The Sister Wives Discuss Their Unique Lifestyle (Part 1) - Pickler & Ben

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  • @julies2984
    @julies2984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    They have done a great job illuminating exactly why polygamy doesn’t work very well.

  • @user-ld7uj9pv8e
    @user-ld7uj9pv8e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Until these folk accept polygamy working both ways... ie women with multiple husbands they are hypocrites.

    • @ellengill514
      @ellengill514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. But you have to study the evils of mormonism to understand why they believe what they do.

    • @Angel-hm9so
      @Angel-hm9so 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It exists but the term is polyandry.

    • @juliemitchell6037
      @juliemitchell6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love my husband! We've been married for 30yrs but I wouldn't want another one!!!! No no no no!! LMAO We have a 50/50 marriage he's always been helpful with everything. If you had more than one husband you'd have to spend a ton of money on DNA testing!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @juliemitchell6037
      @juliemitchell6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ellengill514 They make it sound like the women have the power. Like they call the shots?? They seem to be different than the other polygamist groups? I think as long as you are old enough to make your own decisions and aren't pushed into it but, then again we'll never know what truly goes on behind closed doors!!!

    • @ellengill514
      @ellengill514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@juliemitchell6037 Agree. I have been married almost 27 years. No way would I share my husband.

  • @michellebissett9900
    @michellebissett9900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Meri and Christine are my favorites.. funny how some comments are attacking Meri's looks.. too bad you dont have the kindness she does. Trolls

  • @susandahlseide1438
    @susandahlseide1438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Can’t stand this guy. Entitled, patriarchy. Treats them like adolescents, and regularly storms out of family discussions when he’s not getting his way. Seriously lacking maturity and insight and disguising it as opportunities for spiritual growth.

    • @denisekinzle1672
      @denisekinzle1672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He s a bully and they finally are sick of it.

    • @kailapowell5500
      @kailapowell5500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He’s not a smart man. Somehow he becomes a leader because he has a penis 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @pearlbubbles6885
    @pearlbubbles6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The only one that doesn't compromise is Kody

  • @shelenajohnson1400
    @shelenajohnson1400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "Do your kids want to live a polygamist lifestyle ?" So far no lol I wonder why lol

  • @artist45
    @artist45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I feel that the women all seem to desperately want to come across as 'modern' women yet they're caught up in this...'relationship' and Cody is the center of their world. I like Meri. When I did watch their show eons ago, I always felt bad for her as she always looked beaten down and came across as a sad sack. Now I think she's the only one with any individuality as she seems to have broken free a bit with her bed and breakfast. The women also try to come across as not jealous but it's obvious that they're seething with it at times. Fighting over this guy.....THAT, I just don't understand!

  • @jennyhartman3
    @jennyhartman3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Oh Cody, the long front curls do not hide the bald. Just let it go already man.

    • @chucktrent2073
      @chucktrent2073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh for sure--I'd catch him asleep and wack it all off!!!

    • @itsmiyahbaby3604
      @itsmiyahbaby3604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂💯

  • @sweetiebrelovephil9694
    @sweetiebrelovephil9694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Mari is by far my favorite... wish she could find happiness

  • @banannas2300
    @banannas2300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omg.. imagine if an std came up.. who would you blame first! Kody' s hair is revolting 🤢

  • @happyfallen6434
    @happyfallen6434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Live and let live, these are all adults and they made the decision to live together.

  • @vickywells
    @vickywells 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Just an excuse for Kody to have his cake and eat it to .

    • @lanapatterson1522
      @lanapatterson1522 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      vicky wells yes he want his Kate and Edith too! 😂

  • @bevyking6570
    @bevyking6570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    People tell him that they have changed their minds about polygamy?? He changed my mind by making me think it's creepier then I originally thought before seeing them up close and personal. He makes my skin crawl. The women can't have any self worth if they don't think they deserve their own husband that they don't have to share. Sad.

    • @monkeynumbernine
      @monkeynumbernine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some of them enjoy having 'sisterwives'
      😒
      They were raised in it.

    • @2snowgirl520
      @2snowgirl520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree.

  • @shesalady76
    @shesalady76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I dont believe in polygamy but i like watching the sister wives show..im not sure why..maybe because its so very awkward..oh..and i think Janelle is the coolest..no big ego there too.

    • @priscalanga6703
      @priscalanga6703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love to watch the sister wives and seeking sister wives, just intrigued ......

