asking high school boys questions girls are afraid to ask

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  • hey guys so in this video i asked high school boys questions you guys wanted me to ask!! don't take this stuff too serious i thought it was just fun to hear their opinions :)
    social media ~
    instagram : abby.gigliotti
    ✰ common questions ✰
    age - 17
    camera - canon g7x
    editing software - imovie
    thumbnails - picmonkey
    thanks so much for watching 🌟

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  • @nirvanaz7493
    @nirvanaz7493 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11711

    “Is it cute when girls wear glasses?” SIS DONT WORRY ABOUT THAT YOU NEED TO SEE

    • @michala539
      @michala539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +369

      thank you. I needed to hear this lol

    • @meagan3866
      @meagan3866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      Jordan Thompson contacts... are very expensive

    • @mollymt
      @mollymt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Jordan Thompson contacts....can be uncomfortable

    • @milkaho
      @milkaho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@jordanthompson2349 (some parents won't let us wear) contacts...

    • @oliviaharris917
      @oliviaharris917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      @@jordanthompson2349 contacts..... aren't right for some people's.....eyes

  • @mskenziehartnett
    @mskenziehartnett 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17627

    boys: “starting a conversation is so easy just say hi and ask how our day was”
    me texting any boy ever: “hey how was your day?”
    boy: “good.”

    • @benthompson7495
      @benthompson7495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +426

      kenz72001 well sometimes that’s obvious they aren’t interested

    • @benthompson7495
      @benthompson7495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      kenz72001 it’ll kinda show if they’re talkative enough to keep a convo going

    • @lemonoats6037
      @lemonoats6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +308

      Ben Thompson yeah i get that but sometimes it really confuses me when a guy says he’s interested in me but doesn’t want to keep the conversation going. maybe it’s just the specific guy i’m talking about...

    • @jasminebundy3499
      @jasminebundy3499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lemonoats it’s not

    • @matilda9466
      @matilda9466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@lemonoats6037 omg I feel that!! I went to a silvester party and a guy and I talked really much and he asked if I had a boyfriend and stuff but now he just freakin' awnsers so dry and ahhh idk, gonna see him again soon and Im really nervous how it'll turn out

  • @mmfb_
    @mmfb_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23337

    why are teenage boys so weird like they just are different from little boys and different from young adults it’s literally a new species lol

    • @blakehyslop2605
      @blakehyslop2605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      mm fb false we are very straight forward.

    • @blakehyslop2605
      @blakehyslop2605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Jethro Tull Fr bro

    • @maya4054
      @maya4054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @I love Cake Popz Can you take a joke?

    • @dylansmith7673
      @dylansmith7673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      These guys misrepresent

    • @folbfolb
      @folbfolb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      that could be said about both kids and adults too though?? so ...??

  • @Ekkos_echo
    @Ekkos_echo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4118

    "Starting a conversation is so easy"
    "Not being confident is unattractive"
    Social anxiety: *ahem*

    • @ames_7707
      @ames_7707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      This made me laugh so hard 😂 and I love your profile picture Uraraka

    • @vigilantic3953
      @vigilantic3953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      *Laughs in introvert*

    • @user-ul8nv4hn3h
      @user-ul8nv4hn3h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me!!!

    • @shachartzadok
      @shachartzadok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh nooo😭 me too>:(

    • @aeroplaneoversea
      @aeroplaneoversea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      *chuckles in introvert and social anxiety*

  • @brooklynmassey4554
    @brooklynmassey4554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5005

    “i think it’s cute when a girl can write”
    well i think it’s cute when a guy can read

  • @UstatKaur
    @UstatKaur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5496

    the top left guy is just chilling the whole time and I vibe with it omlll

    • @soniaboschsole3413
      @soniaboschsole3413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      X2

    • @sammlehman5840
      @sammlehman5840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      he’s my favorite

    • @alianatheaalvarez34
      @alianatheaalvarez34 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      He's so cute hahaha

    • @kelseybab
      @kelseybab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The one with the beanie or the one in the green😂 cause they switched spots

    • @nixter.68
      @nixter.68 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ustat Kaur he def has a crush on the girl-

  • @dianacarolina6433
    @dianacarolina6433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4595

    They all said that they prefer Netflix and chill and then say that girls have to be adventurous and can’t be lazy? Like what👀

    • @priimly7550
      @priimly7550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      When they said adventurous, they just meant they like girls who are going to be open to going places and doing things

    • @angelinasfavs218
      @angelinasfavs218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Netflix and chill also means something else 👀 look it up in urban dictionary

    • @sage7796
      @sage7796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Angelinasfavs just saw what a Netflix and chill is in the urban dictionary. I um don’t know what to say and think

    • @similanscheer2148
      @similanscheer2148 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the exact same thing😂😂😂

    • @Shellbells10
      @Shellbells10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My like turned 1.9k to 2k and it was very satisfying. That’s all

  • @MalakAhmed-ft6ow
    @MalakAhmed-ft6ow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3858

    “Blonde hair blue eyes”
    *Cries in brown hair brown eyes*

    • @Cinnamon_pancake
      @Cinnamon_pancake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      SAME

    • @laneybishop7094
      @laneybishop7094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      red hair brown eyes😢

    • @Ruuma11
      @Ruuma11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Light brown hair and blue eyes! So close!! 😭

    • @tink6225
      @tink6225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      *cries in black girl*

    • @abbagailosborne2035
      @abbagailosborne2035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Uhhh blond hair blue eyes is hitlers type...

  • @cher8847
    @cher8847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9256

    them: *just say hi it's not that hard*
    me: *_cries in anxiety_*

    • @mortonvideos8024
      @mortonvideos8024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I feel you..

    • @moon_lyrics
      @moon_lyrics 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      aphrodite lennon. Social Anxiety really sucks

    • @enjo2005
      @enjo2005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Never forget, you are amazing 💕💕 its okay to not be okay sometimes

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      !!!

    • @huhkatie6066
      @huhkatie6066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      bro the last time i tried talking to my crush my anxiety kicked in and my inner body started shaking so😞

  • @lianswarens
    @lianswarens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7024

    “oh ladies ladies the fake tan has got to go PLEASE” had me dead

    • @Emma19
      @Emma19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Blackberry13
      @Blackberry13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      500th like :)

    • @loulouguzman6162
      @loulouguzman6162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      But people out here lookin orange fr 🚫🧢😂

    • @breanna8183
      @breanna8183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      but what if i’m a ginger and i’m P A S T Y

    • @lujain961
      @lujain961 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I even hate sun tan :( but i get it everytime i go to the beach :/

  • @virginialane8847
    @virginialane8847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6580

    them:“not being confident is unattractive”
    me: “what the hell we gon do now.”
    edit: why did i just now realize i got that many likes what

    • @AK_2463
      @AK_2463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Virginia Lane lmfao just cry in the corner of my room with potato chips

    • @rabea284
      @rabea284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Samee

    • @kg4life34
      @kg4life34 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I’m literally dying 😂😭

    • @madisonrose6520
      @madisonrose6520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Right😂

    • @marissaweyandt1879
      @marissaweyandt1879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same. I'm confident when I want to but not when I meet ppl

  • @charkatslife
    @charkatslife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +972

    “They can wear glasses j not all the time”
    Yeah that’s fine I’ll j not see on Tuesdays and Thursdays

    • @M-yb4kf
      @M-yb4kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      stop stealing comments lol

    • @Botanicana
      @Botanicana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@M-yb4kf awkward lmao

    • @seblewongelnegash6885
      @seblewongelnegash6885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@M-yb4kf Oof!

