It hurts to hear these young people suffer because they are simply existing. It also makes me angry to know that Nigeria and a lot of other African countries are pushing their people to europe and America especially when racism against African people are so prevalent. This is also dangerous because these men can join the military and defend their country. If you push them to the west, they will fight in the military for the west against Africa. How stupid can we continue to be? Isolating ourselves and dividing ourselves to remain defeated?
That was a great interview. I think it’s very brave of the other guy to openly discuss his sexuality on live show, especially given the risks that he may face in the country. I also agree with the point that not all feminine guys are gay; some are simply more feminine in nature. I've seen guys who are very feminine but not gay, as well as those who are. As for the man in the black dress who mentioned that his family, and environment transformed him from being more feminine, I believe there’s a lot he's still holding back emotionally. I sincerely hope he finds healing from whatever might be affecting his mental health. It’s never easy to conform to societal norms, especially when you feel deeply connected to a different identity, making you feel like an outsider in the world.
@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 stigma dey affect most naija men , how come most American men who are effeminate gay . It's the obstacle , even the host is an obstacle , she was wondering why a closeted man can sit close to a confirmed homo . That little guy is the face of bravery. Most naija men with liquid courage and the right setting won't turn down a good time , trust me.
Joseph's story resonated with me a lot. Caged within. Though I never faced such hard criticism and scrutiny but I still made that decision. Not because of anybody or fear of anything, just me and my best interest. The advantage I think I have is that I can associate with anyone male or female, masculine or feminine. And understanding people's emotions and point of view is instinctual to me. Honestly, I just dislike barriers. I strongly believe people should be allowed to choose or be fluid. After all, yours is yours and mine is mine.
Even though mine isn’t caged within me or not that I let it out too much. I’m just stuck there. The feminine guy really disappointed me, you’re supposed to talk about effeminacy,you are are talking about homosexuality. I really wish I was the one speaking with that guy,I have lots of questions I want to ask him.
Yes, yes you are absolutely right. One other thing worth mentioning is my concern for Joseph. I don't know what he measure as discipline, but being hit on the head with a gun is abuse and should not something to be overlooked. You were just being yourself and being maltreated and made to live harsh realities ("tug life") for that (because that is what it is) is unjustifiable no matter what. I just hope he is mentally ok. And that Aunt should be ashamed of herself, honestly, for harming a weak young and innocent boy because she could.
I can relate with the guy in black that's my story, seriously i went through a lot especially from school i just had to man up still some times i do get that feeling of not wanting to please everybody 😔
To the interviewer, pls allow the young man in black to express himself, without forcing what u want to hear from him. You are not a therapist, so allow him to share himself to the extent he understands it. But in general, I enjoyed the conversation.
This guy's story is exactly my story , I used a mirror to train myself 😞 I really tried my best to stop the way I walk , the way I talk all all of that .
