Are All Guys Toxically Masculine?!

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  • @WingsHorns
    @WingsHorns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    I really appreciate the beginning of this podcast. It felt really genuine and just a group of friends sharing and being honest together. I feel like you guys should do more of that instead of always having topics. Just genuine heart to heart conversations

    • @asdfxamanda
      @asdfxamanda 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      agreed! I think it was a nice way of starting the episode and they should do it more often

    • @Jajahahahjajyswe0923
      @Jajahahahjajyswe0923 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Could not agree more!!!

  • @RizzAdobo
    @RizzAdobo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Some ideas for the pod: I would love some out of studio clips/segments that you could insert into the pod such as:
    Seolahh's Carpool Karaoke - The cast sings on the commute from LA to the 949
    Gym Session with Megan - Megan brings the cast to the gym or outdoor activity and takes them through a workout
    Street Style with Paul - Paul takes the cast and puts together fits whether its on a budget challenge or thrifting type vibe
    Jason's Cold Plunge Lounge - Jason takes the cast through the cold plunge and does some twitter/ig/tiktok q&as
    Questions for the pod:
    1. I know Dune might be not as current but who is your personal Lisan al Gaib (aka who is someone you look up to in life, style, etc. who are some of your heroes/inspos)

    • @seaHOLLT
      @seaHOLLT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope they listen to you. These are great ideas!

  • @Blutack3
    @Blutack3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Just got to say I have never seen Jason be so vulnerable like this before. Especially with him talking about how his pride/ego sometimes getting the better of him. I know it must be really hard and embarrassing admitting to all this but honestly props to you bro for being self-aware and reflecting on how your actions affects the relationship and your girls feelings, all love for you bro!

  • @c_leet
    @c_leet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I really look forward to 5pm Wednesdays. This episode actually felt like a hangout with friends. Very open and genuine feeling.

  • @Lights704
    @Lights704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think another point to what Seolah was saying about her aunt and uncle going through 9 breakups and still being together today is the importance of knowing WHEN to apply that level of commitment where you continuously come back to one another in the midst of struggles because not every single relationships you're in deserves that or qualifies for that kind of dynamic. It's okay to discover that a relationship you've been in for X amount of time isn't your dream relationship in all honesty. Just because you've gotten to that place with someone where they are your boyfriend/girlfriend, doesn't mean they will or should be your life partner. It is something to be very strategic and careful about. And that is why we date - because everyone is looking for that person. Don't look too much into your past decisions, make better ones from here instead. Life will carry you where you need to be.

  • @stefaniam2012
    @stefaniam2012 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the only PodCast I HAVE to watch every episode of! I feel like I know you all even though we haven’t met, that is quite the accomplishment!

  • @brianzhuang4319
    @brianzhuang4319 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    “I’m tying Emily’s shoe”
    “I’m not gonna be that mad”
    “I’m tying Emily’s SHOE!”
    “Preciate you bro 🤝”
    🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MsRebeccaOlivia
      @MsRebeccaOlivia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with Paul. It’s honestly not that deep.

  • @Wiichh-w4f
    @Wiichh-w4f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    for next weeks episode can u guys pls talk about quiet on set, drake bell, amanda bynes basically just about child abuse in the entertainment industry and the p diddy situation?!!! i wanna know what yalls take is on it !!

  • @jem3122
    @jem3122 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you Seola for bringing up the n word thing. Regardless if it’s said in a concert setting, people should not still be ignorant because “it’s in the song”

    • @april-d3m
      @april-d3m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      time stamp??

  • @paolo7486
    @paolo7486 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love Megan's laugh it makes me feel some type of way ngl 😂

  • @hashirajayy3607
    @hashirajayy3607 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bro these past couple episodes been so dope

  • @A_Av321
    @A_Av321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also appreciate the love and respect and flowers you all give each other. It's beautiful. One of the earlier conversations about relationships really hit home for me, but I feel like each person's experience/journey is different and not as linear as we would like it to be, speaking from my own experience. I'm in my 30s and I still don't have it all figured out relationship and or work wise, but the fact that you're all contemplating it and speaking about it in your own group is so much more better than trying to navigate it on your own. Props to you all, and all the best in your respective, future endeavors and with this podcast.

  • @sweatynachos1422
    @sweatynachos1422 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Jason, keep ya head fam. You'll be aight. If anything, its time to lock in and be the best you can be, and focus that energy to better the pod and chase your dreams!

  • @bbma951
    @bbma951 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    One of the important things that I learned from going on dates is that you don’t need to make the other person the bad guy in your head to move on. That person just couldn’t treat you on the level that you deserve/want to be treated. And also, you didn’t ask for “too much”, you were asking the wrong person.

