Just file a lawsuit and charge her with child endangerment. Force feeding a child a known allergen should be attempted murder. Charge debbie for the therapy too.
I’m a 45 year old woman who is lactose intolerant and have a mild milk allergy. (Fresh raw milk literally makes me break out in hives..) I can’t imagine being a small child with that issue! Goodness!!! I’m glad auntie got punished in the end!
There's a point where "eating healthy" becomes a mental illness, and I'm pretty sure Debbie has passed that point several times over. Kinda wish the kid was lactose intolerant the way I was as a kid. It's been described to me as "that scene from The Exorcist, minus the head turning 360 degrees." Bet Debbie would've believed in lactose intolerance then. 🤣
A woman I know has food intolerances and she carries an epipen at all times. Cotton candy, strawberries, previously frozen chicken, etc are all poison to her. Cotton candy, well the dye they use.
Something similar happened to me and my son. He was born allergic to cow’s milk and would actually get pneumonia if he drank milk. I tried soy based formula but he rejected it so I started giving him goat’s milk, butter and cheese which worked great. Well….my SIL was outraged that I was feeding him “crap” as she called it. Luckily I never let her care for him and had to just bear her berating until I divorced her horrible brother. In one fell swoop I got rid of a terrible SIL, husband and FIL. I miss my sweet MIL to this day.
When my granddaughter was a toddler she developed an intolerance to cows milk. I didn’t want to go the soy milk route so tried goats milk. Worked perfectly.
To Hell with your ex-SIL, your ex-husband, and your ex-FIL because none of them knows what's actually best for your son. Hopefully none of them expected your son to outgrow his allergy to cow's milk because that almost never happens.
I grew up in a family of 13 kids. An I was the only one that had dairy intolerance. An my dad refused to buy me any dairy free products. So I had to learn how to keep myself healthy. An avoid foods I knew had dairy in them. So I could read ingredients by age 3. Or I knew I'd get ill. An my dad & siblings called the runt. He would refuse to take Drs advice or a nutritionist ect. So in my early 8 or 10yrs. I often ended up in hospital as my dad wouldn't leave out dairy in meals he cooked. As he had to cook for 15. An just doing me a separate non dairy meal he said was impossible. Or too much hassle. It made me ashamed of being intolerant. So I'd not tell people at school. It became a habit to avoid the dinner hall at primary & secondary school. Yet age 6 I went to boarding school for ill kids. It was the first time I had food I NEVER had to worry about, as I wasn't the only kid who had dairy issues. I left age 13 & went to a children's home where my dairy issues were also understood. It was only at school lunch times I still avoided the dinner hall lol. I'd sneak out the grounds & go have a black coffee & portion of chips from the local chippy. As it was the only hot food place nearby. It's so much easier these days though. As much better selection of dairy free products. Plus as a mom of 3 non allergy now adult kids aswell as my 3 wonderful grandsons. I've learned to cook for their tastes an my own needs. Even in my Pakistani style curries I don't use ghee or natural yoghurt. Yet ALL my Asian friends eat my curries an some of the women even asked for my non dairy recipes for their own non dairy family members lol. I make a yummy lamb chop bhuna & my chicken on the bone curry never stays in the pot for long as my kids & grandkids will eat several portions each. I have to put mine aside before the gannets attack the pot. An my stew pot is HUGE. It can fit a whole 32lb turkey in it an still have room for a load of veggies.
I've had people tell me there is no way I could be allergic to peanuts that I lie about it for sympathy. I don't know. I've developed a habit called breathing. Peanuts cause me to stop for some reason.
So many people don’t believe my chocolate allergy. Almost everyone says “sorry” like I just lost a child or something. My life is full, and not having cluster headaches improves my life 1000%. It’s not even tempting.
Considering how rampant peanut allergies are these days...those people are insane! That's like someone telling you cyanide won't hurt you. A peanut allergy is one of the most deadly!
Debbie is not respecting mum's instructions and think she knows best simply because she has more kids.... sigh self taught people are are the bain of society
Amazes me i some people don’t believe people can b allergic to certain food’s etc. I’m 71 & can still remember that one of our little toddlers is allergic to peanuts. His name is Hunter. This was at church nursery.
Yeah she should have got a felony for that, poor child to drink milk if you don't force anybody to drink any she got what she deserved but I think she still deserve more
Sorta surprised that her husband never told her that there was other stuff to eat and request it. . Fresh fruits, veggies and farm raised fresh beef must have been costing them an 💪 and a 🦵.
I have a slight lactose intolerance and can at length only have some set amounts of milk. But I can’t imagine someone _ignoring my said limits._ Absolute boundaries crossed, that is literally _poisoning someone on purpose._
How can someone obsessed with healthy eating not know that you can get calcium from other sources besides dairy products? How does she think the adult cows & goats that give us milk get the calcium themselves? Plus there are such things as calcium supplements for those with food issues.
Lactaid works wonders, my sister uses it when we travel and she might not have access to non lactose dairy products. There is a big difference between being lactose intolerant and being allergic to dairy products. Lactose intolerance won’t send you to the hospital, dairy allergies can kill you and can very much send you to the hospital.