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Interesting conversation anyways To the other guy's point He said if he can force himself to act manly other guys can too I'm a feminine guy who has had to fend for himself at 14 Fending for yourself or being a man has nothing to do with your innate personality Neither does it make you a weakling Forcing yourself to conform to how people think you should act isn't living at all Its like telling a fish to climb a tree Just like others can't control how they look or act so does a feminine guy Plus not all feminine guys wants to wear makeup or feminine clothings Nigeria is hard on its own Biko stop giving such advice I could relate to him as well because i had to keep forcing myself to live up to societal standards of being a man Untill i just couldn't
I swear. Until you just couldn't. Abeg it's not something you can change and control unless you want to be depressed. And let's be honest most of us are actually part of the lgbtq
I was stigmatised in secondary school. They use to call me she male because i love to stay amongst female students. I prefer to chose ladies as my friends and they love me too. I started man up after my Higher Institution program. But i am still a feminist. You will notice me whenever i am talking too much with my friends. I cant hide my self please
That guy on dreads is very funny, Bobby risky will come and rescue you 😂😂😂 chai you are a comedian, the same Bobby risky that went for curiosity made me ask interview and denied kissing a guy that was his roommate after he said it with his full chest the first interview 😂😂😂 will rescue you, i pity you. Even Bobby risky himself has never admitted that his gay in public will save you, dream on
For me just be yourself and don't let anyone change you nothing, you are whom you are period. But the guy on black is hiding something but all the same he is business 😊
Self happiness is the key , you forcing yourself hurt all because you want to pls a certain individual not knowing if they are real or not , get to leaves as a taut just to feel good only makes you vulnerable and insecure
It really crazy out there, I for one am a feminine guy but not gay but I tried as much as possible to reduce it or not make it obvious because of this country we are. I could remember when I got admission into the higher institution I got scared of going cuz I felt I was going to meet new people, they will insult me and say things they wish to say without caring how I would feel, we had no lady at all in my department but whenever a lecturer comes to the class and ask if there is no girl in the class the other guys will call my name, each day was like a nightmare, friends will ask me is it true you behave like a girl? It hurt more when people close to you ask you this question. Even after graduation I was reluctant to apply for job cuz I don't want to experience same thing, sometimes I blame people who turn this to their own source of income but at the same time it their choice I can't stop stop anybody from doing whatever they want . Hope Nigeria become a country where there is no discrimination.
i actually was a feminine guy, but I said to my self this is not what I want so i began doing sports then I did bodybuilding, but my voice still feminine
The truth is that, definitely they will legalize it. Please ooo, Nigerians hear this: this people are born this way, they didn't choose their life please
As for me I don’t condemn gays at all Or homosexual Because there’s this natural likeness I have for them Both the tomboys and the tomgirls but unfortunately I don’t have a favourable stature to be a tomboy 😢😢
The other black guy is still living in denial cos you won’t tell me that if given an opportunity to live your true self you won’t let it all out🤷🏼♂️the one on braid has made his stance for everyone to know while the other guy is still in hiding which is their decision to make!!!!I wish them well✌️
Am a real testimony to been a feminist, i was also born a pure femini but due to the discremation and molestation i have to realy work on myself, to God be the glory today i am no more femini, hmmm
Why do people always think that African countries are the only homophobic countries in the world, many other😢 countries too are severely homophobic but they are not spoken about because people always think that what is bad always comes from Africa
It's very sad that the guy in black hates himself so much he tries to hide who he is so society can accept him. How do you pay homage to someone that abused you? Telling us he thanks hiss aunt for abusing him because now he's straight acting. That is insane and reeks of internalised homophobia. A country gains nothing by criminalising people citizens for who they are. It's no wonder citizens of such harsh countries flee to other more liberal countries regardless of sexual orientation. No surprise that such countries are the worst to I've in for any citizen. Presenter please research on topics you are going to discuss. You sounded very ignorant and yohr young guests don't know any better so took this misrepresentations. What is "doesn't support the act"? It is not an act. It is who they are. Homosexuality is a sexual orientation just like heterosexuality or bisexuality, not an act. Get it right next time. Research. Thank you!
Not all African countries are worst places to be. Those liberal countries used to be conservative countries that criminalized homosexuality before now. Also some African countries are still in the process of legalising and accepting the LGBTQ community it is just a matter of time.
@@NjeutchaKimia I concur that not all African countries are the worst places to be. What I did say is that the countries that have extremely harsh laws against their own people's minority groups always find even citizens that don't belong to those affected groups leaving the country for better opportunities in the countries that are liberal. We've seen many cases of people from such countries claim asylum based on sexual orientation even though they know their claims are not true.
In the case of gender dysphoria, It is sometimes just a phase for some people who later on grow out of it and those are a very few cases,like the guy in black.but most of them don't grow out of it.the guy in black had gender dysphoria as a kid,but the other guy doesn't have gender dysphoria,he is just gay
His case isn’t one of gender dysphoria, he never said he questioned his gender identity. I was also very effeminate growing I never questioned my gender identity that’s the whole concept of gender dysphoria(feeling trapped in the wrong body)
I grew up having both gender's behavior, play football and ps with ny guys and playing ite and cooking with the girls, but i hated it with passion, the worst was that my parents did not tell me to stop it. I do wear my sisters clothes at a very tender age but i was also active playing football with my guys, the girlish behavior got worst when i met some group of girl-boy in secondary school and i made friends with them. I separated from them when one of my guys told me everybody were thinking i was among them but they were skeptical cus i have a pure male's face and body structure. Since that day i ceased up to be their friends. Thank God i do not follow any of those demon girl-boy again.
