behind by these men. I don't understand why people still buy illegal drugs considering all the publicity around Fentanyl being added and the resulting deaths. I guess they don't believe it will happen to them. What a waste of life :-( Thank you for presenting this case! I love hearing your analysis.

  • @stephaniesamra7960
    @stephaniesamra7960 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jeez this is scary - never took drugs , don’t drink and don’t smoke - this is difficult to listen to. And their poor families RIP

  • @evelynwells-rk1ed
    @evelynwells-rk1ed 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This reminds me of the Idaho 4 case!

  • @dean4truth
    @dean4truth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I sleep with a fan on every night, even in the winter. and i live in MN.

  • @CAMBY608
    @CAMBY608 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thx for this video….you speak #facts! well, actually until the results come out, they are more your professional opinion, but i’d say you are on point. No matter what, this is all a tragedy and I pray for all their families!