I am a woman! And I 100 Billion percent approve this message. I am in the midst of listening to it and I already know where you are going with it Prophet! In good faith, Women I pray you ask God for patience to listen and understanding to comprehend what the man of God is saying. I pray, as women, as Christian women, don't be defensive and insecure. This would save time and energy in therapy sessions down the road. You would build a healthier foundation for your relationship. I have worked as a therapist and Psychology professor for years. From a professional and spiritual perspective, Prophet Tomi is speaking the TRUTH!!! God bless you Man of God! Keep speaking. Who needs to hear and accept will hear and accept. Praise God! Amen!
The Hannah's are indispensable but it is thankless on nearly all sides except Elkanah got blessed where lack was previously and Israel lost a very wicked priesthood and the prophetic world came back fiercely as Samuel's words never fell to the ground even if a whole bunch of disobedient liars and idolaters had to
Men if you are courting a would be minister and you aren't in ministry yourself Better look close at those Joyce Meyers husband's life real close before you decide to ... if you aren't willing to truly give your whole existence to God almighty to do whatever He wants ( and her spiritual ambition will be very demanding on your everything ) I ain't saying run from her but you better know how to run to HIM and stay in it all the time because the enemy will crucify every area He can get access to every minute of every day ... Better to have a mate who has temptations coming for them but they resist and stay repented up than one who seems to not have any temptations at all for when the heat is on what comes to the surface is what is inside still if you haven't seen the reaction to persecution come yet remember you are the one they will seek security from and if you don't really have it and you can't go to HIM for it ...... You ain't gonna be able to fake it or make it even if you dress that pig up nice it is still pork and you can't make pork kosher Perhaps my last metaphor was a bit overboard Don't through yourself overboard because it looks less dangerous than the boat fire 🔥 You better know how to swim exceptionally and well the sharks are never gonna be vegan
I grew up in the Caribbean in the days where women wore dress or skirts only no makeup no earrings so I don't care about these things I wear it sometimes but I can do without it. When I came to the USA I still wore my dress because I really prefer them especially as I got older, I just can't do the tight clothes 😂. I ended up on the worship team at a church and I noticed after a while that the women stopped wearing jeans with tears in them or tight fitting clothes on the stage while they were worshipping, we can be an influence without even trying to just lead the way.
Thank You Prophet for teaching this! The Lord has revealed to me that I carry this mantle and has been teaching me about the importance of submitting to my future husband and showing me that my pride is my biggest obstacle. I recieve this word!
I grew up listening to Beyonce, and nobody was there to tell me about Deborah. Thank you for these teaching cause I could tell if I carry on like this. I was going to destroy my family. This is God's mercy 🥺
I am 51 minutes in this and I want to clench my invisible pearls and at the same time yell "YEESSS". I am convicted but I need more of this! Thank you!! I may not speak for all women but I will speak for myself. This is needed.
Prophet this an amazing learning. Scripture is on point and as a now divorced woman, I personally took 7 yrs to get back in fellowship with Christ to understand my position and it has been phenomenal. Through God's grace, he has been consecrating my spirit, mind and soul. So many revelations and now, I'm ready and armed to be the woman God has called me to be! Ladys, this perspective from a man is powerful! Those that have ears 👂 to hear let him hear!
Really good teaching prophet I’m tired of getting it wrong. I know at times I was watching and listening to others and I used the pain and disappointment of old relationships to distort my true identity and character and Love that is in me. Thank you for the Truth, I have done most of what you mentioned most times on purpose. I want to be married but am glad I am learning how to be a better woman and wife!!❤
1:21:11 The glory goes to God for this teaching. Very timely for this time and season. God bless you prophet Tomi. Been making many of these mistakes and this message has been such an eye opener for me. Stay blessed🙏🏾🙏🏾
this is amazing teaching. i had no idea i was doing this and probably the reason my first marriage ended. i will not make this mistake again with Gods help after hearing this teaching.