"Demon"... with blood as red as yours. It's only human to disassociate with a person when conflict of interest arises. but to demonize?.... in the end it is worth knowing that just like you, everyone else just want to survive. hmm... to each their own
The guy in black is not comfortable with himself, he is hiding who he is, I can beat my chest he is very unhappy. Trying to conform to society is exhausting .
Sorry sis, but the question u re asking the guy in the black why, he is not coming from nowhere he was born feminine doesn't mean he's a gay, while the other guy was born a gay it is clear🤷
The whole interview is cringe!!!! The interviewer, insane! The panelists, unrealistic. Both of them need to grow because platforms like this have no good to serve them as gay people.
Are they couples or what i don't understand the interview the introduction wasn't good enough oo i don't even get to know about them names ages state of origin and other necessary things please reply with their names
Without them, you were already confused. Look at the first world countries, US, UK, even South Africa that legalized it, they are way more productive and far better than Nigeria. So legalizing or not legalizing it would have nothing to do with the downfall of Nigeria.. rather legalizing it might even bring supports from top countries
@@thatguy7700 Remember when I said CONFUSE? I didn't mean LESS PRODUCTIVE. On a separate note, I hope you're aware of the consequences of misgendering someone. I, like the majority of Nigerians, don't appreciate it. Full Stop 🛑
@@VIC3VP You would only be confused if you allow yourself too. There are ways to not get affected by another person's Life. For instance, Minding your own business and focusing on your own life rather than someone else's 😊.
It’s an interview you don’t even have your guest use vulgar language on your show You should prep them on the right words and way of expressing themselves using right choice words This interview in my rating is 2/10
What’s the interview about actually cause I don’t understand how he’s advising fem guys to try and change ?? What’s the idea of this interview actually 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
The first guy's story doesn't sound like encouragement its more like a desperate act for survival and you're Aunty was abusing you its very common 😢 you're literally changed your entire life, behavior and personality for people you don't know 🙁 i mean sure people will talk but people talk about everything and as you said this is Nigeria i understand what you mean really but this is how i think if you act like every other person you know how are you any different, how will you think and or see life in a different way it you look at it though other people eyes? I personally don't want to see myself in everybody i meet cuz i am me, the only me there is and though my way of thinking and acting might be different from others but that's what makes me unique (was going to use special but that sounded too cringe 😂) Anyways i personally don't think i act, walk or talk girly (to my knowledge 😂) although there are sometimes i say somethings or act different and some people have pointed it out, the difference is that all the times this has happened its wity people i just met, people i dont know and most especially when im in a different environment...the people who know me know how I'm like and act and i don't get that type of complaint from them. I just started university and it was such a culture shock 😅...it was like being in a country no one speaks your language...sort of😅 Basically everything that i saw as a normal thing back home suddenly wasnt normal anymore all the guys here have this mindset if over masculinity (if thats a word) like how i talk not that i talk girly but I do speak pigen at all, the music i like is very different and the films i watch too i mean come on there more than one genre of films na wtf is everyone so obsessed with action this is fking Nigeria we dont even have good road to do fake fast and furious 😭😂. i mean i already know im pretty weird but this was another level 😂😅 but still its not an excuse to change because they ask me to... imagine somebody telling you don't like chicken you sould be eating bread because everybody likes bread when you have the money to buy chicken...on your birthday at that 😂 Wether you are gay or not or you're feminine or masculine you'll still find people who are like you and people who can relate to you but unlike you took a complete 360 and still live a good life I'm not against or defending anybody cuz the story is going left and right I'm not sure what I'm not even sure why i started writing again 😂 Anyways moral of the story Nigeria is already fked up enough as it is stop adding more drama to it l same with Nigerian lgbt community like y'all that i see don't even understand what being gay is (not talking about any of you btw) it's just about clout and setting the Internet on fire just for view and know when someone mentioned the word gay you automatically think about the TRANS man they put in jail or the stick with speach problems 🙄 , 2 of the worst people with their own problems and adding problems to represent an entire hidden community... don't get me wrong i wouldn't trust ANY Nigerian with that task either not even myself I'm not even sure y'all know who's who in a masculine gay guy or a feminine straight guy if your life depended on it so whst were y'all thinking when you invited a gay guy and a straight guy...