We're Adopting... AGAIN! | Telling Our Foster Daughter We Are Adopting Her | DITL Vlog

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  • @TheSuperPuppiez
    @TheSuperPuppiez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    The way she says “I’m almost adopted, and I have a little baby brother.” She seems like such a sweet little girl, and her laughs are so sweet!

  • @caitlins5166
    @caitlins5166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations on your beautiful family! Also when you go to the pediatrician ask for formula sample cans and coupons they almost always have cases of similac pro advance!

  • @cari8282
    @cari8282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your both beautiful babies. I think now that Miss A is staying and baby Wilder is yours, I think your stress levels are going to be way down and with God helps you will get pregnant. I know it has been difficult to convince but I believe that both of u are more calm knowing little Miss A and Wilder are an official family. Bless ur family❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ElaynaCain
      @ElaynaCain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💕 I am happy as a clam!

    • @cari8282
      @cari8282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ElaynaCain that's amazing, I am so happy for you guys.❤❤

  • @tabithasiggens1742
    @tabithasiggens1742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A word of a vice it was given to me as a new mom never let your babies sleep with a bib around their neck because they can get caught up in it and choke their selves always have my child sleep with the big van until the doctor and the nanny told me not to

  • @lmkays
    @lmkays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Don’t stress so much about your house. The county isn’t looking for an immaculate house...... in fact that’s probably a red flag. No one with 2 children has a super tidy house. They are just making sure it’s appropriate space for a baby

  • @jjm3009
    @jjm3009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Can’t imagine how safe and loved her soul feels right now

    • @katielocke3511
      @katielocke3511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Absolutely! She’s HOME! And never has to leave again! That has to be the best feeling, even as a small child.

  • @kelkelz6580
    @kelkelz6580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Just hearing you say this " I have new born & 5yr old and a husband" put a big smile on my face I'm so happy for your family😊Just love watching you😊My husband and I are currently trying watching your story just gives us hope for adoption everything happens in Gods timing as always thanks for sharing your story😊

  • @daniellaedgecumbe4733
    @daniellaedgecumbe4733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This story is so precious, what a good God we have!
    It’s probably worth saying that I’ve kept up because I’m following you on Instagram but didn’t see the community post.

  • @ericarules1013
    @ericarules1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When Miss A is officially adopted, will you show her on camera? Congratulations on all your blessings! 💗🥰

  • @kristengrimm7340
    @kristengrimm7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Get Miss A's SSN changed once she's adopted. Congratulations on everything that has been going on!! Sending love from Indiana!! 🙏💖😊

    • @michelle3445
      @michelle3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes yes yes!!

    • @savannahhargis
      @savannahhargis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s something I never thought about, but very smart!

    • @Caitzeee
      @Caitzeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SSN??

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why do you have to change her social security number?

    • @kristengrimm7340
      @kristengrimm7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Caitzeee Social Security Number

  • @stefanieboston3988
    @stefanieboston3988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Did you know that adoption was a possibility with miss A when she first came? 🥰

  • @susanr9907
    @susanr9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Found this first time and as an adoptive mother of two grown children ( 28 and 31) this brought floods of memories back. Both my babies came straight from hospital . Many continued blessings to your family. As a side note! I am a very happy and blessed grandma now of two perfect grandsons!

  • @brynnhardwick7623
    @brynnhardwick7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My heart is bursting right now for you! God is so good! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @leanneadams2549
    @leanneadams2549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Has anyone noticed she has the prettiest hair I’ve ever seen ? Wow girl !!!

  • @ginakristoff2805
    @ginakristoff2805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Brought tears to my eyes- I’ve been waiting for this video for so long 🥺 Are you going to be a stay at home mom or are you on maternity leave?

    • @ElaynaCain
      @ElaynaCain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am only on maternity leave, I go back to work at the end of March ❤️

  • @carolinekrysynski749
    @carolinekrysynski749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He’s a ham for the camera. Is it just me, but I cried when Miss A knew she was going to be adopted. You have a beautiful family.

  • @paulsharon7521
    @paulsharon7521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations. My daughter was five when my new husband adopted her she was so cute when the judge asked her questions, spoke right up, that was 40+ years ago though.

  • @janniebanana4500
    @janniebanana4500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your channel was in my suggestions a few months ago. I can't even begin to tell you how beautiful your story is to me. I have 5 kids and this just melts my heart. I feel so invested in your story and can't wait to see the next part. Thank you for sharing.

  • @KaylaNatalie
    @KaylaNatalie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I showed Elliott the video of Wilder and he giggled😂 The baby fever😍

  • @amandamccann8100
    @amandamccann8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The title made me cry for you all! I’m so beyond excited for you! God is good!