It's like that case where a grandmother used coconut oil on her toddler granddaughter who was DEATHLY ALLERGIC to coconuts. Needless to say the poor girl died.
I remember that story well the girks were twins and one died because of the granmother putting coconut oil into her hair then putting her to bed. The next day she was rushed to the hospital her entire body was swollen and she died.
That was such a horrible story. That poor child and her parents. If I remember correctly the monster grandmother still thought she deserved forgiveness.
Social media has made everyone a Ph.D. Because they can google something. It's crazy how they can dismiss people who have spent years of their lives studying and saying they know better such as the sister thinking she knows better than the doctor. It's crazy that people don't want to do the leg work but get upset when called out to be wrong.
If he'd known she didn't believe in...like she flat out said when they were saying they were leaving the kid with her, he wouldn't have let her have the kid.... So he ignores others' words about being more than willing to harm his child. Must be a family trait.
I don’t know why, but one of the things that scare me in life is how people either believe that allergies are a myth, or even if they believe that someone can grow out of what they are allergic to, which I hear it’s true, but not all people grow out of their food/beverage allergy, or worse, believe that person is faking their allergy.
i'm allergic to pretty much everything its all mild reactions but still i understand how dangerous it can be for other people especially sense at one point my allergies caused me to have a major asthma attack that almost killed me i never even saw it coming
My daughter also can’t have any dairy products and unfortunately there weren’t a lot of non dairy formulas out there when she was a baby. I’ll say that the few soy formulas that we used smelled horrible. At least now there are lots of non dairy products available, I’ve never been a big milk drinker so I leave the non dairy products to her. I’m a huge cheese lover so I have to make sure to give her lactose tabs so that her reactions aren’t bad whenever I use cheese.😊
Back in 1979, there wasn't much available for infants born with lactose intolerance. My godson was born with that and his then-pediatrician was a DUMBASS just like Debbie. My godson nearly died from dehydration at 9 months because of the nonstop diarrhea and the pediatrician REFUSED to test for ANYTHING! We had to rush the baby to the Emergency Room and he had to be hospitalized!
There are some really great Non-Dairy cheese options nowadays. Both my son & daughter are Lactose Intolerant & Allergic to the protein Casein found in All forms of Dairy. If you’d like a few suggestions, let me know! 🥰
@@thecelticcrone7927 Pay careful attention to the ingredients in sausage casings if you use plant-based sausages. This is because most sausage casings contain casein, which you definitely don't want.
Neglect! Neglect? there are places (Like here in the US) where if you intentionally give someone things you KNOW they are allergic to, it can be counted as attempted murder depending on if the severity of their reaction and first degree if the person dies! Food allergies are no joke and I will never understand the casual way people decide to risk someone's life just to prove a point
That is true, although Lactose intolerance is not really an allergy, not over reaction of the immune system is involved, the mechanism that may injure or kill you is different.
@@pedroarjona6996 I'm thinking there was something in the pancakes that triggered an allergic reaction. Who knows what ingredients that IDIOT was using?
And what about if something goes wrong or your 'method' caused physical harm? I mean Debbie is a grown ass woman who FORCEFULLY RESTRAINED A FIVE YEAR OLD, held her mouth open and poured milk down her throat!!! Even if she didn't have a reaction she could have DROWNED HER! Food allergies are not something to toy with, ask all the people who have criminal records or are now serving jail time because they thought they knew better😤
@@QueenSunstar And when the undigested sugar reach the colon it promotes bacterial growth, and therefore an increase in bacteria toxins and metabolic products. This produces diahrea, gases, inflammation and pain. Young children, old people or people in general poor health die may die of diahrea induced dehydration or, rarely, of other complications.
As soon as she mentions, amy should have milk. I would jump into the car and go back. I've had a similar issue with my child, and grandparents just did not respect the health condition 😢
No,my son is lactose intolerant. He can’t have milk. Amy’s mom is correct and Debbie doesn’t know what she is talking about and should keep her nose out of it.
Not Vegan, however 2 of my kids are Allergic to both Lactose & the protein Casein found in All Animal Dairy. After much trial & error… We have discovered our Family favorites for Milk, Coffee Creamers, Cheeses, etc. btw…..I’ve found that the Myokos brand Vegan Butter, is the Closest to Actual Butter you can find. It even ‘foams’ up in the pan & can be made into Brown Butter without getting a burnt taste. 🥰
My girlfriends daughter is lactose intolerant and there are pills that people can take if they have been given dairy or even if they choose to eat regular pizza. I was a vegan and when we went for pizza, I always had my own pizza with all my favorite veggies and no cheese. When we had the little girl with us, she and I shared a pizza. She was so happy and told her mom. From then on, that’s what she ordered. I’m happy she found a way to eat and have fun with her friends.