🌚 that had to change his character to survive to talking about how not all feminine guys are gay when the feminine straight guy in question is no where to be for...i mean where's the logic 😅... it would have been better if you did a mockumentary with the questions you were asking it would have gotten you more views knowing youre audience... Anyways first guy hope your living you life better now than back then i blame the place, time you were born and the people you around but now i hope life is good for you and that it stays thst way 🙂 Ps sorry for the rant I'm a very critical person, the interviews goal was obvious and i was just annoyed at some point...pls dont come for me 😅🙏
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It hurts to hear these young people suffer because they are simply existing. It also makes me angry to know that Nigeria and a lot of other African countries are pushing their people to europe and America especially when racism against African people are so prevalent. This is also dangerous because these men can join the military and defend their country. If you push them to the west, they will fight in the military for the west against Africa. How stupid can we continue to be? Isolating ourselves and dividing ourselves to remain defeated?
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Ooohhhh my i love JOSEPH 🤩🤩🤩
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That was a great interview. I think it’s very brave of the other guy to openly discuss his sexuality on live show, especially given the risks that he may face in the country. I also agree with the point that not all feminine guys are gay; some are simply more feminine in nature. I've seen guys who are very feminine but not gay, as well as those who are.
As for the man in the black dress who mentioned that his family, and environment transformed him from being more feminine, I believe there’s a lot he's still holding back emotionally. I sincerely hope he finds healing from whatever might be affecting his mental health. It’s never easy to conform to societal norms, especially when you feel deeply connected to a different identity, making you feel like an outsider in the world.
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@@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 yes... I'm feminine but not gay...
There's something called the "XXY" chromosome 😭😭😭.
You spoke my mind
@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 stigma dey affect most naija men , how come most American men who are effeminate gay . It's the obstacle , even the host is an obstacle , she was wondering why a closeted man can sit close to a confirmed homo . That little guy is the face of bravery. Most naija men with liquid courage and the right setting won't turn down a good time , trust me.
These are my types of men especially the guy in black he has a perfect balance of masculine and feminine ❤
We should show them more ❤️ no matter who they choose to be. 🏳️🌈 they need more love and support from us
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I know Michael personally and when he says nobody can change him,he means nobody ✨💅
Wow
Joseph and Michael looks good together 🎉
Very good conversation 💙💙
Thank you
Joseph's story resonated with me a lot. Caged within. Though I never faced such hard criticism and scrutiny but I still made that decision. Not because of anybody or fear of anything, just me and my best interest.
The advantage I think I have is that I can associate with anyone male or female, masculine or feminine. And understanding people's emotions and point of view is instinctual to me.
Honestly, I just dislike barriers.
I strongly believe people should be allowed to choose or be fluid. After all, yours is yours and mine is mine.
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Even though mine isn’t caged within me or not that I let it out too much.
I’m just stuck there.
The feminine guy really disappointed me, you’re supposed to talk about effeminacy,you are are talking about homosexuality.
I really wish I was the one speaking with that guy,I have lots of questions I want to ask him.
Yes, yes you are absolutely right.
One other thing worth mentioning is my concern for Joseph. I don't know what he measure as discipline, but being hit on the head with a gun is abuse and should not something to be overlooked. You were just being yourself and being maltreated and made to live harsh realities ("tug life") for that (because that is what it is) is unjustifiable no matter what.
