I love how we keep clothes that we don’t completely like everything about, or doesn’t fit quite right, and Will just jumps with the “Oh easy, donate”. Like, why do we keep things we don’t like or doesn’t fit. Those two qualities specifically would keep us from choosing those clothes to wear, but I still have the hardest time getting rid of them. Its the weirdest mental block lol.
It’s called “imaginary self” I figured! We like the idea of things, but they don’t suit the real us. I had this a lot with certain styles of clothes, I loooove boho style, vintage etc.. when I look at people that wear those clothes I think it’s so beautiful, I get it, but when I put it on myself - it doesn’t look good on me. But I wanna have the thing because it serves my imagination of what I’d like it to look like on me. Like having books that you never read but keep as representation of who you want to be/look like you know?
When you put a monetary value on clothing, or when you purchase it somewhere special, we look at the clothing for the memories it holds rather than the memories we would have wearing it
We all need a Will for deciding about our closet. Although I'm my own Will so I basically don't buy anything because I always find something not to like and at the same time hate everything I own because I've worn it too long already. So I actually need an Arden for my closet 😂
When the absent father comes in and is automatically the favorite parent regardless of how many times hes let his children down before. Will is the star of this show 👏
"i've definitely worn this"-A "that's news to me, complete news to me" "it's kinda weird" "yeah i suppose its fine" (all about the same shirt lol he was NOT feeling it pahah) I'm not even halfway through and will's commentary is killing me
I love the longer discussions you two have about the clothes, particularly the purple shirt with the slip - LOL at you asking Will if he remembers you in it: “yes I do” “no you don’t”
Hey Arden! One tip that may be helpful with clothes is separating your memory storage from “I would wear this again” ones, so those pieces that you wanna wear won’t lose in a pile of everything else? Like having a box of memorabilia that you know you only keep for the sake of having the item, not using it. It helped me a ton to separate things into different categories like that, so when I open up a certain section, I know exactly what it is and don’t become overwhelmed or blinded by looking at everything mixed up.
Arden, it’s honestly so refreshing to hear you talk about how long you’ve had material things in your possession. You and Will are such a breath of fresh air and honestly hearing you talk about how long you keep stuff and still find use for it makes me want to do the same. I feel like now, especially, it’s easy to get sucked into buying things in the spur of the moment without really considering the longevity of it and bc of you two I want to start getting more use out of my stuff and donating a lot I don’t use. Thanks for being such a genuine person and sharing this with us!
I am dying at the commentary. The purple boobie top moment, lmfao I’m dead. My fiancé is the same, he makes me question my fashion choices all the time, lol.
One thing I love to do with my closet after going through I put everything back with the hangers backwards or inside out and if it’s not turned by the following year I get rid of it! It’s really helped me get rid of things I’m unsure about. Love Wills commentary.
I adored this video! So much fun to hear some of the banter between you and Will and I 100% agree that it’s so much easier to make these decisions when you have someone to bounce off of
This video is everything, I can't! You guys are awesome and I think you and Will should always declutter your closet together, it seems so easy and fun this way♥
Pops of all sorts of different colors would look so good in your bedroom with the overall creamy white tones, but specifically with some of the pops being neon!
I love this and I love your wardrobe! could you make a video in the future about your clothing brand recs? I'm 20 and finally buying my own clothes and discovering my personal style but don't want to go the fast fashion route as maybe more younger people are inclined to do. it would help loads AND I love your style 🩶
I hope you kept that 10 year old leather skirt! I think as long as we still get occasional use out of classic pieces, they’re worth keeping. It’s a long life and what’s more sustainable than pulling out your beautiful black leather skirt 10 years from now!