Why wasn't she charged with child endangerment? She was warned by the parents that the child had an allergy and she did it anyway That's more than just child neglect
I used to get harassed so much in school because I wouldn't drink the little cartons of milk. I finally told my doctor about it when he asked how I was liking school. He wrote me a prescription and put it in a plastic sleeve and told me to show it to anyone that bothers me. I was only 6 at the time but when I was older my mom told me Dr. Hovdy had called the school to make sure no one would be bothering me any more. He also made sure Mom knew that they were supposed to be supplying me with a carton of fortified orange juice at lunch since milk makes me vomit. And that prescription Dr. Hovdy wrote me? It said.... The ONLY creatures that need to drink milk are calfs. Bo is not a baby cow, she does NOT need to drink milk. I carried that think around with me until 4th grade. 🤣😂🤣😂
I wished I had a good caring doctor like that 😊we have a lot of quacky Drs around here , I dread going to the hospital for anything one Dr will say one thing another Dr will say another thing u we're very lucky to have a Dr like that he seemed like he was kinda funny too
You're lucky to have a doctor like that My doctor is literally strict, she's strict in my diet like she wants me to 93 to 50 kilos PS. My doctor is literally fatter than me
How can someone who has “studied health and nutrition extensively” not be aware of lactose-intolerance, or food allergies. I’m sensitive to strawberries, so I avoid them. It’s not a life-threatening allergy, but strawberries make me sick. 🍓=🤮 (headache & nausea)
Was told by both my brother and SIL that my nephew who was 1 didn’t like either baby oil or lotion on his skin. He had eczema and I had bought him either a lotion or oil to treat it. I put the first one on one leg and he was fine. When I used the other product on his other leg, he pulled his leg away and started fussing at me. My walked in laughing saying “Told you he doesn’t like that stuff on him. He’ll keep his leg like that, til he sees you getting a baby wipe, to wipe off his leg.” Then he watched which bottle I picked up before he would put his leg back down. He didn’t trust me after that! Lol did I mention he was ONE!!
Yay!! Someone with a Southern accent! I listen to several different Reddit and text channels and I've been looking for someone with a good voice and Southern accent, since many of them are Midwestern, like me, or Canadian, or they have accents from around the world, which I love, but I'm so happy I found this channel! Thank you!
The issue with lactose intolerance is that many people don't or stop producing lactase, the digestive enzyme that handles the breakdown of lactose. There are a number of food allergies where the body does no produce a corresponding enzyme. The 'heel stick' newborn s get started out ad a test for PKU where a byproduct of certain carbs would svcu!glad causing permanent brain damage.
Intolerance and allergies are not the same thing. Allergies are caused by a response from the immune system. Intolerance is caused by a lack of a needed enzyme.
Okay the so-called healthy mom really needs to understand that eating the way she does costs a lot of money and not a lot of people can eat that way because of that fact. Putting people down for choosing but she considers regular meats and vegetables is just a snobby privilege thing.
I'm all for eating as healthy as possible. But my oldest son was born not only lactose intolerant but with an eating disorder called ARFID that was caused by a very traumatic birth. It triggers the gag reflex and has a lot to do with aversion to certain food textures. And that is different for everyone who has it. It's a very restrictive issue to have and made feeding him very difficult. Thankfully he loved fresh fruit. But he had to have only soy formula for the first 3 yrs.
Lactose Intolerance is the normal in humans. The genetic mutation that allows adult humans to digest raw milk's main sugar, lactose, developed over the last 20,000 years. Only about 35% of the world's population, mainly of European descent, can digest lactose without problems.
I’m lactose intolerant myself. For me it’s all but live in the bathroom on the toilet. I can consume small amounts of dairy if I take my lactase pills first. You can’t exactly build a tolerance to an intolerance. It depends on what is causing the intolerance. Lactose intolerance means your body is missing a crucial enzyme that helps you digest dairy. You can’t build a tolerance when you literally can’t digest something. Thankfully there are lactose free variations of dairy products. Also, my local Baskin Robins has lactose free options for their ice cream now. I can also consume Dairy Queen’s ice cream fine too. I’m also allergic to protein found in beef and pork, thanks to a gift from a tick. I miss bacon. I have not found a brand of vegan bacon I like. Turkey bacon is okay, but it’s just not the same. I don’t miss anything beef. Never really liked beef products. I can consume venison fine, which is my favorite meat. I consider myself mostly vegan. Debbie has an eating disorder. She’s abusing her kids with her extreme views on food and by forcing them to eat things they don’t like. She won’t get the food she wants in prison.
why are folks so obsessed with health crap? seriously, all you have to do is eat fish & veg stew with toast & fruit jam with fresh water to wash down with, walk than drive if you can, take the bus instead of cars, if you can, go easy on the beer & boom!! youve got a good healthy life :) x
With food prices through the roof these days, I know lot of people that grow their own food now. I would love to have chickens for the eggs and meat, but I am not allowed to own birds because I once got avian pneumonia and my doctor said another bout might kill me at my age.
There are a lot of stories where MILs and other family members don't believe in allergies and almost kill the one allergic. There was also a story where a new roommate moved in with OP and two others. The new one was vegan and never asked if anyone was allergic to anything. Long story short, new roommate made breakfast with soy products and almost killed OP (deathly allergic to soy).
