They also assume that it's far more normal to cheat, because they do it themselves. I remember seeing Cameron Diaz on Graham Nortons show, and she started talking to the other guests about how everyone's experienced getting cheated on, and have also made that same mistake themselves. The rest of the couch just looked at her funny and all had to say that they've never cheated or been cheated on.
AJH She ruined all his stuff, everything that was in his place, not just a furniture, he couldn’t afford replacement for all this,so I hope he sued her and got everything ,that she destroyed replaced
I struggled with the fear of being cheated on while going out of my way to remain faithful and allow them their own personal space keeping quiet about when they wanted to hang out with friends for their own thing. Seemed alright but i didnt have the money to sustain the excitement, they would complain about bills and I guess biggest warning sign they didn't care for family. It's not a catchall and they showed no signs of cheating (overtly defensive, sexually reserved, etc). Turns out they were cheating and with a friend. Broke it off with both after listening to there reasoning for not being adults and breaking up with me before getting together. "Didn't want to hurt you." The only way to know someone is cheating is to catch them or get a confession. Till then, you can only respect each other and hope they don't break your trust. It hurts when your trust is broken and hard to offer it to another, but there are those out there who won't abuse your trust and be respectful for your respect. This fear of being hurt is what fueled my paranoia; in my case I do everything in my power to put it in its place.
Eons ago, when I was 15, I was seeing this guy who was 19 (it was okay back then.) My parents had never met him and all of our "dates" had been with groups of people. He came over to meet my parents and pick me up for our first solo date. My parents had already told me that they didn't approve of what they heard about him (he worked part time, no university education, no real ambition beyond being a rock star.....you know the type....I was 15.....give me a break here) but I had, of course, ignored them because I knew better. We had this antique Cocker Spaniel, Charlie, and he was the goodest boy ever. At this point in his life he pretty much slept all the time....getting up to happily greet me or my dad when we came home and spending the rest of his time cuddled up with my mom. Yes, he was spoiled. My date shows up to pick me up, says "Hey" to my parents and was not impressive. Then Charlie, out of nowhere, streaks faster than we had seen him run in a decade (he was 14) and ran over to the guy, growling and snarling. He got between the two of us and wouldn't move. The guy reached for my hand and said, "Stupid fucking dog. Come on, babe, lets go." Two things happened instantly: Charlie bite the crap out of him.......and I saw the loser for who he really was. You do NOT insult my baby! The guy pulled his hand back to hit Charlie and I pulled Charlie to me. The guy left.....and Charlie went back to his spot on the sofa and fell asleep. The guy called once and then went quiet and I told him it was over because no one treats my dog that way. He called every day for 3 days. I just hung up. A couple of weeks go by and my mother is reading the newspaper when she goes as pale as snow and starts shaking. My father took it from her and then he paled and quickly sat down. They gave it to me. There was the guy I had been seeing. Arrested for a string of rapes and at least one murder. I knew him by a different name. In the photo of him in the paper he had a bandage on his hand from where Charlie had bit him. It was him. After that, you had to meet my dogs and my cat to date me. No exceptions. When I introduced my now husband to my Pomeranian, she took to him immediately and made it clear that she wanted to keep him even if I didn't. That was 25 years ago....it was a great choice.
Yes, I always trust an animal's reaction to a person! They know better and before we humans come to the realization of some people's evils. Eight years ago, my long-distance boyfriend came down to visit me for the first time, and we had a cat at the time who didn't take well to strangers (she didn't bite, hiss, or scratch--she would just run off and hide). Well, after holding her to introduce her to my boyfriend, I let her go off to do whatever she wanted to do...she came into the living room and promptly curled up in my boyfriend's lap, falling asleep on him. That action told me everything I needed to know. I already knew he was kind to animals, but that sealed the deal :)
He didn't care that my 15 year old brother had died and that I was obviously struggling because of it. I'm glad I got rid of him, he was mentally and emotionally abusive and that situation finally opened my eyes.
I had a *FIRST DATE* tell me to check my facebook within 10mins of the date. He had requested the realtionship status earlier in the day. When i told him cautiously "um...no thank you?" because he obviously had some issue, he banged the table and left. Thankfully we met there so i had my car. I waited a few minutes and when i got into my car to leave, he was calling me. Which i ignored. He left me a voice mail saying he was speeding on the highway and was going to drive his car off a bridge. Even though i shouldn't have responded, i did. I sent a text and blocked him. "Don't forget to wear your seatbelt."
Mine may seem like an over reaction to some. But it certainly is not. I had left an abusive husband, and was finally ready to date again, when i met a man through the local SCA (think Renaissance style stuff) everything was great, and after a year, we moved in together. Everything went swimmingly for months. Until one day, my son left his school books in bfs truck. and you can not even imagine HIS over reaction to it. He screamed at my son, cursing him out (my son was 12) and slammed his truck door so hard it BROKE. BROKE A STEEL FUCKING DOOR. I never had the guts to stand up to my ex husband. but ill be damned if i ever allow a man to treat me or my child like that again. and a reaction like that to books, is just too big a red flag to ignore. we packed up and left that day.
Sorry to hear that. It must have been harrowing. Also, anyone who breaks his dragon's wing over books is worse than any mundane. Too much elixir of life, or was he just an anger maven? Maybe if your kingdom includes streaking, howling Picts like mine did, you could slip them a little coin to abduct him and leave him somewhere fitting.
@Chaos Burrito Yep, they would paint themselves Na'vi blue, slap on some loincloths, run around yelling "WOOOOOOO" and abduct seemingly random ladies for what I hope was pre-planned and consensual sexy time. ...come to think of it, there was a LOT of horizontal activity in SCA...
Irish Hearts proud of you for that, especially after getting out of a previously abusive relationship. You could’ve been too scared to do something after that but instead you immediately left.
That wasn't an over reaction on your part. That was a RED FLAG and you saw it for what it was and got yourself and your child to safety. You did exactly what you were supposed to do. I hope you're safe and with someone who loves and cares for you and your child(ren) the way you deserve.
2:49 it's called projection. People who are doing something wrong or thinking something wrong project their bad thoughts on to others. Example if the husband constantly has thoughts of cheating on his wife, he starts believing that it's actually his wife who is cheating on him
Yup. I cheated on my last boyfriend (I know it's shitty, it was a terrible relationship and I should have just broken up with him) and I was constantly anxious about him doing the same to me. Now I'm in a healthy, happy, faithful relationship with someone else and have literally never worried about him being unfaithful
Ex cheated on me 6+ times in 4 years and I never once thought about straying. He always would go through my phone and get mad if I texted my mom because the only person I was to talk to was him. He also interrogated me because he had a dream of me cheating on him one time and my dumb brainwashed ass actually apologized to him.
My abusive ex accused me of cheating constantly. If i looked in the direction of another girl for more than 2 seconds? Cheating. Watched porn? Cheating. Played a game with a sexy character? Cheating. Saw a girl in any situation in a swimsuit? Cheating. Watched any tv show, movie or form of media that involved sex, underwear, sexually explicit material or even sexual adjacent content? Yup. Cheating. She of course, cheated on me a ton. And was exempt from all those rules of hers. She was also very fucking crazy.
Yeah, my dad was cheating on my mom too. When I was 6. all i remember from the day we left was crying because we had to leave the dog behind. I'm 12, and we STILL have stuff at his house. Still occasionally see him when I visit my grandparents though, and we still get along just fine
Kind of reminds you of the tactics of right-wingers. They accuse the left of being racist even though literally everyone can see that's not the case. Or you get Trump saying he'll "drain the swamp", then introduces his friends and family into roles they have no experience in, who then go on to absolutely gut the government in order to line the pockets of their friends and families. Or Boris Johnson in the UK recently spoke of politicians who lie being publicly punished for it, when he is one of the biggest liars on the current world stage.
This reminds me of the time my cousin was considering breaking up with his fiancee, and she knew, so she freaked out and told him that if he broke up with her she would commit suicide. Which only made him go from thinking about it to actually doing it. Not because he wanted her to die, but because if she was unstable enough to threaten suicide to keep him with her (even if she was being serious) then he didn't want to marry that. She didn't end up killing herself, and my cousin found someone less crazy to marry.
My reaction to finding a Bra in my boyfriends apartment: Me: What's this? Him: Oh I think that was my roommates moms bra, it somehow got mixed in with everything Me: Cool, it's my size, I'm taking it Him: Lol Aight
I would’ve also sued her as well. But it goes to show that she can do what she wants by cheating on him when he stated but yet if he cheated literally even if some girl was changing and forgot clothes she go off the handle proves that she has the entitlement of I can do what I want but you’re not allowed to but I would’ve called the cops and sued
2:21 they can look absolutely breathtaking, but if they're absolutely insufferable in every other category, that's a hell no from me. Also RIP the Sega Genesis and the rest of the dude's belongings. F
Probably the ones complaining about him dumping her were the ones who she cheated with, while they themselves wanted to f*** her but not be in a serious relationship with her
The problem with some people [m and f] is that they judge the contents by the container: they'd rather have a sack of shit in a pretty box than a gold bar in a plain wrapper
Disclaimer, not anything crazy.. But my fiance and i broke off our almost 7 year relationship (in which we have a daughter) because two weeks before we were adopting embryos (infertility struggles after our daughter) he screams out mid argument that he didnt want to have more kids. Id like to point out i asked him if he was okay with every damn thing we did with ivf and he always assured me he was happy and encouraged me to continue. It was like a damn switch flicked. We had already booked the trip to go meet the genetic family we were adopting from. Non refundable. I took my daughter instead and made a holiday out of it but damn that was the most heartbreaking trip of my life.