Sorry to hear your first marraige ended. There is no condemnation in Christ ❤ We need to know the truth in God’s word. A husband loving his wife plays a big role in how God intended marraige to be. Sadly, it’s being flipped upside down to make women feel they need to do more to keep a man . “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” Ephesians 5:25-33 KJV bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.
This is very very true! Thank you for your boldness and unconditional love for the body of Christ. This was needed and needed to be said Apostle Tomi. Keeping speaking MOG. Blessings.
This message is so so GOOD!! Thank you for this video. For those of us who want to grow and be better we will take this message, meditate on it then apply it to our lives 🔥
To be able to speak like this it means you speak out of personal experience. We've been together for more than 44 years, have been faithful to eachother from day one, loving eachother more than when we started because of Jesus and Him alone. He is the only One who was is and always be able to transform both of us, both of us being a work in progress fixing our eyes on one goal: hear Him say "well done". We're both put in the garden of life, tending it with love, service, wisdom, respect, understanding, patience etc. all provided by God our Father through praying and fasting together. God bless you, your family and team brother Tomi
I laughed and cried . Like you were describing me. And I didn't want you to shout. Say it silently because it's the truth..when we women fight we do it viciously! Women are powerful.
Peebles and Sniper? That was good! I needed to hear this video 20 years ago, but better late than not at all for future references. I respect a man who is honest. I have not come across that many but I remember one man being honest with me up front to not mess up our friendship and I respect that man to this day. Yes, the truth does hurt depending on what the situation, but I rather hurt a little bit and be set free to move forward than to live in a lie. The truth hurts but a lie kills the relationship. Thank you Tomi!
Great teaching, write a book! I think it would be good for premarital counseling too! I am a divorced pastor’s wife after 32 years of marriage. Please make mention of those who are co-dependents also. They wouldn’t dream of checking their husband’s, phone etc., but have other ’peebles.’ God bless you and your family!!
Thank you Prophet Tomi. I take your word this morning and I know i have to repent to the Lord and to my husband. You put words to a wrong actitud that grieve the Holy Spirit. I don’t want to destroy my home.
Thank you for your msg. Honestly speaking, both man n woman have to reflect n re-examine their hearts. Your views about woman from a man's standpoint is impartial but straightforward n that is good. For anyone of us who has a good conscience n a right mind will want to correct what is wrong especially if we cannot see our own blind spots. Yes, humility to admit one's mistake or folly is commendable. PTL for truth and sincerity.
This is one of the best messages on women that I have heard in recent times. God bless you for not mincing your words or hiding the truth. And yes I am a woman. God help us
Can I say well done!! Truth with clear depiction of who and what we should never be! Praise God for a man who is not intimidated to speak truth in love, for the Fathers heart is so large and you have shared it!! Don’t ever shrink back sir!! ❤
Just came across this TH-cam video (a year later), I'm so glad i did. This is one of the best talks for a woman I have ever heard. Thank you, Prophet, for stating the true. It is so needed today. Women need to hear this even though it is challenging. THE TRUTH SHALL SET US FREE 🙌🏾
Thank God for a bold and compassionate effort to save our women from the deception that wasn't doing them any good. Most male counselors and preachers have helped women remain in error by praising their pebbles while crucifying men for their boulders. Also loose dressing among women is hardly rebuked these days, but when men misbehave as a result, they face severe penalties, another example of 'pebbles and boulders' situation. This message is an endtime rescue operation for all of us. Praise God!
I love your teaching and humor. Although I missed the live, I still however appreciate your wisdom on this subject. Please continue to do what the Lord puts in your spirit!
I tell you I have never laughed so hard listening to this truth!!! I am a strong personality learning submission!!! So I will say this, Thank you, first of all for the laughter which turned into my medicine!!! Good for the soul!
