People romanticising antisocial behaviour and standoffish elitist approaches to human interactions as signs of great intelligence is kind of sad. It’s good to treat others with kindness and attentiveness.
yeah, well, some armies are more well equipped than others, and much larger 'defense budgets', so I still root for the small ones. They can take off work for months to deal with personal issues no problem, not so for normal folks, so I save my energy for the normal folks.
Problem is many people continue talking when you are trying to escape the situation. Small talk just to pass the time is wasted time. Could always do something better...
People who can get along with anybody, make them feel special and seen have a unique opportunity and special power. So don't knock down small talk because I'd wish I had the knack for it
On the business side, making deals relies on having a poker face so seeming aloof and uninterested was considered an advantage. I hope that changes with more diversity in the field though since not everybody operates that way. You can be strategic and successful without being an awkward jerk
It's an incredible gift, I agree...and I hate not liking small talk, because it's a very useful skill, especially in business. Because sometimes people don't want to talk about all the big issues of the day: THAT is what is oftentimes actually the boring conversations.
Idk i mean I love small talk, its like a social mint, also I dont wanna know about ur childhood trauma mf I just met you people thinking were in Richard Linklater film or some shit
People really think that not liking small talk makes you smart. As if being able to communicate with other people is somehow a negative? Edit: thanks for 1.9k likes, we successfully gathered all the men with 0 social skills under this comment.
Look up “are smarter people less social” it’s a well documented fact that intelligent people avoid social interactions more than the average. Small talk is like the lowest form of social interaction… not liking small talk doesn’t make you smart, being smart makes you dislike small talk.
Yall should define smart or intelligent. Having social skills is also part of cognitive capability. But yes if one would have a chance to talk to a very interesting person like elon musk why waste breath and time on small talk.
Doesn't apply to the ULTRA WEALTHY. You do what you want or pay someone to do it for you. Anything literally means *anything* when you're that rich. You want a new 0rgan? No problem! Have a sudden urge to fly halfway round the world for a slice of pizza at 3am? *Done!* Some "not protected" threatens you? *Gone!* Unfortunately, none of that power or wealth will help them when they meet their Maker.
What I'd hate about being married to someone who's very famous & admired is all the social events you're expected to attend AND the lack of privacy. I couldn't live that kind of life. I love being private, free & being a homebody; that's luxury to me.
I’m bad at small talk. It’s always talking about the same superficial stuff, and I’m blaming it on my inability to make people comfortable enough to have a more genuine connection.
This is how I feel about myself, too. Sometimes I think it is a self fulfilling prophecy at a certain point. You worry about your inability to communicate and it disables you in the moment. I have been trying to go a little easier on myself and try to focus on asking questions that allow people to talk about themselves and then I try to just listen, maybe ask specific questions for clarity or to allow them to elaborate further. People generally like talking about themselves, lol!
Practice in the mirror, do a deep dive about it, fake it till you make it, pretend that you're an actor in a performance..nobody knows if you're feeling funky unless you tell them. Xx
I think being able to make small talk is actually genius, if you can talk to anyone about anything that is a great skill and to some it just comes naturally. The power of conversation is amazing.
I don't. I am Asperger and I tried to be social and it was a vicious cyrcle. Now I try to be more logical than social and I support Musk 100%. Without special training in the childhood we autistic people cannot be social in the long run. It's just who we are.
@@romanpabianczyk8870Maybe it would be easier with other people on the spectrum? Honestly I often feel like direct, clear cut communication is just better in every way anyways. All these social games often feel ill spirited, and not "social" at all
This LADY has got CLASS are you well???? Best thing that ever happened to that man his, sick seriously SICK! Grimes a child, !!!Artistic and extremely weird!
Small talk by actively participating and engaging with the other person can be very entertaining and help you get a feel of the personality of whoever you’re speaking with. It’s a good segue into deeper conversation without just trying to go straight into opening a random unexpected topic with someone you’ve barely said anything to lmao, I’ve only seen someone do that a couple times and they make it awkward asf
@@cm9241 Idk I think most of us who are awkward at socializing get _particularly_ hurt by small talk though because talking overall is painful, but when you can’t even be deeply distracted by the subject, you then become even more anxious on what you’re suppose to talk, how you’re gonna talk, what someone is thinking about you right now, instead of only focusing on the conversation - that the cooler it is the more you forget you loathe to be there. Saying that this is a huge problem, not something to brag about indeed (wich I doubt many do it because they think is genuinely cool but because they’re insecure and want others to think they’re not as uncool - or even make someone as uncomfortable as them)
@@jordachejordan90 not really dude... I mean just like you probably have the same opinion towards a bunch of these same rich elites in similar positions he probably has it too
Asperger people don't like small talk because they don't understand meaning of it. Some details of human interaction don't exist for them. It's hard to explain what small talk is to human like that. Like explaining colors to colorblind.
Small talk is something you can learn, esp since Elon is a public figure. Even if you don't talk and just listen, you should still be polite whether you have Asperger's or not.
Small talk always seemed like the way to get to big talk. Terrible at it so rarely got to big talk with many people unless we were drinking. Maybe the people I eventually did get to big talk with were people like me who also hated small talk but figured it out to get to big talk. Hard to understand how anyone could like small talk outside of flirting.
@@Yellow-Rose yes you can learn small talk and you will know what to say but you can not "feel it" if you're brain is on asperger spectrum. You will always think it's stupid. Sometimes feel superior to normal humans because of it. Feelings of superiority is also common for asperger especially children 🙂
It is nice to see no one is dissing Talulah or saying she was after his money. Her father is Doug Milburn and Talulah came from an affluent family anyway.
Elon was her classmate when they were sweethearts at high school. She was married and had six kids with Elon before he founded his first company. Just read her story or listen to her interviews.
And why is she sharing her thoughts that “he probably just didn’t like you” and that she then texts him - doesn’t put her in a good light to gloat about this, her comment says more about her than him
Gloat about what? She's sharing how people love to make positive assumptions about others just because they fame wealth and status. When did she ever gloat bud?
