How to Win At Female Mind Games (w/ Kezia Noble)

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  • @StirlingCooper
    @StirlingCooper  ปีที่แล้ว +32

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    • @tomjones5338
      @tomjones5338 ปีที่แล้ว

      I enjoy Ur videos don't agree on alot of them but I'll say this the war between men and women who's better at what has to stop i see what's coming the collapse end of human civilisation by 2030 it will illegal for any woman to be pregnant give birth to children none of us are living the right way threw God

    • @jskweres2
      @jskweres2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I recommend instead of using the text "don't forget to" use "remember to" because it reinforces what you want ( remember... Not forget)

    • @bossoflife2333
      @bossoflife2333 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’ve been a beast since day 1 you ain’t never lie brother cause I’ve done banged half my neighborhood in my lifetime but you still open my eyes to possibilities to keep my focus on money cause there’s a lot of mileage on a lot of woman and I ain’t trying to replace the engine and the transmission 😂😂bless your soul keep it going you on fire 🔥😎💪🏼💯

  • @MrHDProd
    @MrHDProd ปีที่แล้ว +408

    I pray every one watching this level up financially, physically, mentally and spiritually this year! Let's get to work 🙏💰💯

    • @Dantevug5ry88
      @Dantevug5ry88 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you brother

    • @MrHDProd
      @MrHDProd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dantevug5ry88 🙏❤️

    • @Munir4U
      @Munir4U ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray the same for you my friend 🫡

    • @lionheartmckaylewis
      @lionheartmckaylewis ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🎉

    • @Dantevug5ry88
      @Dantevug5ry88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Munir4U god bless you my friend

  • @antoniobrasse7157
    @antoniobrasse7157 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Spot on, a lot of dudes running around saying "she broke my heart" when they didn't even go on a date with the girl. No, you broke your own heart. Grow tf up.

  • @matthewnorris203
    @matthewnorris203 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Anybody else how skilled Stiring is at interviewing?

  • @hamedoxified
    @hamedoxified ปีที่แล้ว +39

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 Kezia Noble, a dating coach, talks about her experience helping men in the dating space since 2006 and her transition from relying on looks to charm and mind games.
    01:17 Kezia discusses how men who are successful and charming often excel in playing mind games, suggesting that women's game has weakened due to heavy reliance on looks and social media attention.
    02:15 Looks are influential, but men tend to go for women with engaging personalities and game, especially in environments where many attractive women are present.
    03:10 The sex appeal of older women comes from gratitude, enthusiasm, and independence, making them more appealing than younger women fixated on external validation.
    04:34 Older women are more sexuallycurious and less influenced by societal norms, while younger women often face pressure from friends and social influences.
    05:30 In dating younger women, men need to compete with friends, family, and societal influences for influence in her life.
    08:13 To maintain attraction, men should stay unpredictable, hard to read emotionally, and validate qualities they want to see in the woman.
    11:03 Men should avoid being too predictable, show an abundance mindset, and remain emotionally detached in interactions to build attraction.
    15:11 Developing an abundance mindset involves faking it until positive results are obtained, reinforcing self-confidence and attractiveness.
    18:12 Kezia suggests cultivating multiple options and reference points with women rather than focusing exclusively on one, as this scarcity mindset hampers success.
    19:04 The importance of abundance mindset, staying immune to emotional manipulation, and embracing a carefree attitude to attract women.
    20:53 Men should strive to be "ice cold" by staying logical and emotionally detached in the face of female emotions, thus gaining respect and maintaining attraction.
    21:45 Men's role in relationships has shifted, with some becoming passive.
    22:13 Example of a man in a bad marriage who is attracted to others.
    23:10 Suggestion to hire a hot trainer to improve the relationship.
    23:40 Men often fear losing their partner and stay in subpar relationships.
    25:32 Men often stay in poor relationships due to a belief they can't do better.
    26:23 Societal pressure and cultural factors can influence relationship decisions.
    27:13 Men need to put effort into relationships like they do in their careers.
    29:30 Some men may prefer being controlled and following their partner's decisions.
    32:42 Friend zone can be emotionally damaging as men fall in love but stay friends.
    34:35 Exiting the friend zone requires a strict game plan and avoiding emotional attachment.
    36:55 Falling into the friend zone can lead to bitterness and resentment.
    39:22 Attraction often comes from the contrast between dominant and vulnerable sides.
    41:16 Different personas in public and private settings create intrigue and excitement.
    42:42 Women appreciate exploring new things sexually and being open-minded in relationships.
    43:10 The shift of women from traditional roles to the workplace has led to a desire for more dominant and passionate experiences in relationships.
    44:10 Women are attracted to qualities associated with success like self-belief, passion, and power rather than just material success.
    45:08 Superficial success without genuine substance isn't attractive; confidence and risk-taking traits are more appealing.
    46:52 Successful risk-takers, often seen as bold and adventurous, are attractive due to confidence and self-belief.
    48:10 Boldness and confidence in taking action are essential for maintaining interest in potential partners.
    49:08 Good looks might buy more chances, but a clear approach within reasonable time is crucial; hovering without action is unattractive.
    50:56 Handsome guys with no game may face harsher rejections as they're expected to have better communication skills.
    53:11 Genuine and honest relationship advice is often more effective than generic, people-pleasing guidance.
    Made with HARPA AI