    • @Botanicana
      @Botanicana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@localweeb2924 your comment is literally useless...

    • @yagirl1457
      @yagirl1457 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Local Weeb ok boomer 💀😂

  • @maddy1255
    @maddy1255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16040

    ”we don't like one word responses”
    boys: ”k”
    AKSSLFJAHXJ I come back and see 8.5k likes??!

    • @quebeclover7648
      @quebeclover7648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Quesadilla_Queen lol ikr

    • @hopevanriesen8225
      @hopevanriesen8225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      So true tho

    • @pili3282
      @pili3282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I am the 1k like jsjs

    • @supraaaaaaaa8266
      @supraaaaaaaa8266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Quesadilla_Queen this is. Low key all that my straight friends complain about lmao

    • @keighley_404
      @keighley_404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right

  • @beckyb5273
    @beckyb5273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10662

    guy: a girl can wear glasses just not all the time
    well are we just supposed to designate tuesdays and thursdays not to be blind

    • @benthompson7495
      @benthompson7495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Becky B contacts

    • @sunnymeadows676
      @sunnymeadows676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +315

      @@benthompson7495 Contacts are expensive though

    • @juliagoesfrugal
      @juliagoesfrugal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      Ben Thompson Not everyone can wear contacts, mate.

    • @baileecolley3327
      @baileecolley3327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Becky B they said only wear glasses if you actually need them not the fake ones

    • @addisonfreeland5741
      @addisonfreeland5741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Literally made me laugh out loud

  • @oliviakaufman3631
    @oliviakaufman3631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4511

    “the nose has to be normal”
    aight imma head out 🤚🏻

    • @danteanna3688
      @danteanna3688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Im screwed

    • @sylwia3415
      @sylwia3415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      okay, well... same

    • @fairoadiary
      @fairoadiary 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Olivia Kaufman I have no idea what he meant about that

    • @bellapallan5518
      @bellapallan5518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      lmao same. it’s a lil broken

    • @lindakrumina6508
      @lindakrumina6508 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right behind you

  • @penelopeholmes2869
    @penelopeholmes2869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    the guys: blah blah blah blah
    abby: literally just staring into the camera lens the whole time...😂😂😂

  • @naomil9471
    @naomil9471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12178

    “Girls need to be more confident”
    *talks about unrealistic body expectations for women*

    • @ishredchildreninboxfans754
      @ishredchildreninboxfans754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      Yay we have the same name. Sorry if I annoyed you just a cool fun fact

    • @naomil9471
      @naomil9471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I shred children in box fans haha, not annoying at all. I’ve never really met another Naomi :)

    • @ishredchildreninboxfans754
      @ishredchildreninboxfans754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      @@naomil9471 ok thank goodnesa i got truamatized when i told someone i had their same name and they said "lol i dont care" have a good day

    • @irmak3553
      @irmak3553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@ishredchildreninboxfans754 wow thats so rude for someone to say you seem really sweet I'm sorry that happened

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      exactly. Our society is stupid

  • @MariaTorres-mb2yq
    @MariaTorres-mb2yq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3870

    use this as an “I love her button”

    • @rosanoemi6360
      @rosanoemi6360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      maria torres So she loves herself haha, me too abby, love u too !!

    • @itzfrken
      @itzfrken 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      👀

    • @katiekelly6580
      @katiekelly6580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      T Dedor so

    • @lilyz5945
      @lilyz5945 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      maria torres I bet the top left guy used this

  • @AllyPuskar
    @AllyPuskar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6408

    She legit reminds me of Rowan Blanchard from Girl Meets World no cap

    • @suruj5652
      @suruj5652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I thought it was only me

    • @carolinec31
      @carolinec31 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Oh shoot, I see it now

    • @lucirose2762
      @lucirose2762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Now I can’t unsee it lol!!!!!

    • @gloria5658
      @gloria5658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🚫🧢

    • @sophiew4371
      @sophiew4371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bruh y is that so true

  • @sonjas824
    @sonjas824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3693

    I had respect for them until they said they wouldn't date a girl who wanted to wait till marriage

    • @gabrielasander4820
      @gabrielasander4820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      same

    • @jugraweb
      @jugraweb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      AGREED

    • @hood3352
      @hood3352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Alexa Barajas how so? The same way a person wants to wait for marriage, they don’t.

    • @laurenwebb2098
      @laurenwebb2098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      Like, if you really like a girl, wouldn't you be ok to wait until marriage if the girl you are dating wants to wait? Otherwise you're only there for one thing.

    • @hood3352
      @hood3352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Alexa Barajas think of it this way, some people only like chipotle with the guacamole. If they cant have the guacamole they leave to a new restaurant.

  • @kylieegreer
    @kylieegreer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3386

    Them: “not being confident is unattractive”
    Also them: complaining about girls looks and wanting to wait till marriage and making girls feel more self conscious about themselves

    • @phemiaa
      @phemiaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Kylie Elizabeth ok they did say you could have your moments but when your just constantly being unconfident and self conscious 24-7 anyone can see how that could get annoying. Also i mean maybe i didn’t catch it but i didn’t see them complaining about girls and i’m sure their intention was not to make you self conscious. I respect your opinion and i’m not trying to start any fight but we asked them questions they gave us answers in a nice way ( it’s not like they insulting everyone, they just gave they’re opinion) and if you don’t like their answers then they’re not the right guys for you.

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr!!!

    • @ronjasmile7946
      @ronjasmile7946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Le Le totally agreed but when they talked about weight and the waiting till marriage it was kinda insulting

    • @diora266
      @diora266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      says the boys who ain’t got any looks..

    • @savannamackie3720
      @savannamackie3720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@diora266 Literally if your complaining about how they did that how are you going to comment on this women's post and say they are ugly. You are completely contradicting yourself.

  • @my_wifi_went_out3633
    @my_wifi_went_out3633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3672

    “THE FAKE TAN HAS GOT TO GO LADIES.” “We can tell! You look like an Oompa Loompa!” That’s on periodt honestly

    • @mollienisiamore5576
      @mollienisiamore5576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      PROBLEMATIC .exe. I dont have fake tan im as pale as snow

    • @carolineyoung3804
      @carolineyoung3804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this is the one 🤣

    • @niamhh333
      @niamhh333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      PROBLEMATIC .exe. Very true and they end up looking like a homeless Donald trump with money

    • @camilleeve4525
      @camilleeve4525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Let people do what they want and what makes them feel confident... and THATS on periodt

    • @benthompson7495
      @benthompson7495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      camille eve were just saying most girls aren’t getting a guy when they have created a new race of orange people

  • @gabrielaferhen9383
    @gabrielaferhen9383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3513

    Imagine a girl from their school is watching this and has a crush on one of these guys 😶
    SHE GONNA HAVE AL THE MOOOOVES.

