INTERRACIAL MARRIAGE DIALOGUE - TALK TO ME SHOW
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- Talk To Me is a brand new talk show brought to you by Eman Channel sky 857, in this show we discuss hot topics with a hint of controversy & humor. Get your pop corns ready for a lively dialogue as we try to find answers to big questions.
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Kamil Ibri aaaah lol
Kamil Ibri Salamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah, say thank you to Ali. He is teaching us sabr 😂
Ali Dawah you have to like this comment
marriage documentary.........
Salamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah, Katsa Moolight my sister please don't fall into his game. I can see that this person is full of anger and he is just here to spread hate and insults. Don't be like him, no matter what you say, that person takes the liberty to talk in an immature way because we can't see him, so let's just ignore him because he won't benefit us to insult him too ! :)
I’m white American and my husband is Jordanian. I’m actually quite shocked by what some of these people are saying. What is our origin of not Jennah, Adam and Even, Allah swt? To honestly not allow your child to marry outside of your race...is your race more important than humanity? Can’t a woman learn to cook the food of the husband or the husband understand the wives family culture? Isn’t marriage about love, compassion and compromise. As long as each others deen is relatable than what is the problem. I know we can’t say limiting marriage because of race is haram but I see nothing Islamic about it. We are so stuck on our ancestors and our culture that we lose sight of Islam we lose sight of who we ultimately are as humans. May Allah open our hearts and minds
lol racist
John Khan I am in my country
No some brothers are just saying the other side not actually think like that
Allahumma Ameen
True and especially for womens from thise cultures. It's easier for men. I know girl their father is Arab and mother from a western country but they cant marry a western muslim men. So strange
"A curry is not gonna save me in the hereafter" LOOOL Ali is so right!
11:08, "Curry's not goign to save me in the here-after". Brilliant and funny comment from Ali.
I ain't a Muslim but I agree in interracial marriages. We shouldnt classify the people you wan marry. Love is beneath your heart. It has no race or backgrounds. God unites two people with a purpose.
Want to play devil's advocate, you say love has no background and 'God unites', giving the assumption that you have a religious affiliation, so what are your views on interfaith marriages?
Maz my friend I got no time to state my opinions to you, neither you won't listen or believe but to prove much how deluded you are.
graffiti union wow, why so emotional? I was just asking a simple question, wasn’t meant to be hate or anything.
Sad that we live in a time where everything has to be justified and ‘no hate’ comments are so prevalent. But cool, cool.
@@azanhibra9271 see on TH-cam this video-( the throne of Allah mind-blowing by merciful servant)
As an Arab I feel so proud to see other nations accepting Islam and doing dawah.alhamdulillah
Other nations have been muslims since the time of prophet muhammad saw
what is you being an arab got to do with anything?
Islam is the religion for mankind Arabs have no superiority in Islam
indonesia, a non-arab country is the biggest muslim country. so stop
How old are you dear arab brother?my brother in Law is an emirati arab
1st Question:
Marriage Doc?
PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming never gonna happen
Can’t believe this is still an issue. We were put on earth to submit to the Almighty not keep a culture alive.
xmissmarzx hmmm marrying within the family nothing wrong with that is it? I'm sure that keeps the ummah going too
Well of course ,my point is it shouldn’t be a deal breaker if the couple are compatible in other ways.
xmissmarzx yeah it's a tough one... Specially nowadays...
But where is the marriage documentary at? 😂😂😂
ikr 1 year already but we must be patients brothers
@@maxireinas4573 sup its been 2 years 😝
‘Curry is not gonna save me in the hereafter’ I think you’ve completely missed the point.The brother was saying that due to the cultural clashes , interracial couple might find it difficult to adapt to the different way of living, which is a culture they’ve been accustomed to their whole lives.My take on this :
I feel like culture stretches far beyond what you’re portraying it.Culture comes with difference in language,way of living ,difference in norms and values ,difference in the way certain cultures socialise their children which can affect compatibility
I am not again interracial marriages , I think it depends on the couple and how much they’re willing to compromise their way of living.