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her initial emphasis on older women's attractiveness and benefits makes her sound like she's talking her book.

  • @gavincamby7435
    @gavincamby7435 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I’m 24. Over the past 6 months I have been really making an effort to put myself out there on the market. I introduce myself to every women that I see regularly at my rock climbing gym just to get a feel if she has any interest in me. One thing I noticed is that older women in late 20s/early 30s always seem delighted to speak to me and I have no trouble with conversation. Women my age and younger sometimes just seem like they couldn’t give less of a shit that I just tried to start a conversation and just go back to scrolling Instagram or whatever they had their nose buried in on their cell phone. Truly a shame as some of these women are stunning to look at…

    • @catocall7323
      @catocall7323 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Go out with the older girls and have some fun, then the younger girls will start flocking to you. Have fun!

    • @eltorocal
      @eltorocal ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@catocall7323 Go out with the older Women and get some experience into the open minds of Open Women... then when you find that a "girl" your age is as interested in you as you are her, show her how she deserves your attention and experiences.

    • @gavincamby7435
      @gavincamby7435 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@aaronclarke1434all sound advice. It has already happened a few times. For example was doing some bench press reps (rock gym has a small weight room) and then get some water. All the sudden I come back and this chick who was doing core on the other side of the weight room is magically right next to me and then apologizes for being in my way 😂. I we make some small talk and then I begin my next set as she keeps talking. Wasn’t paying attention to a word she said. She leaves and I continue the workout. All the sudden she is back again 15 min later, to apologize about some shit she said that I didn’t hear 😂. I got her name and contact info, but didn’t pursue because I was trying to close another lead (from the same gym). Going to re-engage next time I see her now since the former lead didn’t work out.

    • @MrChickenking44
      @MrChickenking44 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A lot of this pickup artist advice is straight up bs to spend money on a course. Think about this, you follow these steps of being mysterious ect referring back to these vids for help. Do you think the guys that actually get these girls do this shit? No they don’t think at all and just do what they want. I know there’s this cliche, advice of be yourself but it’s pretty much true. If your a loser and that’s “being your-self” *breaking news* Your just not going to be attractive to the top girls, but that being said you may be attractive to geeky girls who are like you so this may be a win. Or if you are a cool guy you will get the attention you deserve and the girls will follow.
      What I’m trying to say is, you can’t fake your character you will be found out or you might get away with it by chance, and you will find it hard and uncomfortable to keep up.
      Also a lot of these girls are to be avoided and are straight up trouble and are addicted to drama. That’s why you get these crazy women who stay with their abusive bfs. They are literally fucked in the head.
      You will meet the right person and you will know it’s right. Basic biology it’s male and female but remember there are *good* and *bad* souls. There are literally girls out there who are down to earth and can see the bigger picture.

    • @Sp1n3c
      @Sp1n3c ปีที่แล้ว

      They don't even know how to handle it....

  • @JT78952
    @JT78952 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    50:13 there's also a third situation that most women, including apparently Kezia, are oblivious to. And that's what if the woman notices the guy but she's always occupied with something. Maybe she's talking to someone, maybe she's on her phone with her earbuds in, maybe she's working out, maybe she's reading or walking her dog. Whatever it is, it doesn't allow the guy to approach her. She can make all the eye contact in the world but if she puts herself in a situation that says 'I'm busy', then the guy won't likely approach her. Women ignore this because it puts the onus on them to make themselves approachable and they can shift the blame onto the guy for not being "interested or confident enough".

  • @Kezianobledatingexpert
    @Kezianobledatingexpert ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Thank you for inviting me on your show. Really enjoyed this 💫

  • @helmeteye
    @helmeteye ปีที่แล้ว +47

    That trick at around 7:20 is awesome. Tell her what you like most is her wild uncontrollable nature while complimenting her other influencers, so that when they are talking bad about you, she will tell them that you say amazing things about them. Their influence is weakened, because she's an independent wild thing. This is beautiful. This is like playing chess.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hah. True

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would prefer dogs over her. 😅

    • @wilsonyuan8231
      @wilsonyuan8231 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is amazing trick, i'm doing to do this from now on

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a losing game. It’s feminine energy and highly toxic. Don’t waste your time on it. Simply keep looking until you find a girl that loves who you are and doesn’t need to be manipulated.