Try some draped semi-sheer curtains!! If you hang them closer to the ceiling and drape them around it, then I think the window will seem so much bigger and like a beautiful feature! You could go neutral or tie in color from your future rug :)
okay but that lazy oaf grip is so real! I'm clinging to this pink denim jacket with cats on the pockets from them because it was my first lazy oaf purchase in 2016
Wooooow. The rooom changed so much when you swapped that chest of drawers, it's amazing. The rug is a great idea Arden, maybe something in a darker beige colour or with a lot of texture would look great. I also recommend either accent wall behind the bed or maybe a gallery wall somewhere, it might look nice with a TV attached to the wall and art around. A bigger piece above the bed frame or something ☺ Have fun with it like you do with your clothes ^^ Have a nice day Guys 😄 Uu, could also hang some plants from the ceiling next to the window and put on some curtains over there, Nothing too dark 😋
I truly believe the designer/brand of an item shouldn't have anything to do with your decision to keep or get rid of an item! Don't feel guilty about getting rid of something just because it's a brand you normally wear, you support their ethics, it was expensive etc. If you don't vibe with the item anymore, then it's not benefiting you and its gotta go
This is the best!!!! You’re incredible and courageaous and …. What a team! Congratulations on the bedroom. It’s lovely. I Totally agree with the rug idea. ❤
My husband helps me clean out my clothes all of the time! 😂😂😂 I couldn’t get it done without him! Also… I REALLY want to come and organize your clothes’ 😂😂😂
I personally would say the Mickey overall dress is better *unless* the ears lay in a weird way bc I know I get finicky if things like that don’t lay nicely
I find it funny how sometimes you even prefix an item with such negatives like you want him to say “get rid of it” it’s like your subconscious is coming through with how you really feel about some pieces.
I love how we keep clothes that we don’t completely like everything about, or doesn’t fit quite right, and Will just jumps with the “Oh easy, donate”. Like, why do we keep things we don’t like or doesn’t fit. Those two qualities specifically would keep us from choosing those clothes to wear, but I still have the hardest time getting rid of them. Its the weirdest mental block lol.
It’s called “imaginary self” I figured! We like the idea of things, but they don’t suit the real us. I had this a lot with certain styles of clothes, I loooove boho style, vintage etc.. when I look at people that wear those clothes I think it’s so beautiful, I get it, but when I put it on myself - it doesn’t look good on me. But I wanna have the thing because it serves my imagination of what I’d like it to look like on me. Like having books that you never read but keep as representation of who you want to be/look like you know?
When you put a monetary value on clothing, or when you purchase it somewhere special, we look at the clothing for the memories it holds rather than the memories we would have wearing it
We all need a Will for deciding about our closet. Although I'm my own Will so I basically don't buy anything because I always find something not to like and at the same time hate everything I own because I've worn it too long already. So I actually need an Arden for my closet 😂
@@wellhello1603 you hit the nail on the head all down to the boho vintage styles - I'm the exact same way!
I relate to that on so many levels haha!
This is literally the first successful closet decluttering w/ Arden. Will needs to be in every one of these
Fully obsessed with everything about this video and will's judgement just coming in over the top!! LIVING!!
Will is literally the best! I would keep so much garbo if he wasn't honest with me
@@ardenrose yasssss Will!!
I love the disembodied judgements of will
When the absent father comes in and is automatically the favorite parent regardless of how many times hes let his children down before.
Will is the star of this show 👏
"i've definitely worn this"-A
"that's news to me, complete news to me"
"it's kinda weird"
"yeah i suppose its fine"
(all about the same shirt lol he was NOT feeling it pahah)
I'm not even halfway through and will's commentary is killing me
same 😆
Will’s commentary was ICONIC love it
"If you're gonna give me that face, donate them." 😂
Loved hearing the disembodied moral support (and occasional antagonism) from Will.
it’s beautiful, Italian, Positano, red lips, drinking red wine, not getting acid reflux from the wine. iconic
"it's really cute.. the only thing is.. i did get roofied in it" o m g
Pahahahha I was like do I leave this in…. 🤷♀️ might as well!
I love the longer discussions you two have about the clothes, particularly the purple shirt with the slip - LOL at you asking Will if he remembers you in it: “yes I do” “no you don’t”
Hey Arden! One tip that may be helpful with clothes is separating your memory storage from “I would wear this again” ones, so those pieces that you wanna wear won’t lose in a pile of everything else? Like having a box of memorabilia that you know you only keep for the sake of having the item, not using it.
It helped me a ton to separate things into different categories like that, so when I open up a certain section, I know exactly what it is and don’t become overwhelmed or blinded by looking at everything mixed up.
such a good tip!!