I just hope he is mentally ok. And that Aunt should be ashamed of herself, honestly, for harming a weak young and innocent boy because she could.
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Period 💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿. I love the second speaker Michael…
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Love this second guy's vibes 😅🎉🎉🎉🎉
PERIOD 💅💅💅
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Interesting convo....thanks for sharing
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Joseph's expressions when the other guy spoke is crazy 😂😂😂😂😂
I can relate with the guy in black that's my story, seriously i went through a lot especially from school i just had to man up still some times i do get that feeling of not wanting to please everybody 😔
To the interviewer, pls allow the young man in black to express himself, without forcing what u want to hear from him. You are not a therapist, so allow him to share himself to the extent he understands it. But in general, I enjoyed the conversation.
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Walter, therapists listens more than speaking. We use what our clients tell us to determine an empowering approach to their problems. 🙂
@@elvisikeh9688 lol, ok. I stand corrected. But u get my point bah
@@gabywalter6652 of course I do... You are right! He had a lot of unsaid stuff to share
Joseph that's a nice talk my brother ❤
This guy's story is exactly my story , I used a mirror to train myself 😞 I really tried my best to stop the way I walk , the way I talk all all of that .
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Let we feminine guys rest
lol
The interviewer dey crazw
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It’s the way I get the look on the face of the guy with braids/dyed hair when that other guy started listing what he does for a living. 😅
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Which part?
Hmmmm make unna sha Dey careful 😂😂😂 This is Nigeria .
They are imitating Americans 😂while refusing to acknowledge the fact that they are living in a country that is very anti LGBTQ
This thing is choice oooo Abeg
Listen , you didn't make him or us , I knew I was gay from 6 years old
God punish you! Mumu
@@frost123-hq3vk werey religion wey no fit help naija , everyone dey run. Pure water sipper
I whoud love too have a section with you
Have been looking for a platform like this ❤❤❤❤
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I my self was and still feminist.....i only behave like a girl towards those that i know can tolerate me 😅😅😅😅😅
That’s okay
"no man in his right mind..." ??
Shusshhh
Interviewer yi ehn😂😂😂
Interesting conversation anyways
To the other guy's point
He said if he can force himself to act manly other guys can too
I'm a feminine guy who has had to fend for himself at 14
Fending for yourself or being a man has nothing to do with your innate personality
Neither does it make you a weakling
Forcing yourself to conform to how people think you should act isn't living at all
Its like telling a fish to climb a tree
Just like others can't control how they look or act so does a feminine guy
Plus not all feminine guys wants to wear makeup or feminine clothings
Nigeria is hard on its own
Biko stop giving such advice
I could relate to him as well because i had to keep forcing myself to live up to societal standards of being a man
Untill i just couldn't
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I swear. Until you just couldn't. Abeg it's not something you can change and control unless you want to be depressed. And let's be honest most of us are actually part of the lgbtq
I was stigmatised in secondary school. They use to call me she male because i love to stay amongst female students. I prefer to chose ladies as my friends and they love me too. I started man up after my Higher Institution program. But i am still a feminist. You will notice me whenever i am talking too much with my friends. I cant hide my self please
Chi is right they can change
Really
God bless ur aunty o
Hmmm this is interesting 😂
Abi o, I thought I was the only that noticed that😄
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I think the guy on black is overwhelmed that someone is doing what he stop and is happy I could read a little jealousy😂
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That guy on dreads is very funny, Bobby risky will come and rescue you 😂😂😂 chai you are a comedian, the same Bobby risky that went for curiosity made me ask interview and denied kissing a guy that was his roommate after he said it with his full chest the first interview 😂😂😂 will rescue you, i pity you. Even Bobby risky himself has never admitted that his gay in public will save you, dream on
The one putting on the black stripped shirt seems like a shy type but it's definitely fine 😊
For me just be yourself and don't let anyone change you nothing, you are whom you are period. But the guy on black is hiding something but all the same he is business 😊
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I feel the guy on black is not expressing himself honestly but truth be told he is still behaving feminine (shaking his head )
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You're right. The guy is still struggling with his sexuality and identity. I hope he find peace.