    • @helmeteye
      @helmeteye 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@williamwallace410 I've been Married 25 years. On top of that, my daughters are in their 20's. This advice sounds awesome to me. As a matter of fact, since that post 5 months ago, I've used it on my wife. This advice works for many situations. I've got a daughter I'd planned to use it on, because I think her friends have influenced her against me.

  • @theoavg
    @theoavg ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She rode the pua wave, her contribution to the red Pill discussion is insignificant.

  • @paulcolin9071
    @paulcolin9071 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Around 21 minutes in she made a very relevant point to modern times

  • @darrenrenna
    @darrenrenna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great video. I was never able to take Kezia Noble seriously when she was at the height of her TH-cam exposure. Here she shows a lot more substance and insight than I would have expected, certainly aged well!

  • @oscarvanwalstijn6902
    @oscarvanwalstijn6902 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A real man is about self control,
    not how many times he scores.
    In my humble opinion.

  • @formless4541
    @formless4541 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If i ever try to date again the first thing i want to know about a date or potential date is her values.
    If they dont line up with mine forget it

  • @mhuntprofessional
    @mhuntprofessional 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm late to the party, but i came bearing the gift of a dissenting opinion 😂
    Regarding older women's sex appeal.
    I DON'T think that its just gratitude and enthusiam. That they're just more thankful to get in the game, so to speak.
    There IS an energy that they bring thats a sort of combination of the feminine version of confidence and conpetence in terms of how they express their interest, how they communicate, maybe their boldness in sexual interests.
    To condense this idea, it would be: young chicks are still figuring out what they like and how to act.
    Older women KNOW both of those things already.
    And rather than silly moves or making thirst trap videos of them dancing like shaky legged newborn baby deer, they have time tested which actions or phrases, or outfits, or sex moves work to excite or attract a guy.
    I think older women are sexier because they made it past the awkward trial and error and getting stupid advice from inexperienced friends phase.
    The whole physical package may not be as tight as it was when she started. But exercise, diet, and a bit of genetic luck can keep a lady in the "i'm a sexual person" game for awhile longer than those who just stop trying.
    And that experience is a VERY sharp knife.

  • @aribailor3766
    @aribailor3766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I don't want to hurt anyone".
    It is this intention that leads men on.
    The pain of rejection would show us this relationship is not to be pursued. Ghosting the man will only drive him into trying to figure out what to do to stop being ignored.

  • @morale493
    @morale493 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    her understanding of “game” on both sides of the genders puts her at a disadvantage because she can never truly be seduced. women like this play their game for a bit but get bored quickly because they see every move in hindsight. as a man overtime you’ll sense the lack of purity as well and it’ll turn u off.
    best to just get someone who isn’t thinking about game 24/7

    • @sanitizerwilliam2911
      @sanitizerwilliam2911 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wrong

    • @dclarke2179
      @dclarke2179 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sanitizerwilliam2911 He very wrong. She's still a woman at the end of the day.

    • @sanitizerwilliam2911
      @sanitizerwilliam2911 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dclarke2179 100% percent correct my G. Female nature is Universal and works on the emotional level. No matter how much head knowledge a woman has.

    • @morale493
      @morale493 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sanitizerwilliam2911 the point isn’t that it works it’s that it won’t work for long, her being pretty and still single in her late 30’s with all this “knowledge” says enough. all female dating coaches struggle to find relationships for this very reason

    • @kingclampz6081
      @kingclampz6081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly don’t worry the lower iq ones don’t understand what you are saying because anyone with half a brain could literally look at her situation and pick up on this 🤷‍♂️

  • @KayFlowidity
    @KayFlowidity 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:45 👌👌👌
    3:45 Sex Appeal
    6:15 🤔🤔🤔
    7:35 Validation 🤯
    9:45 Unpredictability
    12:30 Abundance Mindset
    14:35 Self Control
    27:15 💯💯💯
    28:15 Truth!
    32:40 Friendzone
    35:30 Simpin!
    38:40 Shadow Side
    40:15 Alpha Chicks 😉
    45:50 Success
    48:45 Make the move...
    50:15 No Game 😢

  • @robertrichards4930
    @robertrichards4930 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Physically and financially first. Then status. Confidence comes naturally at that point.