So then, what clearly happened? Jesus could still save this relationship! If you still want it and still value each other. Call upon the Lord, in Jesus' name. ❤
@@angelwings7930 didn't say there was anything wrong with it. I said let's of people detest it. It's pointless blather. Nobody cares about the weather. Nobody cares "how you're doing" and they don't even pretend to. So, why not actually talk to people instead of just saying words. That is my preference. You do you, though.
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Polite, superficial talk has its place. No need to launch into personal or other things when you don’t know the person well, and often situations call for surface talk although it doesn’t have to be about the weather. Even with light chat you can find out you’ve got something in common with whoever you’re talking to. That can lead to spending more time with them. Etc.
"The great thing about being famous is that when you sit next to somebody you don't know at a dinner party, they think the bad conversation is their fault."
People need to chill in the comment section. Elon is Elon, he will not change. Yeah it’s great to treat people with kindness and listen to them, but some people are bad at it or don’t like it and that is just fine. Being a good communicator and a caring person overall is a good trait and very charming but being antisocial and not liking to talk to people or not feeling the responsibility to make them feel better about themselves is just as fine. Let people be
You probably don’t mean antisocial. That’s something you find in narcissists, sociopaths, etc. I think you mean asocial. Also, it’s not about Elon’s social disposition. It’s about his attitude. The giveaway is that the first thing he says about them is “boring.” I have similar experiences when I go out, but I try to start off by recalling something nice about a person.
@@notinavacuum5966 you said it yourself : "i try" , that's YOU not him . Maybe being a man with aspenger that can make an engine by himself , and who can turn a 8 million bussiness into a 200 Billion industry in just 15 years... means being someone who sees most people as boring , or not being able to find much nicer things about the celebrities and politicians he usually meets
@@wakeyskate the Pretoria engineer contest in the 90's were he build two 1200cc H4 engines for a Volkswagen Beetle . And he was like 19 back then . He talks about it in many Podcasts
Try going to a hundred of these dinners and trying to remember exactly where every famous ass sat.... Lol, That's kind of the point, these "interesting", rare people just become the normal boring background.
When he's been near bankruptcy too he knows the right wealthy people who bail him out. Most of us just lose it all. If he sleeps in his car, he chose it.
I am great in small talk! I can have a good convo with complete stranger. Small talk is like pre heating the oven. It seems silly, but talking about the weather always works, bc all people feel weather
@@voodoodolll it’s okay to think smalltalk is worthless. But I see people genuinely smiling and be grateful for a conversation. It’s often the first step. I talked with strangers in the train and in the end we were crying. You can’t imagine how much people share and talk about when you are willing to take the time.
@Jessgrma living in south west Germany. The wether is horrible!!! It’s snowing, it rains in every form, it’s windy af, it’s freezing cold. I’m done, I need spring, I’m craving for vitamin D. How is the wether where you live?
@Jessgrma I got a prescription for vitamin D too 😄 probably because I’m black. Oh, I heard from the crazy cold weather in California. That’s horrible. Extreme weather is more and more the reality
She doesn't look ok and it's weird i feel she is still attached to him in a painful way, not so much as his first wife though. It's as if he is the male correspondent of a femme fatale that destroys the best men among best men. He is a sort of accomplished man that is the dream partner in the eyes of some women, he chooses the best women out of the best (nice character smart elegant proffesionally accomplished famous beautiful educated aso) but is capable of emotionally detaching from the relationship at the speed of light. So MAYBE these women didn't even get the chance of even realizing what happened when the relationship ended or why and are still aching. I have a sense that he is an all accomplished person that falls deeply in love and quickly out of love and he has amazing resources to move on and mind what is so much more important in life than looong life long romantic relationships that need constant effort and emphathy and generosity and kindness and self sacrifice to last, most important things which are his dreams, his succes and his children. It's as if a woman just got the so called best man only to see him vanish just like sand falling through your fingers, never behaving like other men who try at least to invest some sort of efforts to make things better, but he is ok to just not waste his energy and move on. Am i making sense, is there any truth in what i just said, or is it my imagination gone too far?!?! Bc i really don't know any of these people, yet i feel strongly my points are highly possible, though i have no proof for that!
@marekjanko8047 That's exactly the vibe i have gotten from all of his ex girlfriend's except for Amber Heard. Ofher then her they all seem still attached
Eh, she seems to be doing alright for herself and she still texts her ex to whine anout wokeness on twitter or whatever it's called now. Can't say i feel too bad for her.
@@georginaellison6280it's not,not true though I've had multiple women almost lose there ish because they couldn't sit in silence there brain had to make up some offense that I or someone else has against them not all but most ppl I've meet who act like that are women.
Its extremely hard to date someone with antisocial syndrome. They act extra unkind and you can not find a middle ground with them when it comes to making a decision. They dont change their mind at all and raising kids with them is the hardest of all. They will disowns a child like discarding a bad coffee if they happened to be anything less than what they expected.
Most individuals dislike small talk. Elon isn't an anomaly. Besides he can actively-afford to show disdain for "small talk", whilst most people cannot.😊🥰
Small talk is a bit of an art form, but one must exercise great patience with it. It truly is mostly boring. It isn't the small talk or boring conversation that irks me. Shallowness of character and lack of basic human decency are unacceptable to me. Wealth, power, attractiveness, talent all tend to attract people on a very surface level. High intelligence is intriguing. Heartlessness and shallowness repel. I never did like shallow people very well, regardless of how much money or power they had. People pay attention to Elon more than they did before because of wealth accrued ... partially. They usually want his money, or to have their moment of "fame" with him. That's shallow AND transparent to him too. Be real. It beats being surface friendly. It beets shallow and insincere every single time. If someone like Elon has interest in you, he would seek you out and approach you personally after asking associates to seek you out first. Seriously. Tallulah knows this, as do other friends and associates.
Precisely, just look at Andrew Tate. He is rich, too many view him as a genius when in reality he's just too full of himself. There are some takes I agree with but at the end of the day he is completely deranged.
I'm not rich, neither am I very kind towards small group of people I interact with. I think we should look at ourselves and not judge someone we know nothing personally about.
