Middle Schoolers Should Not Date
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- Weigh in on this heated discussion. GMM #169
COMMENT: Do you think middle schoolers should date?
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middle schoolers,
boy: hey
girl: hi
boy: what's up
girl: nm
boy: will you go out with me
girl: yes
boy: okay I love you
girl: I love you too
Accurate
Haha that can go for high schoolers too
I was the boy exactly as described
You spelled elementary wrong.
Lol
Sure dating is cool and all, but have you ever heard of a double stuffed crust pizza?
PowerOfThe FUR lol ikr
YES
Niiice... XD
What's that?
xD
PowerOfThe FUR you must live a sad life
In 5th grade everyone had boyfriend/girlfriend.... and i'm just like wtf happened to the world?
Some Middle Schoolers:
Boy: Sees random girl in math class, tries to decide if she's cute or not. He finally decides she's hot but she comes pretty close with the schools hamster, who is pretty hammy hot.
Girl: Looks over to find a weird boy staring at her intensely. Shrugs it off.
Boy: Walks up to girl after class.
Girl: Sees boy walk near her.
Boy: Hi.
Girl: Hi.
Boy: Your pretty.
Girl: Thank you.
Boy: Will you go out with me?
Girl: Sure.
(A year later of awkward relationship)
Boy: So what's your name?
L0000L
That happened to me except it was three years instead of one
+Havoc Wait you didn't know what her name was for 3 years? I find it hard to believe because in your math class I'm sure your teacher calls her name out for the register
You're pretty* u are welcome 😂😂😂😂
Thanks. :)
I'm 21 and i still don't know what I'm doing.
LOL
21
Lol say hey and talk to your friends, say their name and whisper and when she asks why u said her nme say because ur amazing ;)
Ross Fosher What are you talking about?
Ross Fosher That made no sense at all.
How much do you wanna bet that 80% of these comments bashing middle school relationships are middle schoolers in relationships
Ikr
+Nathaniel Berry True
+Nathaniel Berry im middle schooler iv had 14 girlfriends. is that bad?
+crazy lemur Quite.
Herobrine Persson oh...
So weird watching this now and not hearing many of the crew in the background. Such amazing growth from these guys!
At this point, the crew consisted of Jason.
Here's a tip: Know the difference between their, there, and they're before dating 😂
So start dating in 4th grade?
+Robbie Stewart no
here's another tip dont date, if u can help it. ull know why when ur ready
YES! One of my major pet peeves!
Kawaii Charizard's Cards So 1st grade?
I remember my first date in middle school, we went to go see the Pokemon the movie 2000. I was more interested in the movie
-.-
Cliff Reeser ...
Lol
Cliff Reeser Did she cry when Ash died?
+Cliff Reeser so anal
*Scrolls through the comment section.*
Wow.
Nameless22 what ive seen so far
1. I aum bisexual; and in 6th grades\
2.DONT GET A GIRLFRIND, YUO WILL NOPT REALLY LUV TRUST ME IM IN 2ND GRADE
3.I am totally more mature than my grade (3rd) and dating is fun
a true scotsman uth Pretty much...
isabella and yenisya show you and puppy fall under these tropes too
Nameless22 I know right?
Umm I'm homeschooled and.............
I have a boyfriend, oh wait, that's a fridge... I have a fridge.
lol
+Kitty Coster hahahahaha... meeeeeeee.
Lol that's soooooooooo me!!!
I like it as long as it gives me food😜
+Kitty Coster I have my hand ;)
Who here was just looking in the comments section the whole time
Me hahahhahah
I was
Pretty much
Lol turned on the video, and immediately scrolled down to the comments and saw this
me!
When I was in elementary, kids were dating. I'm not even kidding. And they said stuff like "I love you." On like the first day of fifth grade, we were "Bus Buddies", with the first graders, to help them find their buses. Well, my FIRST GRADE buddy (6 years old) was bragging about something, so I walk over to her, and I hear her say: "OMG GUYS IT'S ONLY TH FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL AND I ALREADY HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!" with a sassy voice. I think that I'm not mature enough to date yet, at my age, much less when I was in FIRST GRADE. Like, WTF happened? Anyone agree?
If you're not mature enough to be dating you're not mature enough to be saying "wtf" I agree about young kids dating though.
Awakened_Dreams Lol, you don't even know how old I am. There's a difference between dating and swearing you know.
You shouldn't swear at all through your whole life.
You're right, I'm sorry. You may be older than 18 I have no idea, I'm sorry for judging. :)
Awakened_Dreams This is why I love the GMM community, as with most other communities this would have escalated into a full scale all out argument.
They seem very dad-like in this episdoe lol
They are dads
+The Grumpy Mermaid Yes I know but still
they are dads
+A nimation dads, they are
fist me daddy!!!
I don't think middle schoolers should date. I'm in middle school and I think its better to be friends... its pointless to date in middle school
That's what friends are for
Actually, I've been told that "you should only date when you're ready to date with a purpose." Marriage is the true purpose of dating. But most people date young because they are self-conscious and want to feel loved. That is the WRONG thing in every way.
Alexis Merritt I'm in middle school too I agree
Yes
Alexis Merritt yeah, I agree, especially the 6th graders tbh
Realized I had a huge crush on this girl in 7th grade... took me 5 years to tell her
same happend to me in primary from yr 3 to middle schoool and he knew but he just played with my emotions and now he says he misses me and stuff coz the popular girls left him because he was waiting for me to ask him out ....😐
+Kaitlyn_MCD same from 5-9 grade me and him went to their same school and and I had the hugest crush and I never told him he just found out himself
You were a senior?!
Yeah... it was towards the end of the year too
What happened?