    • @abbie4857
      @abbie4857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Pahahahhaa omg bro stop I'm laughing too hard

    • @gabilovecraft
      @gabilovecraft 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lmaooo

    • @montyroni
      @montyroni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Gabriela FerHen Oh shit I hope that’s not true, they would be really pressured 😰

    • @jennapastore3315
      @jennapastore3315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      She talking all the notes

    • @wamtaani11
      @wamtaani11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Watch it be the girl in the middle😶

  • @sophiastella8119
    @sophiastella8119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2705

    "stop dyeing your hair ladies we want that natural look" Do your guys really think we dye our hair for you?
    I'll dye my hair as much as I want.

    • @fluffydragon7234
      @fluffydragon7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Sophia Schulbeck bruh he was talking bout his preference nd its like the whole point of the video lmao

    • @draytonlinen1518
      @draytonlinen1518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@fluffydragon7234 yessssss

    • @sidney8.3.27
      @sidney8.3.27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Sophia Schulbeck I dye my hair all the time, and a boy likes me, and asks me when I’m going to dye my hair again. However, other boys in my class think I’m mentally insane because I’ve put natural highlights in my hair and think I’m the most depressed person on earth when I put a strip of blue in my hair. The truth is I just like experimenting. I have a lot of insecurities, but I have friends and family a generally pretty good life. Some boys are great and like you for who you are, while others are just picky and judgmental.

    • @charkatslife
      @charkatslife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Sophia Schulbeck lol I dyed my hair and all my guy friends were like “gUys dOnt liKe deYeD hAir, u lOok stUpid” I was like bruh I ain’t do this for y’all lmao I was j bored

    • @deadinside6590
      @deadinside6590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactlyyy

  • @frieda8768
    @frieda8768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4347

    One guy: “don’t be lazy”
    Me, who’s been laying in bed all day: ehhhm okayy then
    edit: thanks for all the likes haha now I don’t feel like I’m the only one lmao

    • @ghostly7995
      @ghostly7995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      don't feel guilty!! so have i lmao

    • @zoemacdonald5443
      @zoemacdonald5443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me: only being lazy because I have nothing to do

    • @galacticlavalamp6338
      @galacticlavalamp6338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tbh do whatever tf you want

    • @Verystrongman84
      @Verystrongman84 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frieda 876 same tho

    • @kajaaki8422
      @kajaaki8422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tbh I'm lazy but I'm always down to hang and go places..

  • @kailajensen1021
    @kailajensen1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2397

    “Favorite activity to do with a girl”
    Ben: “I wouldn’t know”
    I felt that

  • @ayeshabahl964
    @ayeshabahl964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1774

    “girls need to be more confident” but thne one of the unattractive qualities is being confident... and girls r the confusing ones okkk

    • @jokesonyoubuddy2526
      @jokesonyoubuddy2526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      what you talkin' about, they said no confidence is unattractive but you can have unconfident moments

    • @keighley_404
      @keighley_404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      If they did say that they meant TOO much confidence is unattractive

    • @dina-rf3ol
      @dina-rf3ol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I think you’re mistaking confidence with OVERconfidence and cockiness, there’s a big difference.

  • @lilabarron1685
    @lilabarron1685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1576

    "we like blonde hair blue eyes" "don't dye your hair we like it natural" WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM US

    • @runningwiththewolves8284
      @runningwiththewolves8284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Lila Barron lol for a few minutes I just forgot that I have dyed red hair... in my head I still think of myself as having blonde hair lmao.

    • @Name-gb8nr
      @Name-gb8nr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      My Hair is naturally blonde but I always wanted brown hair

    • @Name-gb8nr
      @Name-gb8nr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      JEWEL CHANG JIA EN Moe 😂👩🏼🔁👩🏻

    • @amppuli
      @amppuli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      they want nordic countries girls

    • @elizabethhall2047
      @elizabethhall2047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      sooo typical

  • @leahjames7369
    @leahjames7369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1508

    Abby *taking notes in her head the whole time

  • @soobs3rdtoefromtheright
    @soobs3rdtoefromtheright 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2942

    The guy in the green champion hoodie is the most genuine the other guys ain’t it

    • @brennadaniellex
      @brennadaniellex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      When they all said "netflix and chill" and he says "I wouldnt know" ); poor dude.

    • @nuha.810
      @nuha.810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Trueee i agree 💯💯💯

    • @juliac6239
      @juliac6239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      i also feel like he isn't straight but idk

    • @nuha.810
      @nuha.810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@juliac6239 i mean we can't assume... So let's not think that

    • @hannahkrystyn5947
      @hannahkrystyn5947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      fax no printer

  • @melike5894
    @melike5894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4725

    my eyes when they talk: 👈🏼👉🏻☝🏼👆🏼👇🏻

  • @sophiebegun1947
    @sophiebegun1947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    "like if I have a crush on this girl.."
    *stares at Abby*

  • @urbanremi2659
    @urbanremi2659 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5417

    girls would be more confident if they didn’t feel pressured to have natural hair, a skinny waist, and perfect nose lmao

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      urbandolliesAG Yup.

    • @ekohw
      @ekohw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      You wouldnt feel pressured if you could validate yourself. Humans crave validation from others to make themselves feel better. Sure someone giving you a compliment is nice, but you need to be able to look at yourself and not doubt that YOU like what you see. You'll never be happy if you rely on everyone else opinions about you.

    • @saigie3908
      @saigie3908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      AND to be a specific race

    • @leogene7255
      @leogene7255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s not bad

    • @gabbymatheney3958
      @gabbymatheney3958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exactlyyyyyy

  • @maggieredmond825
    @maggieredmond825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2512

    For all the girls in high school taking this to heart: guys don’t mean shit. I used to try and please every guy that looked my way and it never worked out. The moment you just embrace who u are is when you’ll find the right guy :)

    • @julee7730
      @julee7730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Maggie Redmond SO TRUE! If you can’t be your true self around your significant other-then it’s not going to last

    • @pandagames8625
      @pandagames8625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I’m in middle school and I don’t really *need* a guy, I just want someone to cuddle and love
      I couldn’t get one anyway tho because I’m really ugly and nowhere near confident

    • @maddyiliffe751
      @maddyiliffe751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Panda Games don’t give ur love to other people until u can give love to urself☺️

    • @pandagames8625
      @pandagames8625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cool Billy Bill Guess who never gonna be giving anyone love then ✌🏻

    • @maddyiliffe751
      @maddyiliffe751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Panda Games nah that’s a shit outlook. confidence isn’t about looks it’s about urself...if u gotta bad attitude and give up quickly, then that’s why ur never going to be confident

  • @jiminiesheart2134
    @jiminiesheart2134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1422

    “Why don’t you tell us that you like us?”
    The same reason you don’t.

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @wamtaani11
      @wamtaani11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ayeeee. Clap back. Best comment I've seen

    • @KimNamjoon-vy7pq
      @KimNamjoon-vy7pq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dokidokitodoroki5180
      stop talking about bts now

    • @jiminiesheart2134
      @jiminiesheart2134 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      JiminGotJams
      Yes

  • @abigailm4717
    @abigailm4717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    them: "shy girls are unattractive"
    "being not confident is a big turn off"
    oh,,, anyways--
    but what do they expect when they have a whole list of what they want in a girl, like ??