He also dislikes dodging subpoenas and being a good person. Mostly he is a immature dude throwing tantrums. We can watch it in real time on twitter atm. Insane that people think he is actually smart.
You realise people can be smart, and also lack emotional intelligence? Most actual geniuses and high IQ People have low EQs. Couldn't tell you if Elon Musk is any of that, all I've heard is he's autistic so the way he acts isn't surprising at all, unless you don't know anything about autism lmao
Insane that people think he is actually smart?? Lol..that's the dumbest thing I've heard in like....ever. Your green is showing, get over it and move on...
I ALSO FIND PEOPLE BORING HES JUST LIKE ME! LET THAT *SINK* IN ABAHAHABAHAHAHAHAHHAA HES SOOOO FUNNY FUNNIEST BILLIONAIRE OUT THERE THATS FOR SURE AHAHAHAH JUST LIKE ME IM ALSO SMART
She has been in many movies and Popular TV series. She is a very good actress. I love her in everything she has done especially a Miss Marple episode where she played a main character. She was lovely in Pride and Prejudice.
I have this in common with Elon but my problem is that I'm convinced that it's me that's the boring one. I have no idea how to entertain small talk and enjoy it
You understand social norms 💜 It's ok to not be good at it. At least you recognize it and don't blame other people. Small talk is part of social norms and is a skill that contributes to developing bonds ie. trust/respect.
@@solomon9853 They’re literally trying to find anything to hate on him for. They hate on him because he came from money. Seriously? Did he choose to be born in a family that has has an emerald mine? He benefitted from that wealth. Now he is the richest man in the world. People need to stop acting like it’s a crime to be born in a family with money. People are just insecure. The heck?
This is his ex wife who married him because he was rich. She is not the best judge of character. If everyones ex was right about them, then they either a) are just as bad because they married them or b) are wrong about them and thats why they divorced.
A lot of people are saying he’s not kind…well, being kind doesn’t mean he needs to be fake. Doing good for humanity and charity work is being kind, small talk is just fake nice. Being kind to people energize you, being fake drains your energy.
All the people in here grandstanding about how rude this is or how bad this is probably do this same shit and think the same judgmental things about people they don’t care about every single day.
Elon is very nice to listen to , very insightful person . He is just not one of the "look at my money" type of people, he likes achievements , inspired the next generation to be ambitious & work hard ! He is way nicer than all the corporate elites he got crammed with , he is a force of positive change & a source of hope for struggling Americans . Elon leads & doesn't waste time in champagne parties !
She seems really heartbroken not to be with him anymore. And as the mother of so many of his children, with all she went through, he should not have left her. She is beautiful and utterly lovely. So warm, she looks like an angel. He seems to be obsessed with having as many children as possible.
@@creamy3803 He’s not that bright either if he is interfering in American Democracy and donated $75 million to racist Drumpf, when he himself claims to have left South Africa in part to avoid racism. No one who supports Drumpf has all their lights on upstairs.
@@creamy3803 He’s not that bright either if he is interfering in American Democracy and Sovereignty, and gave $75 million to racist Drumpf, when he himself claims to have left South Africa in part to escape racism. No one who supports Drumpf has all their lights on upstairs. Too much Amber Heard must have rattled his brains or given him syphillus. Besides, no intelligence dictates to abandon the mother of your children, whatever the cause may be; because intelligent people know that all children need their mother and a child’s well-being - especially your children’s - is more important than any egoism, whim or desire of your grown up ass.
All you people acting like you're so morally above Elon. But I bet you all the money in the world that all of you would change places with him IMMEDIATELY if given the chance. I know I would
what's wrong with Grimes?? It saddens me that so many know her only as Elons ex. She's a legit artist, just as she was years before she got involved with Musk
I've always liked Grimes. She had a career before musk and has some cool interests. I'd be friends or at least have a good conversation with her even if she didn't know Elon.
Eh... you probably will not care. Nevertheless, Grimes seems genuinely intelligent and nice. She's f*cking weird, but I saw her in an interview with a guy that looks like the Arctic Monkeys singer and she was very, very cool. Everything she said were straight up facts. So no need to insult her. The amazing thing is how they both ended up married to someone like him, who seems... eh, overhyped.
Elon loves Joe Rogan though. Those two get along like old high-school buddies. Elon's done Rogan's podcast like 5 times already and they laugh and cut up and smoke weed and talk about everything in the world
People romanticising antisocial behaviour and standoffish elitist approaches to human interactions as signs of great intelligence is kind of sad. It’s good to treat others with kindness and attentiveness.
No it’s cause he has autism
He’s autistic - Asperger’s
Nah not when they don't deserve it
Almost about every human you encounter deserves love and respect. This sort of elitism is lonely and miserable
@@timdeathly if they are a stranger they deserve it
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"
- Socrates.
yeah, well, some armies are more well equipped than others, and much larger 'defense budgets', so I still root for the small ones. They can take off work for months to deal with personal issues no problem, not so for normal folks, so I save my energy for the normal folks.
I don't think Socrates said that
A very good quote indeed but I don’t think Socrates said this. It sounds a bit more modern
Be kind because you all will die
Problem is many people continue talking when you are trying to escape the situation. Small talk just to pass the time is wasted time. Could always do something better...
People who can get along with anybody, make them feel special and seen have a unique opportunity and special power. So don't knock down small talk because I'd wish I had the knack for it
Like shahrukh khan
Bla bla
On the business side, making deals relies on having a poker face so seeming aloof and uninterested was considered an advantage. I hope that changes with more diversity in the field though since not everybody operates that way. You can be strategic and successful without being an awkward jerk
It's an incredible gift, I agree...and I hate not liking small talk, because it's a very useful skill, especially in business. Because sometimes people don't want to talk about all the big issues of the day: THAT is what is oftentimes actually the boring conversations.
Idk i mean I love small talk, its like a social mint, also I dont wanna know about ur childhood trauma mf I just met you people thinking were in Richard Linklater film or some shit
Just being kind and humble is what makes us human.
Musk disowned his daughter for being twans.
