No sympathy for the last story. Throwing a tantrum for not getting your pee pee touched, then beating up your ex's brother because she "doesn't want to hear what you have to say". That sounded like a lovely family too. I hope the brother heals well and the op seeks professional help to control his temper.
FOR REAL. I was looking for a comment talking about this! I don’t know how he can expect anyone to have sympathy for him when he was so clearly in the wrong. I hope the police find him so the brother and family can press charges. Edit: Just finished listening to the last minute, good thing he’s turning himself in.
I waited until finishing the story to comment, cuz I knew that I'd end up completely agreeing with you about it haha. For real though, I too hope the O.P. gets the help needs
@@emma3906 bad thing about him turning himself in, is not because he knew what he did was wrong, but he's scared of running. *I simply lost control* now dude you let your blue balls speak. I hope she is safe from him.
Did y'all just ignore or can't hear that it him and the brother started fighting he didn't just beat his ass brothers fighting to he just happened to win so since he won he needs to go to jail should I beat people's asses worse than that fucking high school
These days it seems that it's controversial/anti-man to point out that sex is a far larger risk for women than men, namely due to the potential for pregnancy, which often puts the breaks on (or completely destroys) whatever a girl/woman's progress (never mind possible complications, possibly having to raise a child for at least 18 years alone [dude didn't even have a job], etc.). This guy clearly had no faith but thought it wise to date in a faith-based family, tried to push the girl to forget her beliefs (which likely would have gotten her pregnant b/c he seems someone selfish enough to forego contraception), pushed himself on them when they told him to stay away, and then beat up her brother. SMH He's a full-on narcissist, talking about HIS life being hell. "My life," "the media can tend to twist things," "I simply lost control of my temper," etc. Gross. He's talking about his side of the story? If his is this bad, I'd be eager to hear things from her perspective, because I strongly suspect he's leaving A LOT out!
The last story: the guy is a psycho. Like really? Flipping out THAT MUCH for what? A girl saying no too many times, then because she didn't want to talk to you after? Sounds like someone who has serious anger/possessiveness/boundry/masculinity issues. Angel dodged a SERIOUS bullet.
The guy in the last story was thinking with the wrong head. People like him that do that need to work on themselves because you can't force your partner to have intercourse. She was probably saving herself for marriage and he should've respected that but he didn't. He threw a tantrum and his only excuse was, "I just lost control ". Too bad Angel's brother didn't over power him in a fight, I was hoping he'd win. That dude is unsafe to be a boyfriend.
You took the words right out of my mouth. Met several guys in my lifetime who wanted to "do it" and blamed the girl for getting upset when she refused, and especially if she said she was saving herself for marriage. But guys like that tend to act like they're the ones who've been wronger or robbed of something they REALLY wanted.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Or she could’ve even been raped in the past and the thought of having sex was traumatic for her, and she wasn’t ready to relive the experience yet. Like you never know the circumstances, and he should’ve just asked he and had a deep conversation with her about why she was hesitant to have sex. Just talking to her calmly and gently could’ve mad a whole lot of a difference. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to save yourself for marriage, but based on how her and her family reacted towards him afterwards tells me she might’ve been raped in the past. And for him to treat her like that without knowing the circumstances is absolutely unacceptable.
@@thechosenonessunshine7772you’re the prblm, she could’ve been raped in the past and that’s why she didn’t want to have sex with him yet. And instead of talking to her about it calmly, he chose to lash out only prolly causing her more trauma, and he then proceeded to harass her, after she told him she wasn’t ready nor wanted to talk to him. She had every right to react that way, and he had no right to storm up to her parent’s house and demand to see her. Her brother had every right to throw that punch.
@@peachyypaige256 that could also be a possibility. Either way his behavior definitely pissed me off. I was hoping one of her family members would beat the crap outta him. Sure he was gonna turn himself in but not controlling himself and getting mad at "No" is a huge red flag
Honestly, it sounds like Angle dodged a bullet if this guy is so emotionally unstable. These types of stories hit close to home for me; especially when I think about the women and their track records in my own family.
Yeah even though she was acute girl and wasn’t being obtuse With her action I think she should have just told him on the phone it was over but she def wont miss his clearly psychotic ass!!
Yep! Women (and there are some men who do this too) are NOT doing other women any favors. Same for those who falsely accuse people of S.A. Women have a hard enough time, even if every single accusation was true and provable. It makes it so much worse for the society as a whole when there are false accusations. Very sick and selfish.
Why would a pretty girl be dating a broke unemployed 22 year old gamer to begin with? I bet his parents hope he goes to jail so they can have their couch back😅
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
@@thechosenonessunshine7772 No, you're wrong. He's obviously a weirdo. He felt entitled to her body, and became verbally abusive when he didn't get what he wanted. If she didn't left him, he would have become more and more abusive, probably pressured her into sex (which is rape) and/or become physically abusive, since he's clearly a violent man. Her brother and parents were protecting her because he's clearly a psycho.
If you were in a long term relationship or marriage wouldn't you expect sex as part of the package? (or expect the man to expect it if you are a woman?) I think if women withhold sex in a serious relationship or marriage they deserve to be chucked or divorced. I'm a girl and married and I believe my husband is entitled to sex. It's not really fair when women stop having regular sex as soon as they get married.. imo
@@itsruckaswife7036 no one is entitled to sex. That's a pretty messed up thinking. Don't care if you're a man or a woman or nb like me. You should be honest with your partner about what you want going into a relationship. Not everyone wants sex. Not everyone deserves sex. You can't go into a marriage thinking that your parents owes you. And you're husband isn't 'entitled' to your body. That's what's wrong with this world. People are so entitled. You should do things because you want to, not because you're required. If you do things out of love that's fine but rape is never okay. And divorcing your partner because they don't always put out is selfish. Communication is key in a relationship. And those issues should be discussed. You have a very toxic mindset and I hope you aren't being forced to do things you don't want because someone told you to. It's wrong. I worry for your well being.
@@JazzyBunny Don't worry,, he's not a rapist. You're right, that is never ok. Regular sex is important to him, and he provides everything thats important to me, so we compromise :) I look at it like this - he doesn't particularly enjoy giving me a foot massage but I love it if I've been wearing heels all day so he does it to make me happy. Similarly I have sex with him because I want to make him happy. He works so hard that I was able to quit my job when we married and have not had to work since. Withholding sex can be valid grounds for divorce in some situations.. I understand if the wife has just had a baby or on operation etc but sex is a part of marriage. A friend of ours has been "depressed" for a year and a half and that was her reason for not having sex! Her husband didn't cheat on her, but he has moved out and she's a mess now. You're right, communication is important, we talked about expectations while we were dating because he has a far higher sex drive than I do and enjoys certain sex acts I have no interest in, but I do them out of love, like you say, rather than lust. If we only had sex when I initiated it, it would probably be once every other month! 🤣🤣🤣
@@JazzyBunny btw, when you say nb, do you mean you don't identify as either gender? Will you decide at some point or is it permanent? Does that mean you are bisexual? What will you do when you want children? Sorry, just ignore if I'm being too personal. I'm just interested. Do you mind pronouns such as she/he? There are people arguing about it on the local schools Facebook as the teacher there don't acknowledge people who are non binary with gender neutral words. That was the first time I heard the term
@@itsruckaswife7036 I am Non Binary. I don't identify with either gender, but I don't mind male pronouns if people get confused, people will either assume I am a woman or a man. So I wear a pin to help. And when people see the pin they usually avoid pronouns. I don't like female pronouns at all. Permanent as far as I'm concerned. I hate female pronouns and I don't mind male but I prefer just They/Them. Most people do not understand being non binary. Toxic dudes get huffy or they laugh or roll they're eyes, and others try to be respectful but not all really get what being Non Binary is. Woman are a lot more respectful. I don't know if guys tend to find me confusing or threatening. I had top surgery so very flat chest. I could have a child in theory, not sure if it will happen but it could. I would say I'm demisexual but I find both genders equally attractive. But might also say pansexual/romantic because I find certain traits attractive or certaind ascetics attractive. But I'm definitely on the asexual spectrum. I think people should respect that there are Non Binary people out there who just don't find comfort in gender. I was never comfortable in my body or with my assigned gender. A lot of things have happened in my life, but I feel so much happier this way. I can say I finally feel comfortable in my own skin. I do have to correct people a lot but I'm okay with that. I'll fight for what I want always.