This was such an eye opener and I know sometimes us women get defensive and don't want to hear the truth. I was divorced 17 years ago after 21 years of marriage, and my ex decided to end it and married someone else 3 weeks after our divorce. I had to learn to forgive but spent the last 17 years learning the principles of God, what needs to change in me not because I thought i was a bad person or did anything wrong. However, I knew that we are ever growing and learning and I have spent years understanding the psychology of men and women. This is so helpful and God has taught me so much as I stayed yielded to Him. I am so excited and in anticipation of my next relationship. It shall be quite blissful as we both build the vision God has for us. Thank you for your courage to speak on these things and I pray we lay our pebbles down and listen with wisdom. God bless you.🙏🏾
This was a very good and relevant teaching. I also pray that you get a chance to circle back around to the Debroah teaching because I had my pen and paper ready!!
So I recently discovered Prophets Tomi and Tobi. I was listening to this message replay this morning while driving and was shocked when at 22 mins he called my name and said “Hariet Potter silent treatment is the spirit of witchcraft”. Now idk if there was someone else watching this when it aired life with the same name but I believe this entire message was for me personally. A year ago it may have seemed out of place because I was single but today with the change in my circumstances and recent turn of events, this is a timely message! Will listen till I grasp everything that can help me navigate this season!
Oh my goodness, this is soooo good. I am a Deborah woman. And this is all truth, the truth shall set you free. Preach it Bro Prophet.!!😂❤️ I am listening and learning
This 100% accurate! Thank you for delivering truth in love. Some women didn’t have male figures to speak this into them. This is like Mordecai preparing Esther.
This is the truth “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” Ephesians 5:25-33 KJV bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.
Woman Up and The Price of Being a Deborah have taught me more than I’ve ever learned in my life of how to behave the way I was formed! I listen to them over and over always gaining more insight to even one sentence that slipped by. I can not thank you enough Apostle Tomi Arayomi! God Bless You and Your Warrior Wife! 🙏👑✝️🕊️🔥
My Gosh, what an amazing message! I am 60 this year and was in ministry for 20 of those years. Counseled as a pastor for 12 of those years. Prophet, you nailed it...hit it on the head! Just found you and have been listening to you daily. "Revelation IS the platform." Thank you, love you and deeply respect you! - Erick
This was a very timely and needed message. Thank you so much, Apostle Tomi for your wisdom and heart for the people. I laughed, I almost cried from laughter, but I took notes and I’ll re-listen to this one again. #GetRigged
This is 💯 accurate. Great teaching. As a married woman, these teachings are not only accurate, but biblical. A strong marriage doesn’t just happen, it is built. A woman is just as responsible for their role and making their marriage successful as a man. My prayer is that we allow ourselves to hear the truth and allow Holy Spirit to cut out what needs to go so that we can be the wives and leaders we were created to be. We must be willing to love correction from the Lord. He corrects us because He loves us. Love will not compromise truth because of pride and offense. Love speaks truth. Love and truth are married. We all have things we are working on. ♥️🔥🔥🔥♥️
Wow, what an interesting teaching, praise be to God Prophet. Thank you for the transparency and this teaching is and will build household to those who will chose to listen and take it in.
You gave a prophetic word about me at when women pray that I'm a Deborah of my time 3 years ago, and few weeks ago I saw Deborah Enenche Hawthorne give me one of her dresses, I now remembered the word you gave about me, I've been trying to seek clarity from God until I stumbled on this message.
What you're saying is absolutely true. I am a woman, been a woman all of my life and what you are teaching is true. If we as women would all be honest the words you're speaking are spirit and life. Glory to God for a man of God who understands and won't be punked by spirits of domination and ignorance. Glory to God, I'm loving it.
So spot on the money Tomi, when you say about a wife's response/reaction to a man's honesty....... experiencing alot of what your saying right now.........Please please keep speaking about what you speaking about! Women's defenseness of the truth can be there own downfall!