    • @daniellemartinez8810
      @daniellemartinez8810 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's alady they’re sick in the head lol

    • @shesalady76
      @shesalady76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@daniellemartinez8810 this whole upset aint normal..it blows my hair back..thats why im watching it..lol

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      She definitely is awesome

  • @GiGiLafoo
    @GiGiLafoo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A whole 39 seconds before Robyn starts over-talking the others and hijacks the attention to herself. Might be a record for her to restrain herself that long.

  • @lauranijman8011
    @lauranijman8011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Is it me or does Cody look like Charles Manson just missing the swastika on his forehead?

  • @johnlamphier9812
    @johnlamphier9812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The hosts were respectful and asked good questons.

  • @coyotedust
    @coyotedust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2021 the entire family is falling apart, Kody says he wouldn't advocate for polygamy, Christine wants to pack up and leave, Meri is putting existing wanting out, but not able to leave, and Robin is licking her lips hoping she can have Kody to herself.

  • @Siyanibingelela
    @Siyanibingelela 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Out of the bunch, I respect Janelle the most. She doesn’t take shit and has a pragmatic look on life... I think any dispute regarding her is because she DOESN’T really care and I think the other 3 really do. I can be a jealous person and envy Janelle being so independent. Usually when I’m jealous it’s because other people don’t care but somehow and for some reason why, I do. Take notes from Janelle. If anyone was gonna leave it would be her - not Meri. Meri is bitter and can’t let go of the past.

    • @ChristmasLore
      @ChristmasLore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so right. Just discovering the show, and this is my exterior read also. She looks at peace.
      (But she is eating a lot of her emotions...)

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree

  • @rosequeen2461
    @rosequeen2461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    They all look old especially kody and Robyn has aged a lot maybe bcos she’s now a mom of 5. Kody has lost any looks he had

    • @janiscohen-dacosta9822
      @janiscohen-dacosta9822 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😔 p.p

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She looks facially the same. Its weight gain. I think theyre nutters but they chose it.

    • @ngaireallen7810
      @ngaireallen7810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree Robin looks 55 lol

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      Having kids does not make u look old. I have 6 kids and look the same as I did after 3 kids

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@helixmoore7636 now way. Her face is OLD NOW

  • @SoraLove599
    @SoraLove599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Cody’s hair.....ugh

    • @juliemitchell6037
      @juliemitchell6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Karen O 😂😂😂😂 I hate it when men do a comb over or the long hair thing he's doing!! Why is it when people suffer hair loss what hair does grow always looks corse and unruly??

    • @michellemcmahon3918
      @michellemcmahon3918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At least he doesn’t have his man bun

    • @AbsoluteMiniacGena
      @AbsoluteMiniacGena 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soon be bald 👨🏼‍🦲 😂

    • @AbsoluteMiniacGena
      @AbsoluteMiniacGena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chelle _1994 omg yes, than man bun was horrendous

    • @vigilant456
      @vigilant456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh!

  • @maryannedelaney
    @maryannedelaney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Polygamy is illegal in the United States. The fact that they are so open about it and the authorities ignore it is wrong.

    • @actuallyNo...
      @actuallyNo... 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mary-Anne Delaney , I'm almost sure it's legal in Nevada.

    • @mrs.newton7472
      @mrs.newton7472 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They aren’t hurting anyone let them live their life style they are adults they made the choice

    • @megwyn1611
      @megwyn1611 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess cause only Cody and Robyn are legally married

  • @jacklynazure689
    @jacklynazure689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Knowing what has gone in the Brown family with Christine leaving Kody, the parentification of some of the children etc., the facade they show of a happy, united family in this interview is unbelievable🤔

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe they did have happy moments in Vegas bc Robyn could only have so much control. But after the Flagstaff move she got her daggers 🗡 in and monitored kodys EVERY move and began making him alienate his children

  • @AbsoluteMiniacGena
    @AbsoluteMiniacGena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Robyn there saying why ‘they’ did the show.... erm before she was even on the scene!
    Anyone notice how Robyn is always the gob on legs? I cannot stand her ‘yes kody, no kody...three bags full Kody ‘

  • @barbaraghylin1594
    @barbaraghylin1594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been watching this show for quite sometime. I have learned a lot. Thank you Brown Family

  • @kimkincaid5667
    @kimkincaid5667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kody turns my stomach and I feel like he is very unfair to Meri. Seems like he discarded her after she was caught up in a situation she shouldn’t have been in, but he was married to three other women because apparently he needed more attention and affection too. Hmmm, maybe he should have been the outcast long ago.

  • @melaniefowler8841
    @melaniefowler8841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Messed up on so many levels. Why are these hosts fawning over them and attempting to normalize something so inherently unhealthy

  • @Secular-Serenity
    @Secular-Serenity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Theirs lives, their choice. I’m not into that lifestyle but applaud them for being themselves.