I’m so glad I won’t have to experience having to breaking up with someone cause I will never get a girlfriend to break up with 😎 Edit:This is a joke obviously
There's a VanossGaming video where they say 'Arnold Schwarzenegger'. The captions generator said 'Honour towards niggers'. None of the crew (Besides Marcel) EVER use the N word.
Ya’know, there are people that go about saying “ooh I wish I had a partner, I’m so alone lol”, but after you read these kind of horror stories you just got to be thankful that you don’t have to worry about being punched/betrayed/stalked daily.
Unknown User Incorrect guess, I’m 23, and I have been in a relationship before. You can take them wherever, do whatever, but in the event that it all crashes down, all of that becomes a time sinkhole. I sincerely wish I had that time back for myself, and I fight my instincts so I can avoid that kind of situation again. It’s wholly possible to be by yourself and achieve a content state of mind, it’s suffering to think otherwise. As for the unlikeliness of finding such a twisted person, just... come to my area. The options suck.
Lol you think me cause I said something about his icon Okay bud I'm Single yea but not a virgin well I may be for not having sex in a few years and yes I like to keep my circle small cause I don't need friends for point some people like to point out your flaws. And edit yes I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or an ass hole but I'll stop replying cause I'm making myself look like an ass hole.
I was with my boyfriend for a year when i was sexually assaulted by another guy. I told my bf about it and his first question was "why didnt you fight him off more, I know you're strong enough" That was when I knew it was over, I cant be with someone who victim blames the woman he claims to love instead of caring about her wellbeing.
So sorry. I hope the person who did this horrible deed is in prison. I also wish you received professional help to assist you dealing with your trauma.
This was my final year in high school, the first 2 months of me and this one girl were perfect, we went out almost every day and talked about the future with each other. Then she met my best friend(a very attractive Latina who just so happens to be like a sister to me) I didn’t think anything of it until I got home that night and was trying to talk to her and she kept leaving me on read, so I messaged one of her friends to see if everything was okay, her friend went on to rant to me about how I was ‘abusive’ and ‘wasn’t treating her like the queen she is’. After that she called my best friend a ‘whore who’s titties reach the ground’ and insult all of my other friends. At this point I should of decided to end it right there. So let’s fast forward a few months to prom, I took her to her favorite restaurant (Olive Garden) which as a minimum wage high schooler is not cheep, when we get to prom she decides to leave me and go somewhere else to find some one, I go and sit with my friends when I sit down at the table one of my friends looked at me and said,”I have something you need to see” me being the pothead and alcoholic that I am thought it was some whiskey or something. He pulls up his phone and shows me a conversation he had with a friend of his where they were talking about how he had just started dating MY GIRLFRIEND. the shock set in of what I had just found out and I starting working on a plan. My 2 best friends helped me out with it(both female) we waited til the end of the night not telling her that we all knew the cheating whore she was. towards the end I texted her to meet me out front and that we were leaving soon(at this point I had texted my dad explaining what was happening and he was fully on board)once we saw her get up and leave with another guy(not even the one that I had found out about) I walked outside with both my hands around the two girls waists and walked THEM into my dads car, shut and locked the door after getting in myself, rolled down the window and yelled for all to hear,”HAVE FUN WITH THAT BITCH [name redacted]!” And with that I instructed my dad to drive off and pull around sit and wait for her ride to get there. We watched for 20 minutes as she was so embarrassed that she had been called out in front of everyone there. She was in tears and I enjoyed every second of it. After she got picked up the three of us went back inside and enjoyed the rest of prom. Oh yeah and I forgot to mention me and my best friend are happily in a relationship with each other and once I get the money for the ring I’m going to pop the ultimate question
Had an fiance who bought a new home. We had agreed that when we got married, that's where we would live. I hinted that I'd like to bring my mother there some time to see the place I was going to call home. She told me there was no way she could let me do that. You see, I had a brother who w in jail and one day, she might tell him where we lived(even if we told her not to). "So I can never tell my family where my home?" "Well, it's my house" "... there's the door. I'm going to go see if it works. Bye"
When, after I had surgery and I was on pain killers, my boyfriend stole my pills and just laughed when I confronted him. He had given no signs of a drug problem before this and had been very loving. We had known each other for several years before we began our relationship.
About the guy going to prison for 25 years, he IS gonna be locked up for life. In that, his life will be cut short if the other prisoners find out about him
"no one will ever make you feel the way I do" Well, he was right about that, just maybe not in the way he intended. Bet no one gives OP the creeps in quite the way he does
E: my ex girlfriend Bf: best friend A: abusive ex of bestie There was this girl my best friend dated in high school. She was SUPER messed up, and I stopped being friends with her after she almost got me, my ex girlfriend, and my best friend KILLED. She refused to get off her phone when we were getting on the highway. When all three of us told her to put it down and focus on the road (after having almost been HIT BY A SEMI) she ended up THROWING the phone at my best friend. My ex and I looked at each other, thinking the same thing "she's outta control". A ended up pulling into a gas station about half way across town from E's house. When she went inside, me and E started talking to each other, discussing if we should just call E's parents. Bestie is quiet up front, probably trying to process her girlfriend was a fucking psycho. E and I decided to see how she was when she came back out. If she hadn't calmed down, we would call E's parents to get us. Well, she came out and had calmed slightly, so we went to E's house. E's parents were understandably pissed that A had endangered the lives of not just their kid, but me and bestie as well. We told them we had it covered, and both of us stopped talking to her. The conversation between me and A went something like this(it was a few years ago so this is the basics of what I remember) A: I didn't do anything wrong! Me: you almost killed us A! You know you're not supposed to be on your phone while driving! Much less throw it at your girlfriend! What if a cop saw you?? A: oh puh-leaze. I did nothing wrong, you're still alive, and bestie is fine. You're overreacting. Me: no A, I'm not. You don't seem to understand the severity of what you did tonight. I'm done dealing with your bullshit, and I'm not doing it anymore. I have put up with it for too long already. At this point, you are worse than (bitch who betrayed my entire family a few years back). Well, A ended up sending a screenshot of just that message, nothing else, to bestie. Bestie and I had stayed friends cause I'm not the kind of person who makes someone pick sides. I told bestie we could still be friends and hang out, but I NEVER want to see A again. Well, bestie ended up breaking up with A about a week later. Bestie, me and E ended up grabbing lunch the next day and talking. I showed her the conversation and she was horrified, explaining that A had only shown her that last message, trying to make me look like I said it unprovoked. Bestie and I are still friends and she's planning on dragging me out for a very needed day out after the quarantine. (She lives in Minnesota, and I live in Michigan. We don't see each other often.) But to this day we still talk about A, and bestie is slowly healing, and slowly getting back into the dating scene. We tend to use A's behavior as red flags for a LOT of stuff.
Mine was from the other side of the story; Her: "I think we need to talk" ...never a good sign Me: "Ok, what's up?" H: " I don't think this is working between us" M: *completely confused* "Why? What's going on?" Everything was going so great between us in our relationship. H: "My dogs just seem to love you more than me. So this is obviously not gonna happen" Ummm...WHAT!?! TL;DR: Girlfriend broke up with me because her dogs loved me more than she was comfortable with. 🤦 Edit: spelling, added clarification, and shortened version of events
my ex's ex (note I broke up with him because I moved halfway through the country) was crazy. when I started to date people told me I shouldn't because he was abusive. it was his ex who had told those lies to people. she was abusive a cheater(but she always accused him of cheating) and had cut him off from all his friends. he was really the nicest guy I ever meet. the worst part is I worked with his ex before I meet him and considered her a friend.
To answer the question why those who cheat assume the other is cheating, guilt. They are capable of cheating and know it's wrong. S they always carry the guilt with them becoming paranoid their significant other is capable of doing the same.
In the story where someone wrote a novel for his ex, it’s astonishing how little you’d have to care to not only switch between first and third person as op said, but to also randomly go into second person as well (addressing the readier directly). I can’t imagine how hard that would be to read.