    • @t.j.5574
      @t.j.5574 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said.

    • @Grateful0nee
      @Grateful0nee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      true

  • @toddbrown2594
    @toddbrown2594 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I say "I gotta ask the wife" or "I have to get home because of the wife" just to get away from people or situations I am not interested in anymore. It just saves the BS people will say to sell me something or keep me somewhere.

  • @El-Armstrong
    @El-Armstrong 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was an introvert in teens. Decided to purposely DO all the things that made me unconfident or nervous. Got fit, got a tan. Got very good with girls.
    Dont msg ppl online, talk to ppl in person.
    Catch someones gaze n smile at them rather than just cold approach them.
    The more relaxed and comfortable you become in strangers company, the more strangers will instantly be in yours.

  • @johnernst8718
    @johnernst8718 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "Why do guys stay with a woman when she acts like that?" It's called commitment. Once a man finally commits to someone, it takes a lot to break that commitment. This is why men are so commitment phobic. When a man commits to a relationship, it's because he believes his woman is as committed as he is. And when a woman takes advantage of that commitment, she is betraying her man. I don't think women realize the severity of their behavior. Especially when he doesn't realize what's happening, because it doesn't even cross his mind that the person he has drawn in that close would EVER do that.

    • @BigBlack81
      @BigBlack81 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏🏾✊🏿💯🫡🖖🏿

    • @DD-xw6uw
      @DD-xw6uw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girls got to be careful. Break him once and he’ll never come back.

    • @TheTAEclub
      @TheTAEclub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's why the man is the leader it's not a partnership

    • @TheTAEclub
      @TheTAEclub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women will always test you and you have to always be the caliber that passes those tests

    • @thetamage
      @thetamage หลายเดือนก่อน

      By the same token, so many women have been damaged my men that lied and manipulated their way to sex and then betrayed them. Let’s all be better men and lead them to better behaviors.

  • @jerm3659
    @jerm3659 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love what you guys said about being in the friend zone. Very dishonest and draining relationship, especially for men.

  • @Miracleman88
    @Miracleman88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The friendzone is broken down nicely.. I always felt the cure was being a leader with personal values and integrity.

  • @lennyjensen9796
    @lennyjensen9796 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolutely amazing discussion. I have been following Kazia for years and more recently Sterling on TH-cam and in books. I couldn't believe it when I came across your discussion video. I watched the whole thing non stop. Keep up the good work. We need help getting along with the opposit sex.

  • @surajjanampally7023
    @surajjanampally7023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so true.. in friendzone i have also been guilty of not trusting women and being heart broken by it.

    • @lucylucian2564
      @lucylucian2564 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ur first mistake in staying in the friendzone in the first place, no use trying to play the best friend part,even if she chooses u over someone else that means she can do it again to u.

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was a really interesting conversation Mr. Cooper. She seems kinda fun to hang out with and talk to , where honestly, many good looking Women aren't. Great video.

  • @Trizzer89
    @Trizzer89 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kezia doesnt at all understand why younger guys go for older women

    • @Corey-iw4ot
      @Corey-iw4ot ปีที่แล้ว

      Because older women have already had there kids and usually broken and divorced and low quality men have little options. Mr Cooper is low value men he has to pay women for sex in order to get them. And if there not on birth control he just gonna have a bunch of bastard kids and there nothing good about that. A man high body count doesn't make him an alpha male.

  • @toniochavet304
    @toniochavet304 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Kezia has been so intelligent using her feminity for business, and to understand male female dynamics

    • @Deimonos85
      @Deimonos85 ปีที่แล้ว

      i remember her making her videos like 5 or more years ago.. always showing her tits and not saying anything relevant...
      guess Father Time really takes away female power huh.. she looks like what? 45? or she be doing some coke for months to look like that?

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂, She isn't good I think. Her thought process is ev-il. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be contr-olled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it don't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@MrUnknownNz she is a b-ad woman.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is a bad person.

    • @artofmybody2882
      @artofmybody2882 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thinktank849swhy

  • @williamwallace410
    @williamwallace410 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I thought it was a really great and witty title for her book.

  • @94Dza
    @94Dza 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    holy shit, this woman is based af

  • @alezanee
    @alezanee ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Look men even female dating coaches that understand it on some level still work the same it’s incredible. You can even see how Stirling is a little bit disgusted and I love it. What a G

    • @DerDoenerInMir
      @DerDoenerInMir ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What are you referencing

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She is not good I think. This woman is cr-azy and her thought process is bad. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a lie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว

      No they don’t. Don’t be fooled. They have no bonafides or body of experience to draw from. It’s all conjecture

  • @draganpetev4677
    @draganpetev4677 ปีที่แล้ว

    Success on it's own means the guy is careful and calculating because he isn't as capable. A successful risk-taker on the other hand is an evolutionary jackpot - he is bold instead of careful due to positive reinforcement from his past experience...