  • @latriciahardy4286
    @latriciahardy4286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love this family. Very different, but loving family. There children have so much love around them., they will never feel lonely.

  • @skoolie_life3261
    @skoolie_life3261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Out of all, I have the most respect for Janelle. She's so laid back, smart and sweet. Christine has grown on me. She seems happier these days. More full of life. Meri is a lot to take. She's really emotional all the time, and seems like she may suffer from depression. Robyn has never grown on me. I'm sure she's a nice woman, but she just seems to do her own thing with Cody. Janelle is my fave.

    • @jeriwest6371
      @jeriwest6371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't like Cody either. I can't see him envoled as much with the kids like the wife's do. He's hard to take.put a bag over his face then maybe I could listen to what he says. His expressions don't seem serious to me.

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @chantalseguin5024
    @chantalseguin5024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    if you are happy, not hurting anyone. heck go nuts . have fun and be happy

  • @girlnextdoor7
    @girlnextdoor7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No it just doesn‘t work. No need to sugarcoat it.

    • @melaniefowler8841
      @melaniefowler8841 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's working for Joe dargers family!! But they all live in 1 house and show affection openly

  • @shellygettings4871
    @shellygettings4871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I adore this family. Yes, even Cody. I am not LDS, but this show has really opened my mind. I do feel like Meri needs to walk away at this point.

  • @Benyikoko
    @Benyikoko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could actually see myself doing something like this I'm totally not hating on them I'm just congratulating them

  • @jillygirl2024
    @jillygirl2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Meri doesn't look good-looking she used to be so relaxed looking & happy
    YEAH Cody is ugh

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I find her pretty. Especially her eyes.

  • @freidakane8935
    @freidakane8935 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My late dads got 5 wives and I call everyone my moms..best;)

  • @silvisimaschaparra5969
    @silvisimaschaparra5969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Polygamy is so fascinating but not new by any means

  • @juliannemcculloch7529
    @juliannemcculloch7529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So Robin is really the only wife

  • @angiegreen6366
    @angiegreen6366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What ghastly hair Cody’s got

  • @1950Dara
    @1950Dara ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet you'd be crazy when they go back and watch this rerun this is deplorable how creepy yeah we're cool sharing one guy

  • @mrandmrssmith20
    @mrandmrssmith20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    really respect everything about your family values. Poligamy is not for everyone but you have dispelled the strange ideas some people havee abou plural marriage . Very brave to go public

  • @bakedvegan6379
    @bakedvegan6379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love them! I’ve been watching them from the beginning

  • @sylviarosario6503
    @sylviarosario6503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoy this show because no ones holding anyone hostage everyone is out in the open. It’s not a life for me but to each it’s own.

  • @isiahscars5799
    @isiahscars5799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think if we have the choice to be gay stright or even transgender that why not have 4 wives or 4 husbands if thats the life style u want why not

    • @lauren4327
      @lauren4327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lacey White it’s not a choice to be gay or straight though.

    • @norml6874
      @norml6874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lauren Akers if you ask a Mormon it sure is.

    • @Zinky16
      @Zinky16 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arieleth at the end of the day they’re all adults and doesn’t matter if you think they’re indoctrinated or not. With lgbt getting rights this type of stuff is definitely next.

  • @thebluevelvetriver
    @thebluevelvetriver 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Robin what's happened girl? I'm sure it is humbling to no longer be the cute young thing who got the majority of Kody's time and attention.

    • @rosequeen2461
      @rosequeen2461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She’s had like 2 kids now on top of the 3 she already had so she’s a mom of 5. Must be taxing and she’s not 29 like she was in 2011 she’s what 36?

    • @rosequeen2461
      @rosequeen2461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the blue velvet River kody also looks about 50 now wow awful

    • @blank3115
      @blank3115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s eating the brown carb diet.

    • @donaldbennett8869
      @donaldbennett8869 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rose Queen l”

    • @ashleylynn5609
      @ashleylynn5609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She didn’t age well either...36 is still young but her skin doesn’t look good.

  • @iRockCurlsNPearls
    @iRockCurlsNPearls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to give Mary a makeover. She’s pretty but that thick black eye liner is killing me!!!