    • @federicabuso1342
      @federicabuso1342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Say this louder for the people in the back!

    • @elenisavva3640
      @elenisavva3640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Im shy like whag am i expected to do?wake up and be no shy anymore

    • @sigma959
      @sigma959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They act like we act shy so we can get guys smh😒

    • @pikoloksh6195
      @pikoloksh6195 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's often not a strict list tho, just mildiling boundaries that are very malleable

    • @GavriJ
      @GavriJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Avery Asselin everyone is. and they really only represent themselves, not the entire gender. This is just 5 teenage boys figuring themselves out.

  • @abby-ic3ov
    @abby-ic3ov 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3938

    guy: starting a conversation is so easy
    me: ever heard of *social anxiety* ?

    • @maritwyss
      @maritwyss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Y E S! finally someone who UNDERSTANDS ME!

    • @DanielaLopez-zc1dz
      @DanielaLopez-zc1dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      fr

    • @allybeek6246
      @allybeek6246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. If it's soooo easy why don't more boys start conversations or ask us out. It goes both ways...

    • @hood3352
      @hood3352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In society guys generally start the convo and trust me its really scary and hard for us too. Us guys would love to even that out and have it be more equal.

    • @sophiekelly3857
      @sophiekelly3857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly I’m anti social

  • @crustynarwhal8456
    @crustynarwhal8456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3575

    The amount of times everybody interrupted each other stressed me the frick out

  • @sheridanwang9764
    @sheridanwang9764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2745

    That guy who said “I have ocd about snap and have to open it” like same.

    • @emilyparsons18
      @emilyparsons18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Sheridan Wang haven’t related to something more haha

    • @penelopelucas7942
      @penelopelucas7942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sheridan Wang bruh same I can’t not open lmaoooo

    • @gizellejubeili8839
      @gizellejubeili8839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sameee

    • @ariisaway
      @ariisaway 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg litterally same

    • @KetziahTumbles
      @KetziahTumbles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sheridan Wang not what OCD is lol

  • @scoopy3810
    @scoopy3810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +934

    The boys: Just say hi it’s not that hard
    Me: I said hi once and asked how their day was. He told me that his basketball practice was cancelled due to snow, I said oh my play rehearsal was cancelled. He responded “?” I replied, I was going to rehearse for my play. He responded, and I care why? He then unfriended me and that’s why I’m scared to talk to boys.
    Edit: Later he told my friend that I blocked him and I was like, okay buddy.
    Another Edit: I also have SAD and GAD. It also doesn’t help that I’m a introvert and socially awkward.

    • @kikyostan9102
      @kikyostan9102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Damn that's messed up..

    • @sterredoeven1893
      @sterredoeven1893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Camille Gourley not all boys are like that! Usually people don’t even remember what you said the other day so don’t be scared :)

    • @scoopy3810
      @scoopy3810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Sterre Doeven Thanks for responding, I know not all boys are like that. I come from a small school and so does this boy. I’m saying this because it just shows you some examples of how harsh boys can be at this one school. I have lots of guy friends at my school. The part about me not talking to boys was kind of a joke. Anyway.

    • @aightsis5825
      @aightsis5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      what a joey

    • @thenightbringer9770
      @thenightbringer9770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m sorry

  • @isabellaross8740
    @isabellaross8740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2901

    The boy in the green (in the back) is the only one I’d date he isn’t embarrassed and truthful everyone else wasn’t as open

    • @emilybmusic3304
      @emilybmusic3304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      Facts I was just about to say that. He was the only one that seemed like a genuinly cool guy and not just a 'cool guy!' ya know?

    • @parps6dita290
      @parps6dita290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same you got to appreciate guys keeping it 💯 with us

    • @shyahheremia625
      @shyahheremia625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      his name is ben :)

    • @ayaabbas2526
      @ayaabbas2526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He seems genuine

    • @peachvendetta7032
      @peachvendetta7032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      he seems like a guy i would want to be friends with, he’s honest. legit the level headed one of the group. i like how he’s open and sweet, like even if what he says may offend others, he’s being honest in a way that doesn’t attack the fundamentals of female self esteem

  • @naomicarr4462
    @naomicarr4462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    The guy in the top right really standing up for shy girls ✊🏼

    • @chynnarodriguez928
      @chynnarodriguez928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Naomi Carr yah wish there were more guys like that😩

  • @everytay8191
    @everytay8191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1926

    "is it cute if girls wear glasses" "if they dont wear them all the time" *cries in blindness*

    • @mikaeltruelove
      @mikaeltruelove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      EveryTay me, who has worn glasses full time since age 7: *cries in blindness with you*

    • @maya-wd3sx
      @maya-wd3sx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      EveryTay contacts

    • @mikaeltruelove
      @mikaeltruelove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Maya Gal fun fact: some of us are so damn blind that contacts literally don’t work properally lmao

    • @aightsis5825
      @aightsis5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *blurry tears*

    • @leeparrish6094
      @leeparrish6094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have a thing where my eyes are different shapes so I can't wear contacts 😭😭

  • @dehoneys5945
    @dehoneys5945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2312

    when they said they wouldnt date someone if they're waiting till marriage my respect for them went 📉📉📉

    • @peptobismol3949
      @peptobismol3949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      i got my hopes up. but most guys really aren't into that religious thing? kinda sad :(

    • @sena5721
      @sena5721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      Especially when they literally screamed “No” without hesitation, as if it was something disgusting, you know what I mean?

    • @peptobismol3949
      @peptobismol3949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @@sena5721 Yeah, the part of them not following or believing in religious practice is totally fine, it was the way they said it. They made it seem like it was something weird and unacceptable in a way. Totally agree, you worded that perfectly

    • @brynnawhitney4823
      @brynnawhitney4823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      I felt that, I want to wait it’s not even a religious thing for me. I just want to wait and I would hope they accept that and if they don’t then they are not right for me

    • @teganfryer9265
      @teganfryer9265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I'm not religious, but if you really like someone you should respect their choices its not all about that stuff

  • @val2988
    @val2988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6085

    Abby, how the hell did u get all those boys to film with u?😂

    • @haleytrisha
      @haleytrisha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Valen Lopez I feel that😂

    • @aayahaslam
      @aayahaslam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      probably food

    • @victoriagrana9056
      @victoriagrana9056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Honestly tho 😂

    • @Nikki-pu3se
      @Nikki-pu3se 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Fame lol maybe

    • @mely260
      @mely260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I would like to know that too

  • @elliepearse3145
    @elliepearse3145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3613

    “don’t dye your hair we want that natural look”
    shame we don’t dye our hair for you

    • @reddie_spaghetti2712
      @reddie_spaghetti2712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Ikr!

    • @mimoexists3109
      @mimoexists3109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I'm glad you exist

    • @reed4333
      @reed4333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Good cause we don’t like it

    • @Paige64388
      @Paige64388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @Shultzchet
      @Shultzchet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm going to use an example of blonde hair because that's what they preferred, if we prefer blonde hair we would still rather have a natural brunette than one who dies her hair blonde.

