I ALMOST GAVE UP ON MED SCHOOL, NOW I AM A DOCTOR | Overcoming Fear, Self-Doubt & Burnout

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  • @BeingDrBernice
    @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @Ridethewind1427
    @Ridethewind1427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am finding myself in the same situation. I need to overcome my fear of failing. Sometimes we are too hard on ourselves.

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lauren Falcon Absolutely we can sometimes be our own worst critic. It's a delicate balance between being motivated to excel but also not pushing ourselves into a wall. I'm still working on striking that balance for sure!

  • @andrewp.5099
    @andrewp.5099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing. I am currently applying to medical school and needed this inspiration to get through more applications. I will push through and not let my fear take over!

  • @nickb1489
    @nickb1489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This really speaks to me. Going through very similar situations. I’ve worked super hard and systemic obstacles always seem to pop in my way. I started to re-apply this year after finishing my post-bacc program but my tuition was too high this semester and I’m still paying for it. God knows I want to be a physician but things just never seem to work out. Hoping things align

  • @MNae-td6pd
    @MNae-td6pd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve watched this so many times. What an incredible story. And beautiful hair as always. You’re really an inspiration!

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      M. Nae Aww this is so kind. I'm so glad you resonated with the video! And thanks for noticing my hair too--sometimes a struggle but I love my crown!

  • @shawonjackson3711
    @shawonjackson3711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Forever proud of - and inspired by - you! This has been SUCH a journey, and you keep pushing through!!

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shawon Jackson And you've kept me honest every step of the way 🥰

  • @aa1903
    @aa1903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this!! Thank youu Amoray

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aviva Aguilar Aww I'm so happy it helped. This is such a long journey that we're on but we're getting through ❤️

  • @veenakumar2314
    @veenakumar2314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is so great and is gonna help so many people!!

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veena Kumar Thank you so much. I really hope the message reaches the people who are feeling shackled by fear and doubt in this season ❤️

  • @dastineeduncan885
    @dastineeduncan885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! I’m so glad I came across this video! Currently in med school listening to your story & seeing your journey is just so encouraging. Thank you so much for sharing🧡

  • @AceHardy
    @AceHardy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ✍️

  • @Scriabin_fan
    @Scriabin_fan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm currently going through wanting to just give up on med school entirely and switching my degree to software engineering. It's not like I don't want to be a doctor I am interested but the process is just so much and I don't think I can handle that or if I want to put myself through all that stress. Like I can't think of a single reason why I should subject myself to this kind of stress at this point.

  • @eghosaigbinobaro9713
    @eghosaigbinobaro9713 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring :)

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eghosa Igbins I'm glad it helped!

  • @JT-tx2ns
    @JT-tx2ns ปีที่แล้ว

    Years later do you regret your decision? I’m interested in em but I’m getting scared of all what i hear and read …

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't! There are so many options to take within the specialty so you just need to create the life you desire with the skills you'll attain during training

  • @venjaminnefua9267
    @venjaminnefua9267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Did you ever find yourself discouraged because of comparing yourself to other pre meds?

    • @venjaminnefua9267
      @venjaminnefua9267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s been my biggest problem and it makes me feel in a rut

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my goodness, YES! Comparing myself to others is the root of a lot of anxiety that I felt as a premed. That's one of the hardest parts especially bc some can be competitive. I became very intentional about trying to "compete" only with myself and I found a small group of trusted friends who I studied with and we never compared grades with one another, which was so helpful. Wishing you the best bc I know that premed is a tough time!

    • @venjaminnefua9267
      @venjaminnefua9267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being Bernice Thank you sm 🙏🏻 good luck in residency

  • @iamliefelmire1759
    @iamliefelmire1759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What med school did you go to ?

  • @maroonhorizon1693
    @maroonhorizon1693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t mean to intrude, but when do you plan on having kids? I’m so worried about that! I really want to have kids in my 20s AND do med school :/

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha this is a common concern, especially for young women who are considering medicine as a career. I am still contemplating my own personal timing for starting a family. However, I have heard from many female mentors above tell me that at the end of the day, there is no perfect time to have kids haha.

  • @emeksb4823
    @emeksb4823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Are you a Nigerian?

    • @BeingDrBernice
      @BeingDrBernice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emeks B I'm not but I do get asked that sometimes haha. Thanks for watching!

    • @emeksb4823
      @emeksb4823 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BeingDrBernice for real???lol