I can relate to 6:55 An ex of mine was really freaking crazy I was at his house about 4-5 days a week and he was "extremely upset that I wasnt spending enough time on him and giving him enough attention." Fast forward a few months and we were at a small convention (two story but not a super large building) and he went off on me for hanging out with my friends, who I havent seen in like 2 years, and he went off on me towards the end. Like screaming cursing, the whole nine yards. And when I finally said "fine we're through" he went hardcore victim mode. Like I've never seen anyone switch from being a complete dick to "I'm the victim how could you" so quickly. He went limp, had to have people hold him and set him in the chair (they did it cause thought he had a health issue) and started getting louder and acting like he was dying and stuff, begging me not to leave. I eventually went home with my friend and he blew up my phone with threats of suicide, belittling me, etc. Fast forward like a month and I was at home in my room telling him that he and his friends needed to leave me alone (he had his friends attack me. People I hardly knew or barely talked to calling me a whore, slut, and a gold digger. Funny how im a gold digger when it took his begging to allow him to buy me fast food. He always wanted to get me stuff and I felt bad for making him spend his money. The only time other than fast food he bought me something, I didnt know he was getting me them. But I was talking about how I wanted a pair of cat headphones by AG and how i wanted to save up to buy them) And he even came to my house when I blocked him and went off on me, had his grandfather talk to my grandmother and I'm just like I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU LEAVE ME ALONE. I went to his house to pick up a few of my things I'd forgotten while we were dating and my grandmother had something come up so I needed a ride home. His grandpa volunteered and I was like alright (it wouldve been an extremely long walk and i wouldve had to cross a bridge so i thought heck one last ride then they're out of my life) and on the ride home he was ranting about how I never need to speak to his grandson again (keep in mind I already told him that he would definitely never have the chance to interact with me cause I made it clear I was done) and he ranted about how he was gonna tell everyone I'm a whore. And how I'm going to hell (I'm a polyamorous Pansexual Genderfluid bean, I had talked to ex about Polyamory but he was monogamous so it was a no go. And would you believe It if I told you he tried to "keep me" by saying I could date him and his sister? I once said his sister was attractive. And he went and said that) but yea I was just like "No worries, why would I want to interact with yall and for the record everyone who knows me knows I'm not straight" and went inside Edit: sorry for it being so long
I know I'm a monster for laughing, and I certainly hope the guy is doing okay now, but during the story where the girlfriend beat the shit out of OP, the way it's written made me picture a bad movie scene where it's poorly acted out and ends with the boyfriend reaching up with a dramatic, "Whhhy?" XD
Well, this video was untimely. My gf just broke up with me today, and you didn't consider my feelings in posting this video! I demand £15k for emotional distress, or a cuddle from Yugo....
2:45 combination of guilt, and the assumption that they and their behavior is normal. If they're cheating, clearly everyone including you must be, too.
I broke up with my ex because around Christmas of our 4th year, he told me he didnt have much money to buy me a present. He asked if we could just keep it small and I said no problem. He asked me what I wanted, so I told him (just a cheap phone case. It was like $10.) I then came to find out a few weeks later that he had bought a $50 replica stone statue of a video game character (hes a huge gamer), had bought a brand new game for his best friend ($60 or so), and was also doing a givaway for that same new game on his twitch channel even though he only had like 20 followers. Any other time I would have totally been like thats cool, but it was the fact that it felt like he had pushed me to the side to do what he wanted and to spend his money on himself and his best friend. It wasnt about me being materialistic, it was litterally the fact that it felt like a slap in the face after 4 years of being together. He chose his best friend and his followers over his girlfriend. Me and his best friend got along fine too, we had nothing against one another.
My godmother used to have a boyfriend who threatened with suicide if she ever leaves him. She went and bought rope, went to the guys house and told him to go on and do it as the relationship was over. He (how surprisingly) didn't and apparently is still alive and well with a family of his own. The ones who threaten with suicide usually aren't the ones to actually go through with it...
I dumped a boy in high school because I found out that he was hazing an autistic student. He started harassing me for months afterwards, until I kicked him in the head one day after he called me a whore. 6 years later I think my mother still has the referral hanging on the fridge
The question: “what made you INSTANTLY dump your ex?” Half of these answers:”well they did this and so I eventually ended up dumping them after a few months”
Ask Reddit is the best subreddit for quality content. Such a variety of stories and some great meme follow up comments to stories as well. I wish you made more Ask Reddit content
I got rid of her after she started abusing me for pretty much anything I did in life. Went out with my Mother - abused Did an overhaul on my car's engine - abused Stayed home - abused Studied - abused Ran out of credit on my phone - abused Went for a walk - abused That was a few years ago, she's now the town bike and because of her, I'm even more of a loner now than I was back then and have severe trust and commitment issues.
Sorry to hear that my dude. For the record: Similar experiences. Couldn't take to my mentor/best friend. Had to basically be a punching bag. Was called pussy whipped by her male family members. Was prevented from seeing my three kids by her and her family. Was turned into a running joke(No facts here but it's a safe leap from the stuff they pulled) Helped pick out a Christmas present for her dad and was given no credit whatsoever. Was told I was a horrible singer(deflection I presume?) Was told I wasn't ready to be a parent (because narcissism makes one ready to parent in her twisted bizarro world) Was harrassed while at work after we spilt (she came in with her old man and new flavor of the month) Acted like I would want her back when I moved to Texas to be within better travel range of my LDLT relationship with a MUCH better person in everyway (basically came into my room and sat on my damn bed while I slept and smiled like all was well) Finally have sole custody with my now fiancé and don't really care how wrecked her life is for her or her family and friends. Also her dad said "We're friends, but you can't see your son" (I found out later on I had two girls and a boy from her alone) TDLR Just listen to Stronger Than I Was and instead replace "I may never trust some one" With "but I finally found the one"
That guy who tried to get op to dump her fiancé for him on the day of her wedding watches way too many movies. Pushing her against the wall to try and kiss her is right out of the movies too, unfortunately.
based on experiences i’ve seen with family and friends, cheaters get paranoid about cheating because they feel some type of guilt or shame for doing it and wanna push the blame onto someone else so they can still feel high and mighty and not super ashamed about their actions
"Why are cheaters the most paranoid about others cheating?" They judge everyone else by their own standards - liars expect to be lied to, cheaters expect to be cheated on. Old quote from somewhere: "No one defines their own character more clearly than when they are describing another person's character". [] Or it could have been OP who ended up in bed covered in blood … [] What I can't wrap my head around is how paedos seem to think that what they're doing is ok. Is it some form of extreme power trip? [] My own tipping point: we worked at the same place [different departments] and became friends and soon more than friends. He was so macho it was painful, but I was so lacking in self-confidence that I put up with his bs. We even got engaged. Until he told me that he'd only asked me out in the first place because all the blokes in his department had bet him that I was a lesbian [a woman wears trousers to work? obviously a dyke!]. He thought it was hilarious. I wasn't nearly as amused, especially as the only way he could have won his bet was by telling them how he'd proved that I wasn't.
That is disgusting as hell and there is a special place for a person like him! I am SO sorry for what you went through, and hope he didn't manage to tear you down too much...you seem strong to me..💪
@@bookapillar - Thanks, dear! It took me a long while to accept that I really did deserve better than him. I saw him about 10-15 years later, just happened to bump into each other on the street. He'd only changed by getting older; I think I changed in more ways than just age. I can look back at myself as I was then and see how far I've come. Still got about a million miles to go, but I've covered a few miles, at least.
@@lateescape You'll eventually find someone. I don't want to date because I don't get the big hubbub about it. Ill just take my animals and be on my way lol.
Hope that first dude took her ass to court. Even if he has cheating this whole "destroy the T.V, Beak car windows" from the movies shit isn't justified in the real world. This comes from someone who has been cheated ON.
I dumped a boyfriend of 7 years when he told me he wanted to have kids. To be fair I had told him prior to ever dating him that I never wanted to have kids. He thought I'd change my mind. Dumped in an instant. (married to a much better guy now who has a daughter already, no danger in him demanding I have a kid)
Thought I'd share mine here. He was a sweetheart, nothing really wrong with him, besides some self-esteem issues from having gone from morbidly obese to super skinny and not being able to get rid of the excess skin. One night I'm over at his place and we're talking about our future. He insists on talking about what would happen if I became pregnant. I shrugged and said, "I dunno, I'd probably keep the baby as long as there was nothing life threatening". I am a teacher and he's a grocery manager, so neither of us make enough to have a family, but I have an amazing support system from my parents and sister (I live with them and help care for both my sister's and my brother's kids). He got angry and insists that if I got pregnant I had to have an abortion because we couldn't afford it. I refused, because I don't believe in abortion for convenience, and he says if I ever got pregnant and kept the baby that he would never be able to trust me again. That was the most bizarre answer I have ever gotten. It didn't immediately end the relationship, but it definitely was the turning point. Other things came up after that: arguments about my inability to pay my student loans AND save for an apartment (I have excessive loans and I'm a teacher), arguments about getting married, my autism, and other stuff. I ended it a few months later.
A friend of mine has a girlfriend who is completely psycho-jealous. He asked me if he could have something shipped to my place of work, since he was worried about it getting stolen off his porch. When it came in, as a joke I texted him and said "Your sex toys were delivered". She saw the text and thought he was cheating and in his words "You almost got me killed." He had to show her the email from Amazon from his surveillance system being delivered one minute before my text before she would calm down.
I've never had a boyfriend (to be fair it hasn't ever been a focus for me) and sometimes I feel insecure about it. Then I hear stories like this and...