  • @remain___
    @remain___ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    40:33 I appreciate the depth here. It's confusing to me that the woman here can talk about shadows and complex desires and still endorse some of the things she did earlier in this video.
    In any case, I'm still here. Thanks y'all :)

  • @810Batman
    @810Batman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mama can articulate herself nicely!!!

  • @RevellAndRepend
    @RevellAndRepend ปีที่แล้ว

    Much like you said at the end, I appreciate her honesty. Some of these moments where she describes her train of thought as a woman is going to help men so much more than ''oh just do this and this and that, it'll work'' Good stuff Stirling.

  • @Duke_Desmo_888
    @Duke_Desmo_888 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great point on dealing with more than one woman at the same time.

  • @jasonosorio279
    @jasonosorio279 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing tactics talked about HERE !

  • @user-te9lu3pr4o
    @user-te9lu3pr4o ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So true Sterling bro
    & Yh older women all the way

  • @anthonyacquahghann315
    @anthonyacquahghann315 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Well done, Sterling 👌🏿. Kezia Noble is an O.G. 💯% Before I came across Fresh & Fit, Alpha Male Strategies, STEPHISCOLD, MJ GETRIGHT, J Waller, Bulldog Mindset and Yourself, I learnt a lot about females from Kezia. She is the real deal.
    Bravo 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿

    • @BlueGreen572-ey8wb
      @BlueGreen572-ey8wb ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This isn't good I think. This woman is m-ad and her thought process is st-upid. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

  • @aureliogomezs6875
    @aureliogomezs6875 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have always been very skilled at getting women, but there is a point where it is impossible to find a woman that I really fall in love with. The biggest mistake a man can make in the modern world is to be in love and really interested in one woman. I am a particularly cold, detached man and sees people as NPCs, all people seem the same to me. The problem I have had in recent years is that the family ties I had were lost and I can no longer have real, intimate relationships. I would love to have children and a family, but I don't see it as a possibility after years of being like this. and I surely have children, but it is because I have met many women who prefer to be single mothers than to share parenting and create a home that implies shared responsibility.

  • @zaxlee01
    @zaxlee01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The crossover we needed.

  • @FBi_.
    @FBi_. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kezia is an og in the game i used to watch her stuff back in the day Stirling knows whats up

  • @phoenix0110
    @phoenix0110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Stirling is absolute expert in this area, and I am so happy I found this channel to learn something I don't know

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But this woman is ba-d She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start h-ating all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it don't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

  • @helmeteye
    @helmeteye ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yo Cooper, this was a terrific interview. Your questions came from a perspective of someone that is obviously well versed in these subjects. She's good. Her work with and proximity to men has really given her a keen insight into how to explane this stuff to men from a female's perspective. She's like a one-in-a-million mind. The only issue with the things she is saying is that it makes things feel kind of unfair. Most women don't really look better, when they're naked.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This woman is not good. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start hat-ing all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

    • @helmeteye
      @helmeteye ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thinktank849s I disagree. I like alpha women. I think feminine women are super sexy, but for some reason, I don't trust them. Perhaps, I can't relate to them. Alpha women can be very submissive. Don't want to be monogamous with either, but to I'm too skeptical to trust feminine chicks. It feels like a trick.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​​@@helmeteye you are an exception then, most men would prefer dogs over al-pha women. Most men don't like hyper combative women as their partners. Real men like feminine women. Exceptions don't disprove the rules 😅

    • @helmeteye
      @helmeteye ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thinktank849s I think you misunderstand. I like alpha women not combative women. Attributing to me something I didn't say seems kind of female. I'm not into relationships. All the women I've ever "known" were submissive, when it counted. Boss babes want to be submissive even more than others. Feminine chicks feel like they are trying to manipulate.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@helmeteye Most boss babes want to be even more subm!ss!ve - Most men would either disagree on it or say they are not sure about it. Most men consider feminine women as very normal. Some of your statements look very far from reality. But it is true that most men think Boss babes are man!pulat!ve.

  • @gohari012345
    @gohari012345 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stirling is absolutely right when he makes the point about women being even more disgusted when a good looking man has no game, compared to average/poor looking men with no game.

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 ปีที่แล้ว

      For a good looking man to completely lack game - it's extra simpy, in that if he's THAT good looking, how bad must his character be to not have learned any game? If he's ugly, well, that makes sense, but he's so handsome - AND he let's me walk all over him?!?