  • @ellalocke3569
    @ellalocke3569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2477

    “don’t dye your hair”
    me: *looks down at my faded purple, soon to be dark red, hair*

    • @isabellabean1933
      @isabellabean1933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I love hair dye

    • @normanreeduslvr
      @normanreeduslvr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg I have faded purple hair too and I'm gonna dye it dark red next after wtf

    • @anoukf9455
      @anoukf9455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bruhhh same I dyed my hair it should be dark red turned out purple

    • @courtneyanne7053
      @courtneyanne7053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      “Don’t dye your hair”
      Me: looks at my cut bangs and half black half blue hair..

    • @egdspam6964
      @egdspam6964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ikr like why should that define u

  • @txufanvanslover3653
    @txufanvanslover3653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Her being by a lot of boys: acting normal
    Me being by a lot of boys: umm

  • @kittymoir4599
    @kittymoir4599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2151

    “stop dying your hair ladies we want that natural look”
    has it ever crossed your mind that not everything girls do is to impress guys?

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yes

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I've read that about 80% of what girls wear is for themselves and 20% for other girls.

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've read that about 80% of what girls wear is for themselves and 20% for other girls.

    • @kyraclarke3559
      @kyraclarke3559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      yeah but if girls are actually taking note from this video then they ARE obviously trying to impress

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kyraclarke3559 in what ways do you try to impress?

  • @mishalkhan4096
    @mishalkhan4096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2665

    the one with the stussy sweater has some oppppiiinniionnnsss

    • @owenflynn3567
      @owenflynn3567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Mishal Khan sorry

    • @ev7227
      @ev7227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      He cute tho

    • @mK-yt9ok
      @mK-yt9ok 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      facts

    • @lillytaylor2351
      @lillytaylor2351 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So cute ❤️

    • @mishalkhan4096
      @mishalkhan4096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@owenflynn3567 lmfaoooo

  • @octobervegas814
    @octobervegas814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2538

    them: "be yourself"
    also them: *telling girls how they should change themselves for boys to like them more*

    • @aightsis5825
      @aightsis5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      i mean they never said to change urself they were stating they personal type

    • @user-it7ss8lj9m
      @user-it7ss8lj9m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Literally none of them said that

    • @benblanc2483
      @benblanc2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      They were just saying what they prefer

    • @benblanc2483
      @benblanc2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@clodu2433 yeah i see what you mean but its not like these guys represent every guys preferences.

    • @imperfectninja6291
      @imperfectninja6291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      JessWorks how is having a preference offensive; everybody has preferences if someone doesn’t fit that preference they don’t fit it that’s it. It’s not telling you to change it’s telling you to find someone else.

  • @sarahgupta9467
    @sarahgupta9467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    “Everyone’s gonna have their own opinion about how they feel”...yes that’s how opinions work

  • @katieloomis5706
    @katieloomis5706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2341

    bro when they said shy girls are unattractive that hurt my heart like sorry i have anxiety it’s not my fault

    • @mgrace9542
      @mgrace9542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ikr!!

    • @account10558
      @account10558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +266

      They didn't necessarily say that but honestly who cares what they say, they come off like they have big egos and want the type of girl who has to act a certain way for them to like her. Like the virgin question kinda disrespectful tbh.

    • @Jacob-ic8nb
      @Jacob-ic8nb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Honestly it varies from person to person, personally I know a lot of guys the are into girls that happen to be shy...

    • @aru5730
      @aru5730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Aw not every guy thinks that way sweets

    • @emilybrown_04
      @emilybrown_04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

  • @name6818
    @name6818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    I love how there all yelling and she’s just like “yeah, really, oh” lol she so calm.

  • @jaedalopes5468
    @jaedalopes5468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3549

    they need a good nose, but don’t get a nose job. and you need good eyelashes, but it needs to be natural. the double standards omg i CANT

    • @stroud9208
      @stroud9208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Just so you know tho, it doesn't take much for a nose to qualify as 'good', and eyelashes don't have to be too flashy, just not sticking out half a foot from your face or something.
      These kids only have a slight idea, and me not too much more, but as picky as we might sound, looks don't really matter if we find the right person for us

    • @lollyyeesh9877
      @lollyyeesh9877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      jaeda lopes I wouldn’t even look their way with my 25mm lashes 😂

    • @Shultzchet
      @Shultzchet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lollyyeesh9877 and on behalf of them if you know the exact length of your eyelashes we probably wouldn't be looking your way either, or we would be in disgust.

    • @Justin.4g1
      @Justin.4g1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe, but the standards are still far lower than girls.

    • @arya-ev9vd
      @arya-ev9vd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jaeda lopes I have the longest eyelashes and they’re natural!!

  • @avakinalice1228
    @avakinalice1228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    No one:
    Not a singLe souL:
    The guy in ur right: *playing with his hair for 15 minutes straight*

  • @mew3790
    @mew3790 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1214

    "would you date a girl who wants to wait for marriage?"
    "what?? no."
    boy i-

    • @sam-ps6wd
      @sam-ps6wd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      exactly that’s literally for religious reasons for some people

    • @Subuzgreatest
      @Subuzgreatest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@sam-ps6wd No it's MORAL REASONS for me.
      Religion has nothing to do with it.

    • @sam-ps6wd
      @sam-ps6wd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @Subuzgreatest i said some people not all but you get the point. they should respect other people’s opinions

    • @annar220
      @annar220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I think the redhead in back would

    • @charl7346
      @charl7346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      For some people they’d rather have their first one to be their last one and marriage is a good way to ensure that

  • @meganfairchild548
    @meganfairchild548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    them: “stop dying your hair! we want that natural look”
    okay has it ever occurred to you that not everything we do is about you and that some of us want to feel more confident about ourselves?

    • @leogene7255
      @leogene7255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Stop moaning they jus have preferences y u so mad

    • @meganfairchild548
      @meganfairchild548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Leo Gene it’s fine for them to have personal preferences but sometimes it’s nice to make someone feel good instead of putting them down for something they could already be insecure about.

    • @leogene7255
      @leogene7255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Megan Fairchild stop taking so much offense if your that insecure then don’t watch these vids when you know what we prefer you can’t chose what they like

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr!! I want to dye my hair for myself not for boys.

    • @ashbash2892
      @ashbash2892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@leogene7255 that is the stupidest thing I've ever read

  • @baileybooth7902
    @baileybooth7902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    “u can’t b lazy” aight imma head

    • @StrayyedAJ
      @StrayyedAJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bailey Booth you took the words straight out of my mouth

    • @ayleeyunnix
      @ayleeyunnix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does sitting in my basement painting all day count as lazy?!?!?

    • @angeliegarduno3756
      @angeliegarduno3756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Back to bed

  • @jane8557
    @jane8557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    Me who’s plus sized, wear glasses and has both anxiety and depression: well then 😑
    (edit: Thank you all so much for your sweet comments, I'm happy to know a lot of you relate and I want you to know you'll find someone that does not care about any of the things like the boys in this video did. Just be yourself and love who you are. Have a lovely day everyone :)

    • @jacquelinep8311
      @jacquelinep8311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I mean this just means you're gonna date a KING YOU QUEEN

    • @user-mk6fg6zl3c
      @user-mk6fg6zl3c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      haha sameeeeeee

    • @averyrose6505
      @averyrose6505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro me too

    • @paula2761
      @paula2761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💞

    • @tribenysaha8365
      @tribenysaha8365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you are doing fine. Don't give up and don't let people bring you down❤

  • @unknownforgood7048
    @unknownforgood7048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2139

    "why when u like the girl u don't tell her? "
    "because we know she doesn't like us"
    TRY ME

    • @kristenmckinney3771
      @kristenmckinney3771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same!