That’s what marriage is all about compromise but if they’re too different in terms of all the things you listed than that’s up to their love for each for the said interracial marriage.
The gentleman from Scotland was right
Simon Bart he said it like a boss!
My husband is Pakistani Muslim I am Mexican American Christian. Two very very different cultures and sometimes their can be a culture clash but let me tell you our love is pure and a reflection of Gods love. I am free in his love. His family is accepting of me. We don’t see culture. We don’t see race. We just see the love we have for one another. And the love we have for God. Don’t let ignorance and worldly thoughts affect what should be pure in Gods eyes.
Interesting..how will you guys raise your kids? Are they going to be muslim or christian?
Antoine Griezmann I have accepted with raising them Muslim
ChichaWatniFarmer ChakNo170/9L 😂😂
Mia Rodriguez ewwwwww
Mia Rodriguez thats why, trust me if u sais the kid will be christian. ooo gosh i wouldnt marry a muslim alot of women dont want to marry a muslim
This video was helpful, and I enjoyed the bit of humor, too 😂👌🏼
"Culture, was destroyed Fourteen hundred years ago, in Mecca." - I agree hundred percent.
Your Friendly Neighbour Somali and Pakistani/Indian does in this context
TH-camr i heard jesus fucked his mum xD
jhonson Kashka not true. The prophet frobid many cultural practices that clashed with islam
TH-camr not only that.
Also this mentality makes it hard for many people to get married. I know so many converts who have had such a hard time finding marriage especially more so in the UK vs US because girls brainwashed them saying no Muslim guy will marry you because your not Pakistani or Somali etc. Alhumdulillah for my husbands family. I have never felt more loved and embraced by another family and my Palestinian gf was shocked when my husband said their family has approved our engagement. Such silliness. This is a topic I’m very passionate about. As you can see haha 😂
Curry
Not sure is it? Im only stating two cultures that were mentioned by 2 convert females. One was told by her Pakistani sisters that no Pakistani man could or would marry her so she shouldn't look for a Pakistani brother and another sister said her Somali friends said practically the same thing. i suppose I could have said Suadi or Palestinian...Doesnt really matter which culture is mentioned really.
Make sure that they stick to the Quran. Islam is the most diverse religion. It's not hard.
If you know this cultural clash is going to happen between families better to avoid the fitna and marry someone from your own kind this is something that is deeply ingrained and not something you could change in the short run
I wish i was in the audience for this. Im still having difficulty as a revert from a jamacian background with finding a husband here in london
Jams B Salamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah be patient sister, I am in the same case, if not even worse. Place you trust in Allah, may Allah give you a good pious husband, ameen.
MASHALLAH BROTHER ALII GIVING DAWAH
Great love this more discussions
BTW love the quality brothers keep it up. Brother Hijab looked very tired
Thanks for educating people parents need to be more open minded with regards to marriage. Sometimes it is better to marry within your culture sometimes it isn't it is all about the indvidual.
Ali, salam alaykoum. Masha Allah. First time I watch your Talk Show. Allah bless you !
Love this!
Liked the video before even watching.👍 selam Ali
When haram becomes easy halal becomes hard.. When halal becomes hard haram becomes easy...
Benny One
You basically said the same thing in two different lines ..😂😂😂 but it's true
True Believer I think I had to.. Some people just don't get it...
Benny One
Ohk
True Believer some people can't read sadly
When water becomes dry there is no water when water is wet there is an abundance of water… YOU SAID NOTHING
Marriage documentary comments incoming...
@@hannan6767 3 years later still not here🙁
Next topic question: Will Ali’s marriage documentary ever be released?
So funny that hamza said 'devil's advocate' iv just finished the film 😂
The revert story of that scottish bro is amazing. He is a lovely guy. Culture is an idol which divides muslims today.
Subhanallah ! Ali's subscribers and followers will all be in jannah in a special place! Because we are all having sabr 😂😂 with his marriage documantary
There are MANY interracial marriages where culture is STILL in place. life becomes hard when you make it hard.