I saw this article the other day about how middle schoolers who date and are "popular" are less successful later in life and have a higher criminal activity level. lol glad i'm not popular
I'm 14 and I think that the teen age is the period of time when *I* am changing and sort of finding *MYSELF*, basically developing past me into present/future me. So I don't feel that I should bring someone else into the picture whilst I'm still trying to deal with my own transition from childhood into adulthood.
+mogens samauelsen (mkscool4) Yup.
I'm 14 turning 15 this month and I couldn't agree more. Too many people get tied up in the fantasies they call relationships that are completely empty. I shouldn't drag myself down, so I can have a "relationship" that will not last.
+Cosmic Sloth you got that right
101 PMF Clearly you do; you bothered to read and reply to my comment.
preach
Being in middle school, I know how it works now, and I can't agree more.
Nin10doGaming i guess you dont really understand the point of the video... ok then
oldGnRrocks1 I do, I'm saying I think middle schoolers should not date.
Nin10doGaming oh, like now you understand what dating means and you agree they shouldnt date?
oldGnRrocks1 You think I don't what dating means? I'm saying people in middle school aren't old enough to date, that's all.
Nin10doGaming this is why people think middle schoolers are immature lol. im not even arguing, youre just freaking out over nothing
before i the video even stared i said to myself
AMEN TO THAT
Ikr
yassss!
im glad im not the only one. THANK YOU FRIENDS.
Yupp
i met my boyfriend a looooong time ago.. his name is food. c:
YOU EAT HIM!?!
omfg rest in pepperoni FOOD Y DID U HAVE TO EAT HIM!!!!
I've been in a committed relationship with food for 18 years. Still going strong❤️
Sorry but I think food may be cheating with you because I am with food too...
+Jack Deaves me too, you need to break up🍕🍔🍕
Middle school dating:
Girl: you are hot
Guy: you are hot
*hug*
Next day:
Girl: you are hot
Guy: you are hot
*hug maybe kiss*
...
Break up week later...
No because I am in middle school and I have been datin a guy for 2 years! We go out on dates. We do stuff and this comment makes me mad!!!
Grim Vow Damn aren't you nice xD
Brooke Metzler but, it's not a real relationship, because your not emotionally mature enough to understand what a real relationship is like.
Grim Vow no one cares bout what u think
The Glitcher yeah, but you can tell just from brookes comments. That she's not moture enough to understand what a real relationship is.
Just wait. Concentrate on your grades, you have your whole life ahead of you, a whole life to find a love.
It's essentially a social status saying you have a girlfriend or boyfriend basically means you're way cooler than people who don't
Dating in middle school is like going to a bar and only being able to drink diet coke.
Hahahaha
I can't believe you summed it up so easily! Go you! :)
Middle school relationships last about a week lmao.
Not exactly. My friend has been in a relationship 2 years now. She's a middle schooler.
Lol usually but not always. I heard somewhere that about fifty percent of people end up marrying their seventh grade crush...
For other people in my grade, yes. But for me? No...
+GΣЯΛЯD ЩΛY
Hi lol
Not true
Basically, a middle school relationship is an awkward friendship. a high school relationship is reenacting twilight.
Comment of the Millennium.
y0uar3m3an I agree personally.
Lol. This is 100% true. I'm a junior in high school and am in a serious relationship with my girlfriend, we've been dating for over a year now, and I still believe this comment is all truth xD
So high school relationships are a whole bunch of staring? (Reference material: Honest Trailers)
JWQweqOPDH WAIT THERE ARE VAMPIRES AND WEREWOLFS IN HIGH SCHOOL? Better start stocking up on garlic and silver forks.
The only thing that a middle schooler will grain is drama.
they will totally grain that
yeah. i grained that a lot when i was in middle school.
I'm in high school and I had one girlfriend in seventh grade. From that one experience, I could tell that I do not want a relationship until I know I'm emotionally mature enough to handle it. It was the biggest disappointment of my life to have been in that relationship. It was awkward to talk to the girl about anything, so the whole relationship was composed of going to school events and shit together. One night when I was laying in bed, I had this great epiphany. I realized that I wasn't even enjoying the time we had together. I literally had just fallen into a routine with her and stuck to it. It dawned on me that I would rather be doing so many things than sitting around with her trying to start a conversation. She didn't seem hurt by the break up, so I assume she felt the same way.
Exactly with me and it was just awkward talking to her
Me too
Im with you there
Im a girl, and im in middle school. My friends were really serious about not dating since we were mature enough to know the right time. So one of the boys had a girlfriend. We saw his actions to her and we saw that he wasnt ready so we told him to break up, or get out.
dat troldier has pootis You can't interfere in someone else's relationship like that!
My Aunt ended up marrying her middle school boyfriend..
it happens all the time. I stayed with mine too until he died. And I never got pregnant, I dont even want children
A Kayfabe ;.;
Well c how long that marriage lasts..
#goals
The boy I liked married his middle school girl friend!lol they broke a few times along the way but they've been married for a while and have three kids now I believe.
Dating in middle school is dumb as hell, dating in high school is at least an actual relationship but still a waste of time in my opinion
Exactly my opinion.
Yep. Unless you're one of them cool kids.
+EthansTech I agree with middle school, But I'm in my senior year, and have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years, since beginning of my freshmen year. I think it's a waste of time if you're not doing it right
It depends on why they date. If they do it for fun thats fine, but if they think that what they have is going to last then they are wasting their time.
Exactly my thoughts.
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My Agriculture teacher started dating his wife in 7th grade.
my teacher started dating her husband in grade 5 I was very amazed when she said that
+MOTO awwwww
that man had no outside life,wich is bad,don't date at that age,at that age you are supposed to think about yourself man
Guppy3710 where did he say right
Guppy3710, shut up.