"I learned all I need to know online." That pretty much shows her assumption that online info, especially from other mothers, is automatically correct. It isn't. People used to bleed people for illnesses too.
My grandson is lactose intolerant too. When my mother found out, she went and bought soy, almond and oat milk and special flour to make pancakes and bread for him. AND mum was old school (milk is good for you, etc). Mum did more research than my son and his wife did on LI. She adapted recipes and even taught my grandson how to look for hidden dairy in foods too.
Oh and I have taught myself about herbs, mainly ones that are normally in a person's kitchen, and how to use them as medicine since I was 15 years old.... That doesn't mean I go around telling everybody that they should do this or that with these herbs. I mostly use it for myself and those around me who happen to ask because they happen to know that I make medicinal teas for myself. The woman's acting like she has a degree when she really doesn't and again it just screams privilege.
I am confused, is she lactose intolerant or allergic or both? Because hives don't come from lactose intolerant and I mean if it's just intolerant why didn't they just bring a carton of lactaid or soy milk with her?
Actually, lactose intolerance can cause urticaria (hives). Very often a young child who presents with lactose intolerance may have Celiac disease and may also be unable to tolerate gluten.
The not having dairy, I agree with. But why is the mother arguing about where the meat comes from? Or think that it's weird to grow your own fruits or vegetables? More people are trying to do that now. Also, in the first half of the story, Amy is only lactose intolerant to milk. But then, it's suddenly saying she's allergic to milk and dairy. Being lactose intolerant isn't the same as being allergic.
If debbie studied nutrition even online how the H did she miss the part about allergies and ingredient intolerances. Unless she is reading blogs by idiots.
Texts wouldn’t be used in court. They don’t show who sent what. You can create a text thread to yourself easy. Law enforcement have access to the IP and other information that shows the owner of the texts. You and I don’t.
Texts can and are used in court. Cops get a court order and have the phone carrier give them copies of all the texts. Nothing is erased. I know this because my wife was an employee of Sprint in the subpoena compliance department, who in turn turned that to the legal department.
Wait! Is the kid lactose intolerant or is the kid allergic to dairy? They are two completely different things.. lactose is milk sugar and people who are lactose intolerant, lack the enzyme to digest that milk sugar… so they end up with nausea, gas, diarrhea, stomach pain etc. People with a dairy allergy can end up with hives or some other manifestation that their body doesn’t like dairy.
DEBBIE LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND DEBBIE KNOW THAT TOO AND DEBBIE IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND DEBBIE WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND DEBBIE YOU WERE WARNED TOO
Just file a lawsuit and charge her with child endangerment.
Force feeding a child a known allergen should be attempted murder.
Charge debbie for the therapy too.
Being allergic to something is no joke when someone says they're allergic to something you avoid that thing
I’m a 45 year old woman who is lactose intolerant and have a mild milk allergy. (Fresh raw milk literally makes me break out in hives..) I can’t imagine being a small child with that issue! Goodness!!! I’m glad auntie got punished in the end!
I am too. I drink Lactose free milk. I can eat hard cheese though.
Auntie deserved more than just 6 months imo
Debbie deserved to be punished, and now her sons and their dad don't have to subscribe to her crazy ideas about food anymore.
I'm lactose intolerant too but my nausea sets of my vagus nerve and I'll go into a vasovagal syncope episode and I could pass out 🙃🙃🙃
Milk allergy here too. Some cheese even gives me hives.
After arguing with SIL after checking in. I personally would of left immediately and went home, because I wouldn’t of trusted her any longer.
There's a point where "eating healthy" becomes a mental illness, and I'm pretty sure Debbie has passed that point several times over.
Kinda wish the kid was lactose intolerant the way I was as a kid. It's been described to me as "that scene from The Exorcist, minus the head turning 360 degrees." Bet Debbie would've believed in lactose intolerance then. 🤣
😂😂 that would have been perfect
As a lactose intolerant, it’s live in the bathroom for me.
A woman I know has food intolerances and she carries an epipen at all times.
Cotton candy, strawberries, previously frozen chicken, etc are all poison to her. Cotton candy, well the dye they use.
@@QueenSunstar I sympathize. I am so lucky to have no food intolerances I know of, I know many who do.
I forget who said it, but the quote was something like this, "Any virtue taken to extremes becomes a vice."
As a human I’m glad that I eat what I like and can maintain a healthy diet. I don’t need to be super strict or crazy about a type of living.
Something similar happened to me and my son. He was born allergic to cow’s milk and would actually get pneumonia if he drank milk. I tried soy based formula but he rejected it so I started giving him goat’s milk, butter and cheese which worked great. Well….my SIL was outraged that I was feeding him “crap” as she called it. Luckily I never let her care for him and had to just bear her berating until I divorced her horrible brother. In one fell swoop I got rid of a terrible SIL, husband and FIL. I miss my sweet MIL to this day.
This was me as a little child, my mom had to feed me goat's milk because I kept throwing up milk or formula.
I’ve helped my mom raised dairy goats. The milk isn’t that different from cows milk .
