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  • Kandi and Todd talk about how they had to adjust from single-life partying to focusing on their marriage. Also, making sure there's always gas in the car. ;)
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  • @CremedelaCreme777
    @CremedelaCreme777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    “...And then you ask to use my car.. drive it all day & don’t fill up the tank!” *Beyoncé voice*
    Kandi wrote those lyrics so you KNOW she’s not playing about men doing the ⛽️. And I feel her 100%!!

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Her love language is acts of service

    • @chinemeremudoh3732
      @chinemeremudoh3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! So glad you cut through the "noise" and got to the meat o the talk. All the comments about he must do this, and men must do that,..bla bla bla. Nobody noted how she didn't say the things that HE DID DO!

    • @giabrooks2717
      @giabrooks2717 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, because I am the same way, my love language is an act of service.

  • @sheree1994sa
    @sheree1994sa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Unfortunately we're livin in a society where men want to be treated like kings but don't Want the responsibility of being a man

    • @striving1
      @striving1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TheLunzDen
      @TheLunzDen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We also live in a society where women want to be treated like Queens but don't do queen like things so maybe we all gotta look within

    • @changeoffocus1074
      @changeoffocus1074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Both S A & Karl are correct... lol ...
      Ppl somehow find ppl that aren’t yoked!!!

    • @thandosbistro6458
      @thandosbistro6458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mmmmmmmmmm.

    • @CocoChanelle-1
      @CocoChanelle-1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheLunzDenjust ask for what you want. If she loves you, she will try to accommodate.

  • @greenghost3756
    @greenghost3756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I can't stop laughing while watching this, can't stop thinking of her mom talking about how short they both are with big bobble heads🤣🤣😂her mom is a trip

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mama Joyce 😫😂😂 I wonder if she regrets some of the things she said about Todd when they first got together. Her little grandson Ace looks just like her😅 The little cutie.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@britjj5126 sure as hell she has no regrets..

    • @laj4186
      @laj4186 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's that D.S.G.G. In us Kandi! I shouldn't have to think about gas let alone touch a filthy gas pump!

  • @joannapilgrim
    @joannapilgrim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "You're right"- best line

  • @quanishajackson1438
    @quanishajackson1438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I agree with kandi my man always makes sure everything is okay with my car maintenance gas included

  • @denardjones7077
    @denardjones7077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    That's definitely a southern thing. My grandpa said "A woman has no business touching gas pumps with a man." I thought that was CRAZY as a kid... but it's definitely GAME! Heck he was married 60 years, so he must know something.

    • @2Lovelifedaily
      @2Lovelifedaily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Man! I believe this wholeheartedly. If a man is present, I should never have to touch that pump. This has ended a possible relationship for me. Respect for women is of the utmost importance. All women.

    • @trinimarie9974
      @trinimarie9974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @coachhbosoccer
      @coachhbosoccer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      African families are kinda the same. We don't expect our ladies to pump their own has although they can

    • @novalove4790
      @novalove4790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's a southern old school thing. It really hit home for me when I was at the gas station and this older lady asked me how to pay for gas at the pump and the whole process. Her husband had just passed away, and he always handled that kinda stuff... It really caught me off guard but it enlightened me on how much times have changed from then to now.

    • @CremedelaCreme777
      @CremedelaCreme777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nova Love awww reading that just made me so sad 😔

  • @CassieAfricanQueen
    @CassieAfricanQueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’ve been with my husband 18 years and YES it’s a southern thing. My hands don’t touch a gas pump and I don’t keep up with gas prices shortages outages or leaks. LOL. A husband is a provider and that includes providing my gas. A husband is a protector and that includes protecting me from running out of gas and being stranded. Thank God there are still some good men left in this world. Happy wife happy life. Happy husband happy wife. Love wins 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @Rocioslane
    @Rocioslane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I love watching these videos so much, there's so much transparency and just straight up realness

  • @taylorduvernay9789
    @taylorduvernay9789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That "I am a Leo "🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sounds very familiar, it's our world, you all live in it 👑. I love this couple

    • @sierrac4157
      @sierrac4157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tell it. Proud leo ♌️ over here

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you for fixing the sound.

  • @Drawingboredi
    @Drawingboredi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love seeing all the different relationships. They have their rules and it works or it does not but there is love.