My current boyfriend and I tried dating back in middle school. It was literally just us hanging out more. We both agree it couldn't even be considered dating. I guess maybe neither of us understand how someone at that age COULD be in a committed relationship. We are now, but we're 20. It took us pretty much 8 years to find a committed partner. So how could a middle schooler understand what it means to be committed? And maybe that's one of the reasons girls are getting pregnant so early. The thought of a committed relationship leads to babies in the end, right? Just like adults do and what we see on TV all the time. I don't think middle schoolers should "date". Get to know the person better? Sure! Date? That implies something I believe is a little too complex for someone at that age to comprehend yet.
When I was in seventh grade, my girlfriend and I didn't even kiss...
***** hey man, I'm just sayin. Middle schoolers don't know what to do in a relationship. Lol
***** lmfao funny story. Middle schoolers wanna grow up too soon. They don't know what a pain it is to be in high school and college XD
***** no you're not ugly. You'll find the right person sometime in your life. Promise
***** ah, so you're more on the independent person side?
***** hahah a great personality is always great. And I respect your position. Not many people have the courage to publicly say what you said these days
I am not aloud to date until I am married.
U poor soul xD
??????
+Keilah MYTHICALITY how do you get to know that person then?
Don't worry guys, it's an open marriage...
merpthemerpingmerp hahaha
Honestly middle schoolers should date because it prepares them for the future heartbreaks. I mean yeah we can be young and immature, but once a relationship forms, you get more mature. I have a girlfriend, which she just used to be my best friend, and yeah I'm a girl, but I'm also bisexual.
Jesus Christ no.
Forever Karsten how old are you?
Lux Why?
Crazy Limper Bisexual means you like both genders.
***** Who? Me? If so, I already knew that, no need to remind me! :)
Dating is supposed to be to get to know/get ready for marriage people in middle school shouldn't be dating at all they just to it to be "cool" or "popular"
dylan schexnayder so true
dylan schexnayder Who says dating is supposed to be that? Go on, what are you basing that from?
Ikr!
What's the point of marriage?
dylan schexnayder As a kid in high school i can tell you 99% of the relationships going on are for popularity or just for the sake of being in a relationship. They end in a couple of weeks
All you need is a cat...
Matthew Y
Depends ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
+Matthew Y the youngest parents found where 15 and 13.... Yep...
YES
yes
True
I remember middle school being a horrible time for me. There was one time where I thought a girl liked me, and I tried to date, but it ended up being some very complicated bullshit that I don't want to get into. Even as a high school junior, I'm still not ready to date anyone, because I know for a fact that girls aren't going to be interested in someone like me. It cuts into you pretty badly.
I am a middle schooler myself. In my opinion middle schoolers should not date. I had one boyfriend in 7th grade and I wasn't emotionally ready for that kind of relationship. When the time came to break up I was crying for days. Middle schoolers, do NOT date!!!!!
Sam Yo my friends sister would be dating different people 24 hours tops, WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!
I should of listened. The girl I liked stabbed me.
InfinityPineapples WHAT!?!?!? Did you call the police!?
Billyharris110 :D Do you think he meant it figuratively?
Sam Yo I dunno, that is a word which isn't used very much in this case, it would be easier to tell if he said something like "She stabbed me in the heart" .... Never mind, that sounds totally cheesy lol. But seriously, it isn't like we are using different tones... But now I feel stupid!
No, middle schoolers should not date. Considering im in middle school dating seems to me to be more of like a status to everyone else, like a game or contest. Its stupid that teens and tweens think they can stay in a relationship. middle school "love" isn't love. Not to sound hateful. but you don't know what love is in middle school. honestly couples in middle school annoy me. you are in love, your foolish teens who want to look adorable. your not. and the whole "we are gonna get married!" no your not. its middle school crushes and hormones. Id love to hear anyone else's opinions and views on this touchy of a topic. Its a very interesting topic and beneficial to hear and be able to look at it from different views. I don't want an argument its just my opinion, and I would like for that to be respected, you don't have to like my opinion and my opinion isn't law. Please don't be rude about what I think or believe in.
Im in middle school and i completely agree with you
that's great to hear!
I'm in middle school and if never had a girlfriend... Ever
Ive had probably 10 chances that I've turned down not because I agree with you and I have some moral limits or something but because Im too fucking awkward. Both of my close friends have had many girlfriends and the girlfriend my one friend has he's been with her for a few months now and since then his attitude towards life has gotten better and yes a happier person all together.
I won't point any fingers here but him being in a longish relashionship is the only thing that has changed...
I understand where your coming from, but We as middle schoolers and high schoolers don't know what love is. I know that sounds stereotypical, buts its a fact. you may be in "love" but after your middle school romance is over it will crush you. and yes its very awkward, you don't know what your doing or what your getting yourself into. I feel that dating is middle school is more of labels and games. being a girl that's mainly how it is, the majority of the girls in my school make dating a competition and a game, they don't "love" you because they don't understand that emotion and feeling. I pray for your friend, because sadly one day when he dumps her or she dumps him, things wont be pretty and it will change him... Tweens and teens just are emotionally mature or stable to be considering or worrying about these types of things. But I respect your comment and opinion on this topic, considering its a very touchy topic among very many of us, and I love to hear about it from different view points.
I dated in elementary which I regret of course but I am in middle now (7th grade) and I agree yes most people date like its a game or contest like you said but there are some people who are more serious i think it matters about how mature you are honestly. But you do have very valid reasons
My grandparents have been together since they were in eighth grade. Not all cases are the same. Plus, the experience might help in the future.
Honestly, I agree with them. When you're at that age, (12, 13, 14) You just won't get the concept of being commited to a relationship. I see middle schoolers dating all the time, and it only lasts maybe a month to two months (This doesnt apply to EVERYONE, but alot of middle school couples.) I think you should start dating when A. You want to be commited. B. You have the time for a relationship. C. You don't date just to date. You do it cause you want to find "the one" or whatever. (This one kind of goes back to A.) Anyway yeah thats just my opinion......
