@@badman119 Just for a resident status in New Zealand, she is willing to subject herself to torture and abuse by an old man. Now she is with the old man's son who would fuck her while she was still sleeping with his dad. Wow, what a high quality woman with such a classy family. Only people at the same level would envy her.
Of course don't tell the crazy dad till the wedding is done. Be wise! His dad is mentally ill and violent. He will try all means to harm and hurt you both as a revenge. Just inform him after the event as a courtesy and it is actually not necessary to contact him at all. Always keep a distance to people (even a family member) who always wants to hurt you unless he changes dramatically some day. I think the host has a very good family that's why she always thinks she needs to inform parents for any single big event. Stay away from violent people even he is so called a parent and never put yourself into a dangerous situation. Move to another faraway town with your hubby if you want to start a new life. Please be reminded to let your relatives and friends keep the wedding low key now and everything should work fine. BTW Congrats to you both!
First thing first why is he not in jail?. If he does this do you he will do this to another or even did to his ex wife. Do you have any photo evidence? Even if you don't go to the cops at least go talk to a lawyer first to see what kinda leverage you got on him for back up. This is not an issue of telling him or not. It's he's a violent person that could be triggered(to you or others). Go file a restraining order, talk to a LAWYER! Also go talk to a lawyer about your immigration status, you mentioned about the defecto issue.
既然女事主提出希望參考聽眾留言,咁就姑妄言之,事主請姑且聽之: 首先無論如何都要恭喜事主脫苦海、並覓得如意郎君,雖然經歷唔係一般人咁嘅過程,不過最緊要最終收成正果。 反而,愚見認為,當務之急絕非通唔通知事主前任,而係搵到個熟悉紐西蘭當地移民法同婚姻法嘅事務律師,釐清事主同前任嘅de facto / common law關係,尤其是响佢本人歸化入籍、以及同阿仔/準新郎結婚呢件事上,有冇任何影響。事有緩急輕重先後,不可不察。 祝 萬事如意。
I am from NZ as well. I know NZ takes domestic violence seriously. If you are a victim of any domestic violence, you can consider applying for a protection order. You can visit the Ministry of Juctice or Ministry of Women websites for more information on Protection Order. At any time, if you feel threathen, you may call 105 or report to any local police station.
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Troublemakers
人身安全係第一
感覺如果要提心吊膽去攪個婚禮
呢個對你哋之後嘅婚姻生活都會有陰影
除非你話過咗呢5年
由媽媽口中得知老豆係有改變嘅
就可以考慮婚前通知
但而家聽哂成個story知道佢老豆
仲係一提起你2個嬲到想殺死你哋嘅
咁為何要冒上呢個人身安全問題嘅尊重
又另一個角度睇
你哋知佢會唔開心會更嬲嘅
咁唔通知 唔挑起戰爭 息怒件事
都係另一種尊重
靜靜地離去都係一種尊重
合適嘅時候拉遠人與人之間嘅距離
係保護雙方 如果因為一個自己覺得尊重嘅通知 而令佢爸爸做出啲有機會後悔一世嘅事 揹上法律責任
其實唔再見 都係一種保護
每個人觀點角度唔同
將來唔知會發生咩事
希望好好保護每一個人之餘
唔會令人生有咩遺憾
純粹個人意見 唔知幫唔幫到你少少
婚前通知,提防發酒瘋父親採取“玉石俱焚”下下策。大家一鑊熟。Don’t take any risk in order to secure all lives including new couples。👍👏🙏😀
等咗好撚耐啦*你老母
咁煩!我寧願搵過第二個男人,所謂搵食都行遠啲
有道理
緊係唔好請佢爸爸啦,結婚前亦千其唔好比佢知,如果來到搞事同所有人講爆你同佢上床又勾引佢個仔上床就大鑊破壞個婚禮就後悔,最好婚禮完成後先講啦!
同意
千其唔好比佢個癲老豆知, 佢係危險人物, 以後仲要小心自身安全!
