Thank you for the information My mom stayed with my dad for 20 years when he passed on, civil wife came and took everything 😢. My mom was the one who built my dad’s business😢😢 It was a nightmare
Ooh no 🙏 May The Good lord be with your mom and your entire family. May He bless you abundantly with everything you need and want that is in alignment with His Good Will. Those things are just earthly things, God will bless you with Heavenly things that will materialize in this world and no one will ever take them. Amen 🙏
This is so informative, a lot of people who got married in community of property did so without thinking logically. It was an emotional decision for most if not all people.
Life is worse if you marry in community of property. My thanks goes to Power FM, I remember they once invited an attorney who spoke about Marital contracts, people with kids outside 😪He loses that job or income and here you’re with your child as a beneficiary. Your hard earned pension will care for outside kids. For me get an anti nuptial contract without accrual. COP was for our parents. Seek Wisdom when it comes to marital contracts. Without accrual 🙌🏽
Hi Promise, I have been watching your channel I thought I have subscribed,but I was not now I have subscribed and my two sisters have subscribed, ❤🎉I will subscribed to Tebelo's channel, today you really have open my eyes mind and soul thank you sis ❤
Thank you so much Promise, i have been following Tebello on Twitter and didn't like her for the same reason anyway it's better we do it than to be sorry.
I love that i learned about this prenuptial marriage from big brother 🤗🤗from Thato and Gash1 s conversations 🎉🎉and i always tell my partner that i want a prenup marriage moguy doesn't understand that but i will never get married in COP 🤔🤔
But fact is even that invalid customary marriage might have produced children and those children have full rights like any children anyway..Don’t be fooled.. even if ke Mjolo.. Promise you tell them to go make more kids those kids will lay claim to the assets..
Promise it's wrong for you to say Makhumalo is the only one who is working and the others are not working remember Mangwabe (wife 4) is a professional nurse Mayeni(wife2)is also a professional businesswoman and has a clothing business Macele(wife1) is the only that Musa Mseleku said she's not working Makhumalo(wife3) is a raidio presenter and a business woman please fix it
My dad was employed for two decades and got retrenched in 2022-my mom is unemployed but isn't involved in any financial discussions with my dad because he simply never involves her-My fear is should my dad die what will happen? my mom is unemployed but I am-meaning should he have loans or whatever owing it will fall onto me not by law but because I will automatically become the bread winner-how do you then put this to an open discussion? shuuuu ho thata.
Miss Promise serving leg!!!! You have such gorgeous legs Mama ❤ Miss Tebello you opened my mind about the paperwork side of marriage. I would like to ask if an unmarried and unemployed guy makes a child but does not financially provide for them, is his family forced to do it by law?
@@MissCombs1511 sjoe! It's bad out there... Ay ngeke...i would be so bitter shem having to be forced to fund baby mamas😭😭... Resign get my pension and get new identity 🤣🤣🤣
It's understanding love, honestly I don't even know how a prenup works practically in a customary sense . Coz it seems you would need to make it to before the lobola is sent, even Idk to be honest But what I've promised myself is that I will not rush into marriage when time comes because I know I have the people who can support me around me.
Very important conversation. If marriage is not concrete with good roots which is Jesus's Christ what ever you build is like building your house in a sand. This life is doomed without Jesus's Christ as the Pillar of your marriage. Nothing in this world can go well for your life in Satan bosom, he is against everything that's God has made Perfect for human . Satan destroy, steals and kills it 🙆♂️🙆♂️❤️❤️Guys we need another episode, I ❤❤but Jesus's christ loves you more.
Kganthe why re laola ke banna???hai no..let's go work when he break..you must destroy Kotis ..when he build then tripple..cos we cant..i refuse..if he's tired let him sign papers and marry the new member...simple
You know when people make a decision of marrying out of community of property because of possible future infidelity makes me wander why are you married vele? Its clear there is no trust in this relationship, just live together and save yourself drama The only way I would accept out of community of property is for business purposes or protecting assets incase someone looses a source of income Stop marrying red flags!!!