My friends that age dates for a couple years and actually like each other for who they are how is that bad
At my Elementary school some kids are like dating and I'm like what do you even do together like my two friends who like each other but are really awkward about it spend more time together than them
+Delaney Powers I'm in sixth grade and where I live it's still elementary school
I agree with you. I'm in 6th grade and I want my bf to be "the one," but I've got lots of time left.
+Hannah DeSilva i have had 3 girlfriends,(im in 8th grade) they have all ended badly within a month or 2
In middle school, I was having some problems with depression and anxiety. I thought having a girlfriend was what I needed to show everyone that I wasn't a joke and to make me happy, so I asked a girl out, and she said yes to me. I found out that she cut herself, and that led me to believe that it was OK for me to express my depression through these kinds of activities, so I became anorexic because I was overweight at the time. In a few months, my life was literally ruined because I had a girlfriend in middle school. If you're reading this, trust me. A girlfriends isn't necessarily what you want or need. If you are in middle school, you have so much going on emotionally right now that it probably isn't the best decision...
Shrekt
***** OMIGOSH!
Similar story here man... Dated a girl all through freshman year of high school. Worst year of my life
The amount of people lying about having a boy/girlfriend is to high.
Lol
I applaud you, sir. Your comment deserves more likes.
To true, to true
I've been with the same guy since I was 13 and i'm 18 now, I guess it just depends on the maturity of the two people. Most kids are in it to just date and that's it. But I wanted to have that close relationship with someone that I couldn't have with anyone else.
i need an update, are you still with the same guy?
@@keirabobeira yeah I kinda want to know too. If they are that would be 1 in a million
@@austinwhitt4292 happens more often than you think
I'm in eighth grade and I TOTALLY agree with this. Middle school and high school relationships don't last, so why break your heart over something that doesn't last? It's a waste of time. I've liked a boy for years and I've realized that its taking up my life and energy, so I stopped liking him. It's not worth it when you're so young. The purpose of dating is to find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with in marriage, not for fun.
Really well I fell in true love in 7th grade, and our relationship has lasted for 4 1/2 years.. hmm.. & I don't think you know what a heartbreak is either, you will never know until you've experienced one..
High school relationships don't last? Really? Maybe not when you're a freshman or sophomore, but as a Junior or especially a Senior, most people are plenty mature enough to be in a lasting relationship, hence the reason many highschool sweethearts get married.
They get married, then regret it later and get a divorce. I do agree though that once your a junior you can start on the dating, you matured, you'll be in college, you are ready. However I believe that freshman, along with middle schoolers, should never date.
About 70% of high school relationships end up being a married couple in their future.
And most middle school relationships break up and get back together in high school. Now, ive seen elementary schoolers and pre schoolers who claim they are dating, so dont even get me started on those.
Where I live, you don't go to your neighborhood high school unless you have no other choice. So, when a kid leaves the eighth grade, they probably won't ever see the person they dated in middle school ever again.
I just entered middle school ( I'm in 6 grade ) and mostly everyone has a girlfriend/boyfriend and I'm just here like " we're only like 10..."
If you're in sixth grade you guys shouldn't be 10. You guys should be 11. That's how it is here, at least. My friends bf actually kissed her! It's crazy.
Haha
I started middle school in 4th grade.
All of my friends have dated somebody.... But I haven't....
I don't care though.
+Zoe Black I have a ten year old sixth grader in my school
P.S. He skipped a grade
Same
think they just shouldn't date. I'm a middle-schooler and i just think it's stupid and awkward. Middle-school is a time to STUDY people. Ugh, humans these days
I agree. I'm a freshman in highschool and I think that people my age shouldn't date either. I realize I'm just a year above middle school, but wait until you're a junior to get serious.
YOUS TWO SHOULD DATE!
I agree that education comes first, but really, middle school is full of crushes, not dating.
Apple Jack I agree with this person, I am smart, I get A's in my classes. My girlfriend does not. But it is only math she has trouble with. Education in the time of school should go first, relationships second. I just want to disagree with the two people who first said something. My cousin was to busy with studying and dancing, never really had a boyfriend in her life, and now she has a boyfriend, first one. That is great and all, but the point is, your grades are more important over your boy or girlfriends.
Yurko Gway I has strait As and a bf, i think you should have 2 things to be in a young relationship, the maturity to not take it so far and good grades.
As an eighth grader, I think some may be ready for relationships and others aren't. It really depends on your maturity
I think i'm ready. Not too sure about anyone else though...
Take things slow and remember that boys will mature slower than girls. That's why it is often so that girls date boys older than them. I'm older than my girlfriend and I still feel she is more mature than me the majority of the time, and that's coming from a college student with a girlfriend in highschool. If you really believe you're ready to date someone and consider marriage, think about the time that you'll have to stay in the non-marital relationship before marriage. That time will account for a lot of possible stress because you may mature into a close relationship ready for marriage but you may not be financially stable to get married. That's my current situation after being in a relationship for 3 1/2 years. I'm in college and in debt and while I'm ready to marry my girlfriend, neither of us are financially secure enough to accept a wedding as a wise decision at this time. So just think things through and take it slow.
Agreed, everyone matures at different rates
They shouldn't date, middle schoolers are crazy and are totally immature. I should know cause im still in middle school. Not just middle schoolers are dating elementary schoolers are too. I remember thats all that they would talk about. oooh he broke up with me, oooh were going on a date in the park next to my house.