你們俩個是卅及卅五歲的成熟的成年人,完全可以獨立自主,不再受父母的約束和監管。妳搭上了他的兒子,變相令到他們父子関係已破裂。所以,你們將結婚的事通知他父親,只會带來更大的傷害,只會換來更壞的結果。你們居於小鎮,他的父親一定知道你們同居,多年來只啞忍接受了,不需你們的通知。長遠計,應該遷離其地方,免受恐懼和威脅,另創新天地,享受美好生活,生兒育女。
同意,雖然佢常打妳,但唔好忘記「你同佢個仔係背叛佢」,除非佢而家嘅生活好好,已經搵到另一個伴侶,如果唔喺佢嘅怨氣仍然好深。最好唔好再招惹佢,離開得遠遠的,唔好再刺激佢。
絕對認同
你哋咁辛苦才脫離魔掌!何必自找苦吃!只怕紅事變白事!刀光劍影!😮😅😂😢😊
写非常之好,我贊成。她和爸爸已經分居五年,所以關係已經不再有效,我在澳洲,法律一樣的
等佢第日老咗冇力打人生埋小朋友同佢講,先斬後奏😅
根本就唔需要同距老豆講😅講完先出事
很同情你嘅境遇,喺我認為,你哋最好就係搬去第二個城市或者遠離嗰個地方。
如果你係老豆,個老婆俾自己個仔食咗,仲要同個仔一齊走咗五年完全冇聯絡。諗住結婚同老豆講:「老豆我就食咗你女人依家同你講埋會同佢結婚、聽完激唔激死你」。一般人聽都一定嬲到爆,何況佢老豆本身火爆。個仔做完壞事仲要扮正常人做法結婚要通知父母。真係想問佢咩料呀?如果佢老豆打女友係衰,咁一個25嵗高大靚仔唔去理性搵個正常關係。冇女到要選擇老豆個女友就更加衰!同呢啲人結婚你應該要諗清楚!仲有你30歲人要靠人結婚移民,你喺原本地方犯咗法咩?爭大耳窿錢?紐西蘭真係好到俾人打都要想留喺到?自己冇能力到咁要咁委屈自己
其實之前有個澳洲留學做咗性工作者最後自己開舖頭又有移民資格打上黎分享。我反而欣賞佢。話哂自食其力,靠自己努力。
有冇人聽事主講野聽到好炆?= =
唔需要通知,结緍是你們的事,祝幸福❤❤❤
我係覺得結完再通知可能係最好
今次主持人意見分歧😂
我都係支持唔好講,安全最重要呀,個老豆都唔係正常人,想辦法唔好俾佢知可能更好.....再10年後,再沖淡d先啦
分析下!當比人帶綠帽,仲要係個仔,仲要通知親朋戚友, 正常人都難忍受何況老豆仲要燥底仲話會殺你哋!個仔想講畀老豆聽結婚都係想孝順,但係你吹嘅女人係你老豆既女人當一刻已經不孝了,如果你想考順他就不要刺激他!何解要通知呢多一事不如少一事越低調越好.
中立黎講,果個女事主都幾仆街
1.貪身份,搵個男人
2.破壞2父子關係
3.完全感覺唔到女事主果刻有收恥之心
4.雖然個男人打你係好仆街,但你果刻應該離開,而唔係同佢個仔一齊,再者佢個仔仲同你一齊,總有一日同老豆互片
5.男人最忌比人載綠帽,仲要個仔
6.家暴非藉口,非故意攻擊理性討論
梗係唔需要同佢阿爸講啦,你地兩個做咁多嘢都係為自己,你地只需要同自己交代.. 佢阿爸又唔係正常人,何必要冒險製造恐懼或悲劇呢?!況且佢阿爸要知一定會知,但唔需要由你地講佢知,以免刺激佢啦...
至於你要講親情,其實都會有分緣份厚薄,唔洗執著,各自生活唔係仲好嘅解脫嗎?!