  • @gabrielhuang1052
    @gabrielhuang1052 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As like a basketball head, confidence to me really comes from knowing who u are and understanding our own capability and the work u put in. When the time comes for u to show, you'll know you've been there before and it's just gonna look like a normal day. In general it's just knowing u got something to back wat every u do or wat every u said up. I bet Jason confident is gonna be up the roof once the 75 hard is over~

  • @Tjeos
    @Tjeos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    50:34 THIS PART HAD ME DYINNGGGG I HAD THE EXACT SAME REACTION 😂

  • @ThomasxBlack
    @ThomasxBlack 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Keep your head up Jason. You still Top G to the people.

  • @Wiichh-w4f
    @Wiichh-w4f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    paul!! i think u should apply for unemployment since u got laid off! i think that these changes in jason and pauls life is a sign from God to fully dial into the pod!! i genuinely believe this is the year y’all blow hella !!
    i also think it was a smart choice on megans part to stay friends with jason instead of jumping into anything with him cus now she is a great support system for him and has a genuine friendship that will last a lifetime. i just hope that ppl dont start shipping yall again since yall are the only two singles now 😂

  • @jmx6849
    @jmx6849 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LFGGGG🔥🔥 Banger 2h pod!!! We love those!!! Love the team chem and the support given to Jason! Y'all are the best❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @lily_007
    @lily_007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    glad u guys brought back the truth or drink segment

  • @yu.ichito
    @yu.ichito 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dope episode🔥 I like the questions and segments keep it going🙌✨
    I'm in Jersey and in NY/NJ "mad" is the equivalent to "hella" and "deadass" is the equivalent to "for real" or "dead serious"

  • @masaki2597
    @masaki2597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the improvements on the podcast from editing and to the studio. (don't forget us when ur famous ;) )

  • @jvb21
    @jvb21 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bring back the rating hinge profiles! That segment was lit

  • @sbquang
    @sbquang 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Content this summer bouta be fire now that Jason’s single 😂

  • @chunsatoki88
    @chunsatoki88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm here to support! Really enjoying this pod and I do wanna see the growth. If yall Start some sort of monthly patron thing, I'll join! No joke. Sending 💚

  • @iitzcobyy
    @iitzcobyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    @1:28:03 Kevjumba went to the spiritual journey after his car accident to learn being a monk. But he came back like 2021-2022 streaming video games. I watched his streams during that time, then he started to make music. After that he only made like a couple music I think, and disappear again. Probably went back on a religious journey like seen in that video selling religious books with other people, but I dont know anything about it. Overall, podcast was very chill and very happy on updates about yall.

  • @brianzhuang4319
    @brianzhuang4319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The “would you let your best friend tie your partners shoe” segment is GOLD 🤣

  • @Blutack3
    @Blutack3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think Jason needs to read the book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". It'd help him a lot in understanding how men and women are geared sooo differently

  • @jtaubae
    @jtaubae 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Confidence comes from doing exactly what you say you’re going to do!

  • @kevinlai374
    @kevinlai374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Normally Jason personality is annoying to me Bcus he has toxic masculinity issues , but kudos to him for being self aware and speaking on it . First step to changing is accepting you have an issue . But we love growth 😂

  • @stevennlc
    @stevennlc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me personally, I believe confidence comes from being sure of yourself and actually working on the qualities that bring yourself out more as a genuine person. People will naturally follow you when you're able to speak your mind and spread positive energy. I work as a host at a pretty popular Korean restaurant in the Bay Area and there are a bunch of people that I meet and have the pleasure of speaking to. Just like being passionate about something that you do, you could also just be passionate about something as simple as communicating with people and bringing them together. Because I love talking to new people, I build confidence not by just seeing someone who dines as a customer, but actually being invested in creating a space where people can come back to as it slowly builds your character over time. You definitely gotta bring the vibe and not have scripted energy. But more importantly, you just gotta be unapologetically you at the end of the day. As someone also being in their 20's, I enjoy coming back to this pod because of everything being super relatable. A lot of, "damn it's not just me" kinds of moments when I listen. Appreciate y'all!

  • @cindyxc.
    @cindyxc. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ayy just finished the ep w dumb and now we here!!