It's a marriage contract, you choose whichever represents your marriage well. But you must know the consequences of the regimes you decide to go for. When you do these things you shouldn't be emotional. This has nothing to do with Love, but everything to do with how the world work.
Also, let's use the analogy of eggs and a basket. What happens if all your eggs are inside one basket, if you encounter a bumpy road you and your family will be f***d. Learn these things and you will save yourself from a lot of legal squabbles, not even during divorce but eventually when one of you pass. There is prenups also, you can literally shape the contract that work for your relationship and at the same time protect your family from unfortunate events, have you ever thought about that? This has nothing to do with Love, it's just logic. All Love.
Hmmm... we don't divorce the same people we marry 🤷🏽♀️ it doesn't mean your marital financial management within the marriage is the same. Also there are too many people who can get affected if you don't separate assets in a marriage of 2 people.
atleast some of this podcast are productive unlike others like Tee when they speak about marriage she celebrates and divorce she celebrates. I don't know where she stands. She just want news
Thank you for the information
My mom stayed with my dad for 20 years when he passed on, civil wife came and took everything 😢. My mom was the one who built my dad’s business😢😢
It was a nightmare
Ooh no 🙏 May The Good lord be with your mom and your entire family. May He bless you abundantly with everything you need and want that is in alignment with His Good Will. Those things are just earthly things, God will bless you with Heavenly things that will materialize in this world and no one will ever take them. Amen 🙏
This podcast is so information and educational please do not be discouraged
I agree 💯
This podcast is 🔥🔥🔥 Madam Tebello just got herself a new subscriber from Namibia 🇳🇦
This is so informative, a lot of people who got married in community of property did so without thinking logically. It was an emotional decision for most if not all people.
Big up Promise. You doing a great job! We always learning something new on this channel
You're doing an amazing job Promise. I always look forward to watching your new episodes. I enjoyed this episode.
This thing of I don’t care about side chicks is tricky ,,,, 😢😢😢 this person will benefit
Wow what an eye opener, thank you Promise for inviting Tebello. Very informative and educational.
Immediately I went to go subscribe there by Tebello... beauty and brains!!! I love her please! Thank you Promise.
Life is worse if you marry in community of property. My thanks goes to Power FM, I remember they once invited an attorney who spoke about Marital contracts, people with kids outside 😪He loses that job or income and here you’re with your child as a beneficiary. Your hard earned pension will care for outside kids. For me get an anti nuptial contract without accrual. COP was for our parents. Seek Wisdom when it comes to marital contracts. Without accrual 🙌🏽
Very educational...... My eyes wide opened. Dankie❤
I'm glad you came together ladies. Very informative session🎉😂❤
Very informative!!!!!!!!!!!! Educational!!!!!!!! Promise our fighter 🙌🏼
Very informative and I’m not yet married glad I heard this before marriage so I make an informed decision 🎉🙏
Very informative and scary,you leveling up girl, this topic it's gonna take you to 100k subscribers,
Afternoon Promise, I love your podcasts my dear, I'm sitting with you today for the 1st watching them on your live❤❤
Thank you so much Promise this was so informative ❤🙏🏻 continue doing what you do BEST my sister.
Hi Promise, I have been watching your channel I thought I have subscribed,but I was not now I have subscribed and my two sisters have subscribed, ❤🎉I will subscribed to Tebelo's channel, today you really have open my eyes mind and soul thank you sis ❤
Promise I enjoying watching ur podcast all the way from🇳🇦 keep up ladies
Thank you soooooo much ladies about this information ❤❤❤❤
LOVE LOVE LOVE TEBELLO 😭 ❤
Very informative, I learned a lot ❤❤
I love you ladies❤❤
I am definitely subscribing to this lady’s channel. I hope the workshop is near by Jhb 🙏🏻
As I’m running to subscribe to her channel 😂love her already
What's her channels name?
@@yaneliswakhoza5901@ Tebello Motshwane
very informative topics
The Mseleku wives all work. There's a property business, presenting, entertainment business, broadcasting, and formal employment among them.