  • @leeannnelson1612
    @leeannnelson1612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Totally weird really sorry resembles a modern day cult

  • @l.myhanhbarden7290
    @l.myhanhbarden7290 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t agree with the religion or polygamy....I also will not make anyone’s life harder or be hateful. They seem to be lovely people and may god continue to bless them and their children.♥️

  • @ivetaf3855
    @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    In the Beginning it was meant to be one wife for one man . ...Jesus did confirm that in the New Testament , too . Only men changed that and it caused much trouble . ..as you can learn from the Bible ! !!

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      God allowed them to do it. Every polygamy family had issues cause of the polygamy. There was even a time where there werent enuff men and women wanted polygamy for protection and covering. It didnt work out either

    • @steppy3736
      @steppy3736 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a fantastic book called "Tell It All The Story of a Life in Mormonism" by Fanny Stenhouse. (It's free on Amazon Kindle) She explains that the in the beginning, polygamy wasn't originally part of their belief system. That actually came as a surprise to many followers.

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men in the Bible were polygamous

  • @joannemurphy6957
    @joannemurphy6957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kody get a haircut !

  • @IslandRN1970
    @IslandRN1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Girls, run a mile. And then, keep going. Kody thinks his woman curly girl bangs hide the fact he is going bald. He is just gross.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He must have some kind of charisma. I mean 4 women chose him. 🙄

  • @nearlythenewswithvicki9289
    @nearlythenewswithvicki9289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kody is so gross

  • @shirleyk9484
    @shirleyk9484 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This interview has aged horribly, knowing what we know now

  • @judyruff6260
    @judyruff6260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These people are just sick. Meri is so over this mess and Cody is a creep. Christine so wants to be number one and Janelle is so not very pretty and Robyn is stabbing them all in the back.

  • @LibraLeo325
    @LibraLeo325 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is Meri seriously denying that polygamy isn’t abusive towards women and children? Wow! Such lies

  • @Lostinmyhead23
    @Lostinmyhead23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want 5 husbands one from each race. Black, white,Asian, native and Latino

  • @vickywells
    @vickywells 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where's the show about women with more than one husband .lol

  • @leislsnedden751
    @leislsnedden751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What has happened to codys hair omg

    • @denisekinzle1672
      @denisekinzle1672 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He s looks more like women than wives.

  • @ToulaOFilos
    @ToulaOFilos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A TV show doesn't make it right! They are all screwed up!

  • @yenyerita
    @yenyerita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not even one of those kids adopted the polyganist style... wonder why 💀

  • @alexanp4225
    @alexanp4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Christine saying they get together for holidays and birthdays😂🤔 I know w that many kids that’s often, but cmon these kids and moms all have different schedules and they don’t get their father to be around half as much as he should. Just so bizarre

  • @barbiekyzar5192
    @barbiekyzar5192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job by all . Kudos to Kelly and Ben. Great job !

  • @rosen.3149
    @rosen.3149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Run meri run!!

  • @bettywith2girls
    @bettywith2girls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's amazing that they are still intact as a family...that all the wives are still there. That's actually pretty impressive, and they get along so well. I know that they are putting their best foot forward in this interview, but you would still be able to see if they didn't get along.

  • @bacaworld7095
    @bacaworld7095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so gross, all they have done is prove this lifestyle doesn’t work.

  • @diannaellis7739
    @diannaellis7739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love Kelly and ben. But those people are nuts lol

  • @kawaii_pineapple123oop-7
    @kawaii_pineapple123oop-7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate the fact that they approve of their living ways but lash out against the FLDS of Warren Jeffs

    • @marylandsworld3428
      @marylandsworld3428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well one involves child abuse, rape, arranged marriage so yea

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      Um bc THEY are NOTHING LIKE WARREN JEFFS SECT OF LDS WITH CHILD RAPE AND CHILD BRIDEZ...
      WTF

  • @trevordowney2050
    @trevordowney2050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They try to portray it as if its such a great idea but i see them crying every second scene on the trailers, looks like lots of fun many sarcasms

  • @geniferd4118
    @geniferd4118 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The lies 😂😂😂😂

  • @londonsapphire1326
    @londonsapphire1326 ปีที่แล้ว

    Robyn isn’t being truthful. Her dads second wife and kids lived in a different state.

  • @juliannemcculloch7529
    @juliannemcculloch7529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Legally and morally the other women are not his wives, like I said Robin is the only one that's actually married to the man. Well it's not against the law to have a wife and girlfriends, if that's the kind of lifestyle you want to lead. Sorry to say but the other kids are actually illegitimate. I will pray for the children, the adults know better

  • @christerry182
    @christerry182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Cody, wear the ponytail. Please..

    • @monkeynumbernine
      @monkeynumbernine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or, cut it off!

