Yep, it's a classic trick. You take someone that is actually calm, and you keep telling them to "calm down" in order to piss them off, and then you act like you were right the entire time about them freaking out and needing to calm down, basically gaslighting them. It's so frustrating when it happens to you.
@Mr. Khan Men barely ever get held accountable for real accusations, you're in no position to cry about the two false ones between hundreds of real ones.
@Mr. Khan might as well nuke their own country while they're at it. That's the equivalent of false accusations. You know what that means? World war 2 was fought for nothing if people destroy themselves inside out.
@@ohklahoma7376 I’m literally begging you to just come up with a new joke, that’s all I want, just let the “did you assume my gender” joke rest in 2016 PLEASE
this movie is brilliant, it forces the viewer to manage their own anger at the sheer and ridiculous amount of injustice Sandler's charachter is enduring
I don't know what movie it is but big stuff can happen in a small space. Maybe the protagonist is finally opening up about his grief of a dead family member or an assassin is getting close to his mark. Perhaps both?
@Dalton_Boardman2000 the movie they are watching is called "Tomcats" it came out 2001.starring another SNL alumni. Horatio Sanz. Shannon Elizabeth was also in the movie
Damn straight but this movie was stupid AF. I just like the one bit, the fat cat. Priceless. Edit: his name is not fat cat, it's meatball. how could I forget.
What makes this scene much more frustrating is when he's basically raising his voice, making himself firm yet people don't notice/deliberately ignore him. He basically had the right to be mad in this scene to be real. This is what I go through most of the time at school, and I'm glad one movie scene can describe what I feel.
so this movie is about tackling Adam Sandler's implosive anger the whole set up was planned by the person sitting next to him whos an anger management therapist in the movie. in this one scene he makes adam sandler confront most of his anger issues - embarrassed that women heard him talking about brstt implants, flight attendants ignoring him and he felt ignored unimportant, the first guy telling him to go sit in another seat so his unwillingness to confront the first guy, his anxiousness everything and then the court orders him to either go jail or take anger management therapy from nicholson the director and writer was way ahead!! This movie is gold standard as it teaches you to be bold and confront that means put forward your views instead of internally exploding anger .. just stand for what you want and be strong
@@jestes7 It is possible yeah. And thanks, had no idea my random comment would get likes and people that thinks like me. My ex-girlfriend used to do that a lot with me. Getting someone angry is wrong, just as it is wrong to loose control. People can be really nasty.
so this movie is about tackling Adam Sandler's implosive anger the whole set up was planned by the person sitting next to him whos an anger management therapist in the movie. in this one scene he makes adam sandler confront most of his anger issues - embarrassed that women heard him talking about brstt implants, flight attendants ignoring him and he felt ignored unimportant, the first guy telling him to go sit in another seat so his unwillingness to confront the first guy, his anxiousness everything and then the court orders him to either go jail or take anger management therapy from nicholson the director and writer was way ahead!! This movie is gold standard as it teaches you to be bold and confront that means put forward your views instead of internally exploding anger!!
If I could think of something to say without saying something stupid when being accused of racism, Id look at Buddy and say, “Oh, I get it. This bozo right here was under my skin over some movie which I doubt I’ve seen before nor want to watch. Now he wants me to look like I’m the crazy one.”
Its amazing that this back in 2003 was a comedy because of how absurd the situation is, but actually now in 2018 this is way closer to reality than fiction
As someone who’s flown United, I get annoyed by this simulation because IRL having Adam Sandler’s character’s personality is actually a really effective way of calming those flight attendants down. I’ve done it twice, once because I really was shy and once on purpose because it worked so well the first time. I think it’s because they know they’re being buttheads (but can’t stop because they’re in too bad of a mood) and assume you’re going to get angry with them, so when you don’t, they appreciate it.
The way he walks into Camera View is Hilariously Perfect 🤣 with all seriousness and power then he corrects Adams words and further usurps his authority 😆 He Makes this scene priceless 😂
It's not acting. There was a far better movie called Punch Drunk Love where he really displays his inner demons throughout. That's really him. That's the thread from Happy on down through his movies. When the checks stop coming for his terrible "comedies", at least one of those people will sit down with an interviewer and let that be known.