  • @AixisAixi
    @AixisAixi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the duo. Pls more of you guys

  • @spaceman6029
    @spaceman6029 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when it come to the abundance mindset, whether youre faking it or not, i heard a good piece of advice once. this guys gf wasnt respecting him and they were having all kinds of problems, so he just started approaching attractive women and just engaging in polite small talk when he was alone, and especially when he was with his gf. it builds confidence and lets her know that he does have options at the same time

  • @MarvoPolitico
    @MarvoPolitico 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate the use of your mind and what you’re advising us guys. You said that since you’re aging, you have to rely more on using your mind, however you are very beautiful & sexy. My eyes aren’t lying, you are a knockout. I do need to use the mind and conversation skills, which is why I watch your videos & purchased you bundle pack on your website. I am a very much older guy and need to learn the skills you’re teaching. You don’t know how much I appreciate you!

    • @MarvoPolitico
      @MarvoPolitico 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For clarity, my comment were to Kezia, she is the beautiful lady teaching me needed skills to get dates with the Ladies.

  • @whiterabit09
    @whiterabit09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men 101: we like the natural look. Not clown make-up and hair styling.
    If a woman doesn't know this, she's not an expert.
    Stirling is right, we aren't that complicated, if you are appreciative and enthusiastic (nice) thats enough for us.

  • @richardkrause9692
    @richardkrause9692 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Weman knowingly or unknowly just do what they do! Now you as a guy have to figure out if she knowingly doing or not! She does deliberately then get away from her immediately!

  • @ponderislam5176
    @ponderislam5176 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    mans confidence like that can endup himself being in jail or embarrassing himself most of the time which is not a small thing like they preach... Especially at the bar atleast she gives a smile rather than just a eye contact is the best thing women should do..., bcos they women love ghosting men majority who comeup. To them

  • @deciduousdiscipline9592
    @deciduousdiscipline9592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent. Thank you

  • @investornabil8825
    @investornabil8825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She knows whatsup. High level girl. She worked together with Gambler who was one of the best. Much better than most all guys u see now.

  • @stillumatithedon1519
    @stillumatithedon1519 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is fire😮

  • @neroli521
    @neroli521 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Guy told me one time, There's an old proverb: " beware of scorning the weak cub, for he may grow to be the brutal tiger"...

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is not good from Inside. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is not true, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

    • @neroli521
      @neroli521 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks T. There's levels and ...ledges, and ledgers to this.. modern world. Kind of like snakes and ladders.

  • @Wanwan-mq3jw
    @Wanwan-mq3jw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My best time had when i was not committed and had multiple girls at the same time. Even if they knew, cried, they came back

  • @bradmiller7741
    @bradmiller7741 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love her

  • @samuelmoore1392
    @samuelmoore1392 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is a fantastic interview and Kezia I’ve seen over the years and she has something to say with her experiences.

  • @philnewpower
    @philnewpower หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sitcom Friends was the psyc-op for the (coincidence) friend zone.

  • @chrisbishop4671
    @chrisbishop4671 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing that turns me off is a lack of awareness about the world we live in.

  • @alexkatsanos8475
    @alexkatsanos8475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve heard Kezia say if you are in London, you have to be really good at banter or you won’t get very far and it’s even local area banter to that part of town and I was wondering if that is unique to the UK or if it is more prevalent other places now and what are the differences?

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This woman is b@d. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start hat-ing all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it don't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

  • @AndrewTheFrank
    @AndrewTheFrank ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part of how men bond is with hormones released during stress. So over coming difficulties helps us bond with those who were around us with those difficulties. When in the friend zone the guy is going through and helping a woman with her difficulties and struggles. This will necessarily bond him to her. This is likely where the desire to fck becomes a strong emotional attachment to the woman.
    There is also the sense, with everyone, that the more time and attention you put into something the more we get emotionally invested in it.

  • @longlivechina7538
    @longlivechina7538 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I watched her when I was younger she has to be in her 40s 50s now

  • @justinrivera1618
    @justinrivera1618 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First five minutes of the conversation and already they’re talking past each other. Let’s see if it continues.

  • @johnkaufman9075
    @johnkaufman9075 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch your podcasts, your You Tube videos and really enjoy your message & content. Trying to find your book! Thank you for being you!

  • @williamclayton9566
    @williamclayton9566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her initial emphasis on older women's attractiveness and benefits makes her sound like she's talking her book.

  • @jimkith7368
    @jimkith7368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Absolutely fantastic conversation. One of the best I’ve heard in a long time. Stirling, Kezia, this was a Master-Fucking-Class!!!!!

