How to gain your Spouse’s Heart? | EPIC Replay April 16, 2017 | Ustadh Mohamad Baajour

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  • @Islamis4all
    @Islamis4all 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Every married couple must watch this video.
    ماشاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيراً يا شيخنا الفاضل الكريم

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

    • @nurunkadil7336
      @nurunkadil7336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      د

    • @zubaidamajid3860
      @zubaidamajid3860 ปีที่แล้ว

      SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage
      A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.

    • @zubaidamajid3860
      @zubaidamajid3860 ปีที่แล้ว

      Print my message

    • @themysteriousdunno1
      @themysteriousdunno1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      shukr alhamdulillah

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    JazakAllah.
    Reminders are
    -Astaghfaar
    -Kind word compliment each other
    -Dress nicely
    -Dont be stingy
    -Leave your phone tv and listen to each other
    -Avoid posting on social media
    -Avoid backbiting
    -Give gifts
    -compliment in front of family

  • @joon_choco
    @joon_choco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The roses at the end were so sweet 🥺♥️ may Allaah grant us righteous spouse and make us a righteous spouse and grant us al firdaws 🤲🏻

  • @OrangeBlossom4x4
    @OrangeBlossom4x4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.

    • @syedarob3249
      @syedarob3249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Brother please keep praying, especially the last third of the night for your marriage. May Allah bless what is good for you both, ameen.

    • @goddessr3065
      @goddessr3065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@syedarob3249 So you been no good to your wife and now you regret it. You hurt her. She is not living you without a reason

    • @goddessr3065
      @goddessr3065 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@syedarob3249 Why in the night. Can I pray at
      eny time. What Allah is sleeping during day or what?

    • @syedarob3249
      @syedarob3249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that.
      That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @sharifahaljofree7278
    @sharifahaljofree7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    MasyaAllah..very very very good lecture..my dad practise all the sunnah above n hes the best husband n the best dad ever💖💖💖💖🥀🌹🌺

    • @flyincoltd5502
      @flyincoltd5502 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.my dad also used to practice all these Sunnah and indeed he was the best dad and husband.

    • @samehs2422
      @samehs2422 ปีที่แล้ว

      MashaAllah

  • @sarahsfaith9403
    @sarahsfaith9403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I wish I can give thousands like to this video😊 especially the roses part at the end, how nice is a community teaching us be nice to our spouse

  • @user-et2ng1qb2m
    @user-et2ng1qb2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah

  • @BMA338
    @BMA338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very beautiful speech Imaam, may Almighty Allah bless you. I am divorced woman,, and your speech is true and very inspirational

  • @petal21
    @petal21 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This lecture is worth listening to a 100 times. It's one of the most comprehensive lectures I have ever listened to. Jazakallah khairal jazaa!

  • @alzihr191919
    @alzihr191919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This lecture is Life-changing . I wish every married couple get to see it . Jazakallahu khairan

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @mariamkaba9763
    @mariamkaba9763 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh Allah I love this Deen . How can you not . ❤❤❤❤❤alhumdulillah.

  • @samarahal-khawaldeh2412
    @samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mashallah the ending melted my heart subhanallah what a great shiekh and community to be apart of

  • @elenakarim1
    @elenakarim1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ma sha allah. May Allah bless my dear husband with the highest paradise.

  • @mabintykallay5338
    @mabintykallay5338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May Allah bless our kids righteous spouse. Ameen

  • @souaddiso4213
    @souaddiso4213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    MashaAllah, well said, Islam has it All alhamduLillah

  • @larabayowunmi5684
    @larabayowunmi5684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jazakallahu khairan. May ALLAH bless you and reward you in this world and the hereafter

  • @Sniptool
    @Sniptool ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.

  • @salvacionawan6937
    @salvacionawan6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.

  • @mansuraluby3263
    @mansuraluby3263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ma shaa Allah🥺🥺💞..May Allah grant us jannah🥺🤲and good spouse's 💞

  • @annleslie5730
    @annleslie5730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact.
    May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous.
    THANK YOU

  • @chicago80z
    @chicago80z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Jazak Allah kher for the beautiful lecture. May Allah SWT bless you with a long healthy life. We gain so much knowledge from you Masha Allah.

  • @luulsharib
    @luulsharib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this topic wallahi made me cry Alhamdulillah
    ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن ماشاءالله تبارك الله
    جزاك الله خير

  • @humsafarkhan2030
    @humsafarkhan2030 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great lecture. JazakAllah Khair.

  • @faridahnsubuga9214
    @faridahnsubuga9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful, beautiful lecture masha Allah..... Barack Allahu fikum shk.
    May Allah reward u for ur time and effort.

  • @django9494
    @django9494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alhamdulillah..What a wonderful speech. Love from Riyadh.

  • @AceAcademics508
    @AceAcademics508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mashallah , beautiful voice, beautiful quran recitation

  • @mrsKarim-mw7tp190
    @mrsKarim-mw7tp190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.