    • @caratea6643
      @caratea6643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Haha exactly

    • @muhammed_219
      @muhammed_219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Umm I think u guys aren’t correct. You took this out of context, yes they said this but then they said but then it would just end everything it’s more fun and cute in a relationship when it escalates slowly. I don’t think it’s normal just to be like: boy:hey girl:hey. Boy: I LIKE U
      That’s kinda weird

    • @unknownforgood7048
      @unknownforgood7048 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@muhammed_219 and you took this comment too seriously too :(

    • @muhammed_219
      @muhammed_219 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@unknownforgood7048 was it not meant to be?

  • @juliaturner7753
    @juliaturner7753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3059

    Doesn’t like certain noses but also don’t get a nose job
    Likes blondes but also don’t dye ur hair
    Wants to stay in and watch Netflix but wants an adventurous girl
    Like what do they wanttt

    • @kriszta02
      @kriszta02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Julia Turner who cares? Be yourself

    • @fatimayusf
      @fatimayusf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Dont let their opinions get to you it doesn't matter anyway live your life and the right person will find their way to you :)

    • @michellepeek5026
      @michellepeek5026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      dandielion • 💯💯💯❤️🤍💙

    • @jackirwin4748
      @jackirwin4748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Don’t modify who you are for a guy, be whoever you want to be because at the end of the day a guy isn’t dating a girl just because of their hair colour

    • @gracieh5112
      @gracieh5112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      lol and they say girls are confusing😂

  • @natalia-uv1hh
    @natalia-uv1hh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2667

    The girl: “So like in snapchat?”
    the dude: “Yeah just show ur face”
    ight imma head out

    • @emilyanne7134
      @emilyanne7134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Imma “head” out

    • @Hi-lv1jc
      @Hi-lv1jc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Emily Freaking Anne ha. ha

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emilyanne7134😂😂

    • @honeyluv287
      @honeyluv287 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilyanne7134 xd

    • @monicaa2176
      @monicaa2176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nataliazh 05 I don’t even use Snapchat anymore😂

  • @royal.chelsea
    @royal.chelsea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Listening to these boys describe their perfect girl, as a dark-skinned girl, is literally so dehumanzining (even though I've been dating a white guy for over 7 months now), because it makes girls of colour watching this feel unattractive to white guys and that's a huge self esteem killer.
    EDIT: I'm perfectly happy as a black girl, my boyfriend is a white Irish guy who loves me for me. I'm not insecure, my statement was just to say how girls who are coloured can feel insecure because believe it or not but even men of colour can find women of colour undesirable.

    • @jojobl5411
      @jojobl5411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It’s just a question of preference. I do t see anything wrong in them discussing their opinions and they really seem to be honest without discrimination so I don’t agree with what you’re saying. Maybe you don’t feel well about what they are saying but I don’t believe that’s what they’re trying to do.
      Edit : Girls do the same when they say they want a 6ft tall man that is ripped, etc. That makes other boys less confident as well.

    • @charlotteswift6182
      @charlotteswift6182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It’s really about preference I believe. There is a lot of people that are attracted to people of a different colour to themselves. It’s just as if someone were to like blonde hair over brown hair or blue eyes over green eyes, it’s small details people prefer not because it’s any less beautiful just that it’s what they are drawn to. Don’t feel any less about yourself because a select few guys prefer an appearance you can’t relate to because there are millions of people in the world with your appearance as their ‘type’. Everyone is beautiful

    • @user-mk6fg6zl3c
      @user-mk6fg6zl3c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It really hurts =/

    • @shania1586
      @shania1586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@user-mk6fg6zl3c ikr

    • @shania1586
      @shania1586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My exact thought lmaoo

  • @simi6003
    @simi6003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1705

    Me: *looks at video*
    Me: *knows that this type of stuff only works if you’re attractive*
    Me: *clicks anyway*

  • @user-wq6bf4sv2t
    @user-wq6bf4sv2t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Boys on the front left: annoying
    Boys on the right: low key mood
    Other guy: *is there*

    • @cadencetriplet1223
      @cadencetriplet1223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That was my exact thought well watching tho

    • @Shultzchet
      @Shultzchet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The other guy is the silent majority just out of shot

  • @gummybear5695
    @gummybear5695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2409

    “just say hi or something, ask us how our day was. it’s not that hard”
    my anxiety: biTcHH
    edit: i-

    • @Sara-hj8en
      @Sara-hj8en 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      they need to say hai ajskakbskansnajsna

    • @tangyleni3349
      @tangyleni3349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gummy Bear ahhhhh I love your username

    • @mollienisiamore5576
      @mollienisiamore5576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr its like hard i can barely say 1 thing and i sit next to them

    • @urkyllou
      @urkyllou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FRRRR

    • @asxfkh
      @asxfkh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha anxiety so quirky omg hahaaaaa

  • @gabrielasander4820
    @gabrielasander4820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    When they said they wouldnt date a girl who was waiting til marriage, my appreciation for these boys dropped instantly. it's actually kinda disrespectful in a way

    • @marceisenhardt3594
      @marceisenhardt3594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      No, not really. Its just as much of a personal decision to wait till mariage as it is not wanting to wait.

    • @user-li5qu2gg8t
      @user-li5qu2gg8t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@marceisenhardt3594 I get what your saying everyone has their own opinion.. but, the way they immediately and aggressively said "no" made it sound like it was disgusting or inhuman :/

    • @leleohanmu8142
      @leleohanmu8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A 1 exactly

    • @monokuma9028
      @monokuma9028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      iammarc muslims are supposed to wait until marriage before having sex. we don’t have a choice.

    • @Chloe-yc7dc
      @Chloe-yc7dc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      oh girl you should prepare yourself for all them people who attack anyone who express the disrespect they feel. ya know its society, who cares hAhA

  • @egdspam6964
    @egdspam6964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    “if you’re not acting dumb and you just are then i guess it’s ok”
    LMAO

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      acting dumb is never good

  • @laceepfeifer7030
    @laceepfeifer7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2137

    Not gonna lie the “saving it till marriage” answer from them annoyed me so much. Be more respectful with how you answer it, despite why your answer is.

    • @ilickbutter3462
      @ilickbutter3462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      They said no. Is “no” disrespectful now?

    • @bie280
      @bie280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      @@ilickbutter3462 it's the tone they said it in, how they all just exclaimed it at the same time and how it was obvious they thought it was stupid to wait

    • @bie280
      @bie280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@ilickbutter3462 like the no wasn't the disrespectful part, it was how they didn't even try to be open or understanding

    • @kasandrapeterson4673
      @kasandrapeterson4673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Thank you! I completely agree!

    • @Subuzgreatest
      @Subuzgreatest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      I'm the opposite of those guys.
      They are just brainwashed boys.
      Those boys don't speak for all guys, just saying.

  • @michellecruz5582
    @michellecruz5582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2804

    I just hated how they all interrupted eachtoher.

