It hurts to hear these young people suffer because they are simply existing. It also makes me angry to know that Nigeria and a lot of other African countries are pushing their people to europe and America especially when racism against African people are so prevalent. This is also dangerous because these men can join the military and defend their country. If you push them to the west, they will fight in the military for the west against Africa. How stupid can we continue to be? Isolating ourselves and dividing ourselves to remain defeated?
That was a great interview. I think it’s very brave of the other guy to openly discuss his sexuality on live show, especially given the risks that he may face in the country. I also agree with the point that not all feminine guys are gay; some are simply more feminine in nature. I've seen guys who are very feminine but not gay, as well as those who are. As for the man in the black dress who mentioned that his family, and environment transformed him from being more feminine, I believe there’s a lot he's still holding back emotionally. I sincerely hope he finds healing from whatever might be affecting his mental health. It’s never easy to conform to societal norms, especially when you feel deeply connected to a different identity, making you feel like an outsider in the world.
@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 stigma dey affect most naija men , how come most American men who are effeminate gay . It's the obstacle , even the host is an obstacle , she was wondering why a closeted man can sit close to a confirmed homo . That little guy is the face of bravery. Most naija men with liquid courage and the right setting won't turn down a good time , trust me.
To the interviewer, pls allow the young man in black to express himself, without forcing what u want to hear from him. You are not a therapist, so allow him to share himself to the extent he understands it. But in general, I enjoyed the conversation.
Joseph's story resonated with me a lot. Caged within. Though I never faced such hard criticism and scrutiny but I still made that decision. Not because of anybody or fear of anything, just me and my best interest. The advantage I think I have is that I can associate with anyone male or female, masculine or feminine. And understanding people's emotions and point of view is instinctual to me. Honestly, I just dislike barriers. I strongly believe people should be allowed to choose or be fluid. After all, yours is yours and mine is mine.
Interesting conversation anyways To the other guy's point He said if he can force himself to act manly other guys can too I'm a feminine guy who has had to fend for himself at 14 Fending for yourself or being a man has nothing to do with your innate personality Neither does it make you a weakling Forcing yourself to conform to how people think you should act isn't living at all Its like telling a fish to climb a tree Just like others can't control how they look or act so does a feminine guy Plus not all feminine guys wants to wear makeup or feminine clothings Nigeria is hard on its own Biko stop giving such advice I could relate to him as well because i had to keep forcing myself to live up to societal standards of being a man Untill i just couldn't
This guy's story is exactly my story , I used a mirror to train myself 😞 I really tried my best to stop the way I walk , the way I talk all all of that .
That guy on dreads is very funny, Bobby risky will come and rescue you 😂😂😂 chai you are a comedian, the same Bobby risky that went for curiosity made me ask interview and denied kissing a guy that was his roommate after he said it with his full chest the first interview 😂😂😂 will rescue you, i pity you. Even Bobby risky himself has never admitted that his gay in public will save you, dream on
For me just be yourself and don't let anyone change you nothing, you are whom you are period. But the guy on black is hiding something but all the same he is business 😊
As for me I don’t condemn gays at all Or homosexual Because there’s this natural likeness I have for them Both the tomboys and the tomgirls but unfortunately I don’t have a favourable stature to be a tomboy 😢😢
The other black guy is still living in denial cos you won’t tell me that if given an opportunity to live your true self you won’t let it all out🤷🏼♂️the one on braid has made his stance for everyone to know while the other guy is still in hiding which is their decision to make!!!!I wish them well✌️
I do angry with you in an instance that what changed him is people's insults and the life that he is living now is him pleasing social norms (the guy in black it's really sad
In the case of gender dysphoria, It is sometimes just a phase for some people who later on grow out of it and those are a very few cases,like the guy in black.but most of them don't grow out of it.the guy in black had gender dysphoria as a kid,but the other guy doesn't have gender dysphoria,he is just gay
His case isn’t one of gender dysphoria, he never said he questioned his gender identity. I was also very effeminate growing I never questioned my gender identity that’s the whole concept of gender dysphoria(feeling trapped in the wrong body)
It's very sad that the guy in black hates himself so much he tries to hide who he is so society can accept him. How do you pay homage to someone that abused you? Telling us he thanks hiss aunt for abusing him because now he's straight acting. That is insane and reeks of internalised homophobia. A country gains nothing by criminalising people citizens for who they are. It's no wonder citizens of such harsh countries flee to other more liberal countries regardless of sexual orientation. No surprise that such countries are the worst to I've in for any citizen. Presenter please research on topics you are going to discuss. You sounded very ignorant and yohr young guests don't know any better so took this misrepresentations. What is "doesn't support the act"? It is not an act. It is who they are. Homosexuality is a sexual orientation just like heterosexuality or bisexuality, not an act. Get it right next time. Research. Thank you!