梗係啦結左婚先至通知佢一声啦最安全。😅
結左都唔使通知
為咗移民 ,咁願被虐待,值得咩 🤔
仲通知佢老豆?唔係卦😮
我反而覺得唔使通知爸爸第一好危險,唔知佢會做啲乜嘢 而且通知佢都冇乜意思已經多年冇聯絡 一陣刺激到佢都唔知佢會做啲咩
外國月光要用呢個方法換,真係犯賤。
攞咗個「中國月光」
真係犯賤 exactly
2:37 同大陸女人為咗張身份證, 嫁比香港阿伯有乜分別? 攞到張身份證就走人, 正仆街, 根本一開始就只係為咗居留
所以吾好成日話大陸女人乜乜乜,實情天下烏鸦一樣黑!
人就係咁,只係大6女人更癲更绝,錢都立埋,同時係有計劃破壞人地家庭,同呢單港女事件完全唔同性質
@@wyuenc大陸女人係有計劃,破壞人家庭,還要搶錢,所以性質係惡劣和嚴重好多
公平D... 咁你有冇俾人日日家暴?
公平d... 家暴可以走返香港 死忍難忍明顯為左PR永居
支持 2位主持 👍👍👍 你兩位主持不正確 唔應該 通知佢老豆 幾年冇見 對於呢啲人唔需要講禮貌 不了了之 .自己兩公婆過日子就好喇👍👍👍👍♥️
考慮去其他地方攞結婚,和結了婚才通知佢老豆,最後不要在佢老豆town生活,佢老豆在那一個town?
個人意見唔需要通知佢老豆
好窩心? 個老豆打佢咁多次個仔都無即時制止,次次都係事後問吓😂
像karen以working holiday來澳洲, 再找另一半擔保移民, 是很普遍, 在這個節目第二次聽到. 至於結婚要不要通知他爸爸, 其實通知與否, 爸爸以後肯定會知道, 因為紙不能包著火, 他可以從第三者知道, 例如前妻和丈夫的朋友, 即使叫他們不要說, 亦很難不洩漏, 既然如此, 何不在結婚之前透過丈夫的媽媽通知他, 可以了卻丈夫的心願. 記住, 永遠逃避不是辦法, 既然你選擇了, 就要付出代價.
不要通知佢阿爸
做事要安心,心不安結婚都會提心吊膽,可苦呢?而且你都話係細town,兩父子都為一個女人反目,對父親一方係好無臉。全村人都知你同佢個仔走佬。結婚越低調越安全越好。等多20年佢無晒火氣,你們去見佢都未遲。
講得啱佢老豆,咁樣個人唔好俾佢知道,璃佢老豆远唔好見到,過多十几二十年去見佢哋
選擇通知,或唔通知,首先你哋要有通知的原因,你哋應該會回答因為佢係爸爸,其實你哋由第一天已經冇當佢係爸爸和男朋友,;雖然那個男人打你係唔正確,但是不代表個兒子可以食我女朋友,你可以食我個兒子,我覺得通知佢,就係想佢原諒你哋,去修補個關係。如何真係想,可以錄影片同佢抱歉同解釋.
假如你哋冇想過修補個關係, 咁就不用通知佢
你哋係咁個關係結婚,真係唔明點解你哋還好意思要去通知佢爸爸?係為咗示威?挑釁?定係想故意去刺激報復佢?
出咗咁個亂倫醜事,你哋一早就應該遠離過個地方去從新展開你哋個新生活啦。
至於個仔結婚之事根本係無需去通知佢爸爸了,費事又係佢個傷口上再撒鹽。
老實講,個仔做出咁個事有當佢係爸爸咩?呢對父子的關係已經係冇啦。
如果d朋友會爆既 就而家都已經爆左佢地新地址啦 所以應該唔使驚有人爆既 不如結左婚先由媽媽既口中話比佢知 你地結左婚就算 (禮貌上通知)恭喜晒 祝生活幸福❤
清醒時收到通知,未必有即時反應。飲醉酒諗下諗下唔忿氣,拎把刀過嚟殺你哋都似!搵唔到你哋殺埋佢阿媽仲慘,連累埋奶奶😢等件事再丟淡多十年八年,到時佢都搵到第二個先再算。最好梗係搬得老遠啦,如果紙包唔住火佢要來大屠殺,都係天意😅
咁都唔走, 你真係好想要個passport喎. 你夠膽面對依個男人, 但冇膽面對返香港搵野. 好野!