  • @asadullah23200
    @asadullah23200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MashaAllah this is an absolute gem! Jazakum Allah khair and InshaAllah we can all adopt the sunnah in our homes and hearts Ameen ya rabb al alameen

  • @shafinaabdul2898
    @shafinaabdul2898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ma sha Allah! If only both the partners in a couple had gone through this video!!!

  • @jahaymaammarrahpanolong2909
    @jahaymaammarrahpanolong2909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mashallah Tabarakallah, i so love listening you ya sheik😍 may Allah swt bless u more..

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That is true , we love kind words than gifts .

  • @m.safwanpeerzade7681
    @m.safwanpeerzade7681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jazaak Allah khair sir ur every word was precious yaa Allah put love and mercy between every husband and wife ameen

  • @taqwa9650
    @taqwa9650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you from my heart Sheikh. Love to listen to all your khutbas. May Allah SWT grant you Jannat ul Firdous! Ameen!

  • @user-mw9uu9mt2v
    @user-mw9uu9mt2v ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omgggg sooo good. Last part was epic 😁❤️

  • @imaslowlerner
    @imaslowlerner ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah, I wish I could have sat down and listened to this lecture with my then wife before we divorced in 2010, بارك الله فيك.

  • @mohamedsalman2568
    @mohamedsalman2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️awesome tips.
    In shaa Allah will follow..
    The last part was😀😀😀 I miss that gift😭

  • @unanoor8710
    @unanoor8710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward the sheikh for a practical nasihah. From England

    • @bg5462
      @bg5462 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameen

  • @abdulwahabshoaib9952
    @abdulwahabshoaib9952 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mashallah shaikh qiraat is too good

  • @imranhassim6731
    @imranhassim6731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mashaallah very useful lecture for couples.

  • @abderrezak7412
    @abderrezak7412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please, do use subtitles as some people are hard of hearing or totally deaf and would really enjoy listening to your lectures. Insha Allah.

  • @balqeswardak9369
    @balqeswardak9369 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏

    • @apuhj4614
      @apuhj4614 ปีที่แล้ว

      May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala grant you ease and touch your husband's heart to be kind ..aameen

    • @monirasultana4083
      @monirasultana4083 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.

  • @nassimakadri6689
    @nassimakadri6689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Masha Allah love the idea of the gift in the end haha

  • @irissonata6371
    @irissonata6371 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Allah make us of the righteous spouse. IN Sha Allah 🤲. Great lecture by sheikh .May Allah bless Him and his Family.

  • @Salma2500
    @Salma2500 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.

  • @goodflowh
    @goodflowh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MashaAllah, the best lecture and as thoughtful gift. I wish all imams/masjids did that.

  • @Aisakusainn
    @Aisakusainn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.

  • @amnanisar23
    @amnanisar23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    truly a Gem, Ustadh Bajour

  • @reginaldthomas1257
    @reginaldthomas1257 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😌😇🤗🤝🏾🫂🤲🏾❤💓💗💟 May Allah Guide Us, Insh'llah, Allahumma Ameen. Allahumm Alim ❤️ 🤲🏾

  • @mounisifou7770
    @mounisifou7770 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jazaka Allah khran sheikh shukran may Allah reward you for your beautiful advice alhadumlilah

  • @mrsKarim-mw7tp190
    @mrsKarim-mw7tp190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.

  • @babithamk3027
    @babithamk3027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha allah..
    What a beautiful speech

  • @ibrahimmanneh458
    @ibrahimmanneh458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great words please pray for me am searching for a wife ya shaykh. May Allah blessed you and your family.

  • @irshadalikhan9509
    @irshadalikhan9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May Allah SWT bless you,
    You are such a charismatic scholar

  • @DJsaima
    @DJsaima 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was an amazing lecture thank you so much xxx

  • @aleeza7866
    @aleeza7866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Some man never appreciate what ever the wife does for him ,he puts her down all the time mostly in front of others

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Try marital counseling. Haleh banani has good videos on TH-cam, but you can also check with your local masjid.

    • @imranhassim6731
      @imranhassim6731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes my husband also do.

    • @aleeza7866
      @aleeza7866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@21972012145525 my husband never admits his abuse towards me he thinks it’s always my fault

    • @aleeza7866
      @aleeza7866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imranhassim6731 we can only pray there is nothing else we can do

    • @sfkhan7797
      @sfkhan7797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@aleeza7866 May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease

  • @apuhj4614
    @apuhj4614 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma shaa Allah ...Nice talks BaarakAllahu feekum

  • @bakbakmindalano5662
    @bakbakmindalano5662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Salaam. How did u reach that deep knowledge and faith. Love to hear your mesg.its full of wisdom . We trully feel your love in imparting that wisdom.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @maevemurdoch1123
    @maevemurdoch1123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazak allahu khairan this was so beautiful. May Allah bless you all and give you Sakina in your homes AMIN

  • @rifamahmood917
    @rifamahmood917 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beautiful talk....ma sha Allah Tabarakallah

  • @rebirthhair6706
    @rebirthhair6706 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! Much needed advice! ❤

  • @sairapeerbux4554
    @sairapeerbux4554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    absolutely 💯
    Alhamdullillah

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Subhanallah , even if a mistake is made , he will remind you of the passed mistakes in your cooking .