This is actually frustrating to watch. And what’s even more frustrating is that this abuse of power has now become a sad reality almost 20 years after the comedy was released.
+MrBrandonStar I am pretty sure that the film is implying that he actually is yelling and being violent, he just doesn't realize it himself; in his own eyes, he is just acting calm and behaves totally rationally. That's why the guy needs, well, Anger Management, because he can't control his rage because he doesn't see it's there. At least, that's what I get from this scene. :P
+Mo “Moron” Ron I did, but it was a loooong time ago. :P However, yes, I know that's not the actual plot, I just made a possible interpetation on just this scene. :)
"Sir, our country is going through a difficult time right now." I just discovered this movie from this clip and I had no idea that this Adam Sandler film actually had this kind of writing that is actually ahead of it's time.
There’s nothing less calming then someone telling you to calm down, when you are already calmed
So true and they just push it further and further it’s like bro I’m already calm 😐
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Yep, it's a classic trick. You take someone that is actually calm, and you keep telling them to "calm down" in order to piss them off, and then you act like you were right the entire time about them freaking out and needing to calm down, basically gaslighting them. It's so frustrating when it happens to you.
@@DeathBringer769 Calm tf down bro. No need to overreact. Just relax. Breathe. You're out of control.
Gotta love how he lightly taps her arm on the plane, but then she shows up to court with a cast on. lol
The lawyer was so confident that the attendant faked it lmao
Just watching this movie made me rage
You'd think Sandler or his lawyer would have caught that, but apparently not.
@Mr. Khan Men barely ever get held accountable for real accusations, you're in no position to cry about the two false ones between hundreds of real ones.
@Mr. Khan might as well nuke their own country while they're at it. That's the equivalent of false accusations. You know what that means? World war 2 was fought for nothing if people destroy themselves inside out.
The genre of this movie in a nutshell
2003: Comedy
2022: Documentary
Somewhere in 2023: "Excuse me ma'am, could I maybe get that headset?"
"Ma'am?! Did you just assume my gender?! This man's upholding fascism!!"
@@ohklahoma7376 shut up fascist
@@ohklahoma7376 bro... so true....
The fact that your statement is a fact is sickening.
@@ohklahoma7376 I’m literally begging you to just come up with a new joke, that’s all I want, just let the “did you assume my gender” joke rest in 2016 PLEASE
“I am calm what is it with you people”
“You people?” 😂😂😂😂
You people
What kills me is they automatically show a black man turn around when it’s said 😂
What is you people mean ?
@@patnopp1160neighbors
@patnopp1160 The black guy believed he was saying "You people" as in the black persons people, or people who have black skin.
This scene used to simply frustrate me more than anything else.
I agree
Exactly like wtf was the lesson in this!!
@John Bravo i did a few years ago, but I feel like there was an easier way of solving the issue
Yes i would blow my head off this scene
Frustrating but hilarious
It's very frustrating when you’re calm and they keep telling you to calm down
joel villa you don’t have to get all belligerent to make a point jeez calm down
Lil Nike Air Pump I am calm
Paul Fitzpatrick your right
Extreme green mockneck 😀 that's the way to do it.
Especially when they’re talking louder.
this movie is brilliant, it forces the viewer to manage their own anger at the sheer and ridiculous amount of injustice Sandler's charachter is enduring
“Your missing important plot points” 3 dudes sitting in a sauna 😂 what a classic!
😂😂😂
I don't know what movie it is but big stuff can happen in a small space. Maybe the protagonist is finally opening up about his grief of a dead family member or an assassin is getting close to his mark. Perhaps both?
Yeah that line is underrated. haha
@@Dalton_Boardman2000Movie is called boatrip
@Dalton_Boardman2000 the movie they are watching is called "Tomcats" it came out 2001.starring another SNL alumni. Horatio Sanz. Shannon Elizabeth was also in the movie
Fifteen years later this is less of a comedy and more of a tale of how things are.
ExtrackterYT ..agreed here
Damn straight but this movie was stupid AF.
I just like the one bit, the fat cat. Priceless.
Edit: his name is not fat cat, it's meatball. how could I forget.