You have such a hard time Leaving your emotions out of this Ali I'm so excited for the documentary I want to know what actually happened to you
Speaking of marriage mate still waiting for that documentary chop chop pal
Curry is not gona save me in the hearafter lol 😂 so true but Still very nice talk show.
My Scottish brother w
Is absolutely wonderfully right
Alhamdulilah
This show has potential
I have a question. Quran says that people were created with different languages. So existence of different languages is a religious sign (which should be respected). When marrying people from different nation, it is more likely that one (or two) languages will disappear on a scale of this family: either children will know language of their father f.ex. or they will just speak English, or both parents can try to teach children with their languages - but then sooner or later after permanent international marriages at grandchildren level probably these initial parents' languages will be lost. So international marriages lead to gradual disappearance of languages and small languages are most vulnerable to this process of globalization. My question is: does the spreading of culture of international marriages contradict the verse of Quran regarding languages?
Were you just standing up for the entirety of the show ? You need to get yourself another chair Akhi , great show .
The Scottish brother is so wise, the Prophet came to destroy the jahilliyah of his time (culture based on ignorance). These people who refuse interracial marriage just don’t want to admit that they prioritise culture over religion
We usually make things harder for ourselves... But truly we are living in a time of great confusion.. We don't know what to do.. And this a major sign ... We have sin an bf/gf business is okay nowadays...
Our Rasool(SAW).frequently said to his companions"that the hour is near" this was over 1400 years ago... What.about.us today only a few minor signs are left.
Fahad Jamal Imaam Mahdi coming in our lives or not?
AIRLINERS WEB yeah in our time if we live it all.... Allah knows best... Truly scary times.... Look how many disagreements
choudhry ali in order to fit in and get that attention... All comes down to low self esteem..
Rags Toriches may Allah guide you Aameen ❤
Good show
I would genuinely like to see a reaction video/ commentary on one of Christopher Hitchen's debates on Islam and religion in general.
Sorry for spam.
Just came for the comments
Hmmm to be honest this is what makes marriage hard within itself and it makes sin easy... People end up doing more wrong then good...
Salam a'leykom everyone. Can someone give me the tittle of the anasheed in the beginning which Ali always put for his intro ? Thank u so much and jazakom'Allah bi khair
Amazing hahaah
Ohh... the word 'Marriage' is in the title...
ServantOfTheKing he actually replied to us on a previous video saying he's working on it, I don't remember which vid tho
May Allah give us the partner that we want to get married to....regardless of race and culture
Nice
love from Pakistani brother
,,,, Ali ! like this comment .... I love your content . make it longer !
DE. Well done Ali. (🤗) 😍. (WB -)
I think the clash between the children and parents is that the children's generation don't entirely follow culture anymore and majority of the people's background these days are so mixed (ethnically and geographically as they live in so many countries) and for the children's generation, the create their own culture for themselves. As for the parents generation, they bite hard onto the culture stick and do not understand that living in so many different places, intermingling with different races etc makes it nearly impossible to stick to the rules of the culture. And there really isn't a problem with any of that - children's or parent's generation - it becomes a critical problem when this whole culture takes over Islam. As long as it's permissible Islamically and not displeasing to Allah then follow or create whatever culture you want. In the end, we enter or graves and we're not gonna be asked "why did or didn't you put a ring on your wife's finger when you got married" or "why didn't you have people throwing flowers/rice as you walk down the aisle" - As long as it is not displeasing to Allah, do whatever culture you want to.
I'm Romanian and my husband is Pakistani...I don't think so language is a barrier between us nor is our culture. His parents are amazing and accepted that I'm not a "holy" Pakistani , although in these families marrying between cousins and staying in a so called Pakistani culture is some sort of unwritten law. Let's be honest if you have a convert from some random country like I am , you will not marry her because she doesn't speak ur holy language or she doesn't dress up the way women in your culture do? What the hell is more important ?? An Islamic family or a feed up family of culture and no understanding of the religion?