That story where the woman was being stalked by her ex and had stuff in her apartment moved around was absolutely terrifying. She was way too forgiving to her ex. What sane person puts an AirTag on their ex and follows them everywhere they go, on top of breaking into their house regularly and moving their stuff?! That’s way beyond loneliness. Her ex is unstable and she really should’ve reported that. She thinks he’s leaving him alone, but she may have just pushed him over the edge. Who knows what he’s capable of.
She really lost me at her saying he's "not a violent person." How TF does she know? She likely didn't even think he was capable of stalking either. He likely kept stalking, just low-key.
Though it may be difficult to understand, and without judgment as to whether her decision to not press charges was right or wrong, from a spiritual (not religious) place, she exercised compassion--not always an easy thing to do, but hopefully, after giving him the opportunity to cease and desist from his terrible behavior, he too, can move in & grow as a human, realizing that she granted him grace, rather than revenge.
@@kimmandley9356 yeah, if he didn’t do anything violent then left her alone after her warning then she showed grace and compassion. And for most grace goes further than ruthlessness and spite. You can turn a harmless person into a psycho by making them feel slighted. I agree that in non violent cases grace should be exercised before other options. If that fails go full scorched earth
For the last story if he's hiding from the police that's honestly pretty suspicious. I feel like some crucial parts of the story might have been left out.
I always love the ex lovers and stalker stories, like the stuff that sinks into the depravity of some people. Like it's scary how the sense of entitlement in some people can turn them into monsters.
Maybe if I hadn't experienced it I'd love it too. But unfortunately I understand it all too well. I was in a very abusive relationship for half my life...trapped. Blessings from Canada
@@brandon9501 Thank you, you are so right! Each day I'm finding out more and more crazy things. You just can't make this up!! So glad I'm not with him anymore. Just trying to stay safe now, and carry on with my life. 😊
that last story🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ “my side” what is your side exactly? that a girl didn’t want to sleep with you so you flipped out on her? then wouldn’t leave her alone and got into a physical altercation with her brother? oh ok… completely understandable 🙄
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Story 6, your ex just came back with a baby after no explanation at all and you just let her into your life again? Just like that? You never asked her?? Wow, that’s insane The last story, I’m glad Angel didn’t sleep with him, she knew, those red flags…and she was smart enough to avoid it, good job.
In regards to story 6, I think it's just because his grief blinded him and when she suddenly bounced back unexpectedly he just went along with anything just to keep her around him
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
The guy with the Angel story if your hormones and temper make you crazy and out of control, you should look into anger management it will help you regain control over your actions.
Hello Let's Read. The second story is an experience that I had similar to this but no shooting or killing was involved. My ex husband was always jealous of my daughter. He was mad because I would pay more attention to our daughter then him. Or I would buy more baby food for her then food for ourselves which was not true. If I didn't agree with something, he would grab me by hair and drag me around like a rag doll. When we got divorced and it was visitation time, he would come to the door drunk which I refuse to let her go when he was in that state. He would get mad and call our daughter "that kid" like she was an object. In 2011 the whole family came to my door to let me know that he died. He fell off a 20ft bridge unto some railroad tracks which he had brain hemorrhage. My daughter had no feelings when she found out. The mother was mad at me like I've done pushed him off the bridge. My daughter is 25 now and going to college. Anyways sorry for the long story.
The EX and crazy stalker stories are the best! As someone who studies psychology, these stories are way better than any textbooks or discussions in any classroom! 😆
If you want to be married, don't get into a relationship with, nor waste several years on, someone who doesn't want to be married. Women keep doing this, but a man knows if he wants to marry a woman or not, that's why he'll string one woman along for years and then marry his new girlfriend within a few months. Stop wasting your time, ladies!
He didn't string her along though. He flat out told her he didn't want marriage. She should have left then instead of wasting so many years hoping he might change his mind. Women nowadays need to realize that a lot of men are fed up with marriage and getting fucked over in divorce. Not everyone cares about marriage either
That dude is the last story completely blew it. An amazing girl finally gives you a chance and you fuckin blew it. He ruined what could've been an amazing life and partner because she didn't want to have sex. Apparently her parents like him too? if she didn't want you to look at her while you eat you just do it. I have no sympathy for him.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
guy from story 7 was… let’s just say an awful person. Mad because his girlfriend didn’t want to have sex with him even though they’re both virgins and sex really is an emotionally and mentally tasking thing. He should’ve been understanding and respectful but instead he did all that BS. Smh I have no sympathy.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Love your stories, but this was really close to home..My first relationship was highly abusive..if I tried to leave I was always told with a razor blade in his hand that someone was going to die. I was strangled and when I left he'd cut his wrists.. I wasn't perfect either during this time, but wanted stability...he lived through it all, as did I and eventually he seemed to have gotten it together for years. We had2 beautiful girls and eventually he began using drugs. To his credit his childhood was wrought with immense abuse and pain. As was mine...somehow even through everything I haven't found anyone who understands me as he did, and I him. Now he's passed on and my girls are growing up without a father which is very painful for them and me as well. I wish I could change all of it, but life's life. Thanks again for another great video. Can't sleep to this one, but great all the same
You procreated with someone who strangled you and cut their wrists??? Why did you subject children to that? SMH Willingly bringing children into an abusive relationship is so irresponsible. An abuser doesn't just stop being abusive.
I’ve been really down today and overall like I’ve lost hope, but seeing this notification made me feel a little better. Thank you, Joel. Hope you’re well.
Just finished my night shift, so happy to find you here! Lucky, lucky me gets to listen to Joel, for the next hour. Great way to wind down from a really yucky night @ work. Thanks, Joel!
The girl in the first story sounds like she enjoyed the attention that the story teller was giving her after they first broke up, some people like the idea of people desperately asking to be with them again and when that person gives up and their attention moves to a new person they cannot accept that said person has moved on.
That Connie story: I'm a mild-mannered, non-violent person, but I'd fight fire with fire. I'd put her info on every hook-up site, working girl site, wherever. I'd get my family in on the action since they were targeted to. IDC I'm tired of seeing these psychos do their work unimpeded for weeks, months, years. They rely on their victims being passive and trying to rely on the police when the police won't help. They need to know there's a serious price. The last story: If things had been left to its logical conclusion, it possibly would have gone like this: Him, getting her pregnant, her family, letting him move in so that the child has a father around, him, not getting a job because why bother, her, miserable outside of her child. And I say this because of the character he revealed between the lines. He's a narcissist.