Got twelve kids and sleeps in the office.
Maybe we disagree about what kind means.
not to mention, successful people usually have charisma, especially salesman & entertainers
Humans are arrogant and scum. My pet pup is far more humble and kind.
Some people don’t get distracted because they are snobby. It is out of their control.
I did not understand ANYTHING.
People really think that not liking small talk makes you smart. As if being able to communicate with other people is somehow a negative?
Edit: thanks for 1.9k likes, we successfully gathered all the men with 0 social skills under this comment.
Look up “are smarter people less social” it’s a well documented fact that intelligent people avoid social interactions more than the average. Small talk is like the lowest form of social interaction… not liking small talk doesn’t make you smart, being smart makes you dislike small talk.
Yall should define smart or intelligent. Having social skills is also part of cognitive capability. But yes if one would have a chance to talk to a very interesting person like elon musk why waste breath and time on small talk.
He has asbergers
@@Kickin_bears so do I, a way to ensure proper intellectual and social growth is by learning small talk
@@tirtic1756 damn okay
“If you’re bored then you’re boring” as they say
Tha agony and the irony
Yes mostly when ppl say they are bored or find something boring they need external, constant entertainment/excitement via others.
Unfortunately, that is me. Im always bored and Im the most boring person.
@@madj7152 Haha!
I'd rather be a boring billionaire than a cheerful middle class 9-5 worker anyday
"Poor people are crazy Jack. I'm rich. I'm eccentric."
I don't remember rose saying that in the titanic movie..
@@Emma_Soooit's because it's in the movie Speed
😂👍🇦🇺
1799.
Just have to reach the monetary threshold to flip from crazy Jack to eccentric. Same same but with different opportunities.
“Treat others the same way you want them to treat you”
Disclaimer: this comment has nothing to do with Elon-musk, nor is it politically motivated
Doesn't apply to the ULTRA WEALTHY. You do what you want or pay someone to do it for you. Anything literally means *anything* when you're that rich. You want a new 0rgan? No problem! Have a sudden urge to fly halfway round the world for a slice of pizza at 3am? *Done!* Some "not protected" threatens you? *Gone!* Unfortunately, none of that power or wealth will help them when they meet their Maker.
Lol doesn't apply to the ultra wealthy
Nobody asked, nobody cares.
@@johnwick6831is hi hi by😮 t
What I'd hate about being married to someone who's very famous & admired is all the social events you're expected to attend AND the lack of privacy. I couldn't live that kind of life. I love being private, free & being a homebody; that's luxury to me.
that is a luxury to everyone. these clowns dont understand it tho
Don't worry, you can enjoy your leisure time.
It is not that easy to become famous and be admired. It takes a lot of genius.
And write about it to millions of people. Jeez.
BORING!!👎👎….. just kidding me too
@ahatcho138 You still have sooo much to learn.
I’m bad at small talk. It’s always talking about the same superficial stuff, and I’m blaming it on my inability to make people comfortable enough to have a more genuine connection.
This is how I feel about myself, too. Sometimes I think it is a self fulfilling prophecy at a certain point. You worry about your inability to communicate and it disables you in the moment. I have been trying to go a little easier on myself and try to focus on asking questions that allow people to talk about themselves and then I try to just listen, maybe ask specific questions for clarity or to allow them to elaborate further. People generally like talking about themselves, lol!
Same
I ve given up. Unless I ve had a glass of wine it's excruciating.
You can make people feel comfortable by sharing stuff about yourself first so they feel comfortable to share about themselves
Practice in the mirror, do a deep dive about it, fake it till you make it, pretend that you're an actor in a performance..nobody knows if you're feeling funky unless you tell them. Xx
I think being able to make small talk is actually genius, if you can talk to anyone about anything that is a great skill and to some it just comes naturally. The power of conversation is amazing.
What if it just feels like a chore?
@@Ynox54321
“Why do i have to go out of my way to appear friendly and reasonable to others?”
@@bolson42 I can't figure out how your comment relates to mine
I don't. I am Asperger and I tried to be social and it was a vicious cyrcle. Now I try to be more logical than social and I support Musk 100%. Without special training in the childhood we autistic people cannot be social in the long run. It's just who we are.
@@romanpabianczyk8870Maybe it would be easier with other people on the spectrum? Honestly I often feel like direct, clear cut communication is just better in every way anyways. All these social games often feel ill spirited, and not "social" at all
I like her. She has a genuine soul .❤
Oh wow you knew her personally?
@@Alostwanderer88 gay
She‘s not very bright. 😂
I never realized the resemblance between Tallulah and Grimes until today.
Now go check Justine Musk, all 3 blonde and very similar in appearance.
she does not look like Grimes at all... but she looks like the first wife
This LADY has got CLASS are you well???? Best thing that ever happened to that man his, sick seriously SICK! Grimes a child, !!!Artistic and extremely weird!
@@hanneliemarais9565grimes is NOT artistic she’s a freak who got famous for being a freak.. who dated Elon.
Musks first & second wife look like their the same person, idk where grimes fits in there, she looks nothing like his 1st two.
Elon was so bored he found the Boring company
@Elon Musk turn around and run Elon
😂😂😂😂
Lol😅
Dude must of been bored to call a company " the boring company " 😂
Lol 😂
"Therrre gooooes mah heerohhh..
... HE'S ORD-I-NA-RYY !" 💥
Small talk isn't the problem, it depends on who you are talking to
Oh come on! Small talks are for weird introverts.
@@jamesbond4810 What makes you think you are not weird yourself
@@jamesbond4810for weird introverts? One thing most introverts have in common is they dislike smalltalk, what are you even saying lol
Small talk by actively participating and engaging with the other person can be very entertaining and help you get a feel of the personality of whoever you’re speaking with. It’s a good segue into deeper conversation without just trying to go straight into opening a random unexpected topic with someone you’ve barely said anything to lmao, I’ve only seen someone do that a couple times and they make it awkward asf
@@jamesbond4810you sound like an insecure introvert
But doesn't everyone start off with small talk ? That's how you make more of deep longer conversations.