  • @karenbenton3921
    @karenbenton3921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Kandi is a Taurus we love hard and we are devoted to our men. A beautiful couple.

  • @Joy_LaFaye
    @Joy_LaFaye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y’all are so cute!! Ya’ll’s bond are so adorable!! Thx immensely for sharing this!! The nuggets are powerful!! 🙌🏾❤️

  • @lakeishaslovingteachings6704
    @lakeishaslovingteachings6704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Im a Taurus with a Leo and baaaaby when I say he don’t wanna do NOTHING! 🤣🤣 this too cute and funny

  • @ajemroberts3903
    @ajemroberts3903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every woman has their thing and standards and good for her in articulating hers. I like the honesty. I, on the other hand was not and did not marry a man that doesn’t pull some weight. Women need to set their standards early and not get caught up in the clouds because some men will make full use of that disadvantage.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yeah anyone that drive the car last should put gas in the car if it was low. That is just common courtesy. Sone people see things differently though, and that is okay. That is why we have to learn to express ourselves in a healthy way. When it comes to any type of relationship.

  • @teejay8910
    @teejay8910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello Happy Monday 🌞...
    I love Kandi &Todd's love story 💞..They are a true
    Black Love Couple..
    Thank you..
    New Subscriber...
    Stay safe be happy..
    Sincerely Tee Jay

  • @Ruffbone85
    @Ruffbone85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm a Leo too but I handle all the manly duties and cook as well

    • @tashawnahamilton6558
      @tashawnahamilton6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly, I don’t believe zodiac signs have anything to do with it but each marriage have their own rules. They have money so they might have a housekeeper. My husband is a Leo, he will cook and clean the kitchen, take care of the car and the handy work inside and outside of the house but the major cleaning in the house is my job. He will also do laundry.

  • @energy5351
    @energy5351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi guys I am so glad yall still together. You guys are wonderful 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Maturity the two worlds becoming one

  • @alainapullock81
    @alainapullock81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Man..she make all that damn money and married him? Dont clean? Dont take the trash out? What you here for bruh? This is making me appreciate my husband a lot more. Especially with kids his ass need to clean up and help

  • @mystarlife
    @mystarlife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg! My mom has the same opinion about putting gas in the car. My dad always does that for her and she is the one using more the car. I never understood it to be honest.

  • @rferguson445
    @rferguson445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love them together.

  • @lhamilton6041
    @lhamilton6041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @2:52 😂 I needed that laugh 😂
    OMG I’m totally binge watching the episodes!

  • @shamykanichols1984
    @shamykanichols1984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yes, please keep the tank full or at half.

  • @DimpledNatural
    @DimpledNatural 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Does he do anything around the house?

    • @HEReIAM829
      @HEReIAM829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She said he went to produce a show so I guess he's a producer ❤

    • @DimpledNatural
      @DimpledNatural 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@HEReIAM829 let me clarify, around the house lol

    • @catharinewilks9424
      @catharinewilks9424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, he has one area in lock for sure

    • @HEReIAM829
      @HEReIAM829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh ok lol

    • @ajjajk
      @ajjajk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cute couples, but I see her with a lot of eye-roll and screw face, let’s hope they hang in there.

  • @lf5163
    @lf5163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That gas thing is real.

  • @LilAlpo1
    @LilAlpo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's adorable and always has been.

  • @rogers5622
    @rogers5622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Tickets are one of my favorites

  • @teddywhite3461
    @teddywhite3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is definitely a part of protecting and providing for your woman...

  • @helenebutler723
    @helenebutler723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful couple

  • @maxinetba
    @maxinetba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome content

  • @cedmc6711
    @cedmc6711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love her!!!!

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kandi has insecurities bought on by her insecure none trusting mom

  • @teejaybee9
    @teejaybee9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "you right"

  • @thisisshauna6986
    @thisisshauna6986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All I really got from this was that gas ⛽️. That ish is soooo serious. Keep gas in my realm car. My husband will have this down to a tea. Gas in car equals last relationship.

  • @ladyyaya78
    @ladyyaya78 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww, I love me some Kandi!! 🥰😊😘💕💕💜

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It makes the woman feel like you are protecting her and care about her safety. That she doesn’t get stranded somewhere in the dark running out of gas. He should also check the air in the tires and oil before she leaves for a long trip.