I had an ex boyfriend create a schedule for me too! He made a spreadsheet of each activity and how many minutes I had to spend doing said activity. I thought I was the only one this happened to. He also put himself in the hospital and blamed me for putting him there. Good riddance.
As soon as you asked why I haven't liked the video yet, the temperature in my house went cold, sending chills down my spine. I liked the video instantly.
rSlash explaining to his kid how babies are made vs other parents: Other Parents: so me and spouse had s&@ rSlash: pAsSiOnAtE hUgGiNg No offense to you rSlash in any way, ik you said this so you would get monetized but I just wanted to make a joke about it
Someone gets violent, it needs to be over *FREAKING YESTERDAY!!* After almost 6 months of marriage, my husband and I were having a disagreement when out of the blue, he hit me in the head with a dinner plate. I grabbed my keys and left. Filed for divorce and to this day, I will not put my voice on the internet. And never will unless I have proof he has died. I'm no one's victim and no one gets 2 bites.
So, there was a story about some guy saying they and the poster needed to be in constant contact and it reminded me of someone that I almost dated. I was talking with someone for a few hours before one of my classes and we were having a fun conversation when class started. My teacher said to everyone that if he sees you on your phone, he's going to take it for the rest of the class. Not wanting to lose my phone, I put it away. I didn't get to tell the guy I was in class and couldn't talk and he left me multiple messages while I was in class. That day, I didn't ignore the red flags.
The reasons why people who cheat, usually think the partner is cheating is two fold: 1. They think, since they haven't been caught cheating, that it must be difficult to spot, and automatically assume that, if they (cheater) are not happy enough in the relationship, than the other one must be as well. 2. More importantly, they want to justify their scummy action, so they hope to catch their partner so they don't seem as bad by comparison. Most of the time, not all the time, but most from what I've seen, if a partner is constantly accusing you of cheating, either, you're cheating and leaving some serious clues, or, if you're not cheating, they are and are trying to justify it. Just some food for thought.
The girl who trashed guys flat: I'd just sue her if I were him, and make her compensate for EVERYTHING she did, this is unacceptable, and and she really had to pay for it, instead of just walking away like nothing happened.
If it's crazy, run very very fast in the other direction. Do not look back ever either! And the last thing, don't let anyone guilt you into staying. Tell them that's a personal problem and that there are doctors for that and then walk.
My last ex (Jim) had this roommate (Bob). Bob was a great guy but had some mental issues, mostly depression. I suffer from manic depressive bipolar disorder so I felt for the guy and we became friends. One afternoon I get a call from Jim telling me that Bob tried to kill himself and was in the hospital. I was truly worried about my friend. Things had been getting rough for him and I had been trying really hard to get him through them in one piece. Next thing I know Jim calls me again and tells me that he's kicking Bob out of the house as soon as he's back from the hospital. Yes, the guy who just tried to kill himself. As Bob was from out of state, he had nowhere to go and would end up homeless. Thankfully, though, a nice lesbian couple who were our friends took him in almost an hour away. There were other reasons but this was the final straw. I told Jim that if he could be so cold to a person who's life almost ended then I didn't want anything to do with him. He tried for months to get me back and to convince Bob that he was sorry and that he did it FOR him to give him a new start. Best part about it all? Bob and I ended up dating only a few months later and have been together for over five years now.
People who cheat are full of guilt (whether they realize it or not) and more suspicious because they don't want to get the same treatment. It's like they know what they've been doing so their minds see what they're doing wrong in their partner's behavior and react, even if what's really going on it simple and innocent. Beware the jealous and suspicious.
What did you significant other do that made you instantly dump them?
Idk
rSlash cheat on me with my dog
You
Exist
I'm a big fan r/
Cheaters are always paranoid about being cheated on because they realized how easy it could be to cheat, and are now on the lookout for cheating.
100% accurate. It's ridiculous.
@Unknown User it is hypocritical, but for some people it's easier to shift the blame than admit guilt
:( but im always paranoid about my girlfriend cheating and id never do it
@@stardustsouls6869 then you just simply dont trust her enough dude, or she is actually cheating.
They also assume that it's far more normal to cheat, because they do it themselves. I remember seeing Cameron Diaz on Graham Nortons show, and she started talking to the other guests about how everyone's experienced getting cheated on, and have also made that same mistake themselves. The rest of the couch just looked at her funny and all had to say that they've never cheated or been cheated on.
"My roomie heard the commotion and came out of her room with a bat."
YOU PICKED THE WRONG HOUSE, FOOL!
😂😂 that roommate is a true hero
Ayyy big smoke, it's me car, chill chill
CJ? Ohhhhhhhh my dawg.
who else pictured her with a pet bat on her arm like a familiar
Two number 9....
He should have called the cops and sued for damages on that psycho who ruined everything in the house.
U. Wahya-Gihli he most likely did so
U. Wahya-Gihli I’m am confused as to why he is acting like his life was ruined when in reality all that happened was some furniture was messed up.
AJH
She ruined all his stuff, everything that was in his place, not just a furniture, he couldn’t afford replacement for all this,so I hope he sued her and got everything ,that she destroyed replaced
@@dungeonmaster9123 It is only furniture though, not his life.
AJH
He’s 20 yo and those 2000$ was all his saving at that moment of life and he couldn’t replace it
I really appreciate that roomate with the bat.
imagine it was the animal bat sitting on her shoulder anf not a baseball bat. i would love to see that
thats who i want to be in the future. Roomie with a bat.
The guilty conscious of cheats is what causes them to presume the other is also cheating.
Yup, projection is a hell of a thing
I struggled with the fear of being cheated on while going out of my way to remain faithful and allow them their own personal space keeping quiet about when they wanted to hang out with friends for their own thing. Seemed alright but i didnt have the money to sustain the excitement, they would complain about bills and I guess biggest warning sign they didn't care for family. It's not a catchall and they showed no signs of cheating (overtly defensive, sexually reserved, etc).
Turns out they were cheating and with a friend. Broke it off with both after listening to there reasoning for not being adults and breaking up with me before getting together. "Didn't want to hurt you."
The only way to know someone is cheating is to catch them or get a confession. Till then, you can only respect each other and hope they don't break your trust. It hurts when your trust is broken and hard to offer it to another, but there are those out there who won't abuse your trust and be respectful for your respect. This fear of being hurt is what fueled my paranoia; in my case I do everything in my power to put it in its place.
Its because they're like what would i do?.... that bastard!
That explains why my dad constantly claimed my mom was cheating when she had to work extra hours
yeah, it's called projection...
Eons ago, when I was 15, I was seeing this guy who was 19 (it was okay back then.) My parents had never met him and all of our "dates" had been with groups of people. He came over to meet my parents and pick me up for our first solo date. My parents had already told me that they didn't approve of what they heard about him (he worked part time, no university education, no real ambition beyond being a rock star.....you know the type....I was 15.....give me a break here) but I had, of course, ignored them because I knew better.
We had this antique Cocker Spaniel, Charlie, and he was the goodest boy ever. At this point in his life he pretty much slept all the time....getting up to happily greet me or my dad when we came home and spending the rest of his time cuddled up with my mom. Yes, he was spoiled.
My date shows up to pick me up, says "Hey" to my parents and was not impressive. Then Charlie, out of nowhere, streaks faster than we had seen him run in a decade (he was 14) and ran over to the guy, growling and snarling. He got between the two of us and wouldn't move. The guy reached for my hand and said, "Stupid fucking dog. Come on, babe, lets go." Two things happened instantly: Charlie bite the crap out of him.......and I saw the loser for who he really was. You do NOT insult my baby! The guy pulled his hand back to hit Charlie and I pulled Charlie to me. The guy left.....and Charlie went back to his spot on the sofa and fell asleep.
The guy called once and then went quiet and I told him it was over because no one treats my dog that way. He called every day for 3 days. I just hung up. A couple of weeks go by and my mother is reading the newspaper when she goes as pale as snow and starts shaking. My father took it from her and then he paled and quickly sat down. They gave it to me. There was the guy I had been seeing. Arrested for a string of rapes and at least one murder. I knew him by a different name. In the photo of him in the paper he had a bandage on his hand from where Charlie had bit him. It was him.
After that, you had to meet my dogs and my cat to date me. No exceptions. When I introduced my now husband to my Pomeranian, she took to him immediately and made it clear that she wanted to keep him even if I didn't. That was 25 years ago....it was a great choice.
Yes, I always trust an animal's reaction to a person! They know better and before we humans come to the realization of some people's evils.
Eight years ago, my long-distance boyfriend came down to visit me for the first time, and we had a cat at the time who didn't take well to strangers (she didn't bite, hiss, or scratch--she would just run off and hide). Well, after holding her to introduce her to my boyfriend, I let her go off to do whatever she wanted to do...she came into the living room and promptly curled up in my boyfriend's lap, falling asleep on him. That action told me everything I needed to know. I already knew he was kind to animals, but that sealed the deal :)
So close to being killed i see
That was awesome. Animals have great instincts.