    • @romy1754
      @romy1754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Michelle Cruz : omg yes that was so annoying 😂 :(

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It gave me anxiety

    • @rationxl2922
      @rationxl2922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      typical teenager... (im a teenager)

    • @slimemold4767
      @slimemold4767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      thats what made it realistic! like you could tell this was just a room full of normal teen boys

    • @muhammed_219
      @muhammed_219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kitty cat idk if I should be offended or take it as a complement. But anyways @Michelle Cruz I mean if u seek perfection I think you should go on another vid bc this is all about informing girls that nobody’s perfect and boys like when urself not putting up some fake image

  • @sonjas824
    @sonjas824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "I think it's cute when a girl can write"😂😂😂

  • @iulia7932
    @iulia7932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I just like how she stands in the middle staring at the camera and smiling while the guys talk at the same time

  • @casispiller5778
    @casispiller5778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    “it’s not that complicated” *says really complicating stuff*

  • @sarahgraham5162
    @sarahgraham5162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    IS ANYONE GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW THESE BOYS HAVE LITTLE RESPECT FOR EACHOTHER THEY DONT LET PPL TALKKKKK

    • @reddie_spaghetti2712
      @reddie_spaghetti2712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Have you ever been a teenager?

    • @sarahgraham5162
      @sarahgraham5162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Reddie_Spaghetti currently yes😂

    • @dasren
      @dasren 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      have you ever been in a room full of boys

    • @sarahgraham5162
      @sarahgraham5162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ybbor mybbor having absolutely no female friends yes, yes I have

    • @wist1337
      @wist1337 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahgraham5162 well surely theyre gay or something since its always like this.... like even in other friend groups and schools its the same.

  • @naima2627
    @naima2627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    them: just like start a conversation its not that hard
    me: *cries in social anxiety*

  • @sgamingandmore12
    @sgamingandmore12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    11:45 “blonde hair, orange skin”
    me: Donald Trump?

    • @katetrcka5928
      @katetrcka5928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sanlun's Gaming and More AHAHHAHSHSHSHSHAHAHAHHSHSJSLSNDS HAHABSHAHHAHAUSUSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHAHAHAHAAHS

    • @tessa6274
      @tessa6274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i may or may not have just choked on air reading this comment-

  • @yvette8000
    @yvette8000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    Abby: “nods head and takes mental notes”

  • @lucyd3905
    @lucyd3905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    i love how their “type” is only what they want and not how the girl wants to look, but they “want” them to not be self conscious or change for anyone

    • @audrahay8240
      @audrahay8240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      lucy d honestly^^

    • @fluffyemu2714
      @fluffyemu2714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      i mean everyone's allowed to have preferences and these are just a few specific guys. also, they're most likely making generalizations when in reality it just depends on each person. i appreciate that they were at least being honest and not trying to seem too nice, makes it easier to see how they think

    • @0Jassii
      @0Jassii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I mean they’re 16 and obviously don’t know how to talk about this. They’re just telling their preferences

    • @suaadsultan
      @suaadsultan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's why it's called a preference sis 😭

    • @ibrowi
      @ibrowi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's why is their preference I think lol

  • @3bellam
    @3bellam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    My real question is how the hell all these people have so many guy friends. I have like aprox. 0 guy friends, and it's depressing.

    • @user-mk6fg6zl3c
      @user-mk6fg6zl3c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dw it's not what everyone makes it look like. Boys are huge babies and it's like babysitting half the time 😅

    • @elisacolgan4828
      @elisacolgan4828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have more guy friends than girls

    • @elisacolgan4828
      @elisacolgan4828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And like I act like them

    • @abigailgrace4303
      @abigailgrace4303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sameeeee

  • @robin7873
    @robin7873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    “If your confused then you are probably confusing yourself”

  • @nice-gi1nq
    @nice-gi1nq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    what’s your favorite thing to do with a girl? the top right kid: “i wouldn’t know”

  • @nataliegonzalez1995
    @nataliegonzalez1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +811

    Their answer for everything:
    “dEPeNdS”🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @andyho6504
      @andyho6504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Natalie Gonzalez it really does though. most likely said it to not generalize girls lol.

    • @ewiciolkowski8811
      @ewiciolkowski8811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      everyone’s different so

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      often, yes.

    • @nataliegonzalez1995
      @nataliegonzalez1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik🤣, honestly kinda love them for that I just wish they would expand on that don’t come at me🥺😂

  • @gr4v3flow3r
    @gr4v3flow3r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Guys: Being unconfident is unattractive
    Me with depression and very low self esteem: 👁👄👁

    • @jjyyuu757
      @jjyyuu757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lmfao same

    • @coc034
      @coc034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope you're doing okay. It's really hard. I will pray for you and remember you are loved!! Have a great day and you are beautiful💕

    • @roisingriffin8291
      @roisingriffin8291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you are doing ok. But if you don't love your self you can't love anybody else. They are talking about people who won't take complements. It is annoying to watch beautiful people bring themselves down when you think they are pretty

    • @Jusdari
      @Jusdari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      samee tho

    • @jerald9739
      @jerald9739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i like shy girls

  • @floorlambeek5972
    @floorlambeek5972 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    The guy on the top right seems like such a nice guy :))

    • @seannawinters
      @seannawinters 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same with the bottom left

  • @mackenziecurtis7750
    @mackenziecurtis7750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    Boys always stay saying “not being confident is unattractive” BUT ITS NOT LIKE WE CAN HELP IT. Society thinks I’m hideous so I may as well agree with them.

    • @laura2811lou
      @laura2811lou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I get exactly what you’re saying and like all boys are like “yeah like not being confident is a huge turn-off” and stuff like that but literally I can not help it b

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Laura Aufschlag Exactly. The only girls who are super confident were born pretty lmao. So what they’re saying is basically: we don’t want an ugly, insecure girl. Thanks.

    • @leylax7015
      @leylax7015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I Think they don't even mean being insecure, they were more likely talking about girls who are fishing for compliments

    • @cara7096
      @cara7096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you.are.gorgeous.

    • @ekohw
      @ekohw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mynamo12 Your face and your body arent an excuse to not love yourself. Physically being attractive to others is based on what that person likes. One of my friends who liked me is attractive, but I personally don't think he is. But other people who see him are like "he's cute". And I'm like yeah.... but his personality. My friend thought her crush was 10/10. I thought way different from that. We all have different likes. For example which of these boys was the most attractive. Society may advertise adults getting surgeries. But doesnt mean you need to fit into what the beauty worlds ideals are. It seems most people want a thick girl that's shorter than a guy. Yet for a model you need to be tall and slim. Confidence isnt based on your outside, it's based on your inside. It's all in your head.

  • @zakiyaadams5244
    @zakiyaadams5244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1344

    Me: a black girl
    Them: Blonde hair, blue eyes
    Me: AIGHT IMMA HEAD OUT

    • @henna_w
      @henna_w 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Contacts and bleach are the move💀

    • @katieturcotte4239
      @katieturcotte4239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When your blonde and have blue eyes 😂😂😂😂 me

    • @-moonman-8612
      @-moonman-8612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a dIsGuStAnG mop on my head and blue green brown and like goldish eyes lmao

    • @aptdccvii
      @aptdccvii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      me: an asian girl

    • @reda9960
      @reda9960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I'm hispanic...