My own culture implies a lot of drinking partying and eating pork at all 3 meals, so now I should have married someone that has the same culture so we can keep our children in a constant circle of stupidity? Interracial marriage shouldn't even pose a problem as long as both partners are Muslims.
ChichaWatniFarmer ChakNo170/9L No buddy, you missed my point completely. The fact that I might be a gypsy or white doesn't change anything... Both gypsy and white in that country have 99% the same culture. You will rarely find any kind of differences. Not only that but for your information they are only 4 to 5% of the population whereas the white are around 95%.
ChichaWatniFarmer ChakNo170/9L you will find only the old generation wearing such clothes, but anyone from the new generations have adopted the "be naked" culture. Same goes to the white people. In villages you will see only old women that wear long skirts and headscarf. The rest, if you only cover your chest a tiny bit and wear a pair of "panties" you are perfect to go outside. If you don't you are an outcast and must be mocked and bullied.
Gud video but as revert this is disgusting comments response upset made me cry. I'm turned off looking for marriage if people be this racist. Just because ppl r same caste don't mean they won't cheat. I see ppl other caste do bf gf. This revert Bro is right we give everything up. And if they have same mentality as these people about culture no revert wud get married ever. What about if Sum1 has no support I have my family's is ok with me now. Sum sisters get it really bad. And to say. No to someone based on colour is absolutely disgusting half the people who do this to my friends the parents don't pray yet want Sum1 same caste doesn't matter what heart they have just aslong as they same caste. My friends are unmarried because Dr family turn down people just because they not same caste yet they dont even live in that coutry
Am facing this problem!!!Me and My siblings are educated but we are totally unable to address this problem..My parent's Will not marry me to different cast..wow!!They will ready to sacrifice in education and many other things but not cast..My frrinds are now actually making fun of me..I'll have to marry the same cast but what to do..
The section comments scares me and make me understand why Muslims simply don’t want to integrate. And I say it as a convert. Mixed marriages are beautiful. Mixed children are beautiful. What matters the most is love and then the absolute respect for the other one culture/religion. I personally don’t think I’m going to marry a Muslim man. Not only for personal family issues but also because of the most of them have a point of view I don’t agree with. Love is love.
Anna Artemis Mixed marriages are disgusting. Race mixing is wrong
Antoine Griezmann what’s wrong with you
Anna Artemis Nothing, just proud of my heritage, culture and race.
Antoine Griezmann I don’t get why you find mixing marriage disgusting..are you afraid to ruin your blood or something?.
Anna Artemis It's just my opinion, if you support interracial marriage then good for you.
When marrying outside the family you lose a lot.. Plus there's differences, like language an living...
Benny One not true. You gain by learning other culture as well as other way of life.
Benny One Allah created us all different so we may get to know each other and marry each other.
Alishah Khaliq I have nothing against with marrying outside the family... In my own family 3 of my brothers have married outside the family... I have seen the goodness of that.. Alhumdulilah.. But the family tree ends there, it doesn't grow anymore... Where as it had been growing mashallah for many many years... Iv seen the different cultures and how things can be difficult in some situations.... And yes iv seen your Hadith that you have quoted but that wasn't mainly about marriage.. That was too show that we shouldn't let our differences come between us and to love every human...
Katsa Moonlight yes it does depend on the situation... Sometimes it can destroy families.... Families disown there own daughter/son.. Sometimes worse can happen..
Benny One the family tree stops?? Stop being silly
White guy is right! Mashallah
0:0 to 0:9 too good
On a lighter note, mans struggling to get married as it is.. With all these issues hope looks far far away...
captured momentzz trust me your not the only one and you won't be the last... There's lots guys and girls hitting the age of 30 an not married.. Many even divorced nowadays..the thing is bigger then just culture, there's many wants and needs nowadays too, sometimes earning 25k a year is not enough... There's too many barriers
Farzana Haq yeah times are at a different level.. Where as back in our parents time they dint have much, there wasn't much to do even..the world dint possess much for them to be disturbed and greedy in wanting more out of there marriage.. They actually got married for Islam and the right way, they went through many struggles..where as now, mans wana go to the top restaurants, top holidays, Dubai every month and all that.... These wants and needs they end up possessing us without even knowing.. I'm not saying doing all them things is wrong it's just gone too much now..