Wow, that's nuts. I'm glad you and Charlie didn't get hurt by him.
See, this is why I love animals. They know when something is up. Good on Charlie! You dodged a huge bullet thanks to him
He didn't care that my 15 year old brother had died and that I was obviously struggling because of it.
I'm glad I got rid of him, he was mentally and emotionally abusive and that situation finally opened my eyes.
my condolences for your brother
My deepest condolences to you and your family. It's not easy to lose someone close to you
I'm sorry for your loss, I can imagine how difficult it is to lose a sibling. But yeah, you dodged a bullet hun
Big oof
@Corbin Brier - Very sorry to hear that but glad you dodged him. What a jerk.
When you see a relationship through rose-coloured glasses... all the red flags, just look like flags.
Bojack ftw
Good quote
BoJack Horseman ❤️❤️
ohhh my god this is such a good quote
How many times am I gonna see this quote until I die?
I had a *FIRST DATE* tell me to check my facebook within 10mins of the date. He had requested the realtionship status earlier in the day. When i told him cautiously "um...no thank you?" because he obviously had some issue, he banged the table and left.
Thankfully we met there so i had my car. I waited a few minutes and when i got into my car to leave, he was calling me. Which i ignored.
He left me a voice mail saying he was speeding on the highway and was going to drive his car off a bridge. Even though i shouldn't have responded, i did. I sent a text and blocked him.
"Don't forget to wear your seatbelt."
You are my spirit animal.
* slow claps in respect * you deserve a medal
savage reply xD
You're the great boy
This boy : I can’t live without you .
You : Than perish .
Mine may seem like an over reaction to some. But it certainly is not. I had left an abusive husband, and was finally ready to date again, when i met a man through the local SCA (think Renaissance style stuff) everything was great, and after a year, we moved in together. Everything went swimmingly for months.
Until one day, my son left his school books in bfs truck. and you can not even imagine HIS over reaction to it. He screamed at my son, cursing him out (my son was 12) and slammed his truck door so hard it BROKE. BROKE A STEEL FUCKING DOOR.
I never had the guts to stand up to my ex husband. but ill be damned if i ever allow a man to treat me or my child like that again. and a reaction like that to books, is just too big a red flag to ignore. we packed up and left that day.
Sorry to hear that. It must have been harrowing. Also, anyone who breaks his dragon's wing over books is worse than any mundane. Too much elixir of life, or was he just an anger maven? Maybe if your kingdom includes streaking, howling Picts like mine did, you could slip them a little coin to abduct him and leave him somewhere fitting.
@Chaos Burrito Yep, they would paint themselves Na'vi blue, slap on some loincloths, run around yelling "WOOOOOOO" and abduct seemingly random ladies for what I hope was pre-planned and consensual sexy time.
...come to think of it, there was a LOT of horizontal activity in SCA...
Irish Hearts proud of you for that, especially after getting out of a previously abusive relationship. You could’ve been too scared to do something after that but instead you immediately left.
That wasn't an over reaction on your part. That was a RED FLAG and you saw it for what it was and got yourself and your child to safety. You did exactly what you were supposed to do. I hope you're safe and with someone who loves and cares for you and your child(ren) the way you deserve.
good on you. Hope you and your son are doing okay now.0
2:49 it's called projection. People who are doing something wrong or thinking something wrong project their bad thoughts on to others. Example if the husband constantly has thoughts of cheating on his wife, he starts believing that it's actually his wife who is cheating on him
Yup. I cheated on my last boyfriend (I know it's shitty, it was a terrible relationship and I should have just broken up with him) and I was constantly anxious about him doing the same to me. Now I'm in a healthy, happy, faithful relationship with someone else and have literally never worried about him being unfaithful
Anoopa Perumal that’s not always true. I accused him and it turned out he was cheating on me with a lot of girls
@@ayelmqo that's gut feeling :D
Ex cheated on me 6+ times in 4 years and I never once thought about straying. He always would go through my phone and get mad if I texted my mom because the only person I was to talk to was him. He also interrogated me because he had a dream of me cheating on him one time and my dumb brainwashed ass actually apologized to him.
My abusive ex accused me of cheating constantly.
If i looked in the direction of another girl for more than 2 seconds?
Cheating.
Watched porn?
Cheating.
Played a game with a sexy character?
Cheating.
Saw a girl in any situation in a swimsuit?
Cheating.
Watched any tv show, movie or form of media that involved sex, underwear, sexually explicit material or even sexual adjacent content?
Yup. Cheating.
She of course, cheated on me a ton. And was exempt from all those rules of hers. She was also very fucking crazy.
Found out my live-in ex-boyfriend had my computer hacked, was tracking my car, and secrectly video recording me.
I hope he's your ex
@@franl155 Yeah. I fixed that.
@@aunttonya2902 - good for you!
@@aunttonya2902 according to 50 shades of gay chicks dig that...
@@fabiomoreira1506 WTF?
My dad always said "if theyre accusing you of cheating its because they have a guilty conscience" and he would know he cheated on my mom for 10 years.
Seems legit
this was a rollercoaster
Yeah, my dad was cheating on my mom too. When I was 6. all i remember from the day we left was crying because we had to leave the dog behind. I'm 12, and we STILL have stuff at his house. Still occasionally see him when I visit my grandparents though, and we still get along just fine
That took a dark twist.
So he is a good father but a horrible husband
She tried "cuddling" with my best friend and he called her out and my buddy and I are still bffs to this day
As they say, bros before hos
I’m here for that 👌🏻
Get revenge by cuddline eachother, that'll rub it in!
That's the Best of Friends, Respecting the Bro Code.
Bros before hoes as they say.
cheaters aren't paranoid of their partners cheating... they accuse their partners of cheating to cover up their own cheating
Eh badly worded
Which, in turn, makes them both suspicious and hypocritical.
Kind of reminds you of the tactics of right-wingers. They accuse the left of being racist even though literally everyone can see that's not the case.
Or you get Trump saying he'll "drain the swamp", then introduces his friends and family into roles they have no experience in, who then go on to absolutely gut the government in order to line the pockets of their friends and families.
Or Boris Johnson in the UK recently spoke of politicians who lie being publicly punished for it, when he is one of the biggest liars on the current world stage.
@@oxymoron02 *B R U H*
@@RozyPoyo I don't get it
This reminds me of the time my cousin was considering breaking up with his fiancee, and she knew, so she freaked out and told him that if he broke up with her she would commit suicide. Which only made him go from thinking about it to actually doing it. Not because he wanted her to die, but because if she was unstable enough to threaten suicide to keep him with her (even if she was being serious) then he didn't want to marry that. She didn't end up killing herself, and my cousin found someone less crazy to marry.
My reaction to finding a Bra in my boyfriends apartment:
Me: What's this?
Him: Oh I think that was my roommates moms bra, it somehow got mixed in with everything
Me: Cool, it's my size, I'm taking it
Him: Lol Aight
Wash it first and let air dry...
I'd also be cool and not make assumptions in that situation, but I'm not sure I'd want to wear someone else's underwear...
What is this? A reasonable woman? Never seen one before.
@@axxne6068 Quiet, incel.
What a coincidence that it was your size.
should have called the cops on her for ruining your apartment and everything in it.
69 likes, aint ruining it
I would’ve also sued her as well. But it goes to show that she can do what she wants by cheating on him when he stated but yet if he cheated literally even if some girl was changing and forgot clothes she go off the handle proves that she has the entitlement of I can do what I want but you’re not allowed to but I would’ve called the cops and sued
2:21 they can look absolutely breathtaking, but if they're absolutely insufferable in every other category, that's a hell no from me. Also RIP the Sega Genesis and the rest of the dude's belongings.
F
Probably the ones complaining about him dumping her were the ones who she cheated with, while they themselves wanted to f*** her but not be in a serious relationship with her
The problem with some people [m and f] is that they judge the contents by the container: they'd rather have a sack of shit in a pretty box than a gold bar in a plain wrapper
F
I felt more for the Super Nintendo
Disclaimer, not anything crazy..
But my fiance and i broke off our almost 7 year relationship (in which we have a daughter) because two weeks before we were adopting embryos (infertility struggles after our daughter) he screams out mid argument that he didnt want to have more kids. Id like to point out i asked him if he was okay with every damn thing we did with ivf and he always assured me he was happy and encouraged me to continue.
It was like a damn switch flicked. We had already booked the trip to go meet the genetic family we were adopting from. Non refundable. I took my daughter instead and made a holiday out of it but damn that was the most heartbreaking trip of my life.
I’m so glad I won’t have to experience having to breaking up with someone
cause I will never get a girlfriend to break up with 😎
Edit:This is a joke obviously
Epic gamer move😎
Me too boi
Pretty Boi swag
Trilja666 swag 😎
Well, for me, I won't ever get a boyfriend and I'll play games and draw all my life UwU
“You’re the only one keeping me alive”
Uhhh what about your kids?
Hopefully her kids got taken away from her beforehand. Something seems sus about her claims of abuse if she’s this level of crazy.
@TheUniLord ruh roh.