Your inahan less of a comedy
ExtrackterYT no it's not. You know fine well it's not.
Oh wow seriously
I can’t believe how severely he hurt that flight attendant, hope her arm is okay.
Nope i dont care her arm
Lol
He didnt touch her
The Young Arc woooooosh
@@klosekrbv2v2v27 IKR -_- lol
Lawyer: Not guilty, it’s a no brainer.
Judge: I find you guilty.
Lawyer: hm…
he souldve been able to sue all he did was raise his voice once and got tased BS
The kind of lawyer you get when do not have any money...
What makes this scene much more frustrating is when he's basically raising his voice, making himself firm yet people don't notice/deliberately ignore him.
He basically had the right to be mad in this scene to be real.
This is what I go through most of the time at school, and I'm glad one movie scene can describe what I feel.
so this movie is about tackling Adam Sandler's implosive anger
the whole set up was planned by the person sitting next to him whos an anger management therapist in the movie.
in this one scene he makes adam sandler confront most of his anger issues - embarrassed that women heard him talking about brstt implants, flight attendants ignoring him and he felt ignored unimportant, the first guy telling him to go sit in another seat so his unwillingness to confront the first guy, his anxiousness everything
and then the court orders him to either go jail or take anger management therapy from nicholson
the director and writer was way ahead!! This movie is gold standard as it teaches you to be bold and confront that means put forward your views instead of internally exploding anger ..
just stand for what you want and be strong
Jeez bro calm down
It's terrible when people make you angry, specially when trying to confuse you, then complain about your anger.
It’s a common narcissistic tactic.
@@jestes7 It is possible yeah. And thanks, had no idea my random comment would get likes and people that thinks like me. My ex-girlfriend used to do that a lot with me. Getting someone angry is wrong, just as it is wrong to loose control. People can be really nasty.
@@cybergothika6906 Yes, it's a way of manipulating someone to feel in control, a narcisistic trait. I'm glad you got away from that toxicity.
The term is gaslighting
@@vivdoolan6846 My ex girlfriend did a lot of "gaslighting" then. Sad. Wants you angry, you get angry then you're faulty.
His lawyer was so confident. "Not guilty. It's a no brainer." Lol
It should've been too, ETF is the flight attendant wearing a cast for? Her arm break from that?
Then he says "Hmmm" when it goes the complete opposite way 😂🤦
@@coletrainhetrick She wasn't hurt, she faked that injury, it was all set up
They were all in on it
Hmmm.......
1:18 his face is priceless( the last guy)
2:09 cracks me up when the flight attendant and lawyer look over in disgust like he did something wrong 😂😂😂😂😂
“What is it with you people?”
“You people?”
Everyone then looks at Adam Sandler.
@@StephenLuke the colored folks did at 1st
I mean you people
Passenger: Yeah, man. Whatcha mean you people?
@@leonardobraynen1524 “colored” ???
Damn all that for a headset
my life in a nutshell just drama drama drama 24/7 .
Its all set up
PacketSODMG i know right.... one reason i didn't like this movie... ridiculous is great... but not unfairly ridiculous if it's a setup
Jeff Busby plus it doesn’t make sense that u break someone’s arm simply by touching it so odd
maymakvm its everywhere like that, just stop smiling, ull see
Adam: How does she have a broken arm I didn't even lay a finger on her!
Lady: you assulted me with your words
Adam: I just wanted to watch a movie!!!
Adam: I JUST WANTED THE HEADSET!!
IM ONLY GONNA SAY THIS ONE MORE TIME, SIR! CALM DOWN!
*I’M CAAAAALM!!!*
@@DrRockso1987 Taze attack
@@supercoollink1228 baaaa ahahahahaha
There's nothing worse than an insane person telling you to calm down when you're calm
so this movie is about tackling Adam Sandler's implosive anger
the whole set up was planned by the person sitting next to him whos an anger management therapist in the movie.
in this one scene he makes adam sandler confront most of his anger issues - embarrassed that women heard him talking about brstt implants, flight attendants ignoring him and he felt ignored unimportant, the first guy telling him to go sit in another seat so his unwillingness to confront the first guy, his anxiousness everything
and then the court orders him to either go jail or take anger management therapy from nicholson
the director and writer was way ahead!! This movie is gold standard as it teaches you to be bold and confront that means put forward your views instead of internally exploding anger!!