I feel for him bcos it's not easy
Self happiness is the key , you forcing yourself hurt all because you want to pls a certain individual not knowing if they are real or not , get to leaves as a taut just to feel good only makes you vulnerable and insecure
It really crazy out there, I for one am a feminine guy but not gay but I tried as much as possible to reduce it or not make it obvious because of this country we are.
I could remember when I got admission into the higher institution I got scared of going cuz I felt I was going to meet new people, they will insult me and say things they wish to say without caring how I would feel, we had no lady at all in my department but whenever a lecturer comes to the class and ask if there is no girl in the class the other guys will call my name, each day was like a nightmare, friends will ask me is it true you behave like a girl? It hurt more when people close to you ask you this question.
Even after graduation I was reluctant to apply for job cuz I don't want to experience same thing, sometimes I blame people who turn this to their own source of income but at the same time it their choice I can't stop stop anybody from doing whatever they want .
Hope Nigeria become a country where there is no discrimination.
So sorry for your experiences. Sending love.
where are you watching from?
Zimbabwe
The second guy deserves a free visa abroad, the first guy is living a suppressed life
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i actually was a feminine guy, but I said to my self this is not what I want so i began doing sports then I did bodybuilding, but my voice still feminine
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The truth is that, definitely they will legalize it.
Please ooo, Nigerians hear this: this people are born this way, they didn't choose their life please
The guy Micheal is someone I know he lives in my area
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Okay 😂
Please I was asking for Joseph 's usernames he says his an actor I will be glad if I could have it
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An adult actor he means
He's a gay actor. It's everywhere on twitter
As for me
I don’t condemn gays at all
Or homosexual
Because there’s this natural likeness I have for them
Both the tomboys and the tomgirls but unfortunately I don’t have a favourable stature to be a tomboy 😢😢
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It's crazy what education does for society. Even crazier that Africans call being gay a western disease but follow the dogma of the west.
The other black guy is still living in denial cos you won’t tell me that if given an opportunity to live your true self you won’t let it all out🤷🏼♂️the one on braid has made his stance for everyone to know while the other guy is still in hiding which is their decision to make!!!!I wish them well✌️
Live free 😢😢
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You can be very masculine and gay. So you need to do a story about that situation.
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The guy in black is still living in self denial & pretence. I think he's doing this to please family and society.
thats on period
@@DiplomaticLeges lol
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That is true and as a person living a lie to make society comfortable with you it's just going to make you live a miserable life
Lol he's actually a gay pornstar 😂
Am a real testimony to been a feminist, i was also born a pure femini but due to the discremation and molestation i have to realy work on myself, to God be the glory today i am no more femini, hmmm
Why do people always think that African countries are the only homophobic countries in the world, many other😢 countries too are severely homophobic but they are not spoken about because people always think that what is bad always comes from Africa
What's the name of the guy of braids
The guy in black was abused and says it was for his best. That's what they try to make you believe. It's so sad😢
It a coping mechanism
@@emmanuelkimfilms is it? Or is it overt manipulation
It's very sad that the guy in black hates himself so much he tries to hide who he is so society can accept him. How do you pay homage to someone that abused you? Telling us he thanks hiss aunt for abusing him because now he's straight acting. That is insane and reeks of internalised homophobia.
A country gains nothing by criminalising people citizens for who they are. It's no wonder citizens of such harsh countries flee to other more liberal countries regardless of sexual orientation. No surprise that such countries are the worst to I've in for any citizen.
Presenter please research on topics you are going to discuss. You sounded very ignorant and yohr young guests don't know any better so took this misrepresentations. What is "doesn't support the act"? It is not an act. It is who they are. Homosexuality is a sexual orientation just like heterosexuality or bisexuality, not an act. Get it right next time. Research.
Thank you!