Wow! Thank you for this. The Peebles missed me up. Bless you for doing the Lord's work. I've had a lot of Peebles. Jesus is cleaning me up one day at a time.
Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Apostle Tomi! You are preaching truth!! I am a woman and you are speaking my language! Lord search my heart ♥️ I don't want to be like this when I get married. May God bless you for speaking truth 😊
Man of God you are speaking truth, the problem its not just because we want to br in charge, but when your in a marriage where you are honor your husband as head of the house or priest of the home but he is never there, but won't see me as a partner
Excellent!! Teaching!! I’m enjoying this you stepped on my toes when you talked about that phone 📱! I thank God I have been delivered from that. God through the Holy Spirit showed me i was out of order and I needed to shift. We should be in the second gear. To shift the Nation!!!
Tracking with you Prophet. These teachings are helping me. There isn’t any good example of a godly marriage in my bloodline nor did I have a present father to speak into me. I’m hearing everything you’re saying thru a concerned father’s heart. Hope more Deborahs arise and feel convicted to receive this message.
I thank God for this teaching. I thank the apóstol for being obedient. This is a green light for me. I believe the whole message has been written in my spirit by God long time ago. I wasn't positive to preach it, I confess as a woman is a very complicated subject to bring to church. I accep the mission. I will start as soon as possible.
Knowing the mind of men is helpful to us because we need to understand how they experience life. We are different and we experience life differently. It goes the same for men, they need to know how we experience life. This message is very insightful and helpful.
I am a woman! And I 100 Billion percent approve this message. I am in the midst of listening to it and I already know where you are going with it Prophet! In good faith, Women I pray you ask God for patience to listen and understanding to comprehend what the man of God is saying. I pray, as women, as Christian women, don't be defensive and insecure. This would save time and energy in therapy sessions down the road. You would build a healthier foundation for your relationship. I have worked as a therapist and Psychology professor for years. From a professional and spiritual perspective, Prophet Tomi is speaking the TRUTH!!! God bless you Man of God! Keep speaking. Who needs to hear and accept will hear and accept. Praise God! Amen!
You are right...and I got a msg from God not to do it again...but still get tempted..lol..God help me
Yes sister, so glad you said this......👏🏼👏🏼
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The Hannah's are indispensable but it is thankless on nearly all sides except Elkanah got blessed where lack was previously and Israel lost a very wicked priesthood and the prophetic world came back fiercely as Samuel's words never fell to the ground even if a whole bunch of disobedient liars and idolaters had to
Men if you are courting a would be minister and you aren't in ministry yourself
Better look close at those Joyce Meyers husband's life real close before you decide to ... if you aren't willing to truly give your whole existence to God almighty to do whatever He wants ( and her spiritual ambition will be very demanding on your everything ) I ain't saying run from her but you better know how to run to HIM and stay in it all the time because the enemy will crucify every area He can get access to every minute of every day ...
Better to have a mate who has temptations coming for them but they resist and stay repented up than one who seems to not have any temptations at all for when the heat is on what comes to the surface is what is inside still if you haven't seen the reaction to persecution come yet remember you are the one they will seek security from and if you don't really have it and you can't go to HIM for it ......
You ain't gonna be able to fake it or make it even if you dress that pig up nice it is still pork and you can't make pork kosher
Perhaps my last metaphor was a bit overboard
Don't through yourself overboard because it looks less dangerous than the boat fire 🔥
You better know how to swim exceptionally and well the sharks are never gonna be vegan
I grew up in the Caribbean in the days where women wore dress or skirts only no makeup no earrings so I don't care about these things I wear it sometimes but I can do without it. When I came to the USA I still wore my dress because I really prefer them especially as I got older, I just can't do the tight clothes 😂. I ended up on the worship team at a church and I noticed after a while that the women stopped wearing jeans with tears in them or tight fitting clothes on the stage while they were worshipping, we can be an influence without even trying to just lead the way.