This is so true, people are so overly paranoid and easily offended that the smallest things get blown outta proportion
Dave B truth two years later its gotten worse!
Try now. The wrong words can actually get you fired in more "progressive" states.
it was a setup up all part of the therapy
so true. every one gets offended by any thing these days. you cant even
look at someone with out them getting offended
I did have a few days in my life where people got at me even though I was just minding my own business.
Somehow it's so satisfying the way Adam yell "I'M CALM!!!"
Yeah considering that he was getting annoyed that they weren't listening
*taser*
If I could think of something to say without saying something stupid when being accused of racism, Id look at Buddy and say, “Oh, I get it. This bozo right here was under my skin over some movie which I doubt I’ve seen before nor want to watch. Now he wants me to look like I’m the crazy one.”
That flight attendant and security agent are telling him to calm down with an angry attitude 🤦🤦🤦🤦
This is how it feels when talking to your parents
Its amazing that this back in 2003 was a comedy because of how absurd the situation is, but actually now in 2018 this is way closer to reality than fiction
And now look at 2020...
@@TheNubs fr
@@TheNubs just another ordinary day in the 'civilized West'
@@herubinoevc737 the civilized east isn’t any better.
They call it "democracy and freedom" (I'm sarcastic by the way).
I don't know where a headset ties into patriotism...
Lmfao
Girls poo poo
You never know, maybe 9/11 started because some terrorists were not given their headsets on a plane.
Regina Steiner hey mom,i mean my mom got same first name as you
Dewan M Durnto ?
It's like this movie was designed to make people upset
"Anger management"
Jack Nicholson starts the whole shenanigans only to see him dead asleep at the end. 😂😂
xPUNISHER84x funniest part like how convenient he falls asleep when things get serious lol can’t lie I would’ve done the same lmaoo
well Jack and Sandler's were in on da plot to get him to Anger Mngmnt
@xPUNISHER84x Jack Nicholson is the only reason I’ll watch this terrible movie
Totally pretending so he doesn’t get sucked in!🤣
Admit it feels great when things go terribly wrong. You immediately relax
I don't understand why he didn't just calm down
He was calm. He just didn't like them repeating calm down when he was.
Simon B He was calm!!
Simon B Can't you see Rydell was under his skin about the movie he was watching? Dave didn't have the headsets and was loosing his patience.
Wilderbeast, it was?
dudetocartman you need to calm down sir
" for crying out loud your missing important plot points "
* shows 3 naked guys in a sauna *
Telling someone who is calm, to calm down, is the quickest way to make the not so calm anymore.
This scene pissed me the hell off when I first saw it.
Me too
Warm Pond
It is the same with millions see this movie as a real issue today.
Calm down
Ditto.
@@shabansher4439 IM CALM
I need anger management after seeing this
Me too.
Me three.
Calm down
@@shabansher4439 I am calm
@@swolemole69 zzzzztstztztztztztztztzt (taser)
“I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.”
- Hank Hill
you mean i don't have a problem with anger, i have a problem with idiots.
How schools respond to every word you say when you're trying to explain that the bully hit you first 💀🤦
nah schools do that for every situation, even questions about the subject
_*chef’s kiss_
Very painful movie to watch at points
Matt Tuthill agreed
Completely. Well said. It's like America 2018.
Yep, makes me think I need anger management classes 😥
If you think that's painful, you'd never survive outside a government trying to keep everything safe. Try North Korea and see what pain really is.
Darkzz Lord lmaoo
United Airlines in a nutshell. 😀
Feel sorry for those Americans
Completely true
Twitter in a nutshell
As someone who’s flown United, I get annoyed by this simulation because IRL having Adam Sandler’s character’s personality is actually a really effective way of calming those flight attendants down. I’ve done it twice, once because I really was shy and once on purpose because it worked so well the first time. I think it’s because they know they’re being buttheads (but can’t stop because they’re in too bad of a mood) and assume you’re going to get angry with them, so when you don’t, they appreciate it.