佢唔識法律,其實果時報左警,新西蘭政府會送個PR俾佢,因為佢係家暴受害者!
@@user-pk5ri5wz8y人哋本身M底唔通又話你知咩😁一邊享受俾人打一邊又可以免費移民幾爽
1)未婚夫只是想禮貌上通知他爸, 但最終也要尊重未婚妻的意願。
2) 創傷後遺症要尋求治療
3) 未婚夫從小看家暴長大, 也要積極尋找治療
可找粵語(英語也可)的心理治癒❤️🩹幫助, 這邊政府大力支持不同的種族。
祝婚姻美滿, 共同渡過人生風風雨雨!
子羽和DaDa 好! 繼續分享好故事,越做越精彩!
多謝支持:)
絕對不用通知一個恐怖分子!祝福你們一生幸福!🎉🎉
緊係唔好講。佢喺第二度聽返嚟係佢嘅事,至少佢仲可以選擇扮唔知。但係如果你哋直接通知佢,佢連選擇扮唔知嘅機會都冇,沒有落台階,咁佢可能只能夠選擇偏激地回應,去做出傷害你哋嘅事。
如果呢五年佢都冇嘗試去搵你哋,好大機會就算間接知道你哋結婚都唔會嘗試去做啲咩。其實嗰句「下次再見到佢哋會殺咗佢哋」咪就係佢個落台階囉… 但若果你哋偏偏要選擇再出現喺佢生命,一定會激發返佢嘅報復心理。
Karen 依家已經係PR,如果担心之前關係問題,可以花啲錢揾solicitor搞就可以,仲會方便左!
至於佢老豆,嬲係有原因,橫豎已經無聯絡,通知你地結婚都慳返
其實個town咁細,都唔關通唔通知老豆事,通知左驚佢來搞事,但唔通知佢佢都會打聽到,所以要擔心嘅都一樣?
要搵老豆嘅要點係咪要睇之前申請嘅證件可否喺結婚前單方面取消還是點?最重要搞清楚取消之前的approval會否影響同未來老公結婚的程序。
祝妳順順利利❤幸福快樂
個仔可能想同老豆維持關係、第日有得分身家🤣
食完老豆條女再結婚係維持關係?什麼?
@@user-yc3rp1wb4v 佢幾年冇同老豆來往!依加結婚又要通知老豆、目的何在?咪係想同老豆有番聯繫囉!都咁多年冇聯絡、通乜鬼知吖!多餘!有乜事發生真係自己攞黎衰!
如果係我就唔會通知佢,你通知佢咪一樣會攪事,但唔通知就危險減少,萬一帶定刀黎點算??係咪?
結咗婚順其自然仲好,或者兩公婆搬另一遠啲區!恭禧你哋永結同心,永遠幸福快樂
盡快賺錢搬遠的。條命仔都安全的。發酒瘋的人好易失控。
呢條女真係犯賤到不得了 仲要同佢老豆講
呢位女士好堅強,加油,希望未來有幸福生活❤❤❤
呢位女士真係好犯賤 未來有幸福生活機會等於零
@@sidneychan1372 點解???他拿了身份証,又能工作,選擇自己想要生活,這是犯賤???你是 什麼邏輯??
@@badman119 Just for a resident status in New Zealand, she is willing to subject herself to torture and abuse by an old man. Now she is with the old man's son who would fuck her while she was still sleeping with his dad. Wow, what a high quality woman with such a classy family. Only people at the same level would envy her.