“The truth doesn’t make you happy, it sets you free.” Mic drop statement!!!🔥🔥🔥
Thank You Prophet for teaching this! The Lord has revealed to me that I carry this mantle and has been teaching me about the importance of submitting to my future husband and showing me that my pride is my biggest obstacle. I recieve this word!
I grew up listening to Beyonce, and nobody was there to tell me about Deborah.
Thank you for these teaching cause I could tell if I carry on like this. I was going to destroy my family. This is God's mercy 🥺
This man is beyond wise! I am so glad I ran across this page! I’m taking notes!!
I am 51 minutes in this and I want to clench my invisible pearls and at the same time yell "YEESSS". I am convicted but I need more of this! Thank you!! I may not speak for all women but I will speak for myself. This is needed.
Take time to be on the word. Not from him. God will give us wisdom.
“Your pebbles his boulders.” 🤯
This is 100% APPROVED!
It’s time to Heal and Arise
😂😂😂 “God are you finished? Were you sleeping when you made her!” This live was needed but also hilarious!
I needed to hear this. Thank you for being honest with us.
I just watched this again for the second time and it is so rich. ❤️🔥
“David fell looking through one window. Do you know how many windows are open on his phone?” Even As a single man that hit me! 🔥
I love this message…very convicting and funny at the same time.
Prophet this an amazing learning. Scripture is on point and as a now divorced woman, I personally took 7 yrs to get back in fellowship with Christ to understand my position and it has been phenomenal. Through God's grace, he has been consecrating my spirit, mind and soul. So many revelations and now, I'm ready and armed to be the woman God has called me to be! Ladys, this perspective from a man is powerful! Those that have ears 👂 to hear let him hear!
Really good teaching prophet I’m tired of getting it wrong. I know at times I was watching and listening to others and I used the pain and disappointment of old relationships to distort my true identity and character and Love that is in me. Thank you for the Truth, I have done most of what you mentioned most times on purpose. I want to be married but am glad I am learning how to be a better woman and wife!!❤
When do we learn about DEBORAH??
@@janicemcdonnell224 did you manage to miss it?
Thats what i want to know too.@janicemcdonnell224
Thanks!
1:21:11 The glory goes to God for this teaching. Very timely for this time and season. God bless you prophet Tomi.
Been making many of these mistakes and this message has been such an eye opener for me.
Stay blessed🙏🏾🙏🏾
Caught a part of the live and came back to watch the replay. You are indeed teaching truth and correcting us.
this is amazing teaching. i had no idea i was doing this and probably the reason my first marriage ended. i will not make this mistake again with Gods help after hearing this teaching.
Respect your humility & honesty......👏🏼👏🏼
Such humility
Sorry to hear your first marraige ended. There is no condemnation in Christ ❤
We need to know the truth in God’s word. A husband loving his wife plays a big role in how God intended marraige to be. Sadly, it’s being flipped upside down to make women feel they need to do more to keep a man .
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians 5:25-33 KJV
bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV
Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.
This is very very true! Thank you for your boldness and unconditional love for the body of Christ. This was needed and needed to be said Apostle Tomi. Keeping speaking MOG. Blessings.
This message is so so GOOD!! Thank you for this video. For those of us who want to grow and be better we will take this message, meditate on it then apply it to our lives 🔥
This has helped me so much! Please keep teaching such as this coming. I am really observing myself!
Couldn’t agree more ♥️
To be able to speak like this it means you speak out of personal experience. We've been together for more than 44 years, have been faithful to eachother from day one, loving eachother more than when we started because of Jesus and Him alone. He is the only One who was is and always be able to transform both of us, both of us being a work in progress fixing our eyes on one goal: hear Him say "well done". We're both put in the garden of life, tending it with love, service, wisdom, respect, understanding, patience etc. all provided by God our Father through praying and fasting together. God bless you, your family and team brother Tomi
I'm enjoying this so much! Your humor is so refreshing. Preach on to the sisters! The dress code really needs to be addressed. It's embarrassing.