I am so glad you were able to find such a plentiful substitute. That situation was horrible.
When my granddaughter was a toddler she developed an intolerance to cows milk. I didn’t want to go the soy milk route so tried goats milk. Worked perfectly.
To Hell with your ex-SIL, your ex-husband, and your ex-FIL because none of them knows what's actually best for your son.
Hopefully none of them expected your son to outgrow his allergy to cow's milk because that almost never happens.
I grew up in a family of 13 kids. An I was the only one that had dairy intolerance. An my dad refused to buy me any dairy free products. So I had to learn how to keep myself healthy. An avoid foods I knew had dairy in them. So I could read ingredients by age 3. Or I knew I'd get ill. An my dad & siblings called the runt. He would refuse to take Drs advice or a nutritionist ect. So in my early 8 or 10yrs. I often ended up in hospital as my dad wouldn't leave out dairy in meals he cooked. As he had to cook for 15. An just doing me a separate non dairy meal he said was impossible. Or too much hassle. It made me ashamed of being intolerant. So I'd not tell people at school. It became a habit to avoid the dinner hall at primary & secondary school. Yet age 6 I went to boarding school for ill kids. It was the first time I had food I NEVER had to worry about, as I wasn't the only kid who had dairy issues. I left age 13 & went to a children's home where my dairy issues were also understood. It was only at school lunch times I still avoided the dinner hall lol. I'd sneak out the grounds & go have a black coffee & portion of chips from the local chippy. As it was the only hot food place nearby.
It's so much easier these days though. As much better selection of dairy free products. Plus as a mom of 3 non allergy now adult kids aswell as my 3 wonderful grandsons. I've learned to cook for their tastes an my own needs. Even in my Pakistani style curries I don't use ghee or natural yoghurt. Yet ALL my Asian friends eat my curries an some of the women even asked for my non dairy recipes for their own non dairy family members lol. I make a yummy lamb chop bhuna & my chicken on the bone curry never stays in the pot for long as my kids & grandkids will eat several portions each. I have to put mine aside before the gannets attack the pot. An my stew pot is HUGE. It can fit a whole 32lb turkey in it an still have room for a load of veggies.
Man, that woman is such a monster for doing what she did to a poor little kid.
I've had people tell me there is no way I could be allergic to peanuts that I lie about it for sympathy. I don't know. I've developed a habit called breathing. Peanuts cause me to stop for some reason.
Those people are assclowns because while peanuts technically count as legumes rather than as tree nuts, they can still trigger an allergic reaction.
It's a thing!😅
I am stealing *ahem* borrowing that line about "developed a habit called breathing", that's a good one.
So many people don’t believe my chocolate allergy. Almost everyone says “sorry” like I just lost a child or something. My life is full, and not having cluster headaches improves my life 1000%. It’s not even tempting.
Considering how rampant peanut allergies are these days...those people are insane! That's like someone telling you cyanide won't hurt you. A peanut allergy is one of the most deadly!
Debbie is not respecting mum's instructions and think she knows best simply because she has more kids.... sigh self taught people are are the bain of society
Amazes me i some people don’t believe people can b allergic to certain food’s etc. I’m 71 & can still remember that one of our little toddlers is allergic to peanuts. His name is Hunter. This was at church nursery.
Yeah she should have got a felony for that, poor child to drink milk if you don't force anybody to drink any she got what she deserved but I think she still deserve more
" YOU'LL RUIN MY LIFE!"
you almost killed a child!
My response to that would've been, "Consider yourself lucky that I'm not taking your life because right now, I would be pretty damn justified!"
Sorta surprised that her husband never told her that there was other stuff to eat and request it. . Fresh fruits, veggies and farm raised fresh beef must have been costing them an 💪 and a 🦵.
I have a slight lactose intolerance and can at length only have some set amounts of milk.
But I can’t imagine someone _ignoring my said limits._ Absolute boundaries crossed, that is literally _poisoning someone on purpose._
Can I say I love your furious voice? Pure Southern fury.
Lucky non in my families have any allergic . Phew!!
Some families are scary and worse than a complete stranger.
Love these Voices! Glad you tackled an Allergy.
How can someone obsessed with healthy eating not know that you can get calcium from other sources besides dairy products? How does she think the adult cows & goats that give us milk get the calcium themselves? Plus there are such things as calcium supplements for those with food issues.
Lactaid works wonders, my sister uses it when we travel and she might not have access to non lactose dairy products. There is a big difference between being lactose intolerant and being allergic to dairy products. Lactose intolerance won’t send you to the hospital, dairy allergies can kill you and can very much send you to the hospital.
Agreed. Lactaid is useless against dairy allergies.
It's like that case where a grandmother used coconut oil on her toddler granddaughter who was DEATHLY ALLERGIC to coconuts. Needless to say the poor girl died.
I remember that story well the girks were twins and one died because of the granmother putting coconut oil into her hair then putting her to bed. The next day she was rushed to the hospital her entire body was swollen and she died.
Some people will never listen
I only recently heard about that. She ended up ostracized from the entire village.
That was such a horrible story. That poor child and her parents. If I remember correctly the monster grandmother still thought she deserved forgiveness.