Arden, it’s honestly so refreshing to hear you talk about how long you’ve had material things in your possession. You and Will are such a breath of fresh air and honestly hearing you talk about how long you keep stuff and still find use for it makes me want to do the same. I feel like now, especially, it’s easy to get sucked into buying things in the spur of the moment without really considering the longevity of it and bc of you two I want to start getting more use out of my stuff and donating a lot I don’t use. Thanks for being such a genuine person and sharing this with us!
This video is like asmr. Just having it in the background and seeing you both be so chill is the best thing ever.
I am dying at the commentary. The purple boobie top moment, lmfao I’m dead. My fiancé is the same, he makes me question my fashion choices all the time, lol.
So cute to listen to you and Will banter back and forth! 💕
The fact that we could only hear Will, but not see him made this so much better ahahah. Also, love everything about Arden
arden: *asks question*
will: *answers*
arden: *fist pump* yes, that's the answer i wanted!
me and my husband, honestly
yours and will's dynamic is so fun and it genuinely is making me laugh after I spent the last hour crying.
Will was the perfect addition we needed for this series
the amount of times i’ve rewatched this video lol, i LOVE the longer in depth decluttering vids !!
One thing I love to do with my closet after going through I put everything back with the hangers backwards or inside out and if it’s not turned by the following year I get rid of it! It’s really helped me get rid of things I’m unsure about. Love Wills commentary.
your excitement at the end of the video made me smile so hard, obsessed with ur new furniture and this video and u
gosh. it's been years since i last watched your videos and seen you and will... i am so so happy to hear that you and will are engaged!
I adored this video! So much fun to hear some of the banter between you and Will and I 100% agree that it’s so much easier to make these decisions when you have someone to bounce off of
Smile over Mickey for sure and love how the room looks now!!
I didn't want this video to end, it was so fun :•) room looks awesome too!
This video is everything, I can't!
You guys are awesome and I think you and Will should always declutter your closet together, it seems so easy and fun this way♥
Pops of all sorts of different colors would look so good in your bedroom with the overall creamy white tones, but specifically with some of the pops being neon!
I love this and I love your wardrobe! could you make a video in the future about your clothing brand recs? I'm 20 and finally buying my own clothes and discovering my personal style but don't want to go the fast fashion route as maybe more younger people are inclined to do. it would help loads AND I love your style 🩶
I GASPED when you showed that leather dress! Absolutely gorgeous!
Arden: You don't like my purple booby top? 😲
ICONIC moment 😂
I never comment on youtube BUT omg I could watch 2 hrs of this and not get bored♥️ also I've missed Will on your videos
THE DONT HUG ME IM SCARED DRESS OH MY GOD I NEED IT
“It’s giving choo choo.”
The commentary is amazing.
I hope you kept that 10 year old leather skirt!
I think as long as we still get occasional use out of classic pieces, they’re worth keeping.
It’s a long life and what’s more sustainable than pulling out your beautiful black leather skirt 10 years from now!
Try some draped semi-sheer curtains!! If you hang them closer to the ceiling and drape them around it, then I think the window will seem so much bigger and like a beautiful feature! You could go neutral or tie in color from your future rug :)
okay but that lazy oaf grip is so real! I'm clinging to this pink denim jacket with cats on the pockets from them because it was my first lazy oaf purchase in 2016
This rack keeps on giving, it's mind boggeling how many clothes it holds :D !
Loved this video!! It was so fun seeing the banter between you and Will. Also love the way the new furniture looks!
OH YOU HAVE THE ALEXA CHUNG DRESS I LOVE IT !!!
This is my fav video lol I loved seeing all your clothes, y’all are so funny and soothing AND made me want to clear out my closet
This video is giving me life right now! When Will said, yeah I remember those shorts! Fantastic! Love your dialogue throughout this video!
I have idea who yall are but Will is amazing, straight to the point. Need more Wills… making flipping decisions people like Will
10min in and this is so entretaining! will really making you seem a decisive person
Wooooow. The rooom changed so much when you swapped that chest of drawers, it's amazing. The rug is a great idea Arden, maybe something in a darker beige colour or with a lot of texture would look great. I also recommend either accent wall behind the bed or maybe a gallery wall somewhere, it might look nice with a TV attached to the wall and art around. A bigger piece above the bed frame or something ☺ Have fun with it like you do with your clothes ^^ Have a nice day Guys 😄
Uu, could also hang some plants from the ceiling next to the window and put on some curtains over there, Nothing too dark 😋
i really really love your editing style, it keeps me interested and it has no awkward silences in it like most fashion videos
What the Flippity Dippity, I'm stealing that 🤣 Great job!! Big thanks to Will!