Nope, not here. I act immature just so people don't know what I am up to. I am among the 20% of the smart 8th graders. Blending in. Although my squad, it is hard to get into. We all have Algebra in there except Ace. We don't awlays talk about immature stuff. Mostly, we talk about weaponry (theoretical damages), we diss eachother, talk about what happened in math, or warn each other of what we do in classes. Then, we get to the goofy (not normie MSer) stuff.
Just to be honest, no middle schoolers shouldn't date like you're 12 please go color a picture
Go back to middle school to learn your grammar-.-
The double negative is real.
:P Will that be colored pencil or crayon?
***** "No, middle schoolers shouldn't date." Is what she was saying. She forgot the comma but at the same time anyone with a decent grasp of the English language would understand what she was saying.
Lol go color I shall. Color my crush that is! HAH REKT
Reasons why ive never had a boyfriend
(I'm a freshman now) but in middle school, no guy was mature enough for a relationship and so for 3 years i was just busy running around fixing and supporting my friends who had/wanted a middle school relationship
mentally, i am very mature for my age and i look 3 years older than i actually am. But a lot of the guys in middle school who hit on me just weren't mature. Some didnt go for personality either
anyone want to join me in the forever single club? :l
+Nicole O.
If there's a club of the forever single-ness, I'd like to join...Never had a girlfriend, so that makes me forever single
+Nicole O. You literally just described me. All of the boys in my grade are so immature I can't even stand them.
+Nicole O. I bet you're really fun at parties.
3 years older than you actually are? You look around 20.
PaperLord i have
All these old GMM episodes where they tell stories from the past or say whats going on in their life are so much better than the new ones.
NO HIGH SCHOOLER OR MIDDLE SCHOOLER SHOULD DATE. WHERE DOES IT GET YOU? NOWHERE!!!
I'm sorry but some people like to experiment with things it don't matter just go on with ur life and leave others relesonships ALONE!!!
I can tell that your around the age of 6-9 because when you get to middle school, you feel that you want to know what it is like to have a boyfriend/girlfriend and so what if the relationships only last a week? Its just for a test drive to see how it feels
+Emily Lilly that's what high-school is for middle schoolers shouldn't date
I have been dating the same boy for years and am still dating him....I started dating him my freshman year of high school and I am still dating him now as a freshman in college. I personally think that dating in high school is normal and sometimes those relationships do go somewhere. But middle school is a little early; you're still learning how to transition from a kid to a teen and you need time to more fully understand yourself. It's all based on maturity; if you are a mature teenager then yes you may be able to have a meaningful relationship.
Dating in High School is totally fine. As long you understand that you both are still growing as people and in 4 years you two wont be the same and might not be compatible anymore
I'm a freshman in high school, and honestly I think the end of 8th grade is where I started to see people in actual relationships because they were happy with each other. (I was never in a relationship because guys don't like me idk) I had some friends who dated, and they literally had the cutest relationship. So yeah, I think it's ok for kids to date in middle school (towards the end though, like in 8th grade).
Yeah I think I agree with you :) by the way I don't know why guys don't like you but I think you look beautiful :)
Faith Carmichael aw thank you! I don't get that often, it really means a lot.
You actually are REALLY pretty! All the guys that don't like you, must not have eyes or a brain
Mel Music You're hanging out, not dating.
EverdayFlips haha thanks! that's what all my friends (that are girls) say, but my best friend is a guy and even he says I'll never get a boyfriend lol
I'm one of the only people in my entire middle school that hasn't "dated" anyone yet.
Don't worry about it . People ask me out and it just creates drama and makes everything more stressful
I'm in 7th grade btw
Same. Rolling into my freshman year next year.
Me too pretty much.
Me too, kinda. Most of the 7th grade brainiacs haven't dated anyone yet either. Or the Frenchies (people who came from French immersion school) like me.
I met my husband when we were 14 and just starting freshman year of high school :) He's the only man I've ever dated. It's not always faux or mimicry, but it definitely evolves with time and age.
I personally believe middle schoolers should only date if they are mature enough to: keep their relationship, deal with a break up, and are okay with their ex boyfriend/girlfriend moving on.
THEN I'M READY! :p
I'm in going into middle school and in elementary TWICE someone I trusted told my crush I liked them and it only hurt 4 like a day... I think I'm ready
Yeah, it only hurt for a day because you aren't mature enough to have a real relationship and be truly in love.
Hahahahafgahdgydcyctzdifv *cough* haghhaugh *cough* *cough*. MATURE children of my generation? How absurd!
+Dominic Ledesma Im ready now... prepare the hairbrush!
PREACH!!! I'm in 8th grade and people are "dating" and making out with each other and I'm just like STOP YOU NASTY PEOPLE GRRRRRR ITS SO DUMBBBBBBBB
Only some of us can handle this nonsense.
Dating happened as early as 6th grade (if not 5th grade) for my classmates.. I'm in 7th grade now.
+Jill Penguin Puberty is one Hell of a drug.
+iiShootingStars RBLX Some kids I know dated in THIRD grade
+iiShootingStars RBLX me too
I am a soon-to-be-freshman, and I am a female that began, I suppose it can be called tip-toeing around the concept of dating in my last year of middle school. I had developed a crush on one of my female friends, and the relationship developed into a kind of friends with benefits/flirtationship kind of thing, and those three months were the most emotional and frustrating months of my life. we ended up becoming an official couple the day after our graduation, and I am proud to be able to call her my girlfriend. I do not think that people of any age should date unless they can balance out the relationship with the other aspects of their life, though, meaning that people should only date if they have the proper mentality for it.
truest words ever, i wish you two a lasting relationship
I loved how in middle school "asking out your crush" wasn't actually a question, it's was notifying the person that you like, that you like them.
Middle Schoolers should not date. I made that mistake by dating my best friend for 7 months. We ruined our friendship and had no idea what we were doing, this video is very true, I agree 100%. I found someone now and am myself. As you said, they have nothing to gain from a "relationship" at that age.
