4 SURVIVAL TIPS for an INFJ (Enneagram 4w3)!!!

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  • @cc910j
    @cc910j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As a fellow INFJ and type 4w3 I completely agree with everything you said! It is hectic indeed especially introspectively.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw thanks - yeah it gets a bit crazy doesn't it! Thanks for watching :)

    • @owlsama567
      @owlsama567 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am infj 5w6 but my bf ENFP 4w3 is extremely similar to infjs, but still enfp, very different from enfps 7.

    • @raultorres2601
      @raultorres2601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Has enneagram any objective basis? Has it the respectability of the Psychology? Don't put in risk your precious Health. Remember: mental health is indeed more important than corporeal health.

    • @goteamslugs
      @goteamslugs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raultorres2601 "Corporeal health"?

  • @ayoungmind1
    @ayoungmind1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, sometimes I know these things but get so caught up in my head I can’t act. Gonna go sit on my porch and watch videos

  • @RandyDukeakaDukers
    @RandyDukeakaDukers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    As an INFJ Comedy is probably the only reason I am not completely insane. Ha!

  • @HenrikaArcana
    @HenrikaArcana ปีที่แล้ว +4

    INFJ 4w3 here and let me tell you, I'm a tattoo artist, I paint and make music, or take long nature walks, and that's literally all I want to do. I don't want to deal with people outside work, I only need like one person who I can be physically and emotionally intimate with and the rest of the time I do deep work with myself alone in silence at home in order to stay sane in a world that supports none of what feels most real to me. Reading about quantum physics and also Neville Goddard's stuff has helped me understand my brain so much more, but most of all I just spend time navigating my emotions, experiences and sensations through making or consuming art. I'm highly synesthetic and I think it kind of goes hand in hand with all of this. I think we kind of have this shamanic brain, idk. I love myself and my experience more than anything but I burn myself out constantly navigating the survival part of life. I used to train really hard, and that made me feel better than anything, which is why I got addicted and burned myself out xD I have so much life energy and passion and my body just can't handle all that.

  • @sue_eshii
    @sue_eshii ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gosh I feel so heard after watched this video, its so nice to see I am not the only one who struggles as an INFJ 4w3 ❤

  • @karenslaughing
    @karenslaughing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes I totally relate. I’m both a 4 and infj. Everything you recommended are things I like and that help so much. I also like to play sports- hitting things, helps me- so tennis is allot of fun:) just doing things where I feel my actual physical strength helps. The other one that helps so much is being around animals and gardening.
    The affection of animals is so soothing and the beauty of gardens and flowers is so satisfying.
    Love to all of us with these traits!!

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw yes I love animals and gardens too Karen! Thanks for watching ❤

  • @ansumuth5626
    @ansumuth5626 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes hobbies help me alot..i dont like routine..it drains excitement..but hobbies bring back those excitement in life.😊

  • @danikaa111
    @danikaa111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Yooo I’m INFJ 4w3 too, that’s crazy itbh

  • @andruska4
    @andruska4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely resonate with your tips and advice...Nature...Just get out...helps so much...Love your accent and relaxed chill style...very direct..and to the point...I do Appreciate it...

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thanks for those kind words it means a lot. Yes getting out in nature is absolutely the best.

  • @danikaa111
    @danikaa111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My tips to survive is reading, playing the piano (but I get annoyed so fast) writing, and talking to fellow INFJ👌🏻😂

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah girl I love playing the piano and writing too! Great ideas.

  • @craya127
    @craya127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    4w3 INFP here and I agree with everything said here. Its such a pain getting outside the city but once I'm in the mountains I always feel so much better. Also creative endeavors keep the psychosis away ;)

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah I love the mountains as well! Thanks for watching! :)

  • @CinemaWithCinema
    @CinemaWithCinema ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, these tips are spot on...and, yes, skateboarding IS an art. Where have you been, Christine? We miss you.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thanks for the love! I want to get back to Youtubing soon so hopefully I'll be able to get another vid to you guys!