    • @rachelsewell7026
      @rachelsewell7026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chris Terry he would look way better with a complete shave

  • @karenvolpe6200
    @karenvolpe6200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have read so many comments and most of them give opinions on their looks and meaningless BS. Get over yourself

  • @laterdayz901
    @laterdayz901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like sister wives but kody watcha doin with ur hair?

  • @kevinosborne938
    @kevinosborne938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And what's up with kodys hair?? Let it go my dude... he doesn't even have any game !

  • @jamieharrison192
    @jamieharrison192 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if these women are genuinely happy here? I can’t speak for them but that’s a question I often wonder about.

  • @terrichester4683
    @terrichester4683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thought Mary left

    • @ivetaf3855
      @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As you can see....she did not . So , I think , that was fake news .

    • @isiahscars5799
      @isiahscars5799 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I

    • @ivetaf3855
      @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a Shit she believes in , sorry !

  • @kiradavis9156
    @kiradavis9156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why can't Meri get a divorce and just leave. Cody always look confused but it's fake and he really looks guilty . No Cody choose you especially at night.

    • @MandyAmsterdam
      @MandyAmsterdam 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kira Davis She’s not married to him. She divorced him so Robyn could marry him and he was able to adopt her kids from a previous marriage

    • @kiradavis9156
      @kiradavis9156 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MandyAmsterdam but why does she stay? I feel bad for her ..Cody fell out of inlove with Meri along time ago..but he seems inlove with Robyn

  • @urban_chameleon6061
    @urban_chameleon6061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meri talks a lot when during this time meri and kody were separated

  • @gwenscott535
    @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well it is mentioned all over the Bible folks (does not mean I agree, the lifestyle would not work for me)
    Concubines and wives
    A woman, often a servant or slave, with whom a man had regular sexual relations, but to whom he was not married. A concubine did not have the rights of a wife and her children were not rightful heirs, though a wife might offer a servant to her husband as a concubine to have children on her behalf.
    Concubines were distinguished from wives 1Ki 11:3 Having concubines alongside wives was accepted in a polygamous society. See also Jdg 8:30-31; 2Sa 5:13; 2Sa 19:5; 2Ch 11:21; Da 5:2-3
    Concubines were sometimes called wives Ge 16:3 Hagar was Abraham’s “wife” only in a secondary sense. See also Ge 25:1 Keturah was one of Abraham’s concubines; Jdg 19:1-4
    Concubines did not have the rights of a wife Ge 21:8-14 They were more easily dismissed; Ex 21:7-11 They did have some legal protection.
    Maidservants were given as concubines Ge 30:3-6 Bilhah’s sons would be regarded by Rachel as her own and would thus share the inheritance with Jacob’s other sons. See also Ge 30:9; Ge 16:1-2; Gal 4:22-23
    The tension between concubines and wives Ge 16:4-6 Though Abraham’s concubine, Hagar’s status was still that of servant. See also Ge 21:9; Pr 30:23; Gal 4:29
    Children born to concubines were not rightful heirs Ge 21:10-12 See also Ge 25:5-6; Jdg 9:18; Ro 9:7; Gal 4:30; Heb 11:18
    Concubines were a symbol of possession
    By taking Jacob’s concubine, Reuben laid premature claim to his father’s estate Ge 35:22 See also Ge 49:3-4; 1Ch 5:1
    Taking the concubine(s) of a king was tantamount to laying claim to the kingdom 2Sa 3:7 Abner is accused here of trying to usurp Ish-Bosheth’s inheritance. See also 2Sa 12:8; 2Sa 16:21-22; 1Ki 2:21-22
    Concubines and wives

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was for that " dispensation" we are now in the "Grace dispensation" so it no longer applies.

  • @genocash8436
    @genocash8436 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kody is like a different person here.

  • @blank3115
    @blank3115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Feminist oriented bahaha 🤣 liar!!

    • @user-ld7uj9pv8e
      @user-ld7uj9pv8e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ugh Cody is a twat.

    • @MsPink0769
      @MsPink0769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would believe that if the women could also have multiple partners and not just the men.

    • @cayk9444
      @cayk9444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah seriously, literal opposite

  • @pamgardner2718
    @pamgardner2718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your family . Ignore all the neg. Comments and keep going. Lots of us out here think what your doing is ok. Great kids !!!!

  • @ivetaf3855
    @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How can they believe that it is God ' s will to live in polygamy ? The opposite is right !! !
    But I still do like them , regardless their false believe and understanding of the Bible .