Are you Pakistani though
😂 true. In sha Allah He will grant you a pious wife soon. Ameen
Minahil Haq damn... 1 Year on! And its still true...
I would love to come on this .....
first sallamm
Only on yt or also on 857 Ali ?
Salam, brothers and sisters. Just a thought : I don't understand why everyone treats Ali like he is some kind of Scholar, imam or knowledgeable person - he is not. I found this a bit uncomfortable to watch because I felt like Ali was forcing his opinion on the sisters their, insinuating that they are wrong and giving the impression that, he is right and everyone else's views do not count. Surely, as a talk show host, you should be neutral and listen to others views rather than asking for opinions and then disregarding what they say. No hate, its just something i felt was wrong and needed to comment. The scottish revert brother has some very valid points mashaAllah.
ماشاءالله یا اخی
Times are truly hard... Man was looking for a wife in the last video who can make a boom cake.. Now this video comes out ...
Benny One lol why don't u just make yourself a nice cake and please yourself
Sarah Da trust me man can make and bake a cake... But trust you need that women's touch....
There is "music" in the intro !!
Who here in 2020 😂
Why is Mohammed Hijab so quiet ??
I know this is picky.but for the sake of..Allah cut the music out!
May Allah make us of the sideeqs,martyrs and righteous ameen ya Rabb
bro i noticed too...the intro ahlie?
If it’s not harmfull then why change it?
Fahad Jamal
There's difference of opinion regarding music ak.
231doughboy
obviously certain type is clearly haram. The type that is used for haram purposes. But there is difference of opinion among the scholars apart from that. Read opinions of ibn hazm, abu bakr al arabi, shawkani etc.
231doughboy
I don't know that akhi. I don't think they do. But those scholars i mentioned, and there's more like Al ghazali have that opinion and they're heavyweight scholars even though i do agree they're in the minority. I believe there's strong evidence on both sides. We have to remember as well that in the early scholars time if someone wanted to listen to music they had to go to a place which all sorts of other haram was going on aswell. I don't agree that its permissable btw. I believe if something is unclear its best to stay away from it. But we have to realise some heavyweight scholars hold that opinion and if its wholesome and done in a islamic way, its hard to criticize someone who holds the opinion that its permissable within limits of course.
the roots of culture are poised with kufr
Ali Dawah is out here doing talkshow but still no time to put out the marriage documentary.
i hope that this show will includes debates with non muslim . and be easier you'r job than in a street dawah .assalam aleykum .
Ali what is your real job besides youtube I really wanted to know bro SubhanAllah ❤
Where omar and faisal?
I'm not feeling the decor tho lmao, needs an injection of life
The good news is you live in the United Kingdom and when you're an adult you get to do what you want to do and you don't have to do what your parents tell you to do. That's the law in this country and you can abide by the law if you want to ...you are free enjoy this country and enjoy its freedoms as I know you do...
Philip Marks its not law in other countries to marry someone of your race.... So what are u talking about, u won't get arrested or go to court....
Just saying ...over here we are more free as individuals to make our own decisions and not to live in deeper fear of...what our parents find acceptable. I think in Islamic countries and people subjugated by Islam there is a sort of mental torture/ agressiveness imparted by parents and others..i think here we live in a more free society...ironically I thank God for this...but not the God that separates us with so called religions (who doesn't exist) just sayin'
Philip Marks hmmm interesting I'm from an Islamic country by ethnicity, Algeria, and people do casually marry people who aren't Algerian without this fear.... And in the countries that do have this, it comes from their tradition, not religion
Salamu Alaykum, you should stop with the stereotypes, because muslim countries or not, parents can still be very judgmental to who you marry. Get out of your head what you think you know, because even if it is partially true, it is also partially wrong ! I am a French girl, and France is secular free country, but still many white families can't imagine their children with black people. In this country, racism is really present, no religion rules the country but still we have this issue of not wanting certain people for their children. This is the second time that I see you in this comment section talking about religion being fake. Before saying something is fake, do some serious researches first, because the majority of time people that don't believe in religions think like that because of the way people in the religion act, not the religion itself. Learn properly at least the three most dominant monotheistic religions for a couple years and then come back to say whether you believe in it or not. And before talking about muslim countries, go there, visit, live there and made your point after that.