    • @CinemaWithCinema
      @CinemaWithCinema ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome! But no pressure to get back to Youtubing. I'm sure you have more important things going on in life. Whatever happens, thank you for your insightful videos. I'm even beginning a dive into The Chronicles tonight so I can get to The Magician's Nephew. Your emotion in the Best Books video is palpable, and overall I just love your positive and beautiful energy. @@christinelise

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  ปีที่แล้ว

      That means so much, thank you! So glad you can relate. I definitely need to do another book review video - I've read so many good ones lately. Thanks for being here 🤍@@CinemaWithCinema

    • @CinemaWithCinema
      @CinemaWithCinema ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, I need to know now! :) But I really did start The Chronicles last night, so I guess I can wait (otherwise I'll be reading more than one book at a time, a habit I could all too easily fall back into...I'm sure you can relate). What is your preferred order of The Chronicles -- Narnian chronology or order of publication???@@christinelise

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahhh that's a good question! I don't think you can go wrong either way, but I personally love the Narnian chronology ☺I'm so glad you're reading them and enjoying them!@@CinemaWithCinema

  • @SolomonSage
    @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i like poems and everything beuty

  • @gideonmele1556
    @gideonmele1556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heh heh heeeeh yep. I literally looked up infj 4w3 and this came up. I’ll give these a whirl and check out the more recent vids. Stay strong and journey on me fellows (sanity optional)

  • @God_Swan
    @God_Swan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi!! My friend sent me this video because I'm an INFJ 4w3! I totally agree with everything you said! And I love how you deliver information! I love your quirkiness in the other video I watched of yours today too. How to know if an INFJ likes you?
    I am now a subscriber and looking forward to see more of your content ❣️

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw that means a lot! Thanks so much friend!

  • @PaulIsbell
    @PaulIsbell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a 4w3 and ENFP. Just watched this to find out more about myself to see if I fit in other categories

  • @junhaozheng5692
    @junhaozheng5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah, i took myself too seriously. Laughing seems very helpful, when things go went too far😜....then I was laughing maniacally out loud....it feels relieving out from my chest. I like your authenticity, haha, keep it up, fellow Infj male.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally get that and understand. Thanks for stopping by, friend!

  • @ciaptv7484
    @ciaptv7484 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow! it's really express how I feel. Thanks!

  • @aodh5966
    @aodh5966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I go to the gym, and cycle there and back. I find that helps a lot. I don't just passively exercise, I usually push myself quite hard. The exercise is therapy to me

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss, I agree. Exercise is an awesome outlet and stress reliever as well.

  • @farahdzankovic7841
    @farahdzankovic7841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi fellow INFJ! Awesome video, I understand this so much 😉

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks so much for watching ❤

  • @meri_lala
    @meri_lala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yay finally see more infj 4w3 like me 🥺💖🌸

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! Always happy to see ♥

  • @memoriesintechnicolour1360
    @memoriesintechnicolour1360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These reminders are so important, tysm 🕊❤️

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course! Thanks for joining in.

  • @cc-qg9sq
    @cc-qg9sq ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, INFJ, 4 wing 3 and triple Sagittarius... Yikes. Thank you Dearie.

  • @ashleyredsheep
    @ashleyredsheep 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok but i must say that i LOVE your voice, it's so soothing

  • @DK-5
    @DK-5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Holy shit, I'm an infj 4w3 too!!

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      what the hell why so many infj i thought we were rare 1 percent of woman and 0.5 percent of men stupid statistics :( unless some of you peopel jsut think your infj i could perform soem tests to see.

    • @DK-5
      @DK-5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SolomonSage We are everywhere online though :P

  • @goteamslugs
    @goteamslugs ปีที่แล้ว

    "Cherry Sweet" Aw! ^u^
    Thanks buddy! I love you too! ^3^
    Thank you for being a shining light!
    I don't trust the Enneagram.
    God bless and be with you and your household! =] 💛 ✝

  • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks
    @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Skateboarding is an Art! Ha INFJ 4w3 here to say hi

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL I was reaching for that one 😂 Thanks for stopping by!

    • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks
      @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christinelise Of course! It's nice to meet another me. Stay awesome ✌

  • @Baulx138
    @Baulx138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello, similar stranger, I'm a 4w3 infj too. I really wonder what it would mean to connect with someone like you or perhaps because we're so similar, that it makes it the hardest to form a connection between us.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I know what you mean! I've wondered that myself. Sometimes the most similar is the most difficult to relate to. Thanks for watching!

  • @Ktoppers
    @Ktoppers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello INFJ 4w3!

  • @charliekelly1154
    @charliekelly1154 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree, I'm a sculptor / cast bronzer my job is in Historical restoration. If I could not express myself artistically it would be an empty spot in my soul.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow what a cool job! That's awesome - I feel the same way.

    • @charliekelly1154
      @charliekelly1154 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, As introverts we have the propensity to be alone. To accomplish my goals in life, I practised the fine art of throwing myself in the deep end. A lot of sinking but more importantly some swimming as well." If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Frederick Douglas.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charliekelly1154 Yes!! And what a great quote.

    • @charliekelly1154
      @charliekelly1154 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinelise Yes I agree, "it's Taken from a speech of Frederick Douglass, On the Civil War. And by the way young lady, I think you're doing an excellent job, I wish when I was your age I was as emotionally intelligent is you. So you're definitely ahead of the game of life.

  • @coolunknown2
    @coolunknown2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting video! I relate a lot to what you said even though I am an INFJ 4w5. Curious to know what you instinctual variant stacking is? Mine is sx/so which I heard is quite rare for an INFJ 4. :D

  • @iamfolknewz
    @iamfolknewz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @noelmendonce6051
    @noelmendonce6051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    infj 4w3 !!!!!!!! me too

  • @insertnamehere3971
    @insertnamehere3971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey there. i may be an infj and i think i might be 4w3 (5w4 may be another option though.) when i was younger and took the typical letter dichotomy tests, i got infp. the untreated adhd makes it difficult to answer questions about decision making and planning that they like to ask, so i guess that's why. when i took the cognitive functions one it proposed that i am infj or intj. i can see infj more. kinda sucks how difficult having a learning disability can make it to determine your type, but i'd say for the most part i think it's fitting. one of the reasons i started questioning the infp one is because i don't feel the strong sense of identity associated with infp's (edit: apparently this isn't totally accurate but i'd still say i don't have a very strong identity.) i also read about how infj's can feel other feelings and while i find it hard to define, i have a high level of empathy. 2020 has been tough for this reason (among others). i can feel the collective anxiety and sadness with all that's happening. for me, the four manifests more through melancholy, feeling different (thanks to the disability and the challenges it brought me) and being artsy/creative. the 3 is interesting. i don't want to be in competitions but when i am...i am in it to win it. so i am competitive. and ambitious when i really want something. i want to feel accomplished. these two really do capture my want to share an artistic project with the world that improves it. i do think infj and 4w3 make sense together. they both have this really contradictory nature. i'd say though i "feel" different, i don't make much of an effort to look different or stand out most of the time.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, so true - I can relate to so much of what you're saying! It definitely sounds like you resonate more with INFJs than INFPs. But they are similar in many ways. In fact, a lot of my close friends are INFPs. I'm sorry 2020 has been rough for you. It's definitely been a hard stretch for me as well, testing my resilience and faith. But I'm thankful for God and my family and friends through this time. Thanks for stopping by!

  • @heatherhafer3333
    @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know an INFJ enneagram 2! Anyone else know this type?! I know other INFJs, but this one is the rarest of them all.

  • @NocturnalViruss
    @NocturnalViruss 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha yes!!! Finally someone that understands 💕

  • @lenusininecinka
    @lenusininecinka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I'm doing everything you talked about. And really - this helps! Thanks for a nice video!

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw so happy to hear that - thanks for watching Lenka!

  • @chay9666
    @chay9666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As infj I felt related

  • @MarryHappiness
    @MarryHappiness 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank it pretty helpful for me, Same type btw.