  • @emmashell3557
    @emmashell3557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so happy for you all! May God bless this new adventure for your family!

  • @melaniegee
    @melaniegee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so happy for you and your family. I literally started tearing up hearing y’all tell Miss A the good news. 💖💙

  • @tawneeappleby2786
    @tawneeappleby2786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your story. I love how it is all coming together for you. God blessed us all at once also. My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 2 1/2 years. Finally got pregnant and then lost our baby. We were fostering two boys and we found out that we were going to be able to adopt them. We found out we were pregnant a month after our loss. We adopted our boys March 17, 2020 and gave birth to our little girl September 27, 2020.

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a beautiful story that stemmed from such loss. Bless you for sharing.

    • @happymommaa
      @happymommaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful

  • @beccaa1741
    @beccaa1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so incredibly happy for your family!!! Elayna you are a wonderful woman and mother!!! Much love from my family to yours!!!

  • @TigerLily0384
    @TigerLily0384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is beautiful. Haven’t been watching for long but you two are incredible people and miss A and little Wilder are so very lucky.

  • @colleenlocke3239
    @colleenlocke3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations! I am so happy for your whole family.

  • @reneegoodin1317
    @reneegoodin1317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't wait to find out Miss A real name!!

  • @BhappyD
    @BhappyD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so incredibly beautiful. It gives me chills and brings tears to my eyes, and I don’t cry easily. God just amazes me more and more everyday. What a strong testimony your sweet family has. His plan may not always be our plan, and it may not always be on our time, but your story is proof that trusting in Him is so important, because He will provide something bigger and better than we could have ever imagined. God bless you guys! Prayers for so much happiness and love in this new journey of life for all four of you. 💕🙏🏻🌻

  • @multistanqueen77
    @multistanqueen77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Miss A’s reaction made my heart so happy ❤️

  • @harksontheloose6447
    @harksontheloose6447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Time really does fly my 4th and last baby is 5 months old already 😭 I'm so happy for you guys! We didn't have fertility issues but our #3 and #4 took long (#3 after some procedures so werent sure we would be able to conceive again or go term) and we almost gave up on both.

  • @annavorobyov1991
    @annavorobyov1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!!

  • @teresanorris4769
    @teresanorris4769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So happy for you and your family.

  • @themaplemommy1795
    @themaplemommy1795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart is bursting for you guys! ❤️

  • @jennifermundhenk3295
    @jennifermundhenk3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congrats! Two beautiful blessings at once. Miss A sounds so excited.

  • @sherivang9633
    @sherivang9633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so so so so happy for you all!! Adoption is full of heartache and beauty. It is a fresh new beginning and you two will make wonderful parents!!

    • @ElaynaCain
      @ElaynaCain  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ilovecupcakes4747
    @ilovecupcakes4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay!! I’ve been watching for a while and I’m so excited for you guys! It’s amazing to see how God is growing your family! ❤️❤️

  • @mountaingalhomemaker4179
    @mountaingalhomemaker4179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I dicussed adoption had we had trouble having kids but we fortunately had no issues with that our 7 children being a testament to that lol. But had we been unable to have children of our own we had most likely adipted

  • @kerrymain1623
    @kerrymain1623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super happy 4 u sending love and prayers. X

  • @dai29082
    @dai29082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried real tears 😭. I’m so happy for you guys! Her little heart probably exploded with joy

  • @tiffmercer4306
    @tiffmercer4306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats on an amazing year already! We’ve been waiting 2 decades to adopt (we had a mean, aggressive biting dog for 17 years, so we had to wait until he was gone, but right before he died, we moved into an RV and after 3 years living in it, we finally bought a house! We will be going through foster care as well but adopting already waiting older kids.

  • @Lisa-ym1si
    @Lisa-ym1si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the second time in two days that I’ve heard someone say they’re going to name their kid Wilder or that they named their kid Wilder. Cool.

  • @lisawright7944
    @lisawright7944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have an amazingly blessed and beautiful family. It makes my heart and soul happy to see your beautiful family that GOD so richly blessed you all with. Your joy is over flowing GOD bless and keep you just as he has thus far.

  • @pattivance8553
    @pattivance8553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy for you guys and love hearing you give God the glory!! God is faithful!!

  • @lorifamily5282
    @lorifamily5282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m truly so happy for you guys & your new bundle of joys🎉

  • @heytherekelilah2
    @heytherekelilah2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This makes my heart so happy.

  • @GreenDayisAmazing
    @GreenDayisAmazing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg that makes me so happy! I’m so glad she’s found her forever family!!

  • @valcomments3045
    @valcomments3045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful story! God is good!

  • @allisonvanderstoel4954
    @allisonvanderstoel4954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so stinkin excited for you & your family!