Since I'm really into dating and crazy ex stories, i gotta say; Sick collection. Every single one of the stories were really good and trully scary! Thank You and condolences/thoughts and prayers for all the victims. (Yes Seriously.) Also "remember to tell Aunt Sue" at the end was hilarious!
I was emotional about the story of the guy who's ex left him a note and came back pretending it's his baby and the last story had me cracking up haha but I wish that guy the best and strongs for what comes after. Hope he starts getting hold of his emotions and not allow it to overwhelm him too much cause he'll ruin future relations because of it as well
So for story two, i think she made the right choice. After everything her ex was doing, he was dangerous and if she didnt kill him im positive he would have done way worse to her and her family.
@@user-oz1ny no, it's not arguably self defense. A dude in his car, at stop, with no weapon, dozens of feet from you is not a threat to your life, at all. Your not even allowed to shoot someone if they are walking away from you in most instances, that will get you a murder charge. She only got manslaughter because he previously tried to kidnap her and made threats, if it wasn't for that, she would have gotten murder 100%. The fact that she was charged at all proves the judge and jury didn't see it as self defense at all. People need to stop thinking self defense is super broad, it's not. Many people thought they were killing in self defense only to end up in prison on a murder charge. Self defense isn't as Grey as you think it is.
7 years isn't a bad trade off for knowing your loved ones are safe. police can't usually do anything until it's too late anyway, if they even try to help in the first place. still awful that she resorted to murder but i honestly don't blame her and she seems accepting of her punishment.
What the actual F is wrong with that lady that took off right before the wedding? Sounds like she's constantly having some type of crisis? She should probably get help for that instead of messing with everyone else's head.
Funny how when ever a woman does something toxic or wrong in a relation “she needs help, or therapy” bro no, she’s evil and manipulative for taking advantage of those two men
That last story the guy sounds like a jerk. Like she told him no, he threw a tantrum and the proceeded to ignore Angel and her families wishes for him to leave them alone.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Ohhhh my God, have I got the psycho ex story to end ALL psycho ex stories... Just gotta not be lazy and type it up so I can submit it haha. I gotta say, thank GOD that language isn't a problem for this channel lmao. It'll have everything from fraud to attempted murder and I'm not even exaggerating. Just glad that I had enough wits about me to achieve a positive outcome and be able to get the story told
So glad you did this scrubbed up version to suit my time zone..... And probably many others think this from over the pond.... Can't wait to now start listening to another gem of yours 🇬🇧♥️🇬🇧♥️🇬🇧
The last part of story 3 hit hard, my parents used me and my other two siblings as bait/leverage/ammo whenever they were near each other during their divorce period. It was really hard watching them scream and overall just act horrible towards one another. I agree that children should most definitely be the priority in these situations. My perception of marriage and love has been heavily messed with but I’m committed to changing that, period
Or maybe she just isn't ready to stay in one situation forever. Women also go to great lengths not to hurt men's feelings because men are stronger than us plus we'resocialized not to hurt anyone's feelings. If she knows the relationship won't last, she might try to be kind by saying some variation of "It's not you, it's me."
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
A 22 year old broke unemployed gamer can't figure out why his ex girl wouldn't give him any 😅. He seems like a genius among his other awesome qualities 😅
For the guy in the 1st story he should get a ring camera and a camera for his car to use as possible evidence if she decides to try an do something in person
Omg the last story… wtf… the first dinner he had with her family THEY HELD HANDS IN PRAYER! Did you ever think she wanted to SAVE HERSELF FOR MARRIAGE?! Or maybe she was assaulted before and too much physical stuff would overwhelm her. You never freaking know!
I dont understand how people in relationships that are already terrible feel like they have a right to bring children into the situation. Please use contraception. We have enough messed up people running around.
I sympathize with the person who shot and killed their ex-partner because they likely felt that killing them was their only option. We all know that the police can't help you unless you're hurt, and a restraining order won't protect you from someone insane enough to stalk and potentially murder you. Consider the intense anxiety and genuine belief that killing someone was the only way out of such a terrifying situation.
Always a pleasure when I can just say that these stories were excellent choices and perfectly read. Erin is a true sociopath (a narcissist who seeks out empaths to eat), there isn't a chance she won't scar those she is near. Keep praying for that daughter, especially that she doesn't turn out just like her mother. Connie reminds me of a close call in my life, never got THAT bad, but a raging personality disorder like that (usually a type of BPD) can make it "easier" to fake ur own death than anything else in order to gain back peace in your life. When he said it stopped, I knew, she had a new victim. And the last one, arguably written by the "crazy ex" himself, was a nice touch.
Story 2 chick "my dad taught me every nook and cranny of gun ownership." This chick has no idea of what gun safety is if she just basically takes a gun out of a safe and merc someone for no reason. That's a terrible person who shouldn't be allowed a gun
I was married only once, from 1984 to 1988. We fought a lot, mainly about our lack of money. Her parents were well off city dwellers and my farm parents had struggled for a long time but by the time my Irish immigrant dad passed in '89 were quite well off. My wife was used to getting whatever she wanted, spoiled might be a good word. I was raised to fix broken equipment to make it last until it became useless scrap metal. Raised to be frugal. On the rare occasion we needed to borrow a neighbor's piece of equipment, we always brought it back in better condition than it was when borrowed. You mustn't bite the hand that feeds you. Our divorce was amicable with the only thing I had to pay for was $150 for her to regain her maiden name. Oh, and I was awarded her credit card bill to the tune of $4000 as well as the house mortgage. The VA forgave their share of our loan and thankfully I sold the property for break even. We got along worlds better afterwards, became good friends. I haven't seen her now for at least 28 years. I occasionally think about her and hope she's happy and healthy wherever she is.
"Joe's not a violent guy." Hey, dummy, I bet you said that Joe isn't a stalker either. Thank goodness for the fiancée. I can't stand "most people are good" bleeding hearts. Live in the real world.
A bit? The jackass went full incel and exploded at a woman who wasn't down for being intimate (instead of, you know, sitting down with her and having a nonjudgmental discussion on her reasoning - maybe she wants to wait until marriage, maybe she's ace + sex repulsed, maybe she's been through some trauma, or maybe she was just not ready, who can say), and then violently assaulted her brother when he refused to let the creep see her. Angel ultimately dodged a bullet, and this fool squandered the opportunity for a potentially loving relationship with her (+ with her family, who seemed nice), and will possibly now have a record for assault, all because he decided to throw a tantrum over not getting his dick wet. No matter what happens after he turns himself in, he needs to seek therapy ASAP.
It's never a mistake to buy a gun, and personally what you did with it was justified imo, yes you went about wrong, but how long would it have taken for your ex to attack you? Giving you no choice but self defense? Your daughters may not understand at the moment what you did or why you did it, but hopefully when they grow up they'll realize you did it for them and to protect them from a monster, in the end its for the best
@hfgfdfg tfyfffg The guy was a pos that threatened her life, her families lives, and her children's lives, that's the kind of person the world can do without, when your dealing with someone like this, being unarmed has nothing to do with it, because they don't change, they only get worse. She did go about it the wrong way, but only cause she can't claim self defense now, in the end all she did was get ahead of the situation before he actually did end up hurting someone, no great loss imo...