Thank you for this message 💕 we need more teaching like this.
I laughed and cried . Like you were describing me. And I didn't want you to shout. Say it silently because it's the truth..when we women fight we do it viciously! Women are powerful.
Peebles and Sniper? That was good! I needed to hear this video 20 years ago, but better late than not at all for future references. I respect a man who is honest. I have not come across that many but I remember one man being honest with me up front to not mess up our friendship and I respect that man to this day. Yes, the truth does hurt depending on what the situation, but I rather hurt a little bit and be set free to move forward than to live in a lie. The truth hurts but a lie kills the relationship. Thank you Tomi!
謝謝！
Great teaching, write a book! I think it would be good for premarital counseling too! I am a divorced pastor’s wife after 32 years of marriage. Please make mention of those who are co-dependents also. They wouldn’t dream of checking their husband’s, phone etc., but have other ’peebles.’ God bless you and your family!!
Thank you Prophet Tomi the truth dosen't make you happy ,it sets you free!!!
Thank you Prophet Tomi. I take your word this morning and I know i have to repent to the Lord and to my husband. You put words to a wrong actitud that grieve the Holy Spirit. I don’t want to destroy my home.
the “comment section” part got me😭😭
Prophet Tomi
Continue to Speak the Word, for us Women to be Free and Healed.
Amen
Yesssss Amennnn Tomi!!🙌🏽🙌🏽👌🏼👌🏼👏🏼😊 That spirit of Pride in women! I am suffering it right now......😮💨😮💨
Brilliant teaching and so true. Thank you apostle Tomi.
Lord forgive me for the pebbles.
Thank you for your msg. Honestly speaking, both man n woman have to reflect n re-examine their hearts. Your views about woman from a man's standpoint is impartial but straightforward n that is good. For anyone of us who has a good conscience n a right mind will want to correct what is wrong especially if we cannot see our own blind spots. Yes, humility to admit one's mistake or folly is commendable.
PTL for truth and sincerity.
This is one of the best messages on women that I have heard in recent times. God bless you for not mincing your words or hiding the truth. And yes I am a woman. God help us
Can I say well done!! Truth with clear depiction of who and what we should never be! Praise God for a man who is not intimidated to speak truth in love, for the Fathers heart is so large and you have shared it!! Don’t ever shrink back sir!! ❤
Just came across this TH-cam video (a year later), I'm so glad i did. This is one of the best talks for a woman I have ever heard. Thank you, Prophet, for stating the true. It is so needed today. Women need to hear this even though it is challenging. THE TRUTH SHALL SET US FREE 🙌🏾
Love this teaching so much,sent it to the women in my life;my daughter n my two daughters in law.God bless you Prophet. I know it's for me too.
Thank God for a bold and compassionate effort to save our women from the deception that wasn't doing them any good. Most male counselors and preachers have helped women remain in error by praising their pebbles while crucifying men for their boulders. Also loose dressing among women is hardly rebuked these days, but when men misbehave as a result, they face severe penalties, another example of 'pebbles and boulders' situation.
This message is an endtime rescue operation for all of us. Praise God!
Congratulations prophet Arayomi on your own channel Invazion. Extremely powerful message on "The price of being a Deborah"
I love your teaching and humor. Although I missed the live, I still however appreciate your wisdom on this subject. Please continue to do what the Lord puts in your spirit!
This is tough! I have always thought the day I’m
Silent I’m gone literally gone from that relationship..
This was a blessed and convicting message. I literally am free!!!
I tell you I have never laughed so hard listening to this truth!!! I am a strong personality learning submission!!! So I will say this, Thank you, first of all for the laughter which turned into my medicine!!! Good for the soul!