    • @Justsawa01
      @Justsawa01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

  • @samiyi4896
    @samiyi4896 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    *Just saw The Dumbfounded Podcast, y'all killed it and hoping y'all the best much success to y'all, be patient it'll come*

    • @ID_Kevin
      @ID_Kevin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree. Dumbfounded pushed y’all out of your comfort zone. Some raw emotions + Jason not speaking about his ex negatively shows a lot of maturity

  • @danamahelona2557
    @danamahelona2557 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m cryyiinngg, why did Paul clock her like that 1:18:46 🤣🤣😭

  • @april-d3m
    @april-d3m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    AYYY JEGAN IS COMING BACK

  • @Dannyoung12
    @Dannyoung12 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you can bring more guest episodes!!!

  • @sim5298
    @sim5298 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jason keep your head up king. Take some real time to heal and you gon be alright. Prime Jason OTW.

  • @Hellokittybyek
    @Hellokittybyek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the way Seol Ah is so mature and nice

  • @spacekid6785
    @spacekid6785 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Megan’s method of getting over a breakup seen premature. Seol ah nailed when she said this generation of kids are so quick to just move on. A strong relationship is built from trials and tribulations, not one argument and the end.

  • @busteryeet
    @busteryeet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of my fav episodes so far

  • @chillaesthetics7587
    @chillaesthetics7587 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this episode so much funnnn❤❤❤❤

  • @Leastybois8786
    @Leastybois8786 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    Megan seems to be in a better mood now that Jason is single 😉

    • @Justsawa01
      @Justsawa01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Nah she’s always been that way ..

    • @RizzAdobo
      @RizzAdobo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      well at least the ratio of single to cuffed is even now

    • @Jr9kk
      @Jr9kk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you already know what's up

    • @lidobitesize
      @lidobitesize 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She’s outta his league

    • @Rixkyyy
      @Rixkyyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lidobitesizebruh how she’s far from out of his league 💀

  • @pleiadesglow
    @pleiadesglow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm rooting for you Jason!

  • @energyneverlies99
    @energyneverlies99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dont worry Jason the Pod gonn blow up 🔥🔥🔥

  • @kasper2917
    @kasper2917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    48:33 who let Megan cook?🤣

  • @xxxyabujin
    @xxxyabujin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That thumbnail is insane LMAO

  • @kasper2917
    @kasper2917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    CRAZYY INTRO

  • @kasper2917
    @kasper2917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:19 lmaooo he saw the comments last vid

  • @ViBE313
    @ViBE313 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    subscribed !

  • @imocha22222
    @imocha22222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jason lived in a small town in New York state for one year and saying he's more cultured than New York asians X__X

  • @matthewsilva5598
    @matthewsilva5598 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great episode 👏

  • @qleannn
    @qleannn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Megan: “namsayn” 😂😂

  • @vbs28
    @vbs28 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    equivalent to “where my hug at” would be “lets compare hands/your hands are so big”

  • @bbma951
    @bbma951 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jason the character development is noticeable

  • @qleannn
    @qleannn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jason about to level up being single. I Swear, that single life will elevate you 💯. Love the podcast. Love from Sac🤟🏼

  • @03yingying
    @03yingying 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jason… atleast it ended mutually. You get to keep the good memories!!!

  • @Matchalemoncake12345
    @Matchalemoncake12345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its okay Jason! You are still so young. So much happens and changes in your 20s.

  • @energyneverlies99
    @energyneverlies99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ayy Paul dripping with the hair and fits

  • @thatkidkyle1
    @thatkidkyle1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jason, it took me 4years to get over mines. Be better bro

  • @antoinette5329
    @antoinette5329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The kevjumba face 😁-soelah haha

  • @millykim896
    @millykim896 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lets count how many times meg says "you know"🤣

  • @hoyasmg
    @hoyasmg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    bro paul and seol ah are hella funny in this ep

  • @christopherkang3220
    @christopherkang3220 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    east coast got that Ivy League elite idk but west coast got that ucla swag

  • @kevinsapokguy
    @kevinsapokguy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Meg... Sometimes I wonder what she be thinking about LMAOOOOO

  • @peterp4k
    @peterp4k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Firelord Ozai = Toxic masculinity.
    Uncle Iroh = Healthy masculinity.

  • @MVPKeeN
    @MVPKeeN 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please I need an answer to this. My ex invited me to her wedding in June, do I go?

    • @meganyou
      @meganyou 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      helll no

  • @ANHON888
    @ANHON888 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jason gets dumped and Paul gets fired. This should be the original “Down Bad Podcast.”
    Too soon? 😂😂😂

  • @ssongzio
    @ssongzio 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    @jason Stay up king 💪

  • @KingJvpes
    @KingJvpes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jason my boy!!! If you come out to the bay, let’s hit the SJ clubs 😈

  • @april-d3m
    @april-d3m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    jason bring back that perm😂

  • @raek1495
    @raek1495 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LMAOOO kevjumba was literally a guest speaker for one of the asian orgs at my University last year. He addressed himself saying he never was or has been a monk but idk maybe he straight up lied to us.