I’m a retired Engineer with a STRONG background in computers.
.DO NOT TRUST THE INTERNET when it comes to anything medical,find a DR you can trust.
Social media has made everyone a Ph.D. Because they can google something. It's crazy how they can dismiss people who have spent years of their lives studying and saying they know better such as the sister thinking she knows better than the doctor. It's crazy that people don't want to do the leg work but get upset when called out to be wrong.
@@NickJaimedon't even have to study common sense proves the internet doctors wrong lol
If he'd known she didn't believe in...like she flat out said when they were saying they were leaving the kid with her, he wouldn't have let her have the kid.... So he ignores others' words about being more than willing to harm his child. Must be a family trait.
I don’t know why, but one of the things that scare me in life is how people either believe that allergies are a myth, or even if they believe that someone can grow out of what they are allergic to, which I hear it’s true, but not all people grow out of their food/beverage allergy, or worse, believe that person is faking their allergy.
i'm allergic to pretty much everything its all mild reactions but still i understand how dangerous it can be for other people especially sense at one point my allergies caused me to have a major asthma attack that almost killed me i never even saw it coming
My daughter also can’t have any dairy products and unfortunately there weren’t a lot of non dairy formulas out there when she was a baby. I’ll say that the few soy formulas that we used smelled horrible. At least now there are lots of non dairy products available, I’ve never been a big milk drinker so I leave the non dairy products to her. I’m a huge cheese lover so I have to make sure to give her lactose tabs so that her reactions aren’t bad whenever I use cheese.😊
There's another lady in the comments who's had great luck with goat's milk products for her child.
Back in 1979, there wasn't much available for infants born with lactose intolerance. My godson was born with that and his then-pediatrician was a DUMBASS just like Debbie. My godson nearly died from dehydration at 9 months because of the nonstop diarrhea and the pediatrician REFUSED to test for ANYTHING! We had to rush the baby to the Emergency Room and he had to be hospitalized!
There are some really great Non-Dairy cheese options nowadays. Both my son & daughter are Lactose Intolerant & Allergic to the protein Casein found in All forms of Dairy.
If you’d like a few suggestions, let me know! 🥰
@@thecelticcrone7927 Pay careful attention to the ingredients in sausage casings if you use plant-based sausages.
This is because most sausage casings contain casein, which you definitely don't want.
@@thecajunphoenix
I read absolutely Everything on Labels!!! 🥰
Neglect! Neglect? there are places (Like here in the US) where if you intentionally give someone things you KNOW they are allergic to, it can be counted as attempted murder depending on if the severity of their reaction and first degree if the person dies! Food allergies are no joke and I will never understand the casual way people decide to risk someone's life just to prove a point
My grandson has this allergy he has to have lactose free milk and yogurt. 1/2 gallon of milk is $5 and yogurt is $4 for a small container
Wahooooo the best voices again lol ……
When will y'all understand that you can literally die from being allergic to literally everything
That is true, although Lactose intolerance is not really an allergy, not over reaction of the immune system is involved, the mechanism that may injure or kill you is different.
@@pedroarjona6996 I'm thinking there was something in the pancakes that triggered an allergic reaction. Who knows what ingredients that IDIOT was using?
And what about if something goes wrong or your 'method' caused physical harm? I mean Debbie is a grown ass woman who FORCEFULLY RESTRAINED A FIVE YEAR OLD, held her mouth open and poured milk down her throat!!! Even if she didn't have a reaction she could have DROWNED HER!
Food allergies are not something to toy with, ask all the people who have criminal records or are now serving jail time because they thought they knew better😤
Lactose intolerance is caused by the body being unable to make the enzyme needed for breaking down dairy.
@@QueenSunstar And when the undigested sugar reach the colon it promotes bacterial growth, and therefore an increase in bacteria toxins and metabolic products.
This produces diahrea, gases, inflammation and pain. Young children, old people or people in general poor health die may die of diahrea induced dehydration or, rarely, of other complications.
That's not lactose intolerance. That is a full on dairy allergy.
As soon as she mentions, amy should have milk. I would jump into the car and go back. I've had a similar issue with my child, and grandparents just did not respect the health condition 😢
No,my son is lactose intolerant. He can’t have milk. Amy’s mom is correct and Debbie doesn’t know what she is talking about and should keep her nose out of it.
I... would..have....been.. arrested..if someone did that to my kid
Not if they don't have proof.
Still, even I, who is single with no kids, would have said, "Worth it."
If somebody did that to my dog, there would be a pink mist over a random spot on planet earth, then a vacation to the bahamas. /j
As a vegan I am happy there are alot of dairy free options for vegans out there
Not Vegan, however 2 of my kids are Allergic to both Lactose & the protein Casein found in All Animal Dairy.
After much trial & error…
We have discovered our Family favorites for Milk, Coffee Creamers, Cheeses, etc.
btw…..I’ve found that the Myokos brand Vegan Butter, is the Closest to Actual Butter you can find. It even ‘foams’ up in the pan & can be made into Brown Butter without getting a burnt taste. 🥰
My girlfriends daughter is lactose intolerant and there are pills that people can take if they have been given dairy or even if they choose to eat regular pizza.