The way he walks into Camera View is Hilariously Perfect 🤣 with all seriousness and power then he corrects Adams words and further usurps his authority 😆 He Makes this scene priceless 😂
Bro just wanted a headset
1:47 - Adam Sandler’s face/ eyes when he yells “I’m calm!” 😂😂😂
Just another brief yet excellent example of Sandler’s acting capabilities at 1:46 - the way he snaps like that is so well delivered.
It's not acting. There was a far better movie called Punch Drunk Love where he really displays his inner demons throughout. That's really him. That's the thread from Happy on down through his movies. When the checks stop coming for his terrible "comedies", at least one of those people will sit down with an interviewer and let that be known.
@@nerfytheclown ok but it is acting
@@nerfytheclownnobody asked broseph
@@AY-qy4jn wow. That's the most useless addition you could possibly put in here. Why don't you choke on your own unit, pecker-head?
@@AY-qy4jn Jesus Christ! You've posted like forty times on this channel and they're all total douche-fuel. Are you a robutt?
“You people.” 😂😂👏🏼
In this clip... he is not the issues... everyone around him are!!!
Lmao! The flight attendants arm is in a cast! "Assault and battery of a flight attendant" Didnt he just politely touch her arm? Hilarious.
I have this movie on DVD and have seen it so many times and I just caught that! Haha
crisjonsin Thanks, I didn't notice that. haha 😀
"Gender equality"
That looks like something Neymar would do lmao
Shaf more like ronaldo
Wow, this movie predicted 2018.
Nik Murphy you’ve said it, Mate!
2019
Why what happened?
July 2019 . America is always great to be.
And soon 2020 and beyond likely. Let the whiners get their whine and this is what you get.
He can just use his words respectfully!
I think we’ve all been in a situation like this in our lives.
This is actually frustrating to watch. And what’s even more frustrating is that this abuse of power has now become a sad reality almost 20 years after the comedy was released.
All because of feminism.
@@damiengates7581 Naw. twitter.
Abuse of power by who?
@@EM-mw6et i guess by the police & the flight attendant
@@fnutek3720 mostly used by…….
For crying out loud you're missing important plot points.
Lmao 😂
He was trying to get Adam agitated lol
then it shows 3 topless dudes sitting in a sauna haha
@@ohioagainsttheworld676 the movie that scene is from is Called Tomcats.
@@Syceth think I remember it
bob bobby I don’t blame em for freaking out over a headset. I mean, is it me, or has Buddy been stalking him?
the “you people?” kills me every time.
You people?
gaslighting in the highest form
He wasn't even yelling
+MrBrandonStar I am pretty sure that the film is implying that he actually is yelling and being violent, he just doesn't realize it himself; in his own eyes, he is just acting calm and behaves totally rationally. That's why the guy needs, well, Anger Management, because he can't control his rage because he doesn't see it's there.
At least, that's what I get from this scene. :P
Murcs Axelsson i get it now
+Murcs Axelsson Did you see the whole movie? I don't want to spoil it but that's not the case.
+Murcs Axelsson Did you see the whole movie? I don't want to spoil it but that's not the case.
+Mo “Moron” Ron I did, but it was a loooong time ago. :P However, yes, I know that's not the actual plot, I just made a possible interpetation on just this scene. :)
I"M CALM!!!!!!!
⚡⚡⚡
Eh eh eh
Well now you're not.
Pretty much what I feel like saying. 😂
Makes me pop my lungs out!
this scene makes my blood boil with unbridled hate and anger.
Sir, our country is going through a very difficult time right now...
Calm down
@@Rigpa141 I'M CALM!!!
This is why you should always bring your own headset an talk to the staff as less as possible
“For crying out loud your missing important plot points” hahaha
"Calm down" is easily the least calming phrase to ever be said
I can’t believe this movie is almost 20 years old now.
so is Metallica's St. Anger album
@@Jeb4100 I thought Metallica was old even in 2000s.
1:44
his scream was all capitalized, while his face was lower-cased
damn bro you didn't have to do him dirty like that. He shot that tazer right at his heart
"our country is going through a very difficult time right now"
Germany 2018? -,-
US really is
k.smart69 I don't know where a headset ties in patriotism
It was, under Obama administration
Leo this was in ‘03 genius.