@B H sounds toxic
No one "enjoys" small talk, but people that go out of the way to tell you how much they dislike it are usually just trying to appear "deep."
@@cm9241 Idk I think most of us who are awkward at socializing get _particularly_ hurt by small talk though because talking overall is painful, but when you can’t even be deeply distracted by the subject, you then become even more anxious on what you’re suppose to talk, how you’re gonna talk, what someone is thinking about you right now, instead of only focusing on the conversation - that the cooler it is the more you forget you loathe to be there.
Saying that this is a huge problem, not something to brag about indeed (wich I doubt many do it because they think is genuinely cool but because they’re insecure and want others to think they’re not as uncool - or even make someone as uncomfortable as them)
@@kora4185 don't like small talk don't have friends because he don't need them etc typical losers
@@kora4185 We are talking about normal people here .
GOLDEN RULE: ITS NICE TO BE IMPORTANT BUT ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO BE NICE!
Nah sounds stupid
Not if it means lying through your teeth every second of the day to give off the "impression" that you are "nice"
this is not Elon Musk
Nice😎👍
@@gr8danemom98nor is it Bill Clinton! 😂
Totally didn't realize she played Mary Bennett from Pride and Prejudice. Awesome. Mary Bennett is my favourite literary character.
She was also in st trinians! never knew she married him of all people!
I think she had regret for marrying him
Also in West world
Ahhh.that’s why she is so familiar.I also love mary benneth.I tried to find a book that has her story.😅
Not Elizabeth? Or Portia from TMOV
Silence is a form of communication
he is perfect at silence unless he wants your money
These comments are wild. Imagine bashing a man because he doesn’t like small talk😂
Right…
Exactly 😂😂not everyone goes through the world the same way.
The video seemed to show he didn't like ppl, not small talk.
@@jordachejordan90 not really dude... I mean just like you probably have the same opinion towards a bunch of these same rich elites in similar positions he probably has it too
@@HelloThere..... how is elon musk not rich and elite?
"It felt like being on a rocket."
- Best compliment Elon has ever had.
😂
He wishes she meant in the bedroom, funny one.
@@carryjgful 😂😂😂😂 do you know what white girls like tho. Black D
Haha yes!
It was the Challenger....
Asperger people don't like small talk because they don't understand meaning of it. Some details of human interaction don't exist for them. It's hard to explain what small talk is to human like that. Like explaining colors to colorblind.
Small talk is something you can learn, esp since Elon is a public figure. Even if you don't talk and just listen, you should still be polite whether you have Asperger's or not.
Small talk always seemed like the way to get to big talk. Terrible at it so rarely got to big talk with many people unless we were drinking. Maybe the people I eventually did get to big talk with were people like me who also hated small talk but figured it out to get to big talk. Hard to understand how anyone could like small talk outside of flirting.
Very true. I didn't think of that.
Small talk is inefficient, and tells you nothing of meaning about the person you’re taking to.
What is the meaning exactly? Do you even know?
@@Yellow-Rose yes you can learn small talk and you will know what to say but you can not "feel it" if you're brain is on asperger spectrum. You will always think it's stupid. Sometimes feel superior to normal humans because of it. Feelings of superiority is also common for asperger especially children 🙂
It is nice to see no one is dissing Talulah or saying she was after his money. Her father is Doug Milburn and Talulah came from an affluent family anyway.
Elon doesn't strike me as the type to date a woman who doesn't have her own money or come from money.
Elon was her classmate when they were sweethearts at high school.
She was married and had six kids with Elon before he founded his first company.
Just read her story or listen to her interviews.
@@doroparker1702this is his 2. wife
It's not very often I don't think, that rich people hang out, much less get married to, people who aren't rich
@@doroparker1702She's from South Africa?
And why is she sharing her thoughts that “he probably just didn’t like you” and that she then texts him - doesn’t put her in a good light to gloat about this, her comment says more about her than him
Agreed. I was thinking the same.
Gloat? She was just telling an anecdote about her intuition & how that later turned out to be right.
Gloat about what? She's sharing how people love to make positive assumptions about others just because they fame wealth and status. When did she ever gloat bud?
Thank You. This Was The Comment I Was Looking For.
@@justdone1068 what was she gloating about
Who else knows her from St.Trinians
WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT OMG
right! how tf
Doctor who
I know her from Westworld😍
I feel bad for them that this ended. They got married twice, there was clearly love there.
So then, what clearly happened? Jesus could still save this relationship! If you still want it and still value each other. Call upon the Lord, in Jesus' name. ❤
@@inezholmes6619 I don’t think she’s interested. Pretty sure he’s had five more kids since then with at least two women
@@RebwellAmber Heard, Grimes, and some lady he works with, which sounds incredibly unethical but ya know 🤷🏻♀️
@@AMcDub0708 amber isn’t confirmed, but makes sense
I bet they both regret splitting
Small talk is the starting point of possibly deeper conversation once you establish comfort around the person
That's not necessarily true....
It's more a personality tendency.
@@AndresPrez *possibly*
It is for women and nero typical
No, not necessarily.
For me it feels like walking a tight rope for no reason so I just avoid it
Lots of people detest small talk. Including myself!
There are times when it’s very helpful or necessary. Nothing wrong with it.
Yeah, you would probably rather talk with your cat than do any human interaction.
@@swisscheeseplease97 Actually, I'd rather talk to people about shit that actually matters.
@@angelwings7930 didn't say there was anything wrong with it. I said let's of people detest it. It's pointless blather. Nobody cares about the weather. Nobody cares "how you're doing" and they don't even pretend to. So, why not actually talk to people instead of just saying words. That is my preference. You do you, though.
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Polite, superficial talk has its place. No need to launch into personal or other things when you don’t know the person well, and often situations call for surface talk although it doesn’t have to be about the weather. Even with light chat you can find out you’ve got something in common with whoever you’re talking to. That can lead to spending more time with them. Etc.
Small talk at work is the worse I wish I could do that too.
He has no obligation to like everyone. 😊
Yes he does
@@bravebeard6225 no he doesnt.