The amount of times I’ve had variations of the “WAAAAHT YOU DONT LIKE MY PURPLE BOOBY TOP???” with my fiancé. This is v real!
Will’s commentary gives the perfect amount of bluntness for these de-cluttering videos haha
Yesss I’ve been waiting for this video!
i don’t think my boyfriend could recall a single item of clothing i’ve ever worn… lol love this
let me just say the thumbnail for this video is PERFECT
I truly believe the designer/brand of an item shouldn't have anything to do with your decision to keep or get rid of an item! Don't feel guilty about getting rid of something just because it's a brand you normally wear, you support their ethics, it was expensive etc. If you don't vibe with the item anymore, then it's not benefiting you and its gotta go
This is the best!!!! You’re incredible and courageaous and …. What a team! Congratulations on the bedroom. It’s lovely. I Totally agree with the rug idea. ❤
I love your guy’s vibe 🥹 such a lovely couple and dynamic 🫶
My husband helps me clean out my clothes all of the time! 😂😂😂 I couldn’t get it done without him! Also… I REALLY want to come and organize your clothes’ 😂😂😂
The room turned out amazing! Obsessed with it
I absolutely adore everything about this video! the room looks great at the end, lots of love to u and Squilliam! x
Thoroughly enjoyed this video!!! More uncut half hour content of you and Will just doing mundane things please🫶🏼🫶🏼
oh rug recommendation! check out schoolhouse electric...all their stuff is cute but their rugs especially
Omg yesss I love schoolhouse! We have a few things from them in the house ❤
I lovee watching you guys together this put me in such a good mood
this video had everything i love about your videos🥹🥹🥹
Will is slowly but surely losing his English accent and definitely has a touch of "Lloyd Grossman" going on. Loving that!
The white crinkle peplum is screaming “wedding shower” ❤
this was so cute with both of y'all and honestly what a ruthless declutter look at you thriving! plus your room looks super dang stun love it
WAIT! I LOVE THE DRAWERS!!
I vote for the Mickey overall dress to stay!
you guys have the best dynamic
Also love the way the new furniture looks!))
wondering sustainable designers you love?:) I graduate in may and mostly thrift my clothes but I think I want to get a graduation dress new!😊
You have to keep the Mickey overall dress - it's too iconic
keep both the overalls please, both the smiley face and mickey are special
The moment with the For Love & Lemons robe !
I really lost it at ‘it’s giving tchuh tchuh’ 😂
this is my favorite type of video on TH-cam to watch
"It´s giving choo choo" love it 😂
I really loved this video, the will commentary is everything. Gives me animal crossing stream vibes ❤❤❤
I personally would say the Mickey overall dress is better *unless* the ears lay in a weird way bc I know I get finicky if things like that don’t lay nicely
Spring for the Frame TV!!!
definitely keep the smiley dress and donate the mickey!! smiley one is iconic
i'm obsessed with this video oh my gods
I need someone to do this with me and my closet 😂 literally this is a service i would pay for lol like closet cleanout buddy
“It’s giving choo choo” 😂
I find it funny how sometimes you even prefix an item with such negatives like you want him to say “get rid of it” it’s like your subconscious is coming through with how you really feel about some pieces.
dibs on the black and white top at 6:21 hahahahaha
what jeans are you wearing?!! obsessed
they're by Lisa Says Gah! honestly my OBSESSION rn
the bedroom 😍😍😍
I NEED THE DONT HUG ME IM SCARED DRESS 😍😱
This was so relaxing to watch
wished you tried them on!!!
That red leather jacket is STUNNING
i wanna see the purple on and see who is righttt
Arden, could you tell where the black silky midi dress is from? 👀✨ 9:47
Side question; where is your bed frame from?? Also this was so entertaining and now I am inspired to do this too🤗
I’d love to be the person thrifting after you donated all that stuff !!!
ohhh i have that same underboob purple sweater and honestly i usually wear it backwards hahah
i feel like i'd be super good at this
smiley face is wayyyy better
I NEED that Bellesa sweater!!!!!
I dunno how this girl is so adorable and funny but here we are.