@@Mr.andMrs.Smith_0420 using that logic I can go out and kill some people who made death threats to me and my family and I want to get ahead of the situation . What she did was murder, flat out. It's a failure of the justice system that she only got manslaughter and 7 years. She deserves life in prison.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
OMG the last guys sound like a real jerk. That he can't take NO for an answer, and treats a girl who sounds like has been nothing but nice, and her family very welcoming, like this. Obviously, she comes from a religious family and probably holds certain beliefs. Even if not, she doesn't have to explain herself. If anyone who knows Angel is listening to this, tell her to stay away from this jerk. If this is a real story, by his own account, he's presented himself as selfish, insensitive, and has anger issues if he doesn't get his way. Let's hope she never decides to forgive him.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
The fact that the last guy wrong that completely thinking people would agree that his ex owes him sex.. the fact that people think their significant other owes them sex..
He is in the wrong but Angela should have told him if she was the no sex til marriage type. Yes she doesn't owe him sex but don't get into a relationship if your not willing to have sex with your partner. Whether people like it or not, sex is a huge part of nearly all relationships. People expect to be able to have sex with their bf/gf. If your not willing to be intimate with your partner then you might as well be just friends. Obviously Angela and him didn't have any discussion about these things in those 6 months
@@justarandomuser8434 If someone wants a relationship before they get married how can that happen if u say don’t get into a relationship if you can’t have sex. Also you just stated how most people, including yourself, expect to be able to have sex with your partner. You shouldn’t expect anything out of anyone. No one owes you anything. You don’t deserve anything until you work for it.
@@subhub637 pick a partner that agrees with your views, its pretty simple. this dude clearly was not religious so why did she choose him? she should know better than that. if it is a regular relationship and your not saving yourself, don't get into a relationship if your not willing to have sex. if you don't like sex, find someone who also doesn't like it but don't pick someone who does and then deny them, that is beyond messed up and childish. on another note, so if im dating a girl, she shouldn't expect loyalty from me? she shouldn't expect any financial support or emotional support from me? she shouldn't expect intimacy from me? she hasn't earned. what is even the point of being in a relationship if you can't expect anything from your partner? your view on relationships and people is very wrong. also what do you think typically happens before you start a relationship? its a thing called going on dates. men don't do that out of the kindness of their heart, its them working towards getting laid. if they've been dating for six months, dude has likely earned some sex (in this case no because of her religious beliefs). most people would have walked away by this point.
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No sympathy for the last story. Throwing a tantrum for not getting your pee pee touched, then beating up your ex's brother because she "doesn't want to hear what you have to say". That sounded like a lovely family too. I hope the brother heals well and the op seeks professional help to control his temper.
FOR REAL. I was looking for a comment talking about this! I don’t know how he can expect anyone to have sympathy for him when he was so clearly in the wrong. I hope the police find him so the brother and family can press charges.
Edit: Just finished listening to the last minute, good thing he’s turning himself in.
I waited until finishing the story to comment, cuz I knew that I'd end up completely agreeing with you about it haha. For real though, I too hope the O.P. gets the help needs
@@emma3906 bad thing about him turning himself in, is not because he knew what he did was wrong, but he's scared of running.
*I simply lost control* now dude you let your blue balls speak.
I hope she is safe from him.
Did y'all just ignore or can't hear that it him and the brother started fighting he didn't just beat his ass brothers fighting to he just happened to win so since he won he needs to go to jail should I beat people's asses worse than that fucking high school
These days it seems that it's controversial/anti-man to point out that sex is a far larger risk for women than men, namely due to the potential for pregnancy, which often puts the breaks on (or completely destroys) whatever a girl/woman's progress (never mind possible complications, possibly having to raise a child for at least 18 years alone [dude didn't even have a job], etc.).
This guy clearly had no faith but thought it wise to date in a faith-based family, tried to push the girl to forget her beliefs (which likely would have gotten her pregnant b/c he seems someone selfish enough to forego contraception), pushed himself on them when they told him to stay away, and then beat up her brother. SMH
He's a full-on narcissist, talking about HIS life being hell. "My life," "the media can tend to twist things," "I simply lost control of my temper," etc. Gross. He's talking about his side of the story? If his is this bad, I'd be eager to hear things from her perspective, because I strongly suspect he's leaving A LOT out!
The last story: the guy is a psycho. Like really? Flipping out THAT MUCH for what? A girl saying no too many times, then because she didn't want to talk to you after? Sounds like someone who has serious anger/possessiveness/boundry/masculinity issues. Angel dodged a SERIOUS bullet.
I mean how would you feel if you were in a relationship with someone who refused to commit?
@@harryfleutv666 she had a boundary that would have been criminal for him to cross. And relationships can be just fine without sex.
@@hayasheeeesh that’s very true
@@harryfleutv666 Like it wasn't what I wanted and I should move on.
He's a psycho-that's it. You w🙎♀️men always want to psychoanalyze people-with no discerning qualifications-and attack their manhood.
The guy in the last story was thinking with the wrong head. People like him that do that need to work on themselves because you can't force your partner to have intercourse. She was probably saving herself for marriage and he should've respected that but he didn't. He threw a tantrum and his only excuse was, "I just lost control ". Too bad Angel's brother didn't over power him in a fight, I was hoping he'd win. That dude is unsafe to be a boyfriend.
You took the words right out of my mouth. Met several guys in my lifetime who wanted to "do it" and blamed the girl for getting upset when she refused, and especially if she said she was saving herself for marriage. But guys like that tend to act like they're the ones who've been wronger or robbed of something they REALLY wanted.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Or she could’ve even been raped in the past and the thought of having sex was traumatic for her, and she wasn’t ready to relive the experience yet. Like you never know the circumstances, and he should’ve just asked he and had a deep conversation with her about why she was hesitant to have sex. Just talking to her calmly and gently could’ve mad a whole lot of a difference. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to save yourself for marriage, but based on how her and her family reacted towards him afterwards tells me she might’ve been raped in the past. And for him to treat her like that without knowing the circumstances is absolutely unacceptable.
@@thechosenonessunshine7772you’re the prblm, she could’ve been raped in the past and that’s why she didn’t want to have sex with him yet. And instead of talking to her about it calmly, he chose to lash out only prolly causing her more trauma, and he then proceeded to harass her, after she told him she wasn’t ready nor wanted to talk to him. She had every right to react that way, and he had no right to storm up to her parent’s house and demand to see her. Her brother had every right to throw that punch.
@@peachyypaige256 that could also be a possibility. Either way his behavior definitely pissed me off. I was hoping one of her family members would beat the crap outta him. Sure he was gonna turn himself in but not controlling himself and getting mad at "No" is a huge red flag
Honestly, it sounds like Angle dodged a bullet if this guy is so emotionally unstable. These types of stories hit close to home for me; especially when I think about the women and their track records in my own family.
Yeah even though she was acute girl and wasn’t being obtuse With her action I think she should have just told him on the phone it was over but she def wont miss his clearly psychotic ass!!
Fo real. He blew his stack just because she doesn't want to have intercourse. Talk thinking with the wrong head.