@maninblack9271 yes he does he is a public figure
@bravebeard6225 Shut up you numpty.
@@bravebeard6225 it is not an obligation at all, regardless of the status. it applies to all of us. we have no obligation to like everyone.
I love small talk. It gives you the chance to connect with literally any human in some small way even if you have absolutely nothing in common.
Only if it leads to big talk.
But most people act stupid once you try to switch it over to big talk. Because THEY are the boring ones
@@dab0331 all your comments are about Elon musk what a simp
"The great thing about being famous is that when you sit next to somebody you don't know at a dinner party, they think the bad conversation is their fault."
Small talk is a load of bollocks. I do agree with Elon, here. There is far more important things to do and think about than meaningless conversations.
The same could be said about youtube comments.
Small talk is what gets people a lot of deals and negotiations. Its also just polite lol
People need to chill in the comment section. Elon is Elon, he will not change. Yeah it’s great to treat people with kindness and listen to them, but some people are bad at it or don’t like it and that is just fine. Being a good communicator and a caring person overall is a good trait and very charming but being antisocial and not liking to talk to people or not feeling the responsibility to make them feel better about themselves is just as fine. Let people be
Yah the comment section is total cancer, they talk like they know him personally
You probably don’t mean antisocial. That’s something you find in narcissists, sociopaths, etc. I think you mean asocial.
Also, it’s not about Elon’s social disposition. It’s about his attitude. The giveaway is that the first thing he says about them is “boring.” I have similar experiences when I go out, but I try to start off by recalling something nice about a person.
@@notinavacuum5966 you said it yourself : "i try" , that's YOU not him . Maybe being a man with aspenger that can make an engine by himself , and who can turn a 8 million bussiness into a 200 Billion industry in just 15 years... means being someone who sees most people as boring , or not being able to find much nicer things about the celebrities and politicians he usually meets
@@Dan_Kanervasorry what engine did he make himself?
@@wakeyskate the Pretoria engineer contest in the 90's were he build two 1200cc H4 engines for a Volkswagen Beetle . And he was like 19 back then . He talks about it in many Podcasts
from "nothing" lol. most of us would kill for their "nothing" 🤣
^this
She meant from nothing attention-wise to a lot of attention, there’s so much context if you pay attention. They’re talking about fame.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Different Pound Agreed.
"from nothing to everything"??? Seriously 😂😂😂😂
She was talking about herself
To be fair, SmallTalk is a pretty obscure programming language, so I can understand
Underated comment
She had me thinking if he gets that bored, what does he see in her
what *did* he see in her, they got divorced so he must've gotten bored.
😂😂😂😂
Interesting word choice. She's very cute.
So now she's an official hater of the man she once loved.
"I think I sat next to Bill Clinton."
Yeah because that's the kind of thing you'd be unsure about.
Try going to a hundred of these dinners and trying to remember exactly where every famous ass sat.... Lol, That's kind of the point, these "interesting", rare people just become the normal boring background.
He truly hates non sense chit chat ..you are amazing dear lady❤
"coming from nothing" when you inherited millions from parents educated in your field 🤣🤣🤣 hillarious
When he's been near bankruptcy too he knows the right wealthy people who bail him out. Most of us just lose it all. If he sleeps in his car, he chose it.
That's about herself
Just like Donnie. Except he still managed to go bankrupt soooooo many times.
I think she's talking about their relationship's evolution
Both his parents still alive, he inherited nothing, he actually supports them.........
She hasn't changed much
I saw a clip of the time she was with Elon. The toxicity of her talking to him and his kids was brutal.
She's Mary benett from pride and prejudice 2005!!! I've watched the clip 10 times teying to know whe she sounded familiar
@@hatersgonnalovethis chances she’s a Narc?
@@hatersgonnalovethis how so? What happened what did she say, can we see it?
@@hatersgonnalovethis she knows him better than outsider
I am great in small talk! I can have a good convo with complete stranger. Small talk is like pre heating the oven. It seems silly, but talking about the weather always works, bc all people feel weather
How vapid
@@voodoodolll it’s okay to think smalltalk is worthless. But I see people genuinely smiling and be grateful for a conversation. It’s often the first step. I talked with strangers in the train and in the end we were crying. You can’t imagine how much people share and talk about when you are willing to take the time.
Waste of time
@Jessgrma living in south west Germany. The wether is horrible!!! It’s snowing, it rains in every form, it’s windy af, it’s freezing cold. I’m done, I need spring, I’m craving for vitamin D.
How is the wether where you live?
@Jessgrma I got a prescription for vitamin D too 😄 probably because I’m black.
Oh, I heard from the crazy cold weather in California. That’s horrible.
Extreme weather is more and more the reality
Wow elons used goods aged like fine wine. I’d entertain her for a day or two 😂
Feel sorry for her, just imagine all the crap she had to put up with… still she’s ok now,
She doesn't look ok and it's weird i feel she is still attached to him in a painful way, not so much as his first wife though. It's as if he is the male correspondent of a femme fatale that destroys the best men among best men. He is a sort of accomplished man that is the dream partner in the eyes of some women, he chooses the best women out of the best (nice character smart elegant proffesionally accomplished famous beautiful educated aso) but is capable of emotionally detaching from the relationship at the speed of light. So MAYBE these women didn't even get the chance of even realizing what happened when the relationship ended or why and are still aching. I have a sense that he is an all accomplished person that falls deeply in love and quickly out of love and he has amazing resources to move on and mind what is so much more important in life than looong life long romantic relationships that need constant effort and emphathy and generosity and kindness and self sacrifice to last, most important things which are his dreams, his succes and his children. It's as if a woman just got the so called best man only to see him vanish just like sand falling through your fingers, never behaving like other men who try at least to invest some sort of efforts to make things better, but he is ok to just not waste his energy and move on. Am i making sense, is there any truth in what i just said, or is it my imagination gone too far?!?! Bc i really don't know any of these people, yet i feel strongly my points are highly possible, though i have no proof for that!