Without them, you were already confused. Look at the first world countries, US, UK, even South Africa that legalized it, they are way more productive and far better than Nigeria. So legalizing or not legalizing it would have nothing to do with the downfall of Nigeria.. rather legalizing it might even bring supports from top countries
@@thatguy7700 Remember when I said CONFUSE? I didn't mean LESS PRODUCTIVE. On a separate note, I hope you're aware of the consequences of misgendering someone. I, like the majority of Nigerians, don't appreciate it. Full Stop 🛑
@@VIC3VP You would only be confused if you allow yourself too. There are ways to not get affected by another person's Life. For instance, Minding your own business and focusing on your own life rather than someone else's 😊.
It hurts to hear these young people suffer because they are simply existing. It also makes me angry to know that Nigeria and a lot of other African countries are pushing their people to europe and America especially when racism against African people are so prevalent. This is also dangerous because these men can join the military and defend their country. If you push them to the west, they will fight in the military for the west against Africa. How stupid can we continue to be? Isolating ourselves and dividing ourselves to remain defeated?
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That was a great interview. I think it’s very brave of the other guy to openly discuss his sexuality on live show, especially given the risks that he may face in the country. I also agree with the point that not all feminine guys are gay; some are simply more feminine in nature. I've seen guys who are very feminine but not gay, as well as those who are.
As for the man in the black dress who mentioned that his family, and environment transformed him from being more feminine, I believe there’s a lot he's still holding back emotionally. I sincerely hope he finds healing from whatever might be affecting his mental health. It’s never easy to conform to societal norms, especially when you feel deeply connected to a different identity, making you feel like an outsider in the world.
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@@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 yes... I'm feminine but not gay...
There's something called the "XXY" chromosome 😭😭😭.
You spoke my mind
@daroyalendlesscuisine7137 stigma dey affect most naija men , how come most American men who are effeminate gay . It's the obstacle , even the host is an obstacle , she was wondering why a closeted man can sit close to a confirmed homo . That little guy is the face of bravery. Most naija men with liquid courage and the right setting won't turn down a good time , trust me.
To the interviewer, pls allow the young man in black to express himself, without forcing what u want to hear from him. You are not a therapist, so allow him to share himself to the extent he understands it. But in general, I enjoyed the conversation.
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Joseph's story resonated with me a lot. Caged within. Though I never faced such hard criticism and scrutiny but I still made that decision. Not because of anybody or fear of anything, just me and my best interest.
The advantage I think I have is that I can associate with anyone male or female, masculine or feminine. And understanding people's emotions and point of view is instinctual to me.
Honestly, I just dislike barriers.
I strongly believe people should be allowed to choose or be fluid. After all, yours is yours and mine is mine.
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We should show them more ❤️ no matter who they choose to be. 🏳️🌈 they need more love and support from us
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Hmmmm make unna sha Dey careful 😂😂😂 This is Nigeria .
They are imitating Americans 😂while refusing to acknowledge the fact that they are living in a country that is very anti LGBTQ
Interesting conversation anyways
To the other guy's point
He said if he can force himself to act manly other guys can too
I'm a feminine guy who has had to fend for himself at 14
Fending for yourself or being a man has nothing to do with your innate personality
Neither does it make you a weakling
Forcing yourself to conform to how people think you should act isn't living at all
Its like telling a fish to climb a tree
Just like others can't control how they look or act so does a feminine guy
Plus not all feminine guys wants to wear makeup or feminine clothings
Nigeria is hard on its own
Biko stop giving such advice
I could relate to him as well because i had to keep forcing myself to live up to societal standards of being a man
Untill i just couldn't
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Let we feminine guys rest
lol
Interesting convo....thanks for sharing
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"no man in his right mind..." ??
Shusshhh
Interviewer yi ehn😂😂😂
This guy's story is exactly my story , I used a mirror to train myself 😞 I really tried my best to stop the way I walk , the way I talk all all of that .
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It’s the way I get the look on the face of the guy with braids/dyed hair when that other guy started listing what he does for a living. 😅
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Which part?
I feel the guy on black is not expressing himself honestly but truth be told he is still behaving feminine (shaking his head )
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You're right. The guy is still struggling with his sexuality and identity. I hope he find peace.