@@gokuwrightattorneyatlaw5227 and then beating her brother down and kicking him on the ground? Get help dude!
@@joyleafsidhe6185 yep. He needs it because I think he would probably harm her as well
He can be your angle or yuor devil
I Hate exes who lie about their ex being abusers, as it makes it harder for people who are Actual victims.
Frfr!!!
Just went through that never again
Yep! Women (and there are some men who do this too) are NOT doing other women any favors. Same for those who falsely accuse people of S.A. Women have a hard enough time, even if every single accusation was true and provable. It makes it so much worse for the society as a whole when there are false accusations. Very sick and selfish.
@@lilbyron6591 Sorry you had to go through that.
If my ex yelled at me for not being ready for sex AND beat up a family member, you can bet I'm not talking to him, either.
Why would a pretty girl be dating a broke unemployed 22 year old gamer to begin with? I bet his parents hope he goes to jail so they can have their couch back😅
@@pinebarrenpatriot8289 fr, one of the first stories ive listened to where the writer is fs in the wrong. he got lucky to j be w her.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
my advice would be to get in the kitchen and make some mother fn sandwiches ho
@@thechosenonessunshine7772 No, you're wrong. He's obviously a weirdo. He felt entitled to her body, and became verbally abusive when he didn't get what he wanted. If she didn't left him, he would have become more and more abusive, probably pressured her into sex (which is rape) and/or become physically abusive, since he's clearly a violent man. Her brother and parents were protecting her because he's clearly a psycho.
Yeah that last op is a piece of work. People who think they're entitled to sex are absolute garbage.
If you were in a long term relationship or marriage wouldn't you expect sex as part of the package? (or expect the man to expect it if you are a woman?) I think if women withhold sex in a serious relationship or marriage they deserve to be chucked or divorced. I'm a girl and married and I believe my husband is entitled to sex. It's not really fair when women stop having regular sex as soon as they get married.. imo
@@itsruckaswife7036 no one is entitled to sex. That's a pretty messed up thinking. Don't care if you're a man or a woman or nb like me. You should be honest with your partner about what you want going into a relationship. Not everyone wants sex. Not everyone deserves sex. You can't go into a marriage thinking that your parents owes you. And you're husband isn't 'entitled' to your body. That's what's wrong with this world. People are so entitled. You should do things because you want to, not because you're required. If you do things out of love that's fine but rape is never okay. And divorcing your partner because they don't always put out is selfish. Communication is key in a relationship. And those issues should be discussed. You have a very toxic mindset and I hope you aren't being forced to do things you don't want because someone told you to. It's wrong. I worry for your well being.
@@JazzyBunny Don't worry,, he's not a rapist. You're right, that is never ok. Regular sex is important to him, and he provides everything thats important to me, so we compromise :) I look at it like this - he doesn't particularly enjoy giving me a foot massage but I love it if I've been wearing heels all day so he does it to make me happy. Similarly I have sex with him because I want to make him happy. He works so hard that I was able to quit my job when we married and have not had to work since. Withholding sex can be valid grounds for divorce in some situations.. I understand if the wife has just had a baby or on operation etc but sex is a part of marriage. A friend of ours has been "depressed" for a year and a half and that was her reason for not having sex! Her husband didn't cheat on her, but he has moved out and she's a mess now. You're right, communication is important, we talked about expectations while we were dating because he has a far higher sex drive than I do and enjoys certain sex acts I have no interest in, but I do them out of love, like you say, rather than lust. If we only had sex when I initiated it, it would probably be once every other month! 🤣🤣🤣
@@JazzyBunny btw, when you say nb, do you mean you don't identify as either gender? Will you decide at some point or is it permanent? Does that mean you are bisexual? What will you do when you want children? Sorry, just ignore if I'm being too personal. I'm just interested. Do you mind pronouns such as she/he? There are people arguing about it on the local schools Facebook as the teacher there don't acknowledge people who are non binary with gender neutral words. That was the first time I heard the term
@@itsruckaswife7036 I am Non Binary. I don't identify with either gender, but I don't mind male pronouns if people get confused, people will either assume I am a woman or a man. So I wear a pin to help. And when people see the pin they usually avoid pronouns. I don't like female pronouns at all. Permanent as far as I'm concerned. I hate female pronouns and I don't mind male but I prefer just They/Them. Most people do not understand being non binary. Toxic dudes get huffy or they laugh or roll they're eyes, and others try to be respectful but not all really get what being Non Binary is. Woman are a lot more respectful. I don't know if guys tend to find me confusing or threatening. I had top surgery so very flat chest. I could have a child in theory, not sure if it will happen but it could. I would say I'm demisexual but I find both genders equally attractive. But might also say pansexual/romantic because I find certain traits attractive or certaind ascetics attractive. But I'm definitely on the asexual spectrum. I think people should respect that there are Non Binary people out there who just don't find comfort in gender. I was never comfortable in my body or with my assigned gender. A lot of things have happened in my life, but I feel so much happier this way. I can say I finally feel comfortable in my own skin. I do have to correct people a lot but I'm okay with that. I'll fight for what I want always.
That story where the woman was being stalked by her ex and had stuff in her apartment moved around was absolutely terrifying. She was way too forgiving to her ex. What sane person puts an AirTag on their ex and follows them everywhere they go, on top of breaking into their house regularly and moving their stuff?! That’s way beyond loneliness. Her ex is unstable and she really should’ve reported that. She thinks he’s leaving him alone, but she may have just pushed him over the edge. Who knows what he’s capable of.
She really lost me at her saying he's "not a violent person." How TF does she know? She likely didn't even think he was capable of stalking either. He likely kept stalking, just low-key.
EXACTLY!!! That sh*t was crazy to me "he's not a bad guy" lol.
Though it may be difficult to understand, and without judgment as to whether her decision to not press charges was right or wrong, from a spiritual (not religious) place, she exercised compassion--not always an easy thing to do, but hopefully, after giving him the opportunity to cease and desist from his terrible behavior, he too, can move in & grow as a human, realizing that she granted him grace, rather than revenge.
I know right, it’s ridiculous how she didn’t file a report just because her ex is afraid of going to jail… I hope nothing ever happens again
@@kimmandley9356 yeah, if he didn’t do anything violent then left her alone after her warning then she showed grace and compassion. And for most grace goes further than ruthlessness and spite. You can turn a harmless person into a psycho by making them feel slighted.
I agree that in non violent cases grace should be exercised before other options. If that fails go full scorched earth
It's weird to think that one of the people writing could be the crazy ex telling it from their perspective and lying to get people's sympathy.
Story 2 lol
@@immadebe6043 I thought they were talking about 7
Last story was
The last story is only a horror story because the narrator doesn't realise what a complete jack-ass he is.
@@immadebe6043 unlikely
Anyone who puts an airtag on your car and breaks into your home is not lonely but unstable and clearly dangerous. Get it together, lady.
For the last story if he's hiding from the police that's honestly pretty suspicious. I feel like some crucial parts of the story might have been left out.
Attacking her brother = assault, so that's probably what that's about. Story sounds kinda fake though with the "I'm totally writing this on the run"
I always love the ex lovers and stalker stories, like the stuff that sinks into the depravity of some people. Like it's scary how the sense of entitlement in some people can turn them into monsters.