I was a vegan and when we went for pizza, I always had my own pizza with all my favorite veggies and no cheese. When we had the little girl with us, she and I shared a pizza. She was so happy and told her mom. From then on, that’s what she ordered. I’m happy she found a way to eat and have fun with her friends.
@@riley6740 I am happy for her to my boyfriend and I to to a pizza place sometimes and they have a vegan pizza that made me happy
I love a cold glass of oat milk it’s so creamy, I like it way more than cow milk
I couldn't drink regular milk. We were never so glad when the dairy products line 'Lactaid' came out.
Why wasn't she charged with child endangerment? She was warned by the parents that the child had an allergy and she did it anyway That's more than just child neglect
I used to get harassed so much in school because I wouldn't drink the little cartons of milk. I finally told my doctor about it when he asked how I was liking school. He wrote me a prescription and put it in a plastic sleeve and told me to show it to anyone that bothers me.
I was only 6 at the time but when I was older my mom told me Dr. Hovdy had called the school to make sure no one would be bothering me any more. He also made sure Mom knew that they were supposed to be supplying me with a carton of fortified orange juice at lunch since milk makes me vomit.
And that prescription Dr. Hovdy wrote me? It said....
The ONLY creatures that need to drink milk are calfs. Bo is not a baby cow, she does NOT need to drink milk.
I carried that think around with me until 4th grade. 🤣😂🤣😂
I wished I had a good caring doctor like that 😊we have a lot of quacky Drs around here , I dread going to the hospital for anything one Dr will say one thing another Dr will say another thing u we're very lucky to have a Dr like that he seemed like he was kinda funny too
You're lucky to have a doctor like that
My doctor is literally strict, she's strict in my diet like she wants me to 93 to 50 kilos
PS. My doctor is literally fatter than me
How can someone who has “studied health and nutrition extensively” not be aware of lactose-intolerance, or food allergies.
I’m sensitive to strawberries, so I avoid them. It’s not a life-threatening allergy, but strawberries make me sick. 🍓=🤮 (headache & nausea)
Imagine if that actually worked. Lower the child into the volcano little by little. Their body will have time to get used to it!
Was told by both my brother and SIL that my nephew who was 1 didn’t like either baby oil or lotion on his skin. He had eczema and I had bought him either a lotion or oil to treat it. I put the first one on one leg and he was fine. When I used the other product on his other leg, he pulled his leg away and started fussing at me. My walked in laughing saying “Told you he doesn’t like that stuff on him. He’ll keep his leg like that, til he sees you getting a baby wipe, to wipe off his leg.” Then he watched which bottle I picked up before he would put his leg back down. He didn’t trust me after that! Lol did I mention he was ONE!!
Should have just made sure dtr never ate or drank anything provided by debbie.
Yay!! Someone with a Southern accent! I listen to several different Reddit and text channels and I've been looking for someone with a good voice and Southern accent, since many of them are Midwestern, like me, or Canadian, or they have accents from around the world, which I love, but I'm so happy I found this channel! Thank you!
The issue with lactose intolerance is that many people don't or stop producing lactase, the digestive enzyme that handles the breakdown of lactose. There are a number of food allergies where the body does no produce a corresponding enzyme. The 'heel stick' newborn s get started out ad a test for PKU where a byproduct of certain carbs would svcu!glad causing permanent brain damage.
Intolerance and allergies are not the same thing. Allergies are caused by a response from the immune system. Intolerance is caused by a lack of a needed enzyme.
This is a wonderful revenge
Okay the so-called healthy mom really needs to understand that eating the way she does costs a lot of money and not a lot of people can eat that way because of that fact. Putting people down for choosing but she considers regular meats and vegetables is just a snobby privilege thing.
i REALLY hope Karma makes SIL sufffferrrrr!!!! xD
I'm all for eating as healthy as possible. But my oldest son was born not only lactose intolerant but with an eating disorder called ARFID that was caused by a very traumatic birth. It triggers the gag reflex and has a lot to do with aversion to certain food textures. And that is different for everyone who has it. It's a very restrictive issue to have and made feeding him very difficult. Thankfully he loved fresh fruit. But he had to have only soy formula for the first 3 yrs.
Lactose Intolerance is the normal in humans. The genetic mutation that allows adult humans to digest raw milk's main sugar, lactose, developed over the last 20,000 years. Only about 35% of the world's population, mainly of European descent, can digest lactose without problems.
True. Also, humans are the only mammals that use milk after they have been weaned.
A lot of central Asian people can digest lactose without problems, the Mongols for example spread over a wide area and they drank lots of milk.
I'm lactose intolerant I can have ice cream and yogurt which doesn't bother me as bad but if I drink milk in the bathroom for a longt
Thanks for the video
I’m lactose intolerant myself. For me it’s all but live in the bathroom on the toilet.
I can consume small amounts of dairy if I take my lactase pills first.