Only 3 wives work. Mamkhulu doesn't work. Musa Mseleku said it himself that she gets everything she wants and she doesn't work.
@@maytshifularo5415she's the one who was running that
Is bnb they had
Beautiful ladies who are comfortable in their own skin🎉😂❤
This is so informative, thank you
Great episode 👏
Lol when yall touched on Nozipho's issue😭😂😂and started laughing at toiletry bag incident 😭💀yoh banna mara
I totally enjoyed this, thank you! Invalid, Haaibo kikikiki! Ba layega!
Haow tebello sounds like the cent twins. I mean her voice sounds like she’s related to the them
She does hey😅
very informative segment😎
Thank you sis💞
Thank u beautiful banyana.ur topic was very educational.just subscribed.
Exceptionally informative session Promise🎉
So informative.
Very informative. ❤
Very important conversations, thank you chikitas ❤
Tebello, i always hear you with that tagline, but today i heard you for real
“That mommy club girl” 😭🤣
Ge o sa kwa mo, okase tsoge wa kwa. Very informative P❤
Am South African staying in Botswana.My eyes popped whrn you said workshop will be in Botswana.Let me go and follow you❤
Very informative ❤
This was so good and informative.
Yho i like Tebello so much. Whats the name of her channel?
Thank you so much Promise, i have been following Tebello on Twitter and didn't like her for the same reason anyway it's better we do it than to be sorry.
Important content there in the beginning for couples and gender roles dynamic after birth on this woman's month.
I love that i learned about this prenuptial marriage from big brother 🤗🤗from Thato and Gash1 s conversations 🎉🎉and i always tell my partner that i want a prenup marriage moguy doesn't understand that but i will never get married in COP 🤔🤔
I wounder if they don't understand or they ignorant 😂😂😂 lol
Very educational ❤
Very informative . Ra leboga 🙏🙏
But fact is even that invalid customary marriage might have produced children and those children have full rights like any children anyway..Don’t be fooled.. even if ke Mjolo.. Promise you tell them to go make more kids those kids will lay claim to the assets..
@Promise ok invite the Mseleku wives so that we can get more clarity about polygamous marriage
Promise it's wrong for you to say Makhumalo is the only one who is working and the others are not working remember
Mangwabe (wife 4) is a professional nurse
Mayeni(wife2)is also a professional businesswoman and has a clothing business
Macele(wife1) is the only that Musa Mseleku said she's not working
Makhumalo(wife3) is a raidio presenter and a business woman please fix it
True…
MaCele is presenting on some TV show and was also working in some family business
@@roslynramothwala8754 yes iGumbi lama khosikazi I forgot about that it's just that I was so upset with Promise saying only maKhumalo is working
Pls bring the link i want to subscribe to our beautiful attorney. I learnt a lot❤
Yhoooooooooo i wanna change my marriage to OUT OF .......... yeiiiiiii😂😂😂😂😂 Ausi Promise thanks yeiiii.
Am early hre tdai❤❤❤HAI PROMISE EN GUEST I HPE U AR DOIN FYN GUYS LET MI SIT IN MA COURCH EN LEARN MRE HRE🎉🎉🎉
I just subscribed 😊
Lady speaks like one of the Cent Twinz, or is it both!.
It's maybe the Pta accent....
Do children born out of wedlock get a portion of their dad's pension fund/assets when he divorces?
Where can i find thr episode of Mmapule?
Where can we can the tickets for the Johannesburg workshop on the 5th of October?
We subscribed Tebello
My dad was employed for two decades and got retrenched in 2022-my mom is unemployed but isn't involved in any financial discussions with my dad because he simply never involves her-My fear is should my dad die what will happen? my mom is unemployed but I am-meaning should he have loans or whatever owing it will fall onto me not by law but because I will automatically become the bread winner-how do you then put this to an open discussion? shuuuu ho thata.
Miss Promise serving leg!!!! You have such gorgeous legs Mama ❤
Miss Tebello you opened my mind about the paperwork side of marriage. I would like to ask if an unmarried and unemployed guy makes a child but does not financially provide for them, is his family forced to do it by law?