    • @kandegomdah4718
      @kandegomdah4718 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very beautiful lecture and so much we can all learn from . Thank you so much .

    • @madcanashiba8947
      @madcanashiba8947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.

  • @brurberhanu9991
    @brurberhanu9991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MashaAllah, the best idea ever, Jezak Allau khair.

  • @adi345adi
    @adi345adi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MashaAllah.. one of the most wonderful speeches I heard on this topic.. Barakallahu feek yaa usthad

  • @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw
    @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah's love and mercy be on you forever

  • @PinkFlowers365
    @PinkFlowers365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazak Allah khayr

  • @SharriffRahman6b6b
    @SharriffRahman6b6b ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah it's good to have such as positive man giving positive advice. It's encouraging and motivating.

  • @annaagata1
    @annaagata1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ameeen thank you for a lesson and a Dua Sheikh

  • @razeenaamath218
    @razeenaamath218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very important advices
    May Allah bless you

  • @mohamedmustapha396
    @mohamedmustapha396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May Allah grant us a good spouse and offspring

  • @latifabargir8852
    @latifabargir8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Subhanallah

  • @zarlashtrabmal3163
    @zarlashtrabmal3163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    جزاک الله خیرا یا استاد فاضل

  • @rabiaabdul9009
    @rabiaabdul9009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha Allah

  • @mdabusaqibalamansari9979
    @mdabusaqibalamansari9979 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah ❤❤❤❤❤ soo benificial video

  • @rehanaabdullahi79
    @rehanaabdullahi79 ปีที่แล้ว

    ما شاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيرا 🙏

  • @Adv.Muheet
    @Adv.Muheet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    haha felt so good after listening you ... allah bless u

  • @joweriya6545
    @joweriya6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    mashahallah ❤️

  • @rahmahty7026
    @rahmahty7026 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amiin Yaa Rabbal a'laamin. Same to you sheikh

  • @Aven2025
    @Aven2025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Subhan Allah what a beautiful message, how can we contact you sheikh for our Counselling
    Jazak Allah Khair

  • @fadumafaduma5376
    @fadumafaduma5376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah

  • @azizaahmad9249
    @azizaahmad9249 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا

  • @capompocomedy3050
    @capompocomedy3050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma Sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰

  • @samarahal-khawaldeh2412
    @samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashallah

  • @fakiyakiddiestv9211
    @fakiyakiddiestv9211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome advice. May ALLAH swt bless and reward you dear Ustaz Bajour.
    You are a great blessing to the Ummah.
    Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @tanveerbanu2285
    @tanveerbanu2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mashaallah india

  • @wandaasgarali1737
    @wandaasgarali1737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jazak Allah Khairun. Can we still donate on the upper left corner to Epic masjid?

  • @hamzamohamed6748
    @hamzamohamed6748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel so depressed and alone. I cant find a spouse but have everything else.

  • @tahminarahman1431
    @tahminarahman1431 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alhamdulillah

  • @TokyoHomes
    @TokyoHomes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alhumdulillah

  • @HananOZ
    @HananOZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A good surprise when you come home, not you're divorced. Or Asalaam alaikum habibti, meet your new co-wife.🙄

  • @silverback564
    @silverback564 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amin

  • @mamoonanimani6476
    @mamoonanimani6476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you

  • @karzan4784
    @karzan4784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this lecture. Jazzak Allahu khair. Can someone give me the source 14:45 part about speech having halal magic sihr. Thank you.

    • @EPICMASJID
      @EPICMASJID  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:
      Two men came from the East and addressed the people who wondered at their eloquent speeches On that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said. Some eloquent speech is as effective as magic.'
      Sahih al-Bukhari 5767

    • @karzan4784
      @karzan4784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EPICMASJID Jazzak Allahu Khayr! Thank you for the reply and thank you for this content!

  • @SA-xe3ow
    @SA-xe3ow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤

  • @amirhshaikh
    @amirhshaikh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Surah Ar-Rum, Ayah no. 21

  • @bennymuhammad2988
    @bennymuhammad2988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👌👍

  • @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw
    @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamudulillah

  • @muneersyed6500
    @muneersyed6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @fatmawarda1639
    @fatmawarda1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Assalamualaikum.Uztad Mohammad Bajoor ,you recite the ayah from the Qur'an What is the Surah and verses ...

    • @wahidavenjara289
      @wahidavenjara289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surah 30and verse is 21
      Sheikh was reading.

    • @WasifSikder
      @WasifSikder 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of ayat he recited is surah rum ayah 41 (30:41) but he recited many ayat

  • @anthonykadir4711
    @anthonykadir4711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great brother