Maybe if I hadn't experienced it I'd love it too. But unfortunately I understand it all too well. I was in a very abusive relationship for half my life...trapped. Blessings from Canada
@INDELIBLE FAECES blessings, and same to you! And not really relevant, but love your pic, adorable!🙏❤❤
Currently dealing with a crazy ex. I'm sure I could write a few stories on him...
@@sarahwolff8211 just Remember, don’t put anything past them !
@@brandon9501 Thank you, you are so right! Each day I'm finding out more and more crazy things. You just can't make this up!! So glad I'm not with him anymore. Just trying to stay safe now, and carry on with my life. 😊
that last story🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ “my side” what is your side exactly? that a girl didn’t want to sleep with you so you flipped out on her? then wouldn’t leave her alone and got into a physical altercation with her brother? oh ok… completely understandable 🙄
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
“And remember to tell Aunt Sue before faking your own death.”
Oh crap…
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Man that story with the daughter made me so sad. That poor guy. I’m glad he’s happy now though
Dude freaking out over not getting laid is definitely TA here. Angel should be the one telling the story about her crazy ex.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Stalker stories show us just how messed up people can be. The people walking next to us could be one. Brilliant stories, my friend!
Story 6, your ex just came back with a baby after no explanation at all and you just let her into your life again? Just like that? You never asked her?? Wow, that’s insane
The last story, I’m glad Angel didn’t sleep with him, she knew, those red flags…and she was smart enough to avoid it, good job.
In regards to story 6, I think it's just because his grief blinded him and when she suddenly bounced back unexpectedly he just went along with anything just to keep her around him
S6 Forest Gump? Last story, Angel the bullet dodger.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
@@taliabettendorf1949yeah I feel so bad for that guy
@@thechosenonessunshine7772take a shot everytime an eye roll emoji comes up
Honestly for the second story I don't blame her because Mike really done a lot physiological damage to her.
The guy with the Angel story if your hormones and temper make you crazy and out of control, you should look into anger management it will help you regain control over your actions.
Hello Let's Read. The second story is an experience that I had similar to this but no shooting or killing was involved. My ex husband was always jealous of my daughter. He was mad because I would pay more attention to our daughter then him. Or I would buy more baby food for her then food for ourselves which was not true. If I didn't agree with something, he would grab me by hair and drag me around like a rag doll. When we got divorced and it was visitation time, he would come to the door drunk which I refuse to let her go when he was in that state. He would get mad and call our daughter "that kid" like she was an object. In 2011 the whole family came to my door to let me know that he died. He fell off a 20ft bridge unto some railroad tracks which he had brain hemorrhage. My daughter had no feelings when she found out. The mother was mad at me like I've done pushed him off the bridge. My daughter is 25 now and going to college. Anyways sorry for the long story.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through such a hell. Wish you & your daughter the best 🙏
@@ipsitamazumdar4849 thank you very much. 🤗
God bless miss, I'm really sorry you went through that, him fallin off the bridge was a fuckin miracle, wish you the best in life x
That last one is just sad. The guy ruined his life over sex? 🙄😑
If he really wanted to get laid, pretty sure there are hookers in every state
The EX and crazy stalker stories are the best! As someone who studies psychology, these stories are way better than any textbooks or discussions in any classroom! 😆
You could always consider talking to the professor about possibly using one of the stories to study or for a lesson plan perhaps.
Last story made me flinch. Some guys are really loosing it, when the girl isn't giving in.
The only good decision of the guy in the last story was to turn himself in.
I love this guy. I’m glad he still makes videos
Crazy Ex’s stories are always good but this ambient music playing in the background makes it so much better!
Not too loud, I like it!!
Agreed! Adds the perfect touch and creates a fantastically fitting atmosphere
@@theyoyoyo7833 Fax
Moral of the second story is know your state laws and wait till your in actual danger to act.
She shouldn't have been punished! One less scumbag of the streets the better!
If you want to be married, don't get into a relationship with, nor waste several years on, someone who doesn't want to be married. Women keep doing this, but a man knows if he wants to marry a woman or not, that's why he'll string one woman along for years and then marry his new girlfriend within a few months. Stop wasting your time, ladies!
Happens both ways honestly, I know from experience and it sucks. 😩, People need to stop playing games, it's not high school anymore, time to grow up.
He didn't string her along though. He flat out told her he didn't want marriage. She should have left then instead of wasting so many years hoping he might change his mind. Women nowadays need to realize that a lot of men are fed up with marriage and getting fucked over in divorce. Not everyone cares about marriage either
@@justarandomuser8434cope harder
That dude is the last story completely blew it. An amazing girl finally gives you a chance and you fuckin blew it. He ruined what could've been an amazing life and partner because she didn't want to have sex. Apparently her parents like him too? if she didn't want you to look at her while you eat you just do it. I have no sympathy for him.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
guy from story 7 was… let’s just say an awful person.
Mad because his girlfriend didn’t want to have sex with him even though they’re both virgins and sex really is an emotionally and mentally tasking thing.
He should’ve been understanding and respectful but instead he did all that BS. Smh I have no sympathy.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
@@thechosenonessunshine7772… really
i had a exgirlfriend just like the one in story 5. it's actually crazy to think that people are like that and could do that to someone.
nice work as always joel.
every monday, wednesday and friday is made even better with new content from this excellent channel.
So lucky to have my fiancé, she’s the most amazing women I’ve ever met and we have a baby girl on the way!
Love your stories, but this was really close to home..My first relationship was highly abusive..if I tried to leave I was always told with a razor blade in his hand that someone was going to die. I was strangled and when I left he'd cut his wrists.. I wasn't perfect either during this time, but wanted stability...he lived through it all, as did I and eventually he seemed to have gotten it together for years. We had2 beautiful girls and eventually he began using drugs. To his credit his childhood was wrought with immense abuse and pain. As was mine...somehow even through everything I haven't found anyone who understands me as he did, and I him. Now he's passed on and my girls are growing up without a father which is very painful for them and me as well. I wish I could change all of it, but life's life. Thanks again for another great video. Can't sleep to this one, but great all the same
You procreated with someone who strangled you and cut their wrists??? Why did you subject children to that? SMH Willingly bringing children into an abusive relationship is so irresponsible. An abuser doesn't just stop being abusive.
I’ve been really down today and overall like I’ve lost hope, but seeing this notification made me feel a little better. Thank you, Joel. Hope you’re well.
Hope you feel better today friend. 🙂
Just finished my night shift, so happy to find you here! Lucky, lucky me gets to listen to Joel, for the next hour. Great way to wind down from a really yucky night @ work. Thanks, Joel!
Can’t wait to hear thank you Joel
The girl in the first story sounds like she enjoyed the attention that the story teller was giving her after they first broke up, some people like the idea of people desperately asking to be with them again and when that person gives up and their attention moves to a new person they cannot accept that said person has moved on.
Let’s gooo! Something to sleep to tonight 😁❤️ It’s been awhile brother hopefully ya remember me LOL
That Connie story: I'm a mild-mannered, non-violent person, but I'd fight fire with fire. I'd put her info on every hook-up site, working girl site, wherever. I'd get my family in on the action since they were targeted to. IDC I'm tired of seeing these psychos do their work unimpeded for weeks, months, years. They rely on their victims being passive and trying to rely on the police when the police won't help. They need to know there's a serious price.