You can’t exactly build a tolerance to an intolerance. It depends on what is causing the intolerance. Lactose intolerance means your body is missing a crucial enzyme that helps you digest dairy. You can’t build a tolerance when you literally can’t digest something.
Thankfully there are lactose free variations of dairy products. Also, my local Baskin Robins has lactose free options for their ice cream now. I can also consume Dairy Queen’s ice cream fine too.
I’m also allergic to protein found in beef and pork, thanks to a gift from a tick. I miss bacon. I have not found a brand of vegan bacon I like. Turkey bacon is okay, but it’s just not the same. I don’t miss anything beef. Never really liked beef products.
I can consume venison fine, which is my favorite meat.
I consider myself mostly vegan.
Debbie has an eating disorder. She’s abusing her kids with her extreme views on food and by forcing them to eat things they don’t like.
She won’t get the food she wants in prison.
why are folks so obsessed with health crap? seriously, all you have to do is eat fish & veg stew with toast & fruit jam with fresh water to wash down with, walk than drive if you can, take the bus instead of cars, if you can, go easy on the beer & boom!! youve got a good healthy life :) x
With food prices through the roof these days, I know lot of people that grow their own food now. I would love to have chickens for the eggs and meat, but I am not allowed to own birds because I once got avian pneumonia and my doctor said another bout might kill me at my age.
There are a lot of stories where MILs and other family members don't believe in allergies and almost kill the one allergic. There was also a story where a new roommate moved in with OP and two others. The new one was vegan and never asked if anyone was allergic to anything. Long story short, new roommate made breakfast with soy products and almost killed OP (deathly allergic to soy).
I'd have to say the OP should have volunteered that information. Only if the vegan roommate ignored it would he be at fault.
"I learned all I need to know online." That pretty much shows her assumption that online info, especially from other mothers, is automatically correct. It isn't. People used to bleed people for illnesses too.
She isn't lactose intolerant, she is allergic to dairy.
These women sound like dolly parton!
My grandson is lactose intolerant too. When my mother found out, she went and bought soy, almond and oat milk and special flour to make pancakes and bread for him. AND mum was old school (milk is good for you, etc). Mum did more research than my son and his wife did on LI. She adapted recipes and even taught my grandson how to look for hidden dairy in foods too.
I couldn’t tell who was talking, they all sounded the same
The southern accents again. No one has any business forcing anyone to consume something they're allergic to.
The translation is off. This is an allergic reaction. She’s allergic to dairy. Not lactose intolerant.
Oh and I have taught myself about herbs, mainly ones that are normally in a person's kitchen, and how to use them as medicine since I was 15 years old.... That doesn't mean I go around telling everybody that they should do this or that with these herbs. I mostly use it for myself and those around me who happen to ask because they happen to know that I make medicinal teas for myself. The woman's acting like she has a degree when she really doesn't and again it just screams privilege.
This is the same voice for both characters??? Exactly why?
Cream is dairy.
You almost killed your niece but you have the nerves to act like the victim
I am confused, is she lactose intolerant or allergic or both? Because hives don't come from lactose intolerant and I mean if it's just intolerant why didn't they just bring a carton of lactaid or soy milk with her?
Actually, lactose intolerance can cause urticaria (hives). Very often a young child who presents with lactose intolerance may have Celiac disease and may also be unable to tolerate gluten.
Both voices sound the same so unless reading you can’t tell who is who.
I guess since I’m southern I could distinguish the two. Didn’t even think about it until a couple comments like yours mentioned it.
The not having dairy, I agree with. But why is the mother arguing about where the meat comes from? Or think that it's weird to grow your own fruits or vegetables? More people are trying to do that now.
Also, in the first half of the story, Amy is only lactose intolerant to milk. But then, it's suddenly saying she's allergic to milk and dairy. Being lactose intolerant isn't the same as being allergic.
To the he narrator in this video. I'll give $50 if you shout out,,"YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE PSYCHO!" To my trash neighbor.
If debbie studied nutrition even online how the H did she miss the part about allergies and ingredient intolerances. Unless she is reading blogs by idiots.
SUE HER.
Texts wouldn’t be used in court. They don’t show who sent what. You can create a text thread to yourself easy. Law enforcement have access to the IP and other information that shows the owner of the texts. You and I don’t.
Texts can and are used in court. Cops get a court order and have the phone carrier give them copies of all the texts. Nothing is erased. I know this because my wife was an employee of Sprint in the subpoena compliance department, who in turn turned that to the legal department.
Wait! Is the kid lactose intolerant or is the kid allergic to dairy? They are two completely different things.. lactose is milk sugar and people who are lactose intolerant, lack the enzyme to digest that milk sugar… so they end up with nausea, gas, diarrhea, stomach pain etc. People with a dairy allergy can end up with hives or some other manifestation that their body doesn’t like dairy.
DEBBIE LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND DEBBIE KNOW THAT TOO AND DEBBIE IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND DEBBIE WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND DEBBIE YOU WERE WARNED TOO
Stop using AI voices i stg
Terrible voices
For you to be grown and a mom why in the hell would you even do that to someone else's child 🤬😡