  • @samuela6271
    @samuela6271 ปีที่แล้ว

    Discussion aside, these are two beautiful people, great physical presence, great chemistry, and great ideas.
    Really enjoyed the connection happening in this episode.

  • @elitehomeinspection5310
    @elitehomeinspection5310 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points.
    Adding to the masculine female actions topic, I feel like when a woman prefers to dominate the relationship, she has more masculine energy. She will tend to attract and hold on to a weaker, more feminine man that largely defers to her. This is not the typical scenario, but it can be explained by opposite polarity being attracted. Masculine to feminine. It can be a masculine man and a feminine woman, as is often seen in the world. There is also the case of the masculine woman and the feminine man being attracted and held together.

  • @remain___
    @remain___ ปีที่แล้ว

    12:15 this focus on stoicism is a bit funny in my mind... Maybe because I was exposed to it during the first wave of my generation, before Ryan Holiday's book on it. Before Tim Ferriss had a podcast.
    It might be important for some who don't have any control over their emotions or have a low emotional awareness. Absolutely. But it does not end here.
    It's not just about being stoic. Juking expectations can mean showing enthusiasm and excitement in place of disappointment, insecurity, or defensiveness (which are very common). It can mean being open to life where others are closed to it.
    This is one of my many problems with the RP space. It seems so obvious that many of these men are just fundamentally driven by insecurity and baggage. For as much as they talk about a sexual marketplace, it truly is an invisible hand that seems to move them which they cannot grasp.

  • @brianmccullough4578
    @brianmccullough4578 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My brother in law %100 has been controlled by his old lady since they got together and he loves it. It’s fucking weird.

  • @dukeriver01
    @dukeriver01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like it when I can predict a woman's reaction. There's a certain level of comfort and trust that I can do some things and not offend her or annoy her. This also means that I now know her on a deeper level. When a woman suddenly throws a curveball and reacts so differently (usually negatively), it throws me off and makes me very cautious and it just sucks when it gets like that because it feels like she pushes me away when we've already built some level of trust between us.

  • @williamwallace410
    @williamwallace410 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When a really good looking guy doesn’t approach her, she feels rejected. She thinks he doesn’t want her or she is not hot enough for him.

  • @chazz2296
    @chazz2296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't usually comment. But that was a great video with tons of value so thank you.
    May the algorithm forever be in your favour. i also like that you didnt tell me to like subscribe and comment.

  • @WhiteCamry
    @WhiteCamry 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I the only one here who's mentioning Benjamin Franklin's advice to young men?
    "Go for older women; they're much more grateful." (paraphrase)

  • @remain___
    @remain___ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    31:57 given the rates of erectile dysfunction, I don't think men are sexual light switches. I also think our needs are actually collapsed into hollow takes like these by the RP and PUA spaces.

    • @bigmike2587
      @bigmike2587 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% agree. The world has made it seem to woman that men are sexual robots walking around horny 24/7

  • @stephenforeman2989
    @stephenforeman2989 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She spits facts. Good interview.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂, she is an e-v!l coach.

  • @richardmapa2585
    @richardmapa2585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent content, here: Kudos to Stirling & Kezia for giving us such a Real, Informative, Helpful & Non-bullshit filled Convo. Many Thanks.

  • @8House
    @8House ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is advice for people who want to perpetually date until old age and death. On another note she is a highly attractive woman. Too bad she didn't get married and stay married. Why listen to her if that is your goal?

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is not good from Inside. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is not true, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

  • @intimatespearfisher
    @intimatespearfisher ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'd love to hear Stirling's unfiltered thoughts to each thing she said lol

    • @BlueGreen572-ey8wb
      @BlueGreen572-ey8wb ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She spoke lot of non sense in between. I guess he didn't opposed her in many places just for letting her feel good or not offending her.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s why talking dating strategy with a woman is a waste of time. They don’t date women as a man so they’re fucking clueless. They just fire off platitudes and generic shit we’ve heard for the past 30 years.

  • @russellpetrie119
    @russellpetrie119 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    just be honest

  • @whiskybravo4648
    @whiskybravo4648 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The best move is not to play at all.

    • @raypritchard7663
      @raypritchard7663 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      G mindset 😂

    • @ozzycortes
      @ozzycortes ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @The_Prince_Of_Crows
      @The_Prince_Of_Crows ปีที่แล้ว +4

      All work and no play makes Jack a very dull boy. Imagine if you said the same thing about work and your career? Get better at the game and learn how to play. Waiting to get rich ain't gonna fix the problem but it does make the ultimate revenge fantasy to run from the problem.