  • @alicebiella6504
    @alicebiella6504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "it's really not hard to start a conversation" YES BUT PLEASE COLLABORATE

    • @bluej3d158
      @bluej3d158 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      U kinda right tho

  • @vivianamadizigne1911
    @vivianamadizigne1911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1521

    i got so sad when they all said no no nooo to dating a girl who wants to wait til marriage :(

    • @mely260
      @mely260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Me too I got sad. I hope that not all guys

    • @janiahpapaya5988
      @janiahpapaya5988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Eh Told my bf i wanted to wait for Marriage and he doesnt but he respects me and is willing to wait

    • @hiilikechickennuggets4695
      @hiilikechickennuggets4695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Viviana Madizigne yeah, like there’s absolutely nothing wrong that, that shouldn’t decide weather you like someone or not

    • @thatkeren
      @thatkeren 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Small Frie I know guys who also want to wait until marriage. Also know guys who aren’t waiting but they respect others’ decision to do so. So you just gotta find ‘em :)

    • @dm-hz5ux
      @dm-hz5ux 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      No hate just wondering why do all you want to wait till marriage

  • @abbyharries9828
    @abbyharries9828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4820

    genuinely liked them all until they started talking

    • @melanieramirez9741
      @melanieramirez9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      For real tho

    • @georgiadoesfilmstuff
      @georgiadoesfilmstuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      same tbh

    • @frxzy3298
      @frxzy3298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      I think the boy in the green champion Hoodie is honestly a good person, he seems like a shy and genuine person

    • @claudiae264
      @claudiae264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Abby Harries same lmaoo

    • @spicynachos2686
      @spicynachos2686 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Abby Harries me about every guy

  • @rachete.the.machete
    @rachete.the.machete 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2616

    Okay but like how is waiting until marriage _unattractive?_

    • @victoriawarenda
      @victoriawarenda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      exactly

    • @Livelaughlace
      @Livelaughlace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Rachel IKR I'm waiting til marriage

    • @emilyhiggins8803
      @emilyhiggins8803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Lace Carter that’s great :)

    • @dassonvictorino4658
      @dassonvictorino4658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It’s not in my opinion, but if you’re afraid of any interaction at all because you think somethings gonna happen, that’s unattractive

    • @backupemail9489
      @backupemail9489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Because that's their opinion?

  • @kaity4956
    @kaity4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    me realizing they’re just describing white girls 😗✌🏼

    • @leleohanmu8142
      @leleohanmu8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      FR

    • @sigma959
      @sigma959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      When you're a person of color: 👁👄👁

    • @yesterdaytheattic
      @yesterdaytheattic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      When your mixed: um oof

    • @Hiyyyyyyaaaaa
      @Hiyyyyyyaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Define white? Do u mean the actual color as in like pale? Or UK kinds

    • @malaika7241
      @malaika7241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      When you're black 👄

  • @jordan_rae_music
    @jordan_rae_music 4 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    oml you just look more and more annoyed as the video goes on lol [you're like gorgeous btw

  • @pinkmash399pinkdonuts9
    @pinkmash399pinkdonuts9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    “Even in real life, it’s not hard to start a conversation”
    BISH YOU DONT EVEN KNOW-

    • @aduuhmaree
      @aduuhmaree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i get happy nervous around the dude i like💀💀 and i cant start a convo

    • @chiflor3295
      @chiflor3295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big Father social anxiety boo

    • @madilynn_rocky2644
      @madilynn_rocky2644 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Big Father it is tho for some ppl....

    • @morladarling3319
      @morladarling3319 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Big Father that's not how SOCIAL anxiety works.
      Everyone has anxiety, but social anxiety is different.

    • @morladarling3319
      @morladarling3319 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Big Father Everyone will experience anxiety from time to time. The demands and stress of college life may even make experiencing anxiety more frequent. ... An anxiety disorder, however, involves intense and excessive anxiety, along with other debilitating symptoms.
      I knew this before I found the right words to explain this.
      But yes, everyone does.
      oml you're probably diagnosing yourself as we speak.

  • @vi8864
    @vi8864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    "Blonde hair blue eyes"
    "You like the Aryan race"
    *I died*

    • @bobtomato6827
      @bobtomato6827 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forreal 😂

    • @nicole4589
      @nicole4589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      hitler tho

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it's supposed to be Iran. Since Aryan is a type of yogourt / milk usually you drink it on Ramadan but it doesn't matter when.

    • @zeoceania2765
      @zeoceania2765 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nicole4589 exactly

    • @elianakaganovsky
      @elianakaganovsky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      no it’s not a yogurt it’s something hitler created in ww2

  • @Isabella-cm8wr
    @Isabella-cm8wr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Ahh the sweet reminder of why we shoudlnt worry about highschool boys at all, such simple, clueless creatures lmao

    • @bluej3d158
      @bluej3d158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ain’t gonna lie. You’re not wrong. You could count our collective iq points on 1 hand

    • @sw4ggynutz466
      @sw4ggynutz466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

    • @joeschranz4525
      @joeschranz4525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are pretty simple creatures

  • @tiaseletkovic6623
    @tiaseletkovic6623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +876

    i literally learned nothing every guy had a different answer

    • @bruhjbrujh7733
      @bruhjbrujh7733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      that's kinda the point. Do you want every boy on earth to like the same things?

    • @noel2882
      @noel2882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      No one will ever be the same. And did you really think you would learn anything about relationships and all that from some young inexperienced teens? The only one who can teach you is you, you can only learn by experience and learn from your mistakes

    • @jannik7354
      @jannik7354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm a guy and I had Different aswers than they and they are 5 Guys..
      So it'll be difficult for you to "read" every boy 😂

    • @xad3490
      @xad3490 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bruhjbrujh7733 Uh I think they meant like they all said different answers which answer should I choose because they all got different answer.. idk if I explained myself well.

    • @xad3490
      @xad3490 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noel2882 Uh I think they meant like they all said different answers which answer should I choose because they all got different answer.. idk if I explained myself well.

  • @gabby5864
    @gabby5864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1806

    Nobody gonna y’all about the fact that the were all disgusted when they talked about waiting until marriage...

    • @shannenvega
      @shannenvega 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Ikrr 😑🤢

    • @amarisdarling
      @amarisdarling 5 ปีที่แล้ว +294

      Yeah that messed with me.. but the guy in green Champion didn't seem to mind

    • @moodsofkiwi9285
      @moodsofkiwi9285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      I think I see motive👀 lmao classic boys in high school tho

    • @princessfunky222
      @princessfunky222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      theyre hormonal teens in high school I really dont think their answers are that deep. If you grouped a bunch of men in their mid-twenties or early thirties, and asked them those questions, we'd be seeing very different answers and different reasonings

    • @gabby5864
      @gabby5864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Ultralife well I don’t want to start dating at 20 sooo

  • @lylamilbery7253
    @lylamilbery7253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    “wear them if you need them”
    “for EyEsIghT”

  • @Rose67237
    @Rose67237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    How do you impress girls
    Boys: We don’t need to change anything about ourselves
    Literally this whole video: Girls trying to figure out how to impress guys