Probably sees her husband in them? Still....poor kids.
13:20 This guy needs someone more caring if he thinks being suddenly attacked by your "partner" is okay. Someone give that man a hug!
I can only picture most of these people as NiceGuys™ and NiceGirls™ who somehow managed to get into relationships.
Rage Fury I’m assuming they hid their terrible personality from who they were dating, until there was a big commitment.
Same fam
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Still better than the time the captions generator decided to make a bad joke about jews. The video never mentioned jews
There's a VanossGaming video where they say 'Arnold Schwarzenegger'. The captions generator said 'Honour towards niggers'. None of the crew (Besides Marcel) EVER use the N word.
Auto captions: Curse words
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@@BloodThirstyAvengers ROFLMMFAO I'm dying
Ya’know, there are people that go about saying “ooh I wish I had a partner, I’m so alone lol”, but after you read these kind of horror stories you just got to be thankful that you don’t have to worry about being punched/betrayed/stalked daily.
Unknown User Incorrect guess, I’m 23, and I have been in a relationship before. You can take them wherever, do whatever, but in the event that it all crashes down, all of that becomes a time sinkhole. I sincerely wish I had that time back for myself, and I fight my instincts so I can avoid that kind of situation again. It’s wholly possible to be by yourself and achieve a content state of mind, it’s suffering to think otherwise. As for the unlikeliness of finding such a twisted person, just... come to my area. The options suck.
@Unknown User 😂
Hey, at least I don’t need to go through relationship issues.
_I’m a single pringle :D_
Love the profile icon bro Edsworld right?
that makes 2, probably single and virgin for life >D
Lol you think me cause I said something about his icon Okay bud I'm Single yea but not a virgin well I may be for not having sex in a few years and yes I like to keep my circle small cause I don't need friends for point some people like to point out your flaws. And edit yes I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or an ass hole but I'll stop replying cause I'm making myself look like an ass hole.
He single. He pringle. He ready to mingle.
Nomnomnom you a snack
"found her naked in my bed"
Me: so...a real life anime?
"Covered in blood from cutting herself"
Me:... Nevermind...
Wrong kind of anime
That last post be like
My girlfriend murdered 2 guys
Anyways next morning...
Yeah, men just take this kind of treatment, as if it was no problem, though, of course, society encourages them to do so.
@@valhar2000 That's crazy
@@pollypockets508 Yes it is.
Girl: kills men
Media: meh
Guy kills women
Media: *AAAUAUAGAHHAGAGAUAGAGAHUAGAHAUAUAGAGAUAHAHAHUAGA!!!!!*
I was with my boyfriend for a year when i was sexually assaulted by another guy. I told my bf about it and his first question was "why didnt you fight him off more, I know you're strong enough"
That was when I knew it was over, I cant be with someone who victim blames the woman he claims to love instead of caring about her wellbeing.
So sorry.
I hope the person who did this horrible deed is in prison. I also wish you received professional help to assist you dealing with your trauma.
This was my final year in high school, the first 2 months of me and this one girl were perfect, we went out almost every day and talked about the future with each other. Then she met my best friend(a very attractive Latina who just so happens to be like a sister to me) I didn’t think anything of it until I got home that night and was trying to talk to her and she kept leaving me on read, so I messaged one of her friends to see if everything was okay, her friend went on to rant to me about how I was ‘abusive’ and ‘wasn’t treating her like the queen she is’. After that she called my best friend a ‘whore who’s titties reach the ground’ and insult all of my other friends. At this point I should of decided to end it right there. So let’s fast forward a few months to prom, I took her to her favorite restaurant (Olive Garden) which as a minimum wage high schooler is not cheep, when we get to prom she decides to leave me and go somewhere else to find some one, I go and sit with my friends when I sit down at the table one of my friends looked at me and said,”I have something you need to see” me being the pothead and alcoholic that I am thought it was some whiskey or something. He pulls up his phone and shows me a conversation he had with a friend of his where they were talking about how he had just started dating MY GIRLFRIEND. the shock set in of what I had just found out and I starting working on a plan. My 2 best friends helped me out with it(both female) we waited til the end of the night not telling her that we all knew the cheating whore she was. towards the end I texted her to meet me out front and that we were leaving soon(at this point I had texted my dad explaining what was happening and he was fully on board)once we saw her get up and leave with another guy(not even the one that I had found out about) I walked outside with both my hands around the two girls waists and walked THEM into my dads car, shut and locked the door after getting in myself, rolled down the window and yelled for all to hear,”HAVE FUN WITH THAT BITCH [name redacted]!” And with that I instructed my dad to drive off and pull around sit and wait for her ride to get there. We watched for 20 minutes as she was so embarrassed that she had been called out in front of everyone there. She was in tears and I enjoyed every second of it. After she got picked up the three of us went back inside and enjoyed the rest of prom. Oh yeah and I forgot to mention me and my best friend are happily in a relationship with each other and once I get the money for the ring I’m going to pop the ultimate question
Had an fiance who bought a new home. We had agreed that when we got married, that's where we would live. I hinted that I'd like to bring my mother there some time to see the place I was going to call home. She told me there was no way she could let me do that. You see, I had a brother who w in jail and one day, she might tell him where we lived(even if we told her not to).
"So I can never tell my family where my home?"
"Well, it's my house"
"... there's the door. I'm going to go see if it works. Bye"
When, after I had surgery and I was on pain killers, my boyfriend stole my pills and just laughed when I confronted him. He had given no signs of a drug problem before this and had been very loving. We had known each other for several years before we began our relationship.
When I heard "leave my animals" I was like nope that relationship is over.
8:41
I instantly dumped my gf when I figured out that she is CRAZY
You should have realized before you even met her
@@rascallyrabbit717 Sadly it don't work like that. People don't really show their true colors until they've got you roped in a commitment.
Nice story, super detailed
jayde thank you man
A Crazy I don’t know what that means but ok
Keep the work up, Tell yugo i say hi and also that he should stop chewing your stuff
Who the fuck are you ?
@@sidahmedt6422 im you from the future
No Yugo dEsErVeS iT!!!!!
nmigo12 so now ur a hypocrite
ItsRqdd he was checking for authenticity!!
About the guy going to prison for 25 years, he IS gonna be locked up for life. In that, his life will be cut short if the other prisoners find out about him
Probably gonna get badly beat up in jail when they learned what he did.
They might keep them out of gen-pop for that reason
@@bookapillar they will they always protect the worst people for some reason
"no one will ever make you feel the way I do"
Well, he was right about that, just maybe not in the way he intended. Bet no one gives OP the creeps in quite the way he does
E: my ex girlfriend
Bf: best friend
A: abusive ex of bestie
There was this girl my best friend dated in high school. She was SUPER messed up, and I stopped being friends with her after she almost got me, my ex girlfriend, and my best friend KILLED. She refused to get off her phone when we were getting on the highway. When all three of us told her to put it down and focus on the road (after having almost been HIT BY A SEMI) she ended up THROWING the phone at my best friend. My ex and I looked at each other, thinking the same thing "she's outta control". A ended up pulling into a gas station about half way across town from E's house. When she went inside, me and E started talking to each other, discussing if we should just call E's parents. Bestie is quiet up front, probably trying to process her girlfriend was a fucking psycho. E and I decided to see how she was when she came back out. If she hadn't calmed down, we would call E's parents to get us. Well, she came out and had calmed slightly, so we went to E's house. E's parents were understandably pissed that A had endangered the lives of not just their kid, but me and bestie as well. We told them we had it covered, and both of us stopped talking to her. The conversation between me and A went something like this(it was a few years ago so this is the basics of what I remember)
A: I didn't do anything wrong!
Me: you almost killed us A! You know you're not supposed to be on your phone while driving! Much less throw it at your girlfriend! What if a cop saw you??
A: oh puh-leaze. I did nothing wrong, you're still alive, and bestie is fine. You're overreacting.
Me: no A, I'm not. You don't seem to understand the severity of what you did tonight. I'm done dealing with your bullshit, and I'm not doing it anymore. I have put up with it for too long already. At this point, you are worse than (bitch who betrayed my entire family a few years back).
Well, A ended up sending a screenshot of just that message, nothing else, to bestie. Bestie and I had stayed friends cause I'm not the kind of person who makes someone pick sides. I told bestie we could still be friends and hang out, but I NEVER want to see A again. Well, bestie ended up breaking up with A about a week later. Bestie, me and E ended up grabbing lunch the next day and talking. I showed her the conversation and she was horrified, explaining that A had only shown her that last message, trying to make me look like I said it unprovoked. Bestie and I are still friends and she's planning on dragging me out for a very needed day out after the quarantine. (She lives in Minnesota, and I live in Michigan. We don't see each other often.) But to this day we still talk about A, and bestie is slowly healing, and slowly getting back into the dating scene. We tend to use A's behavior as red flags for a LOT of stuff.
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Mine was from the other side of the story;
Her: "I think we need to talk"
...never a good sign
Me: "Ok, what's up?"
H: " I don't think this is working between us"
M: *completely confused* "Why? What's going on?" Everything was going so great between us in our relationship.