The last story: If things had been left to its logical conclusion, it possibly would have gone like this: Him, getting her pregnant, her family, letting him move in so that the child has a father around, him, not getting a job because why bother, her, miserable outside of her child. And I say this because of the character he revealed between the lines. He's a narcissist.
Since I'm really into dating and crazy ex stories, i gotta say; Sick collection. Every single one of the stories were really good and trully scary! Thank You and condolences/thoughts and prayers for all the victims.
(Yes Seriously.)
Also "remember to tell Aunt Sue" at the end was hilarious!
Thank you!!
Need this, just worked 16 hrs and gotta be back in 9 to do it all over again.
glad to be here on time and catch up on all stories! Your content grind is appreciated!
@INDELIBLE FAECES YOOOO!!!
I was emotional about the story of the guy who's ex left him a note and came back pretending it's his baby and the last story had me cracking up haha but I wish that guy the best and strongs for what comes after. Hope he starts getting hold of his emotions and not allow it to overwhelm him too much cause he'll ruin future relations because of it as well
So for story two, i think she made the right choice. After everything her ex was doing, he was dangerous and if she didnt kill him im positive he would have done way worse to her and her family.
its still murder
@@justarandomuser8434 arguably self defense. killing isnt as black and white as preppy white media would have you believe
@@user-oz1ny no, it's not arguably self defense. A dude in his car, at stop, with no weapon, dozens of feet from you is not a threat to your life, at all. Your not even allowed to shoot someone if they are walking away from you in most instances, that will get you a murder charge. She only got manslaughter because he previously tried to kidnap her and made threats, if it wasn't for that, she would have gotten murder 100%. The fact that she was charged at all proves the judge and jury didn't see it as self defense at all. People need to stop thinking self defense is super broad, it's not. Many people thought they were killing in self defense only to end up in prison on a murder charge. Self defense isn't as Grey as you think it is.
7 years isn't a bad trade off for knowing your loved ones are safe. police can't usually do anything until it's too late anyway, if they even try to help in the first place. still awful that she resorted to murder but i honestly don't blame her and she seems accepting of her punishment.
Yeah I mean the guy tried to kidnap her. Pretty justified in my opinion.
What the actual F is wrong with that lady that took off right before the wedding? Sounds like she's constantly having some type of crisis? She should probably get help for that instead of messing with everyone else's head.
Funny how when ever a woman does something toxic or wrong in a relation “she needs help, or therapy” bro no, she’s evil and manipulative for taking advantage of those two men
@@damnitsisrael5429 well yeah, manipulative people do need therapy, no matter the gender
Perfect timing, like always. Time to relax, thanks!
YaY!!!!! Been waiting all day for a few good stories!
Love it! Never disappoints!
That last story the guy sounds like a jerk. Like she told him no, he threw a tantrum and the proceeded to ignore Angel and her families wishes for him to leave them alone.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
@@thechosenonessunshine7772can you please shudup please thank you
yay!! Hi Joel I love your channel it gets me through some pretty tough moments
Ahh yes. Just got off work and am off tomorrow. Now to unwind to my daily dose of Joel and some beer 👍🏻
wow that last guy. blew up cuz she didn't want to have sex? bye boy.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho)
Ohhhh my God, have I got the psycho ex story to end ALL psycho ex stories... Just gotta not be lazy and type it up so I can submit it haha. I gotta say, thank GOD that language isn't a problem for this channel lmao. It'll have everything from fraud to attempted murder and I'm not even exaggerating. Just glad that I had enough wits about me to achieve a positive outcome and be able to get the story told
Please, we need to know!
Im here and Im ready!!!🍿
So glad you did this scrubbed up version to suit my time zone..... And probably many others think this from over the pond.... Can't wait to now start listening to another gem of yours 🇬🇧♥️🇬🇧♥️🇬🇧
Ah perfect timing just about to start knitting! Thanks Joel!❤️
Exes are the reason why I don't think I'm fit for a relationship.
The last part of story 3 hit hard, my parents used me and my other two siblings as bait/leverage/ammo whenever they were near each other during their divorce period. It was really hard watching them scream and overall just act horrible towards one another. I agree that children should most definitely be the priority in these situations. My perception of marriage and love has been heavily messed with but I’m committed to changing that, period
Story 5: Of course a woman saying she needs to go “find herself” means she’s f-ing someone else. How naive.
incel spotted
Or maybe she just isn't ready to stay in one situation forever.
Women also go to great lengths not to hurt men's feelings because men are stronger than us plus we'resocialized not to hurt anyone's feelings.
If she knows the relationship won't last, she might try to be kind by saying some variation of "It's not you, it's me."
Fantastic set of stories, and as always, terrific read. Thanks!👏
My favorite type of stories from my favorite narrator. Thanks!
Ive noticed most guys who go through this are extremely naive and almost had it coming, and the last guy is the crazy ex acting like he isn't
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
The last story was told from the CRAZY EXS POV definitely.
A 22 year old broke unemployed gamer can't figure out why his ex girl wouldn't give him any 😅. He seems like a genius among his other awesome qualities 😅
For the guy in the 1st story he should get a ring camera and a camera for his car to use as possible evidence if she decides to try an do something in person
Omg the last story… wtf… the first dinner he had with her family THEY HELD HANDS IN PRAYER! Did you ever think she wanted to SAVE HERSELF FOR MARRIAGE?!
Or maybe she was assaulted before and too much physical stuff would overwhelm her. You never freaking know!
This compilation of stories was fantastic ! Thanks, Joel ☺️
Hey! You’re doing great!
The wait is finally over let’s gooo
Thank you Let's Read ❤️
I dont understand how people in relationships that are already terrible feel like they have a right to bring children into the situation. Please use contraception. We have enough messed up people running around.
I love these type of stories! Do more pls
New to the experience ❤ love the narratives
Angel's ex sounds like a real "nice guy"
I sympathize with the person who shot and killed their ex-partner because they likely felt that killing them was their only option. We all know that the police can't help you unless you're hurt, and a restraining order won't protect you from someone insane enough to stalk and potentially murder you. Consider the intense anxiety and genuine belief that killing someone was the only way out of such a terrifying situation.
Always a pleasure when I can just say that these stories were excellent choices and perfectly read.
Erin is a true sociopath (a narcissist who seeks out empaths to eat), there isn't a chance she won't scar those she is near. Keep praying for that daughter, especially that she doesn't turn out just like her mother.
Connie reminds me of a close call in my life, never got THAT bad, but a raging personality disorder like that (usually a type of BPD) can make it "easier" to fake ur own death than anything else in order to gain back peace in your life. When he said it stopped, I knew, she had a new victim.
And the last one, arguably written by the "crazy ex" himself, was a nice touch.
Looking forward to these tomes of terror. Let's Read!!!