@marekjanko8047 That's exactly the vibe i have gotten from all of his ex girlfriend's except for Amber Heard. Ofher then her they all seem still attached
@@vivviee123 exactly, all except amber heard
Eh, she seems to be doing alright for herself and she still texts her ex to whine anout wokeness on twitter or whatever it's called now.
Can't say i feel too bad for her.
She's engaged to Thomas Brodie now, quite famous actor,starred in maze runner series and such
Intense personalities dislike small talk. It’s a personality trait, not a character defect.
I'm so glad you understand, thank you.
I don't like it either in fact most men i know hate it too. Whos more likely to engage in small talk. Women right
@@KD400_Misogyny anyone?🤔
@@georginaellison6280it's not,not true though I've had multiple women almost lose there ish because they couldn't sit in silence there brain had to make up some offense that I or someone else has against them not all but most ppl I've meet who act like that are women.
@@georginaellison6280How is that misogynistic
Small talk time is an incredibly powerful opportunity to learn what others think about whatever your personal agenda is.
Its extremely hard to date someone with antisocial syndrome. They act extra unkind and you can not find a middle ground with them when it comes to making a decision. They dont change their mind at all and raising kids with them is the hardest of all. They will disowns a child like discarding a bad coffee if they happened to be anything less than what they expected.
Not entirely true. I don’t like small talk or interactions. Doesn’t mean I’m unkind and always open to compromise.
@@rongarcia2128 then you are in the lower case end.
@@celebritytarotreading3545 Wow what a bold generalization you made there. Just accept the fact that everyone is wired differently, Genius. lol
@@AngelTechno I worked in that field. No need to get offended
Anyone else notice that Talulah and Grimes kinda look alike and have similar mannerisms?
"don't tell the others they'll only laugh"
"Hay, who turned out the lights"
Lmaoo
Most individuals dislike small talk. Elon isn't an anomaly. Besides he can actively-afford to show disdain for "small talk", whilst most people cannot.😊🥰
small talk is literally a basic life communication skill😭😭
Musk is on the spectrum
🎉 Thanks for your love and support❤❤. How are you doing?
Ok? What's your point?
She played as the 3rd sister in pride and prejudice (with keira knightley)
That was a great film. I didn't knew who she was until your comment
That's a special about elon musk.
Men of words, not a type of pleasing people. Goodluck elon❤❤
Small talk is a bit of an art form, but one must exercise great patience with it. It truly is mostly boring. It isn't the small talk or boring conversation that irks me. Shallowness of character and lack of basic human decency are unacceptable to me.
Wealth, power, attractiveness, talent all tend to attract people on a very surface level. High intelligence is intriguing. Heartlessness and shallowness repel. I never did like shallow people very well, regardless of how much money or power they had.
People pay attention to Elon more than they did before because of wealth accrued ... partially. They usually want his money, or to have their moment of "fame" with him. That's shallow AND transparent to him too.
Be real. It beats being surface friendly. It beets shallow and insincere every single time.
If someone like Elon has interest in you, he would seek you out and approach you personally after asking associates to seek you out first. Seriously.
Tallulah knows this, as do other friends and associates.
Илон Маск супер муж,отец,бизнесмен и будущий политик!!Они с Трампусиком лучшие👍🏼💪🏼Супер сила🇺🇸
The sad part is that people equate money with genius. They might correlate but they aren’t cause and effect
Precisely, just look at Andrew Tate. He is rich, too many view him as a genius when in reality he's just too full of himself. There are some takes I agree with but at the end of the day he is completely deranged.
Nobody does this. Nobody thinks Kardashians are geniuses.
Because most of the people are dumb
@@clothbooster
Women rarely verified as geniuses
Nobody else can replicate Elons success. Its not luck, its pure genius.
The guy just doesn't like small talk that's all.
After marrying into the fortune of one of SA’s richest mining magnates…
“From nothing…”
I think she's referring to the fame, not the money
It’s chit chat when you’re talking and the most important thing you’ll ever hear when he’s talking. Kind of like how being a cult leader works.
I'm not rich, neither am I very kind towards small group of people I interact with. I think we should look at ourselves and not judge someone we know nothing personally about.
He also dislikes dodging subpoenas and being a good person.
Mostly he is a immature dude throwing tantrums. We can watch it in real time on twitter atm. Insane that people think he is actually smart.
You realise people can be smart, and also lack emotional intelligence?
Most actual geniuses and high IQ People have low EQs.
Couldn't tell you if Elon Musk is any of that, all I've heard is he's autistic so the way he acts isn't surprising at all, unless you don't know anything about autism lmao
Insane that people think he is actually smart?? Lol..that's the dumbest thing I've heard in like....ever.
Your green is showing, get over it and move on...
OH MY GOD ELON YOURE SO RELATABLE LET ME WORSHIP YOU
I ALSO FIND PEOPLE BORING HES JUST LIKE ME! LET THAT *SINK* IN ABAHAHABAHAHAHAHAHHAA HES SOOOO FUNNY FUNNIEST BILLIONAIRE OUT THERE THATS FOR SURE AHAHAHAH JUST LIKE ME IM ALSO SMART
Omg elon, crazy billionaire, lets form a religion and hate him.
@@feedyourhead434 leftist malding
@@feedyourhead434 wtf
OMG HE TALKS TOO... THAT'S SO RELATABLE! I ALSO USE MY MOUTH TO FORM WORDS...ELON IS A GENIUS! IT'S GAME OVER!!
She has been in many movies and Popular TV series. She is a very good actress. I love her in everything she has done especially a Miss Marple episode where she played a main character. She was lovely in Pride and Prejudice.
I have this in common with Elon but my problem is that I'm convinced that it's me that's the boring one. I have no idea how to entertain small talk and enjoy it
You understand social norms 💜 It's ok to not be good at it. At least you recognize it and don't blame other people. Small talk is part of social norms and is a skill that contributes to developing bonds ie. trust/respect.
You're not alone, I suck at small talk too that's why I hate it. Lol!
A lady who didn’t want to take care of his kids , taking his money and complaining on national tv ,what a world that lack decency
😂😂she is almost the female version os Elon
Almost
Elon wants to stay away from her and he is a super selfish guy
Were these children hers too?