  • @cloverdream
    @cloverdream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Goshhh I am INFJ and 4w3 too😂😂

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Twins!!

    • @cloverdream
      @cloverdream 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinelise YAYYYY i feel happy to see this TvT

  • @Ronnfn360
    @Ronnfn360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im an INFJ AND 4w3 !! Omg I’m not alone 😭😭♥️

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No you're not!! Girl, I get you!! Welcome to the club

  • @federicogomez8890
    @federicogomez8890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a 4w3, but im confused about my MBTI, between INFJ or ENFP.

    • @federicogomez8890
      @federicogomez8890 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome video

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@federicogomez8890 Thank you! Well either way, both INFJs and ENFPs are awesome. Some of my best friends are ENFPs!

  • @SolomonSage
    @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lol u sound like me when i make a video

  • @hazim261
    @hazim261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s your tritype?

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not sure! Haven't looked into tritypes yet :) Do you have a test you suggest for discovering your tritype?

    • @hazim261
      @hazim261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinelise ouh ok can you make videos on the enneagram 4w3 pls, that would be nice

  • @emmaleeshallenberger995
    @emmaleeshallenberger995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an INFJ 4w5.

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love it!! I think I have a little wing 5 in me ;)

  • @beardsleycraig
    @beardsleycraig ปีที่แล้ว

  • @motionmuse5684
    @motionmuse5684 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    curious so is a 4w3 always usually INFJ or not necessarily? because mine always says Enfp but im 4w3

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah great question! So INFJs and ENFPs are more alike than people realize. ENFPs tend to externally process what INFJs are internally thinking. You can be a variety of enneagram numbers as an INFJ but a lot of INFJs are 4's although not necessarily w3's. There's quite a few w5's too. Thanks for watching!

    • @motionmuse5684
      @motionmuse5684 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinelise thanks for the explanation. I enjoyed the video

  • @SolomonSage
    @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i can be aroudn peopel but dont liek groups either

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      im sort of balanced in external and internal thinking i honestly couldnt tell u what ennegram i actually am i know for a fact im infj though. And when i look at other personlity types i feel i dont fit in sometiems liek they are dumb and i knwo that isnt the case it just feels that way like i know ten times more than people like i can read them like a book predict their every step im secluded sometiems but not always if people talk to me i can have an insanely long and deep philosphical conversation

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i thought 4 cause i can totaly relate tehn i thought 5 because i do have a base fear of being worthless and thats why i constantly persue sucsees climbing greater hights then everyoen else regardless of what others think i should do

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      but I see everyone like a library very easy to read almost everyone you Christina sound like u could be a great author or something but hey follow your passion am i right :)

  • @SolomonSage
    @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i hate phone calls

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha me too!!

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn lets be friends

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christine elise i subbed to your youtube channel also lets be friends o can totaly relate with like everything in thy video i think we would be like the best of friends Heck in everything i do i find beuty and i love searching for the deeper meaning behind legit everything i love taking care or everything sort of like a garder i mean of it doesnt look good and someone cant understand it whats the point right beuty is a wonderfull thing as a guy i feel constantly misunderstood about this sometimes i am called by my peers more feminine then manly and im like what do u mean i just love everything and everyone i like deep thinking seeing the beuty in everything and everyone

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SolomonSage Dude yes! Never apologize for loving beauty! That's so awesome. I'm glad to know there's more people like me haha. Thanks for watching my videos!!

    • @SolomonSage
      @SolomonSage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christinelise Same glad to know there is someone out there like me as well

  • @emileedhouse8367
    @emileedhouse8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    yo am an ambivert infj 4 (4w5)

    • @emileedhouse8367
      @emileedhouse8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      gaming is a form of art because art is what brings out your creativity

    • @emileedhouse8367
      @emileedhouse8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same as gaming

    • @emileedhouse8367
      @emileedhouse8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i would love to be friends too

    • @christinelise
      @christinelise  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yay thanks for stopping by friend!

  • @yara2yara263
    @yara2yara263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me