Rash AJ Well that's cool. Good for them. Really. I am not being sarcastic, but it's a very rare thing.
xthatonezeldagirlx i would say the chances of that happening are 1 to 10,000,000,000 rougly
So they shouldn't date because you fucked up? That's kinda weird.
Grant Wallace You must be in middle school. Why are you offended? I am trying to be helpful. Most of them don't really know what they're getting into. No need to be a smart-ass.
xthatonezeldagirlx I apologize if I came off like a smart ass, but I do kinda disagree with you on some levels. And yes, I am in middle school.
It doesn't really matter if middle schools date cause their probably gonna break up in too day anyway
in middle school I dated someone for a year and a half
+Soul Hall -
It's an exaggeration, and there will always be exceptions here and there.
Obviously you're not even in middle school two* not too dumbfuck
vL_Beastyy -Ps3 - She actually is quite young.. spelling isn't the biggest deal at that age.. or any age since this is the internet and people are lazy with spelling or don't proof read since we're not publishing a paper here, it really doesn't matter. And even if you're an adult and really can't spell.. you need to get over that and focus on what they're actually saying and stop being so superficial and writing people off for small mistakes.
***** - Close enough! lol
Why are kids so concerned about relationships ? I mean what the fuck can you do at that age ? Ask your mom to pay for the valentine's chocolate ? Anything below high school in my opinion is: Too soon.
this is so true. almost everyone in my grade is dating and I'm like "Nope! too young!" and then they kiss,and I'm sitting and covering my eyes. I'm like "Holy Force ew!" these are true words. I'm not planning on dating til I'm at least 16
+ForgetBeingNormal That makes sense, though I would say, don't give your self a limit like that, because it can limit your relationships (of all sorts)
“Holy force” ?
I am not dating until I am at least out of High School
I'm dating until I'm in highschool
I had 'boyfriends' when I was about five or six, but they weren't serious- no kissing or even holding hands. So I say I have never dated. I am 14. I see so many people my age kissing each other and, to be honest, it feels more like they're doing it for the sake of it rather than for love.
Or for social status. It kind of makes you more popular if you are 'going out' with someone. Not sure why.
Me neither. Proud being single :)
@ middle schoolers saying they're in a "committed"/ long relationship give it few years you'll look back and realize how bad it was. You're not emotionally developed enough yet for it to be meaningful.
yeah I'm 14 and kids should not date at my age not because its not appropriate
but because kids aren't actually thinking of getting married or building a family
They should do what they want it's just fun
+Isaiah Rivera it's just wasting time and building drama,I'm that friend who has to cheer up the heartbroken friend
+shareen curry I know!!!! I think it's a HUGE wast of time
exactly I asked my freind if she loved her boyfreind she said no and im just like 0_0
+tigerzara12 randomness ???? Adults in relationships don't always love their partner?? That's perfectly okay
My brother and his girlfriend are in 11th grade. Doesn't seem like much does it. Well....they've been together since 3rd grade. If this doesn't disprove young dating theories, nothing will.
There is a guy (Me in middle school) who keeps staring at me during class. My friends all agree that he has a crush on me :/
Lucky, I've only had 1 girl that has had a crush on me :(
***** Fuck you -_-
***** What's your problem man?
Johann Diaz 1. Im a girl
2. I am not ugly and a fatass like you are
RainbowCookiz I'm not the one that insulted you, I'm on your side
You don't need to date! You need cake :3 or pizza. or ice cream. food. Ambrose Obasohan
Lol I do need pizza!
Food never cheats on you. Food always is open to you. Food always understands you in sadness.
Food is better.
miku hatsune PIZZA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cake!!!!!!!!!! Ice Cream!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you know what you're talking about
Definitely.
Thank you for making this video!
I am 13 and everyone automatically assumes that I should have a boyfriend or should have already had one. Like, the other day I was talking to a friend of mine and I don't remember how the conversation was brought up, but I do recall saying, "I've never had my first kiss." and the look on his face was PRICELESS. He stared at me like I had four heads. "You've never had your first kiss?!" he asked me and I just nodded my head. "Or a boyfriend." I added and he just laughed. "I've had like sixty-three first kisses and girlfriends." and I looked at him surprised after he said that. But then he told me it was normal. N O R M A L. Really?! He's thirteen and thinks having sixty-three girlfriends has an accomplishment behind it, when really I find it repulsive. In a smaller group of friends, where there is a total of five (myself included), I am the only one that hasn't had a "boyfriend" and I'm quite proud of myself for that. I just want to live my life and be a kid. I don't want to have worry about being pressured into other things after being in a couple. Like first kisses and PDA. I just don't see any reason behind it. It's disgusting what you see when walking down all High School hallway (the high school I attended is 8th-12th) and I really wish people wouldn't do things like it. I mean, I'm all for couples and PDA and all stuff like that doesn't bother me. What bothers me is when people are doing it, because everyone else is. You don't need to date someone, just to become cooler (cause in reality no one will notice) and then you'll just have to end it awkwardly, just like it started. Sometimes you even break a friendship because you were dumb enough to allow yourself to be with someone for a pointless week to a real length amount of time and this person could have really turned out to be your friend.
I do find that writing all of this was quite pointless, because A, this is an older video, less people will be looking for it (maybe, obviously I'm no mastermind), B, as soon as someone clicks read more they're going to stop reading, because I wrote too much (some may read, but it's clear that a good amount of people are that lazy, again not a mastermind, I don't know exact answers) and, C, I really just did this to vent and my topic matches this one, so I figured I may as well use this as a helpful opportunity.
So, if you actually read this far I hope you enjoyed my rant and you decided whether I'm right or wrong, it's your opinion after all.
ok 1: Cookie for those who read the whole thing :D
2:I see your point , I mean you know what they say Singles are smarter because of their requierments.