忘記祝你哋新婚愉快❤❤❤
最安全方法就是“結了婚”既定事實。新郎父親不能改變事實,唯有接受事實。本人是香港出生人,但也是AAA 级纽西蘭市民于1998年已入藉。建議妳切勿在婚前通知發酒瘋的人,因為他覺得無面且有可能在妳們婚禮中攪破壞,從而有一線希望改變事實。“米以成炊” 就是最好的對策。或婚後盡快大肚。👍👏🙏😀
見到個孫~就會收晒火㗎嘞。
唯一可以做的就是先斬後奏,沒有任何選擇。我係當事人,一定不會通知這個人,係絕對無需要。
19:15 好明顯兩父子都有暴力傾向, 佢仲要感動, 真係無得救
10 年後又變咗阿仔打
其實真係有遺傳,我唔明呢位事主仲夠膽同呀仔一齊
呢位女士真係好犯賤 未來有幸福生活機會等於零
曾經都遇過兩父子,不過之後識個仔嘅時候係唔知佢係父個仔!但父嗰個都係有家暴問題!個陣忍左父嗰個一段時間,係因為父嗰位每次家暴完都會後侮及道歉和苦苦哀求!後來識左仔嗰個又一齊左一段時間之後佢帶去見佢父母嘅時候,先震驚地知道佢父親係我千辛萬苦逃離嘅ex!最後係因為父嗰個又再不斷纏繞,加上太害怕,又唔敢同仔嗰個講,所以都放棄埋仔嗰個……
提醒大家,會家暴傷害你的伴侶,一定唔可以忍和盡快逃離對方,因為家暴者實在太恐怖!
同大陸妹嚟香港呃居留權一鳩樣
高潮迭起⋯⋯皆大歡喜😂恭喜恭喜
剛剛先至聽到呢個故仔呢個女人真係撩鬼攞命溝咗人個仔仲講畀條老爺聽
個女人一心想要NZ身分,就算比人打咁多次都唔走…身心本身都有問題! 好toxic
另外有無人同我諗法一樣,個仔都好恐怖,好似未見過女人咁,呀爸條女都敢食,動物先會無自制能力,所以呢個世界咁亂!希望大家要自愛🙏唔好教壞細佬!
呢位女士真係好犯賤 未來有幸福生活機會等於零
知道你哋拍拖都預咗你哋會結婚㗎啦!傻妹!
或者Karen老公明白他們的婚姻不會得到他爸爸的祝福,但我覺得她老公希望得到他父親的原諒及接受現實。不竟他真的搶走自己的女人,而且原諒了就不會再攪事吧!
應該叫未來奶奶出手幫忙說服。先試探、如無惡意就可告知他們有結婚的打算,如果對方真係接受唔到都唔好勉強喇!希望Karen都明白過往的關係對大家來講都係一種傷害,係依段關係入面,每個人都係有責任的。
清醒時收到通知,未必有即時反應。飲醉酒諗下諗下唔忿氣,拎把刀過嚟殺你哋都似!搵唔到你哋殺埋佢阿媽仲慘,連累埋奶奶😢等件事再丟淡多十年八年,到時佢都搵到第二個先再算。最好梗係搬得老遠啦,如果紙包唔住火佢要來大屠殺,都係天意😅
老公變老爺
Of course don't tell the crazy dad till the wedding is done. Be wise! His dad is mentally ill and violent. He will try all means to harm and hurt you both as a revenge. Just inform him after the event as a courtesy and it is actually not necessary to contact him at all. Always keep a distance to people (even a family member) who always wants to hurt you unless he changes dramatically some day. I think the host has a very good family that's why she always thinks she needs to inform parents for any single big event. Stay away from violent people even he is so called a parent and never put yourself into a dangerous situation. Move to another faraway town with your hubby if you want to start a new life. Please be reminded to let your relatives and friends keep the wedding low key now and everything should work fine. BTW Congrats to you both!
Dada把聲好靚、好有感染力。
通知囉 等睇新聞發生倫常慘案
我認為唔使同佢老豆講,等佢老豆死就一天光晒啦!
唔使通知啦!講左咪重刺激佢!個地方咁細嘅話!你地結咗婚一樣好容易傳到佢耳仔!