My cousin's husband said Elon tried to hire him and he was stupid
Great people discuss solutions, average people talk issues, lower people complain. Elon is perfect.
It's quite standard for narcissists to only care about what they want to talk about and show no interest or curiosity in others.
So you like faking
or introverts. But y'all just prefer to whine
@@solomon9853 Exactly. These comments are weird. Imagine bashing a man because he doesn’t like small talk LMAO.
@@Stellalovely1 true. They're just a bunch of losers looking for anything to use to demean the dude.
@@solomon9853 They’re literally trying to find anything to hate on him for. They hate on him because he came from money. Seriously? Did he choose to be born in a family that has has an emerald mine? He benefitted from that wealth. Now he is the richest man in the world. People need to stop acting like it’s a crime to be born in a family with money. People are just insecure. The heck?
From 'nothing' aka 100s of millions net worth
She's talking about fame not money
@@benlawson5939 can u explain what shhe means by its their fault? Fault of the famous one or the other person ? I don’t get that part im not native
It takes a truly deep mind to understand the truth that even shallow waters can quench the soul sometimes.
Facts
More gibberish please.
너무 아름다우세요. 가족함게 건강하고 행복하게 살아요.사랑합니다.❤
I just heard your speech of one day ago. You are great. The world rejoices when beings like you are born. 🙏❤
The world should rejoice at any & all life being born.♥️
Anyone else think he seems like a narcissist?
This is his ex wife who married him because he was rich. She is not the best judge of character. If everyones ex was right about them, then they either a) are just as bad because they married them or b) are wrong about them and thats why they divorced.
Probably, can you fix it?
@@tommysoliz3064 no...? Wtf?
@@CindyWarren2004 then get over it
@@tommysoliz3064 literally so weird and for no reason 😒
All hail the unelected oligarchs, corporatocracy and media billionaires! Thank goodness our capital is safe in their tax-free offshore accounts!
When people say they "think" they forget to remember that they actually DON'T KNOW.
A lot of people are saying he’s not kind…well, being kind doesn’t mean he needs to be fake. Doing good for humanity and charity work is being kind, small talk is just fake nice. Being kind to people energize you, being fake drains your energy.
You’re barking up the wrong tree. This is the idiot tree. The logical tree is not on TH-cam. (I agree with you.)
Sooo... when was Elon Musk being nice?
She and justine look similar
Carbon copies when they were young, even is some of the mannerisms
he got a type
I thought it was the same person 🤔
St Trinian's 😍
If you don't know them give respect, if you know them treat them accordingly.
I wonder why people are surprised that even though yes I believe he is a genius he has flaws and quirks like everyone else.
Damn Elon didnt even make it off the train to westworld.
A week well spent.
She could have just been honest and asked them are you sure? Because he is really not as much of a genius you're making him out to be
Like being on a rocket haha you get it
The pocket rocket.
All the people in here grandstanding about how rude this is or how bad this is probably do this same shit and think the same judgmental things about people they don’t care about every single day.
Being married to a workaholic is on the same level as being married to a patholigical cheater.
Elon is very nice to listen to , very insightful person . He is just not one of the "look at my money" type of people, he likes achievements , inspired the next generation to be ambitious & work hard ! He is way nicer than all the corporate elites he got crammed with , he is a force of positive change & a source of hope for struggling Americans . Elon leads & doesn't waste time in champagne parties !
Hi Elon
This is to people who worship fame. Lol you get what you deserve
She hit the wall HARD!!! 😂
Wow, revealing things someone told you in confidence within the bounds of an intimate relationship is a breach of trust.
Who cares lol
She seems really heartbroken not to be with him anymore. And as the mother of so many of his children, with all she went through, he should not have left her. She is beautiful and utterly lovely. So warm, she looks like an angel. He seems to be obsessed with having as many children as possible.
I wonder why he left her , must been a good reason. Elon is not dumb.
@@creamy3803 He’s not that bright either if he is interfering in American Democracy and donated $75 million to racist Drumpf, when he himself claims to have left South Africa in part to avoid racism. No one who supports Drumpf has all their lights on upstairs.
@@creamy3803 He’s not that bright either if he is interfering in American Democracy and Sovereignty, and gave $75 million to racist Drumpf, when he himself claims to have left South Africa in part to escape racism. No one who supports Drumpf has all their lights on upstairs. Too much Amber Heard must have rattled his brains or given him syphillus. Besides, no intelligence dictates to abandon the mother of your children, whatever the cause may be; because intelligent people know that all children need their mother and a child’s well-being - especially your children’s - is more important than any egoism, whim or desire of your grown up ass.
ambers nickname for him was rocket man lol
Are you serious?! 😂
All you people acting like you're so morally above Elon. But I bet you all the money in the world that all of you would change places with him IMMEDIATELY if given the chance. I know I would
she looks just like his mother when she was young 😳😳😳
Anyone declaring they do not engage in small talk are often those not worth conversing with.
Lol I can’t believe Elon left this woman for the freaking garden gnome he married after her
Damn don’t need to diss grimes but I do agree it’s a bit creepy how many Elon has gone thru.
what's wrong with Grimes?? It saddens me that so many know her only as Elons ex. She's a legit artist, just as she was years before she got involved with Musk
I've always liked Grimes. She had a career before musk and has some cool interests. I'd be friends or at least have a good conversation with her even if she didn't know Elon.
Eh... you probably will not care.
Nevertheless, Grimes seems genuinely intelligent and nice. She's f*cking weird, but I saw her in an interview with a guy that looks like the Arctic Monkeys singer and she was very, very cool.
Everything she said were straight up facts.
So no need to insult her. The amazing thing is how they both ended up married to someone like him, who seems... eh, overhyped.
Nothing wrong with either of them.
Elon loves Joe Rogan though. Those two get along like old high-school buddies. Elon's done Rogan's podcast like 5 times already and they laugh and cut up and smoke weed and talk about everything in the world
When you want to get rich, you have to be rich first. Feels like that's how it is these days.