"The mantle of Deborah must come upon the Virtuous women so that it doesn't manifest itself on Jezebel"
This was such an eye opener and I know sometimes us women get defensive and don't want to hear the truth. I was divorced 17 years ago after 21 years of marriage, and my ex decided to end it and married someone else 3 weeks after our divorce. I had to learn to forgive but spent the last 17 years learning the principles of God, what needs to change in me not because I thought i was a bad person or did anything wrong. However, I knew that we are ever growing and learning and I have spent years understanding the psychology of men and women. This is so helpful and God has taught me so much as I stayed yielded to Him. I am so excited and in anticipation of my next relationship. It shall be quite blissful as we both build the vision God has for us. Thank you for your courage to speak on these things and I pray we lay our pebbles down and listen with wisdom. God bless you.🙏🏾
This was a very good and relevant teaching. I also pray that you get a chance to circle back around to the Debroah teaching because I had my pen and paper ready!!
I agree with the Sister that 100 billion percent approves of this message! Openness and honesty! Tamable beast! Yesssss Pastor
Analyzing my pebbles right now. Loving correction....holy spirit search my heart. So that my pebbles don't dam up the river in my marriage
I loved this message....
I was blessed. Thank you apostle
So I recently discovered Prophets Tomi and Tobi. I was listening to this message replay this morning while driving and was shocked when at 22 mins he called my name and said “Hariet Potter silent treatment is the spirit of witchcraft”. Now idk if there was someone else watching this when it aired life with the same name but I believe this entire message was for me personally. A year ago it may have seemed out of place because I was single but today with the change in my circumstances and recent turn of events, this is a timely message! Will listen till I grasp everything that can help me navigate this season!
Oh my goodness, this is soooo good. I am a Deborah woman. And this is all truth, the truth shall set you free. Preach it Bro Prophet.!!😂❤️ I am listening and learning
I love your boldness!! You are not lying! I didn’t realize you were so funny! “Coordinates…”. 😊😅😅
❤❤❤thank you for this
I also sent it to my church women platform. So rich n annointed.
This 100% accurate! Thank you for delivering truth in love. Some women didn’t have male figures to speak this into them. This is like Mordecai preparing Esther.
This is the truth
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”
Ephesians 5:25-33 KJV
bible.com/bible/1/eph.5.25-33.KJV
Love precedes respect. This is God’s order and I am so shocked that women feel they need to “dim their light” to be wives. This is so sad.
Keep doing what you are doing! I’m a woman and I loved your lesson on Eve being a warrior and the lack of being a Proverb 31 woman! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You don’t need to be prophetic to understand practical wisdom. Great advice and this is real!!
Woman Up and The Price of Being a Deborah have taught me more than I’ve ever learned in my life of how to behave the way I was formed! I listen to them over and over always gaining more insight to even one sentence that slipped by. I can not thank you enough Apostle Tomi Arayomi! God Bless You and Your Warrior Wife! 🙏👑✝️🕊️🔥
Dang best marriage advice I've ever received lol so true and convicting 🤯🔥
My Gosh, what an amazing message! I am 60 this year and was in ministry for 20 of those years. Counseled as a pastor for 12 of those years. Prophet, you nailed it...hit it on the head! Just found you and have been listening to you daily. "Revelation IS the platform." Thank you, love you and deeply respect you!
- Erick
Absolutely Powerful Teaching!!! So Good! THANK You!!!
This was a very timely and needed message. Thank you so much, Apostle Tomi for your wisdom and heart for the people.
I laughed, I almost cried from laughter, but I took notes and I’ll re-listen to this one again. #GetRigged
Praise God I love this man's preaching listening from South Africa
This is so good!
This is so insightful thank you so much sir
This is 💯 accurate. Great teaching. As a married woman, these teachings are not only accurate, but biblical. A strong marriage doesn’t just happen, it is built. A woman is just as responsible for their role and making their marriage successful as a man. My prayer is that we allow ourselves to hear the truth and allow Holy Spirit to cut out what needs to go so that we can be the wives and leaders we were created to be. We must be willing to love correction from the Lord. He corrects us because He loves us. Love will not compromise truth because of pride and offense. Love speaks truth. Love and truth are married. We all have things we are working on. ♥️🔥🔥🔥♥️
Amazing teaching Brother!