  • @manu85345
    @manu85345 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t believe in psychology, I believe in good moves. - Bobby Fisher

  • @jimarray2607
    @jimarray2607 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kezia Noble! Brilliant.

  • @paulkalaj3500
    @paulkalaj3500 ปีที่แล้ว

    And that last point is she wasvinvested in the interaction, and they are just not good people, great looking guys and killer game is such a rarity. Woman Proverbs Kings are destroyed by women, hmmm old school game. Great interview both of you have mad skills

  • @999NRG
    @999NRG ปีที่แล้ว +1

    kezia noble is an og

  • @jsdevtom
    @jsdevtom ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get bored with women's games quickly. I'll just dump them and move on. Life is too short.

  • @onkelfabs6408
    @onkelfabs6408 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video. On point. You are putting out some truths here. This is indeed reflecting my experience. The effort you have to put in to gain women's attraction is out of this world these days.
    Or you could also just be lucky with online dating.

    • @BlueGreen572-ey8wb
      @BlueGreen572-ey8wb ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This isn't good I think. This woman is m-ad and her thought process is st-upid. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.

    • @onkelfabs6408
      @onkelfabs6408 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BlueGreen572-ey8wb actually I agree with her that many men want women with a strong character. It is insane but you have to explain the world how it actually is. These cuckolding men like to be controlled.

    • @onkelfabs6408
      @onkelfabs6408 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BlueGreen572-ey8wb about that friendzone thing: the same idiots can develop a strong hatred against all of humanity. Just like the incels. This human society is so far off their nature.

    • @BlueGreen572-ey8wb
      @BlueGreen572-ey8wb ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@onkelfabs6408 I think most incels are harmless and not necessarily hate humanity or women. They just think they can't attract women. Most men that get friendzoned move on in their life easily after some time as their is no alimony or child support involved in this case.

    • @onkelfabs6408
      @onkelfabs6408 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BlueGreen572-ey8wb they are harmless indeed, yet full of hatred and bitterness. Yet I agree that only very few men get traumatized by the friendzone.

  • @modernstruggles1898
    @modernstruggles1898 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In the most respectful way the 40 years of experience really shows on her... god was merciful when he guided her to choose dating advice for men. If young women had her facial expressions and game, the world would be turned upside down 🤭

    • @keeperofknowledge4120
      @keeperofknowledge4120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah she is still very attractive. Maybe not as much as her 20 year old self, but if she gives any young guy any validation they will be head over heels. She wont need any game with 95% of men, especially young men.

    • @thinktank849s
      @thinktank849s ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She isn't attractive from inside. 😂

    • @trapped-ion
      @trapped-ion ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah - she's 40. That doesn't change

  • @farinatonio
    @farinatonio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good conver 👏

  • @neroli521
    @neroli521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Stirling Cooper. You beautiful Australian.

  • @neroli521
    @neroli521 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kezia Noble, thanks.

  • @rotweiiler
    @rotweiiler ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If anyone needs dating tips these days it's definitely WOMEN

  • @RicherThanIeverbeen
    @RicherThanIeverbeen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im weary of women teaching this but she gave out a few gems.

  • @mmr4882
    @mmr4882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes I think dying in some god forsaken war would be significantly better than modern dating. AAAAAAAAAnd this video proved me correct. Thanks for the info though

  • @mattdempsey8173
    @mattdempsey8173 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good interview

  • @isthe3rd167
    @isthe3rd167 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens when you take a"Risk" and you don't win?

  • @Tony_Anthemz
    @Tony_Anthemz ปีที่แล้ว

    the only game that you can win by not playing is mind games... I'm too busy to care .. 😎🎹🎹🎹🎹🎹🎹

  • @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322
    @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Everything she’s saying is true. From being unpredictable to the abundance mentality. That is super powerful ways to stay interesting in the eyes of your woman. My ex would do dumb shit and I’m like I really don’t need this, I have options.. And she new I had options. Just that fact alone made her apologize every single time we had an argument. Also I would ignore her if she became super emotional. Let her sort herself out, act normal again and then when we talked she also apologized for her behavior etc. Be very careful what you say to a woman when shit starts going south. It’s best to ignore her for a while and then talk about it like 2 adults

    • @Orangeapple894b
      @Orangeapple894b ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂, This woman is cr-azy and her thought process is st-upid. She thinks many men like al-pha women which is a lie, most men don't. She thinks some men like to be controlled which is mostly a l-ie. She was saying men often start ha-ting all women, if they are friendzo-ned or used for long time. It too is a lie. Most men often see some kind of rejections in their life. Just it doesn't make most of such men woman ha-ter. She is aw-ful woman.