I feel for him bcos it's not easy
That guy on dreads is very funny, Bobby risky will come and rescue you 😂😂😂 chai you are a comedian, the same Bobby risky that went for curiosity made me ask interview and denied kissing a guy that was his roommate after he said it with his full chest the first interview 😂😂😂 will rescue you, i pity you. Even Bobby risky himself has never admitted that his gay in public will save you, dream on
This thing is choice oooo Abeg
Listen , you didn't make him or us , I knew I was gay from 6 years old
God punish you! Mumu
@@frost123-hq3vk werey religion wey no fit help naija , everyone dey run. Pure water sipper
For me just be yourself and don't let anyone change you nothing, you are whom you are period. But the guy on black is hiding something but all the same he is business 😊
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As for me
I don’t condemn gays at all
Or homosexual
Because there’s this natural likeness I have for them
Both the tomboys and the tomgirls but unfortunately I don’t have a favourable stature to be a tomboy 😢😢
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It's crazy what education does for society. Even crazier that Africans call being gay a western disease but follow the dogma of the west.
Hmmm this is interesting 😂
The other black guy is still living in denial cos you won’t tell me that if given an opportunity to live your true self you won’t let it all out🤷🏼♂️the one on braid has made his stance for everyone to know while the other guy is still in hiding which is their decision to make!!!!I wish them well✌️
The guy Micheal is someone I know he lives in my area
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The guy in black is still living in self denial & pretence. I think he's doing this to please family and society.
thats on period
@@iamkelgrin6082 lol
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That is true and as a person living a lie to make society comfortable with you it's just going to make you live a miserable life
The guy in black is just living his life as per what sociality say and is experienceing the trumer of being assaulted by the public
I do angry with you in an instance that what changed him is people's insults and the life that he is living now is him pleasing social norms (the guy in black it's really sad
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At the end of the day u have to leave your life guys. Remember something inborn will always be with you no matter
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Now you’re going to be shocked when I say this 😱 homophobia exists everywhere. Especially in Europe so…
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Wahala
In the case of gender dysphoria,
It is sometimes just a phase for some people who later on grow out of it and those are a very few cases,like the guy in black.but most of them don't grow out of it.the guy in black had gender dysphoria as a kid,but the other guy doesn't have gender dysphoria,he is just gay
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His case isn’t one of gender dysphoria, he never said he questioned his gender identity. I was also very effeminate growing I never questioned my gender identity that’s the whole concept of gender dysphoria(feeling trapped in the wrong body)
@michaelnwamemofuma8919 yh, that is true if he never questioned his gender identity and was just girly.so are you not effeminate now?
Okay 😂
where are you watching from?
Zimbabwe
What's the name of the guy of braids
Wahala no dey finish
@@michaelekpo1285 lol
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Very bad interviewer , the place of ant interviewer is to be analytical and not critical
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It's very sad that the guy in black hates himself so much he tries to hide who he is so society can accept him. How do you pay homage to someone that abused you? Telling us he thanks hiss aunt for abusing him because now he's straight acting. That is insane and reeks of internalised homophobia.
A country gains nothing by criminalising people citizens for who they are. It's no wonder citizens of such harsh countries flee to other more liberal countries regardless of sexual orientation. No surprise that such countries are the worst to I've in for any citizen.
Presenter please research on topics you are going to discuss. You sounded very ignorant and yohr young guests don't know any better so took this misrepresentations. What is "doesn't support the act"? It is not an act. It is who they are. Homosexuality is a sexual orientation just like heterosexuality or bisexuality, not an act. Get it right next time. Research.
Thank you!
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When the female goddess posesss a male child, they carry the spirit of the diety and present feminine at the same time presenting as a man.
The interview in such environment. That’s not cool. This is endangering his life. This is wrong, lady.
10:52 Legalise what?
Never!!
We don't need more confusion in this country, the problems we have already is enough.
@@VIC3VP lol
Without them, you were already confused. Look at the first world countries, US, UK, even South Africa that legalized it, they are way more productive and far better than Nigeria.
So legalizing or not legalizing it would have nothing to do with the downfall of Nigeria.. rather legalizing it might even bring supports from top countries
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@@thatguy7700 Remember when I said CONFUSE? I didn't mean LESS PRODUCTIVE. On a separate note, I hope you're aware of the consequences of misgendering someone.
I, like the majority of Nigerians, don't appreciate it. Full Stop 🛑
@@VIC3VP You would only be confused if you allow yourself too. There are ways to not get affected by another person's Life. For instance, Minding your own business and focusing on your own life rather than someone else's 😊.
Who is the guy in black very annoying.
Low level thinker, he is talking from trauma
Wow
Mr high level thinker we hail oo🙌 but you shouldn't have typed out your stupidity now guy, what the fuck
Bla bla bla bla bla.....chima are you gay or not
Lol
The guy in black is pretentious
Legalize ko ni? Lol dread guy rest