    • @ivetaf3855
      @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Shell m That is not the point here . ....the point is that they do believe in the God of the Bible and Jesus . ..and that the God of the Bible never intendet polygamy , which Jesus also confirmed . SO TELL ME : How can they believe , it is God will to live like that ?

    • @ivetaf3855
      @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Shell m
      Well , that makes two of us . But as far as the Bible is concerned I recommend the book of Lee Strobel . ....Read that first and then you can judge . And also read the book of Nabeel Qureshi . .....Seeking Allah , finding Jesus . ...both books are very interesting , logical and honest .

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 ปีที่แล้ว

      They didn't follow Bible. Mormons READ Book of Mormon

  • @tracimcmurray5244
    @tracimcmurray5244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RIP Garrison Brown.

  • @denisemincher493
    @denisemincher493 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know what these women are doing this man selfish the only one he loves is his self and I first orginal wife should not have agreed to sharing her husband but now she's feeling rejected because she hardly gets his attenction look women go find a real man that will love and stop running around pleasing this sad man find self worth

  • @ivetaf3855
    @ivetaf3855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually like them .

  • @tranquilambiance1751
    @tranquilambiance1751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Polygamy is really great if you can get past the jealousy. I actually prefer it and really struggled when my co wife needed to travel. Its easier to raise kids when you only need to worry about your husband half the time. And easier to be a great wife (along with being a mother) when u only need to half the time.
    I was a complete brat at the start. Couldn't get past my jealousy. I was such a toxic person to my own self and realise now looking back that it wasnt a healthy love that i had for my husband. But what's worse is that i didnt love myself. It was my own feelings of insecurity in my husband's love for me that made me so insanely jealous.
    Once i got past my over thinking and constant habit of creating bad scenarios in my mind, and started to truly pay attention to all the things my husband did to show me how much he loved me, the jealousy went away.
    People who have an issue with polygamy really need to look at the low success rate of marriages in current times. Societies are headed for absolute disaster. Middle aged single childless sad and lonely women is a major problem in our day and age. I also have many friends who are single mothers who would love to have the stability and security of a marriage and even prefer to be a second or third wife because they know their limitations.
    Something people dont realise is that its hardest on the husbands. Co wives constantly criticise the husband of being better to the other wife. So hes left constantly unappreciated no matter how much he does. Its also a massive responsibility to look after more that one household and so many children. Everyone needs this one man and he needs to make sure he can provide for them all. Im pretty sure i gave my husband ptsd from the early days.
    Im Muslim. Polygamy is allowed in islam. It has so many benefits and i truly see that its a blessing.
    Btw from watching this interview, and knowing the ins and outs of polygamy, i can tell that meri and robyn are the ones that seem to be struggling most. The thin blonde lady has it together, and the bigger blonde lady struggles but also manages well and is able to be constructive with her bad feelings. Maybe a bit like me. I might be wrong but its how it seems.

    • @juliemitchell6037
      @juliemitchell6037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Umm Osayd. Have you watched from the beginning? Jennel (heavier blonde) and Christine (thinner blonde). In the early days of the show but Meri wasn't very nice to them in my opinion. Maybe because she was the legal wife. I think they have found thier voice and are using it! Jenelle wife #2 I feel was really beaten down in some ways by Meri she seemed to be more interverted and quite and I think Meri took advantage of that! I'm not a polygamist but I can see the advantages to having co-wives sister wives. I wouldn't want more than one husband but I could see where the sister wife dynamic could really work with the right woman life would be easier in some ways I think you would be able to really follow your dreams and know your children were always taken care of. Whether your dreams are to conquer the world in business or business woman or to be a stay-at-home mom and raise your children I can see the benefits to it. I think the stay at home mom would really have to be a good woman to share herself involved another woman's child like they were their own I think that's the biggest problem with stepmothers some women just can't love another woman's child!