  • @lindaallred7046
    @lindaallred7046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh time flys so fast my baby will be 1 year this sat the 13th. It’s the saddest because he is my last baby.

  • @mkn9597
    @mkn9597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wilder was praising jesus

  • @marygrando4089
    @marygrando4089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a blessed beautiful family!!!

  • @jessicapeaco2650
    @jessicapeaco2650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a million things to say about this video:
    1.) the way Miss A says "brother" makes me freakin smile so big
    2.) I cant wait to find out what Miss A's real name is. My guess is Ainsley 🙂
    3.) Wilder is so perfecttttt
    4.) I'm so happy for you, being a mama (no matter how it happens) is the best best thing ever happen to a woman.
    5.) Don't blink, he'll be 1 year old before you know it!
    6.) I'm so jealous you can use room temp water for your bottles, my bouji kids need them warmed🤦‍♀️
    7.) Levi looks like a natural just having a baby boy on his chest.
    8.) Welcome to the most crazy, tiresome, emotional, amazing time of your life, noone deserves this more💚

    • @lilly_37
      @lilly_37 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahha "boujee kids", Love it! 😆

  • @anxious3mpath
    @anxious3mpath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg omg omg omg omg ......OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!

    • @ElaynaCain
      @ElaynaCain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I KNOW!!! ❤️❤️

    • @anxious3mpath
      @anxious3mpath 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ElaynaCain I am so so so happy for you guys. You guys deserve this I hope you no that. Y'all are the best parents already.

  • @SP-fb7wj
    @SP-fb7wj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was so excited when I saw you guys pop up on my Tiktok fyp!!

  • @emziepoodlez
    @emziepoodlez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy for you and Miss A 🥰

  • @samanthamills8899
    @samanthamills8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can’t wait to hear miss A’s name!

  • @elliewillis9858
    @elliewillis9858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when the adoption is finalized will you feel better about showing mrs. A on camera

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She won’t be in foster care won’t have to protect her identity so much

  • @michelekeller2626
    @michelekeller2626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my goodness this is so beautiful 😊 our lord is so wonderful and amazing 🙏 bless your beautiful family and thank our perfect lord

  • @michelle3445
    @michelle3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is so good! My heart has been saying all along that Miss A was going to be a Cain. I sure have been praying for you all. #CainPartyOf4!!
    And yes, time does fly. You blink and they start school, and blink again and they are 6ft and 14. Enjoy every minute. Also DO NOT ever feel guilty if you take me time.
    And I still feel like he looks like Levi. It’s amazing. God makes no mistakes and he made Wilder to be a Cain. God knew all along. 🙏

  • @CherylHaurik
    @CherylHaurik 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your videos. Sadly many people are feeling hopeless in this messed up world. We can have perfect hope, and peace, but only through Jesus. However, if we are trusting Jesus we have hope.
    He gives hope to the hopeless. Hebrews 6:19 Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and stedfast, and which entereth into that within the veil;
    He gives peace when there is no peace. 2Corinthians 13:11 Finally, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you.
    John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Please call upon Jesus today.

  • @lizadams7571
    @lizadams7571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so happy for you! Congrats mama 💕💕💕

  • @kristapacker1549
    @kristapacker1549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our foster care home visit was concurrent so it’s useable or both foster care and adoption. We were chosen to adopt our foster kids in March of 2020. Termination happened Dec 2020. We are just getting disclosure and after that has been reviewed, we will get an adoption date. But from selection to adoption it’ll be over a year.

  • @laurenagetstein2761
    @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to you and your family!!! Since your adopting her!! Are you going to keep her name? Are you going to give her a name of your own personal choice?

    • @ElaynaCain
      @ElaynaCain  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We will be keeping her name ☺️

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ElaynaCain Can you reveal her name now? Do you have to wait until the adoption is finalized?

    • @Zoeclarke01
      @Zoeclarke01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurenagetstein2761 they want to wait until its finalized to share her name and face 🥰

  • @jacquelinefigueroa2520
    @jacquelinefigueroa2520 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful family 😍😍😍im in tears.... hope to see the daily vlog ...

  • @happymommaa
    @happymommaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is so gooooodddd, isn’t he?!? Praise the Lord! God’s plan is so much more amazing and beautiful than we could ever imagine. What a beautiful blessing these two precious children are. Congratulations, I am so very happy for the 4 of you.

  • @valerielowery5453
    @valerielowery5453 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for guys, especially Miss A and baby Wilder, all children deserve safety, stability and love 💗🙏 God bless

  • @michelle3445
    @michelle3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Elayna (1st I’m sorry for so many comments. I write them as the video goes on because I will forget.) What all does a walk through consist of? I’ve heard it mentioned from several people but I don’t know what it means.