3:I am also asked a lot of people "why don't you have a girlfriend yet ?" (I am a bit older than most of my classmates) and every time I say " I don't because I don't have to !"
4: Tip: If in the future you have a boyfriend make him grow a mustache. :D
IamKrisandKrismeansme random mustache comment xD
:D
Bae dont worry ya got me aha maybe you should worry
Ben Allen Yeah, well, it's not much like that anymore. You just see people with someone else's tongue down their throat as you walk through the hallways. And it's really disturbing to be perfectly honest. Just cause we're in school to learn not watch someone kiss someone else every five seconds.
Little did the Haters know, 4 years later Rhett and Link would have an entire video series on one of their girlfriends.....
lol true
Daniel Leidenberger What's the series called?
Buddy System, on youtube red
I'm in 12th grade. My gf and I have been dating since 7th grade. We wouldn't be dating now if we werent then.
congrats! you guys are exceptional, I'd say probably 1 in 100
Ok I'm in 8th grade and even I think you shouldn't date until 16.
Penguins Rule That's ridiculous. That's censoring a course of evolution that humans naturally take, and in turn, taking away the chance to meet someone that some kids in middle-school/who are under 16 might ACTUALLY love.
love the picture
Finally one comment that isn't like, ohhhh I have a boyfriend in middle school and we found love and were gonna get married live on a yacht and have hundreds of kids.
i have 4 up votes and i dont why but i feel proud lawl
THANK you!!!
Middle school students would have a higher chance of not dating if adults and their parents didn't say things like, "Does your boy like someone, yet?" To which I respond, "*angry glare*".
I totally agree
That isn't the reason students date at all. Students date because everyone else is doing it. Their friends try to hook them up with people and other things like that.
Yep, whenever I have family over they are always saying "Who's your girlfriend?" It gets annoying and pretty old.
Zoe Brooks Their parents and other close family do the exact same thing, but in a more indirect manor.
They make the kid feel like he's strange for not having a special someone when they say these kinds of things.
I'm telling as a student, we really don't care when family asks things like that. That doesn't affect us.
You should find yourself before you decide to share your time and emotions with someone else. No 14 year old is going to have a clue who they are.
Thats not necessarily true I am only 13 and I know exactly who I am. I am a bisexual female who is okay with who I am.
+Olivia may Yes, but you haven't found yourself.
Different people develop at different rates, so a 14 year old could know who they are...
Katie!!! !!! Not completely.
my eleven year old friend nearly lost his virginity when his gf asked him if he wanted to have s**! WTF BOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMM!
Also im gonna to a boys only school so now girls for me :(
Our generation does not matter don't worry about others worry about your self, loved ones, and friends.
AN 11 YEAR OLD!!! Wow
Geez, the kid's already getting into that..I think it's best you kids stay out of relationships, you're only going to end up hurt, 10-15 year olds are too immature to hold a long lasting, meaningful relationship anyway (I think that 10-15 is an appropriate age bracket in this case, but this counts for any immature human being I guess) so it's just a waste of time an heartache.
You can tell its legit cause he blotted out sex
Middle school dating these days is holding hands and being BFFs at their lockers and lying saying they "make out" when they don't even kiss. Now go ahead and say how "wrong" I am people.
me and my gf do kiss but we arent neccisarily the worlds best couple in that we like each other but we are waiting not like sex or shit we understand we are in middle school
I am in middle school myself, and I know that dating is a loose-loose no matter how you look at it. Even if you keep below the radar, everyone will be on you like "What you gonna do next? You gonna kiss?" You break up, everyone is like "HA HA, YOU GOT DUMPED!" But the worst part about it is that the guys are dating like it's a game. "Yeah, I went out with 7 chicks in a month." NO! ITS NOT RIGHT! I've promised myself that I won't even consider dating at least until I can drive.
goos for you! I didnt really start dating til I was 15 and my boyfriend was 17 and today we are 20 and 22 and engaged. hes a great person and a part of my family
Keep it up. I've told myself to not even consider it until i'm at least fifteen. :)
I'm in 6th grade and over half of the middle school dates, then gossips about breakups but they don't rlly go on actual dates they just hug and its rlly weird
I don't think they should. I'm a middle schooler, and I feel like I'm the only one that's noticed that dating isn't really important right now. I mean, focus on your grades people. Once you get into a good college, feel free to get into the most serious relationship you like. At least, that's what I'm going to do.
You sure have a mature mind, I think you will go far in life. :) I'm a freshman in high school, and I agree with what you said! ^-^
Choco Bunny Thank you!! ^///^
Reading all the comments I can't believe there's so many people who are dating at age 13 or younger! When I was 13 I didn't care about a relationship at all. This generation is awful and the one after them will only get worse! I think high school is the right time to date
I think people should graduate from university, get a job, become successful then start dating... age 22 is okay I guess so maybe during university.
I'm 12 years old in grade 7 by the way...
+boysrepublic bts I feel like dating is part of your whole learning life skills in high school. I've known people who do wait that long and they tell me how hard it is for them to stay with anyone because they feel so behind in the game and have had sour first dates and first kisses as they never figured it out in high school. Also when you mentioned that you are only twelve no one is gonna take you seriously (I kinda do) because most people will just say you have no life experience.
boysrepublic bts Fair enough, I thought the same way when I was younger.
holla holla (get dolla) Bobby is that you?
no cus i am ded
My sister met a boy in 6th or 7th grade (middle school) and they dated. Now they are 22 and 25(I think) and have been engaged for a year. And then when I was in 6th grade there was this 6th graders who been together for 2 years until they broke up.
its stories like this that amaze me on some level. that kind of thing almost never happens, your sister is very lucky.