    • @tranquilambiance1751
      @tranquilambiance1751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliemitchell6037 no i havent watched this show, just a couple of clips on TH-cam.
      I can tell that meri has let polygamy wear her down. Polygamy is a great discipline for woman. U really see your true self under what u thought you were. So you think youre this kind, caring, generous, loving person. Polygamy tears down that facade and exposes whats under it. You see your selfish, angry, weak, hateful, evil side. And its either you let that side of you take over and destroy your life, or you confront it and fix the problems.
      Every woman has them, we just dont always get the chance to see and fix them. I deal with a lot of women in polygamy and its generally all the same mechanisms at work.
      Its more difficult i think for first wives to suddenly have another woman walk in. But all wives generally face the same challenges. Jealousy, insecurity, comparison, ingratitude. And it makes no difference if you are a beauty queen and your co is a cripple, youll still be jealous.
      What worked for me after about 3 years of struggling was realising that God could really send me a real test. I have 4 healthy kids, money, a house, loving husband and so much more. and i was miserable every single day because of one minor thing which was that i wasnt the one and only wife. I actually realised i was wasting my life being sad while nothing in my life was bad. Like imagine if i was lile another woman who's child was seriously ill, or died. Thats something thats truly upsetting. But i was wasting happy and easy times being upset about something so stupid.
      And from that day i chose to be happy.
      Me and my co each look after our own house. The benefits for me is that my husband isnt here every single day so i have a day to just focus on me and the kids. I can visit friends and have a life. Also another advantage is thst im not this crazy over obsessed wife. I learned to be loving and supportive rsther than suffocate him.
      And the best advantage is thst i actually have a husband. I could have been single and lonely like so many women are these days.

    • @cayk9444
      @cayk9444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I dont understand the argument "it makes it easier to raise children". Well yeah, having 700 wives would make it even easier, but that doesn't make it a good idea or right. Maybe instead, the husband should pull his weight and PARENT instead of just being a dictator/ financial provider, then you wouldn't "need" another wife. Two parents have always been enough in my family for every generation, and it is the way God intended. There is no reason for a second wife to "help with the children", that is the mother and the father's main responsibility and role.
      Also, just because a lot of marriages are unsuccesful i doesn't make polygamy a good idea? It means people need to put MORE work into their marriage with one another, not solve it by having sex with someone else and conveniently calling it another" wife"... . The reason people get jealous over their husband sleeping with other women is because we are supposed to! Im sure he wouldnt like you having sex with another man very much! Not to mention you can "learn to be loving and supporting" to your partner without them bringing someone else into the marriage. Sounds like him feeling "suffocated" meant more the restrictions of only have one woman. Of course it's all fine and dandy now because he has his cake and can eat it too. Also just because there are people worse off, it doesn't mean we should start settling. It doesn't mean we should expect less of our own partner and relationship because "it could be worse", that's just silly in my opinion. We have our own wants, needs, goals, and expectations REGARDLESS of who "has it worse" (or better) than us.
      I'd MUCH rather be "alone" than have a husband who doesnt value me enough to make me his one and only partner. Besides, being alone doesn't equate lonliness, you are very confused on that. Plenty of single women are fulfilled, while plenty of people in relationships are just going through the motions and actually quite lonely and unhappy. There's this dynamic of pity of single women that some married women like to play, which is ironic because as a single woman, I pity women who have settled and are too afraid to be alone to find actual happiness and fulfilment. I want more than a provider or the relief of finally being "mrs" or to simply "have a husband", I want one life partner, who wants me and only me back. I want a partnership, I don't fear being alone and I know blessings come with patience. But with that being said, I believe each to their own as long as they are consenting adults and can do as they wish, but I certainly do not personally agree with these justifications for plural marriage at all. If your best reason for plural marriage is "you actually have a husband", that just screams settling and "well better than being alone", to which i feel the exact opposite and would so much rather be alone until I want what I know I need and want.

    • @tranquilambiance1751
      @tranquilambiance1751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cayk9444 well in my situation, no one helps me with my kids. I just have more time with them because my husband has another wife.
      Men in polygamy chip in far more when it comes to their family than monogamous men. Because there is so much more that needs to be done. Its not fun and games for the husband, its a massive responsibility.
      Also dont down play men being financial providers. Its a very stressful and demanding task, with an immense amount of pressure to succeed. Failure means a lot of people needing him will be extremely disappointed.
      Polygamy isnt roses and daisies. Its hard. But having been previously married to someone who was just a terrible person, and being an only wife. Id rather be the second, 3rd, 4th wife to a good man than the only to a deadbeat.
      My marriage works. Ive grown heaps and learned loads about myself throughout this journey. And i have been able to help many other women struggling to come to terms with it in their own lives.
      Happiness at the end of the doesnt depend on anyone or anything. It is entirely dependent on an individuals perception. Often times women hang it on the necks of their husband and become extremely co dependent. Im blessed that ive learned not to be that way and its polygamy that taught me.