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Not all African countries are worst places to be. Those liberal countries used to be conservative countries that criminalized homosexuality before now. Also some African countries are still in the process of legalising and accepting the LGBTQ community it is just a matter of time.
@@NjeutchaKimia I concur that not all African countries are the worst places to be. What I did say is that the countries that have extremely harsh laws against their own people's minority groups always find even citizens that don't belong to those affected groups leaving the country for better opportunities in the countries that are liberal. We've seen many cases of people from such countries claim asylum based on sexual orientation even though they know their claims are not true.
please how did d guy on black overcomr effeminacy, cod he looks masculine
Wahala
At the end of the day u have to leave your life guys. Remember something inborn will always be with you no matter
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The interviewer is extremely weird, forcing people to say what she wants and intimidating, I urge her to change
In the case of gender dysphoria,
It is sometimes just a phase for some people who later on grow out of it and those are a very few cases,like the guy in black.but most of them don't grow out of it.the guy in black had gender dysphoria as a kid,but the other guy doesn't have gender dysphoria,he is just gay
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His case isn’t one of gender dysphoria, he never said he questioned his gender identity. I was also very effeminate growing I never questioned my gender identity that’s the whole concept of gender dysphoria(feeling trapped in the wrong body)
@michaelnwamemofuma8919 yh, that is true if he never questioned his gender identity and was just girly.so are you not effeminate now?
It's the other way round. Most people get over it according to statistics.
@@emmanuelpeter6894 okay,but do you think it is wrong if they are unable to get over it and decide to live that way?
Now you’re going to be shocked when I say this 😱 homophobia exists everywhere. Especially in Europe so…
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I grew up having both gender's behavior, play football and ps with ny guys and playing ite and cooking with the girls, but i hated it with passion, the worst was that my parents did not tell me to stop it. I do wear my sisters clothes at a very tender age but i was also active playing football with my guys, the girlish behavior got worst when i met some group of girl-boy in secondary school and i made friends with them. I separated from them when one of my guys told me everybody were thinking i was among them but they were skeptical cus i have a pure male's face and body structure. Since that day i ceased up to be their friends. Thank God i do not follow any of those demon girl-boy again.
"Demon"... with blood as red as yours.
It's only human to disassociate with a person when conflict of interest arises. but to demonize?.... in the end it is worth knowing that just like you, everyone else just want to survive.
hmm... to each their own
Bro, do you gettt? That was a poor diction. @@borisadepauldayo948
Wahala no dey finish
@@michaelekpo1285 lol
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Very bad interviewer , the place of ant interviewer is to be analytical and not critical
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The guy in black is not comfortable with himself, he is hiding who he is, I can beat my chest he is very unhappy. Trying to conform to society is exhausting .
Sorry sis, but the question u re asking the guy in the black why, he is not coming from nowhere he was born feminine doesn't mean he's a gay, while the other guy was born a gay it is clear🤷
So why is he a gay pornstar?
The whole interview is cringe!!!! The interviewer, insane! The panelists, unrealistic. Both of them need to grow because platforms like this have no good to serve them as gay people.
Are they couples or what i don't understand the interview the introduction wasn't good enough oo i don't even get to know about them names ages state of origin and other necessary things please reply with their names
When the female goddess posesss a male child, they carry the spirit of the diety and present feminine at the same time presenting as a man.
Toorh 😂
This environment is not good for this conversation, I fear for the Micheal guy..
Noted
10:52 Legalise what?
Never!!
We don't need more confusion in this country, the problems we have already is enough.
@@VIC3VP lol
Without them, you were already confused. Look at the first world countries, US, UK, even South Africa that legalized it, they are way more productive and far better than Nigeria.
So legalizing or not legalizing it would have nothing to do with the downfall of Nigeria.. rather legalizing it might even bring supports from top countries
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@@thatguy7700 Remember when I said CONFUSE? I didn't mean LESS PRODUCTIVE. On a separate note, I hope you're aware of the consequences of misgendering someone.