  • @asahinaiori994
    @asahinaiori994 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seola’s advice❤❤ 20:30

  • @Ayeegee
    @Ayeegee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well… let’s look at the bright side .. haha 😅 Megan’s sneaky link just opened up again

  • @xxxalexdau
    @xxxalexdau 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not Megan asking what's everyone favorite SLUR? lmao I understood what she meant but that was the wrong word to use

    • @meganyou
      @meganyou 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no no i mean slangg 😁😁

    • @bobbygotbrack
      @bobbygotbrack 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@meganyou 😂😂😂

  • @veronica_youtube
    @veronica_youtube 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jason randomly playin with a mic on podcast lol I thought smth is wrong with my airpods

  • @chrislw9053
    @chrislw9053 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NBC news brought me here, haha

  • @M-ss6bb
    @M-ss6bb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:11:01 babe i don’t think you mean slurs 😂😂

  • @busteryeet
    @busteryeet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love u jassson❤

  • @TomP276
    @TomP276 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    California Asians peak super early!
    New York Asians are bunch of nerds who peak after high school and college!

  • @keokeepdamotiom3656
    @keokeepdamotiom3656 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paul I wanted to pursue PT as a career to what major did you go for in college

  • @TheAwesomePosseum
    @TheAwesomePosseum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    FAMILY HEALTH MONEY CAR WIFE LIFE 2024❤

  • @ecargnus
    @ecargnus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the amount of times i watched 1:18:44

  • @JenTan22bb
    @JenTan22bb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel like u guys already outgrew the young Asian demographic /topics thing . It’s been 2 yrs u guys got more mature. Crazy what if ofc, but imagine instead of megan on, you put Jennifer. The whole dynamic will be so different . A lot more mature intellectual and longer even really random but interesting conversations
    + Paul’s such an important character . He’s got everyone’s back and thinks quick with it too when some cast in throws too much info out in the pod carelessly. Paul. Makes sure everything’s in check. Jason got the ambition and determination. Seolah knows the process.

    • @april-d3m
      @april-d3m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      bruh ntm on megan. shes been here since day 1 and shows determination. she also comes up with ques for the pod which brings up most of the convos. unlike jen, who barely wanted to be there n didn’t even show interest half the time. mostly zoning out and staying silent. although i will admit, in the beginning, she did bring a new, different energy which was good. but i do agree megan should be more organized when she’s talking and make more sense.

    • @JenTan22bb
      @JenTan22bb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@april-d3m agreee. they gotta balance their friendship at the same time look at the pod as a business also especially if they wanna grow. Something to think about is not only their dynamic together or what topic to talk about, but function of each member and what they can contribute to the pod

  • @GNST_Atlas
    @GNST_Atlas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DAMN WE EARLY GANG

  • @bacon790
    @bacon790 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    where the jegan comments at fr

  • @Peipei_ihvcbs
    @Peipei_ihvcbs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    YES sir yes sir

  • @AYOMIDEAKOMOLAFE-sb6zu
    @AYOMIDEAKOMOLAFE-sb6zu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jason's looking Hella fine
    Is it the post breakup glow❤

    • @missashleylon
      @missashleylon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its the jeans 😂

  • @ricksanchez13254
    @ricksanchez13254 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Picture this: a podcast with Jason, Seol Ah, Megan, Jen, Hannah

  • @liyinchong4493
    @liyinchong4493 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Should focus on your career development first and relationship later else you can't care for your partner or give enough attention for her. All the best y'all ❤

  • @aryagupta7040
    @aryagupta7040 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jagen is back baby

  • @tbuenavis
    @tbuenavis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love you paulie

  • @carternguyen9677
    @carternguyen9677 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Megan said she likes looking at TH-cam comment , Megan reply to this comment plzzz 😂

  • @needum9212
    @needum9212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    no breakups are mutual

  • @Zatisfy49
    @Zatisfy49 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This Asian in the East or west coast who’s better is all just between Chinese n Korean Asians.

  • @Matchalemoncake12345
    @Matchalemoncake12345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How old is everyone?

  • @renawei
    @renawei 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    48:35 me when I use humor A around friend group B

  • @subak9265
    @subak9265 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    like if you always knew j would break up

  • @jennyk88
    @jennyk88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    learned smth new: bec

  • @itsubeb
    @itsubeb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @yasmeennassar704
    @yasmeennassar704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi 👋🏻