咁多個options之下,top on the list 係要件事順利,安心發生。如果佢老豆係仍然有發癲嘅機會,就唔好同佢講住啦,順利結咗先。
如果佢唔會發癲嘅,就順其自然,呀仔講,呀媽講都無所謂啦。
如果無同佢講,佢又知咗,只可順其自然。最緊要係你選擇去令婚禮順利,唔好成個過程提心吊膽
Totally agreed with the comments by the hosts and the followers below, don't contact the crazy father!
不知道紐西蘭的法律如何,但這位女士由一開始忍受個男人虐而唔報警,就即係助長那個男人繼續行使暴力,very bad🙅🏻♀️
22分鐘~子羽幫倒忙😅
如果你個town咁細,佢老豆要知都好容易。
不如早早地同佢老豆傾傾。 不過就唔建議face to face.
最好五好通知
盡量避免見費事有殺身之禍有血光之災。佢老竇咁暴躁又要面一陣間六個大封相⋯⋯已經冇見五年何要通知?
DaDa笑得好甜蜜!!!
子羽係咪流㗎?
個個女的當時人把聲同口吻都一九樣?😂
聽咗咁多集, 用埋變聲都認到來來去去都係o個幾個人lol
工作假期的女仔為咗要PR可以做到好Cheap
Don’t tell him…he might destroy your wedding. He’s not respecting you, why you have to respect him …
She is not respecting herself
既然前夫咁癲,就梗係要顧及自己安全唔好當面通知佢、最好由啊仔結咗婚之後先WhatsApp 佢、亦唔需要請佢。結咗婚之後唔好聯絡唔好住係同一個地方,話晒NZ咁撚大地方。
Congratulations! Don’t go see that violent man. He should be in jail by now. You should also alert the police. You are in danger.
為咗自保,遠離是非地,低調、一切從簡,醒事密冚!
結完婚再通知,小心為上呀!
其實最危險的時間係緍前的一段,如婚事己通天咗,條醉漢癲起嚟,意外什麼事都會發生,小心為首,因醉漢不會清醒地同你講道理和親情,喜事變壞事
First thing first why is he not in jail?. If he does this do you he will do this to another or even did to his ex wife.
Do you have any photo evidence? Even if you don't go to the cops at least go talk to a lawyer first to see what kinda leverage you got on him for back up.
This is not an issue of telling him or not. It's he's a violent person that could be triggered(to you or others).
Go file a restraining order, talk to a LAWYER!
Also go talk to a lawyer about your immigration status, you mentioned about the defecto issue.
如果係我會先保護自己,結婚後至通知佢一聲
無謂通知佢 最好有咁遠搬咁遠 離開危險人物
啲故事一個爆一個
為了PR 咁犯賤!真無當過目已為人,更沒想過自已父母的心痛!
妳還要溝利用過的老公個乖仔結婚,這個 羞辱無男人接受得了,妳倆還不立刻有咁遠走咁遠,逃去澳洲生活也找到你倆個呀!
該死的殘女人真係打得少
請兩個打手旁身
為咗個居留,噤就一世失敗😢
既然女事主提出希望參考聽眾留言,咁就姑妄言之,事主請姑且聽之:
首先無論如何都要恭喜事主脫苦海、並覓得如意郎君,雖然經歷唔係一般人咁嘅過程,不過最緊要最終收成正果。
反而,愚見認為,當務之急絕非通唔通知事主前任,而係搵到個熟悉紐西蘭當地移民法同婚姻法嘅事務律師,釐清事主同前任嘅de facto / common law關係,尤其是响佢本人歸化入籍、以及同阿仔/準新郎結婚呢件事上,有冇任何影響。事有緩急輕重先後,不可不察。
祝 萬事如意。
確實很好的建議
@@hksexandlove 唔好客氣,純粹以事論事啫。
我哋大家都唔知事主所處當地風土民情以及佢前任/準新郎老竇秉性,再者,通唔通知呢件事亦會涉及到準新郎同佢父母各自嘅性格、取態同互動,大家作為外(地)人,唔完全掌握佢哋實況,係好難有個適切嘅建議畀事主參考。
不過,事主本身嘅移民身份同婚姻狀況,無論件事點樣發展,都係成婚之前必須確立同釐清,以免處理不善而喪失歸化入籍嘅權利,所以愚見以為事主最好首先將呢兩方面處理好,然後再應付其它事情。
Another issue is the ex is a dangerous person that needs to be off the street, or at least file a restraining order against him
上陣不離父子兵° ✓
dada 超正
外国对家暴是非常看重的,如果她在她丈夫攻击她的当时报警,警方会即刻将他丈夫带走,发人身保护令并让保护被家暴者的机构来帮助她,不需要担心签证(甚至很快批发)。这样她就可以在法律保护下获得更多权利。他的丈夫会永远保留着家暴的记录也不能接近她的5米范围之内
遊花園~遊咗36分鐘!