Thank you for sharing this! I receive this!
Wow, what an interesting teaching, praise be to God Prophet. Thank you for the transparency and this teaching is and will build household to those who will chose to listen and take it in.
Excellent excellent teaching! Thank you!
You gave a prophetic word about me at when women pray that I'm a Deborah of my time 3 years ago, and few weeks ago I saw Deborah Enenche Hawthorne give me one of her dresses, I now remembered the word you gave about me, I've been trying to seek clarity from God until I stumbled on this message.
What you're saying is absolutely true. I am a woman, been a woman all of my life and what you are teaching is true. If we as women would all be honest the words you're speaking are spirit and life. Glory to God for a man of God who understands and won't be punked by spirits of domination and ignorance. Glory to God, I'm loving it.
“Been a woman my whole life” 😂 important to specify in these times we’re in...
Bless you...
So spot on the money Tomi, when you say about a wife's response/reaction to a man's honesty....... experiencing alot of what your saying right now.........Please please keep speaking about what you speaking about! Women's defenseness of the truth can be there own downfall!
Im still unclear about what this has to do with Deborah.
You don't know how you've opened my eyes ...woooow..i need to share this message to my fellow ladies.
Wow! Thank you for this. The Peebles missed me up. Bless you for doing the Lord's work. I've had a lot of Peebles. Jesus is cleaning me up one day at a time.
Thank you so much for all that you say on here. It explains a lot to me. God bless you in Jesus name!
I love this message ❤ 💕 💖 so much wisdom
This is a blessing.❤Thank God for this man of God.
this is really good! ouch and eye opening but truth! I joined the Yt one before and have to join invazion! thank you Apostle Tomi!
I'm grateful for this Dr. Tomi. ❤
Thank you,for using real life lessons. Help us Lord
Amazing words Prophet
Whooo hooo👊🩸 This is anointed and I am a “wahine” (woman). Better not be dishonest with me💪 Listening from Hawai’i 🌺 Teach it brada!!!
Good teaching. I've made many mistakes always eager to learn. God bless you
Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Apostle Tomi! You are preaching truth!! I am a woman and you are speaking my language! Lord search my heart ♥️ I don't want to be like this when I get married. May God bless you for speaking truth 😊
Man of God you are speaking truth, the problem its not just because we want to br in charge, but when your in a marriage where you are honor your husband as head of the house or priest of the home but he is never there, but won't see me as a partner
Excellent!! Teaching!! I’m enjoying this you stepped on my toes when you talked about that phone 📱! I thank God I have been delivered from that. God through the Holy Spirit showed me i was out of order and I needed to shift. We should be in the second gear. To shift the Nation!!!
💥 great message!!
Great Message Tomi
Tracking with you Prophet. These teachings are helping me. There isn’t any good example of a godly marriage in my bloodline nor did I have a present father to speak into me. I’m hearing everything you’re saying thru a concerned father’s heart. Hope more Deborahs arise and feel convicted to receive this message.
I thank God for this teaching. I thank the apóstol for being obedient. This is a green light for me. I believe the whole message has been written in my spirit by God long time ago. I wasn't positive to preach it, I confess as a woman is a very complicated subject to bring to church. I accep the mission. I will start as soon as possible.
Knowing the mind of men is helpful to us because we need to understand how they experience life. We are different and we experience life differently. It goes the same for men, they need to know how we experience life. This message is very insightful and helpful.
I am a woman and want to say thank you!!!! This has truly changed my life. It is truth 🙌❤️
This is such a touching message. So vulnerable and to the heart. Thanks Prophet Tomi.
This is a real message of truth, we need a tune up in the spirit. We have lost reverence for the presence of God 😢😢😢