H: "My dogs just seem to love you more than me. So this is obviously not gonna happen"
Ummm...WHAT!?!
TL;DR: Girlfriend broke up with me because her dogs loved me more than she was comfortable with. 🤦
Edit: spelling, added clarification, and shortened version of events
my ex's ex (note I broke up with him because I moved halfway through the country) was crazy. when I started to date people told me I shouldn't because he was abusive. it was his ex who had told those lies to people. she was abusive a cheater(but she always accused him of cheating) and had cut him off from all his friends. he was really the nicest guy I ever meet. the worst part is I worked with his ex before I meet him and considered her a friend.
To answer the question why those who cheat assume the other is cheating, guilt. They are capable of cheating and know it's wrong. S they always carry the guilt with them becoming paranoid their significant other is capable of doing the same.
My gf does that because of insecurities about her beauty and her ex cheating on her (if true or not can't say for certain).
Females don't have guilt for any of the wrong doings they preform....
Also because of abandonment issues cheating is a good excuse to push someone away as self punishment
In the story where someone wrote a novel for his ex, it’s astonishing how little you’d have to care to not only switch between first and third person as op said, but to also randomly go into second person as well (addressing the readier directly). I can’t imagine how hard that would be to read.
I can relate to 6:55
An ex of mine was really freaking crazy
I was at his house about 4-5 days a week and he was "extremely upset that I wasnt spending enough time on him and giving him enough attention."
Fast forward a few months and we were at a small convention (two story but not a super large building) and he went off on me for hanging out with my friends, who I havent seen in like 2 years, and he went off on me towards the end. Like screaming cursing, the whole nine yards. And when I finally said "fine we're through" he went hardcore victim mode. Like I've never seen anyone switch from being a complete dick to "I'm the victim how could you" so quickly. He went limp, had to have people hold him and set him in the chair (they did it cause thought he had a health issue) and started getting louder and acting like he was dying and stuff, begging me not to leave. I eventually went home with my friend and he blew up my phone with threats of suicide, belittling me, etc. Fast forward like a month and I was at home in my room telling him that he and his friends needed to leave me alone (he had his friends attack me. People I hardly knew or barely talked to calling me a whore, slut, and a gold digger. Funny how im a gold digger when it took his begging to allow him to buy me fast food. He always wanted to get me stuff and I felt bad for making him spend his money. The only time other than fast food he bought me something, I didnt know he was getting me them. But I was talking about how I wanted a pair of cat headphones by AG and how i wanted to save up to buy them)
And he even came to my house when I blocked him and went off on me, had his grandfather talk to my grandmother and I'm just like I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU LEAVE ME ALONE.
I went to his house to pick up a few of my things I'd forgotten while we were dating and my grandmother had something come up so I needed a ride home. His grandpa volunteered and I was like alright (it wouldve been an extremely long walk and i wouldve had to cross a bridge so i thought heck one last ride then they're out of my life) and on the ride home he was ranting about how I never need to speak to his grandson again (keep in mind I already told him that he would definitely never have the chance to interact with me cause I made it clear I was done) and he ranted about how he was gonna tell everyone I'm a whore. And how I'm going to hell (I'm a polyamorous Pansexual Genderfluid bean, I had talked to ex about Polyamory but he was monogamous so it was a no go. And would you believe It if I told you he tried to "keep me" by saying I could date him and his sister? I once said his sister was attractive. And he went and said that) but yea I was just like "No worries, why would I want to interact with yall and for the record everyone who knows me knows I'm not straight" and went inside
Edit: sorry for it being so long
Can you do more of these Askreddit videos? Your voice is a welcome change from all the robots.
I hate the robot voices
I know I'm a monster for laughing, and I certainly hope the guy is doing okay now, but during the story where the girlfriend beat the shit out of OP, the way it's written made me picture a bad movie scene where it's poorly acted out and ends with the boyfriend reaching up with a dramatic, "Whhhy?" XD
Sorry to drag you back to your old comment.. but.. my thought was she beats the crap outta him... then just a deadpan blank face "why?"
If I EVER get into a relationship, if the guy EVER abuses MY pet, he gonna wake up as a woman
“No one will ever make you feel the way I do”
I hope not
Well, this video was untimely. My gf just broke up with me today, and you didn't consider my feelings in posting this video! I demand £15k for emotional distress, or a cuddle from Yugo....
I see where the concepts of Yandere Simulator came from.
y e a h thats where it came from.../s
Yandere is a term meaning love sick or something, it's used to describe people who would hurt themselves or others for their love. It's a bad thing
I dont think you have to worry about being screwed over Gohan
2:45 combination of guilt, and the assumption that they and their behavior is normal. If they're cheating, clearly everyone including you must be, too.
I broke up with my ex because around Christmas of our 4th year, he told me he didnt have much money to buy me a present. He asked if we could just keep it small and I said no problem. He asked me what I wanted, so I told him (just a cheap phone case. It was like $10.) I then came to find out a few weeks later that he had bought a $50 replica stone statue of a video game character (hes a huge gamer), had bought a brand new game for his best friend ($60 or so), and was also doing a givaway for that same new game on his twitch channel even though he only had like 20 followers. Any other time I would have totally been like thats cool, but it was the fact that it felt like he had pushed me to the side to do what he wanted and to spend his money on himself and his best friend. It wasnt about me being materialistic, it was litterally the fact that it felt like a slap in the face after 4 years of being together. He chose his best friend and his followers over his girlfriend. Me and his best friend got along fine too, we had nothing against one another.
My godmother used to have a boyfriend who threatened with suicide if she ever leaves him. She went and bought rope, went to the guys house and told him to go on and do it as the relationship was over. He (how surprisingly) didn't and apparently is still alive and well with a family of his own. The ones who threaten with suicide usually aren't the ones to actually go through with it...
I dumped a boy in high school because I found out that he was hazing an autistic student. He started harassing me for months afterwards, until I kicked him in the head one day after he called me a whore. 6 years later I think my mother still has the referral hanging on the fridge
The question: “what made you INSTANTLY dump your ex?” Half of these answers:”well they did this and so I eventually ended up dumping them after a few months”
Ask Reddit is the best subreddit for quality content. Such a variety of stories and some great meme follow up comments to stories as well. I wish you made more Ask Reddit content
I got rid of her after she started abusing me for pretty much anything I did in life.
Went out with my Mother - abused
Did an overhaul on my car's engine - abused
Stayed home - abused
Studied - abused
Ran out of credit on my phone - abused
Went for a walk - abused
That was a few years ago, she's now the town bike and because of her, I'm even more of a loner now than I was back then and have severe trust and commitment issues.
Sorry to hear that my dude. For the record: Similar experiences.
Couldn't take to my mentor/best friend.
Had to basically be a punching bag.
Was called pussy whipped by her male family members.
Was prevented from seeing my three kids by her and her family.
Was turned into a running joke(No facts here but it's a safe leap from the stuff they pulled)
Helped pick out a Christmas present for her dad and was given no credit whatsoever.
Was told I was a horrible singer(deflection I presume?)
Was told I wasn't ready to be a parent (because narcissism makes one ready to parent in her twisted bizarro world)
Was harrassed while at work after we spilt (she came in with her old man and new flavor of the month)
Acted like I would want her back when I moved to Texas to be within better travel range of my LDLT relationship with a MUCH better person in everyway (basically came into my room and sat on my damn bed while I slept and smiled like all was well)
Finally have sole custody with my now fiancé and don't really care how wrecked her life is for her or her family and friends.
Also her dad said "We're friends, but you can't see your son" (I found out later on I had two girls and a boy from her alone)
TDLR Just listen to Stronger Than I Was and instead replace "I may never trust some one" With "but I finally found the one"
That guy who tried to get op to dump her fiancé for him on the day of her wedding watches way too many movies. Pushing her against the wall to try and kiss her is right out of the movies too, unfortunately.
based on experiences i’ve seen with family and friends, cheaters get paranoid about cheating because they feel some type of guilt or shame for doing it and wanna push the blame onto someone else so they can still feel high and mighty and not super ashamed about their actions
"Why are cheaters the most paranoid about others cheating?"
They judge everyone else by their own standards - liars expect to be lied to, cheaters expect to be cheated on.
Old quote from somewhere: "No one defines their own character more clearly than when they are describing another person's character".
[] Or it could have been OP who ended up in bed covered in blood …
[] What I can't wrap my head around is how paedos seem to think that what they're doing is ok. Is it some form of extreme power trip?
[] My own tipping point: we worked at the same place [different departments] and became friends and soon more than friends.
He was so macho it was painful, but I was so lacking in self-confidence that I put up with his bs.
We even got engaged.
Until he told me that he'd only asked me out in the first place because all the blokes in his department had bet him that I was a lesbian [a woman wears trousers to work? obviously a dyke!].
He thought it was hilarious. I wasn't nearly as amused, especially as the only way he could have won his bet was by telling them how he'd proved that I wasn't.