  • @kelleythenurse3283
    @kelleythenurse3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Couple tips for his formula. If you hold the bottle over the open formula container while you pour the scoop into the bottle, you won’t have to clean your counter so much, the spillage will fall back into the container. 😉 also if he’s tolerating using similac pro-advance and you have a Costco, switch to Kirkland proCare, it’s the same stuff and only $20 per tub. It’ll likely last you a week to 10 days per container. My twins were half formula fed half breastmilk and that’s how long we were able to get from it.

  • @jordanplans4611
    @jordanplans4611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a blessing praise God 🙏 congratulations momma!!

  • @lexward1834
    @lexward1834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vj

  • @teenlove02
    @teenlove02 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! Good news ❤️❤️❤️🥺😍✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉💕

  • @amymenjivar3489
    @amymenjivar3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Newborn schedules- as soon as you think you understand their schedule, they change it :). Tip in case it helps..if you make formula in a tupperware or glass bottle morning and night and then prefill the day/night bottles it gives time for the bubbles to settle so less gas. You also have a little spare to top off as needed when they start their random growth spurts. Makes is easy to grab bottles if you need to leave unexpectedly, too. Both kids are goregous!

  • @Christycheri92479
    @Christycheri92479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your testimony is AMAZING! I’m in the middle of the woods right now but I’m just going to keep on trusting in God because He is faithful.

  • @michelle3445
    @michelle3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just noticed the scripture you shared. I love it and it’s exactly right.

  • @serobinson1
    @serobinson1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats!!! So exciting for your family

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s awesome! God bless your little family!

  • @lindamonaco7329
    @lindamonaco7329 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baby boy is so cute.And miss A seems very happy about her adoption I am so happy you took this journey

  • @beckyryan407
    @beckyryan407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nobody is perfect your home is beautiful.

  • @tomikittypaws
    @tomikittypaws 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for extending your love.

  • @tinleyguthrie3533
    @tinleyguthrie3533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So excited that everything is working out for you to adopt Miss A.

  • @laurenagetstein2761
    @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just have to change whatever information is on her birth certificate

  • @aimeethomas5674
    @aimeethomas5674 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Once you adopt Miss A will be able to show her face? 🥰😇

  • @x_peachyrainbows_x8653
    @x_peachyrainbows_x8653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg my heart!!

  • @Freebeeby12345
    @Freebeeby12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you deserve only the best in everything your awsome perents

  • @nataliekhalilrealtor
    @nataliekhalilrealtor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. God is good all the time. God bless and congrats

  • @shannonlynch9331
    @shannonlynch9331 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very happy for your little family❤ we are getting closer to TPR for our lil man and then on to adoption. Trust in God and he makes things happen. Love to you all!!

  • @findmeintime
    @findmeintime 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your children are beautiful!

  • @janetgiglio847
    @janetgiglio847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is good!! I’m so happy for your family!! 😀

  • @emilyyokel5386
    @emilyyokel5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dear, congratulations Cain Family!!!!

  • @beautyqueen4894
    @beautyqueen4894 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    do you think you want any more kids?

  • @michellesorenson1292
    @michellesorenson1292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love this story.....God is sooo good!

  • @dinomom4019
    @dinomom4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay I am so happy for your little family

  • @saradesrochers9588
    @saradesrochers9588 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aahhhhh! GREAT NEWS!! Congratulations!!

  • @shellyrodriguez9846
    @shellyrodriguez9846 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so happy for you and your family.

  • @selinamattocks
    @selinamattocks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen mamma! She is so meant to be in your home. God is so good ❤

  • @user-kg9oc4yf9r
    @user-kg9oc4yf9r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just wanted to let you know, when you are telling miss a she is in her forever home there is a moment you can see her entire face (she leans into camera view for just a second). Wasn't sure if that is an issue or not.

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss A said it before they formally told her. She already knew what they were going to say!!!

    • @user-kg9oc4yf9r
      @user-kg9oc4yf9r 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurenagetstein2761 oh, i just meant I was not sure if they were allowed to show her entire face - as her entire face was visible for a second.

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-kg9oc4yf9r I think their faces are being shown too much and really should be blocked out a lot more!! follow Be The Village which is a foster care based TH-cam channel!! They use various objects to block out the kids faces.

    • @erinaa9486
      @erinaa9486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elayna has said she doesn't care and it's ok if Miss As face shows for a second

    • @laurenagetstein2761
      @laurenagetstein2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erinaa9486 I don’t know if your foster care agency knows about your channel! They would care how you show a child’s face

  • @sancraft1
    @sancraft1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To God goes all the glory.

  • @DanielaNoel143
    @DanielaNoel143 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @celestemarie9285
    @celestemarie9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy for your family!