Guys I get that we’re not surprised but I feel these comments are unfair bc the truth is this guy was in an abusive relationship and we all know it’s not easy to leave. You cannot blame him and say “he was warned”. Many victims are warned countless times but stay to reasons often unknown to them as well. He was emotionally and psychologically involved with this woman so it’s not easy to leave even at early signs of abuse
The problem is that people don't want to listen, they think people are bitter and don't want good for them. Condom works, the whole damn world told him to leave. Do you want God to come and drag you out of there yourself. When I was told by multiple women to not be with a certain man, I left. Its that simple "Listen to other people when you are warned, listen!!!!!!!!! fucken listen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. The fact that he brought a baby into this, is selfish. Whoever is told to leave and you stay and give them kids, you are doing it to yourself and you don't love yourself. woman or man.
@@coffeewithjay How many people must tell you the same thing? he saw it before the show, on the show, people from her past came forward. What more do you need ? he doesn't love himself that man, that is why he allows such treatment because that is how he feels about himself. How many people must tell you to leave, the whole cast told him to leave. How many more people must experience second hand abuse with you. At some point, you just have to take accountability and love yourself.
I believe the lady is abusive, however he is also a manipulative character. Just remember how he set up the couple swap lady with this lady Khanya and did not protect her. Giving her a promise ring and not an engagement ring, instead of just walking away from the relationship. I think this is a case of two peas in a pod. Khanya just happens to be more volatile, while the guy plays the good guy in front of the world. Hence I believe Khanya when she says he is fake. Either way, to hear they are ending this relationship is best, may their baby be protected from all this chaos. Another innocent dragged into the muddy waters of what we call relationships these days. When will we learn guys
There is no healthy person who goes around physically and emotionally assaulting others. She is definitely not a victim now because she’s an adult and has had ample opportunities to seek help for whatever that went wrong in her life. But she also needs help.
We are not going to act shocked! His own mom; the entire SA warned him. But that guy doesn’t listen 👂. Aowa!! To even make her pregnant? 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ what was he thinking?!!
Exactly!!! We were so loud, telling him she is evil and just pure crazy!! And he was saying no one knows her like me blah blah.... she is kind soul nonsense. That girl has no soul😂!! Now, he is has to raise a child with that evil person. The trauma that poor boy will go through. 😢
People always said it gore she's a mental case... We hope she gets help and above all remembers that she's a mother and her child will need her to be sane with sober habits...
Nobody did anything to her, she doesn’t have battles Jay , she seems to have a personality disorder. She doesn’t get along with anyone. This might be narcissism
The whole country and his mother warned him....
Guys I get that we’re not surprised but I feel these comments are unfair bc the truth is this guy was in an abusive relationship and we all know it’s not easy to leave. You cannot blame him and say “he was warned”. Many victims are warned countless times but stay to reasons often unknown to them as well. He was emotionally and psychologically involved with this woman so it’s not easy to leave even at early signs of abuse
@@ABCDEFG12163 He had hope she was gonna change plus that beautiful face was blinding him for sure
I think we forgot that men can also be in abusive relationships, because most of the time women are the ones being abused.
@ true. Everyone in a similar situation often has hope that their partner will change but unfortunately no, not when it comes to abuse.
The problem is that people don't want to listen, they think people are bitter and don't want good for them. Condom works, the whole damn world told him to leave. Do you want God to come and drag you out of there yourself. When I was told by multiple women to not be with a certain man, I left. Its that simple "Listen to other people when you are warned, listen!!!!!!!!! fucken listen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. The fact that he brought a baby into this, is selfish. Whoever is told to leave and you stay and give them kids, you are doing it to yourself and you don't love yourself. woman or man.
@@coffeewithjay How many people must tell you the same thing? he saw it before the show, on the show, people from her past came forward. What more do you need ? he doesn't love himself that man, that is why he allows such treatment because that is how he feels about himself. How many people must tell you to leave, the whole cast told him to leave. How many more people must experience second hand abuse with you. At some point, you just have to take accountability and love yourself.