我覺得咁樣~你要問清楚你同佢老豆關係上要唔要有咩聲明之類先!法律還法律,第二就係你老公點諗,講唔講其實冇所謂,你要搞清楚你唔需要避,因為佢打人係可以拉得,你應該備咗案先。如果係我就揀唔講,但如果要講就唔好單獨講,佢一出手就可以報警,拉埋就好
notify him afterwards.
靜靜哋一起生活就算了,或搬去別處住。不要去惹原來的老公,何必在生枝節,搞清楚自己的文件問題就OK啦。
開頭前夫對事主好好,但什麼原因令到前夫酒後打人,事後事主有否和前夫好好地傾吓?會否自己年紀太大工作不順利做成壓力?或傾唔成?
和一個沒有血緣関係嘅前兒子結婚道德上有冇問題?
我都贊成要知會父親一聲,我不知道兒子和父親嘅關係如何,由母親通知他比較合適(要最遲通知他們但是不讓他知道結婚地點)最好去轉啲嘅地方擺酒/酒會,過咗一段時間再觀察,如果父親性格上有改變的話,就探望一下佢啦,因為始終都係他父親…
齋聽開頭都真係好日本 AV 情節,不過會仔細地拍細節的劇情 AV 就唔多嘅😶🌫️
有能力就搬去第二個 地方, 遠離佢爸爸
我睬佢都生芒果。
我會選擇靜悄悄註冊。
任何人都唔講,包括奶奶。
為保自己兩個嘅人身安全,係要放棄一啲嘢。
至於請親朋食飯聚會,可以過咗註冊之後,再低調食飯。當係普通朋友聚會咁。無謂刺激嗰個痴線佬。
如果可以嘅話,日後搬離嗰個小鎮,更加安全。其實呢個人真係好恐怖。
祝你哋幸福快樂!
唔需要講呀你哋兩個人嘅事
这没有什么大不了的!以前武则天都系同父子俩啦!妹子,姐姐支持你!
一定吾可以通知佢老豆~就算真係要講~都係結咗婚之後先講~你之前講佢一定千方百計攞地址嚟搞事~ 你哋咁辛苦行到呢一步~要萬事小心呀
最主要糸睇你同佢老豆既婚姻系法律上斷左未!如果未就搵佢搞惦佢!如果斷左就直接結婚後先通知㑌一聲!
呢一代1.5 M 既女仔真系好少. 鬼佬可能钟意佢食腸. 佢仲叻過河馬, 可以做到6次, 我真係好懷疑, 20歲都做唔到啦, 6 次!
I am from NZ as well. I know NZ takes domestic violence seriously. If you are a victim of any domestic violence, you can consider applying for a protection order. You can visit the Ministry of Juctice or Ministry of Women websites for more information on Protection Order. At any time, if you feel threathen, you may call 105 or report to any local police station.
council have free legal advice !!
結完婚搞掂哂所有野先通知一聲咪得囉⋯⋯已經結咗婚「完」點解要咁複雜,又話要通知又驚人黎搞事?父子關係要佢仔同佢自己個老豆慢慢去修補,比我唔會再接觸😂