😂 If I was that guy's family and they come for me... I would resign.. Stru😂
@@No2HeartStoppingClotShots 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you'd choose poverty? Lol!!!
@@MissCombs1511 sjoe! It's bad out there... Ay ngeke...i would be so bitter shem having to be forced to fund baby mamas😭😭... Resign get my pension and get new identity 🤣🤣🤣
@@No2HeartStoppingClotShots 🤣🤣🤣 ende it's the babies of that one brother you don't get along with, who only comes when he needs something.🤣🤣🤣
@@MissCombs1511 🤣
i never take off my ring ,ever, i got married 2019 nov , marriage is very hard sis Promise ... very hard
Hey ladies I’m lost a bit can side chicks get to claim in the estate of a man who was in a civil marriage?
Only if there's proof that you were financially dependent on him(only pension funds)..
And if there is proof the child of the side chick belongs to him.
Yes but the courts make a lot of considerations
I'll never understand why people are still marrying in COP....that will never be me😏out of COP or prenup
It's understanding love, honestly I don't even know how a prenup works practically in a customary sense . Coz it seems you would need to make it to before the lobola is sent, even Idk to be honest
But what I've promised myself is that I will not rush into marriage when time comes because I know I have the people who can support me around me.
@@brighterwithnzu392 please do some research before committing into marriage. All the best
@@kamogelokoloane5182 definitely...this convo is part of that research
Very important conversation. If marriage is not concrete with good roots which is Jesus's Christ what ever you build is like building your house in a sand. This life is doomed without Jesus's Christ as the Pillar of your marriage. Nothing in this world can go well for your life in Satan bosom, he is against everything that's God has made Perfect for human . Satan destroy, steals and kills it 🙆♂️🙆♂️❤️❤️Guys we need another episode, I ❤❤but Jesus's christ loves you more.
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As woman married in cop niyang stressa
😂😂kgang ye e tla lwatsa Promise
If U didn't say anything about your 💍 I would of not even noticed lol
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USheqe ongaka ushadile cc yoo ngathi le freedom yenu iyabheda
Hao 😂😂😂
@tebello yho she’s so smart ,there’s a lot to learn from her
I felt like watching this episode will waste my time but i learn a lot in 2 seconds
Harsh realities of life.
Eish ja
Kganthe why re laola ke banna???hai no..let's go work when he break..you must destroy Kotis ..when he build then tripple..cos we cant..i refuse..if he's tired let him sign papers and marry the new member...simple
You know when people make a decision of marrying out of community of property because of possible future infidelity makes me wander why are you married vele?
Its clear there is no trust in this relationship, just live together and save yourself drama
The only way I would accept out of community of property is for business purposes or protecting assets incase someone looses a source of income
Stop marrying red flags!!!
It's a marriage contract, you choose whichever represents your marriage well. But you must know the consequences of the regimes you decide to go for. When you do these things you shouldn't be emotional. This has nothing to do with Love, but everything to do with how the world work.
Also, let's use the analogy of eggs and a basket. What happens if all your eggs are inside one basket, if you encounter a bumpy road you and your family will be f***d. Learn these things and you will save yourself from a lot of legal squabbles, not even during divorce but eventually when one of you pass.
There is prenups also, you can literally shape the contract that work for your relationship and at the same time protect your family from unfortunate events, have you ever thought about that?
This has nothing to do with Love, it's just logic.
All Love.
@@UnbrandedP.Wwell said 💯 people must sign a prenuptial agreement
OCOP is good, but we void it with our actions such as buying assets as a joint
Hmmm... we don't divorce the same people we marry 🤷🏽♀️ it doesn't mean your marital financial management within the marriage is the same.
Also there are too many people who can get affected if you don't separate assets in a marriage of 2 people.
atleast some of this podcast are productive unlike others like Tee when they speak about marriage she celebrates and divorce she celebrates. I don't know where she stands. She just want news
Two minutes in and she still hasn’t introduced herself 😫🙌🏾yhoo hai
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