Doda Dado youre jumping to conclusions; how do you know how much research ive done On religions...I'm not going to bore you with it but it's years and it's based on a very neutral and positive upbringing; I feel it's balanced. Thanks for agreeing my earlier statements are partially true. I think the theme here is religion not race but it's good you extend the problems of how parents can dictate and control their kids with respect colour and race- you do good here...Im sorry you're not happy with my comments but I feel compelled to give my thoughts on religion to help people make more balanced decisions on their beliefs, especially if they only gravitate towards closed opinions. I'll carry on making my comments and observations. Cheers
Yoooool
why is there music in the intro, i thought this was an islamic video, i thought i accidentally clicked on a music video
You goo
FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's just RIDICULOUS that some muslims hold on to this idea that you have to marry someone from the same culture. It goes against Islam. What matters when you marry someone is not their ethnicity and culture. What matters is their spirituality, if both parties are compatible and really, just if it's a good person. A respectable person with integrity. God made us into peoples and tribes so that we might come to know each other. There's no common sense in this idea that you should only marry someone because of their culture. You marry someone because of who they are and if that someone is good, and that could be a person from your culture but also someone that's not.
MARRIAGE DOCUMENTARY?????
I love bro ali so much pls pls let me call u gave me som info of ur self jazakallah w khera
I think life would be easier for couples if they marry their own.
Deeq z I agree with you.
Why so she can cook curries for you ???
Lara Nice one
Lara no u are wrong i am talking about in everyway. And i also dont want my kids to be lost in the middle of no where.
from somalia .. beautiful
Mohaz osman long live somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴
Shokeydj MashaAllah somalia💕💕💕
Shokeydj long live all muslims
Shokeydj are u somali ??
Mohaz osman yes
Music in intro?
im gonna mary myself a nice latina convert.
carlos king haha you muslims?? Or you reverted???
S . K im muslim
carlos king since you were born?? Or what
S . K since i was born
carlos king ah ok i was confused about that name carlos haha 🤙🤙
If two people choose to get married then that's up to them they can do exactly what they want to do. No race religious cult or anything should be able to stop them. ItsIt's really as simple as that if anybody else has anything other than this... then in my opinion they need psychiatric help. Goodnight. May your god go with you bear in mind there's only one god and it's not from any of the organised or known religions
How do I come to the show???
Mr burki you can buy a ticket from me, it will cost you 99.95
Erec funny
what about sunni and shia marriage
ali dawah needs to sit down
Some not most of the families that Bengali brother is talking about are un-accommodating towards the brothers or sisters who marry their sons or daughters and test them like their not deserving but some brothers are dismissive of those tests which hits a nerve as the parents expect their son in law daughter in law to be submissive or wanting for acceptance like they’ve got an inferiority complex about them being different and wanting to be recognised positively for their differences and Vice versa.Im the boogie man in the family I married in to as their not islamicaly inclined and a lot of their practices are out right contradiction to Islam you could say they excommunicate themselves daily with their rituals I politely advise on this but it falls on deaf ears because Islamic knowledge is hereditary to them but one elder did admit that she was ashamed that I had covered more ground in 5 years than she had done in 60 years but that neither here nor there people can adapt if they’re really sincere about pleasing Allah
Only 12 mins long. I was hoping more like 30-45 or even 1 hour healthy discussion!
full video on Eman channel
Bobby:D
Ali Banat aaway dadow
First
look above u
LawandCoffeeTime well second didn’t see ur comment
yes
oh i understand
da best o' da best who ?
Brother marry a Somali women because they are easy trust me. Don't listen to these women in the panal.