Dude, these were awesome! Poor, Aunt Sue, she be tryin
Story 2 chick "my dad taught me every nook and cranny of gun ownership." This chick has no idea of what gun safety is if she just basically takes a gun out of a safe and merc someone for no reason. That's a terrible person who shouldn't be allowed a gun
Agreed 100%😌🙄(she could had least called the cops & let them do their d* jobs)
I’m so glad that the people that in the stories got away from the ex’s
Thank you so much Joel you’re absolutely brilliant and I love listening to you every single night 👑😍
I was married only once, from 1984 to 1988. We fought a lot, mainly about our lack of money. Her parents were well off city dwellers and my farm parents had struggled for a long time but by the time my Irish immigrant dad passed in '89 were quite well off. My wife was used to getting whatever she wanted, spoiled might be a good word. I was raised to fix broken equipment to make it last until it became useless scrap metal. Raised to be frugal. On the rare occasion we needed to borrow a neighbor's piece of equipment, we always brought it back in better condition than it was when borrowed. You mustn't bite the hand that feeds you. Our divorce was amicable with the only thing I had to pay for was $150 for her to regain her maiden name. Oh, and I was awarded her credit card bill to the tune of $4000 as well as the house mortgage. The VA forgave their share of our loan and thankfully I sold the property for break even. We got along worlds better afterwards, became good friends. I haven't seen her now for at least 28 years. I occasionally think about her and hope she's happy and healthy wherever she is.
Hell yeah, I enjoy the exes and dating app video's! Makes me avoid them when I hear these kinda stories.
Thank you let's read!!!
Guy in the last story had two chances and he blew them, no sympathy from me
Whether true or not, these are some good stories. 👍
"Joe's not a violent guy." Hey, dummy, I bet you said that Joe isn't a stalker either. Thank goodness for the fiancée. I can't stand "most people are good" bleeding hearts.
Live in the real world.
Right?
I feel a lack of sympathy for the guy in the last story. He seems a bit selfish.
A bit? The jackass went full incel and exploded at a woman who wasn't down for being intimate (instead of, you know, sitting down with her and having a nonjudgmental discussion on her reasoning - maybe she wants to wait until marriage, maybe she's ace + sex repulsed, maybe she's been through some trauma, or maybe she was just not ready, who can say), and then violently assaulted her brother when he refused to let the creep see her. Angel ultimately dodged a bullet, and this fool squandered the opportunity for a potentially loving relationship with her (+ with her family, who seemed nice), and will possibly now have a record for assault, all because he decided to throw a tantrum over not getting his dick wet. No matter what happens after he turns himself in, he needs to seek therapy ASAP.
It's never a mistake to buy a gun, and personally what you did with it was justified imo, yes you went about wrong, but how long would it have taken for your ex to attack you? Giving you no choice but self defense? Your daughters may not understand at the moment what you did or why you did it, but hopefully when they grow up they'll realize you did it for them and to protect them from a monster, in the end its for the best
Psycho alert!! She killed an unarmed man and you still think she a victim!? You need to see a therapist.
That man would’ve definitely killed her and those girls
@hfgfdfg tfyfffg The guy was a pos that threatened her life, her families lives, and her children's lives, that's the kind of person the world can do without, when your dealing with someone like this, being unarmed has nothing to do with it, because they don't change, they only get worse. She did go about it the wrong way, but only cause she can't claim self defense now, in the end all she did was get ahead of the situation before he actually did end up hurting someone, no great loss imo...
@@Mr.andMrs.Smith_0420 using that logic I can go out and kill some people who made death threats to me and my family and I want to get ahead of the situation . What she did was murder, flat out. It's a failure of the justice system that she only got manslaughter and 7 years. She deserves life in prison.
I love these stories before bed ❤🤍
Like all others I agree, that last guy doesn't know how to take no for an answer. Wrong mindset, buddy...I pray for your future partners.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
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OMG the last guys sound like a real jerk. That he can't take NO for an answer, and treats a girl who sounds like has been nothing but nice, and her family very welcoming, like this. Obviously, she comes from a religious family and probably holds certain beliefs. Even if not, she doesn't have to explain herself. If anyone who knows Angel is listening to this, tell her to stay away from this jerk. If this is a real story, by his own account, he's presented himself as selfish, insensitive, and has anger issues if he doesn't get his way. Let's hope she never decides to forgive him.
I have sympathy for that guy in the last story bcus not only did he apologize but the family didn't even forgive him & they hold a grudge🙄& angel brother (first attacked him when the guy came to only just visit harmlessly, mind you🙄 & wanted to hear her voice/see her & make amends & holding bitterness in their hearts is like drinking poison & expecting the other person to die & btw let's not forget about the fact that the family didn't even explain why angel couldn't get intimate with him🙄(which can be many reasons why she didn't want to be intimate) & she just cried without an explanation like wtf,🙄if the family was going to get all petty & do all of that then they could of at least give that guy an explanation as to why their mad🙄 & explain themselves their reason why they don't want her to get intimate until marriage (tho they never even said until marriage part in his story) if they're Christians then they of all people should understand that & explain their actions/beliefs to him (bcus not everyone is a Christian & understand that lifestyle about waiting til marriage🙄) so the family is truly in the wrong here not him, (except him lashing out on her) leaving him hanging in the dark, im just saying, at least he apologize but what did the family do, they actions said they hate him & don't forgive him & want him gone from her life because of a mistake that all humans make in life🙄, before showing no sympathy, at least walk in his shoes first before showing no sympathy & dont get me wrong, he did made a mistake of flipping out, but the thing is, some ppl probably would of flip out too if been in a relationship for a long time only to be turned down every time u try to get intimate, im just saying,🙄 (if their Christians then explain themselves so he'll no in advance if that's what he wants in a relationship to wait til marriage etc, I mean its not like he threw things in her house against/at the wall or body slammed her or punch her, or kidnapped her or forced her to get intimate then i can understand but this is just my opinion, but u can agree to disagree tho
The fact that the last guy wrong that completely thinking people would agree that his ex owes him sex.. the fact that people think their significant other owes them sex..
He is in the wrong but Angela should have told him if she was the no sex til marriage type. Yes she doesn't owe him sex but don't get into a relationship if your not willing to have sex with your partner. Whether people like it or not, sex is a huge part of nearly all relationships. People expect to be able to have sex with their bf/gf. If your not willing to be intimate with your partner then you might as well be just friends. Obviously Angela and him didn't have any discussion about these things in those 6 months
@@justarandomuser8434 If someone wants a relationship before they get married how can that happen if u say don’t get into a relationship if you can’t have sex. Also you just stated how most people, including yourself, expect to be able to have sex with your partner. You shouldn’t expect anything out of anyone. No one owes you anything. You don’t deserve anything until you work for it.
@@subhub637 pick a partner that agrees with your views, its pretty simple. this dude clearly was not religious so why did she choose him? she should know better than that. if it is a regular relationship and your not saving yourself, don't get into a relationship if your not willing to have sex. if you don't like sex, find someone who also doesn't like it but don't pick someone who does and then deny them, that is beyond messed up and childish. on another note, so if im dating a girl, she shouldn't expect loyalty from me? she shouldn't expect any financial support or emotional support from me? she shouldn't expect intimacy from me? she hasn't earned. what is even the point of being in a relationship if you can't expect anything from your partner? your view on relationships and people is very wrong. also what do you think typically happens before you start a relationship? its a thing called going on dates. men don't do that out of the kindness of their heart, its them working towards getting laid. if they've been dating for six months, dude has likely earned some sex (in this case no because of her religious beliefs). most people would have walked away by this point.
@@justarandomuser8434my view is wrong yet you compare emotional support to sex😂ok.
@@justarandomuser8434 You say you only take girls out to get laid, not for your enjoyment but you say my view on relationships is wrong?😭😂😂😂
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guy in the last story thought we would be on his side Fr💀