    • @cayk9444
      @cayk9444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tranquilambiance1751
      Well each to their own, I just personally don't agree at all. I'm not sure how accurate polygamous men "chipping in more" when it comes to the family is. I'm glad that is the case in your house though, but I've heard the women tend to have the brunt of the parenting and responsibilites (other than finances), since the men are sole providers. I am absolutely not downplaying the stress of being a provider, but my point is that i think a husband should be so more than a provider, he is a partner. He is my life partner, and I am his. While I am certainly sad to hear about your past relationships, that has nothing to do with monogamy but rather the shitty individual (and shitty individuals can come in any relationship type). But I don't understand why it's a terrible abusive ex OR polygamy. Its not an all or nothing. There are plenty of wonderful, loving men that are looking for one woman, but sometimes blessings come with patience. I'd also have to disagree with the "clingyness" comment. While I agree that some women (and lets not forget some men), can be clingy, this is not a matter of adding more people into a relationship so you can like get used to your husband sleeping with other women and be forced to be less jealous, but rather a personal issue where one has to find self worth and work on their relationship with themself so that they dont feel the need to cling off a partner. If you love yourself and truly have self worth, you won't need to cling off another person. To me, it seems so contradicting to deal with jealousy by having a man love and sleep with multiple women. It seems backwards, not forwards. Issues should be dealt between the self and the partner, adding additional people is not a problem solver. I think we all deserve a man that values us and only us (plus the double standard kills me, how would he like you adding more men into the mix). There are so many guys out there, I'd have no interest in going for a guy that doesn't think my love and only my love is enough. I want my daughters to go for a loving, caring, hard working monogamous man that values her and recognizes her worth. If I, myself, am not enough for a man I am with, then he's not the one for me, no matter how great he is in other respects. To me, having no man js better than having a man that falls short of the things I know deep down I deserve, even if he seems great. But still, I say each to their own as long as no one is being hurt and it is consensual. It's interesting because the way you pity and dont understand single people is kind of the way I pity and cant understand polygamous women.

  • @nancylarson7494
    @nancylarson7494 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Robin wasn't part of the family when it was first done.

  • @danielaanghel2643
    @danielaanghel2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    C’mone ... you Could all Find something so much better! Stop letting this awfull MAN taking advantage of you!
    You are not sister wifes! You get together on Christmas and special ocasion only! You are not sisters! You are just wifes ( or mistresses ) of the same MAN.

  • @hideyourkidsnwife
    @hideyourkidsnwife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude is so nasty. Cannot believe he can attract 1 women, much less 4.

  • @WarandFlame
    @WarandFlame 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How does polygamy benefit women at all?

  • @juliannemcculloch7529
    @juliannemcculloch7529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Isn't it against polygamy laws for the kids to only have one wife or when husband isn't there a double standard there, I think so Plus isn't it a sin for the kids not to have more than one wife, also isn't it a sin to be gay? You can't just make up all these different rules

  • @juliafuentealba50
    @juliafuentealba50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yes Cody turn my stomach, those women want to make him think he is strong and powerfull, if they want to share well it is their problem, he is just a man........... :(

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well theyre good at that illusion.

  • @debbiethompson1697
    @debbiethompson1697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Cody long hippy hair is discusting

  • @carmenarroyo9235
    @carmenarroyo9235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He only wants Robin!

  • @LovinLife-pv7op
    @LovinLife-pv7op 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All together, how many bankruptcies have they had? Isn't that truly why polyg is illegal, all the families except the legally married couple of record, all the rest of wives and children on state assistance?

  • @stevensatalio3868
    @stevensatalio3868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good goin Meri. Turns out you're the only smart one. You have been (as far as I'm concerned) put last in line, a waitress for Kody, too nice, too understanding, etc.etc. You guys talk about jealousy like it's a head cold, give me a break. Big deal, you're second, third and fourth in line and Kody has made it clear he prefers Robyn over all of you. She (Robyn) got the real marriage certificate while the rest of you got hand me downs. I would have split and left like you did. Congratulations on getting what you want and need for you. You deserve the B&B and anything else that comes your way, including your choice of a man or men. Good luck and Best Wishes, you earned it. One last question (you don't have to answer if you prefer not to). Did you get any compensation from Kody or anyone else after leaving, or did he just say, "well we weren't married, as far as it goes I only have one legal wife, Robyn," That seems like something he would say. So is the show over and we can say Adios? Well, it was an interesting biography. Maybe, you should do a show about how well you are doing, business, family, love life, how your daughter is doing? That would be a fun show to watch, better than all this political baloney. Anyway, long life, happy life, and have fun.

  • @saved63lg
    @saved63lg ปีที่แล้ว

    How was Robyn in hiding? Her dad's other wife lived in another state.

  • @Ann-mz1ie
    @Ann-mz1ie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This life style is not normal and it’s not Godly and I will never accept it!

    • @happyfallen6434
      @happyfallen6434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who decides what is normal? And who fucking cares whether or not you will not accept it. Lulz