I, like the majority of Nigerians, don't appreciate it. Full Stop 🛑
@@VIC3VP You would only be confused if you allow yourself too. There are ways to not get affected by another person's Life. For instance, Minding your own business and focusing on your own life rather than someone else's 😊.
It’s an interview you don’t even have your guest use vulgar language on your show
You should prep them on the right words and way of expressing themselves using right choice words
This interview in my rating is 2/10
Who is the guy in black very annoying.
Low level thinker, he is talking from trauma
Wow
Mr high level thinker we hail oo🙌 but you shouldn't have typed out your stupidity now guy, what the fuck
The interview in such environment. That’s not cool. This is endangering his life. This is wrong, lady.
The guy in black is pretentious
It’s just an act
What’s the interview about actually cause I don’t understand how he’s advising fem guys to try and change ??
What’s the idea of this interview actually 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
Bla bla bla bla bla.....chima are you gay or not
Lol
Legalize ko ni? Lol dread guy rest
The first guy's story doesn't sound like encouragement its more like a desperate act for survival and you're Aunty was abusing you its very common 😢
you're literally changed your entire life, behavior and personality for people you don't know 🙁 i mean sure people will talk but people talk about everything and as you said this is Nigeria i understand what you mean really but this is how i think if you act like every other person you know how are you any different, how will you think and or see life in a different way it you look at it though other people eyes? I personally don't want to see myself in everybody i meet cuz i am me, the only me there is and though my way of thinking and acting might be different from others but that's what makes me unique (was going to use special but that sounded too cringe 😂)
Anyways i personally don't think i act, walk or talk girly (to my knowledge 😂) although there are sometimes i say somethings or act different and some people have pointed it out, the difference is that all the times this has happened its wity people i just met, people i dont know and most especially when im in a different environment...the people who know me know how I'm like and act and i don't get that type of complaint from them.
I just started university and it was such a culture shock 😅...it was like being in a country no one speaks your language...sort of😅
Basically everything that i saw as a normal thing back home suddenly wasnt normal anymore all the guys here have this mindset if over masculinity (if thats a word) like how i talk not that i talk girly but I do speak pigen at all, the music i like is very different and the films i watch too i mean come on there more than one genre of films na wtf is everyone so obsessed with action this is fking Nigeria we dont even have good road to do fake fast and furious 😭😂. i mean i already know im pretty weird but this was another level 😂😅 but still its not an excuse to change because they ask me to... imagine somebody telling you don't like chicken you sould be eating bread because everybody likes bread when you have the money to buy chicken...on your birthday at that 😂
Wether you are gay or not or you're feminine or masculine you'll still find people who are like you and people who can relate to you but unlike you took a complete 360 and still live a good life
I'm not against or defending anybody cuz the story is going left and right I'm not sure what I'm not even sure why i started writing again 😂
Anyways moral of the story Nigeria is already fked up enough as it is stop adding more drama to it l same with Nigerian lgbt community like y'all that i see don't even understand what being gay is (not talking about any of you btw) it's just about clout and setting the Internet on fire just for view and know when someone mentioned the word gay you automatically think about the TRANS man they put in jail or the stick with speach problems 🙄 , 2 of the worst people with their own problems and adding problems to represent an entire hidden community... don't get me wrong i wouldn't trust ANY Nigerian with that task either not even myself
I'm not even sure y'all know who's who in a masculine gay guy or a feminine straight guy if your life depended on it so whst were y'all thinking when you invited a gay guy and a straight guy...🌚 that had to change his character to survive to talking about how not all feminine guys are gay when the feminine straight guy in question is no where to be for...i mean where's the logic 😅... it would have been better if you did a mockumentary with the questions you were asking it would have gotten you more views knowing youre audience...
Anyways first guy hope your living you life better now than back then i blame the place, time you were born and the people you around but now i hope life is good for you and that it stays thst way 🙂
Ps sorry for the rant I'm a very critical person, the interviews goal was obvious and i was just annoyed at some point...pls dont come for me 😅🙏
Wtf did i write 🙆😂
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Nigeria should just legalize this stuff make we rest
I mean stop hiding 🥲