That is disgusting as hell and there is a special place for a person like him! I am SO sorry for what you went through, and hope he didn't manage to tear you down too much...you seem strong to me..💪
@@bookapillar - Thanks, dear! It took me a long while to accept that I really did deserve better than him.
I saw him about 10-15 years later, just happened to bump into each other on the street. He'd only changed by getting older; I think I changed in more ways than just age.
I can look back at myself as I was then and see how far I've come. Still got about a million miles to go, but I've covered a few miles, at least.
@@franl155 yea im not reading that novel, get a hobby
@@jasamkojajesam6108 - you think reading isn't a hobby?
If 50 Shades of Grey can get published, there is an audience for anything.
I still havent read that book.
@@Treesah35 don't. just don't read it
@@yikes4946 explain.
Mista is not amused their name says all you need to know
@@Treesah35 - I've heard enough about it to make go 50 miles out of my way to avoid it
Can't worry about someone cheating on you if you can't attract anyone in the first place. #livingthegoodlife 😊😭
Where's that expensive dating coach?
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@@spongeboob8971 I cry everytime lol
@@lateescape You'll eventually find someone. I don't want to date because I don't get the big hubbub about it. Ill just take my animals and be on my way lol.
@@spongeboob8971 appreciate the kind words Spongeboob. I love your name!
@@lateescape Thanks. Haha
Hope that first dude took her ass to court. Even if he has cheating this whole "destroy the T.V, Beak car windows" from the movies shit isn't justified in the real world. This comes from someone who has been cheated ON.
I dumped a boyfriend of 7 years when he told me he wanted to have kids. To be fair I had told him prior to ever dating him that I never wanted to have kids. He thought I'd change my mind. Dumped in an instant. (married to a much better guy now who has a daughter already, no danger in him demanding I have a kid)
Good morning everybody, have a good day!
Thank you. Same thing for you.
I love your content and is listening to all the time, keep up the good work😄
I liked your video right after watching it. I love your sense of humor.
You know, it's possible to like the video before you watch it 👍 we love that
@@PlectrumZAdventure (Laughs)
Thought I'd share mine here. He was a sweetheart, nothing really wrong with him, besides some self-esteem issues from having gone from morbidly obese to super skinny and not being able to get rid of the excess skin.
One night I'm over at his place and we're talking about our future. He insists on talking about what would happen if I became pregnant. I shrugged and said, "I dunno, I'd probably keep the baby as long as there was nothing life threatening". I am a teacher and he's a grocery manager, so neither of us make enough to have a family, but I have an amazing support system from my parents and sister (I live with them and help care for both my sister's and my brother's kids). He got angry and insists that if I got pregnant I had to have an abortion because we couldn't afford it. I refused, because I don't believe in abortion for convenience, and he says if I ever got pregnant and kept the baby that he would never be able to trust me again.
That was the most bizarre answer I have ever gotten. It didn't immediately end the relationship, but it definitely was the turning point. Other things came up after that: arguments about my inability to pay my student loans AND save for an apartment (I have excessive loans and I'm a teacher), arguments about getting married, my autism, and other stuff. I ended it a few months later.
A friend of mine has a girlfriend who is completely psycho-jealous. He asked me if he could have something shipped to my place of work, since he was worried about it getting stolen off his porch. When it came in, as a joke I texted him and said "Your sex toys were delivered". She saw the text and thought he was cheating and in his words "You almost got me killed." He had to show her the email from Amazon from his surveillance system being delivered one minute before my text before she would calm down.
Does watching this video count as cheating on ToadFilms?
Glaucia Aquila Nikephoros Fedlimid he uses tts it’s justified.
The person he was cheating on me on told me about it.
11:13 "hears in the background *i know i can treaat uuuu beeetah*"
BETTA DADDY CAAANN
I've never had a boyfriend (to be fair it hasn't ever been a focus for me) and sometimes I feel insecure about it. Then I hear stories like this and...
I appreciate that rSlash pronounces "NUCLEAR" correctly.
Me: i love him so much!
Him: 👀
Also him: ShE DoEsNT EVeN loVE meEE
Me: i- is u blind??
Speech 100
As a guy, I can confirm
I mean....she didn't
But how do you act? Honest question...
MortusTheWolfGaming i Don’t really do anything tbh 😂😂 but I do call him an idiot for not listening to me lol
"She was so Fing hot."--The level of hotness usually increases the level of crazy. Remember that, boys and girls.
Please do the R/justnomil its so funny and slightly terrifying.
What is it about? I know I probably sound stupid for just asking..
@@bookapillar it's about terrible mother in laws x
I had an ex boyfriend create a schedule for me too! He made a spreadsheet of each activity and how many minutes I had to spend doing said activity. I thought I was the only one this happened to. He also put himself in the hospital and blamed me for putting him there. Good riddance.
As soon as you asked why I haven't liked the video yet, the temperature in my house went cold, sending chills down my spine. I liked the video instantly.
*Sees rSlash posted this 15 mins ago:*
*Me: Falls off chair*
Love you!
Bro you good?
@@spongeboob8971 no
Hey I forgot AskReddit was a thing. Think you will be doing more in the future?
I'm sure he will, he was talking about it, so yeah maybe
rSlash explaining to his kid how babies are made vs other parents:
Other Parents: so me and spouse had s&@
rSlash: pAsSiOnAtE hUgGiNg
No offense to you rSlash in any way, ik you said this so you would get monetized but I just wanted to make a joke about it
Someone gets violent, it needs to be over *FREAKING YESTERDAY!!* After almost 6 months of marriage, my husband and I were having a disagreement when out of the blue, he hit me in the head with a dinner plate. I grabbed my keys and left. Filed for divorce and to this day, I will not put my voice on the internet. And never will unless I have proof he has died. I'm no one's victim and no one gets 2 bites.
So, there was a story about some guy saying they and the poster needed to be in constant contact and it reminded me of someone that I almost dated. I was talking with someone for a few hours before one of my classes and we were having a fun conversation when class started. My teacher said to everyone that if he sees you on your phone, he's going to take it for the rest of the class. Not wanting to lose my phone, I put it away. I didn't get to tell the guy I was in class and couldn't talk and he left me multiple messages while I was in class. That day, I didn't ignore the red flags.
Hello! I woke up to a ping on my phone, best alarm ever!
Rslashs new Anit Demilitarized Word is P-VIDEOS
The reasons why people who cheat, usually think the partner is cheating is two fold:
1. They think, since they haven't been caught cheating, that it must be difficult to spot, and automatically assume that, if they (cheater) are not happy enough in the relationship, than the other one must be as well.
2. More importantly, they want to justify their scummy action, so they hope to catch their partner so they don't seem as bad by comparison.
Most of the time, not all the time, but most from what I've seen, if a partner is constantly accusing you of cheating, either, you're cheating and leaving some serious clues, or, if you're not cheating, they are and are trying to justify it.
Just some food for thought.
“Why is it the people doing the cheating are the most paranoid about cheating?”
Pretty self explanatory, innit? 😏
The girl who trashed guys flat: I'd just sue her if I were him, and make her compensate for EVERYTHING she did, this is unacceptable, and and she really had to pay for it, instead of just walking away like nothing happened.
EM: My son needs your TH-cam Channel, he deserves it! He gets C- in every class!!!!
r/slash: Not today lady...
You already posted this comment somewhere... Why post it again?
Ummm... so hes below average Karen?
Did anyone else notice that the story right after the girlfriend who punched OP in the face was from a user called PunchBeard?
Kinda ironic XD
Yes, much like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife
I already liked the video! Stop victim blaming me!
If it's crazy, run very very fast in the other direction. Do not look back ever either! And the last thing, don't let anyone guilt you into staying. Tell them that's a personal problem and that there are doctors for that and then walk.
My last ex (Jim) had this roommate (Bob). Bob was a great guy but had some mental issues, mostly depression. I suffer from manic depressive bipolar disorder so I felt for the guy and we became friends.
One afternoon I get a call from Jim telling me that Bob tried to kill himself and was in the hospital. I was truly worried about my friend. Things had been getting rough for him and I had been trying really hard to get him through them in one piece.
Next thing I know Jim calls me again and tells me that he's kicking Bob out of the house as soon as he's back from the hospital. Yes, the guy who just tried to kill himself. As Bob was from out of state, he had nowhere to go and would end up homeless. Thankfully, though, a nice lesbian couple who were our friends took him in almost an hour away.
There were other reasons but this was the final straw. I told Jim that if he could be so cold to a person who's life almost ended then I didn't want anything to do with him. He tried for months to get me back and to convince Bob that he was sorry and that he did it FOR him to give him a new start. Best part about it all? Bob and I ended up dating only a few months later and have been together for over five years now.
The content warning pop up yikes
"Child *ahem* "
To answer your question from the vid
Because it’s trash
Jk
People who cheat are full of guilt (whether they realize it or not) and more suspicious because they don't want to get the same treatment. It's like they know what they've been doing so their minds see what they're doing wrong in their partner's behavior and react, even if what's really going on it simple and innocent. Beware the jealous and suspicious.
“No one will ever make you feel the way I do.” Right. Nobody will ever creep her out as much as him.