I’ve never been interested in Podcast but have recently given them another shot. I’ve have really enjoyed your podcasts especially this one with Lisa Diamond and an older episode with Joshua Grubbs.
Here’s the thing right .. if someone who is gay and during their teens and maybe even 20s was involved in homosexual behavior their body is going to be very hard wired to that. Later in life they maybe experience some fluidity but that does not mean that now this person needs to engage in hetero activity it just means that their arousal template may be triggered by certain things.. because remember at the end of the day we’re talking about something that is out of our control.. but at the end of the day it can still be 1. A desire or 2. Not a desire at all.. your body may react to different things and people doesn’t mean now you gotta engage.. your body may or may not change later in life. But you have pro gay therapist like these two who talk about this so jolly and it irritates me so much. She uses the weather for a reference which was terrible because we can obviously check the weather and I can see the forecast for the whole entire week. And it can be that way where I check what the weather is gonna be every day for the rest of my life.. why don’t therapist like this teach people that just how are body can basically do what it does without are permission we can train our bodies to be lined up with ones true values.. because do you know how freighting it would be for me or for anybody who just their sexuality and is happy with themselves to one day feel an unwanted arousal by the same sex ? It’s terrifying because in a sense we feel our body is literally betraying us.. but that certainly doesn’t mean we desire that or now need to engage in some homosexual act.. buts freighting and annoying how uppity yall talk about this.
Can heto woman “unexpectedly” fall in love with another woman can a gay man “unexpectedly fall in love with a woman.. You guys talk about fluidity to be something that means RANDOM! It doesn’t. gay affirming people like yourselves don’t ever want to learn about the underlying issue for someone like this to actually happen for desires to shift. There are reasons why this stuff happens. You don’t just wake up and suddenly your desire change. Doesn’t work like that.
I’ve never been interested in Podcast but have recently given them another shot. I’ve have really enjoyed your podcasts especially this one with Lisa Diamond and an older episode with Joshua Grubbs.
Here’s the thing right .. if someone who is gay and during their teens and maybe even 20s was involved in homosexual behavior their body is going to be very hard wired to that. Later in life they maybe experience some fluidity but that does not mean that now this person needs to engage in hetero activity it just means that their arousal template may be triggered by certain things.. because remember at the end of the day we’re talking about something that is out of our control.. but at the end of the day it can still be 1. A desire or 2. Not a desire at all.. your body may react to different things and people doesn’t mean now you gotta engage.. your body may or may not change later in life.
But you have pro gay therapist like these two who talk about this so jolly and it irritates me so much.
She uses the weather for a reference which was terrible because we can obviously check the weather and I can see the forecast for the whole entire week. And it can be that way where I check what the weather is gonna be every day for the rest of my life.. why don’t therapist like this teach people that just how are body can basically do what it does without are permission we can train our bodies to be lined up with ones true values.. because do you know how freighting it would be for me or for anybody who just their sexuality and is happy with themselves to one day feel an unwanted arousal by the same sex ? It’s terrifying because in a sense we feel our body is literally betraying us.. but that certainly doesn’t mean we desire that or now need to engage in some homosexual act.. buts freighting and annoying how uppity yall talk about this.
Can heto woman “unexpectedly” fall in love with another woman can a gay man “unexpectedly fall in love with a woman..
You guys talk about fluidity to be something that means RANDOM! It doesn’t. gay affirming people like yourselves don’t ever want to learn about the underlying issue for someone like this to actually happen for desires to shift.
There are reasons why this stuff happens. You don’t just wake up and suddenly your desire change. Doesn’t work like that.