It's funny how they said you have everything to lose and nothing to gain. I see it as the opposite. I'm 21 and never had a girlfriend, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. College isn't the ideal environment when it comes to relationships. And after college, your prior experience will define who you are.
yea my parents met in 5th grade, (so 10) and they are now married
I met a worker at a camp, that called his wife his girlfriend when he was 8 XD
We'll if they knew each other through all that, they couldn't have waited?
In my small home town middle school relationships were different. most became best friends and it was almost a way of bringing the largely divided genders together. even after relationships ended a friendship generally stood. along with this normally when a dude and a lady entered a relationship both friend groups mashed together. my 8th grade year my friend group doubled in size as my friends and my girlfriends friends all became friends. it bridged the gap between awkward confrontation with girls and meaningful conversation. it thought me that girls and women we not unlike men and boys sharing a lot of the same feelings and aspirations. in all my grade became a lot closer through middle school largely because of the relationships that occurred.
taught * are not*
Matthew Finley nice sentencing and profile pic.
so you had orgy's?... gross
I don't know about other people, but middle school dating is where you hang out during school and that's it.
I think that it's up to them. It's a learning process, yes, and it might not be very serious, but I don't see the harm. Especially (and I know this is rare, but still) since my cousin began dating her now-husband in 8th grade, and they have a beautiful baby girl together. More often than not, middle school relationships don't last, of course, but I really don't see the harm, as long as they aren't doing anything too mature for their age.
I agree they also said that they learned to make better choices from dating that early
All they really do is stare at each other across the classrooms and sit together at lunch.
The harm is that the teenage mind is an unpredictable thing. Mood swings, slumps, and even hurting yourself can occur. It’s better to stay away.
it's ridiculous that people my age date (I'm in middle school) and i see this crap every day some hysterical girl cries in the bathroom because her boyfriend broke up with her after 2 days. Gee, I wonder why, maybe because you get hysterical over tiny little things? I don't see the point of dating before 16.
I'm in middle school, too and I don't say that you should date in middle school or not. I think u just have to be mature enough to date. Like one of my friends has been dating this guy for almost two years and they still really like each other but others just make out and stuff then break up the next day. I think u shouldn't date someone cuz they're hot, just if ur mature and actually have feelings for them.
gabthang8 What is the fucking point of it yes I did it once but when I dumped her she did cry a day later she has a new bf
wtf
to me its how mature you are
THANK YOU! Sombody finally understands!
see me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years
My mum and dad started dating in 6th grade. They've now been married 19 years
Really?
wow, talk about cory and topanga irl
Maia Nelson omg for real 😂😂
Wow that’s crazy
Good for them man👍
All my friends have boyfriends and I'm just like: "I like chips"
Fucking best thing to say ever
Taylor Stevens so true xD
Same here mate! I mean seriously. Half the relationships here are like 5 weeks ish and then theirs a stupid break up that people put on makeup and "cry" for instagram to get more views and crap. Reall. Whats with peoole. It all started with one kid that nearly got beat up because they kept asking someone out and it was annoying them.
Same except I say "Yeah well I got a boyfriend. You guys just don't have enough imagination to see him." Or I say "Coolio! I got a wolf-dragon that no one can sees..."
Nikki Valdez I think thatd just make you sound really stoned XP
I watched this when I was in 7th grade and I was dating the same boy I am now, I'm in 11th grade now. 4 years with the same boy, he gets on my nerves but the love is still as strong as it was in 7th grade ❤️
"love"*
aww
Im going into 7th grade so yeah... Yay
You're one of the lucky ones then, I believe that most middle and high school relationships don't last because you're still trying to figure yourself out at that age
You'll still be figuring yourself out at 60. Trust me, everyone is.
Having a relationship at our age is important. We learn how to date from practicing with these "fake" relationships, then we use that practice later in life.
I think you have a point, but I, personally, have just never been interested in practicing. All people are different and some kids need to be involved in those kinds of relationships while others don't. I'm just against the people who take it way too seriously and then act like the world has ended when their high school sweethearts dumps them.
QueenSoledad Very true. You make a good point also. However you know how it is with emotions, at the time it is really upsetting but then later on we come to realise it wasn't all that big.
lol everybody dates in my middle school and I'm never into dating myself and I'm like "GIMME DA DETAILS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP"
Some people at my school could use this advice...
Yeah I've always felt the same way because those relationships have always seemed like jokes to me and like they're just mimicking, hence them only lasting a few months. It's as if people think its cool just to have one. Plus I don't really want to bring a girl home to my house I live at with my parents all the time.
anyone know how to get out of the friendzone without faking death?
Get the AR
As a middle schooler... no we should definitely not
THANK YOU. I am in 7th grade and all around me I hear people going like "Yah my boyfriend blah blah blah and my ex blah blah blah" like, you're 12-13, you shouldn't be "dating". I'm the same age as them, but I feel more mature.
+Jill Bear That's the thing, they aren't dating. They're just talking.
You say that but there are people that I know in the 4th and 5th grade who date and go to the movies together and text each other goodnight and all kinds of stuff that the high schoolers do. Don't take that the wrong way either because they don't do THAT. But i Jaeson some people really do date they don't just talk. They leave notes in each others lockers to. Yes the 4th and 5th grade have lockers big whoop. Just think about that young of people dating!!
Natalie Williams
Firstly, what Elementary Schoolers have phones? That's way too early.
Secondly, it sounds cute, yes. But will it mean anything? No. Reason being is that no "couple" is going to last from 4th or 5th grade. That's a fact.
I know but they think they need phones AND ipods, ipads , ipad minies and whatever comes out.
Natalie Williams
What does that have to do with anything? I know they think they need everything, but that doesn't mean their parents have to give into their demands.