  • @DreamChaserAtlanta
    @DreamChaserAtlanta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A man that doesn't pump the gas is kind of a deal-breaker. My sons are teenagers now and they pump the gas when they are with me

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is odd. I get what you are trying to say. But that is odd to make that a deal breaker.

    • @DreamChaserAtlanta
      @DreamChaserAtlanta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ladennayoung2939 yeah it may seem odd to some but pumping gas is one of those gentlemen things. And if a man isn't a gentleman I can't do it.

  • @teejay8910
    @teejay8910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello All..I'd like to thank the Persons who like my comment..It's greatly appreciated.. Have a wonderful Sunday.. Sincerely Tee Jay 🤗

  • @sadadevries5875
    @sadadevries5875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not awkward at al ... I mean there’s a way to saying things like this

  • @destinypalin5657
    @destinypalin5657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this 😍😘

  • @rosemaryrivers66
    @rosemaryrivers66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes I have a dang Leo man.. LAWD

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rosemary Rivers Treat him right. Communication is key. - a Leo lady ❤️

    • @rosemaryrivers66
      @rosemaryrivers66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sunshinesunflowerz1647 I do !!!!! I love my hunny ❤.Thanks

  • @latifajenkins6547
    @latifajenkins6547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Terrible I wouldn’t be married to a man like that at all

  • @JD-fg1nx
    @JD-fg1nx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sounds like a sorry dude.

  • @ylpitts1
    @ylpitts1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I’m a southern woman and my husband pumps the gas hell most our cars I don’t know where the whole is my husband will not let me or my daughters pump gas and he opens my car doors any door and our girls always say if a man doesn’t do the things my dad does for you I don’t want him
    My oldest daughter is 22 my second is 18 and the baby is 15 and they all looking for their dad in a guy

  • @user-gg4vh9jx8j
    @user-gg4vh9jx8j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unequally yoked couple that came together for business purposes.

  • @shavodkahudson7051
    @shavodkahudson7051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So, on top of everything else he sorry as hell too???

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The gas thing is a thing ...and some women think men should lock the doors

  • @michaelcampbell5849
    @michaelcampbell5849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fill up the tank.

  • @chanellefoster4711
    @chanellefoster4711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HELLOOOOOOO!!!!!! I believe that 100000000%

  • @bOmBAsTiK
    @bOmBAsTiK 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, Kandi seems unhappy like they ain't gone make it...

    • @jamesthomas2152
      @jamesthomas2152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She looks happy to me this was 3 years ago 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @bOmBAsTiK
      @bOmBAsTiK ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesthomas2152 Ok girlfriend maybe you right

    • @jamesthomas2152
      @jamesthomas2152 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bOmBAsTiK I am right mr man hands

  • @JloveLamar
    @JloveLamar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything she says TRUMPS how she lets Mama Joyce treat him. Love you, Kandi, but im gone be ALL the problems if i have to deal with Mama Joyce 😂

  • @FWCLILSUS
    @FWCLILSUS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are so FAKE! You never know when she's telling the WHOLE truth so it's very deceiving!

  • @9mind236
    @9mind236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😬

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen1527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They wont last

    • @tabithabrice5905
      @tabithabrice5905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      6yr in neither one of them going anyway

    • @wandaerving3065
      @wandaerving3065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They good

    • @ajjajk
      @ajjajk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She need the old school man not a young guy who looking for someone to look after him.

    • @MrsSamanthaStar
      @MrsSamanthaStar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm thinking the same thing🤦🏾‍♀️ she will not give up easily, but i don't see it

  • @MrNanah38
    @MrNanah38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They look like brothers and sisters so weird.

    • @lantonetteboothe3930
      @lantonetteboothe3930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ppl say couples start to look alike after awhile ppl think my husband and I look alike too. I’m my opinion we dnt

  • @brodeythedisciplinebarber1117
    @brodeythedisciplinebarber1117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy wife happy life... bullshit lol

  • @Judy1201.
    @Judy1201. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not that serious Kanda.

  • @derrickstingley6895
    @derrickstingley6895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kand is

  • @s2891j
    @s2891j ปีที่แล้ว

    He seems boring