The "our country is going through a very difficult time right now" (aka reference to 9/11) has me literally in tears...
Nate Irving I know.
Now it could fit with covid
The movie came out in 2003
1:27 That movie was so ahead of its time already.
Nothing has changed in 20 years
“hey man why’d you get sued?”
“oh i asked this flight attendant for some headphones and she thought it was an insult”
This is how people do me when I'm calm..smh
+Dave B What do you mean by "you people"???
@@Wolfsbane909 i really want to kill that b*tch
@Joey Style This is a difficult time for our country..
"Sir, our country is going through a difficult time right now." I just discovered this movie from this clip and I had no idea that this Adam Sandler film actually had this kind of writing that is actually ahead of it's time.
That line is because this movie was made soon after 9/11.
It’s a 9/11 reference it wasn’t ahead of its time it was describing its own literal time lmao
See my response to Spurs Legacy, that comment's for you too.
It was literally referring to 9/11
it was a 9/11 reference jackass
He was out of control…. thank God he had a Taser!!!!
2003: Comedy😂
2015: Happening somewhere🤭
2020: Happening near me😮
2023: Happening to me😢
That black dude needs to be a radio host or podcast speaker
What???
I wouldn't be surprised if he is.
He should narrate movie trailers
Yeah, you people have deep voices
Next Transformers voice
1:28 you ppl the way he said it and his face expression had me rolling like excuse me 😕😂
This scene is the whole movie for me 🤣
My favorite part was when he yelled: IM CALM!!!
This is Nancy Carell, Steve Carell's wife.....That's a fact
1 year later .. I had to search it up lol that's coolio
Man if Steve found out about this, he would beat him up like he did with Dwight or freeze ray him.
No wonder she doesn't like "LOUD NOISES!!!"
Why don't we see more of her?
I just lost my temper just watching this clip
Goose Fraba
Scene feels too real
This is exactly happening my whole life with everyone. Not even a joke. I write this from prison as you might understand.
That’s crazy man
Calm down sir.
TH-cam in prison?
It's the little things that add up over time...
the "you people" bit had me in tears.
1:59 Every lawyer ever
"IM CALM!!!"
Poor guy XD
This says a lot about society.
Never thought this scene would become a reality, but here we are.
"Calm down" lol The air marshal should've received an oscar for this movie.
"Not guilty, its a no brainer" lmao
(touches fight attendant lightly)
(flight attendant is now badly injured)
"What is it with you people?"
*_"YOU PEOPLE?!?!?_*
Every time people tell me to chill or calm down when I'm completely calm and level headed, I automatically think of this scene.
this is gaslighting, people act like they are animals
If a simple 'calm down' can make you filled with rage maybe your calmness is just superficial
@@arvindganesh7539.....
@@arvindganesh7539 Maybe you are missing the whole point, it’s not about being told to calm down, it’s the manipulation that angers people
@@zerothehero.takeasip6612 exactly
meditation is the remedy for these types of things
This movie aggravated soo much, its actually great how they can get that feeling of injustice so well.
I have never been more angrier at a scene in my entire life.
Nah I woulda started throwing hands
1:03 this movie is way ahead of its time
That flight attendant is my mom, that is literally exactly what my mother is like everyday i deal with this bullshit
get a job man and move out. Only way to survive and become a man!
voltaspeeder17 lmao
Women are so "empowered" these days, refuse to see their blatant attitudes and unprofessionalism.
+Mike M.
As if guys don't do the same?
One of the most effective ways of annoying someone is to tell them to calm down when they're actually calm.
1:24 😂😂😂 "You PEOPLE??! 🤨😠
wouldn't anyone end up doing that from such a thing?
1:34 "Sir, I will not tolerate any racist behavior on the plane."
This is a very difficult time for our country.
never say "you people" to a black guy
You call this racism?
@@redips I say it all the time... I'm Irish...they always back down....they know what it is...I get spit on by English people
takes off burger King crown
This is literally just like asking someone something on twitter
0:51 TWITTER BE LIKE:
Even i felt a sense of rage watching this scene
Wow, that man’s voice is deep.
2:08 20 years prediction
If they kept on accusing me I'd just do it lol.