This does not shock me one bit. We told him about this girl but he did not listen
and he went ahead and got her pregnant instead.. ai 🦦
@@maxxxxx00 He ignored
@@ABCDEFG12163 Oh Jehova😭
It’s true ge bare men love toxic women visa verse.
I believe the lady is abusive, however he is also a manipulative character. Just remember how he set up the couple swap lady with this lady Khanya and did not protect her. Giving her a promise ring and not an engagement ring, instead of just walking away from the relationship. I think this is a case of two peas in a pod. Khanya just happens to be more volatile, while the guy plays the good guy in front of the world. Hence I believe Khanya when she says he is fake. Either way, to hear they are ending this relationship is best, may their baby be protected from all this chaos. Another innocent dragged into the muddy waters of what we call relationships these days. When will we learn guys
@@MJoaleThis is thought provoking👌
He was abused and clearly scared of her. Can we protect all victims.
I see.... 🤔
You are spot on!!!!!!
After he took that sweet lady there and left her there, I started doubting his innocence.
The whole nation and his mom warned him!
Eish, I hope this girl gets the help and healing she needs
She doesn’t need healing, nobody did anything to her; she was spoiled by her parents
There is no healthy person who goes around physically and emotionally assaulting others. She is definitely not a victim now because she’s an adult and has had ample opportunities to seek help for whatever that went wrong in her life. But she also needs help.
We are not going to act shocked! His own mom; the entire SA warned him. But that guy doesn’t listen 👂. Aowa!! To even make her pregnant? 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ what was he thinking?!!
@@Elizabeth-vu1tb Yoh getting her pregnant was the last straw for sure, he could not be saved!
People never learn then when they cry, suddenly we must cry with them
Exactly!!! We were so loud, telling him she is evil and just pure crazy!!
And he was saying no one knows her like me blah blah.... she is kind soul nonsense.
That girl has no soul😂!!
Now, he is has to raise a child with that evil person. The trauma that poor boy will go through. 😢
She was toxic the whole time, but u still managed to make a bby🥴. Why are u playing with us.🤦🏽♀️
I hope she gets assessed before taking her child.
He was warned though
People always said it gore she's a mental case... We hope she gets help and above all remembers that she's a mother and her child will need her to be sane with sober habits...
@@AngelaM_Forbes Eish i hope she gets help to for the sake of her child at least
Nobody did anything to her, she doesn’t have battles Jay , she seems to have a personality disorder. She doesn’t get along with anyone. This might be narcissism
@@sekoaib I think i saw what you are talking about hey, esp the way she turned on that guy(im forgetting him)
@@coffeewithjaythat Congolese guy and she also called that other lady in the show “ fatty boom boom” and shouted at her
I would go so far as to say Sociopath. She lacks humanity, has no regard for others and is so dangerous
It’s really giving narc vibes with her.
All the red flags were there.
@@kwenamolotomaja6935 100%
Ay kodwa Nkateko naye 🚮
Lapho he can get any girl he wants in southA. But he chose to stick with this lunatic. He bores me to death loyana honestly.
We warned him
Khanya was raised in an unstable environment.
I can smell it from a mile away
There's something very wrong with Nkateko's mental state of mind mnxim
Eish bandla but we did warn him
Before the baby and now an innocent soul is here to be traumatised
Au this poor guy hle 😢ke sono
Yooooh andisamvuyeli eyishiyile lentombazana 😢yoh akakwazi ukuziphatha lomntwana uKhanya she needs therapy help
@@loyalallies She really needs, its gone too far now
Who are these people?
A couple from a Netflix series
@@kulaniful 😂😂😂Kulani
1:55 😂😂😂😂😂😂bathong she even photoshopped a curve 😂😂😂😂😂😂ehhhh ya neh
I warned you my guy but I get you
He chose her asingeni ndawo
Exactly....
He loved her too much and she didn’t love him it was obvious on the show at least he gets to start afresh
Atleast u have evidence for ur son